Narcissist Destroys You Through Divorce

[@tarey05]

It's deeply unjustified pain and torment at every stage, especially while divorcing. They take every scrap. 😢

[@leirra3634]

Hugs yes yes they do

[@ladiebugs]

Yes they do.

[@mimimckenna7286]

And refuse to pay child support

[@leirra3634]

@@mimimckenna7286 facts

[@gracec1665]

Narcissist do get what they deserve!! Whatever my ex narcissist wrongly compained to others about me, he got it with the one he cheated on me with. He married her 8 years after we broke up! He doesn't like children, but she had a 5 year old son! 😅 So now, at his older age, he had to start parenting all over again! That's too funny! I asked for NOTHING from him, yet we lost it all because he wanted to be with her at any costs. He got his wish! He ended up getting his paycheck garnished to payoff debts on the house we lost, he also had to file for bankruptcy and lost all his credit. But, he got the girl that he wanted! And, I got PEACE!!🎉 I won!

[@sylviafernandes8818]

Good luck to you. Stay peacefully, stay blessed.

[@Southernly]

This happened to me. Everything in this video happened exactly. He knew from the start, and now that I look back on events, I grieve ever knowing him.

[@janetkendle2073]

I feel the same way.

[@SusKa22]

There is No justice for the Victum. People don’t understand this. And that is the most painfull part. 😢

[@junemelodystewart2476]

They need to be sued for the abuse!

[@FeatherWolfGraphicDesign]

That is the total truth! I lost everything. My home, my possessions, my pets i loved, my good credit.... I was basically at 68yrs erased. Rebuilding when you are younger is not as hard but as a senior citizen? He in the last 2.5 yrs managed to find himself a younger dumber new piggybank and even got himself a nice home in Texas. After destroying all my dreams. And this was the second time in my life this happened to me. Lost everything after 19 yrs divorcing a alcoholuc abusive narc. Then this last on 22yrs with a far sneakier narc. Erased for the second time. Sometimes knowledge comes far too late in life. A very costly education indeed.

[@aishwaryaparthasarathy349]

Oh goodness..god bless you ❤

[@dct1238]

Hugs, sorry 😢🙏

[@corasteidinger9594]

Material possessions can be replaced.. Your heart, health and Soul is irreplaceable..
Karma will be served upon them . Children grow up and see the truth. Better to have your sanity than live in hellish environment.

[@rosieE121]

Adult children may see the truth or may not. It is not just the spouse who is victimized by the narcissist, it is as often the children, but they are helpless to defend themselves. When they see the parent who cares losing in court it tells them that caring is not such a good thing. Then feeling safe is harder. They often give in to the uncaring parent as a reaction to threats against the parent who cares for them. More help is needed psychologically in divorce, and court should not hide it as it usually does.

[@leirra3634]

Children may see it however the narcissist will always spin it on you. My girls are all about their narcissist dad. I still hear things like I probably did something to make.him cheat or beat me! This guy knew his step dad was molesting my girls he got a court order allowing the kids to see his step dad my daughters confronted him recently and asked him why he made them see his step dad he said it was your mother's idea. I told them head to the court house and pull up the records they won't. So the whole truth always comes out in the end only way that happens is someone has to tell it and someone has to listen

[@rosieE121]

@@leirra3634 yes, they don't hesitate to lie to the children to support their sgenda.

[@Philly_girl]

He took everything from me during our marriage. There is literally nothing left for him to take in divorce.

[@abhinaviyer8958]

2 Timothy 3:1 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. 3:2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, (narcissistic people) covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3:3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 3:4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; 3:5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.

[@valeriealexander4856]

So many people are in these relationships. Modern culture promotes this entitlement notion and narcissistic personalities feast on it.

[@jodiburnett6211]

Narcissists have goals.
Take The Money And RUN!

[@justjen2591]

True, but that's okay. I am divorcing a covert, malignant, psychopath narcissist. I escaped with my life and God is watching his every move. I am safe and healing now and moved many miles away. He will reap what he sows. He also was involved in criminal behavior so .....we shall see. Thank you Danish.

[@joyful_tanya]

Wonderful. Congratulations on your escape. Prayers of protection around you.

