4 Questions God Will Answer When He Wants You to Date Someone

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  • How will God let you know when he wants you to date someone? What signs will be present when God does want you to date a Christian man or a Christian woman? If you are Christian single person who would like to find a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend, here are 4 questions God will answer when he wants you to date someone.
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  • @prettyalina7237
    @prettyalina7237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +916

    *If God is silent stay still*
    -learned the hard way

    • @bobbivaneman1584
      @bobbivaneman1584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Pretty Alina AMEN !

    • @symesalexander5294
      @symesalexander5294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hmm sigh so when then when I'm dead

    • @benstr8156
      @benstr8156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@symesalexander5294 -When you are dead, you are not silent. You will be in heaven celebrating.

    • @symesalexander5294
      @symesalexander5294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@benstr8156 sigh

    • @andywu8558
      @andywu8558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He is always silent. Read scriptures and he will speak to you thru that. Period.

  • @nelodypond9282
    @nelodypond9282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    “God will only reveal the future once we move forward in the present” walk by faith!

  • @godsdaughter7533
    @godsdaughter7533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    Plesae God give me a man who is Godly and who you choose for me💕

    • @mrs.latoyamelvin652
      @mrs.latoyamelvin652 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen, I pray this for me too' 🙏🏽

    • @lifeofelizabeth2351
      @lifeofelizabeth2351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      amen he will 💓🙏🏾

    • @robertklake6800
      @robertklake6800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God WILL NOT tell YOU to marry someone. That is your decision. Do you have peace in your decision. That's what your looking for.

    • @godsdaughter7533
      @godsdaughter7533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@GeorgePenton-np9rh I'm not looking for the perfect guy because I know no one is perfect in this world, even I'm not rude or cold to anyone because my nature is quite different so that's why I only want care , respect, loyalty and a good understanding

    • @godsdaughter7533
      @godsdaughter7533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Kayla Haun blessings 💕

  • @josephwhigham3490
    @josephwhigham3490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    She's not ready to date me. I remember last year someone said, "o wow you and him would be good together." Me and her both said, "were just focusing on school." Remember guys. LOVE IS PATIENCE.

    • @wisdomspeaks4249
      @wisdomspeaks4249 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Love is Patience ,Kind ,,It uplifts ,It holds no grief, it hold Peace ,Not misunderstandings.

  • @han-duo7539
    @han-duo7539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    Stay in prayer my dudes.

  • @luismoreno4462
    @luismoreno4462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Please God, give me a woman that is Godly and serves you!

  • @sawkehelenhealth5438
    @sawkehelenhealth5438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    You are so right. I remembered me in a relationship where I asked God that, that guy by his will for me, he should take the relationship to another level. That night I had this dream where I was in my husband's house, he was so understandable, gentle and everything a woman need's in a man but I didn't see his face, and he was taller than my present boyfriend. The more I keep praying the more sign's He will revealed. Example, concerning my ex, He showed me a lot of negative dreams concerning him. But instead of cutting off the relationship I thought I was his helper, not long the relationship broke and this guy looked for every reason to walk away... Then I started understanding the message God showed me... When we asked Gods will and directions, He lead's us just sometimes our emotions deceived us..

    • @Sd-ns4vo
      @Sd-ns4vo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I had a similar experience ! So True🙏🏾

  • @thetrollpatrol8799
    @thetrollpatrol8799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    1. Is there a parallel between their words and deeds?
    2. Am I rushing into this relationship or acting in wisdom?
    3. Do I have to date them or get to know them first?
    4. Am I acting in integrity or lying to myself and to God?

    • @keziahcadena2001
      @keziahcadena2001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The Troll Patrol thank you 😊

    • @thetrollpatrol8799
      @thetrollpatrol8799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Keziah Cadena I was looking for someone who had done it and didn’t see anyone. Glad to help haha

    • @chrismugleston8625
      @chrismugleston8625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The Troll Patrol Thanks again!

    • @pamshairexpo3892
      @pamshairexpo3892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thankyou for the list darling 👏🏾🙌🏾😄

  • @tacksgmvs2070
    @tacksgmvs2070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I don’t know about anyone else, but God has shown me so many times that I am going to meet the right person. Every time I ask He keeps giving me an answer and I just continue to wait on Him.

    • @thetrollpatrol8799
      @thetrollpatrol8799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TacklessMiner24 how do you think God tell you?

