this video made me laugh so many times! they were nostalgia laughs! I so remember thinking and feeling all of this. in retrospect it was all very overwhelming. it won't feel like this forever.
Hey man, did you talk to your doc about stopping the anti-anxiety meds (if they were the ones who prescribed them)? Might be a bit late now, but sometimes docs like to taper you off dosage-wise so you don't get hit hard with the side effects from going cold turkey.
hahaha. love your comment about all of the "bro" ing going on and giggling you do. I think you're probably right that male privilege plays a role in being heard more easily when stating opinions. Though I definitely have to say that you seem more confident and happy with yourself. So happy for you! Its amazing how much body language supposedly communicates gender identity.... I say, do whatever is most comfortable for you and don't be bothered with all of the gender stereotypes of what it means to be masculine.
i don't feel comfortable when ppl say "oh, but that person doesn't even look like a trans/person" etc. I feel like "well what DOES look like a transgender then? There's no such thing like that." It makes me very uncomfortable. People should be really careful with what they're saying. I'm very happy for you. You should feel proud you're passing so good! but I also know the struggle. With relationships etc ugh. Same. It's hard fitting into the "male box" when you're near ppl who think you're cis. Idk.
I liked the video and that stuff of fitting in the male or female is always a problem. It's like if you don't do these things who only do girls or guys you are weird. I have been thinking about for so long i don't even know what i say. Sometimes i would like to be a guy and sometimes a girl haha it would be great to have some power to switch bodies haha :) And the thing they respect men more is SO true. It's like i have to scream to be heard.
Sounds like trying to educate whilst appearing cis dude is the best thing you can do right now to keep yourself safe. Hope it all gets easier. Keep on hugging! Let's show those guys what real men do ;-)
Sounds like trying to educate whilst appearing cis dude is the best thing you can do right now to keep yourself safe. Hope it all gets easier. Keep on hugging! Let's show those guys what real men do ;-)
Happy for you! I think it will take some time to fit in this new character and the new life, so take it easy and slow down your step.
this video made me laugh so many times! they were nostalgia laughs! I so remember thinking and feeling all of this. in retrospect it was all very overwhelming. it won't feel like this forever.
"i'd rather hug it out, but thats homosexual apparently" lol tinggg i miss you
Hey man, did you talk to your doc about stopping the anti-anxiety meds (if they were the ones who prescribed them)? Might be a bit late now, but sometimes docs like to taper you off dosage-wise so you don't get hit hard with the side effects from going cold turkey.
hahaha. love your comment about all of the "bro" ing going on and giggling you do.
I think you're probably right that male privilege plays a role in being heard more easily when stating opinions. Though I definitely have to say that you seem more confident and happy with yourself. So happy for you!
Its amazing how much body language supposedly communicates gender identity.... I say, do whatever is most comfortable for you and don't be bothered with all of the gender stereotypes of what it means to be masculine.
i don't feel comfortable when ppl say "oh, but that person doesn't even look like a trans/person" etc. I feel like "well what DOES look like a transgender then? There's no such thing like that." It makes me very uncomfortable. People should be really careful with what they're saying. I'm very happy for you. You should feel proud you're passing so good! but I also know the struggle. With relationships etc ugh. Same. It's hard fitting into the "male box" when you're near ppl who think you're cis. Idk.
what's the cream that they use to grow a beard?
It is called Minoxidil, you can find it on Amazon ;)
TRANSGENDERISMNESS
I liked the video and that stuff of fitting in the male or female is always a problem. It's like if you don't do these things who only do girls or guys you are weird. I have been thinking about for so long i don't even know what i say. Sometimes i would like to be a guy and sometimes a girl haha it would be great to have some power to switch bodies haha :) And the thing they respect men more is SO true. It's like i have to scream to be heard.
Sounds like trying to educate whilst appearing cis dude is the best thing you can do right now to keep yourself safe. Hope it all gets easier. Keep on hugging! Let's show those guys what real men do ;-)
Sounds like trying to educate whilst appearing cis dude is the best thing you can do right now to keep yourself safe. Hope it all gets easier. Keep on hugging! Let's show those guys what real men do ;-)