[@sylviafernandes8818]

Good luck to you on starting afresh. Heal, recover & stay blessed.

[@wms72]

Mine was involved in criminal behavior, too. Waiting for the wheels of justice to turn

[@joyful_tanya]

@@wms72 *sarcasm incoming*
Didn't you know the rules don't apply to them?!
I hope the wheels turn in your favor. (That part wasn't sarcasm)
Much love and prayers for your healing.

[@peacefulself7848]

I thank GOD that he rescued me from the most dangerous human being ever possible which was my soon-to-be-ex-husband! However GOD is and was my defender in the divorce court process and the covert narcissist was not able to steal from me! His demonic ways were clear to see and the judges were not blind to his intentions.🙌

[@nailuna2021]

We had to go to a domestic violence shelter. We were homeless for several months but it was still better than living with them. It's worth the sacrifice.

[@jilll4649]

These resources weren’t available when I went through mine. What you teach is true. These people don’t have a conscience. They are only interested in getting what they want. They aren’t on your team.
Honesty and integrity mean nothing to them. Their image is important. You may be at a disadvantage dealing with them but they will never have peace.
Focus on taking great care of yourself.

[@AnnNjeri-sp1re]

True

[@RakeshKanakapura-hn5lm]

So true man, am finally out of a 3 year zero intimacy relationship with a seductive narcissist, thanks to videos like yours for spreading awareness. If it’s a female narcissist everyone specifically in India supports her, I needed so much from within to get out of this 😂
It was like going through toughest education in the world, I don’t think I would learnt so much doing phd

[@lynlinkous3829]

After 23 years it still heals me to hear your words. It’s as if you’re driving the final nails into the coffin of this past relationship and its pain. Thank you so very much. I wish you joy and blessings for your kind and healing words.

[@mukttamahajan524]

So true
Presently going through this and from last 4 years

[@leirra3634]

Hugs

[@aishwaryaparthasarathy349]

Me too 5.5 years..i pray that I make up my mind to leave s npd husband...don't know y I'm stuck when im working n without kids

[@leirra3634]

@@aishwaryaparthasarathy349 I wish you the best!! As someone that was with more than one narcissist I can tell you what helped me. I had kids and no job it took finding a life insurance policy for the amount of the house we just bought to wake me up! Actually credit to my grandfather for tell me to call after my then husband told me it wasn't valid. He even had a story to tell people when I disappeared. So with that said I had to leave what kept me from going back was finally after 13 years of abuse I wrote a list of reasons to never go back to him. Our mind plays tricks on us . Who will want us? I'm older now maybe they are right maybe I'm the problem! Maybe if I try harder ? I made it this long maybe I can make it x more years? It wasn't until I wrote things down that all the " good times " I thought we had weren't my girls were abused and my pets I lost every thing! However I kept going and I still keep going. People will always bring you down don't allow them to keep you there. You have to reach you that's enough point! And also write everything down it really becomes an eye opener wish you the best

[@teresitaekim2565]

The narcissist can not destroy me through divorce. I will go and celebrate the day he leaves.

[@opheliahermosillo8420]

Omg 17 years of my marriage was all a lord am traumatize 😢help me lord am Turing over my life to god this man is very wicked good luck to the next supplies

[@aishwaryaparthasarathy349]

Omg god bless u❤

[@SJ-po5fg]

I hope this may encourage. As Christians we are looking for the return of Messiah Yeshua- Jesus Christ. We were warned that there will be times like these and it will increase (lawlessness will abound). There are signs in the stars (revelation 12 sign in the Bible in September). Justice is coming. Leave it to the righteous Judge. If you repent and turn from sins and focus on Him, He will provide healing and believe in His promises- read the Gospel and hear the Word of God 🕊 He died for everyone and wants everyone to come into His kingdom. He was crucified, died and was buried and rose on the third day and judges the living and dead and He is returning soon. I hope this can plant a seed for hurting people. Peace and blessings!

[@elliewegman1846]

So so true. Not a cent of matrimonial property, no child support.

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

U must be the major breadwinner

[@jackieyesudas2571]

This is so true. The justice system does not know….what we know. So it’s fighting a losing battle in court. Been through this.

