Was married for many years to a man whose mama told him it was OK to cheat and at every opportunity he did!!! He Didn’t care about the marriage at all!!! He wasn’t loyal and when I had enough… it was done and done!
Exactly!! Cause I gave all of this plus more and the guy still cheated. Lie more then idk what. Womanizer. Immature etc. So this only refers to REAL MAN. Cause you can be the BEST woman but dating the wrong guy.
Really?? Providing is very important I'm surprised you don't need that I work construction also do a lot side jobs soon I'm about to need a contractor license and I would love these 5 things he mentioned.. but I'm really surprised you wouldn't want your man to provide income..
Yes this is true for a ‘Evolved Man’ that is healed from his trauma and willing to mature up when he makes mistakes. A black woman will give the right man everything he needs but he needs to healthy body mind and soul. Yep I said 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Tina, Women give Men everything, you and I both know this. It’s still not enough for some Men. I’m older so I’m just going to tell you like it is, treat him the same way you would like to Be treated. We as Women have the tendency to think everything is about us, it’s not so get accustomed to that. Growing up with 6 older brothers, that taught me sooo much. Cook for him, set him up in the bathe room. A tub of water, glass of wine, TV on his favorite show. It’s all about him
@@sexylexie if he is mature enough to receive, but hunni did all of that you have to realize a lot of men are not ready for that. Some have so much trauma ( as we all do) they will mistake that for taking advantage of you as that good woman. I’m older also women can give give and never get nothing in return. I truly believe a relationship of any caliber should be reciprocated. We all should live and learn from our experiences. It is well with my soul be blessed
@@sherethadaniels473you have to be a real man to become a husband and live up to the responsibilities of one They don’t need to ask for respect, they earn it
Exactly 😅& I'm tired of them acting like we don't want the same thing. That's literally why they fail in relationships. Because they want what want while not reciprocating.
Amen. True facts. God bless you for sharing your truth and information. 😊❤ Communication is "KEY." Enough said,. ok . True talk. I feel your energy and truth about loving your man. My husband passed. I was his ride or die. WE had all you stated. We were together for 41 years. I miss him. That is why I'm single. God knows. 🙌 Trust and Believe. Old school knowledge about love.
Ladies, stop giving men all these and give these to yourself. Love yourselves enough to give to yourselves till the right man comes and gives you a reason to give to him
Ladies, me and only want sex, and for somebody to clean up after them, and someone to worship them that's what men want that's what their whole statement was so as she said don't waste your time on them take care of yourself, elevate yourself, and then you choose what you're going to tolerate, because the only thing that they want. It's someone to serve them,. They don't want to help, they don't want to uplift, they don't want to please, they just want to f*** point blank period.
Gotta be careful about wrapping that call up at the door. He'll accuse you of cheating QUICK cause' you never take calls in his presence. 😂 It's happened.
The right man will. Never try to change a man. If he truly loves you you won't have to ask for these things. He'll do them bc of how much he loves you.
Gratitude, loyalty, understanding definitely. Sex is not in my top 5. I’d put communication & respect over sex bc without that I’m not gonna even want to have sex with you.
Sis he was the wrong man. The right one will appreciate. Trust me. I had the wrong one for 31 years. I have the right one now so I know the difference. May God lead you to the right one. Blessings.
@@Bobbillyjrboy That's something the two of you need to work though. I'm telling you a woman that is physically, mentally, and emotionally healthy is capable of doing all five if she feels secure in her relationship. A broken woman will feel insecure.
YESSSS!! I look at it like a pair of book ends.. BOTH ends need to HOLD what is on the shelf as much as the other!! Cuz if one end is lacking then those books gunna slip, slide, & eventually fall off the shelf!!
I am with you on that one. Cause I hear a lot in how to treat a man. Nobody says he needs to be the same way. Do more things in what they need to know about us.
@@tammiebennett4632what woman is really dealing with a man who isnt having sex and saying hi to his woman lol this is so far below what most women expect. ON TOP OF THAT men waste endless funds dating and chasing
Once a man receives all 5 from his women he will do 1 or 2 things: 1-love, respect and cherish you - or 2. Play you, because he knows you Absolutely love him
That is so jacked up. The man I was went I got him all 5 of these and more he straight up played me. I have taken the time out to heal and to do my best to learn about men. I've been happy single for 10 years now.
