Overeating and Excessive Sexual Desire (Through Ghazali's Ihya') | Mufti Abdur-Rahman ibn Yusuf
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- Al-Ghazali was one of the most prominent and influential philosophers, theologians, jurists, and mystics of Sunni Islam. He was of Persian origin.
Islamic tradition considers him to be a Mujaddid, a renewer of the faith who, according to the prophetic hadith, appears once every century to restore the faith of the ummah ("the Islamic Community").His works were so highly acclaimed by his contemporaries that al-Ghazali was awarded the honorific title "Proof of Islam" (Hujjat al-Islam).
Al-Ghazali believed that the Islamic spiritual tradition had become moribund and that the spiritual sciences taught by the first generation of Muslims had been forgotten. That resulted in his writing his magnum opus entitled Ihya 'ulum al-din ("The Revival of the Religious Sciences").Among his other works, the Tahāfut al-Falāsifa ("Incoherence of the Philosophers") is a significant landmark in the history of philosophy, as it advances the critique of Aristotelian science developed later in 14th-century Europe.
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MASHA ALLAH THIS MAN, THE SPEAKER, WAS MY QURAN TEACHER. I REMEMBER I USED TO GO TO THE MASJID AND HE WAS MY MADARSA TEACHER!!!! SEEING HIM ON TH-cam AFTER ALL THESE YEARS BRINGS NOSTALGIC FEELINGS...HE WAS MORE THAN A SIMPLE ISLAMIC TEACHER WHO TAUGHT QURAN. SHEIKH ABDUL RAHMAN HAD THESE REALLY GOOD STORIES THAT I REMEMBER TO THIS DAY THAN ANY QURAN LESSON. HE WAS A SCHOLAR OF GREAT MIND NOT JUST A MERE COPIER JUST TRYING TO GET STUDENTS BY FROM READING QURAN. TO THIS DAY IVE NEVER HAD A GREAT TEACHER LIKE THIS MAN. HE WAS REALLY AN EDUCATED PERSON
Al Ghazali (RA) is a scholar we need now more than ever.
I've read his book Disciplining the Soul and Breaking the two Desires and wallah it changed my life.
could i please be sent the pdf my brother ?
Aameen
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If you truly want the problem to get solved i have some tips for you. Remember one thing. It does not mater what the end result is. What mater is how much effort your putting in. Some can stop just like that, but for others it takes time. What ever your case may be. Know that your not ALONE and that if others suceeded, you can aswell.
1. Make an intention of what you want to stop with.
2. Write it down on something.
3. Write down what causes you to get lust for it.(time,place, scenario)
4. Write down how often you do it(per week)
5. Write down how you spend your time when not doing it/thinking of it. In essence this will make you realise how much you worship Allah on your "off time from sin".
6. Plan to increase your worship durning offtime.(Best way is to pray in masjid)
7. Set a limit on your sinning.(Decrease it with time). Set goals.
8. Work towards your goal by planning how to avoid/resolve what triggers you/build you up to sin. (3.)
9. Hate it EVERYTIME you fall for the sin. And emidietly pray 2 rakah and ask Allah for forgiveness. This point is the most important one. Because your niyyah is not truthfull if you dont ask for forgiveness. Sin makes the heart hard and the hardness will make you not feel regret. Only cure is to force yourself(jihad an nafs) to ask Allah for forgiveness, make duaa and tell yourself that Allah hates it so you do to.
just to add, if it's a real problem, go on this website called noFap. A website dedicated to rid PMO(Porn,Masturbation,Orgasm)Non-muslims and muslims work together to break it. It's beneficial inshallah
Food is like dajaal. Deception. Making the good look bad and the bad look good. I do OMAD. Eat one meal a day. Alhamdulilah i have lost weight and more awakened. The food industry is all about the money. Invented the idea of breakfast, meal and tea and of course snacks and desserts. You don't need all this. Just one meal. Alhamdulilah
Alhumdulillah! Isn’t it hard to do though. I mean two meals makes sense and is not too hard. But one meal? How do you do this
@@Letbigbhandleit Alhamdulilah. Start slowly. Reduce your food intake each day but eat good quality food and ensure you eat a bit of carbs, protein, salad, fibre, dairy etc. I am fasting now actually Alhamdulilah. I have trained my mind to overcome temptation and this i believe protects me from fitna. Allah knows best. Watch th-cam.com/video/M7RuGvMJndg/w-d-xo.html
@630247365 On the contary. If you eat the right food and healthy fat like avocado, nuts and carbs you will be fine. Alhamdulilah.
