So true! I did just that to the monster, after 17 years of marriage. He went on a weekend with his girlfriend. He came home to an empty house and me gone! Never spoke to him again except through my attorney. NO Contact works. From what I hear he is collapsing more and more every day. I'm completely indifferent to this craziness.
I was discarded for the second time in Aug. 2021. He hoovered after the first discard, and I fell. After this second discard, he tried to use the same tactics after downgrading, thinking I was gonna stay weak for him. Birthday Hoover, Thanksgiving Hoover, stalking by proxy and all has happened since I went ghost on this spiritual bum! Standing strong in my NO CONTACT power, 112 days blackout on him. Working on self love and healing, and NEVER LOOKING BACK. How are we suppose to walk in the blessings God has in front of us, if we are trying to hold on to the Demon in the past?
Amen Sis!!! For God says, “I will cut off the strength of the wicked, but I will increase the power of the godly.” Psalm 75:10 God sees EVERYTHING! He is so good. ❤️ Live last night was 🔥🔥
Yes! I snatched the Power Grid. Went complete black out. 45 days until forever! He Hoovered me 5 days before Christmas, came to my house and I ignored him. Left him standing outside in the snow I never came to the door! Then he called me 64 times blowing my phone up private leaving messages. Loan Denied.. No holiday hoover everything was peaceful and happy. Then as of yesterday he is back with a hoover attempt..Calling private. I will never give that Demon access to me again.. My head is up, I adjusted my crown, and walking into my Destiny! 😉🙂💯🙌🏾💅🏾
Omg, I've been there. He would not leave me alone, kept calling. Because of the abuse I called the cops. Quiet now!! He knows I sleep with a loaded 38, sooooo....
Yes ma'am! We flipped the script on em! Changed up the whole game. They never saw it coming. They thought they knew your next move. Nope! Never look back.
It is a demonic entity that we SURVIVED. We are survivors of the something that was sent to destroy us. We overcame by the BLOOD OF THE LAMB and by the word of our testimony 🙌
think about it ma'am you will love again one daymaking yourself feel guilty like you got out and you loving yourself but your love again cuz the right one comes along or maybe the old boyfriend come back in your life that's basically what's going on with me and I know I hate confirmation a million times he's the onesometimes love is not enough you a woman needs to be respected and cherishedlove R.Kelly songs they speak volume they speak about real-life issuesold songs when a woman gets fed up ain't nothing you can do in our Kelly's right you can I got all the CDs you can cry Riverand she ain't I want you no more she going to her new boo or the old one from years ago that's basically saying in the song she's not going to look back I mean if you call and you need somethingwhen a woman gets fed up it's over
Zebras with leopard spots , Giraffes with short legs doing some James Brown splits and cowboy hats don’t make me scream Lady T don’t make me holler !!!😂🤣😂🤣
The narc I mistakenly allowed in my life tried to hoover me on my deceased mother's birthday just days ago. I had blocked him on all platforms 10 months ago. I didnt block him on WhatsApp and he found a crack to try to crawl back through. When I saw him calling my phone, the hair on my skin raised up and I physically felt nauseous. To know I was tied up with a demonic person is beyond devasting. The narc can't come back because I'm knowledgeable of his kind and how they move now. I always felt like something was off, but I ignored the red flags. He love bombed, lied for no reason, gaslighted, devalued, ghosted and discarded me. I went through two abuse cycles before I realized that this wasn't a normal relationship. He lived for chaos and drama. I love myself, and so, I can't allow a narc or anyone poisonous to break my stride. Thanks for the message. Sometimes, we have to be reminded that we hold the power; a person can only treat you bad if you let him or her.
And that's exactly what I did. I discarded him at a Cleveland Indians game and had my daughter come pick me up. It's been 6 months and I blocked him everywhere. No Contact. I haven't heard a word from him. Calling him out online, publicly, wasn't the best move. I didn't think that one through but I didn't know better. Now I do! He better not even think of hoovering me. He will not dim my light again. I am shinning brighter than I ever have. I levelled up. And I have Jesus standing right next to me. You can't touch this!!!
A few years after our separation, I decided to friend him on FB because our co-parenting relationship was going well. The next time I saw him, he said it was weird that I friended him. I dunno how though 🤷♀️
….. one more thing I want to add that Tea mentioned is that family is by default but everyone else we put in our circle is a choice. We can choose to be with that someone or not. I want to surround myself with good, honest people who genuinely care about me, not some lying, cheating and stealing narcissist!
what you know God tells you whenthese people are peculiar peopleonce you which I've been saved a long timereturning back but I have a lot of people in your circle you have to be careful with that cuz they can love you but I hate your life hate that God is increasing and doing great things for you I had a friend ship a 40 years that girl made such a mess of her life she tried to make a mess of mine so God's people are peculiar people having a lot of friends around youwatch children are peculiar they spend a lot of time alone that's what black women don't get just being in the midst of a lot of old friends that's not my thing and I could care lessonly have a few Faithful Friends in the field that I still have in my lifeonce that I know we can depend on each other like some of my church friends and I feel my relativesthat's okay but just having a bunch of women around and stuff and then they have these weddings and has like two or three hundred people all those women are not going to be happy for you not a marriage is going down the dumps marriage is it supposed to be sacred relationships should be sacred having all these people in your circle normally those relationships don't last anywayreally not about how many friends youdoing on this Earthsomebody else'saround a whole lot of people is really not God's way anywayI have been in and never will be
This is the truth T. I let him back for the third time believing that he loved me and couldn't stay away. Within three months he cut me deep emotionally and exploited me for 10K. When I asked him why, he straight up said it was revenge for things I had done to him in the past. I have no regrets because this is what it took for me to wake up. Glad I found your channel. It's helped me to heal like no other.