[@anitahancock6142]

💯 beforehand, he threatened to take custody of our son and held over my head to keep me in fear and saying I was unfit for trying to attempt suicide over his abuse when I got to point I couldn't take it anymore. When I divorced him after finding out about his affair after him accusing me of cheating all them years, he got a lawyer and was trying to fight me for custody. He has continously had smear campaigns about me with his new supply and family, tried to get me to come back and punish/silent treatment my son for speaking up about what he has witnessed in his time with his dad when he would pick him up on rare occasions.

[@Pass12380]

Yess, they take everything

[@nailuna2021]

God is the best of the Planners.

[@bugs1089]

So, so true... I'm currently going through this... It's so hard, and life draining going through this divorce... My heart is broken, because I am losing the house, and my step children that I love as my own... I'm losing everything and everyone, while she goes on with everything 😢

[@naturalgalontheprowl4451]

You’re not losing everything… you’re finding/gaining you again. You’ve always had everything - keep moving forward, one step at a time. It gets so much better😉

[@bugs1089]

@@naturalgalontheprowl4451 Thank you for your words of encouragement 💙

[@yvettemprimus8665]

It's true. Sometimes you don't know who you were married to until you divorce them.

[@sprankels1]

I Totally agree. they wont admit it but in the back of their mind they are planning how to injure and destroy.

[@rosieE121]

You are so right about these things. I can see it was planned all along.

[@laviarun1010]

This video made me cry 😭. Am facing exactly this only right now 😢. He destroyed my happiness and my daughter's future 😢. But i ll never leave him, i have enough evidence to destroy him.

[@direstraights]

...and then they die ..leaving confusion in their wake.. sickening...ughhh

[@SoulfulSerenades-SS]

Exactly you Narrated my entire story in this video

[@junesherlock425]

The most difficult part of divorce is GREIF

[@radhika.gumber]

This is so damn true!!!

[@mariyafrancis4465]

In every condition this is not true. I got divorced fom npd within 6months. I got alimony from court, and he lost his job because of criminal case I filed. You have to make audio and video proof of what they are saying and the situations so that you can submit it in court

[@nidahumayun5390]

What criminal case did you filed and also guide me about the audio and video recordings. Thanks

[@gloriavis]

Its true. Better to be alone.

[@barringtoncareysmith]

Yes this is a basic truth of these people, if only I had known... I used to hear I'm gonna leave you after an argument. So when someone tell you who they are believe them!!! When all was done I felt like a battle casuality 😅

[@Goofygoose494]

Walked this path 8yrs on still ugly can't shake them off.
But the world doesn't stop...

[@Aratiii06]

I had to leave even without alimony just for mental peace as everyone else was convinced that he is an angel and I am a mental case .

[@zivaiva9777]

That is why I am not gonna divorce untill I feel it is time. We have 4 kids and I learned soooo much, I healed myself ❤️‍🩹and can navigate myself and the kids through wild waters of narcissism. I became Love with❤️‍🔥 the sword of justice in my hand.⚔️ And it all thanks to my heart 💖that leads and protects me. Bless you, Danish🙏. Stay strong, survivors💝.

[@cindygould1261]

Mine will not stop messing with my alimony which is less than I could have gotten but wanted out of his life more. I deserve every penny and know it drives him crazy to have to pay it and I truly enjoy that part. Have a great lawyer that allows me to never see or speak to him.

[@bernitacenteno1326]

Loosing your HOME is loosing your family and your abode.. That's even more traumatizing to ones spirit. You can get over it , eventually, loosing a HOUSE sometimes.

[@meetu2474]

My narc husband left house but he made sure my furniture ,TV,Air conditioners etc important gadgets , documents ,laptop all were so much destroyed so that I face all kinds of difficulties in actually l8ving in my own house

[@shardajhap299]

I destroyed the narcissist with a divorce

[@marybriddelle9347]

I believe different countries view it differently
In most of America its abuse
But in other countries women have no rights respect or individuality 😢😢😢

[@qeytmyok2473]

That is true 👍 especially in India (unless your family is educated live in a city and ofc have money💰💰💰

[@sylviafernandes8818]

So true

[@andrajohnson3748]

Oh god yes my husband got to make all the mistakes and I got told I was the dumb one who couldn't handle my life or money.

