The aunt also said that the dress she picked "flattered her shape" - it didn't accentuate the brides curves at all.. just very up and down; while the dress the bride chose actually showed off her femininity
@FAKOKTA first of all, whatever self projection Ur trying to push on me, nip that. At what point did my comment come across as me trying to justify this behaviour. Touch grass.
@FAKOKTA I brought up childless Aunty because THEY brought up that the aunt was childless and I can relate to that. They also state that's why she feels entitled & I am saying that being the aunt with no kids who is like a second mom is not a reason to push your opinions and wants on your nieces/nephews
@FAKOKTA In the case that your not intentionally trying to misalign my comments, I beg you to please go back to school & participate in English lessons cause you need it....BAD. If you're just rage farming, then you're pathetic 😭
The bride should have gone ahead and bought the dress she wanted. It was her mother's role to put her aunt in her place - in a nice way, but firmly. The aunt ruined the appointment - and thus the memory of this experience.
Trust me, had this been my daughter and sister, I would have told my sister to get lost and told my daughter that we're going to continue this appointment. That SHE gets to choose. And if her Aunt doesn't like it, she doesn't need to come to the wedding! 😠 No way would I have allowed what happened here. It might not have happened on camera, but it would have happened.
That’s why you gotta raise the money and buy the dress yourself. And if they say no, but you’re saying yes, just buy the dress right in front of them and boot them the hell out of your day
Exactly! I didn’t even know exactly what looked best on me until I tried it on. I wanted a mermaid style dress and hated the style on me. I absolutely didn’t want a puffy princess dress and fell in love and purchased a puffy princess dress.
I was married in 2000. The best thing I ever did was go shopping with only by best friend. My mom couldn’t get the ball gown fantasy out of her head and I wanted an easy day, which wouldn’t happen with my family, so they got left at home. People were hurt but they got over it. Twenty years later, my mom agrees I did the right thing
“I have been married twice.” Lady, my mother is on her third husband and she’s the LAST person I’d go to for any kind of wedding related advice. (Trying to cut out the pesky emotional manipulators out of my life.)
Even if she were paying for it or contributing some payment. It doesn’t give her the right to pick the dress. If you are going to gift someone money, don’t ask for it back, either gift it from you heart and just be there as support or don’t bother doing it at all. It shouldn’t be held over someone’s head. So messed up.
I wish she or her mother had stood up to the aunt, cuz if she's this controlling over a dress, i can only imagine how everything else in the poor bride's life must go
Yes, it’s terrible... there’s a story here as to why this Aunt helped to raise her. It seems the Mother is afraid of her own sister. Murky waters in the family history... I hope this Aunt doesn’t interfere with the bride and grooms lives after they are married.
She did say what she liked and stuck to it, but she's young and her mother doesn't get into it with the domineering aunt. ...she needs to leave aunt at home and go shopping with her kind and supportive mother.
@@Hayata_dair_hersey95 The bride talked about it during the intro., that's what I was talking about. She said her Aunt helped to raise her....and whatever the circumstances were the Bride"s Mother is afraid to speak her mind to her own sister who I bet has been a controlling person since way back...
It breaks my heart that she now wants to go alone. Her Mom was so supportive and I feel like she really would just want to go without her Aunt but is worried about specifically excluding her.
Too nice. The mother abdicated her role to her sister years ago. I wonder where the bride's father is...makes me think that the aunt stepped into his role.
I love her mom. She wants what the bride wants, which is what really matters. She defends the bride and tries to control her sister. She has an opinion but isn't forcing it on the bride. Exactly what a mom should be.
The bride: "I love it." Aunt: "NO!" The bride: "I really like it." Aunt: "I'm over this, I'm ready to go." *It breaks my heart and filled it with rage. Like, even the MOM was supportive! This auntie situation reminds me that unlike the body, the mind and the heart doesn't mature automatically.
It's sad tho, how the mom couldn't step up to the aunt, but as why I understand why the bride couldn't, probably because going against trash, controlling people like her when you are small, makes you lose your power to stand up to that person and time can only worsen that, so seeing as the mom spent way more time with her sister, she probably feels that too. It wouldn't be a surprise if it were because their parents fovoured one over the other so the aunt turned out to be that controlling while the mom can't stand up to her... I don't know if it Really was like this, but point is that both the bride and the mom seem like they think they have no power over the aunt
This mom is awesome. "I just want her to be happy." that's love. I hope the next time, she takes her mom. All her mom sends out is love for her daughter.