at the end of the daylike these women I love this guy with the dreads he talks about having a narcissistic trait it's a mental problembut I think what he did he went and got his doctor's degree to helpreally it really can't be cureda lot of help in therapy you can contain it if a man just keep disrespecting you over and over and sometime me and I make mistakes and slip out with a lady or two or whatever I'm not talkin like thatFamilia keep just disrespecting you hurting you over and over and over again this is what this guy's talking about he knows what he's doing get rid of him it's not going to change and it's not to say that he don't love you he has a mental problem and he really needs to seek help for thathe going to reminisce on the pass it could have been this way it could have been that way and then those kind of people tend not to stick to thewhatever you were talking about with them you have to make them stay on the subjectTrotter for some reason try to make it look like it's your fault they know it's there's just get out gorespect these men you treated them good and they still disrespecting youand don't look backleaving going with your new life that's when he'll get some
I left my narc nov.15,2021 and was seriously thinking about going back. I watched this video and changed my mind! You are absolutely 💯 right! Your videos have really been helpful to me. I just love watching your videos!!!
Listen...there were times I thought his profile (looking at him from the side) looked like a demon. I ignored it. I didn't believe it. His eyes would gloss over and I would see the change in him when the darkness appeared. He never hit me...but I was always on edge when I was with him, in fear that he would, because of the tension in the atmosphere. He used spirituality as a weapon to make me feel weak. Dam. I can not ignore this confirmation.
They call a bluff thinking they are in control & when you do leave they turn really nasty. They do not believe you will do it. Once you do leave never look back. Let them stew in there own gravy 👍
I was blindsided at first by the narc! Honey when I found out what I was dealing with by watching these videos I started playing “CHESS INSTEAD OF CHECKERS!💪🏼💪🏼 Flexing my muscles!! Lol!
ALL I CAN SAY IS “SHAKE THE BEAST”!!! THANK YOU TO MY HEAVENLY FATHER FOR SHOWING ME THE TRUTH!!! KEEP YOUR ARMOR ON BROTHERS AND SISTERS! THESE DEMONS ARE COMING OUT OF THE WOODWORK!!! I JUST WANT TO SHOUT FROM THE ROOFTOPS!!! PRAISE THE LORD!!! Sorry, she got me fired up!!! Love you all❤️
She just not lie..ing...👍 Your power is not playing their game. Playing your game is power. You deserve to be happy. This is so true. Evil always try to bring good down. Understand who you are.
God is not a God of confusion. And when you finally leave that bird brain and don't answer that hoover. Lord it feels so good!! And keep moving in God's Light!! And don't feel no type of way when they rush and marry or have a baby. Just know when the bird do that. You on the right path to healing!! So don't worry about what you hear or see!! Keep Healing and pushing toward your purpose in Life!! Yes!! Telsha!! Tell it Sister in Christ!!🥰🥰
❤ loving self is power. Seeing truth of their deception doesn't mean we did not love ourselves ..we were fooled deceived conned tricked lied to ECT. So when we know about NPD and embrace it ( takes so much to wrap your head around this evil ) ..once we know we go and turn to our father to clean us up
Yuuup lol I know the narc wanna come back and ring my neck like Homer Simpson lol won’t get me. He didn’t know nan, it’s ok cause I do, and I’m done. 🚮 ✌🏾 Great message! ❤️
You are hitting things right on the nail. I believe that there are real demonic spirits. My narcissist left because I stopped buying into his manipulation and silent treatment. I went on with my life and started making myself happy and he was no longer the center of my world.
Thank you for consistently speaking the truth. They are demons with many evil spirits. I’m thankful everyday that after 5 tortuous years, God delivered me from hell. May God bless you and give all of us peace and deliverance. 🙏🏾
exactly right man I know you and I have kind of hit each other up to each other up and it don't mean that you don't love that person it doesn't necessarily mean they're not a child of God but a man like that really they don't need to be in a marriage or really maybe just a girlfriend but not in a monogamous relationship they don't know howso you don't you don't owe it to that person spend the rest of your life miserable you have the right to get out and be happy
They think you're weak but when you put the smack down on them, they try to say you're the crazy one, after putting up with decades of their B.S and you may find yourself in jail knowing damn well...umph! Y'all know what I'm saying. When you take off on their ass, you're the abuser.
You're either in possession of a demon or in possession of the Holy Spirit. Black and white! I've literally seen these demons manifest and that's because the Holy Spirits power has given me discernment. It's deep.
You are absolutely right! When I was in relationship with my first husband he was a total narcissist he fit the description of Jezebel to a t! I did everything I knew humanely possible to make that relationship work to no avail! I took classes, read the books everything and cried out to God! I had a visitation of the Lord he told me to get out he said this kind does not come out but by prayer and fasting. I had a dream that my ex-husband was full of demons!
"They never saw it coming." They sure didn't...oh and there's more that they don't see coming! GOD is good! Where the Spirit of The LORD is there is Freedom! Thank YOU JESUS for freeing me for I am free indeed. All power,all glory,all honor to YOU Almighty GOD in the name of JESUS, Amen! ✝️🙏🏼❤️
It is also a narcissistic abusive "mother". I am going no contact...complete black out on her. She thinks she is in control. I won't be there to witness the priceless moment when she realizes...I am gone...for good.
Queen TELSHA this needs to be retold on next Thursday live .. “ this is where you flex your muscle and show your strength” I never looked back .. GOD held me .. I let that foul go ..
I have experienced the demons getting seven times worse than before each and every time I took him back. And this happens almost immédiately after taking him back. This is ALL so so true. I praise and thank God for my deliverance. He whom the Son sets free IS free INDEED! 🙌🙌🙌
Yeah you are so absolutely right! Lawd!!! have mercy on my clueless soul… Well he knew he was going to throw me to the wolves just like that, but that’s okay cuz I’m coming back leading the pack …. I’m now NC! Blocked! Done fell off the face of the earth!!!!!
