🤣🤣 thats why I couldn't be mad or hate my narc, even at the end I was still kind to him. He is miserable every single day. I stayed with him longer just because I felt bad for him, he had nothing to offer me and he was stupid enough to treat me so badly instead of appreciating me
@@lorettamoore5509 I felt bad for my husband too and stayed wit him. I have sooo much peach wo him it’s so amazing!!! Sent him divorce papers 6 weeks ago and still waiting for him to sign … so we can proceed.
@@brittanym8114 so sorry ladies I can only imagine being married to one, luckily mine showed me who he was very early on. The love bombing ( future faking) lasted a few weeks and I stayed for almost a year and felt like a life time. I wanted to stay a little longer for educational purposes but I couldn't take it anymore. The silent treatment when you try to communicate, the projection, the disrespect...😨🤯
My Narc could careless about anything that pertains to me. He never liked, cared, or valued my life. But now that I know.. I’m blessed. And I wish him NOTHING!
I feel you Queen, I do wish something for my ex wife of 20 years and that is exponential misery and heartache because she is a demon possessed by legions of demons!
These people were miserable way before they met you and they will still be miserable after you they don't just move on and live happily ever after they didn't live happily ever after before you the only thing they did was took their crazy to somebody else's when they so-called moved on God bless.
I'm not waiting 4 something 2 happen cuz just bcuz who the narc is is DOOM AND GLOOM and they r getting their karma while I'm being HAPPY AND HAVE PEACE bcuz I left the narc!!!
I was told don't say by, at the end of a phone call. Because he doesn't like the word by. He told me to say later instead. I told him I don't like the word later, so I said let's pick a new word we both like, he hung up without a word. I didn't call him back. So he call later and ask why I didn't call him back? I answered with by , and blocked him!!!!
I know my ex narc is miserable. Because I did everything for him. I was his secretary, accountant, maid, lawyer, therapist, etc... I did whatever he wanted me to do!
LMAO! She said eating Wholefoods, Sprouts, and whole grain rice..... I FELL OUT! She is right and these folks were living high off of you.......cut them off. Let them starve out! Those demons are going to turn on them because they didn't take you down.
They are miserable beings. They live a horrible existence. My ex went from living in a 3 BR home to a basement unit. He relocated and abandoned me three weeks later, and he is broke, sick, and miserable. Begging for money, making ridiculous demands, and being trash. No contact for six months now. Karma is doing its work.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am on the floor........ So true, no longer eatting that Ramen or frozen chicken sandwiches, GURL!!! I'm back to eating Waygu Steaks baby!! Back in my element. They will mess up a free lunch! He had the nerve to tell me when we got back together ( I don't know what I was thinking) that he didnt want to get remarried to me so he wouldn't loose his foodstamps!
I remember when he was trying to hoover like a month or so after I left and he came over to “see the child.” I told him that he looked so miserable and just tired, angry, overworked. And those eyes he gave me!! I was half laughing half scared 😂😂
So True Very Miserable. Groomed me to stop saying " Good Morning or God Bless You After You Sneeze." When I would say Good Morning Ex Narc would replay " What's so good about it!!!!" It was a miserable state of existence, I was a walking corpse all life drained out of me. I started to dread waking up especially next to him because I couldn't say Good morning. 😔very unnatural for me as an empath. I thank God daily for lifting the veil and leading me out of The Kingdom of Darkness and Into His Marvelous Light. That Hell was No Joke...God set me free and I will never go back into captivity (misery).... God Did It👌🏽💜💃🏽🕊🙏🏽💜!!! Thanks again Sis Telsha 🌹 for This Awesome Message, laughter is good for the soul especially after being a survivor of such a horrific kind of abuse...Lived in The Misery for 3 yrs and 5 months... Been NC for almost 20 months 4/9/23. This anniversary date is NOT one of gloom and doom but Victory... My days are full of Joy, Peace, Wisdom, Love and Strength these days. I laugh I smile and Living My Best Life free to say what I want when I want. No monitoring spirits dictating how I will live my life.