    • @tacksgmvs2070
      @tacksgmvs2070 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Troll Patrol That I don’t know.

    • @thetrollpatrol8799
      @thetrollpatrol8799 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      TacklessMiner24 then why are you assuming that God is speaking to you?

    • @tacksgmvs2070
      @tacksgmvs2070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The Troll Patrol Because He does. God can speak to you in more ways than one. Whether it be through a video, or a song, or even a picture. He will speak to you as long as you want to grow closer to Him.

    • @norbertomilan1906
      @norbertomilan1906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me also

  • @jannabailey6800
    @jannabailey6800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    God is keeping us safe from the people:-)who have bad intentions.

    • @vicky2glam366
      @vicky2glam366 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally. But sometimes rushing actions Someone got hurt

    • @healed2011
      @healed2011 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Janna Bailey Amen!🙏

    • @dawnharris6162
      @dawnharris6162 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen!!!!

  • @sharleenparrino2297
    @sharleenparrino2297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Yes Mark,
    Very timely brother!
    I went too fast with a guy I was dating a couple months!!
    We now chose to be friends!
    I think we went ahead of the Lord, and now in the friend zone!
    God will lead us if it's meant to be!
    He's a new believer and not sure how to lead in a Christian relationship and needs to become rooted into the Word & his relationship with Jesus!
    Slowing down and being friends is wisdom!
    Blessings from
    Portland Oregon 🕊

  • @davidthomspson9771
    @davidthomspson9771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I am moving forward authentically.There is no hidden motive.God knows my heart.It is genuine.

    • @hindiraps1719
      @hindiraps1719 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      David Thomspson ameen

    • @hindiraps1719
      @hindiraps1719 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      David Thomspson amen 🙏🏾

  • @NihselV
    @NihselV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Don't forget on#1, the book of Isaiah 29 : 13 says the same and Jesus reminds us in Mathew 15 :8 and Mark 7: 6. Best way is to watch what comes from their hearts and pray about it.

  • @SylviaJGomez
    @SylviaJGomez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    All Glory to ABBA, FATHER GOD, In The Name of HIS Son Jesus. In Agreement.

    • @KP-ej7gc
      @KP-ej7gc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ABBA?

    • @SylviaJGomez
      @SylviaJGomez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@KP-ej7gc good afternoon sir.
      Mark 14:36
      36 “Abba,[a] Father,” he said,“everything is possible for you. Take this cup from me. Yet not what I will, but what you will.”
      Galatians 4:6
      6 Because you are his sons, God sent the Spirit of his Soninto our hearts, the Spirit who calls out, “Abba,[a] Father.”
      Romans 8:15
      15 The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again;rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship.[a] And by him we cry, “Abba,[b] Father.”

    • @KP-ej7gc
      @KP-ej7gc 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sylvia J. Gomez I think you made that up haha

    • @SylviaJGomez
      @SylviaJGomez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KP-ej7gc Good morning KP, no sir it is The Written Word. ABBA means "Father".

    • @SylviaJGomez
      @SylviaJGomez 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@_Heroar blessings brother Melek.

  • @JH-qy8no
    @JH-qy8no 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I am 29yrs old and have only been on one date. God disciplined me by allowing feelings to happen and leading me to engage in conversation only to take it away Before it ever got going. I am thankful. A decade of singleness now and still going, I actually have learned how to be content with out a woman. It's been hard and lonely at times but I have grown to appreciate simple conversation with women. A conversation with a n attractive young woman is soothing to my soul. Also I have found that being vulnerable with women is therapy for lonliness.

    • @cammile26
      @cammile26 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I appreciate your honesty. Sometimes it’s hard to know if men have the same feelings about threes things.

    • @1.40am
      @1.40am 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't think that's how God operates, That's not how He disciplines and we get feelings on our own when we choose to let feelings take root/ stay. God does not tempt nor can He be tempted I believe that the same logic can be applied here.

    • @CarlosPerez-nt5md
      @CarlosPerez-nt5md 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@1.40am nope, temptations is about sin, a love deception is not sinful in nature, so it does not applies

    • @1.40am
      @1.40am 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CarlosPerez-nt5md Love deception?!? So are you implying that God deceived him??

    • @101runaways
      @101runaways 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know exactly how you feel. Im turning 29 in a few months, never been in a relationship. Its been very very hard! I had a prospect for the first time in my life this year, he fizzled out and vanished. I really want out of my very very very long season of singleness, I want it to be over so badly.

