Importance of Marriage in Life by Jiddu krishnamurti |
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- Is marriage a sacred union or a societal construct? A source of love and growth or a trap for the soul? Jiddu Krishnamurti, a renowned philosopher and spiritual teacher, challenges our conventional understanding of marriage and unveils its inherent paradoxes.
In this video, we delve into Krishnamurti's profound teachings on marriage, exploring:
1. The Illusion of Completion: Krishnamurti argues that the idea of marriage fulfilling a void or providing lasting happiness is an illusion. True fulfillment comes from within, not from external relationships.
2. The Dependency Trap: Marriage can become a breeding ground for dependency, where individuals lose their sense of individuality and become reliant on their partner for happiness. Krishnamurti emphasizes the importance of self-reliance and personal growth within marriage.
3. Love Beyond Possession: True love, according to Krishnamurti, is not about possessiveness or control. It allows for freedom, space, and the possibility of individual growth within the relationship.
4. The Challenge of Freedom and Commitment: Krishnamurti highlights the delicate balance between individual freedom and commitment in marriage. He suggests that true commitment arises from love and understanding, not from obligation or fear.
5. Unmasking the Societal Conditioning: Krishnamurti encourages us to examine the societal expectations and conditioning that shape our perceptions of marriage. He urges us to question the traditional model and explore alternative ways of relating that are based on love, authenticity, and mutual respect.
This video is:
For anyone seeking to explore the deeper meaning of marriage and its challenges and possibilities.
Filled with: Krishnamurti's insightful teachings, real-life examples, and thought-provoking questions that challenge our assumptions and encourage deeper reflection.
A call to conscious creation: encouraging individuals to approach marriage with awareness and intention, fostering healthy relationships that nurture individual growth and contribute to a more conscious society.
Join us on this journey of exploration and discover the true potential of marriage as envisioned by Jiddu Krishnamurti!
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"We are never at home with any body"
He is not saying home, he is saying whole.
We are never at whole with anybody.
@@DilipSingh-ff4sl I think this is not an inherent afirmation for human in JK eyes. He talking about the humanity right now. We can´t be at whole with anybody because our conditioning as individuals, but he talked about end of conditioning with end of the individual. Is all connected. Then the sentence is true because when there is "another" then there is never a "whole with", Whole with can only be when there is just one humanity, when individual disapear.
I think it is important to clarify this.
In another words, this sentence is true right now as a general image of humanity, but it can be false, it must be false
What you think?
@@DilipSingh-ff4sl He said "I must have somebody with whom I can be at home, we are never at home with somebody". The word "home" is very clear and he repeats it twice, and furthermore you can read the transcription. "We are never at whole with anybody" is anywhay grammaticallay wrong.
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Integrity and Intelligence are needed for stable married life.
Integrity is needed more than intelligence because a fruitful marriage happens only if lived with honesty without any infidelity.
Only balls needed both the sides!!! Strong and durable if not everything else is compromised 😂
Yes I do agree 100%
J.Krishnamurty is a great analyser who helped people tremendously to realise themselves.
One has to learn " How to live with another without any conflict, without any Sense Of Struggle, adaptation, adjustment" .
For such life, one requires a great deal of intelligence
A great deal of honesty rather.
Wisely explained sir
Beautifully said!!❤❤❤❤❤
Insightful🙏🙏🙏❤️
This is a very important question in the life of a human being as,an entity who is single,which is our state,has decided to go into an action called marriage,and acquire a partner,with whom to spend the rest of their life.unless the implications of this( self- centred) action are not clearly understood,there is every possibility of grief and disappointment,once the festivities are over !!! The bare fact is that a mind lives for itself,and any action, taken by it,however pious and sacrosanct it may appear,has that tinge of selfishness in it.I need a shoulder to lean on,so I search for someone,who,incidentally,is also having a similar demand,and may not be in a position to fulfil my demand !!! As more and more expectations and demands rear their ugly heads,what started out as "a union of two loving minds",becomes a battlefield of unfulfilled expectations ,and broken promises !!! Unless the reality of exploitation and inequality,the inherent factors of any relationship are not clearly spelt out and discussed,any marriage is doomed from the start.
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Unless we holistically understand the implications of all self- centred action,it will be mature and responsible on our part to exercise caution before we blindly enter into the "chakravyuh" called marriage,and end up ruining two precious lives.
Marriage is based on commitment and honesty.
@@ashitmukherjee5934 unfortunately, both these factors are conspicuously absent where there is self- interest and self- centeredness at the core of our conditional action.
@@ashitmukherjee5934 the non- introspective mind is nothing but dishonesty and non- commitment.When the mind( as observer,I) comes into this world,the agenda is very clear- I want to squeeze maximum sensual pleasures out of this human body,and if another entity/ body is required to make the experience more flavourful,then,there is nothing like it!!!!I will use all the tricks available to me,including love,and extract my pound of flesh from that other( animate observed,you).Is it not unreasonable on our part to expect noble gestures from an entity that recognises only three entities- I,Me,Myself ???Sceptical introspection into the intrinsic self- centredness of the human mind is the only way out.
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Social media or content creators will not ir cannot handle when things go wrong
We are frightened to stand alone... how to live with another without conflict...
