Great advice Vince! Today men need relationships more than ever so it has to be simple to be inviting and attractive! Over complicating things lead to a dead end in a hurry!
Wow, this so good. I am an assistant pastor/Youth Pastor and I'm 49 now. I would like to hand over the youth ministry to a younger pastor then I would love to start a men's ministry. I believe there is a need and I would love to help and guide these men of God. Amen. Lord willing
Thank you for saying " Stop talking down to men". For me Father's Day services are the most difficult for me to attend. They seem to be all about what we aren't getting right.
My group just seems so boring. I try to engage and move past small talk by asking deep questions or personal ones. However, the answers are always surface level. I’m tired of always putting in the effort for an “okay” experience.
This is good stuff...And you as so right...stop talking AT them and stop talking DOWN to them. We have found some of our best times have been when people just showed up and shared life - honest open conversation about life. People walked away different after that!
Me as a man who recently found the truth and the grace of God, only wanted a place where I can talk with other men about the truth and discover it with them and maybe find an example of what it looks like to be a Godly man, but no the only places you can go is large events, worship and large woman occupied bible study groups, and went to those, great but I can not talk about the things men would see and value the word than what woman do, they too emotional and lots of fluff like you talking around the truth just not to let them feel bad. And I can not do that not do I find it hard to take a woman's advise seriously, for what does she know she is not a man. But yeah been now 5 months and still looking...
Cambios que pueden marcar la diferencia. Para de comparar hombres y mujeres. Los hombres prefieren unirse en grupos pequeños es monos riesgoso, pueden desarrollar amistades duraderas. Mas pequeño y mas despacio es mejor. Para de ser exageradamente creativo con tu estrategia de alcance. Tienen necesidad de comunidad liderazgo crecimiento Jesús si los ganas con Jesús continua con Jesús Para de avergonzarles, los hombres ya se sienten culpables y tristes por su pecado. Retales apropiadamente! Lideralos a tomar pequeños pasos cada semana y luego check Para de sacar la Biblia, lee la Biblia con ellos y enseñales a leer discutirla y estudiarla. Ellos lideraran la iglesia enseñales Para de esperar que lleguen a tu actividad en lugar de eso Reclutales Jesus hizo eso. Hazlo cara a cara recluta a los que quieres ellos de todas formas necesitan involucrarse Para de tratar de reunir grupos grandes de hombres, mentoreales discipulales para que se conviertan el evangelistas y cambien su alrededor. Para de hablarles crea conversación entre ellos, ellos necesitan hablarse para que tenga comunidad, ponlos en trios parejas mensajes mas cortos tiempos de compartir
Great advice Vince! Today men need relationships more than ever so it has to be simple to be inviting and attractive! Over complicating things lead to a dead end in a hurry!
Yep I cannot agree more. We so overthink men's ministry, we forget how simple it all is.
Wow, this so good. I am an assistant pastor/Youth Pastor and I'm 49 now. I would like to hand over the youth ministry to a younger pastor then I would love to start a men's ministry. I believe there is a need and I would love to help and guide these men of God. Amen. Lord willing
Thank you for saying " Stop talking down to men". For me Father's Day services are the most difficult for me to attend. They seem to be all about what we aren't getting right.
My group just seems so boring. I try to engage and move past small talk by asking deep questions or personal ones. However, the answers are always surface level. I’m tired of always putting in the effort for an “okay” experience.
I really appreciated this message on 7 small changes! Thank you.
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I am blessed to know your ministry. Thank you. I am going to practice what I'm learning here
This is good stuff...And you as so right...stop talking AT them and stop talking DOWN to them. We have found some of our best times have been when people just showed up and shared life - honest open conversation about life. People walked away different after that!
UHHHH YEAH. I witness too much yelling at men. Maybe this happens because people don't know how to talk to them?
Thank you for the much needed tips. God blessing
This is GOLD
Good stuff👍🏾 love this video
Awesome advise
Vince, this is life changing for me!!!!!
Right on E.C. be blessed this year!
This is really good...
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Me as a man who recently found the truth and the grace of God, only wanted a place where I can talk with other men about the truth and discover it with them and maybe find an example of what it looks like to be a Godly man, but no the only places you can go is large events, worship and large woman occupied bible study groups, and went to those, great but I can not talk about the things men would see and value the word than what woman do, they too emotional and lots of fluff like you talking around the truth just not to let them feel bad. And I can not do that not do I find it hard to take a woman's advise seriously, for what does she know she is not a man. But yeah been now 5 months and still looking...
I just want to talk, that is all I want is to talk and understand.
Keep watching and listening here daily. Or join one of online groups!
The men group in my church wants me to be among them but I don't know their visions and commitment so am scared please what should I do?
Be a man and go check it out. If you don't like it don't go back. Stop making excuses. Man up.
How about more for single an kidless men. Agree more studying of Bible
Cambios que pueden marcar la diferencia.
Para de comparar hombres y mujeres. Los hombres prefieren unirse en grupos pequeños es monos riesgoso, pueden desarrollar amistades duraderas. Mas pequeño y mas despacio es mejor.
Para de ser exageradamente creativo con tu estrategia de alcance. Tienen necesidad de comunidad liderazgo crecimiento Jesús si los ganas con Jesús continua con Jesús
Para de avergonzarles, los hombres ya se sienten culpables y tristes por su pecado. Retales apropiadamente! Lideralos a tomar pequeños pasos cada semana y luego check
Para de sacar la Biblia, lee la Biblia con ellos y enseñales a leer discutirla y estudiarla. Ellos lideraran la iglesia enseñales
Para de esperar que lleguen a tu actividad en lugar de eso Reclutales Jesus hizo eso. Hazlo cara a cara recluta a los que quieres ellos de todas formas necesitan involucrarse
Para de tratar de reunir grupos grandes de hombres, mentoreales discipulales para que se conviertan el evangelistas y cambien su alrededor.
Para de hablarles crea conversación entre ellos, ellos necesitan hablarse para que tenga comunidad, ponlos en trios parejas mensajes mas cortos tiempos de compartir