  • @MouseCrusader
    @MouseCrusader 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    the timing of this video is a bit freaky, but I accept it, lol. thank you mark for allowing the holy spirit to use you!

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm so glad the Lord used this to speak to you!

    • @marilynmonrae2810
      @marilynmonrae2810 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know right 🙆🏾‍♀️

    • @chazmology
      @chazmology 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Holy Spirit Leads to Sharing 'All the words of this life"...in Christ...THE FOCUS...not to get laid

    • @MouseCrusader
      @MouseCrusader 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@chazmology ?? elaborate please

    • @chazmology
      @chazmology 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MouseCrusader I'll pop out a quick video later on the subject...for now..Acts 8: 26 And the angel of the Lord spake unto Philip, saying, Arise, and go toward the south unto the way that goeth down from Jerusalem unto Gaza, which is desert.
      27 And he arose and went: and, behold, a man of Ethiopia, an eunuch of great authority under Candace queen of the Ethiopians, who had the charge of all her treasure, and had come to Jerusalem for to worship,
      28 Was returning, and sitting in his chariot read Esaias the prophet.
      29 Then the Spirit said unto Philip, Go near, and join thyself to this chariot.
      30 And Philip ran thither to him, and heard him read the prophet Esaias, and said, Understandest thou what thou readest?
      31 And he said, How can I, except some man should guide me? And he desired Philip that he would come up and sit with him....Psalm 143:10
      Teach me to do Your will, For You are my God; Let Your good Spirit lead me on level ground.
      Romans 8:14
      For all who are being led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God.
      Galatians 5:18
      But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the Law...
      Ezekiel 37:1
      The hand of the LORD was upon me, and He brought me out by the Spirit of the LORD and set me down in the middle of the valley; and it was full of bones.
      Matthew 4:1
      Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil.
      Mark 1:12
      Immediately the Spirit impelled Him to go out into the wilderness. Just teasing...lol...Lord is with you...Thanks

  • @shanellewarner6873
    @shanellewarner6873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    You always make video at the perfect time I need advice

    • @tylerbouck3555
      @tylerbouck3555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sweetheart take off the dog stuff. They want us to degrade ourselves in many ways. Be proud to be you and reject this world. I mean no offense and may the good Lord Jesus be with you! Amen.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm so glad it was timely for you Shanelle!

    • @kennethdaniels9194
      @kennethdaniels9194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey

    • @lauralogue602
      @lauralogue602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@tylerbouck3555, it's a filter on an app and it's just for fun. She's not degrading herself.

    • @johnjesusiskingofkings1770
      @johnjesusiskingofkings1770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lauralogue602 People do many things just for fun and satan would prefer it that way. It may seem innocent, but it is not.

  • @spectrumwarrior9560
    @spectrumwarrior9560 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I ain't datin nooobody till they talk to daddy first. upstairs daddy not earth dad hahah!

  • @gabriela6568
    @gabriela6568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Father God, please help me with Richard, its two months into the relationship, and already engagement is on the subject, please help me with signs that Richard is the right person. I trust you Lord. Amen

    • @gabriela6568
      @gabriela6568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @DON'T PANIC Thank you for your message. God will show me signs, if he is the right one for me, I'm not worried. I am just surprised how soon into the relationship, popping the question before year end, moving in together next year, I believe if it's meant to be, God will guide me/us.

    • @mikevictor5945
      @mikevictor5945 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He will be a blessed man! I've been dating a woman 4 7 years can't even tell her I love her it kills me. I would of asked her 6 years ago. I am praying 4 awnsers to.

    • @gabriela6568
      @gabriela6568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mikevictor5945 Thank you for your message, involve God in your relationship, you will see how things will change for the best for the both of you, dont give up, keep asking God for guidance.

    • @gabriela6568
      @gabriela6568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@owenhas9029 Thank you, I came to find out he is a compulsive liar😢

  • @lauralogue602
    @lauralogue602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Very timely for me as well, Mark! My long time friend and I just started dating/courting, so now I'm on your channel checking out all the of the "next step" videos.

  • @bprathe3205
    @bprathe3205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    One of your best yet Mark. Thank you. I’m the guarded one.

  • @405boy4
    @405boy4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Great spiritual advice man. I'll take all this with me going forward 👌☝️

  • @melr6235
    @melr6235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow on time as usual. Thank you lord for using my brother to deliver these messages on time!