Agree I raised 5 sons As little boys teen. They needed the same. When they are missing this from infancy toddlers. Preschool elementary. Jr high. High school Good boys act like bad boys who grow into. Empty hardened. Men Until the one Ladies you They know instantly Makes KNIW even if they don’t say it. They know first you are mine. The one my heart loves. If you love. It’s unselfish ladies. You. Want to do these 5 things more. Love is giving. More happiness in giving to the right ones Glad to do it it all. !!!!! It’s peace it’s like being home. Breathing. Contentment They don’t need competition. Put downs corrections. Acts of disloyalty. They get enough of that daily. Be there peace their every thing. They will surely. Let you know tell you show you are their every thing !!!!!
Quiet as kept this is so big! But never mentioned! I just learned this after a 20+ year failed marriage. But, my new love interest needed someone to love and to love him back. We're appreciative of each other.
Correct. He will never receive these five things until he is safe within himself. You cannot command God to give when you haven't given yourself. He will only receive these five things once he is whole, balanced, and centered or God will bypass him and give it to the man whole is really ready. Wanting, waiting and getting are not the same in Gods eye. He knows the needs before you think and act before you asks.
Let's be real, a lot of men don't know how to reciprocate the same energy towards their women. A lot of them want her to be "their peace", but they can't even create the environment for her to be that peace. Most of these men like to slack off, but still expect a woman to hold up her end of the bargain. It don't work like that.
I had all these things for a man that i loved. Still he left me😢and the reason he left is because he didn't know how to be with me. He wasn't able to understand that i loved him for him and not his money..... he stayed away. Ik have cry for 3 months before i let go of the situation..... now a year later i am still healing because i tought it was my fault.... but it was his insecurity...... i will be fine. I pray every day and thank God for his grace and love❤
Im glad you are healing from this. Its sad to say that some men have been conditioned to believe this cant exist and if it does it won't last. He wasn't ready to receive the blessing. There will be someone healed and ready to be loved. Until then work on you and be ready to try it again with someone deserving. Sending love and encouragement ❤❤❤❤
Women don't get to define what a "real man" is, because that description isn't going to line up with what men think a "real man" is. That would be like men trying to define what a "real woman" is.
@@ellenburke3698 - Men don't get to define what a "real woman" is either. The main reason being that "real" description is going to be different from person to person.
@@prisondetoxproject2033y so triggered...when it's been talked about women uall jump with ur toxic replied and comments. Don't get triggered if tit for tat happens
Ok for the most part most men get to a certain level they choose to abandon the relationship that held them down on every level so you are indeed correct and I know from experience 😑
The needs of a man and a woman are very much one in the same. Indifference occurs when one is giving 100% and the other less than. Iron sharpens iron, but when pride interrupts, the relationship becomes dull.
Tears of Joy.I was 16 when we met he was 18 😘👂🏾we are now 63 & 65 years old .❤️we have 4 beautiful children 1 daughter and 3 sons.I was 23 years old when we married he was 25 yrs old.still trying to make it work ❗📖 always put God first.tears of Joy.
@@shyne1308 um no they dont...so u have accepted that YOU will always be cheated on..thats you...work on ur self esteem....keep settling for less, u will always get less.
@e.williams13 yes they do. Any man who can get women does. Men who can't get women have to be with 1 woman. Desperate men have to settle for one a man who gets a woman a dime a dozen ain't go settle for that. He go have his side pieces. It's no benefit in having 1 woman
I am a wife, I agree but my husband married me. Ladies stop giving sex til married. But, yes, as a wife I give the following and more to my man on a constant basis: 1) gratitude 2) loyalty 3) sex 4) understanding 5) attention to detail
There is no limit to what a woman will do for her husband, no limit to what she will accomplish in life, no limit to what she'll produce in the relationship...when she's loved right! If it's in a man's heart to leave or cheat, a woman can't do enough to change that fact and/or make him stay 💯
Thought #1 would be respect ... guess loyalty and gratitude can be mixed into that. ... I like your list though. I've done that in all my relationships. Their insecurity and unhealed trauma turned things sour.
For the life of me I don't understand why he didn't mention respect first and foremost. Respect is the one thing that man crave and desire the most. Those other things that were listed are very important but pale in comparison to respect.
@@williamwillis9020Gratitude, loyalty, understanding, and attention to detail are all included in respect. If a woman respects a/her man, she's going to give him those things. I think he broke it down. If he had said "respect", many women would be asking "what does RESPECT look like to a man/men?".