I cant believe a "grown woman" would try to bully her niece into buying what "she" likes, what a selfish woman, if I had a family member do that to me when I was buying my wedding dress I would have not so kindly told her to leave
I got married 4 years back in traditional Hindu ceremony in red saree. Only my fiancé and me went to buy the wedding dress and jewellery 😀 no stress at all. But again I am addicted to SYTTD 😀
I'm torn - I say "no I'm not", but I'm also getting divorced this month 😂 I guess my divorce is amicable though, as we realised we are just different, rather than one of us being the "baddy"
@Sarah Cook thanks so much 💕 I'm doing really well (separated for 18 months), & loving my new life. My ex & I are good friends to the point of talking about the people we've both recently started dating! He's a good man...I will never regret marrying him - but he is definitely a city guy, & I am definitely a country girl 😊 Thanks again for your kind words x
Honestly, when the aunt was grumbling "I'm SOOOO over this, I am ready to go" I would have said "Well, go then. This is MY day and MY dress and I would have appreciated it had you supported me in finding MY vision and not your own. The bride was willing to try both her aunt's pick and her Mom's and she looks STUNNING in the one she chose for herself. Just because it wasn't a pageant dress, the aunt had to be nasty. At least Mom was supportive of her daughter's vision even though it wasn't her pick.
I wish that Lori, who could normally shut down rude family members, had stepped up for the bride more so. The bride's confidence level just fell, because the aunt got her way.
Bride: I love it. Aunt: No! Me: There's the door!! *can the bridal industry start addressing these people and make them leave if they clearly see the bride is uncomfortable.
I was wondering, too, where the retail politeness must end and either Lori or Monte should have found firm words... or what the retail etiquette is in such situations.
But the reality is it is a family matter. I’ve seen situations where people intervene and the family that was arguing team up together to go against the person trying to help saying “mind your own business”.
Usually they put the veil on and the bride gets her way. I liked the mother's choice and the girl's choice. I did not like the aunty's choice. They probably did not invite the aunty, she probably heard they were going and just barged in. Her mother liked it. Next time just take your mother and sister. Sister did not even get a look in.
I worked in a bridal shop and a co-worker asked a lady to leave and she ATTACKED us online for 6 MONTHS and it was over a prom dress! Not even a wedding dress! As cruel as it sounds, it's up to the girls to be careful about who you bring. Never feel obligated to bring anyone who doesn't put YOU first.
@@bethanya99 Kind of why I just brought my mother in law. My mother couldn't be there and my mother in law was only there. My mother in law wasn't pushy or anything and overall it was a great experience.
So much hate for the aunt (though understandable), I wanna focus on the mother!! I just love how supportive the mother was. When she heard the bride say she likes it, she smiled and agreed whole heartedly❤
Exactly. I understand that mamas sometimes want to see their daughters in a dress of mama's dreams. After that, hand over the torch and let your little girl grow into the woman getting married.
@@drmayeda1930 then she could say that. Instead she bragged about her failed marriage as if that made her in any way superior to anyone else's opinions.
"Hunny I got married twice I know the difference between pageant dresses and wedding dresses" Hunny, Monte and Lori have dressed MILLIONS of people in wedding dresses, you are not above them 😂😂
Oh her mom was an absolute sweetheart. And she's right: the only thing that matters is that the bride loves it! And it flattered her SO well. I wish they had glammed her out. Saw the comment about her and her husband still being married as of last year. Good for them!!
Saying you’ve had two or three weddings means you know wedding dresses well, it’s like saying that because you’ve owned two or three cars means you’re practically a mechanic.
Auntie says she’s done. Pageant wave her goodbye and carry on. Mom was supportive but it’s too bad she wouldn’t tell her sister to back down instead of just wishing she would.
the look her mum has every time her daughter states she's not in love with her aunts pick is absolutely priceless. I love this. Her mum doesn't even try to hide her smile.😂
Do the entourage members not realise they are ruining what should be a joyous occasion? My sister got married to a Scotsman, who was wearing his kilt, In a castle in Scotland. When my sister chose her dress, it was heavy satin, almost mediaeval, In style, but completely fitted with her husband and the surroundings. She looked so utterly beautiful in her dress, I got emotional. One of the.most stunning weddings I've ever been to. And the memories of all the try ons and fittings were a part of that experience.