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Yes,especially when it comes to money.they don't listen

[@theinfinity4258]

Every word is true,

[@loyalityhonesty55]

Same story very true, my husband did all this, I have to beg for money, I'm house wife, I want to divorce I don't have much money for divorce, after going all sacrifice giving everything what I had, I loved truelly from heart n soul but they deudnt value never respect me, always blaming me for all. I'm waiting justice from God.

[@mimaid837]

Soooo true that it was the end 😢 of everything and ended up with nothing not even my child 😢

[@zoebiboei216]

Ur happiness is crippling to the narcissist!…

[@barringtoncareysmith]

Good bought me to Peace❤

[@nicholaskaralus1904]

The fact they are narcissist. I felt I won because I was okay. It wasn't real

[@kjsfl386]

Someday…they will get what they deserve. We may not be able to witness it…but the hammer of justice will fall.

[@susanblanche9684]

I ask my attorney and judge to have alimony and child support automatically deposited in my bank!! It was great not having to beg

[@MariaWestermeyer-hd3tg]

Thank you for this vid, still have to get the first step on it, at moment sitting with a health issue with me and might require surgery, so I have put tat step on hold, his behavior changed somewhat, very overcaring, and very so called supportive, it looks and feels genuine, whereas before he was very aloof distand cold and not so supportive, this had confused me but not thrown me of track, inside I do feel that he either worry about loosing his doormat or he is secretly happy🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️thank you

[@user-lm2vs1sl3v]

She ruined us with her spending. She will not apologise.

[@fluffytail6355]

I had to leave a city I loved because he was stalking me and would continue to do so. I left with most of the stuff - he took what could fit in his vehicle and what we mutually agreed upon. I had to start over in a different city where I knew no one but at least I got out alive and mostly unscathed.
After our divorce, he ended up with a criminal record and was homeless (bank took the house when he couldn’t pay), he was an alcoholic and lost his job. Lived on the mercy of his friends and their couches.
I definitely “won” even though it cost me a lot. My health and welfare was more important than any material items.

[@KC-sv8pp]

The burden of proof is upon ME! I have to accuse him with more proof than he would have to provide to fault me. He is a professional liar and scumbags. I am bound by truth, things I have kept records of and morals.

[@debra8883]

It would have been hellish, to be in court with him. There would not have been proof, in my favor.

[@lakishathomas3518]

I purchased my home before marriage, and during our divorce trial, my exhusband said, and I quote, “ I paid half the bills (barely) so that means that house is half mine”. Boy bye‼️ He tried 🤣 our divorce was finalized 7/2022. He has abandoned our child on that very day. I have NOT tried to contact him, my son is better off without him

[@twinmommy3189]

My narcissist a divorced me and still put me through hell!

[@colettepeyton2072]

I got divorced 14 years ago but my children came with me.And our cat.He got a lot of money and he gave me a smaller lump sum.But forgave him but don't need to keep in contact.❤

[@fionam3735]

💯 the ex narc his all the money etc I walked with nothing and he can’t even pay maintenance for his child. They are corrupt conmen that don’t think twice about criminal activity if it means they get what they want

[@gingerray2188]

My husband was a narcissist and was always threatening to leave me or divorce me. But he sure did like my bank account and relied on me for everything. I wasted 33 years of my life and when he died, I sighed a huge sigh of relief and it took me about a year to get over the toxic marriage and relationship and I'm better now but I wasted my life being married to a horrible narcissist.

[@debishouse1496]

Thank you to aware people as I personally didn't tell anyone what I faced ,my family was silent too .but after doing meditation I am able to protect myself .now I am thinking how can I save my daughter who is now new target .

[@margietimmons7400]

Yes that’s what I have been through I don’t care at this point I just want him gone it’s peaceful now you can’t buy peace

[@Latoree33]

My divorce with the narcissist. He went through the mail to get the divorce. He said if I fight for the house he would put the house in debt. Well it was already headed there. I raised his 4 children. He said I could have the youngest son after he claimed him on taxes.