  • @alex2stan76
    @alex2stan76 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mark ,you are a wise man blessed by God, thank you and hello to you from Czech Rep.Europe.

  • @mandauefoama8845
    @mandauefoama8845 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was able to understand now that each season has its own phase and so I should not rush. This has been helpful!

  • @dylanberto9387
    @dylanberto9387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    God always has perfect timing

  • @joshuarichard5399
    @joshuarichard5399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you bro !! Im in a phase to open doors for new relationship.. i was asking god to let me meet some one special, I was praying about it in church today... i came home and I came across your video!! God bless you and help you to make more eye opener videos.!!

  • @esthersaintil111
    @esthersaintil111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    The timing of this video is so on point also amazing video btw 👌💥

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm so glad it was helpful and timely Esther! God bless :)

    • @esthersaintil111
      @esthersaintil111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger yes indeed it is,God bless you 🙏😊

    • @rebeccagreen9240
      @rebeccagreen9240 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger very timely for me as well ty

  • @sirenamontreala.k.aelibatt4699
    @sirenamontreala.k.aelibatt4699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video is so timely Thank you and God bless 😊

  • @antoinettejim5150
    @antoinettejim5150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Amen 🙏. Lord your will be done in my life. personally I get decieved by my own judgement.

  • @LivingForCHRISTJESUSTv
    @LivingForCHRISTJESUSTv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    God bless you Bro Mark. Indeed it's good to ask GOD before moving into any relationship. If we involve GOD in our relationship we won't make mistake choosing the wrong partner. May GOD increased your wisdom in JESUS CHRIST name. Amen

  • @tylerbouck3555
    @tylerbouck3555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    God bless you in our Lord Jesus' name! Amen. This helps us single people in these trying times. As I'm sure you know it's hard out here. Thanks again my brother.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My pleasure! I'm glad you found this helpful!

    • @tylerbouck3555
      @tylerbouck3555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger I'm always very cautious when it comes to any spiritual advice but I always know when it comes from God. You sir so far are batting 1000. Haha thanks again.

  • @hubcam210
    @hubcam210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God's truth resonates in ones soul!

  • @pratibhaekka9826
    @pratibhaekka9826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very helpful talk!... after season of sincere preparation.... I am going to be in season of dating someone... keep me in prayers!!

  • @chandyaguilar6286
    @chandyaguilar6286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this! 🙌🏻🙏🏻
    God bless you. 🙏🏻

  • @cozieyoongi1621
    @cozieyoongi1621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As always, a greatly needed video 🙏🏻

  • @justglowlexi
    @justglowlexi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another great vid, so timely and so on point!! Thank you!!!!

  • @dilailahkawane8458
    @dilailahkawane8458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for your wise words. God bless you.

  • @exposingproxystalkingorgan4164
    @exposingproxystalkingorgan4164 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you to all of you life, relationship coaches, advisors. All of you are heroes educating the ignorant masses.

  • @amberpalmer444
    @amberpalmer444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    God reveals to me about my fiance by giving me dreams. He's revealed the perfect wedding, he's revealed 2 beautiful fraternal twins, he's revealed us in heaven and paradise. He tells me to be patient with him and to stop rushing him. All things will take place in their appointed times.

    • @chuppets77able
      @chuppets77able 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I know that many on here probably won't believe you or will tell you to stop dreaming, but I believe you. You just be patient now and wait on God's leading AND timing.

    • @gabbyshantous8149
      @gabbyshantous8149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I would fast and pray for confirmation. I heard having dreams of marriages are symbolic for spirit spouses.

    • @camerongage1237
      @camerongage1237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your dreams sound nice but your expectations have to be grounded in reality.

    • @cathaaaa7236
      @cathaaaa7236 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gabbyshantous8149 spirit spouses? It's the second time I've heard of that today.

    • @dominiccorbi5761
      @dominiccorbi5761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope God answered your prayer.

  • @jakieyondo7867
    @jakieyondo7867 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the message iam single bt I know God times is the best

  • @deannenorth5528
    @deannenorth5528 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤❤❤ this!!

  • @danicanz9245
    @danicanz9245 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is indeed helpful! Thanks, Mark!

  • @monicareyes9032
    @monicareyes9032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    very Good Stuff Thank you Jesus💜

  • @natashabeatrice3127
    @natashabeatrice3127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh woow woow thanks for the videos pastor God bless u indeed becoz u have really made me strong somewhere let to say in the spirit.

