Are Black Women Employees in Shackles? Reclaim Your Time
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- Are Black Women Employees in Shackles? Reclaim Your Time
My test to see if you have a job or a master:
1. Is your job your pathway to value / validation?
2. What would I even doooo if you didn't work?
3. Does your job reciprocate your loyalty?
4. Does your job control your access to healthcare? And do you have to access that healthcare BECAUSE of the stress from your job?
5. Does your job control other ways you make money?
6. Is your job a means to an end or an end itself?
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On the phone with someone RIGHT NOW who, at the age of 58, just learned that her company's ENTIRE U.S. division (standardized exam writers) is now required to either resign immediately with a generous severance package or stay on and risk being fired sans package. She initially panicked but then calmed down. She's going to take the package. NOTE: They've been given ONE WEEK to make a decision. All I could do was quote Stephanie Perry: "These jobs ain't loyal."
I'm turning 39 this year and learned early, we have to treat them the way they treat us.
Indeed.
@@kjaroundtheworld same age and I came to the same conclusion 😊
One week notice, yet we’re required to give 2 weeks minimum. Loyalty vs Truthfulness, smhhh! Liar liar pants on fire! Get out now!
Fear of failure.
Fear of change.
Fear of starting over at 62, fighting breast cancer 18 months has Me stuck. 😢😢
Hang in there. I wish you peace and wellness!
Wishing you a speedy recovery and praying & proclaiming that you come out of this better than ever before, like GOLD. 🙏
🙏🏿
Take time off as you heal, disability pay!
Praying for recovery, and fighting that demands C word please be strong. Failure is a mind game you can change it peace and love my sister ❤
I started watching your program to free myself. I took a job for insurance, but stayed after I switched to Medicare. I could have retired, but stayed even though I was doing okay. I kept asking myself, what would I do. I finally realized I was using the job as a crutch. They wanted to keep me and treated me well, I figured. But just like the nice master, it’s all an illusion. There’s no such thing as a nice master. A nice master wouldn’t take away your freedom. So I looked at the calendar and thought of Juneteenth and the souls who continued to work after slavery ended. I watched a few of your videos, and then I retired later that day.
My question: What will I do. I still don’t know the answer to that question, but I know it doesn’t involve work.
Thanks, Stephanie.
Congratulations 🎈🎊 🎉. No worries Sis-Star ✨🌟💫 you’ll find your way as you embark on your new life. Enjoy!
I always make a joke (not a joke) that when I shower, I always do a body check to ensure I don't have a brand that says "Property of the State of Ohio!" It's not there yet...but I'm escaping before it comes to that.
Another thing: everything is getting more and more expensive. Housing, childcare, groceries, etc. Our leaders don’t invest in us at all, but they’ve got all the money in the world for nonstop wars. It’s pathetic. 😩
"You don't have a job friend, you have a master." 💯
We are trained in early youth, to buy into the systems...
Facts!
Preach Stephanie!
I was a pharmacist for far too many years. It took me about 4 years to see the truth about ALL of the systems/corporations.
The silence in the chat is because you are dropping truth bombs. It's a wake-up call. The more of us that heed the call, the more questions we ask and the more solutions will be found. I agree that we should start on an individual level and it will affect the collective.
Thank you for the sermon and being a part of the solution!🙏🏽
Hello Stephanie and friends from California 🖖 new subscriber. My daughter turned me on to your channel. You lady are pointing out the shackles on our mind big time 👏🏼 my family is from Little Rock Arkansas and they push education as bragging rights to get good jobs (just over broke) they don’t tell you about the stress, politics in the workplace, nepotism, etc.
Hola from Spain 🇪🇸 Out here on a 6 week scouting trip with family. I'm going back to work with the intention to stack up and pack up in 2 to 4 years. We can't let these jobs hold us hostage.
My daughter lived in Spain for 3 years and she loved it!
The theme I get from your video is that we have one life, and we have the right to enjoy it. You’re so right! Life in America really can be exhausting for most, if not all, of us, and we deserve better. Thank you.
I’m retired now and stand in total agreement. I was working in a master slave environment.
Get your coat and leave😃😃 Reminds me when I retired from the Air Force I took a civil service job to get a new car. I paid for my car and I quit.😃😃
After being a Science teacher, Dishwasher, Cashier, Technical Support Agent, Sales woman, Secretary, Certified NursingAssistant, Driver. I realized its our society that tries to ingrained this concept that a job can give you value. I never felt valued by my jobs because they always paid me barely enough. Exposed me to disease, death, and belittlement. All things I could have lived without before experiencing them. I went through the military, medical lab, nursing homes, education system and call centers. But I see how we attach our identites to titles/income. I felt like the person they used to compare themselves to. Thanks for this video, I have been there. As a Haitian woman my identity was found in being married/finding a man/job. But I am glad we are able to process through these mindsets.