That is exactly what happened. He wanted to return just in case it didn't work out. I filed for divorce. The divorce is final and I am healing daily. For anyone who is grieving, stay strong. It gets better every day.
Amen Ms. Telsha let them unsubscribe don't worry about it, myself I believe it, I was with a female narcissist, I was with the devil with breast, keep teaching us 💪🏿💪🏿💯💯
@Yabbe u it’s a broken world with broken people, I read this quote and it helped me out a lot hopefully you can resonate with the same! “I did not find anything I was looking for, until I found myself.” Stay up and stay blessed ❤️🙏
Yu know what's kinda funny? Bae, I felt it inside right off the bat with the narcissist...I knew it but I chose to ignore it. I don't know if I should laugh or to cry 😭🤣
I saw it but ignored it cuz I thought I was giving him the benefit of doubt cuz I really didn’t think anyone can be that purposely evil (I thought he had a bad childhood and wasn’t raised to respect others ) I was making excuses for his behavior
@Teresa Garcia I made excuses also an empath, always seeking the good in people. I didn’t realise I’d been ensnared by a legion of demons in human skin. Thank God for His love.🙏🏾
It can be difficult when there is a trauma bond to even think that a disconnect is possible. It is possible. Don't doubt yourself. I didn't know then while in the mess that I would he ever to disconnect from my spouse and father of my kids. It is a miracle from God that his last attempt to discard me actually backfired. His lies came out and I got to see the real person. I always tried to believe he wasn't like that or that it was childhood traumas. Exactly, like T says. They want to level you. You wonder the whole time why would someone do this to another human being. So, yes if you can't find a way out safely then document what you can or get support. File a police report even if you don't press charges. These are actions that will make you stronger.
I REALLY LOVE LISTENING TO YOUR VIDEOS! SELF LOVE,SELF-ESTEEM, SELF FORGIVENESS AND ACCOUNTABILITY, MATURITY, DETERMINATION, IS WHAT I'M ABOUT TODAY!! DON'T DO,DO OVERS AND THESE DOORS WILL STAY LOCKED TO ANY AND ALL TOXIC PEOPLE 🧡💛💚💙
Thank You JESUS 🙏🙏🙏 When I Disconnect After Being Discarded . I Took Time To Heal And Love On Me, Again If I Had A Million Tongue I Couldn't Thank JESUS Enough 🙏🙏🙏 Thank You JESUS 🙏🙏🙏 In The Name Of The FATHER GOD🙏🙏🙏 The SON JESUS THE Anointed🙏🙏🙏 The HOLY SPIRIT 🙏🙏🙏 BLESS OMNIPOTENT Spirit 🙏🙏🙏 AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
Its true . The lord says the state of the man will be seven times worse! Jesus spoke to a demon in the synagogue ( saying I know who you are Jesus the son of God) that clearly shows the other people sitting in the Synagogue didn't spot the demon he just looked like a fellow church member. Discern the spirits. Loved your video
Repeat!!! Yelp I know now, I was with a demon. Only 😈 do the nasty evil things these vultures do!! It was painful knowing but nessersary to heal. And not just heal from that cycle of craziness but past cycles also.
Good morning family. I am in the no contact stage. He messaged me twice with that my sister died then his aunt died. I reminded him that he only has one sister. I have learned so much with this young lady. I AM ALL POWERFUL.
I fell back again after a few months.. but it didn't last long.. I tried to be friends but that's impossible because the control and abuse continued. So I took all my power back and shut the demon down. GAME OVER!!! So grateful for your video's which help me alot! Much love❤
I have a daughter with a NARC, Unfortunately I’d have to answer about my child, out side of that I have nothing else to say. She actually went into hiding when I exposed her.
Keep Preaching & Forget those haters!! I still remember it as if it was yesterday! I hardly stand up for myself until I got fed up & it’s been going on for years; if it’s not this & it has to be that but on Sat., 04/06/24; I had to stand up for myself & kick my baby daddy’s buddy out and he had the audacity to let me know he is going too so I knew it was a set up because I told him I don’t want him to know where I live and he had the nerves to invite him at my home acting like it was okay because he knows I don’t like his energy!! So, if he choose people like that or him, his mom, siblings and cousins; I want out! He don’t do nothing with our kids and me! We always home while he’s out wit his chickens at a farm he rented out just lieing that he has a hobby so he can go out and do something, just to make me and everyone believe he’s a good man & leaving us bored to death and my kids is alway looking out the window and all he does is go out all day and come back asking for a massage and dinner! I finally said, “THIS IS IT.” Got up and kick his friend out and if he don’t like it, he can go … but, completely shocked, he said,”I’m going too.” Like, IM DONE ✅
Hey Ms Tea🌺🌺 happy Friday family these birds down played them selves 😂😂 my narc husband and his family of birds thought they pulled me off my post nawl they didn...'t I just stood up from my pain and bounced back my level of game is overrated no more control and yess I went off the grid on these birds no narc zone 4 eva thank you Queen 👑👑❤️ I rock with you always 💖💖💖
Respect to you for your motivational awareness.On point.I stood my ground,walked out of a toxic relationship and have received more blessings and advancement in my life in the past four years. Hallelujah!!