  • @parksmuscletruckgarage1073
    @parksmuscletruckgarage1073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The video was amazing and I fully agree. I was in the situation were I wasn’t sure if God wanted me to date a person. I prayed a lot and finally asked her out. Later on I found out we had both been praying for one another for and for guidance if we should date. That’s what I thought was different about all the other girls I’ve ever met.

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is a really good teaching. Thanks for sharing. God bless you. ❤❤❤

  • @EsthelaCindyy
    @EsthelaCindyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Perfect 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @mailenereyes8488
    @mailenereyes8488 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen pastor Mark, absolutely what you have shared is very true, thank God for using u in dis ministry of yours, I, m learning. a lot, God bles u n ur whole family as well pastor

  • @jeniferjones8996
    @jeniferjones8996 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    After watching your videos it makes me see things differently in my life and wished I had watched your videos a lot sooner

  • @elainejoycef
    @elainejoycef 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very helpful! Thanks for the video!

  • @starseedstarseed311
    @starseedstarseed311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It s been a while that I dont know what to do anymore in relationships. And time passes and so does youth waiting from God the Godly Man. And noone comes. Feeling pointless 😥

    • @pearlg3468
      @pearlg3468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dont lose hope, keep praying for your Godly man you are not alone. Its hard to wait I know especially as you get older I can tell you that I know how you feel cause that is my story too. Dont lose faith just keep praying and trust in the Lord that He will give you that desire of your heart according to his good and perfect will.

    • @traquilasmith831
      @traquilasmith831 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pearlg3468 so true Amen.

  • @LOVEundLEADERSHIP
    @LOVEundLEADERSHIP 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Mark, that was really helpful! 💒🙏🏻

  • @ilkasanchez6896
    @ilkasanchez6896 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Mark!

  • @krisru9484
    @krisru9484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the video :)

  • @ameshabhoodoo5645
    @ameshabhoodoo5645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U always post at the right time love your videos

  • @trudyjoseph5656
    @trudyjoseph5656 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. This really helped

  • @norbertomilan1906
    @norbertomilan1906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I have schizophrenia ir makes me nervous to date because I'm afraid of getting turn down because of my illness

    • @yever4635
      @yever4635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      If you have this fear Norberto you should bring it to God in prayer and ask him for wisdom and courage to date someone if he arranges it. If he did present someone to you, you can't be afraid to take action. Again, you'll need to only act in his timing, but he didn't give us a spirit of fear. People can be very nasty, but God knows your heart. Keep trusting him.

    • @rosarioorta9026
      @rosarioorta9026 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I wull be praying for you.
      It will take a special person to understand you and your illness as well.
      Pray that the Lord brings you exactly what you need in your life.
      Learn to love yourselve with your own defects and the virtues that you have. And then you will be able to love others.

    • @DukeNukenum
      @DukeNukenum 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I have shizoaffective disorder. Bipolar and schizophrenia. I know how it feels dude. Keep your head up, stay in prayer.

    • @drubesrubio
      @drubesrubio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was diagnosed with schizophrenia in 2011 and I know what you mean... had the same thought. But what I am finding out is that if a person can't except you for who you are and the struggles you are going through they are not true friends. And if a woman can't except you cause you tell her you are going through this illness she is not the one God has for you... but you dont have to go around telling people you have this illness, only if God move to. Of course also pray for healing and deliverance. Sometimes it seems impossible, I know. But with God nothing is impossible. God bless you my friend

    • @lotedo1633
      @lotedo1633 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You will never get turned down, when you meet the one God has prepared for you. ☺ Be strong and keep your faith. ☺

  • @brightyjohnraj6129
    @brightyjohnraj6129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u Mark

  • @jazminRodiguez78
    @jazminRodiguez78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thanks for sharing this...it helps a lot

  • @kymjandy3985
    @kymjandy3985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you very much ... Brother
    For this video...all the video that u share...it was all helpful to Me...

  • @t.calhoun8765
    @t.calhoun8765 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That first couple looks great! ❤

  • @oldskoolgypsy9204
    @oldskoolgypsy9204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you God bless always 💛💐

  • @Gg-rssystG8
    @Gg-rssystG8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen thank you.

  • @ellennghihepa9067
    @ellennghihepa9067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This has helped me alot to make a decision I'm struggling with..