I love that you mark the anniversary date, of your discard. I was much the same, as you described (with your narc), when I was a live-in housekeeper & cook, for a narcissistic ex family friend/elder type figure (my late husband & I thought of him like our 'adopted uncle'). When my husband passed away, this old narc pervert, 20+ yrs older than me, arranged all kinds of horrible abuse & crimes, committed against me, by his flying monkeys, after I turned his sexual/romantic propositions down, repeatedly. But, at that time, I didn't know he was the one behind all of this, until he hired me as his live-in housekeeper & cook, & started commenting on this, confessions of it all, over the several months I was trapped there. That's when I found myself trapped in absolute hell, with that pervert. He slowly & insidiously amped up his abuse (including stringing me along, not paying me+ making me sleep on the couch, instead of my own room, as we'd agreed to). He abused & violated me, in every single way, possible, once he'd isolated me there, away from friends & family. He once mused that he loved having me "locked up in his house", 24/7. Since he & his flying monkeys also committed actual crimes against me, I finally had courage to report him, & the flying monkeys that I knew of, to police. It was a very long police report, detailing all the abuse & crimes, over that 2+ year period. On June 4, 2021, the sheriff dept rolled up to the house, several cars & deputies, in front of all the neighbors, haha! I escaped, that day, June 4, 2021. That day feels like a 2nd birthday, to me. Congratulations on your freedom. Freedom feels absolutely WONDERFUL 🎉. Idk about you, on your anniversary of Freedom, but on June 4, every year, I thank God, for getting me out of there & say happy Freedom Birthday. God woke me up that day, and got me out of there. 🙏🤍
I made him stop saying God bless you when I sneeze his mouth ain't fut and I don't receive nothing out of his lying mouth he takes lying to a deeper depth in hell bye demon
@@GG-ul8ne Ephesians 3:20-21 Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us, unto him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, world without end. God Is Able and HE will do it .👌🏽✍🏽👍🏾💃🏽✝️🙌🏽.
Thanks for sharing! I’m 10 days no contact. However, it kinda gets to me because I think he will use it against me in court because he hasn’t spoke to his son. I stopped visitation when his new supply put tape on my child’s mouth and eyes. I don’t let his father stay alone with him at all
He left. Gone for about 3 months he had lost weight, black around the eyes, face looking skeleton like, complaining about muscle aches and cramps. The new supply now knew he was with me but took him in anyway. I saw her in the store in her slippers, robe, and headscarf buying him his snacks he loves. I recognized the snacks. But never saw her in that state of appearance and it was midday when I saw her
Yes my ex lost a lot of weight and says he barely eats and is having health problems now that have him back and forth to the doctor and says he barely sleeps. He was also complaining about missing my good home cooked meals.
Wow 😯 he sits there rubbing his head thinking about what he can do next to get to me 😢and I sit here 😂laughing and praying 🙏🏼 whatever he do is alright as long as he doesn’t touch me, because I will call 📱 the police
You too much!!! 😂😂😂 You should really consider being on a comedy showcase. Like I’m by myself shopping in the store and just laughing up a “busted gut”. Thanks for the comedy. It’s so sad you gotta laugh!! We need a “ gut hearty” laugh!!!
T, I think god helped me put this in words so simple but yet so meaningful. "A man without the Lord has no peace and joy. Only moments of happiness (very short) followed by (extremely long) intense suffering." and I believe everyone can testify that was exactly what the addiction with the narc was like... short-lived happiness moments and long-lived INTENSE suffering.
Ms. Tea ur right bout the narc not working...the one I was with did not work but yet expected the best of everything cuz I had it...and yes I believe he was jealous of me cuz when I would buy myself something he thought he was entitled BUT NO MORE.. THAT'S BEHIND ME NOW THANK U JESUS!!!
The one I was with had the nerve to tell me he didn’t need to work full time. That with the money I make he can be like the women at his job and just supplement my income. My income just barely kept us above government assistance level.
Lady T There was a time I could not stop crying from the pain now I can’t stop laughing because you are HI LA RI OUS !!!!😅😂😅😂 I’m on the floor over here… I can’t with you😂😅😅😂
To tell the absolute truth, I hope that the narcissist who I was friends with is happy. If the joy of the Lord is your strength, I think that loving Him in the people around us can make us happy, and strong. We give strength to each other, and I hope that my friend has learned to appreciate the people around her... ...I feel led to say this. If you hold onto resentment, it will eat you up inside. It is better, and healthier, to let go of it. Forgiveness doesn't mean that the person never wronged you. It doesn't mean that you unlearn what you have learned about someone's character unless they show themselves to have changed for the better. Forgiveness means that you get to drain the wound of the poison so it can't hurt you further... Take care. Susan
Just wait until after you've healed & found someone else that secondary supply will see the rage like no other. I saw mine hitting walls & slamming doors like a 5 year old with their old victim moving on.
He was 300lbs plus when I met him. He dressed nice & he was cute. I’m the fit one. It drove him crazy that I ate pretty clean & when I wanted to eat bad I could bcuz I train faithfully. He has sleep apnea. He would cut down trees when he slept he snored so bad! He would shake his foot to breath when he stopped breathing. I was scared to go to sleep next to him. He lives in misery daily. I would encourage him to eat veggies he refused! Don’t get me started on his slides poor heels on the slippers I swear we’re singing “ We fall down but we get up” by Donnie Mcclurkin 😂😂😂😂😂 Lord forgive me! How you gone be a narc & unhealthy?? I’m not fat shaming anyone! I loved him no matter what size he was but he loathed himself so he couldn’t love me.