You are right my sister it's only get worse when you go back If you are in no contact stay no contact no matter what don't give them nothing because you don't owe them nothing your happiness and success is your you don't have to prove nothing to nobody May God bless you
I have to watch the replay from Thursday night it was powerful!!🥰 I needed to hear this because the No complete contact was sooo hard in the beginning but with God's help I made it now I am no contact foever....I asked God to hide me being that I am in a small town and he did just that!!! Wow!!!!!TELSA YOU ARE A WHOLE ENTIRE BLESSING TO MY LIFE SWEETHEART!!!!!!!!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😘😘
Hallelujah Sis Yah meet us here last night!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 That’s it God will give us the strength to do his perfect will. All we have to do is ask for it! God bless you Sis all praise and glory belongs to God. Thank you for being here with us.💯💗🙏🏽🙌🏽👑💯
I've been no contact for a couple weeks now n it's so hard for me this pain runs deep I know I have to keep it this way that I look back over the 22yrs n that narcissist never loved me, he never will he doesn't know how cause of his childhood traumas, I pray for strength everyday n I know God's got me 😢😢😢
@@rochellejohns9196 I promise it does get better I know right now it feels as if the pain will never end. When your mind has been played with it will cause a pain like no other. Coming to terms that this person never loved us is a hard pill to swallow all by itself. But I promise as you continue to focus on self and do the work to heal from the inside out you will begin to see the light and the pain slowly eases. I can't stress enough pray, pray, pray, and platforms such as these are such a blessing. I had to get some therapy and I am still healing but now I am no longer crying he does not consume my thoughts. I am going out a little more freely than before. It is a process just go with it cry if you need to scram if you need to it's all a part of healimg.. you are definitely not alone. ❤️
My narc ex partner informed me they always destroy relationships (Beginning & End) and I informed them that I don’t do exes(Won’t Accept a Hoover). My ex thought I was weak and would allow anything because I fought so hard at the end but I fought so hard at the end because I know once I leave that your ass ain’t coming back. You underestimate me, you lose 😉
Demons have been part and parcel of my life for 33 years. There's nothing like countless experiences to move one forward. The Biblical defininition of Denise is wise discerner .☺
I'm so thankful to read all the positive comments and healing in the name of JESUS. Narc free and no contact since August 18, 2021. Trust and believe if you go back that narcissist will go in over drive trying to get you for leaving. The narcissist wants to crush you with the discard. I left that demon ex fiance with his sickly butt. If my cousin wants him or is with him, a witch with a narcissist. God said vengeance is mine. I'm healing and letting God direct my path. No TUBBS 🏃🏃🏃🏃🙏
Facts! They thought we would be running back to them searching for answers in the pain. Never that. The block button is so powerful! Ghost! Blackout!
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Their mistake is thinking Holy Spirit is to be played with, the way they play with the lives of Jehovah God's people.
So true! I did just that to the monster, after 17 years of marriage. He went on a weekend with his girlfriend. He came home to an empty house and me gone! Never spoke to him again except through my attorney. NO Contact works. From what I hear he is collapsing more and more every day. I'm completely indifferent to this craziness.
Way to go❤
I was discarded for the second time in Aug. 2021. He hoovered after the first discard, and I fell. After this second discard, he tried to use the same tactics after downgrading, thinking I was gonna stay weak for him. Birthday Hoover, Thanksgiving Hoover, stalking by proxy and all has happened since I went ghost on this spiritual bum! Standing strong in my NO CONTACT power, 112 days blackout on him. Working on self love and healing, and NEVER LOOKING BACK. How are we suppose to walk in the blessings God has in front of us, if we are trying to hold on to the Demon in the past?
Never go back.. never fall for the Hoover’s!! They don’t change!!
Amen , Abba Father thank you for helping us shut the old doors and open the new. Your will be done, in Jesus name Amen
Recognize the demonic…. you cannot have that in your life or family……stay free and ONLY bound to God!
Recognize the demonic…. you cannot have that in your life or family……stay free and ONLY bound to God!
Recognize the demonic…. you cannot have that in your life or family……stay free and ONLY bound to God!
Amen Sis!!! For God says, “I will cut off the strength of the wicked, but I will increase the power of the godly.” Psalm 75:10
God sees EVERYTHING! He is so good. ❤️
Live last night was 🔥🔥
Come Sis say that!! Facts!!🔥🔥🔥💯💗🙏🏽🙌🏽
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Amen! 🔥🔥⚔️⚔️🕊🕊❤️❤️
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Still find it hard to believe that she didn't think I would walk and not look back. Factz sis!
Lol when you walk and never look back. They are shocked. 🤣
Good for you!! That’s what we all need to do to them! 👍🏻
Yep. When you walk, they are dumbfounded...... look like a deer in headlights.
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They never do my brother.💯💗🙏🏽💪🏽
Yes! I snatched the Power Grid. Went complete black out. 45 days until forever! He Hoovered me 5 days before Christmas, came to my house and I ignored him. Left him standing outside in the snow I never came to the door! Then he called me 64 times blowing my phone up private leaving messages. Loan Denied.. No holiday hoover everything was peaceful and happy. Then as of yesterday he is back with a hoover attempt..Calling private. I will never give that Demon access to me again.. My head is up, I adjusted my crown, and walking into my Destiny! 😉🙂💯🙌🏾💅🏾
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Omg, I've been there. He would not leave me alone, kept calling. Because of the abuse I called the cops. Quiet now!! He knows I sleep with a loaded 38, sooooo....
Oh yes my ex narc calls private number as well. IGNORE!!! Like we dont know it is their trifling behinds.
If you don't think they have a demon then you still don't see the whole narcissist
Yes ma'am!
We flipped the script on em! Changed up the whole game. They never saw it coming. They thought they knew your next move. Nope! Never look back.
They thought they knew your next move. 🤣
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Facts ..