@@Letbigbhandleit You save loads of money, more energy, more time, more contemplation, less shopping, less washing, more appreciation and gratitude, lose weight, body fights cancer cells, feel lighter, better immune system, look younger, longevity, gives a rest to digestive system etc. Allah Hu Akbar!!! If that doesn't motivate you i don't know what will.
It certainly motivates. I will give this a try I am not overweight at all, pretty athletic but still wanna eat lesser. Rn I eat 2 meals a day, also tea and snacks. Btw what time do you eat your 1 meal?
Such an amazing bayan as always allah increase mufti sahebs knowledge give him good healthy long life I benefit from him immensely
I am sooo happy that the Olamas now speak also about this Topic.
I really enjoyed this speech .....Very wise man, God bless.
Jazak Allah, please make such videos more often since these things are more prevalent now than ever before.
I'm glad i found this channel
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One suggestion for mufti sahab is that in this video when he talked about sexual desires he only considerd married people and completely neglected unmarried/single people who actually are suffering from this more than married people, because late marriages are common now. That is probably because he is married and his most of the companions are married too.
In fact decreasing the food and fasting is for both marry and unmarried people. It will help decreasing your lust …
Thank you sooooo much for sharing this Video! May Allah swt give you more and more Reward. What an elequent and noble speaker !!! Maahallah swt. Iam proud of having such a wise , kind and noble personalities in our Religeon
Really!
Amazing Lecture,
Please make duaa for me to keep me steadfast and not get angry easily...
Do u talk a lot?
Worth listening talk jazakallah khairan sheikh.
Subhan Allah Alhumdulillah Laelaha ellallahu Allahu Akbar Masha Allah jazak Allah Khairun shaikh for the great great islamic series may almighty Allah bless us protect us from all kinds of fitnah Ameen 🙏🌹💯🌹
MaShaAllah as always
Perfect lecture for my commute from work 👍🏾
Jazaka'Allah.....very beneficial lecture
May Allah bless you.your lecture is on very important topic. I also pray that May Allah increase ur knowledge
May Allah protect the Muslims from overeating and fulfilling their sexual desires in a haraam manner.
Very informative
Alhamdulillah 💜
Awesome speech Mashallah.
Very good
TabarakAllah. Will try to get benefits of the insights..
"Inshallah This verse of Quran will help you to control your desires:"
*Most certainly those Believers have attained true success who perform their Salat with humility: who refrain from vain things: who spend their Zakat dues in appropriate ways: who guard their private parts scrupulously, except with regard to their wives and those women who are legally in their possession, for in that case they shall not be blame-worthy, but those, who go beyond this (in lust for sexual desires), shall be transgressors: who are true to their trusts and their promises, and who strictly guard their Prayers. These are the heirs who will inherit Paradise and dwell therein for ever.*
Quran 23 Verse [1-11]
*Do not even go near fornication for it is a very indecent flung and a very evil way.*
Quran 17 Verse [32]
Assalamu Alaikum Brother Beautiful speech May Allah bless you and your family.
Jazakallah..... a productive lecture, worth listening. Please provide the details of upcoming Book of Mufti on Marriage Life.
www.whitethreadpress.com/handbook_of_a_healthy_muslim_marriage/
Mash Allah! Grace us with your visit to us in Deoband once again.
All this food talk made more hungry..
I hope this talk works for me I'm a straight up perv from da hood
If you truly want the problem to get solved i have some tips for you. Remember one thing. It does not mater what the end result is. What mater and is how much effort your putting. Some can stop just like that, but for others it takes time. What ever your case may be. Know that your not ALONE and that if others suceeded, you can aswell.