Gok always seems like he likes playing dress up but it works cos sometimes one of his picks is nothing like what bride originally wanted but its perfect
Can the Aunt honestly not see the look on this young woman's face as she walks out in the last dress? She looked so happy! That should have been what mattered to the Aunt - rather than being right & so rude. I hope the bride gains the strength to stand up to her Aunt & gets the dress that makes her happy, & the Aunt gains some common sense!
I love her mum. She clearly got great style & fashion sense and made a great pick for the dress, still lets her daughter choose and values her happiness more than anything.
I would have told auntie, "You're free to leave anytime." Macy needed to stand up for herself. She loved the dress. She should have gotten it. What's the aunt gonna do about it? *Nothing* .
I don't know why I am watching this show. I got married in January this year and in my opinion, my dress was beautiful. Yet I am so addicted to this show!
Congratulations on your marraige! 💕 I don't know why I watch it either (it's an addiction!), & I'm actually getting divorced (amicably) this month. I think I live vicariously through the show as I wasn't fortunate enough to have my own children... But boy do I get cross about people like this Aunt!!!!
@@katebet07 Thank you Kate. I am sorry to hear about your divorce but I hope that you are going to be happy/happier! The aunt was rude and selfish. But then again, this is a show and I am sure they added more drama for the audience. Enjoy your SYTTD watching spree!! :D
The bride looks so defeated. Even her body language looked sad and exhausted after dealing with that woman. Poor girl. One day, ppl will learn BOUNDARIES.
Mom: I just want her to be happy Aunt: *rolls her eyes* F that aunt she seemed so smug and know it all but didnt stop to even listen to the bride. Even the bride said she was super controlling. I understand there may be sentimental value in growing up with her but she was so unsupportive of her dream - i couldnt bring someone like that with me. Just a hard no
With aunts like her who needs enemies? Many people try to live through the experience of others. We should never forget WHO is getting married... the bride should always have the final say. Mom was awesome.
I feel bad for the mom, she seems like a really sweet person, and I have a feeling that if she grew up being "bigger" than her sister, her sister would be the one to point out that she needs to lose weight, that such and such clothes won't be good for her body etc... Also the bride was right about the last dress, it looked gorgeous on her
I honestly wonder of there were some favoritism issues in the family and I'm not pinning it on just the parents that are also other relatives in the family that probably preferred the skinnier sister over the bigger sister or whatever it was, because let's face it, not everyone stays the same weight from childhood to adulthood. I mean I can tell who was probably spoiled more as a child
Really wish she would have shut that aunt down and said "this is my dress!" I hate heavy handedness. Her mother should have stepped in and told her sister to back off!
The aunt's pick was ugly and looked cheap; after all she said about her expertise I was disappointed.
I wasn’t surprised at all
It looked like my down comforter on my bed.
Honestly it looked like a cheap prom dress for a 16 year old
It would be perfect for a beauty patent. That's where most of her experience comes from.
The aunt also said that the dress she picked "flattered her shape" - it didn't accentuate the brides curves at all.. just very up and down; while the dress the bride chose actually showed off her femininity
The aunt's facial expressions and smug looks makes me so annoyed
I'm sure the producers told the participants to play up the drama, but the underlying controlling seems real.
Preach sister
Same. Made me want to reach through the screen and slap some sense into her.
Yes,absolutely.
Aunt certainly felt free to express herself....was so childish! Not well behaved.
"I just want her to be happy"
Aunt: *rolls eyes*
Why the hell is she even there
Time stamp?
@@rosalindfieldsend766 4:30
Yes
Geez not cool.
Auntie needs to shut up 🤣🎊.
Toxic aunt: "I have been married twice".
Smart audience: "Well, maybe it is because of you the reason why you are divorced....twice".
This comment is soo underrated, ohmahgad! I kept wheezing😂
You gave the right idea
If that was my daughter, I would tell that aunt where to go and what she could go do!
I came to the comments for someone to mention this lol
Oml
As a childless aunty, her mother needs to put her sister in place. Her niece is not there for her to live through vicariously wtf
I agree .
exactly. good thing that aunt doesn’t have kids. she would try to be controlling them too.
@FAKOKTA first of all, whatever self projection Ur trying to push on me, nip that. At what point did my comment come across as me trying to justify this behaviour. Touch grass.