Truth! I wondered how he didn't include that in the 5. As a matter of fact, if you respect your person (man or woman), everything else seems to line up correctly. My woman knows, the ONE thing I ask for is RESPECT an I do my best to not only reciprocate but honor the respect I'm given, so it keeps coming. *Just my personal opinion though*
Oh my goodness! I needed to hear this video, because this is what I have to offer.. My narcissistic EX, while devaluing me to excuse his cheating, was like you have OCD and always pay too much attention to the details of things.... I wanted to say "well a good man who doesn't have anything to hide would actually appreciate that I make sure all the bills get paid, that I make sure the house is clean and organized, that I pick up on when the energy is off, so I can determine how to help fix things.. But a cheating husband doesn't like a detail-oriented woman, because then he gets caught"
You are a rare one because we can do that and more. I did all this with a good guy until he found out I was sweeter than he knew. So now I know a nice person can meet a nicer person and become evil and abusive to a good one.
Women need the same things. If you are loyal to your woman, you will not cheat on her. The problem with most of you men is, you want your woman to be loyal to you but you are not loyal to her. And when she catches on and gives you a taste of your own medicine, then “all women are this and the other “. Do right by your woman and she will do the same for you.
It’s CRAZY that if a woman said this and someone comments saying “ How about us men? You should do this for me too”. You would attack him. Let the men have their space the same ways we do. We should not be attacking each other. We ALL have our purposes and should take Accountability.
@@QueenTut.thank you for sticking up for men, I appreciate that. Which is something that this other person completely missed. Instead of trying to get attention for women and attacking men in general for something that they might not do, how about just show appreciation for this guy's advice, both male and female like gratitude, so the original commentor should just reciprocate the gratitude
@@QueenTut.are u sure...so asking for reciprocal just like most fo alpha beta videos says is wrong?? What space?? Women has always been treated like slaves. When we will raise our demands and voice up. U must be a man
@@ByakuyaKBattacking?? Where....if women demand certain things....I hvnt seen any men competing this o such videos to other men to stop attacking women's demand. Why??only men can demand?? Thast where uall fail men!! Uall want bt can't give same efforts and complain when women demands. If demanding is attacking this this man in video is attacking women!
Love, forgiveness, support, respect and thankfulness. She needs to have a godly foundation first of all, this come with that. I don’t mean just go to church, but live it.
WOW he just described what a Woman needs AS WELL !!!! So if both parties apply the same thing then we’ll would you look at that we Both will be in a Wonderful Relationship 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
It’s easy to give all of that to a man but he won’t appreciate or see what he has in her and won’t act on the same level. Therefore, he might not leave but she will because she’s been treated poorly while he got too comfortable
SIR ABSOLUTELY RIGHT AND WOMEN NEEDS THIS AS WELL. ALSO RESPECT, COMMUNICATION, BEST FRIEND I COULD GO ON AND ON HOWEVER U AND R ON THE SAME PAGE. BLESSINGS ❤❤❤❤
The key word is THE RIGHT MAN! Some of these clowns will mess up regardless of how much a Woman gives.
Was married for many years to a man whose mama told him it was OK to cheat and at every opportunity he did!!! He Didn’t care about the marriage at all!!! He wasn’t loyal and when I had enough… it was done and done!
That’s the honest truth!!! if he’s not the right man it means absolutely nothing !!
Absolutely!! I have that going on now. 19yrs of loving my husband.
Exactly!! Cause I gave all of this plus more and the guy still cheated. Lie more then idk what. Womanizer. Immature etc. So this only refers to REAL MAN. Cause you can be the BEST woman but dating the wrong guy.
That part
A real man needs to be lead by God.
Amen...that part!
Indeed! Guys with boyish mentalities won't appreciate this list. 🙏🏾💜💯
Perfect truth!
Exactly
What he's saying is in the spirit of following God's word 🙏🏽.. There's an order to this!!!! God-man-woman-child..
Men are not complicated when they choose to be non-deceptive, respectful, straightforward communicators.
Can't say enough AMENS!
NO GOD NO PEACE! Only GOD gives grace💯
Amen to that!!!
These are UNIVERSAL “truths”. They are not specific to men only. Women NEED these same things.
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Absolute universal truths! RECIPROCITY PLEASE AND THANK YOU!!
Girl. There a million and one videos on how to please a woman. Can men have something? For once? Damn
Great point
Really?? Providing is very important I'm surprised you don't need that I work construction also do a lot side jobs soon I'm about to need a contractor license and I would love these 5 things he mentioned.. but I'm really surprised you wouldn't want your man to provide income..