I’ve been wondering what’s going on after I did the final discard from the devaluation! Thank you for everything Telsha! You are a blessing to all of us! 🙏😃☕️🍪
Thank God for delivering me from the narcissist family. All of their mask started falling last year. I just stood back and watched this crap show. I stood up to the matriarch of the family and her face broke. This was the beginning of breaking the trauma bond with them. To God be the Glory 🦋🦋🦋
Woman of God, you spoke nothing but the truth! I came across a recent photo of the narc and he looks bad!!! He has aged about 20 years. Just like you stated, most of them don't work. He married the old stand-by that stayed around for 25 years and who takes care of him. 😳
These Off And On Emotional Feeling Are Too Much 😢 But When I Seen That Crypt Keeper He Was Cheating On Me With Makes Me Weak 😂 Thank God For Sister Tea Videos It Brightens My Day
Thank you for another revelation truth Sis. Lady Telsha 💞 what you said about the Laws of Resoprocity is 💯% truth. These Narccistic ppl are always, continually in a state of misery, that is why they are on a daily hunt for a victim, "misery " loves company 💔.
When I got him out of my house, I didn't look back. At court for restraining order, he looked like he hadn't eaten in a while. I haven't seen him and not looking for him. May the Lord have mercy!
I would like to give thanks for all of your videos! Your videos have healed me to wholeness, and I have been narc free for almost a year! Thank you, you are truly a blessing to many! May God continue to give you strength to minister to those who are unaware of these DEMONS!
I was praising GOD this morning and the holy spirit put on my heart that I can't hate that narc because if me going through that with him brought me back to my GOD back to the lord that's the most beautiful and amazing thing....so it was worth it that all the pain I went through GOD replaced with knowing him and his love that is unmatched ❤️ To GOD be the glory forever and ever ❤️ ♥️ 🙏 💛 💖
My x narc was caught smoking crack,and had the nerve to be driving a city bus as a bus operator...He is a covert narcissist,and I found pictures of him having all kinds of different looks like a shape shifter. He has done all kinds of evil to me,and once I left,he lost his apartment,job, ended up in a treatment facility. Before I left him he kept boasting about a car he wanted to buy,but was behind in rent,and owed the cable company over $900.00 from watching porn, owed money after stealing from me and my kids. Then I find out he buys a $22.000 used car,that I told him was ridiculous to buy in the first place. But these are things the narc does. Like who goes into a used car dealership with $22.000 in cash,from cashing a retirement check,that was literally given to him by force after being fired by his job,and puts it in a backpack ,and goes to a dealership to buy a used car 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, taking a guy he calls a friend he barely knew,with him, nobody but a mentally unstable person. Come to find out he bought a dope dealer with him to the car dealership,and bought crack cocaine from him . Oh my goodness. They have no wisdom. No Sense. Then I found out later he sold the car for a hit of crack cocaine . But he tells me he sold his car to a guy he knew for $3000 🤣 ,as if that sounds better . After he purchased the car,car was gone within 4 months as I predicted. When I asked him why he didn't have a car when I first met him ,he told me he sold his car to his daughter, because he preferred catching the bus to work,and wanted to help his daughter out. But I later found out his whole life was out of order,and unmanageable,that he couldn't keep anything of value. When I first met I thought he had a great personality, feared GOD,went to church,very nice smile,great conversatioist,smelled good, he had a good career driving the bus,he looked like he was well established and responsible. Very well dressed,well mannered , charming,nice place he lived in ,but it was all an illusion 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. All of it was witchcraft
Good to hear about what happens to them afterwards, your narc really seemed like a keeper(based on how you describe him), he would have fooled me ! The way Im so scared to even go on a date....I just see red flags in everything, let me heal first. You made my day !
My sister you are so right the stuff I saw I was not looking for they say If you can't say anything good about a person don't say nothing and I will leave it at that
Yeah, the one I knew he used to sit in my car in and use the gas. He couldn’t drive it because he had no license and he couldn’t drive and used to run the car to the gas right now and then I come from work I had to go and refilled my car with gas again and then when I couldn’t take it to work he would play the music I’m running out the whole day and he was so that was so stupid how immature that was.
I just hollered!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I love you Telsha you are a beautiful breath of fresh air!!!🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗 Fighting them demons all night he used jump and kick all night it was ridiculous. Big ol giraffe probably did it on purpose. Never experienced anything like it.