@FAKOKTA I brought up childless Aunty because THEY brought up that the aunt was childless and I can relate to that. They also state that's why she feels entitled & I am saying that being the aunt with no kids who is like a second mom is not a reason to push your opinions and wants on your nieces/nephews
@FAKOKTA In the case that your not intentionally trying to misalign my comments, I beg you to please go back to school & participate in English lessons cause you need it....BAD. If you're just rage farming, then you're pathetic 😭
The bride should have gone ahead and bought the dress she wanted. It was her mother's role to put her aunt in her place - in a nice way, but firmly. The aunt ruined the appointment - and thus the memory of this experience.
when ur spineless, can't decide for urself, this is what happens...
Or just kick the aunt out of the appointment, I really can't stand this kind of person for even 1 second
Trust me, had this been my daughter and sister, I would have told my sister to get lost and told my daughter that we're going to continue this appointment. That SHE gets to choose. And if her Aunt doesn't like it, she doesn't need to come to the wedding!
😠 No way would I have allowed what happened here. It might not have happened on camera, but it would have happened.
That’s why you gotta raise the money and buy the dress yourself. And if they say no, but you’re saying yes, just buy the dress right in front of them and boot them the hell out of your day
I think her mom didn't say much so as not to further ruin the day because of a fight.
I dont like it when family members or friends say stuff like "i *know* what she likes and needs " because who are they to know?
Exactly!!!
I agree
Exactly! I didn’t even know exactly what looked best on me until I tried it on. I wanted a mermaid style dress and hated the style on me. I absolutely didn’t want a puffy princess dress and fell in love and purchased a puffy princess dress.
I was married in 2000. The best thing I ever did was go shopping with only by best friend. My mom couldn’t get the ball gown fantasy out of her head and I wanted an easy day, which wouldn’t happen with my family, so they got left at home. People were hurt but they got over it. Twenty years later, my mom agrees I did the right thing
Ellen Mason 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I’m glad you stood your ground
Chemistry between lori and monte is so lit
Aren't they a couple??
Siya Verma though monte is was gay
Siya Verma Monte is gay and Lori has kids
Nah they're just besties and pretty sure Monte is gay
@@sanaakadiri5666 WHAT!My whole life was a lie!!!
AN UPDATE ON THE BRIDE: Her and her husband are still happily married and have 2 beautiful kids, a son and a daughter :)
The dress she picked out was her ain’t present or did the bride pick out the dress herself by herself? Was auntie anywhere around?
Ty
I also really wanted to know tht
@@cynthiatucker2147 I'm curious about the dress, too.
Thank you
“I have been married twice.”
Lady, my mother is on her third husband and she’s the LAST person I’d go to for any kind of wedding related advice.
(Trying to cut out the pesky emotional manipulators out of my life.)
Go girl stay strong 👍
Yassss Cousin Mollie
Do it hun 😁💕
My grandma is on her 6th husband 😬 my grandma has bad advice for weddings as well.
Same, hence why I left my father and he will not be invited to my wedding
Aunt: I'm so over this I'm ready to go
Me be like: Then just go Jesus. It's not even your wedding or child!
AGREE!!!!😱
Don't let the door hit you in the butt on the way out...
Bye!
I actually wondered if the aunt was contributing to the dress financially. Because otherwise - who cares what she thinks!?
More like she needed a "come to Jesus" kick in the keister, I don't think even HE could have held back.
Toxic aunt: "I have been married twice-"
Weird flex, but okay.
Larissa Genai Also called “ no wonder”
If that’s there best flex then oh god 🤣
N
I wonder why she's been married twice? 🙄
😂😂😂😂
Is the aunt paying for the dress? I’m confused as to why her opinion matters above everyone else’s.
it’s cause she always chooses dresses for the pageants
Because the mother always allows it doesn't stand up to her sister
Even if she were paying for it or contributing some payment. It doesn’t give her the right to pick the dress.
If you are going to gift someone money, don’t ask for it back, either gift it from you heart and just be there as support or don’t bother doing it at all. It shouldn’t be held over someone’s head.
So messed up.
@@pumbapower6770 absolutely right, it's a gift to make that person happy
Not even if she pay she have that right. If she pay it's a gift to let her pick her dress. Atleast if you respect the person you gift the dress to
Welcome to another episode of “ *it’s not your wedding, karen* ”
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"i've been married twice" well maybe that actually means you DONT know anything abt wedding dresses or marriages
Yeah, is only shows that she can't keep some one with her
Yea, I’m really beginning to doubt that the husbands were the problem in her marriages
Burn!