And make sure he has healed from all of his trauma, so he can receive those 5 things you just mention.
Ha! Yes.
😂
Mention that again also it goes both ways, to.😮😊
True
And the Comment of the Year award goes to this one right here!
Yes this is true for a ‘Evolved Man’ that is healed from his trauma and willing to mature up when he makes mistakes. A black woman will give the right man everything he needs but he needs to healthy body mind and soul. Yep I said 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Tina, Women give Men everything, you and I both know this. It’s still not enough for some Men. I’m older so I’m just going to tell you like
it is, treat him the same way you would like to
Be treated. We as Women have the tendency to
think everything is about us, it’s not so get accustomed to that. Growing up with 6 older brothers, that taught me sooo much. Cook for
him, set him up in the bathe room. A tub of water, glass of wine, TV on his favorite show.
It’s all about him
@@sexylexie if he is mature enough to receive, but hunni did all of that you have to realize a lot of men are not ready for that. Some have so much trauma ( as we all do) they will mistake that for taking advantage of you as that good woman. I’m older also women can give give and never get nothing in return. I truly believe a relationship of any caliber should be reciprocated. We all should live and learn from our experiences. It is well with my soul be blessed
@@tinacobb4288 Some men aren’t worth the
time of day, but want everything from you.
You should know, don’t give everything and
get nothing in return.
You left out RESPECT !! That is the main quality men require.
Biblical a woman is called to respect her husband. Number five covered that.
“Quality men”? Is that like a unicorn or something
One bright day in the middle of the night type oxymoron😂
@@sherethadaniels473you have to be a real man to become a husband and live up to the responsibilities of one
They don’t need to ask for respect, they earn it
Give a WOMEN 5 things….
1. LOYALTY
2. Appreciation
3. Attention
4. Assistance
5. Emotional connection
YOU will receive 5 and more.
Heavy on ASSISTANCE cuz SMH i am now Awake! They want us in our femininity... then ASSIST me so I can remain there.
😂 exactly 💯 I love your comment!!!
Wow really we need love back 2 .... I gave my all and got nothing but a scrub that is no longer
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmwaaaaaaaaah😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
100%SURE
Men aren't complicated, but narcissistic men are very complicated.
Preach 🎉
Amen , ain't that the truth
RUN!!
Women love throwing that word around. Lol
You SAID it
GOD IS NOT COMPLICATED AT ALL. 🙏🏾 🙌🏽 HALLELUJAH ABSOLUTELY 💯 U TRYING TO FIGURE OUT. YOU,YOU!
Goes both ways!!! Equal give and take!!!!! Well spoken!!!!!
A woman will provide all of those things when she is loved, respected, protected/safe.
💯💯🔥
Exactly 😅& I'm tired of them acting like we don't want the same thing. That's literally why they fail in relationships. Because they want what want while not reciprocating.
Amen!!!
100%
💯💯💯💯💯💯
Before asking for gratitude, get ready to provide safety, protection and unconditional love to your woman..give her reasons to be grateful
Only God can provide unconditional love.
💯 and everything else will follow
@@FinanceUp711 yes and God is within each of us. We find it when we let our ego fall down
Yes!👏🏾👏🏾
Yes!
I agree, because women want the same things!❤💯🙏🏽
Amen. True facts. God bless you for sharing your truth and information. 😊❤ Communication is "KEY." Enough said,. ok . True talk. I feel your energy and truth about loving your man. My husband passed. I was his ride or die. WE had all you stated. We were together for 41 years. I miss him. That is why I'm single. God knows. 🙌 Trust and Believe. Old school knowledge about love.
If a man wants to leave they will leave. Nothing you give or do will change that.
Factz
The worst is a narcissist. He will always walk away when he is done playing his game with you.
The RIGHT man won't walk away
Facts!
I will tell you this though take it or leave it. Men very RARELY leave what they truly love or cherish.
Ladies, stop giving men all these and give these to yourself. Love yourselves enough to give to yourselves till the right man comes and gives you a reason to give to him
ABSOLUTE TRUTH 💯
💯
💯
Ladies, me and only want sex, and for somebody to clean up after them, and someone to worship them that's what men want that's what their whole statement was so as she said don't waste your time on them take care of yourself, elevate yourself, and then you choose what you're going to tolerate, because the only thing that they want. It's someone to serve them,. They don't want to help, they don't want to uplift, they don't want to please, they just want to f*** point blank period.