Omg 😂my ex who is a wealth management businessman used to tell me always ROIC things he expected from me to do he was well off so he spoiled me used to say return on invested capital as he had put so much money into me world travels , anything I wanted but he cheated and lied so I gave him the boot ! That’s what he got back for all that he had ‘invested ‘ in me 😂
Everything said here is true 😮,saw my ex narc hubby in court 2 days ago---I didn't recognise him at first(complexion totally changed to bad),no more face treatments and organic food. You could see he aint happy( though he is still rude and angry), he also didnt recognise me(glow up),Ive lost 13kilos and Im glowing through prayer and fasting and clean eating. He looked like he sleeps on alcohol,he's aged a LOT....in only 4 months of seperation. I aint laughing,but OMW Ms T,this stuff is real
You make me laugh 😅! These clowns got what they deserve. Like you say it take a special kind of stupid to mistreat and attempt to destroy their partner.
🤣🤣 thats why I couldn't be mad or hate my narc, even at the end I was still kind to him. He is miserable every single day. I stayed with him longer just because I felt bad for him, he had nothing to offer me and he was stupid enough to treat me so badly instead of appreciating me
I stayed with my husband because I fell bad for him.
@@lorettamoore5509 I felt bad for my husband too and stayed wit him. I have sooo much peach wo him it’s so amazing!!! Sent him divorce papers 6 weeks ago and still waiting for him to sign … so we can proceed.
Thissss ❤
@@brittanym8114 so sorry ladies I can only imagine being married to one, luckily mine showed me who he was very early on. The love bombing ( future faking) lasted a few weeks and I stayed for almost a year and felt like a life time. I wanted to stay a little longer for educational purposes but I couldn't take it anymore. The silent treatment when you try to communicate, the projection, the disrespect...😨🤯
That part!!!
My Narc could careless about anything that pertains to me. He never liked, cared, or valued my life. But now that I know.. I’m blessed. And I wish him NOTHING!
I feel you Queen, I do wish something for my ex wife of 20 years and that is exponential misery and heartache because she is a demon possessed by legions of demons!
Same here….yesss!
These people were miserable way before they met you and they will still be miserable after you they don't just move on and live happily ever after they didn't live happily ever after before you the only thing they did was took their crazy to somebody else's when they so-called moved on God bless.
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Man I just wanna say how you brighten my day after dealing with a narcissist. Them birds and clowns just ain't worth my happiness.
That is their punishment everyday "waking up " to that misery it sucks to be them.
Facts ..
I told my ex narc after the discard wow it looks like you are starving. He tried to get closure I told him go eat something 😂😂😂
lol
That's a good one 🤣🤣🤣
Lmao😂😂
I’m weak !!
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I'm not waiting 4 something 2 happen cuz just bcuz who the narc is is DOOM AND GLOOM and they r getting their karma while I'm being HAPPY AND HAVE PEACE bcuz I left the narc!!!
Almost peed my pants,,,,,nails clacking on the ground in them heels, 🤣
Sleep 2 hours at a time . Toss and turn to try to sleep
Exactly I didn't understand at first either but I learned
I was told don't say by, at the end of a phone call. Because he doesn't like the word by. He told me to say later instead. I told him I don't like the word later, so I said let's pick a new word we both like, he hung up without a word. I didn't call him back. So he call later and ask why I didn't call him back? I answered with by , and blocked him!!!!
@@rubyhughes1990exactly they don't like to say bye. And the narcissist sleep late at night
I know my ex narc is miserable. Because I did everything for him. I was his secretary, accountant, maid, lawyer, therapist, etc...
I did whatever he wanted me to do!
The car with no wheel covers 😅😂😂
LMAO! She said eating Wholefoods, Sprouts, and whole grain rice..... I FELL OUT! She is right and these folks were living high off of you.......cut them off. Let them starve out! Those demons are going to turn on them because they didn't take you down.
he sent me a photo during the discard, thinking i would reach out, he looked 70!! deleted n blocked !
Lmao 😂😂
This just happened to me this week...I laughed so hard😂😂😂😂....blocking from this account too!!! I am to Blessed 😇🙏🏽🙌🏽❤🎉.
He’s walking around looking like a lumberjack man facial hair all grown all around his face I guess he’s trying to hide😂🤡🤣🐦😂
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They are miserable beings. They live a horrible existence. My ex went from living in a 3 BR home to a basement unit. He relocated and abandoned me three weeks later, and he is broke, sick, and miserable. Begging for money, making ridiculous demands, and being trash. No contact for six months now. Karma is doing its work.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am on the floor........ So true, no longer eatting that Ramen or frozen chicken sandwiches, GURL!!! I'm back to eating Waygu Steaks baby!! Back in my element. They will mess up a free lunch! He had the nerve to tell me when we got back together ( I don't know what I was thinking) that he didnt want to get remarried to me so he wouldn't loose his foodstamps!