It is a demonic entity that we SURVIVED. We are survivors of the something that was sent to destroy us. We overcame by the BLOOD OF THE LAMB and by the word of our testimony 🙌
I am Never going back! I am all about loving Me. I have the POWER!!! I love me.
think about it ma'am you will love again one daymaking yourself feel guilty like you got out and you loving yourself but your love again cuz the right one comes along or maybe the old boyfriend come back in your life that's basically what's going on with me and I know I hate confirmation a million times he's the onesometimes love is not enough you a woman needs to be respected and cherishedlove R.Kelly songs they speak volume they speak about real-life issuesold songs when a woman gets fed up ain't nothing you can do in our Kelly's right you can I got all the CDs you can cry Riverand she ain't I want you no more she going to her new boo or the old one from years ago that's basically saying in the song she's not going to look back I mean if you call and you need somethingwhen a woman gets fed up it's over
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So true!!!! Never saw it coming 💯 NEVER GOING BACK 👑
For real though family!!💯💯🔥🔥🙏🏽🙌🏽
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Zebras with leopard spots , Giraffes with short legs doing some James Brown splits and cowboy hats don’t make me scream Lady T don’t make me holler !!!😂🤣😂🤣
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The narc I mistakenly allowed in my life tried to hoover me on my deceased mother's birthday just days ago. I had blocked him on all platforms 10 months ago. I didnt block him on WhatsApp and he found a crack to try to crawl back through. When I saw him calling my phone, the hair on my skin raised up and I physically felt nauseous. To know I was tied up with a demonic person is beyond devasting. The narc can't come back because I'm knowledgeable of his kind and how they move now. I always felt like something was off, but I ignored the red flags. He love bombed, lied for no reason, gaslighted, devalued, ghosted and discarded me. I went through two abuse cycles before I realized that this wasn't a normal relationship. He lived for chaos and drama. I love myself, and so, I can't allow a narc or anyone poisonous to break my stride. Thanks for the message. Sometimes, we have to be reminded that we hold the power; a person can only treat you bad if you let him or her.
And that's exactly what I did. I discarded him at a Cleveland Indians game and had my daughter come pick me up. It's been 6 months and I blocked him everywhere. No Contact. I haven't heard a word from him. Calling him out online, publicly, wasn't the best move. I didn't think that one through but I didn't know better. Now I do! He better not even think of hoovering me. He will not dim my light again. I am shinning brighter than I ever have. I levelled up. And I have Jesus standing right next to me. You can't touch this!!!
No you cannot be friends!! I know that!!! Amen to that!! Preach it Sister!! Preach it!!! It does get worst!!
No you can’t!! How can you be friends with a vipor??!!💯💯💯
Confirmation:...The individual wasn't your 'FREIND' in the relationship 🤔!!!
A few years after our separation, I decided to friend him on FB because our co-parenting relationship was going well. The next time I saw him, he said it was weird that I friended him. I dunno how though 🤷♀️
Change the way you think to change the way you live!!
This.💯💯💯
BINGO very smart indeed 🎯🎯🎯
….. one more thing I want to add that Tea mentioned is that family is by default but everyone else we put in our circle is a choice. We can choose to be with that someone or not. I want to surround myself with good, honest people who genuinely care about me, not some lying, cheating and stealing narcissist!
what you know God tells you whenthese people are peculiar peopleonce you which I've been saved a long timereturning back but I have a lot of people in your circle you have to be careful with that cuz they can love you but I hate your life hate that God is increasing and doing great things for you I had a friend ship a 40 years that girl made such a mess of her life she tried to make a mess of mine so God's people are peculiar people having a lot of friends around youwatch children are peculiar they spend a lot of time alone that's what black women don't get just being in the midst of a lot of old friends that's not my thing and I could care lessonly have a few Faithful Friends in the field that I still have in my lifeonce that I know we can depend on each other like some of my church friends and I feel my relativesthat's okay but just having a bunch of women around and stuff and then they have these weddings and has like two or three hundred people all those women are not going to be happy for you not a marriage is going down the dumps marriage is it supposed to be sacred relationships should be sacred having all these people in your circle normally those relationships don't last anywayreally not about how many friends youdoing on this Earthsomebody else'saround a whole lot of people is really not God's way anywayI have been in and never will be
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This is the truth T. I let him back for the third time believing that he loved me and couldn't stay away. Within three months he cut me deep emotionally and exploited me for 10K. When I asked him why, he straight up said it was revenge for things I had done to him in the past. I have no regrets because this is what it took for me to wake up. Glad I found your channel. It's helped me to heal like no other.
at the end of the daylike these women I love this guy with the dreads he talks about having a narcissistic trait it's a mental problembut I think what he did he went and got his doctor's degree to helpreally it really can't be cureda lot of help in therapy you can contain it if a man just keep disrespecting you over and over and sometime me and I make mistakes and slip out with a lady or two or whatever I'm not talkin like thatFamilia keep just disrespecting you hurting you over and over and over again this is what this guy's talking about he knows what he's doing get rid of him it's not going to change and it's not to say that he don't love you he has a mental problem and he really needs to seek help for thathe going to reminisce on the pass it could have been this way it could have been that way and then those kind of people tend not to stick to thewhatever you were talking about with them you have to make them stay on the subjectTrotter for some reason try to make it look like it's your fault they know it's there's just get out gorespect these men you treated them good and they still disrespecting youand don't look backleaving going with your new life that's when he'll get some
It was worth the 10K just to get rid of the devil cheers 🥂
I let him back, and he took my virginity and raped me. I told him no already , he still did it!
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I left my narc nov.15,2021 and was seriously thinking about going back. I watched this video and changed my mind! You are absolutely 💯 right! Your videos have really been helpful to me. I just love watching your videos!!!
Dawn, please don't go back. It is oke to be alone. You are going to feel much better
Dawn, You have taken the first step to Freedom and Peace. Keep watching the T on NPD she knows what is up. Prayers to you for continued healing 💕
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Omg, don't, they get worse. I had to call the cops for stalking. They are insane!!
Why in the hell would you go back
The more I heal the more I genuinely feel bad about how sad and empty his soul and existence are. It’s a wasted life. No more wasting mine! 💁🏻♀️
Listen...there were times I thought his profile (looking at him from the side) looked like a demon. I ignored it. I didn't believe it. His eyes would gloss over and I would see the change in him when the darkness appeared. He never hit me...but I was always on edge when I was with him, in fear that he would, because of the tension in the atmosphere. He used spirituality as a weapon to make me feel weak. Dam. I can not ignore this confirmation.