Agreed
Loyalty is all we ask for. Companionship . Us against the world. Not us against ourselves
And #6 RESPECT!
Gotta be careful about wrapping that call up at the door. He'll accuse you of cheating QUICK cause' you never take calls in his presence. 😂
It's happened.
😂😂😂
I agree... cause lord knows I’ll would think it abt him 🤷🏽♀️😂😂
lmaoo!!!
Definitely because it’s happened to me and I wasn’t cheating I was tryna be respectful. So key is the right man I guess
Yeah that wasn't a great example but the principle is solid. She can come in talking "hey baby," keep talking.
Men ought to treat women they way they want to be treated
Period ❤
The right man will. Never try to change a man. If he truly loves you you won't have to ask for these things. He'll do them bc of how much he loves you.
Men and women want different things from each other tho...
@@that1guyslick618that part
That goes for some women, too!
I believe you sir!❤ But women have needs also!
Yes lord because my man taught me how to love, listen and he gets it all no matter what❤
Gratitude, loyalty, sex, understanding and attention to detail 📝
Not always true!
A man will always take advantage and not appreciate or return the same to a woman
We want the same things as women and respect
And home cooked meals on the regular 😉...#6
Gratitude, loyalty, understanding definitely. Sex is not in my top 5. I’d put communication & respect over sex bc without that I’m not gonna even want to have sex with you.
I've given all that and more and still got my heart broken..I never met a man that appreciated those things
Sis he was the wrong man. The right one will appreciate. Trust me. I had the wrong one for 31 years. I have the right one now so I know the difference. May God lead you to the right one. Blessings.
Same.
@@cathya1645 🥰
Better is coming.
I thought I found one and after 23 years he stepped out. Some men are very complicated.
Knowledge my young bro 👍
Ex used to be on the phone a lot, if not talking, texting or browsing social medias. It got exhausting.
So so true and a good reminder too . THANKS
You make a woman feel secure in every regard and you will get all five things.
Amen 🙌. And that's real !
That’s not true. I do everything for my lady and she still a perra. Don’t take your daddy issues out on me. I am not your father
@@Bobbillyjrboy That's something the two of you need to work though.
I'm telling you a woman that is physically, mentally, and emotionally healthy is capable of doing all five if she feels secure in her relationship. A broken woman will feel insecure.
@@jadoresophya Sometimes women just like being treated like dirty. I realized that.
@@Bobbillyjrboygo to therapy or leave. Don't waste each other's time.
When you make a woman feel safe,loved and secure she will give you those 5 things and so much more!
So true
Absolutely 💯
Respect !
Peace
No drama
Right,the right man😊😊😊😊
Key Word: Man! Whose able to reciprocate on the same levels requested.
YESSSS!! I look at it like a pair of book ends.. BOTH ends need to HOLD what is on the shelf as much as the other!! Cuz if one end is lacking then those books gunna slip, slide, & eventually fall off the shelf!!
I am with you on that one. Cause I hear a lot in how to treat a man. Nobody says he needs to be the same way. Do more things in what they need to know about us.
YES
Yes!!! I was going to say the exact same thing “MEN”!!!!!!!
@@tammiebennett4632what woman is really dealing with a man who isnt having sex and saying hi to his woman lol this is so far below what most women expect. ON TOP OF THAT men waste endless funds dating and chasing
Once a man receives all 5 from his women he will do 1 or 2 things:
1-love, respect and cherish you - or
2. Play you, because he knows you Absolutely love him
That is so jacked up. The man I was went I got him all 5 of these and more he straight up played me. I have taken the time out to heal and to do my best to learn about men. I've been happy single for 10 years now.
Yes, if he’s not the right one; he’ll play you like a fiddle because he’ll think you’ll never leave.
Yeah I did all this and still trying to heal
Most times it will always be 2 because they truly believe that you would never leave them and that your are nothing without them
You got that right, Sister. i was just about to write this
This is powerful thank you.
Agree I raised 5 sons
As little boys teen. They needed the same. When they are missing this from infancy toddlers. Preschool elementary. Jr high. High school
Good boys act like bad boys who grow into. Empty hardened. Men
Until the one Ladies you
They know instantly
Makes KNIW even if they don’t say it. They know first you are mine. The one my heart loves.
If you love. It’s unselfish ladies.
You. Want to do these 5 things more. Love is giving. More happiness in giving to the right ones
Glad to do it it all. !!!!!