1. Make an intention of what you want to stop with.
2. Write it down on something.
3. Write down what causes you to get lust for it.(time,place, scenario)
4. Write down how often you do it(per week)
5. Write down how you spend your time when not doing it/thinking of it. In essence this will make you realise how much you worship Allah on your "off time from sin".
6. Plan to increase your worship durning offtime.(Best way is to pray in masjid)
7. Set a limit on your sinning.(Decrease it with time). Set goals.
8. Work towards your goal by planning how to avoid/resolve what triggers you/build you up to sin. (3.)
9. Hate it EVERYTIME you fall for the sin. And emidietly pray 2 rakah and ask Allah for forgiveness. This point is the most important one. Because your niyyah is not truthfull if you dont ask for forgiveness. Sin makes the heart hard and the hardness will make you not feel regret. Only cure is to force yourself(jihad an nafs) to ask Allah for forgiveness, make duaa and tell yourself that Allah hates it so you do to.
Hahaha 😂😂 insha'Allah bro!
So when are you going to start this long journey? -Rumi
Assalamu'alaikum
thank you Sheikh and God bless you, because you are a benefite person Dunya and after life...,
I am from Indonesia،. only I need time and effort because of language barriers,.. may i suggest your channel please. , provide subtitles in many languages ... thank you.
Mashallah, Great to see you brother, Can you please do a special lecture on Taqwa.
Can you call Mufti Sahab, not brother.
@@isaamaan2958 He is my Muslim Brother and that is love , Learn not to criticize and you will learn to be happier Isa
@@iamkman Brother and mufti sahab are both respectful words. We must appreciate the differences between us. Our culture, age, upbringing etc. all play a part in our use of words so lets be open minded as Islam teaches Alhamdulilah
@@iamkman Kman الحمد اللّه
I am very happy, I just request you, if you feel I criticised you then I do apologized for it, but still he (Mufti Sahab) is got more knowledge for Islam and he got the title as Mufti.
Salams brothers
Can anyone pls help me to find out the handbook which mufti was spoken about?
Nobody is perfect unfortunately mufti sahib.
*16:14** Its Ketogenic diet*
please make clips of this lecture as it is very difficult to make time for an hour and a half lecture
Insha'Allah. Could you send us start and finish time for each clip you recommend. May Allah reward you abundantly.
Brother just a suggestion, you can listen while driving. Or working out or something similar where you are doing something else and can also play this on headsets
you could bookmark this page in your phone browser as well as the browser in your pc. if you have an account with TH-cam (free) you have a watch history that allows you to pickup where you left off.
Please watch arabian prophet channel by native arab with university degree in islamic law.
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59:00 bangladeshis do not eat rice witht their fists, this is a middle eastern way of eating.
Yeah I think he mispoke, we eat with fingers
he meant 5 fingers as fist. Bangladeshis eat with 5 fingers.
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Keto diet?
was imam ghazali a hanafi?
he was shafi'i
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I disagree with him, one can control how they look by eating healthily, and exercising.
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What he probably means is that you can't change the features or skin colour.
You don't have a choice in your features and sex. It is by Gods will.
@@faizeladam1404
Yes that is genetic.
Our gender and facial features are out of our control.
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Afghan’s are wasteful with rice? What kind of thing to say is that, ya Mufti?
Overall good lecture, too bad for the randomly marginalized group. As if no one has ever spilt a little rice from their hands before.
Sorry Sheik , I have my 2 cents into this , well . this speech should be for all "Scholar " and " Imam" , they are obese and unhealthy , they are no good example for our youth , hence the health of muslim community is declining years after years , what worries them is their bears but they forgot about their bellies , they should fix themselves first before preaching to others about Sunnah , Sunnah is not just about bears and shaving the private parts . All those Imams always wipe the community because we are bad , but they are worst.
Saleem
Saleem Roumaldaro you get mythical morning
@@jameliaj5479 HAHA , truth hurts !
I'm sure he is speaking for everyone. Not just us but also themselves. He himself, looks healthy... so if anything he is preaching what he practices. Masha Allah.