😂😂😂 RIGHT!! 😂😂😂
The aunt's picture in the thumbnail is Say Yes to the dress's revenge for being rude
She deserves it!!!
😂
rofl so true
lol 😂
5:18 A frog has entered the chat
Bride's aunt: "It's her day so my opinions don't count."
Bride's mother: "Can I get that in writing?"
Me: Laughing hysterically!
Also the aunt: I dont like it it's not your dress
The bride : I really love it
The aunt: too bad, I dont, let's go
@@Corinnecockrell I would've told her that she needed to shut the f$#k up.
That’s when I knew this was going to be an interesting video.
I thought you made up that comment. Read your comment THEN heard it spoken. My goodness there was some tension.
😅😅😅😅
I wish she or her mother had stood up to the aunt, cuz if she's this controlling over a dress, i can only imagine how everything else in the poor bride's life must go
Yes, it’s terrible... there’s a story here as to why this Aunt helped to raise her. It seems the Mother is afraid of her own sister. Murky waters in the family history... I hope this Aunt doesn’t interfere with the bride and grooms lives after they are married.
@@amstergal Can you find the that you write about?
She did say what she liked and stuck to it, but she's young and her mother doesn't get into it with the domineering aunt. ...she needs to leave aunt at home and go shopping with her kind and supportive mother.
@@amstergal I agree, it seems to me that the mother may be pushed around by her controlling sister. Poor family to have to deal with that.
@@Hayata_dair_hersey95 The bride talked about it during the intro., that's what I was talking about. She said her Aunt helped to raise her....and whatever the circumstances were the Bride"s Mother is afraid to speak her mind to her own sister who I bet has been a controlling person since way back...
I LOVED when Monty said "We Sell Wedding Gowns, Not Pageant Dresses!"
It breaks my heart that she now wants to go alone. Her Mom was so supportive and I feel like she really would just want to go without her Aunt but is worried about specifically excluding her.
Shelby Harder Anderson, having grown up with, let's just say, a "difficult" mom...it's a real thing to worry about their reaction!
Her mother is so nice, good for her for raising such a lovely daughter
edit- thanks for all the likes woahh
Well said! I hope that sweet young woman is able to gain the self-confidence and strength to stand up for what she wants
Nice doesn't come into it. if you are protecting your daughter (or shouldn't). Mama bear she isn't.
Too nice. The mother abdicated her role to her sister years ago. I wonder where the bride's father is...makes me think that the aunt stepped into his role.
Kate J I see you in every comment xD
YT4Me57 stop reaching
I love her mom. She wants what the bride wants, which is what really matters. She defends the bride and tries to control her sister. She has an opinion but isn't forcing it on the bride. Exactly what a mom should be.
The bride: "I love it."
Aunt: "NO!"
The bride: "I really like it."
Aunt: "I'm over this, I'm ready to go."
*It breaks my heart and filled it with rage. Like, even the MOM was supportive!
This auntie situation reminds me that unlike the body, the mind and the heart doesn't mature automatically.
It's sad tho, how the mom couldn't step up to the aunt, but as why I understand why the bride couldn't, probably because going against trash, controlling people like her when you are small, makes you lose your power to stand up to that person and time can only worsen that, so seeing as the mom spent way more time with her sister, she probably feels that too. It wouldn't be a surprise if it were because their parents fovoured one over the other so the aunt turned out to be that controlling while the mom can't stand up to her...
I don't know if it Really was like this, but point is that both the bride and the mom seem like they think they have no power over the aunt
Can we just talk about how the mom is just wanting her daughter to be happy in any dress unlike the aunt
Yeah like normally it’s the mother that argues with the daughter but here her mother just wants her daughter to be happy and get what she wants
This mom is awesome. "I just want her to be happy." that's love.
I hope the next time, she takes her mom. All her mom sends out is love for her daughter.
I like to think Macey and her mum popped back later, just the two of them, and got her dress.
I cant believe a "grown woman" would try to bully her niece into buying what "she" likes, what a selfish woman, if I had a family member do that to me when I was buying my wedding dress I would have not so kindly told her to leave
I'm sure the producers told the participants to play up the drama (doncha love the facial expressions?), but the underlying controlling seems real.
AGREE!!!!
I got married 4 years back in traditional Hindu ceremony in red saree. Only my fiancé and me went to buy the wedding dress and jewellery 😀 no stress at all. But again I am addicted to SYTTD 😀
If they asked to “ play up the drama”... wouldn’t the aunt be even more embarrassed!