It’s peace it’s like being home. Breathing. Contentment
They don’t need competition.
Put downs corrections. Acts of disloyalty. They get enough of that daily.
Be there peace their every thing.
They will surely. Let you know tell you show you are their every thing
!!!!!
It goes both ways and you both have to want to stay and be kept! That's the main thing!
Quiet as kept this is so big! But never mentioned! I just learned this after a 20+ year failed marriage.
But, my new love interest needed someone to love and to love him back. We're appreciative of each other.
Women need to take pride in themselves, love themselves, respect themselves. Stop looking for a male to fill complete. Be complete within yourselves.
Speak
Yeap
That's the only thing that can complete you
But God said man and a woman are one. We meant to complete each other so please stop your bull
@@ACAjc152Men-made religion. Try again.
💯 your right thats easy if he treats her right!
Women also need those 5 things plus respect and to be valued🙏♥️🕊️it’s a give and take ☀️
Men want you to be for them ,but they be for everybody’s!
I feel sorry for your man if you do have one
You nail it!
Facts👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Lol😂
Preach
A healed, godly grounded man is not complicated. Correction.
but he also will expect his women to be as well
He's speaking straight facts!😁🙏
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾#YEEEESSS #REAL MEN🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
A man first needs a personal connection with God ❤the Father…. Then everything else will fall into place ….. Amen
Correct. He will never receive these five things until he is safe within himself. You cannot command God to give when you haven't given yourself. He will only receive these five things once he is whole, balanced, and centered or God will bypass him and give it to the man whole is really ready. Wanting, waiting and getting are not the same in Gods eye. He knows the needs before you think and act before you asks.
AMEN AMEN AMEN!
Amen
Amen
AMEN TO THAT!
This works both ways. Women need this, too!
Preach bro, much appreciated. Can't wait for hopefully one day we can be appreciated and understood.
Let's be real, a lot of men don't know how to reciprocate the same energy towards their women. A lot of them want her to be "their peace", but they can't even create the environment for her to be that peace. Most of these men like to slack off, but still expect a woman to hold up her end of the bargain. It don't work like that.
Tell em
Exactly
Real women want the same things in return . ❤❤❤🥰
GO KING 👑😎✌🏽
Lady here and I want the exact same things!!!❤❤❤
I had all these things for a man that i loved. Still he left me😢and the reason he left is because he didn't know how to be with me. He wasn't able to understand that i loved him for him and not his money..... he stayed away. Ik have cry for 3 months before i let go of the situation..... now a year later i am still healing because i tought it was my fault.... but it was his insecurity...... i will be fine. I pray every day and thank God for his grace and love❤
Im glad you are healing from this. Its sad to say that some men have been conditioned to believe this cant exist and if it does it won't last. He wasn't ready to receive the blessing. There will be someone healed and ready to be loved. Until then work on you and be ready to try it again with someone deserving. Sending love and encouragement ❤❤❤❤
😢❤ i love u sis
A woman needs real love and honesty. Can a real man provide that..
Exactly, and stop telling her what she wants to hear and tell he what she needs to know.
@@raynettescoggins702 yes
To a real, sound-minded, woman...yes, and a real man wants the same things provided, love and honesty. A real women should also provide those things
Women don't get to define what a "real man" is, because that description isn't going to line up with what men think a "real man" is. That would be like men trying to define what a "real woman" is.
@@ellenburke3698 - Men don't get to define what a "real woman" is either. The main reason being that "real" description is going to be different from person to person.
That goes both ways a woman needs treated the same way loyalty respect and loved Amento that
Truth honesty need to be on list..
They will only want a good woman until the good woman requires them to be good men
Say it
This is good. Sooooooooooo True
So TRUE!!!
Preach ! We cant hold them accountable thought
TRUTH
It’s a two way street.
Reciprocity. Integrity. Humbleness
For the intent and purpose of this video, its a One Way street. We talking about men right now. Let that sink in
@@prisondetoxproject2033y so triggered...when it's been talked about women uall jump with ur toxic replied and comments. Don't get triggered if tit for tat happens
@@prisondetoxproject2033 Lmao are you a 12 yo on their birthday ?
I swear to God men babies are ruining this world
That part! The complexity isn’t in what is needed but the appreciation of what is received, by reciprocal actions.
Yes yes yes
Brother you left out the ultimate thing we want is Respect!
Add peace of mind. Women today cannot provide this for all the bags in the world.
You want what is earned.