They call a bluff thinking they are in control & when you do leave they turn really nasty. They do not believe you will do it. Once you do leave never look back. Let them stew in there own gravy 👍
I was blindsided at first by the narc! Honey when I found out what I was dealing with by watching these videos I started playing “CHESS INSTEAD OF CHECKERS!💪🏼💪🏼 Flexing my muscles!! Lol!
ALL I CAN SAY IS “SHAKE THE BEAST”!!! THANK YOU TO MY HEAVENLY FATHER FOR SHOWING ME THE TRUTH!!! KEEP YOUR ARMOR ON BROTHERS AND SISTERS! THESE DEMONS ARE COMING OUT OF THE WOODWORK!!! I JUST WANT TO SHOUT FROM THE ROOFTOPS!!! PRAISE THE LORD!!! Sorry, she got me fired up!!! Love you all❤️
SPEAK SIS SPEAK!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
She just not lie..ing...👍 Your power is not playing their game. Playing your game is power. You deserve to be happy. This is so true. Evil always try to bring good down. Understand who you are.
We do it Siiiiissss sending love from scotland between you and Harivio Overdatop ammmmmmazing two people✌🏻💋💋💋🔥😘
God is not a God of confusion. And when you finally leave that bird brain and don't answer that hoover. Lord it feels so good!! And keep moving in God's Light!! And don't feel no type of way when they rush and marry or have a baby. Just know when the bird do that. You on the right path to healing!! So don't worry about what you hear or see!! Keep Healing and pushing toward your purpose in Life!! Yes!! Telsha!! Tell it Sister in Christ!!🥰🥰
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YOU GOT ME ROLLING 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 BIG FACTS ‼️ I CAN'T STOP LAUGHING TALKING ABOUT THE SUBSCRIBER'S... MANNNNN ‼️😭😭😭😭 YEAH SHE DEFINITELY SAID FACTS ‼️🤷🏾♀️
Lord. You speak the truth girl. The truth. I’m healing and your messages are my consistent tune-ups. Stay safe and keep on keeping on :))
Praise God!! Hallelujah my brother. Thank you for watching and supporting the channel.💯💗🙏🏽💪🏽
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❤ loving self is power. Seeing truth of their deception doesn't mean we did not love ourselves ..we were fooled deceived conned tricked lied to ECT. So when we know about NPD and embrace it ( takes so much to wrap your head around this evil ) ..once we know we go and turn to our father to clean us up
Yuuup lol I know the narc wanna come back and ring my neck like Homer Simpson lol won’t get me. He didn’t know nan, it’s ok cause I do, and I’m done. 🚮 ✌🏾 Great message! ❤️
They never saw it coming! Yes indeed!🤗
Amen 🙌
You are hitting things right on the nail. I believe that there are real demonic spirits. My narcissist left because I stopped buying into his manipulation and silent treatment. I went on with my life and started making myself happy and he was no longer the center of my world.
I love what you stated " shine from the inside out" yesss Amen. God bless you.
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Yoo. This is facts af. He never saw it coming...now he going to jail 😂
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Who is the narcissist? You can’t just assume.
Its been over a month no contact. I havent heard a peep from him. I haven't reached out neither has he.
Awesome job!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Never saw it coming! So much so that the predator is docking at me door. Truly teetering on stalking charges.
Please please please be safe.💯💯💯
Thank you for consistently speaking the truth. They are demons with many evil spirits. I’m thankful everyday that after 5 tortuous years, God delivered me from hell. May God bless you and give all of us peace and deliverance. 🙏🏾
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exactly right man I know you and I have kind of hit each other up to each other up and it don't mean that you don't love that person it doesn't necessarily mean they're not a child of God but a man like that really they don't need to be in a marriage or really maybe just a girlfriend but not in a monogamous relationship they don't know howso you don't you don't owe it to that person spend the rest of your life miserable you have the right to get out and be happy
They think you're weak but when you put the smack down on them, they try to say you're the crazy one, after putting up with decades of their B.S and you may find yourself in jail knowing damn well...umph! Y'all know what I'm saying. When you take off on their ass, you're the abuser.
You are so right about the disconnect that the narcissist did not expect. I like that you insist on the leading of the Holy spirit.
You're either in possession of a demon or in possession of the Holy Spirit. Black and white! I've literally seen these demons manifest and that's because the Holy Spirits power has given me discernment. It's deep.
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Come on Sis speak on it!! Facts!!💗💯🔥🔥🙏🏽🙌🏽
Me too. The demons all have the same stupid look too.
Gameover!!!
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Bats in Cowboy Hats 🤣🤣 'I'm gonna show you What Time it Really is' 🤣🤣🤣 Love your Spirit ma'am!
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Narcissist underestimate us. They never see it coming, especially from empathy.
FEBRUARY 22ND 1 YEAR NO CONTACT COUNTING DOWN 💪🏿💪🏿💯💯😂
Hallelujah congratulations!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yes lord 14 months for me💪
You are absolutely right! When I was in relationship with my first husband he was a total narcissist he fit the description of Jezebel to a t! I did everything I knew humanely possible to make that relationship work to no avail! I took classes, read the books everything and cried out to God! I had a visitation of the Lord he told me to get out he said this kind does not come out but by prayer and fasting. I had a dream that my ex-husband was full of demons!
"They never saw it coming."
They sure didn't...oh and there's more that they don't see coming! GOD is good! Where the Spirit of The LORD is there is Freedom! Thank YOU JESUS for freeing me for I am free indeed. All power,all glory,all honor to YOU Almighty GOD in the name of JESUS, Amen! ✝️🙏🏼❤️
It is also a narcissistic abusive "mother". I am going no contact...complete black out on her. She thinks she is in control. I won't be there to witness the priceless moment when she realizes...I am gone...for good.