"I've been married twice" Anyone surprised that her marriages are in the past?
I'm torn - I say "no I'm not", but I'm also getting divorced this month 😂 I guess my divorce is amicable though, as we realised we are just different, rather than one of us being the "baddy"
@Sarah Cook thanks so much 💕 I'm doing really well (separated for 18 months), & loving my new life. My ex & I are good friends to the point of talking about the people we've both recently started dating! He's a good man...I will never regret marrying him - but he is definitely a city guy, & I am definitely a country girl 😊 Thanks again for your kind words x
@FAKOKTA Because of the way they act
LMFAO no
The bride looked so much better in the last dress!! The aunt totally ruined the day for her..
Who made her invite her aunt? Everyone knew she was toxic
They needed drama for the show
I'd be willing to bet that the aunt wasn't originally invited, but found out about the shopping trip and invited herself.
I know, right?
She likely invited herself.
"Ive been married twice" LMFAO I wonder whhy.
Also the 3rd dress was perfect.
Honestly, when the aunt was grumbling "I'm SOOOO over this, I am ready to go" I would have said "Well, go then. This is MY day and MY dress and I would have appreciated it had you supported me in finding MY vision and not your own. The bride was willing to try both her aunt's pick and her Mom's and she looks STUNNING in the one she chose for herself. Just because it wasn't a pageant dress, the aunt had to be nasty. At least Mom was supportive of her daughter's vision even though it wasn't her pick.
The aunt’s ready to go? Just like the saying goes, “this isn’t an airport, no need to announce your departure.” Agree the bride’s pick was fabulous!
The bride should have stood up for the dress she liked.. she looked so pretty... 😔
When there is no momzilla.. here comes auntvampire😡
I wish that Lori, who could normally shut down rude family members, had stepped up for the bride more so. The bride's confidence level just fell, because the aunt got her way.
The mom looks a bit like she never let go of the 70s but she’s ok as a person
reminds me of a pug
Lol
@@keiradelp8252 wow that's mean.
@@keiradelp8252 stfu
She looks kinda like a Karen but her sister is the Karen
This mother is literally one of the sweetest mother's that has ever been on this show
Funny how the aunt picks out the pageant dresses when she looks like she can’t even pick a decent outfit for herself😂
if someone ever talked to me like the way the Aunt talked to the bride i'd drop
kick her out of the salon lmao
No kidding. Right through the uprights 🤣
Rosie H I’m thinking Monte was just about ready!
Bride: I love it.
Aunt: No!
Me: There's the door!!
*can the bridal industry start addressing these people and make them leave if they clearly see the bride is uncomfortable.
I was wondering, too, where the retail politeness must end and either Lori or Monte should have found firm words... or what the retail etiquette is in such situations.
But the reality is it is a family matter. I’ve seen situations where people intervene and the family that was arguing team up together to go against the person trying to help saying “mind your own business”.
Usually they put the veil on and the bride gets her way. I liked the mother's choice and the girl's choice. I did not like the aunty's choice. They probably did not invite the aunty, she probably heard they were going and just barged in. Her mother liked it. Next time just take your mother and sister. Sister did not even get a look in.
I worked in a bridal shop and a co-worker asked a lady to leave and she ATTACKED us online for 6 MONTHS and it was over a prom dress! Not even a wedding dress! As cruel as it sounds, it's up to the girls to be careful about who you bring. Never feel obligated to bring anyone who doesn't put YOU first.
@@bethanya99 Kind of why I just brought my mother in law. My mother couldn't be there and my mother in law was only there. My mother in law wasn't pushy or anything and overall it was a great experience.
So much hate for the aunt (though understandable), I wanna focus on the mother!! I just love how supportive the mother was. When she heard the bride say she likes it, she smiled and agreed whole heartedly❤
Exactly. I understand that mamas sometimes want to see their daughters in a dress of mama's dreams. After that, hand over the torch and let your little girl grow into the woman getting married.
Well, if the toxic Aunt has "been married twice", doesn't that mean she has been divorced twice, too? Unless the spouses are in hiding.
She could still be married to her second husband...but like probably not for long with that attitude lol
Or dead XD
this is HER wedding, not theirs. she should pick whatever she likes the most and not bother about their opinions.