Yes that's true,but at the same time show people how to treat you,if she's worth the process,if ain't special it ain't worth it!
Preach! And rep that star bro!
"Men are not complicated at all." You get bored and decide to abuse and betray the people you claim to love the most.
Ok for the most part
most men get to a certain level they choose to abandon the relationship that held them down on every level so you are indeed correct and I know from experience 😑
Yep
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*normal men* maybe if y'all didn't pick crapy men then you wouldn't get crapy results
@@Buddy2fly With this response and spelling I can definitely assume your one of the crappy ones have the day you deserve 🤣🤣🤣
The needs of a man and a woman are very much one in the same. Indifference occurs when one is giving 100% and the other less than. Iron sharpens iron, but when pride interrupts, the relationship becomes dull.
Absolutely 💯 - if not reciprocated, that iron becomes real dull 🎯
Nice!!!💯💯 🎯 🎯
very true 👍 👌 ❤
Wise words 💯
That EGO is a problem to.
Women just want that same ideology, too, and it's not a bad thing. We are not all that different or that difficult. It's beautiful ❤ being in unity 🤝
Absolutely love the jacket!!!
When you provide those 5 things and they still cheat then
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Most of them are same
Tears of Joy.I was 16 when we met he was 18 😘👂🏾we are now 63 & 65 years old .❤️we have 4 beautiful children 1 daughter and 3 sons.I was 23 years old when we married he was 25 yrs old.still trying to make it work ❗📖 always put God first.tears of Joy.
Thank you for sharing
Loyalty and we are not always gonna get it right but ready to work toward getting it right is and her understanding this is everything!!!
Yes, men are. And so are women. That's why we balance each other out. Ying & yang ☯️
You can give that man ALL of that and they still will come up with an excuse to cheat.
All men cheat..its not accuse..be alone if u can't handle it
@@shyne1308 um no they dont...so u have accepted that YOU will always be cheated on..thats you...work on ur self esteem....keep settling for less, u will always get less.
@e.williams13 yes they do. Any man who can get women does. Men who can't get women have to be with 1 woman. Desperate men have to settle for one a man who gets a woman a dime a dozen ain't go settle for that. He go have his side pieces. It's no benefit in having 1 woman
“If a good man wants a good woman, he must strive to be a better man because a good woman is always a good woman.”
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What does that even mean? A good woman should also always strive to be a better woman. Women aren’t perfect either
Real talk
i agree
Bro, your words is fye 💯 But the Cowboys, though… I can’t een ride witcha😂
He preaching we are not difficult
I am a wife, I agree but my husband married me. Ladies stop giving sex til married. But, yes, as a wife I give the following and more to my man on a constant basis:
1) gratitude
2) loyalty
3) sex
4) understanding
5) attention to detail
@@ellenburke3698Good question. This is a story I will tell you soon.
There is no limit to what a woman will do for her husband, no limit to what she will accomplish in life, no limit to what she'll produce in the relationship...when she's loved right! If it's in a man's heart to leave or cheat, a woman can't do enough to change that fact and/or make him stay 💯
If she married him for all the right reasons rather than just economic interest.
Some women are total manipulators and deceitful...Sad.
Exactly 💯💯💯 sometimes a man's gonna do what a mans gonna do regardless
Amen 💯💯💯
There is no limit to what a woman will do for her husband, accomplish, produce: I AGREE 100
And that is actually what a woman also wants... ❤God bless the couples that find this❤
Wise young man 🫶🏾🙏🏾
The right man will be sent from God for me 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Amen
Yes your Boaz will find you! Don’t go looking for him!
What’s the right man?
@@serenasmith5946 thank you 🙏🏻
Thought #1 would be respect ... guess loyalty and gratitude can be mixed into that. ... I like your list though. I've done that in all my relationships. Their insecurity and unhealed trauma turned things sour.
For the life of me I don't understand why he didn't mention respect first and foremost. Respect is the one thing that man crave and desire the most. Those other things that were listed are very important but pale in comparison to respect.
So true.
that last part, sis. I get it
@@williamwillis9020Gratitude, loyalty, understanding, and attention to detail are all included in respect. If a woman respects a/her man, she's going to give him those things. I think he broke it down. If he had said "respect", many women would be asking "what does RESPECT look like to a man/men?".
@@irritism1227..good point!
Blessings message blessings
words from my heart
LISTEN SINGLES even those who are IN A RELATIONSHIP❗ FOR HE KNOW THAT THIS KNOWLEDGE GO'S BOTH WAYS.