I honestly think that when they were young, traumatized and weak, demons got into their heart and minds. It’s sad really.
Queen TELSHA this needs to be retold on next Thursday live .. “ this is where you flex your muscle and show your strength” I never looked back .. GOD held me .. I let that foul go ..
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I have experienced the demons getting seven times worse than before each and every time I took him back. And this happens almost immédiately after taking him back. This is ALL so so true. I praise and thank God for my deliverance. He whom the Son sets free IS free INDEED! 🙌🙌🙌
Yeah you are so absolutely right! Lawd!!! have mercy on my clueless soul…
Well he knew he was going to throw me to the wolves just like that, but that’s okay cuz I’m coming back leading the pack ….
I’m now NC! Blocked! Done fell off the face of the earth!!!!!
Big Facts Sis!!💯💯🙌🏽🔥🔥🙏🏽💗
That is exactly what happened. He wanted to return just in case it didn't work out. I filed for divorce. The divorce is final and I am healing daily. For anyone who is grieving, stay strong. It gets better every day.
Amen Ms. Telsha let them unsubscribe don't worry about it, myself I believe it, I was with a female narcissist, I was with the devil with breast, keep teaching us 💪🏿💪🏿💯💯
I know that’s correct my brother. I’m a woman on a mission sent by The Most High God to help the captives get free from the demonic birds.💯💗🙏🏽💪🏽
Hey did you not know satan like men, for ALL believers.....blessings always.❣
The narc I was married to I haven't heard from her since sept she sent me a friend request I didnt respond
I wish I could go no contact but I have children with her. However, I do set my boundaries. Much Love ❤️. Stay up and Stay blessed!
I'm in the same boat. Stay strong and stick to your guns.
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@Yabbe u it’s a broken world with broken people, I read this quote and it helped me out a lot hopefully you can resonate with the same! “I did not find anything I was looking for, until I found myself.” Stay up and stay blessed ❤️🙏
You are EXACTLY right they are filled with demons.
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Yes Sis lolol!! That part!!😂😂😂
Yu know what's kinda funny?
Bae, I felt it inside right off the bat with the narcissist...I knew it but I chose to ignore it. I don't know if I should laugh or to cry 😭🤣
I saw it but ignored it cuz I thought I was giving him the benefit of doubt cuz I really didn’t think anyone can be that purposely evil (I thought he had a bad childhood and wasn’t raised to respect others ) I was making excuses for his behavior
@@TeresaGarcia-qt3oz same here. That “bad childhood” story made me feel bad for him.
@Teresa Garcia I made excuses also an empath, always seeking the good in people. I didn’t realise I’d been ensnared by a legion of demons in human skin. Thank God for His love.🙏🏾
Disconnected...Discarded that Bird...and got a restraining order on him too! He mad MAD!
It can be difficult when there is a trauma bond to even think that a disconnect is possible. It is possible. Don't doubt yourself. I didn't know then while in the mess that I would he ever to disconnect from my spouse and father of my kids. It is a miracle from God that his last attempt to discard me actually backfired. His lies came out and I got to see the real person. I always tried to believe he wasn't like that or that it was childhood traumas. Exactly, like T says. They want to level you. You wonder the whole time why would someone do this to another human being. So, yes if you can't find a way out safely then document what you can or get support. File a police report even if you don't press charges. These are actions that will make you stronger.
Saying Demonic is being polite, so keep on preaching the truth sister, these creeps are spawns of Satan himself, Trust and believe!
That was AWESOME because it ain't nothing but the TRUTH!!!!!😹🙋😇👏👏👏✊
No denying the truth💯
I REALLY LOVE LISTENING TO YOUR VIDEOS! SELF LOVE,SELF-ESTEEM, SELF FORGIVENESS AND ACCOUNTABILITY, MATURITY, DETERMINATION, IS WHAT I'M ABOUT TODAY!! DON'T DO,DO OVERS AND THESE DOORS WILL STAY LOCKED TO ANY AND ALL TOXIC PEOPLE 🧡💛💚💙
I blocked his Hoover attempts for 8 months, and then he finally got the message. Never again
Thank You JESUS 🙏🙏🙏
When I Disconnect After Being Discarded . I Took Time To Heal And Love On Me, Again
If I Had A Million Tongue I Couldn't Thank JESUS Enough 🙏🙏🙏
Thank You JESUS 🙏🙏🙏
In The Name Of
The FATHER GOD🙏🙏🙏
The SON JESUS THE Anointed🙏🙏🙏
The HOLY SPIRIT 🙏🙏🙏
BLESS OMNIPOTENT Spirit 🙏🙏🙏
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Its true . The lord says the state of the man will be seven times worse! Jesus spoke to a demon in the synagogue ( saying I know who you are Jesus the son of God) that clearly shows the other people sitting in the Synagogue didn't spot the demon he just looked like a fellow church member. Discern the spirits. Loved your video
Sis, The Big Mad!! They never saw it coming. You are on point, once more and again! .. I call it 🔥🔥🔥🔥
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I thank God for you💖 you said ALL FACTS 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Repeat!!! Yelp I know now, I was with a demon. Only 😈 do the nasty evil things these vultures do!! It was painful knowing but nessersary to heal. And not just heal from that cycle of craziness but past cycles also.
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Omg you speaking sister 💯💯♥️Flex on them every-time
Good morning family. I am in the no contact stage. He messaged me twice with that my sister died then his aunt died. I reminded him that he only has one sister. I have learned so much with this young lady. I AM ALL POWERFUL.