Having others opinions are actually helpful as long as others opinions are not taking over
Good point. But your profile picture is EVERYTHING
"It MaKeS hEr LoOk JuViNiLe"
SHES FREAKING 20!
this is why i am either shopping alone or taking just one unbiased friend
Omg bts army
Yeah that's the reason I do that not cause I don't have friends and can't complete social interactions haha
Her mother was fine, she said choose what you like.
@Clary Hustles same!!
Take your best friend I took my best friends and they picked out my dress and they loved it and I loved it
i feel so bad for her because she really left without a dress and i would've uninvited the aunt
Her mother is amazing!!! So loving and supportive!
Who is the aunt to say no! It's the brides day not yours 🤦♀️
AGREE!!!😱
Exactly
"I've been married twice!"
Is that... a brag?
Apparently... 🤣
She has experience picking wedding dresses because she's done it before.
@@drmayeda1930 then she could say that. Instead she bragged about her failed marriage as if that made her in any way superior to anyone else's opinions.
@@drmayeda1930 but I see your point
drmayeda1 but clearly not well cuz she also divorced twice!!!😂😂😂
"Hunny I got married twice I know the difference between pageant dresses and wedding dresses"
Hunny, Monte and Lori have dressed MILLIONS of people in wedding dresses, you are not above them 😂😂
Mom is so sweet ❤️ she just wanted her daughter to be happy 🥰
Oh her mom was an absolute sweetheart. And she's right: the only thing that matters is that the bride loves it! And it flattered her SO well. I wish they had glammed her out. Saw the comment about her and her husband still being married as of last year. Good for them!!
“I’m so done.”
Wtf, who even says that?? What a manipulative woman!
Probably explains why she had two husbands bounce away
She’s a Karen
Saying you’ve had two or three weddings means you know wedding dresses well, it’s like saying that because you’ve owned two or three cars means you’re practically a mechanic.
Auntie says she’s done. Pageant wave her goodbye and carry on. Mom was supportive but it’s too bad she wouldn’t tell her sister to back down instead of just wishing she would.
Absolutely Mom should have shut her up.
the look her mum has every time her daughter states she's not in love with her aunts pick is absolutely priceless. I love this. Her mum doesn't even try to hide her smile.😂
Do the entourage members not realise they are ruining what should be a joyous occasion? My sister got married to a Scotsman, who was wearing his kilt, In a castle in Scotland. When my sister chose her dress, it was heavy satin, almost mediaeval, In style, but completely fitted with her husband and the surroundings. She looked so utterly beautiful in her dress, I got emotional. One of the.most stunning weddings I've ever been to. And the memories of all the try ons and fittings were a part of that experience.
This is so sad. Brides, PLEASE leave your manipulative family members OUT of your wedding planning as much as possible.
Everytime I watch one of these, I have to watch Auntie Gok right after to rid the toxicity... 😓 Thank goodness for SYTTD Lancashire.
Lancashire is always so wholesome, it's absolutely my favourite 🥰
Yes! Or Curvy Brides, or SYTTD Ireland
Gok always seems like he likes playing dress up but it works cos sometimes one of his picks is nothing like what bride originally wanted but its perfect
True Clary Hustles, however SYTTD doesn’t respect budget on any of their episodes, no matter where it takes place.
Can the Aunt honestly not see the look on this young woman's face as she walks out in the last dress? She looked so happy! That should have been what mattered to the Aunt - rather than being right & so rude. I hope the bride gains the strength to stand up to her Aunt & gets the dress that makes her happy, & the Aunt gains some common sense!
I did not like the auntys dress.
I’ve watched so many of these videos and the mom is the best mom you can have while dress shopping
Her mom is such a lovely person and so supportive, I just want to hug her.
I love her mum.
She clearly got great style & fashion sense and made a great pick for the dress, still lets her daughter choose and values her happiness more than anything.
This show should be called *ITS NOT YOUR WEDDING WOMAN*
The bride should go shopping with her mom. Nobody else needed.
Mom's not always a good choice, some are as toxic as the aunt when it comes to wedding dress shopping, but I did like the one in this video
She doesn't have to go by herself. She just has to go without her aunt.
i love this mom. the fact that her daughter can say that she and her mother can share their true feelings is just amazing.
She looked lovely in the dress that she picked herself. I hope that she went back for it.
I thought the top of the 3rd dress was too "old" for her and didn't do her justice.
It's sad the bride really loved to the dress and her aunt was so selfish
Aunt: "I'm ready to go."
Me: "Oh yes? Good. Don't let the door hit ya!" And we'll go on from there with the appointment. Sheesh!