He didn't wanted to lose his food stamp 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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The narc I married is 62 was still trying to collect food stamps- so beneath me😂😂
I’m 50 fabulous & free 5 yrs out 🙏🏿-
Yes very true! My ex narcissist, sadistic girlfriend used to say that she hated her life and she didn't like waking up every morning.
I remember when he was trying to hoover like a month or so after I left and he came over to “see the child.” I told him that he looked so miserable and just tired, angry, overworked. And those eyes he gave me!! I was half laughing half scared 😂😂
Kmsl 😂😂
It is definitely a demon that governs them and also us but they attack them differently. All we can do is pray for them to be fully delivered
That ex narc looks like a cadaver right now 😂😂😂 I'm just enjoying with some popcorn 🍿 on my side!
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A cavader🤣🤣🤣
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So True Very Miserable. Groomed me to stop saying " Good Morning or God Bless You After You Sneeze." When I would say Good Morning Ex Narc would replay " What's so good about it!!!!" It was a miserable state of existence, I was a walking corpse all life drained out of me. I started to dread waking up especially next to him because I couldn't say Good morning. 😔very unnatural for me as an empath. I thank God daily for lifting the veil and leading me out of The Kingdom of Darkness and Into His Marvelous Light. That Hell was No Joke...God set me free and I will never go back into captivity (misery).... God Did It👌🏽💜💃🏽🕊🙏🏽💜!!! Thanks again Sis Telsha 🌹 for This Awesome Message, laughter is good for the soul especially after being a survivor of such a horrific kind of abuse...Lived in The Misery for 3 yrs and 5 months... Been NC for almost 20 months 4/9/23. This anniversary date is NOT one of gloom and doom but Victory... My days are full of Joy, Peace, Wisdom, Love and Strength these days. I laugh I smile and Living My Best Life free to say what I want when I want. No monitoring spirits dictating how I will live my life.
I love that you mark the anniversary date, of your discard. I was much the same, as you described (with your narc), when I was a live-in housekeeper & cook, for a narcissistic ex family friend/elder type figure (my late husband & I thought of him like our 'adopted uncle'). When my husband passed away, this old narc pervert, 20+ yrs older than me, arranged all kinds of horrible abuse & crimes, committed against me, by his flying monkeys, after I turned his sexual/romantic propositions down, repeatedly. But, at that time, I didn't know he was the one behind all of this, until he hired me as his live-in housekeeper & cook, & started commenting on this, confessions of it all, over the several months I was trapped there. That's when I found myself trapped in absolute hell, with that pervert. He slowly & insidiously amped up his abuse (including stringing me along, not paying me+ making me sleep on the couch, instead of my own room, as we'd agreed to). He abused & violated me, in every single way, possible, once he'd isolated me there, away from friends & family. He once mused that he loved having me "locked up in his house", 24/7. Since he & his flying monkeys also committed actual crimes against me, I finally had courage to report him, & the flying monkeys that I knew of, to police. It was a very long police report, detailing all the abuse & crimes, over that 2+ year period. On June 4, 2021, the sheriff dept rolled up to the house, several cars & deputies, in front of all the neighbors, haha! I escaped, that day, June 4, 2021. That day feels like a 2nd birthday, to me. Congratulations on your freedom. Freedom feels absolutely WONDERFUL 🎉. Idk about you, on your anniversary of Freedom, but on June 4, every year, I thank God, for getting me out of there & say happy Freedom Birthday. God woke me up that day, and got me out of there. 🙏🤍
I made him stop saying God bless you when I sneeze his mouth ain't fut and I don't receive nothing out of his lying mouth he takes lying to a deeper depth in hell bye demon
@@GG-ul8ne Ephesians 3:20-21 Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us, unto him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, world without end. God Is Able and HE will do it .👌🏽✍🏽👍🏾💃🏽✝️🙌🏽.
@@myblessings1000 Yes! AMEN! 🙏🙌
This got me in stitches.... Ex Narc would replay " What's so good about it!!!!"🤣
I LOVE when you call them Backwards walking giraffes!!! ALL OF IT!!😂
Omg I love it! You always make me laugh. Tea, I'm 45 days no contact. I'm proud of myself.