When I worked in corporate, I walked in everyday for 7 years knowing I could be fired. Never felt comfortable to leave much in my office that I couldn't carry out in a few bags.
Oh girl, I hear you loud & clear.
I’m a slave to the Clark County school district here in Las Vegas.
Working w/ special need high school students.
And I’m desperate for Income replacement.
There are schools overseas always looking for teachers, they pay well and have great benefits. I interviewed a teacher last year who taught in Atlanta then relocated to the Middle East. Now she's in Nigeria, living her best life, teaching.
Great questions! One of the first thongs asked when getting to know someone is "what do you do?". And that question determines how people treat you. So yes, I've thought of it
Thongs? Lol
That is so true and it’s such an American thing. I was on a tour recently, on the first day at lunch, “what do you do?”. Same trip, a few days later, I’m at an airport sitting next to a black couple, we’re chatting, then came the question “what do you do?”. What does it matter? The odds of any of us ever seeing each other in life is next to zero, so who care what work anyone does back home. As Americans it’s ingrained in us. We, individuals have to make a conscientious decision stop doing that.
This is true ❤
Replay gang! There is no job security. A school I teach for did away with the major and didn't even tell us. Just dissolved it without communicating to the new hires that they had done so which left many scrambling to figure out how to fill the financial hole. Higher education is not secure at all.
Hello I love your channel you have such good information to help everyone. Your channel is really great for young people who are seeking information about having your own business. I'm Blessed, retired Air Force, VA disability and social security. I have enjoyed traveling and seeing the US. While in the military I was overseas to see other countries now I'm older 70 years old I'm traveling to the states and every now and then take a cruise. GOD Bless you Stephanie for helping us Black women to learn how to earn income without a 9 to 5 job.
Hello Stephanie, I've been retired since 2020. Never really had a career because I was a stay at home mom. I worked in the school system while my children were in school. I am here for this conversation for my husband. I'm doing everything to get him to retire next year and move abroad. This will be early retirement for him.
I’m in exactly the same boat. My husband has been at his job 34 years and is struggling to retire. I stopped working 2023. Now, I’m working to get us moved abroad 2025
@@LoveParkConnection i am ready for him to retire
I was taught to get a good government job and collect retirement. I been at my employer for 17 years. The goal is to get the 20 them collect my retirement check then move away. I taught my son & niece the opposite because i have discovered over the years "these jobs are not loyal" like you said...
I read this somewhere years ago and it’s something like this, work is something you do to keep busy between eating and going to the bathroom.
So true 😂
100% agree tired of having a master. People really do treat you according to your work status. There is so much competition in the work place for status to feel more powerful than their colleagues and others in society. You are your own brand, not your job title.
You can get a TEFL certification on any online TEFL course. In order to start teaching online most companies want you to have at least 120hrs TEFL certification. Most courses give you 1 year to complete the course, so it's possible to work and study for your TEFL part-time.
Which would help for Spanish speaking countries in Mexico?
@@earthlycolorbrown6246 Because TEFL courses are recognised all over the world, whatever course you find in your country will be recognised. Once you get your certification you can teach anyone that wants to learn English from any country whether it's online or in person. If you are planning to move to another country to teach, its best to research their requirements. Some language schools may require minimum 120hrs TEFL certification plus 2 years experience, while some just want the certification and you get experience on the job. You don't need to know the language of the students as they would likely have some basic understanding of English and your job is to help them build vocabulary and help with grammar.
Hello- unfortunately, I couldn’t attend the live this morning, but I wanted you to know that I HAVE BEEN SAYING THIS FOR YEARS!!!! I know EXACTLY what you are talking about, Stephanie, which is why I started MY OWN company and work for MYSELF. I FLAT OUT told my last boss that I felt like I was being treated like a SLAVE. I felt that through and through at that job, and quit that same year. I started doing some independent contracting work, and now I am working through MY BUSINESS. Man, I wish I could have attend this morning! Sorry, I was traveling home from the mountains at the time of this live!
I am from the future and for me I more interested in your perspective which seems to be ministering to things I have already been thinking.
Stephanie, you really PREACHED A GREAT SERMON today! EXCELLENT! This is what we want & need to hear!