Saving This one..playing on REPEAT!!! 😊 Thank You Our Heavenly Father for our Anointed Sister and Teacher Telsha! She's a Mighty woman of God!!!!❤👑😇🥰
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Narcissist never invited back once departure silently kick in. Never leave any belongings at one's domain never know what moves made.
I fell back again after a few months.. but it didn't last long.. I tried to be friends but that's impossible because the control and abuse continued. So I took all my power back and shut the demon down. GAME OVER!!! So grateful for your video's which help me alot! Much love❤
Still getting hovered since Christmas. She wants to cook meals for me sending me pictures of her and everything. Nah I'm good. ✌dueces.
I have a daughter with a NARC, Unfortunately I’d have to answer about my child, out side of that I have nothing else to say. She actually went into hiding when I exposed her.
Keep Preaching & Forget those haters!! I still remember it as if it was yesterday!
I hardly stand up for myself until I got fed up & it’s been going on for years; if it’s not this & it has to be that but on Sat., 04/06/24; I had to stand up for myself & kick my baby daddy’s buddy out and he had the audacity to let me know he is going too so I knew it was a set up because I told him I don’t want him to know where I live and he had the nerves to invite him at my home acting like it was okay because he knows I don’t like his energy!!
So, if he choose people like that or him, his mom, siblings and cousins; I want out!
He don’t do nothing with our kids and me! We always home while he’s out wit his chickens at a farm he rented out just lieing that he has a hobby so he can go out and do something, just to make me and everyone believe he’s a good man & leaving us bored to death and my kids is alway looking out the window and all he does is go out all day and come back asking for a massage and dinner!
I finally said, “THIS IS IT.” Got up and kick his friend out and if he don’t like it, he can go … but, completely shocked, he said,”I’m going too.” Like, IM DONE ✅
Hey Ms Tea🌺🌺 happy Friday family these birds down played them selves 😂😂 my narc husband and his family of birds thought they pulled me off my post nawl they didn...'t I just stood up from my pain and bounced back my level of game is overrated no more control and yess I went off the grid on these birds no narc zone 4 eva thank you Queen 👑👑❤️ I rock with you always 💖💖💖
Come on and speak on it Sis!! They had no clue what we could do.💯💯💯
i will testify taking them back is a horrible mistake
Knowledge = DISTANCE
Respect to you for your motivational awareness.On point.I stood my ground,walked out of a toxic relationship and have received more blessings and advancement in my life in the past four years. Hallelujah!!
Amen.Amen..
PREACH SIS 👑❤️
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Yes! That kills them! That get mad as heck!!!.
You are right my sister it's only get worse when you go back If you are in no contact stay no contact no matter what don't give them nothing because you don't owe them nothing your happiness and success is your you don't have to prove nothing to nobody May God bless you
I have to watch the replay from Thursday night it was powerful!!🥰 I needed to hear this because the No complete contact was sooo hard in the beginning but with God's help I made it now I am no contact foever....I asked God to hide me being that I am in a small town and he did just that!!! Wow!!!!!TELSA YOU ARE A WHOLE ENTIRE BLESSING TO MY LIFE SWEETHEART!!!!!!!!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😘😘
Hallelujah Sis Yah meet us here last night!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 That’s it God will give us the strength to do his perfect will. All we have to do is ask for it! God bless you Sis all praise and glory belongs to God. Thank you for being here with us.💯💗🙏🏽🙌🏽👑💯
I've been no contact for a couple weeks now n it's so hard for me this pain runs deep I know I have to keep it this way that I look back over the 22yrs n that narcissist never loved me, he never will he doesn't know how cause of his childhood traumas, I pray for strength everyday n I know God's got me 😢😢😢
@@rochellejohns9196 I promise it does get better I know right now it feels as if the pain will never end. When your mind has been played with it will cause a pain like no other. Coming to terms that this person never loved us is a hard pill to swallow all by itself. But I promise as you continue to focus on self and do the work to heal from the inside out you will begin to see the light and the pain slowly eases. I can't stress enough pray, pray, pray, and platforms such as these are such a blessing. I had to get some therapy and I am still healing but now I am no longer crying he does not consume my thoughts. I am going out a little more freely than before. It is a process just go with it cry if you need to scram if you need to it's all a part of healimg.. you are definitely not alone. ❤️
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Better to live with bedbugs and cockroaches than deal with a narcissist.
@@usatodaywife definitely
My narc ex partner informed me they always destroy relationships (Beginning & End) and I informed them that I don’t do exes(Won’t Accept a Hoover). My ex thought I was weak and would allow anything because I fought so hard at the end but I fought so hard at the end because I know once I leave that your ass ain’t coming back. You underestimate me, you lose 😉
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 flexing on this decepticon!
Demons have been part and parcel of my life for 33 years. There's nothing like countless experiences to move one forward. The Biblical defininition of Denise is wise discerner .☺
I'm so thankful to read all the positive comments and healing in the name of JESUS. Narc free and no contact since August 18, 2021. Trust and believe if you go back that narcissist will go in over drive trying to get you for leaving. The narcissist wants to crush you with the discard. I left that demon ex fiance with his sickly butt. If my cousin wants him or is with him, a witch with a narcissist. God said vengeance is mine. I'm healing and letting God direct my path. No TUBBS 🏃🏃🏃🏃🙏
Hi. I just started looking at your videos.. And you pull me out from a place i dont wanna be in thx so much God bless you in Jesus mighty name
As soon as you said Satan. Grabbed my attention real quick. This came just in time. I subscribe thank you for this lesson ❤
They are just some demons Sis. Thank you so much for subscribing! Welcome!💯💗🙏🏽🙌🏽
I delivered that debilitating, devastating blow…Feels so good! 👊🏽 They ain’t good enough for my heart.
Mz. Tea, I was wondering what the fcuk I was looking at as it was looking at me with a pretty azz face smiling. I am like💤
When he found out I'm leaving for sure, he warned that he won't leave me alone.