[@micah24678]

Vengeance is the LORDS in the END. GOD put several narcissistic people I knew into their graves early; justice will be served in the lake of fire and brimstone with satan and his crew.

[@AhmadAhmad-tb9wy]

You made this world very hard with your thoughts. Just chill and enjoy your life. Forget about stress and tension thoughts 😂

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

What is so funny?

[@AhmadAhmad-tb9wy]

@@MattyNelson-rs3ik You're funny 🫢😉 any problem 😂🫢

[@sebastiangiovinco2871]

​@@MattyNelson-rs3ikhe's narcissist maybe

[@xenomas]

I gave her control of the marriage and she still divorced me. I will most likely won't take her back if her place burns down.

[@judyyates2763]

God protects

[@sebastiangiovinco2871]

at this point i dont really believe in god

[@judyyates2763]

@@sebastiangiovinco2871 ❤️

[@debra8883]

My Narc husband took the house the car and practically everything that I had prior to my marriage. He said.... that I could come back to pick up my furniture and things. But I felt that was a trick and he could physically hurt me or kill me. No Way.

[@mimimckenna7286]

We didn't know about these ppl yrs ago... Do your research before hand otherwise you will pay for the rest of your life.. that's NO EXAGGERATION either

[@francymurphy2887]

Wow’s that’s so true to my experience. He knew 😢

[@debra8883]

I had to settle out of court, meaning Mediation. He drove up costs. It was 9 and half hours, which was only supposed to be just 8 hours. It will probably cost nearly 10 thousands dollars at this point, but it could have cost 40 o50 thousand dollars to actually go to court for 3 separate days with 18 hours of court time. No worth it, according to my attorney.

[@heidiewing6566]

Imagine not knowing where the money or the sex ~love was for ten years and saving up to leave. Hiding everything from the little children's ears and eyes as best you can. Purchase the most expensive lawyer you can find. And that Lawyer from HELL doesn't file a single anything to start the ball rolling and after a year the judge drops the case. OH boyz.

[@unbreakablefemale]

I m dealing with this grief. I lost so many things. But most important money which he didn't return. I feel he didn't got what he did to me. 😢😢😢
But my parents things it's okay to lose the money than dealing with him in court

[@kikikoko607]

God will punish them in the afterlife! God only tests, whom He loves!

[@gazeup5655]

This is why I chose common law marriage not licensed marriage. U can still file taxes as married but if u break up u dont have to have the court ordering u where to live or that you must let the kids visit a dangerous father ❤

[@sandradavis4101]

Justice May get unserved according to this MATERIAL WORLD,….BUT THERE IS JUSTICE IN THE UNIVERSE🎶🦋 Called KARMA🎶🦋 And When you Least expect it ,…..you will find out,…….that True JUSTICE has been SERVED,……….

[@adamjanbar1116]

This guy amazing it's exactly what happened to me because I didn't want fight back she took the house full custody child support alimony I use to see the kids every week last week she send text massage saying you can't see the kids anymore call me and I'll explain why she said you make to much money for one person you need to pay more if you need to see the kids ever again when I said no she said ok blocked and she made the kids block me from there social media she evil woman really sick human

[@gaurs230]

Yea they horribly destroy you

[@user-ht7qo5fy6k]

Danish they not only destroy you in every way but your mental and psychological health takes a big hit as well. I mean, have you ever watched drama serial BALA? Where in very 1st episode, the MC asks her own sister in law to dress down for an occasion, as she wanted to be the CENTER OF ATTENTION in that environment herself? N she also snatches the thing that was looking best on her, her EARRINGS? So SHE COULD WEAR THOSE ON HERSELF SO SHE COULD LOOK BETTER? LIKE THOSE WERE HER TASTE.
ALSo a very red flag that gives them away is the UNDYING NEED/WANT of being center of attention in a given crowd. they want everyone to look up to them, serve them, ass kiss them like they r tge masters n everybody else is their servants. They want RESPECT N REGARD WITHOUT DUE HARD WORK N EARNING THAT CREDIBILITY..... they only act a certain way so the other people that really DESERVE something, usually GET DRPRIVED of something they deserved such as respect.
I mean if anyone has not DONE anything for the good of society ur own people, why wd anyone give them IDOLATION that they crave zo badly??? Why? The answer 2 this question, they dont ponder about.
I once had a boss, who was jealous cuz I was near to every one in the workplace, IF U WANT TO GET NEAR TO OTHER PEOPLE, u have to drop certain egoes n limitations, n sacrifice time, so she had to ruin my reputation so she could get near to others by using one if her bfs connections and she was married to another guy(n she s Muslim!) I was only nice to others n when I think about it, I only realize these kind of people can never be NICE to other humans in a TRUEST sense! As they lack not only MORALITY BUT HUMANITY AS WELL. every relation every connection is a business transaction to them.