Exactly 💯 both ways
We are not equal
As God made the woman after the man, so should the women be the 5 things he said in this video.
Didn't God create Eve for Adam and not the other way around. It goes both ways, but women must be what he said MORE. As men spend on women more.
@@sayeed7255"Spend" what on women more?
In a relationship you get what you give. It’s a two way street. Men can’t keep taking, they also have to know what a woman need.
Give a man RESPECT and He will give you love.
A man will ALWAYS protect and provide for who or what he loves.
Straight up facts bro 100
Men need to evolve, period. All this shit they asking for they need to evolve for.
All good points that should be everyone's relationship standards.
Amen brother
Bro you sound crazy AF😂😂😂
I think the first thing every man wants is Respect.
Truth! I wondered how he didn't include that in the 5. As a matter of fact, if you respect your person (man or woman), everything else seems to line up correctly.
My woman knows, the ONE thing I ask for is RESPECT an I do my best to not only reciprocate but honor the respect I'm given, so it keeps coming.
*Just my personal opinion though*
I second you.
That's earned.
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Hmmm....🤔
Please elaborate.
@@Megan-19 that's what's wrong in society. Respect for men is automatic because they are our leaders.
Oh my goodness! I needed to hear this video, because this is what I have to offer.. My narcissistic EX, while devaluing me to excuse his cheating, was like you have OCD and always pay too much attention to the details of things....
I wanted to say "well a good man who doesn't have anything to hide would actually appreciate that I make sure all the bills get paid, that I make sure the house is clean and organized, that I pick up on when the energy is off, so I can determine how to help fix things.. But a cheating husband doesn't like a detail-oriented woman, because then he gets caught"
#6. Respect
You are a rare one because we can do that and more. I did all this with a good guy until he found out I was sweeter than he knew. So now I know a nice person can meet a nicer person and become evil and abusive to a good one.
It goes both ways, and for the right person.
Women need the same things. If you are loyal to your woman, you will not cheat on her. The problem with most of you men is, you want your woman to be loyal to you but you are not loyal to her. And when she catches on and gives you a taste of your own medicine, then “all women are this and the other “. Do right by your woman and she will do the same for you.
It’s CRAZY that if a woman said this and someone comments saying “ How about us men? You should do this for me too”. You would attack him. Let the men have their space the same ways we do. We should not be attacking each other. We ALL have our purposes and should take Accountability.
@@QueenTut.thank you for sticking up for men, I appreciate that. Which is something that this other person completely missed. Instead of trying to get attention for women and attacking men in general for something that they might not do, how about just show appreciation for this guy's advice, both male and female like gratitude, so the original commentor should just reciprocate the gratitude
@@QueenTut.are u sure...so asking for reciprocal just like most fo alpha beta videos says is wrong?? What space?? Women has always been treated like slaves. When we will raise our demands and voice up. U must be a man
@@ByakuyaKBattacking?? Where....if women demand certain things....I hvnt seen any men competing this o such videos to other men to stop attacking women's demand. Why??only men can demand?? Thast where uall fail men!! Uall want bt can't give same efforts and complain when women demands. If demanding is attacking this this man in video is attacking women!
Love, forgiveness, support, respect and thankfulness. She needs to have a godly foundation first of all, this come with that. I don’t mean just go to church, but live it.
WOW he just described what a Woman needs AS WELL !!!! So if both parties apply the same thing then we’ll would you look at that we Both will be in a Wonderful Relationship 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
It’s easy to give all of that to a man but he won’t appreciate or see what he has in her and won’t act on the same level. Therefore, he might not leave but she will because she’s been treated poorly while he got too comfortable
Well said! I have been there!!!🤷🏽♀️
You have to get a man that likes you as much as you like him. If he fwy he gonna be grateful for it.
Tell that TRUTH!!!💯
It takes a Good man to get all that from a good woman.
THERE IS NO ONE GOOD BUT GOD.
SO YEAH...WHERE DO WE GO FROM THERE.....?
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Indeed, the RIGHT MAN APPRECIATES, these simple things..
SIR ABSOLUTELY RIGHT AND WOMEN NEEDS THIS AS WELL. ALSO RESPECT, COMMUNICATION, BEST FRIEND I COULD GO ON AND ON HOWEVER U AND R ON THE SAME PAGE. BLESSINGS ❤❤❤❤
Agree
be blessed
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Amen