  • @DailynD21
    @DailynD21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Praying 🙏

  • @sychaellawinger5448
    @sychaellawinger5448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The question is does God even want people to date? I like the wisdom though in general. Sometimes things are clouded by cultural assumptions of ways we’re supposed to live (lifestyle).

  • @adrianegriffin1031
    @adrianegriffin1031 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you🙏

  • @virginiathornton8480
    @virginiathornton8480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amén!

  • @ryuhfreeman5361
    @ryuhfreeman5361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Biblical motives and good intentions before dating ! 😍😌

  • @coriwilliams1983
    @coriwilliams1983 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was good

  • @19stylzbybree83
    @19stylzbybree83 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you I needed this

    • @user-ky3np1sh5m
      @user-ky3np1sh5m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      O'Breda Creative Stylesbybre Winston I feel the main reason people end up with a Narcissist partner is being skeptical about running a background check-up on who they’re dealing with. My worst experience was discovering my 8 years husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cell phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram and text messages both deleted and incoming ones without having to touch his phone. Contact him, he’s a Genius!( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later

    • @19stylzbybree83
      @19stylzbybree83 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-ky3np1sh5m lol thanks maybe I will 😉🌌🌌

  • @ridimapinto5500
    @ridimapinto5500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is a lovely, informative video. However, all the elders in my family were married to people that others chose for them, i.e. arranged marriage. They never had any dating process and not even friendship.... Just marriage!! But their marriages have been rock solid. What would you advice about this?

  • @kingdavid772
    @kingdavid772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    You’ll never find the perfect man/woman

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Nope, no one is perfect but a grace filled relationship is possible

    • @kingdavid772
      @kingdavid772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger I’ll have me some of that 👍🏻

    • @josephinetalia6570
      @josephinetalia6570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Why our God is able He will bring the best for us

    • @tammymarie5996
      @tammymarie5996 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True! Just perfect for me🙏😉❤💃

    • @Robert-hr6sh
      @Robert-hr6sh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because no man or woman is perfect....we are all born of sin. The Only one perfect, gave his life so we will have life.

  • @thebluegreengoose
    @thebluegreengoose 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Been married some 340/10 years. Some good here that applies outside of this general subject or title.

  • @affermationslockett4262
    @affermationslockett4262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Mark, today I found your channel and I believe you have some solid Godly insight. I was looking up a verse you quoted and found the last verse you referred to (Prov 20:25) in the video is found Prov 20:17 and Maybe this was just a typo? but I plan to continue watching your channel for your knowledge and inspiration. God bless.

  • @horschiday9449
    @horschiday9449 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU JESUS 🙏

  • @beadolo7291
    @beadolo7291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In the video at the 7:45 mark you stated that “bread gained by deceit is sweet to a man, but afterward his truth will be full of gravel.” I was following along in my Bible with the verses and that isn’t found in proverbs 20:25. Proverbs 20:25 was stated correctly when it first came up in the video which was “It is a trap to dedicate something rashly and only later to consider ones vows.” I’m just making sure I was following along right.

  • @silentecho4445
    @silentecho4445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ###1is the one im having trouble with, i don't like to say im a Christian cuz i still smoke cigarettes, it blocks God's guidance...thnkyou

  • @DevotedDee
    @DevotedDee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video was right on time.

  • @billieabbott8320
    @billieabbott8320 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Truth

  • @yessicaprofeta3032
    @yessicaprofeta3032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen🙌

    • @user-ky3np1sh5m
      @user-ky3np1sh5m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      shalom yp profeta prophet I feel the main reason people end up with a Narcissist partner is being skeptical about running a background check-up on who they’re dealing with. My worst experience was discovering my 8 years husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cell phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram and text messages both deleted and incoming ones without having to touch his phone. Contact him, he’s a Genius!( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later

  • @dannymeyer3256
    @dannymeyer3256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was praying about this yet I haven’t dated this person.