[@joharahbintyunas5270]

وَلَا تَحۡسَبَنَّ ٱللَّهَ غَٰفِلًا عَمَّا يَعۡمَلُ ٱلظَّٰلِمُونَۚ إِنَّمَا يُؤَخِّرُهُمۡ لِيَوۡمٖ تَشۡخَصُ فِيهِ ٱلۡأَبۡصَٰرُ
Consider NOT that Allah is UNAWARE of that which the Zalimun (polytheists, wrong-doers, etc.) do, but He gives them Respite up to a Day when the Eyes will STARE in HORROR.
[Surah Ibrāhīm: 42]

[@anuradhatiwari4844]

Thank you so much for all your informations Sir..

[@erinchatelain2519]

My ex had my sister in court to testify against me..

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Sad

[@thebullwhisperer916]

My stepdad narc took photos from my mom from before she knew him & none of us know where they are, he got the house & a lot of her stuff. He has always been really jealous of the attention she got from his side of the family. He set it all up. He took her away from her family soon after they met.

[@hawaiigirl8089]

Sooooo What’s the answer for us because all this we know & it depresses me further

[@user-uv1vx9xi4d]

When i got a divorce i allowed my ex to pay for it i didn't want anything from him he never gave me any money the 5 years we were married so the lest he could do is pay for the divorce sign Cynthia Smith he is happy and so am i some people are only ment to be friends

[@dianeshepherd6903]

Yes truth but God deal with him it ended up with stage2 CA thyroid n was fin die if it wasn't for God being in me help n speak up defeat him during his issue B4 I got him to another Dr in time

[@warrenmoon7709]

💯💯💯

[@Deval918]

In such a scenario, the victim seems to be at loss in both the situations, be it staying with the narcissist or breaking all ties.
Is there any solution that may benefit the victim ??

[@mihclip425]

So true

[@revathi369]

I asked for marriage certificate from my husband but refused to come with me for signing.... He asked me whether the paper is important or him? Is he narcissistic!!!!
I cudnt identify
He is having a dog which spills all over the floor and full of dog's hair in the room which I could not tolerate and left him meet only once a week..

[@ritahurn909]

My, hopefully soon to be son-in-law doesn't pay what he was ordered to pay. My daughter hadn't received a payment until recently and even then...... did he not pay what he was suppose to pay. Before this recent payment she hadn't received a payment since April. Before that it was October of last year. I believe he sent a payment in November and December but the courts sent it back to him because they said that there was no court order. He never sends the amount he's told to pay. He's in the army so, the house they were living in.....he's still living in it. They didn't own it but the army was paying the rent and I can imagine they are still paying his rent. While, my daughter struggles to pay the high price rent here in California. She's in California because that's where I live. Her and the baby didn't have anywhere else to go.

[@just....Pooja..]

Please give any suggestion or Solution for this

[@FunkyMonkeyGoose]

He hid assets after 17.5 years i left with 18 k. He stopped paying the house psymenrs so i lost the house. He cut the gas off and my kids and i had to sit in rhe cold for over a month.

[@jerryholbrook13]

Omg

[@karenconnell4878]

👌🙏🙏🙏🎯

[@user-np4ge5wy4o]

They use court issues to keep control over your life/money, custody is used to punish you.

[@nicholecornes1915]

No not in Jesus name! No no no!

[@user-bi1xg7hw4i]

😂😂❤❤