I sure look forward to the day when I can say that I'm 45 days no contact God bless you 💕
Keep going strong 💪
Thanks for sharing! I’m 10 days no contact. However, it kinda gets to me because I think he will use it against me in court because he hasn’t spoke to his son. I stopped visitation when his new supply put tape on my child’s mouth and eyes. I don’t let his father stay alone with him at all
It’s the “nails are clacking in the ground with the materials rolled back on your shoes because they old “ for me. 😂😂😂😂😂 CLACK…CLACK…CLACK
He left. Gone for about 3 months he had lost weight, black around the eyes, face looking skeleton like,
complaining about muscle aches and cramps.
The new supply now knew he was with me but took him in anyway. I saw her in the store in her slippers, robe, and headscarf buying him his snacks he loves. I recognized the snacks. But never saw her in that state of appearance and it was midday when I saw her
Cause they suck the strength outta ur soul...I know💯✅ you lose urself
Yes my ex lost a lot of weight and says he barely eats and is having health problems now that have him back and forth to the doctor and says he barely sleeps. He was also complaining about missing my good home cooked meals.
Her struggle now 😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂 That's the best feeling when you can crack up and can't contain yourself. 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Ah, the laughter of an Ascended child of God laughing at the devil and his clickity-clack toenails 😂😂🎉
14:11 yes they do! & the number one trick of the devil is to make you think he’s not real & keep you deceived & in a illusion 🙏🏾
Wow 😯 he sits there rubbing his head thinking about what he can do next to get to me 😢and I sit here 😂laughing and praying 🙏🏼 whatever he do is alright as long as he doesn’t touch me, because I will call 📱 the police
You said......."DUSTY BRITCHES" !!! 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 "And the pockets are touching in the back!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭 You have made me laugh so hard today! 😂😂😂😂😂❤
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You too much!!! 😂😂😂 You should really consider being on a comedy showcase. Like I’m by myself shopping in the store and just laughing up a “busted gut”. Thanks for the comedy.
It’s so sad you gotta laugh!! We need a “ gut hearty” laugh!!!
Dusty britches! Lol. 😂
T, I think god helped me put this in words so simple but yet so meaningful. "A man without the Lord has no peace and joy. Only moments of happiness (very short) followed by (extremely long) intense suffering." and I believe everyone can testify that was exactly what the addiction with the narc was like... short-lived happiness moments and long-lived INTENSE suffering.
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Your laughter brings joy to me as well as your teachings thank you sis
UFO sightings 😂
Ms. Tea ur right bout the narc not working...the one I was with did not work but yet expected the best of everything cuz I had it...and yes I believe he was jealous of me cuz when I would buy myself something he thought he was entitled BUT NO MORE.. THAT'S BEHIND ME NOW THANK U JESUS!!!
The one I was with had the nerve to tell me he didn’t need to work full time. That with the money I make he can be like the women at his job and just supplement my income. My income just barely kept us above government assistance level.
Where do y'all find these little boys, there not men they are little boys!
Lady T
There was a time I could not stop crying from the pain now I can’t stop laughing because you are
HI LA RI OUS !!!!😅😂😅😂
I’m on the floor over here…
I can’t with you😂😅😅😂
To tell the absolute truth, I hope that the narcissist who I was friends with is happy. If the joy of the Lord is your strength, I think that loving Him in the people around us can make us happy, and strong. We give strength to each other, and I hope that my friend has learned to appreciate the people around her...
...I feel led to say this. If you hold onto resentment, it will eat you up inside. It is better, and healthier, to let go of it. Forgiveness doesn't mean that the person never wronged you. It doesn't mean that you unlearn what you have learned about someone's character unless they show themselves to have changed for the better. Forgiveness means that you get to drain the wound of the poison so it can't hurt you further... Take care. Susan
I started this over 3 times, because you made me laugh so hard.
It felt so good!!!
Same here,I also replayed parts of this myself!😆
Guilty🥴I thought I was the only one who did. But to repeatedly laugh felt great I must admit 😂😂😂😩
This is one of my favorite episodes, I love when you make me laugh.
"...Happiness is temporal, but joy is eternal..."❤
Claw toes 😂😂😂 I am cracking up! This is so true
Just wait until after you've healed & found someone else that secondary supply will see the rage like no other. I saw mine hitting walls & slamming doors like a 5 year old with their old victim moving on.
He was 300lbs plus when I met him. He dressed nice & he was cute. I’m the fit one. It drove him crazy that I ate pretty clean & when I wanted to eat bad I could bcuz I train faithfully. He has sleep apnea. He would cut down trees when he slept he snored so bad! He would shake his foot to breath when he stopped breathing. I was scared to go to sleep next to him. He lives in misery daily. I would encourage him to eat veggies he refused! Don’t get me started on his slides poor heels on the slippers I swear we’re singing “ We fall down but we get up” by Donnie Mcclurkin 😂😂😂😂😂 Lord forgive me! How you gone be a narc & unhealthy??