  • @Pandoragmys
    @Pandoragmys 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Came at a good time got tempted to try out the shake function but that would mean emotional infidelity. Sorry Jesus and person Im dating right now. Yes I should strive to live an authentic life. God has entrusted his son and heart to me and I should protect it, treasure it and bring glory to His name. Pray for me brothers and sisters in Christ

  • @jordanfogarty1015
    @jordanfogarty1015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Still praying for my one to appear

  • @undeniablecrown6880
    @undeniablecrown6880 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is 🔥🔥🔥
    THANK YOU! For the confirmation that I was doing things according to the will of God and asking the right questions!
    Especially the last point! I feel like that’s where God had to intervene to save the relationship /friendship! (God told the guy that he needs to stop pursuing me so I could heal properly from past hurts)
    However it was a great video that gave me confirmation from previous experiences and direction for what’s next 😬

  • @ashleigh_be_crazysur4181
    @ashleigh_be_crazysur4181 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you God Thankyou for everything you have done for me God love you so much thankyou for always helping me with my problems you are truly a blessing God and thankyou so much for sending this video thankyou so much I love these small quotes you send me about life and or about how much you love everyone I love them and about relationships about love with a man quotes about how you love everyone so much you want us to follow you ♥️ I love you God and In Jesus Name We Pray Amennnn🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️✝️🛐☦️

  • @chereewales1680
    @chereewales1680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Waiting waiting waiting

  • @kremchreb9109
    @kremchreb9109 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im waiting Christian man and i trust in God thank 😊

  • @thanamesny7807
    @thanamesny7807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First!

  • @forevergrateful9561
    @forevergrateful9561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    True everything needs a process i have a sad testimony but it was a good for my part.Im a christian lady but suddenly i fall inlove not love to someone whom i really dont know we dated i answer him as my boyfriend for many months while we knew each other i tought he is the one i prayed so much but everything turns unwell .....I tried my part to understand but at the end of it we still broke up upon broken up he got another girl 2weeks after our broke up and that girl is a friend of mine i dont want to be bitter i want this chance to become better i know God still guide me in everything coming up into my life .....for now im still on the process of healing .....thats why dont rush into love wait for that true love.

    • @user-ky3np1sh5m
      @user-ky3np1sh5m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      victorious winner I feel the main reason people end up with a Narcissist partner is being skeptical about running a background check-up on who they’re dealing with. My worst experience was discovering my 8 years husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cell phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram and text messages both deleted and incoming ones without having to touch his phone. Contact him, he’s a Genius!( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later

    • @forevergrateful9561
      @forevergrateful9561 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-ky3np1sh5m no need i never do that its not a matter anymore i release my Blessing to them and theres every reason behind every happenings in our life

  • @charms_03
    @charms_03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    how to recognize if the answer is from God or just my inner voice?

    • @davedowden
      @davedowden 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Charm dlr - ask for physical confirmation maybe. use creation, the Lord uses birds with me :) x God bless you x

    • @13DIAMINDZ13
      @13DIAMINDZ13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Strengthen your relationship with God and the voice will become more clear

    • @davedowden
      @davedowden 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      13DIAMINDZ13 - bro. Listen to your own advice and hear God command you to take down your display pic. (turn from porno also maybe?) please.. x :/

    • @MrAcer4
      @MrAcer4 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davedowden Amen!!

  • @lieswandiarti
    @lieswandiarti 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Could you make a video about how to prepare ourself until the time comes?
    In relationship, in works or anything..
    Thank you..God bless😀

    • @carlamoore3474
      @carlamoore3474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seek ye first the Kingdom of God

  • @duvivier67
    @duvivier67 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi a question being what happens with a long distance relationship?

  • @justaguitarplayer2059
    @justaguitarplayer2059 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good video. As an American , I’d like to just move to a homestead and forget about all of this ….American women are for the streets …but I get distracted when a girl gives me their number…..waste of time. Get your passport!

  • @andrewwritesel1585
    @andrewwritesel1585 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mark, is the relationship school still up for grabs?

  • @josephmeade9595
    @josephmeade9595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Trying to sort through the thoughts in my mind is becoming a tiresome and difficult process... It seems that every time I answer one question I get three more in my mind. God will bring me through this complex time, I’m sure. Please pray for me in my time of confusion!

  • @jonmatherly4155
    @jonmatherly4155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One thing I have learned is to pray what Jesus prayed, Father if this cup is not for me, take it away. If this cup is for me. I will drink it. Let your will be done, and not my will. Every time God has removed that woman from me.

  • @thecitygunfightx
    @thecitygunfightx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this video implies that I can just go to Walmart and pick up a significant other to test on, like the latest tv. I'm confused.

  • @Quntah888
    @Quntah888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How do you get out the friend zone? My best friend and I both think we would be a great couple.. but we don’t know how to view each other in a different way even though there’s definitely chemistry.
    If we wouldn’t have been Christians the simplest way would be to kiss each other but we both know that’s not the way to go as Christians