STORYTIME (advice) - I tried 3 online christian dating apps for 3 days and here's what happened...

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  • hey family,
    I thought I'd debunk a few myths about Christian online dating and try it out myself. Just a bit of wholesome content for you all as you go about your days.
    The apps I used were Christian Mingle, Salt and Christian Connection - all free and super easy to use. Watch the video to learn more about each one and hopefully gain some insight into what it's actually like to date people online.
    If you want to see more of me, follow me on instagram / ash__es__ and if you didn't already know I run a podcast too linktr.ee/Covenant.Conversations.
    stay blessed and enjoy 🤍
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  • @doubletheR_
    @doubletheR_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    this was the confirmation I needed to get off dating apps and surrender my dating life to God to allow Him to do his thang!!

    • @adaliavasquez6552
      @adaliavasquez6552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen!

    • @carefree7930
      @carefree7930 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey beautiful

    • @theonetheonly8887
      @theonetheonly8887 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Then you’ll be waiting forever unfortunately

    • @m1ssb1mbette
      @m1ssb1mbette 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@theonetheonly8887 nah. doesn't work like that for everyone. maybe you, but you dont get to speak for God and his timing???

  • @Sashyalove
    @Sashyalove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Can we take a minute to appreciate your beauty yassss sis💃🏾 ahh sis the struggle is real I legit gave up on being on dating apps...you find the worst type of people on these "christian " dating apps...

    • @adaliavasquez6552
      @adaliavasquez6552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Too true! I was approached by someone who was in his 40s looking for girls in their late teens/early twenties on Christian Mingle and he wanted me to move to Texas within like two minutes of talking LOL... it was so creepy

    • @Sashyalove
      @Sashyalove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@adaliavasquez6552 oh my goodness,wolf in sheep 🐑 clothing be careful girl

    • @isaiahoriade6803
      @isaiahoriade6803 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      These things happens

    • @Sashyalove
      @Sashyalove 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@isaiahoriade6803 yeah I know 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @loisakinola3831
    @loisakinola3831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Naa I’m sorry this is hilarious 😂😂😂😂 “seek peace”

  • @hausofwawa312
    @hausofwawa312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I've personally had the same struggles on dating apps as far as feeling too shallow/judgmental. It's something I think we all struggle with to an extent!

  • @erwstories9065
    @erwstories9065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    ‘That’s enough for today seek peace’ flip sake 😂😭

    • @ashluzinda
      @ashluzinda  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sis I was soooo confused. 😂😂😂😂

  • @CMChannelCalvieMitchell
    @CMChannelCalvieMitchell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I personally don't like dating app I think it's a bit scary and I've heard of so many bad stories. Some people was fortunate enough to fine their partners on these apps lucky them.

    • @ashluzinda
      @ashluzinda  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Honestly I just don’t know how they do it or maybe they tried different apps. I really want to hear their stories though 😅

  • @millieempowers
    @millieempowers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    😂😂 Sis I hear you! Lol I have a love/hate relationship with these apps!! Always swiping noo noo noo ! I didnt find no matches bc nobody really was my type 💀😭

  • @adaliavasquez6552
    @adaliavasquez6552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I just feel weird about dating online. It feels as though you are shopping for a spouse. I feel that meeting people in person is much easier, since you get to know the whole person and not just their profile picture/texts. I've also had some somewhat unpleasant experiences on christian dating sites. I'm praying that God will bring the right man in person and I continue to put myself out there and seek first the Kingdom of God!

  • @renikegrace31
    @renikegrace31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aww Ashton I didn't know you had a TH-cam channel! This was a really interesting video 🎉 defiinitely subscribing ❤

  • @jesuslovesyouokay4800
    @jesuslovesyouokay4800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is actually so funny sis

  • @irenetusiime5255
    @irenetusiime5255 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    People are so judgemental, i have lost hope because everytime i try dating someone, am judged because of my physical appearance. It hurts alot😢

  • @TokioTE
    @TokioTE 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this review and love your way of describing things haha

  • @usagi8eight
    @usagi8eight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Towards the end. I liked your reflections.

  • @jesuslovesyouokay4800
    @jesuslovesyouokay4800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    😂😂😂😂😂”this person keeps waving at you”

  • @NizarAshraff
    @NizarAshraff 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i'm here before the premiere because i'm just trying to understand what my good sis is doing. but it is well 🤝

    • @ashluzinda
      @ashluzinda  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This guyyyyyyyy. Listen she learnt her lesson trust me 😂

  • @Susie.wemove
    @Susie.wemove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Very beautiful articulate girl. You need to be hanging out with your friends, having fun, dreaming etc not this online dating palaver. The longest relationship I had was with a chap I met one morning on my way to work-after our chat he proceeded to give me a lecture about talking to strange men🙄😂😂!! Leave it to God he ll do the rest

  • @realrea
    @realrea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Girl, you almost killed me!!! 🤣

  • @TheDancingBagel
    @TheDancingBagel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved this video!!! So funnyyyy

  • @chefmichellaslifeplus8
    @chefmichellaslifeplus8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😂😂😂 The disappointed black girl that shopped at Zara 🤣

  • @Jay-dz1qy
    @Jay-dz1qy ปีที่แล้ว

    Please update us on your life. Really like your personality ✨️

  • @musicmakeup8481
    @musicmakeup8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Awwww hun.. that’s the point. Ur too young to be on those things. Once a person reaches 29 and are passing their prime, they are more in a rush by then. I kno the feeling I am 29 and I have been waiting for 15 years, at 29 we gotta stop being nonchalant and open ourselves up to love and new ways to find it. Those ppl r in a rush to marry... I’m bout to jump on that app right now 🤪🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @adaliavasquez6552
      @adaliavasquez6552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      You are not past your prime! You are still young and I believe that if marriage is in God's plan for you, He will be in control of it and make it happen. Don't settle for less than a Godly man who treats you right!