I’m not fat shaming anyone! I loved him no matter what size he was but he loathed himself so he couldn’t love me.
I’ve been wondering what’s going on after I did the final discard from the devaluation! Thank you for everything Telsha! You are a blessing to all of us! 🙏😃☕️🍪
Thank God for delivering me from the narcissist family. All of their mask started falling last year. I just stood back and watched this crap show. I stood up to the matriarch of the family and her face broke. This was the beginning of breaking the trauma bond with them. To God be the Glory 🦋🦋🦋
TGBTG BLESSED ASSURANCE FOREVERMORE!! 😊❤
Bike n feet like the Flintstones
🤣🤣🤣 at “jaws all sucked in” and “dusty britches”
Ms. Tea you cuttin up and now im cuttin up😂😂😂😂😂😂
And YES the ex narc I dealt with was miserable and ur right he would say he was depressed and I would just shake my head and still b HAPPY...
These are trying times for the narc.
Not the "Dusty Britches" 😂😂😂 Thank you Telsha for the laughs and bringing the Truth! ❤
You are Narc. Free. Because you crazy again. Lol. ( The heels of shoe busted the concrete) Toes over the top of the shoe. 😂
💣👐☝🙏💪👑👀👂👣🗣🎤 YOU'RE SOLID AS ROCK 🌱 YOU'RE ASSIGNMENT IS ON THY PATH OF RIGHTEOUSNESS 💎 I BE CRYING 😂 WHEN YOU 💃✨😍 CALLED HIM A BIRD 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“They have expired on this side” 😂😂😂😂 ahhh thank you, you made my day
Period
😂😂 Ms. Telsha, your pretty petty is showing out today.😅🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love it!!!
One of the names for a Narc is to call them Nothingness and then watch the rage 😡 lol!!!
Woman of God, you spoke nothing but the truth! I came across a recent photo of the narc and he looks bad!!! He has aged about 20 years. Just like you stated, most of them don't work. He married the old stand-by that stayed around for 25 years and who takes care of him. 😳
And I bet she thinks she won lol
@ecunningham2062 Well, of course she does! 😆 🤣 😂
That’s what they do, they will marry the one that’s ok with their behavior and clearly doesn’t care about them self 🤦🏽♀️
Sista Tea, you have had me busting up with stomach aching laughing!!
Daily load of benefits of misery 😂
😂😂😂😂
These Off And On Emotional Feeling Are Too Much 😢 But When I Seen That Crypt Keeper He Was Cheating On Me With Makes Me Weak 😂 Thank God For Sister Tea Videos It Brightens My Day
Crypt keeper that's what he himself is he's nothing without me I'm the strong one
@@1010QUEEN7 I Know That's Right 💪🏽🔥💯
This was great. 😂Whole Foods. Sprouts yes yes. Homemade protein shakes made with love. Now it’s trife life .. enjoy
It’s the peeling of the back of the shoe for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
We rocks with you, Girl!
Yes, wholeness is a beautiful thing. Thank you, Ms. Telsha. Amen.
Claw feet rolling off the front of their open toe shoes 😅😂😅😂
Thank you for another revelation truth Sis. Lady Telsha 💞 what you said about the Laws of Resoprocity is 💯% truth. These Narccistic ppl are always, continually in a state of misery, that is why they are on a daily hunt for a victim, "misery " loves company 💔.
When I got him out of my house, I didn't look back. At court for restraining order, he looked like he hadn't eaten in a while. I haven't seen him and not looking for him. May the Lord have mercy!
That way you made me laugh with this one 😂😂😂😂 I love you girl 😂😂😂😂😂
You had me rolling with laughter....😂😂😂😂 needed that.
Dusty britches LMFAO!! 😂🎉😂🎉😂🎉😂🎉
OMG! You're killing me!! LOL!!! 😊
You're so funny i been laughing with you talking about the wheel of the car without the lid cover😂
I would like to give thanks for all of your videos! Your videos have healed me to wholeness, and I have been narc free for almost a year! Thank you, you are truly a blessing to many! May God continue to give you strength to minister to those who are unaware of these DEMONS!
Yes my ex hated himself to no end !!! He said that
😂lolol. Too too much. Cried all day cause of him. Now I can't stop laughing.😂
I was praising GOD this morning and the holy spirit put on my heart that I can't hate that narc because if me going through that with him brought me back to my GOD back to the lord that's the most beautiful and amazing thing....so it was worth it that all the pain I went through GOD replaced with knowing him and his love that is unmatched ❤️ To GOD be the glory forever and ever ❤️ ♥️ 🙏 💛 💖
Love it! The devil loads them with daily dose of misery. Hallelujah!!