I wanted to cry for that bride. I am so lucky to have such supportive friends that totally supported my choice of dress.
I would have told auntie, "You're free to leave anytime."
Macy needed to stand up for herself. She loved the dress. She should have gotten it. What's the aunt gonna do about it? *Nothing* .
Aunt: I'm so over this I'm ready to go." Bride (in her head): "There's the door, don't let it hit ya where the good Lord split ya."
I don't know why I am watching this show. I got married in January this year and in my opinion, my dress was beautiful. Yet I am so addicted to this show!
Congratulations on your marraige! 💕 I don't know why I watch it either (it's an addiction!), & I'm actually getting divorced (amicably) this month. I think I live vicariously through the show as I wasn't fortunate enough to have my own children... But boy do I get cross about people like this Aunt!!!!
@@katebet07 Thank you Kate. I am sorry to hear about your divorce but I hope that you are going to be happy/happier!
The aunt was rude and selfish. But then again, this is a show and I am sure they added more drama for the audience. Enjoy your SYTTD watching spree!! :D
@Angel Bulldog yay! You again! Do I see you in the Supernanny comment sections?
@Angel Bulldog haha.. don't give up so easily Miss Angel. You never know 😊
The bride's mom is like an amazing mom ever🤗
Aunt: I've been picking out dresses for her since she was old enough to breathe.
Me: .....ok so like... the second she was born?
And therein lies the problem!!!!
she was absolutely STUNNING in the 3rd dress!
Honestly if it were me I’d be like “ok, then go. I’d rather do this without you”
SAME! It's like, Auntie likely invited herself, she can get uninvited just as well.
I feel really bad for her. She just wanted the dress
"The dress made her look young and juvenile". Well... She's 20. So...?
The bride looks so defeated. Even her body language looked sad and exhausted after dealing with that woman. Poor girl. One day, ppl will learn BOUNDARIES.
"Honey I've been married twice" Uh...I don't think you're supposed to brag about that. Lol
Mom: I just want her to be happy
Aunt: *rolls her eyes*
F that aunt she seemed so smug and know it all but didnt stop to even listen to the bride. Even the bride said she was super controlling. I understand there may be sentimental value in growing up with her but she was so unsupportive of her dream - i couldnt bring someone like that with me. Just a hard no
Monte: We sell wedding gowns not Pageant dresses. Me: That's right
"this is the shape that i want but i'm still not crazy about it." lmao the mom's face when she said that
Love how supportive the braids mother is. ❤️
4:30 Thank you mom 👑👑👑
I liked Mom's dress best.
With aunts like her who needs enemies? Many people try to live through the experience of others. We should never forget WHO is getting married... the bride should always have the final say. Mom was awesome.
Oh my. That aunt might be one of the most overbearing women I’ve ever seen on this show
I feel bad for the mom, she seems like a really sweet person, and I have a feeling that if she grew up being "bigger" than her sister, her sister would be the one to point out that she needs to lose weight, that such and such clothes won't be good for her body etc...
Also the bride was right about the last dress, it looked gorgeous on her
I honestly wonder of there were some favoritism issues in the family and I'm not pinning it on just the parents that are also other relatives in the family that probably preferred the skinnier sister over the bigger sister or whatever it was, because let's face it, not everyone stays the same weight from childhood to adulthood.
I mean I can tell who was probably spoiled more as a child
“I’m not crazy about it”
Aunt: *surprised pikachu face*
Aunt: I’m ready to go 😏
Me: ok bye 👋 😆
Really wish she would have shut that aunt down and said "this is my dress!" I hate heavy handedness. Her mother should have stepped in and told her sister to back off!
literally every other bride who walks in: 'mermaid, with a bit of bling. U N I Q U E.'
Is Monte's southern hospitality about to fly out the window again?
When the aunt was like "I'm ready to go" I was like "Well? Leave. She gets the dress she wants."
I bet the aunt thought she was the one in charge in both of her failed marriages.
Poor girl. That aunt should be ashamed of herself. If she is reading these comments, I hope she takes them to heart and apologizes to that poor girl.
Auntie: I've been married twice!
Me: That says a lot!
I love the way Monte said "Meoww"
😂🤣
Isn’t the internet great...this is how that woman will be preserved now for all eternity. Nice going there pageant aunt.
Next thing you know she’s gonna be telling the bride to practice her pageant wave 🤣 lol