    • @real_emeldah
      @real_emeldah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Girl I'm 28 and been waiting 5 years now. In this pandemic, online dating isn't that bad an idea.

    • @dont375
      @dont375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@adaliavasquez6552 Wrong. 29 is past your prime. Women start having complications with pregnancy in our 30’s.

  • @ifeomairoanya9985
    @ifeomairoanya9985 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ash you are so beautiful, you are wonderfully made. God is wonderful

  • @TokioTE
    @TokioTE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Seek Peace"

  • @ashluzinda
    @ashluzinda  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Glad you’re all enjoying it 😂
    please accept my apology and ignore the orange box in this vid that has now began to aggravate me.
    The perfectionist in me is shaking right now 😂😅.
    Love y’all 🤟🏿🤍

  • @nathanandcherelle
    @nathanandcherelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I met my partner on Christian connection we made a video about it but its not for everyone

  • @VatekaHalile
    @VatekaHalile 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I've been on various dating sites for almost three years now, and it has been a draining experience. I'm not sure if I still want to search for love this way because it's just too much; I can't handle it anymore.

  • @nonotje12
    @nonotje12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can't believe how much I laughed watching this😂

  • @Nadiahope7
    @Nadiahope7 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    P. S you're very grounded on His solid rock I can tell. God's timing definitely.

  • @lissetteesco5526
    @lissetteesco5526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "am i shallow?" girll

  • @takilove3566
    @takilove3566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you are made for youtube i was dying with lol

  • @Comedyvibes
    @Comedyvibes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    May God wonderfully bless you and your family

  • @omgitsnishaaa
    @omgitsnishaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i’ve tried all of them and deleted all in 3 days lol

  • @peace5272
    @peace5272 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would like to ask people to still use apps CC and others, I have meant very incredible people on this app and all the dates I have been was all from apps. In fact thank God for apps. May be your age may have influenced your experience. If someone can pay to chat on a dating app to some extent it indicates some degree of commitment to finding someone.

  • @paigel403
    @paigel403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    hey girl! i know a place where you can find true Christians/disciples! and it’s not on a social media app!

  • @Nadiahope7
    @Nadiahope7 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This made me laugh. I'm 37 dating... That's tragic but I was saved by Jesus at 35. Honestly I'd rather not. Salt is the only one I've got on with personally but most are either luke warm or not overall chatty. I'm praying for us single sisters. It's hard out here Lord. Help us. 😢🙏🙏

  • @knowtice_b2b
    @knowtice_b2b 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Could you and your husband share how you met?

  • @akinyemifadoju
    @akinyemifadoju 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @catherinenzungnjume7822
    @catherinenzungnjume7822 ปีที่แล้ว

    You so beautiful sis,God will definitely connect you to the right person in Jesus Name Amen

  • @vikak3148
    @vikak3148 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    YOUR ACCENT

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm in my 40s
    I use tinder and tagged for hook ups only.

  • @mufarosimango85
    @mufarosimango85 ปีที่แล้ว

    💀SEEK PEACE 💀I HAVE HOLLERED !!!!
    Nokia profile pics … WHICH FRIEND ARE YOU 💀🤣 I AM DECEASED

  • @wildflower.blooom
    @wildflower.blooom 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The question is... Is she still on the scene? 👀👀👀

  • @ojijo21
    @ojijo21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're funny and beautiful

  • @nicholasmagcamit8233
    @nicholasmagcamit8233 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi

  • @danadanaaa2002
    @danadanaaa2002 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣🤣😂😂girlllll

  • @ibukunoluwaadelaja8484
    @ibukunoluwaadelaja8484 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love your ebony

  • @Annette4184
    @Annette4184 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😂😂😂😂

  • @atinukesijuwade5994
    @atinukesijuwade5994 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ashton 😂❤️

  • @mathewrichards7309
    @mathewrichards7309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your review of christian connections isn't good there are tones of young people on there and I've had some success.

    • @michhart9262
      @michhart9262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow really

    • @jeccym8715
      @jeccym8715 ปีที่แล้ว

      Too bad I wanted to join Christian connections but they aren't located here in Austria

  • @JESUSistheTRUTH-ROBLOX
    @JESUSistheTRUTH-ROBLOX 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Christians shouldn't be going to the bar. tinder isn't a Christian site (but thanks for the warning).

    • @ashluzinda
      @ashluzinda  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I definitely don’t believe Christians should be going to the bar and I didn’t trial tinder :)

  • @starwonder8324
    @starwonder8324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @atinukesijuwade5994
    @atinukesijuwade5994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah Christian connection is like that 🤣🤣

    • @ashluzinda
      @ashluzinda  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh my gosh you've tried it! Christian connection was wild!😂