Ur the best. Knowledge and humor. I always learn and crying laughing. Ty sister I love ur videos. ❤ truth
My x narc was caught smoking crack,and had the nerve to be driving a city bus as a bus operator...He is a covert narcissist,and I found pictures of him having all kinds of different looks like a shape shifter. He has done all kinds of evil to me,and once I left,he lost his apartment,job, ended up in a treatment facility. Before I left him he kept boasting about a car he wanted to buy,but was behind in rent,and owed the cable company over $900.00 from watching porn, owed money after stealing from me and my kids. Then I find out he buys a $22.000 used car,that I told him was ridiculous to buy in the first place. But these are things the narc does. Like who goes into a used car dealership with $22.000 in cash,from cashing a retirement check,that was literally given to him by force after being fired by his job,and puts it in a backpack ,and goes to a dealership to buy a used car 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, taking a guy he calls a friend he barely knew,with him, nobody but a mentally unstable person. Come to find out he bought a dope dealer with him to the car dealership,and bought crack cocaine from him . Oh my goodness. They have no wisdom. No Sense. Then I found out later he sold the car for a hit of crack cocaine . But he tells me he sold his car to a guy he knew for $3000 🤣 ,as if that sounds better . After he purchased the car,car was gone within 4 months as I predicted. When I asked him why he didn't have a car when I first met him ,he told me he sold his car to his daughter, because he preferred catching the bus to work,and wanted to help his daughter out. But I later found out his whole life was out of order,and unmanageable,that he couldn't keep anything of value. When I first met I thought he had a great personality, feared GOD,went to church,very nice smile,great conversatioist,smelled good, he had a good career driving the bus,he looked like he was well established and responsible. Very well dressed,well mannered , charming,nice place he lived in ,but it was all an illusion 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. All of it was witchcraft
Good to hear about what happens to them afterwards, your narc really seemed like a keeper(based on how you describe him), he would have fooled me ! The way Im so scared to even go on a date....I just see red flags in everything, let me heal first. You made my day !
Lord that's a lot
I THANK GOD....I'M GONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My daughter came out of my own experience. She is the best thing that did. 😊❤
The names - speak on it!!! Call them a loser & watch….
🎤🎶”If ya rocks wit ya girllll” 🎶 love that part 😊
My sister you are so right the stuff I saw I was not looking for they say If you can't say anything good about a person don't say nothing and I will leave it at that
@ hello Tribe Leader @ ca Williams 😊
Don't apologize, you're killing it.😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂
Yeah, the one I knew he used to sit in my car in and use the gas. He couldn’t drive it because he had no license and he couldn’t drive and used to run the car to the gas right now and then I come from work I had to go and refilled my car with gas again and then when I couldn’t take it to work he would play the music I’m running out the whole day and he was so that was so stupid how immature that was.
I just hollered!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I love you Telsha you are a beautiful breath of fresh air!!!🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗
Fighting them demons all night he used jump and kick all night it was ridiculous. Big ol giraffe probably did it on purpose. Never experienced anything like it.
U are Soo right Siss . The Ex narc use to wake up & I would say Good morning. He would say please don't talk to me it's to early.
It’s the laugh for me🤣🤣💜
Omg 😂my ex who is a wealth management businessman used to tell me always ROIC things he expected from me to do he was well off so he spoiled me used to say return on invested capital as he had put so much money into me world travels , anything I wanted but he cheated and lied so I gave him the boot ! That’s what he got back for all that he had ‘invested ‘ in me 😂
Everything said here is true 😮,saw my ex narc hubby in court 2 days ago---I didn't recognise him at first(complexion totally changed to bad),no more face treatments and organic food. You could see he aint happy( though he is still rude and angry), he also didnt recognise me(glow up),Ive lost 13kilos and Im glowing through prayer and fasting and clean eating. He looked like he sleeps on alcohol,he's aged a LOT....in only 4 months of seperation. I aint laughing,but OMW Ms T,this stuff is real
The Hoover is real....I had to come back to listen👂🏽....it's been, 4 years y'all. He will FOREVER BE BLOCKED and DELETED 🎯
I love you 😂😂😂😂 ty for healing with humor
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you made me laugh..... I needed that laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Busted window with plastic on it😅😅😅😅
You make me laugh 😅! These clowns got what they deserve. Like you say it take a special kind of stupid to mistreat and attempt to destroy their partner.
😂😂 love your mood and message today 💯
For real Ms. Telsha britches 😂😂😂, laugh of today 💯
If you rock with your GIRLLLL❤ 😊 Now y'all hit that 👍 we got to get her to 2,000 +++❤❤❤❤❤👍👍👍👍
Tea I love you!!! Yes I said IT!!!
You gone preach after while 😃