Loneliness is dreadly feared.
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From which discource this talk extracted ?
Exactly, from which Lecture is this extracted? Dont seem to be anywhere?
He didnt marry to advise...get it from your parents they will gibe you great advise and shoulder you even if you stumble
The man is realized....he doesnt need to marry to have a relationship, companionship etc...
He is addressing the root of relationships....so dont throw these petty common sense stones and try convince others that ur an intellectual.
Can u live without spreading ur legs to a man?? But this man did it effortlessly....without involvement of control,morals, principles etc,...just out of absolute clarity
Their marriage itself is troublesome...always fighting....only come together when they need each other physically.......99.9% parents are the worst person to take advice about marriage and career....
It's not such everywhere.there are people who coexist with eachother without any conditioned mind.india marrige system is much more than this and spritual in nature at its root
Lund spritual. Man ask for dowry and woman ask for high paying job and big house. This is what Indian marriages are.
Lol.... Piling of divorce cases sums it up...
Yes
@@prasadcnavale Marriage is a test of your honesty lol.There is a divorce if you fail.
@@ashitmukherjee5934 don't live in fairy tale....come to consciousness asap....you seems to be highly conditioned by your parents and feminist society
True. Sex can be had everywhere, the release of a certain urge and compulsion. Some can have sex with animal too. Some can not have sex with the opposite sex due to repulsion, they will admire their own sex.
No, marriage is not for sex. Not for even producing children I guess, I have seen many martiages last despite failing to have kids. Sex and companionship are two different things, having sex with a prostitute is companionship too, it is a far far lesser companionship. We need an elevating and exemplary companionship. We live in a world full of people, every day you meet varied people, we are given a choice, among the many you will be required to chose one not all. Is not a need for companionship fulfilled by the crowds??? It does. We are happy to be among people, An english guy finds harmony in an Indian crowd, a Japanese woman will enjoy being in company of Korean women, crowds give us uplift when we are down and desolate. What is the need for one man or woman???? It is to do with appreciation, you celebrate her like no one else, she finds you unlike many. Women commit suicide due to loneliness or rejection far more than men. Unless there is a celebration of the other we live a lesser life. This celebration of other we often refer to as irresistible love or as the best chapter of a life.
If marriage is not meant for sex, Why one marrys opposite gender?why not same gender.
@@selvam5788 we could ask why not marry dog or goat or many dogs and many goats??? A companionship is a mutual agreement, you need both to feel happy and lucky.
By some misfortune the straight couple has failed to have kid they want the exceptional togetherness to last. Not become seperated for inability to have kid. Rare case.
Same gender sex relation is not my area of speciality. I have no clue what makes them happy or unhappy.
I guess most women want kids, most women are fertile too. So the odd case is not universal.
Men, JK just using marriage as an example. He means that we marriage exploiting another human. That this "union" divides. Point is end of the self. The marriage is a superficial union, a false union. We marriage seeking less loneliness, but there is no way until we end with the self, then we are one humanity, there is no loneliness anymore, even if the body is 1M km away from the next body.
He says: How to live with another without any conflict?
The point is that If there is another, there is conflict. This is his point.
He talks about the human psiquis, not about bodys btw.
Even it requires a great deal of intelligence to recognise whether sexual urges are compulsive/imagination or actual biological which is very rare when one lives in complete order
@@liveasone8250not just about conflict with others but also conflict with our own selves ..jk is talking about universal humanity and love .. because the love is not fragmented it's a whole
Osho has given greater vision on institute of marriage. People cannot live life like JK and people even don't know what kind of life JK lives as well. Living wth spouse and living with neighbour and boss are not same. getting rid of neighbour and boss is easy. spouses are bonded by state and society once you are in you are torn apart the time you come out of it.
Yes, JKs way of spirituality can be difficult because it is mostly a direct penetration into loneliness. His approach is quite sophisticated and direct, and very few have the courage to stand completely alone even for once in their lives
If you are not honest do not get married.
@@ashitmukherjee5934 primitive approach. its way more issues involved than just honesty and dishonesty. btw even JK was unmarried, what do you think then?
This talk isn't about marriage, and he certainly isn't promoting marriage.
I don't want to exploit anyone .Neither do I want to be exploited.😂 who does that on purpose? I've seen so many marriages fail and the ones that haven't fail are either open marriages or some kind of weird arrangement.😂 stop fooling yourselves. Don't get married. Don't have children. Rise above.
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Marriage is based on commitment and honesty.
Are kahna kya chahte ho?????
And yet he spent most of his life in a sexual relationship with the wife of a friend of his!
Looks like you have aproblem with it :-)
You are a misinformed person.
@@BinuIJK Yes it appears like that.
Shame on your thinking to talk about Krishnamurthy this low
@@nisha8500 You are right.This fellow is sexually perverted to have such a low opinion about s great person like J.Krishnamurti.
Those who have no chance of getting married or partner what should they do
Meditate and celebrate life
Be a happy single or get into livin relationship and opt for childfree by choice
You can get a partner for marriage at any age.Find honestly.
@@prem3992 Do not advice him to live like a vegabond street dog.