You're a true visionary! 🌌 - "The road to success and the road to failure are almost exactly the same."
On the replay, I hear a passionate plea for us to see ourselves outside the American context. You are like the YT Harriet Tubman leading us to the Nothstar. Gentle is always good and passion is inspiring and may cause someone to act for a better tomorrow.
Thank you as always! I retired in 2021, was fully aware of the master/disloyalty work setting. My purpose was to reach retirement eligibility so I could free myself of ‘have to’. I went back to work last year, with purpose to save money to leave and travel. Revised it to pay for my 70 birthday celebration, take advantage of their paying of training (why would they want to spend funds on a retiree?) in cities around the US that I wanted to go visit. You have taught me to maximize it and extend it to the weekends and play tourist. Job is very little stress and I keep it that way. Goal: leave in 8-10 months and hit the road 😃
Stephanie preaching today! Go Stephanie and amen to this!!!
I know I'm not live, but I hope you read this. I totally agree with you. I started a new career in Life Insurance as a non-captive agent and I can sell to americans and foreign nationals from any place in the world and I love it. I make my own hours and work with the type of client I want to work with. Total freedom. Thank you for giving us something to "Consider". Just wait until a new administration comes in and people will be happy that you have this platform.
Even in education they fire teachers. They balance the budget on teachers backs. Esp if you’ve worked +25 yrs. It’s cheaper to higher new teachers just out of college then keep master teachers. When the economy gets tough states will layoff, for example the financial crash of 2008-2009. Major layoffs in LA, SF & SD.
Hello! Sorry I missed the aired. I was unavailable ladies.
OOF she got me right where i live
Thanks so much for watching. 💗
I could not get through this one. It is tough to hear, especially when you realize that the job you have given 20 plus years to is not loyal and it is my master. I have known for awhile I have been treated like a slave and today like a criminal. But what now, I only have a couple of years left? I am so upset. I want to quit today. I have had enough. The anger and frustration has been around for awhile and I let a lot of stuff slide because of the pay. But this video brought out the true nature of what’s going on.
Great discussion on Who’s my Master! As I pack, gift, sell & donate my stuff, I find out that Stuff is my Master. I can’t believe how hard it is to remove myself from my stuff. Push through it Sis-Stars ✨☀️💫, the tentacles are deep. I’m a minimalist and have moved several times. Kick that master to the curb!
Hello from the future. I wish I was here to comment. Everything you are saying is on point. I used to be all of these things and some I still deal with, but I have always been a rebel. That's how i found your channel about a year an a half ago. But everything you're saying I too believe every black woman has felt or feels right now which made this live so important. Also, you helped me to take further steps for the life i wanted but also one i couldn't even have imagined before your channel and other channels like yours existed. Thank you. ❤❤❤❤
The reason we feel like we need the job is because we need health insurance. The only reason we need insurance is because it is so expensive. Most other places have affordable cash healthcare or universal healthcare and you don't need insurance. You can have insurance here and still go bankrupt if you need to use it. Not to mention, it's better healthcare that is human driven rather than profit driven.
Another driver of the volunteer slavery/job is that we have been indoctrinated to believe we have the best healthcare. It's not even close. According to the WHO (not that it is that credible) we are ranked 38 out if 191.
Hi from Atlanta! Watched the replay. You presented Really great questions to ask myself. Thank you!!!
Sis, I need to hear you tonight
Good afternoon Stephanie! I'm listening to the replay!❤
I am watching after the live but I am enjoying and receiving thank you
Let me take some water and calm down…new merch lol
Hello! Thank you for today's discussion.
This video is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. Everyone is not ready to face reality..
I need your coaching help Stephanie. I have been contemplating leaving the US for years and need an accountability partner to help me go. I am slowly downsizing and doing financial planning. I don't want to get stuck in the planning.
Hello I love spaces full with 🧡 and Kindness.
Greetings from San Antonio, TX ❤ (replay)
Hello, I am on SSDI and will definitely be listening to the move abroad replay for remote work.
11:37 I came back to listen to what I missed and what you are saying is SO important. There is so much programming of identity and work IN ORDER to make us better, more compliant WORKERS not human beings. Linking rest with laziness, giving incremental rewards for good behavior with the pat on the back of a title or office and you go home either devastated or in elation or some shape in between because of how things were at work influencing how you enjoy your actual free time to just be a human. I love how you are sharing this information with us women. I want this freedom for black women. I live in freedom; every moment of my day is determined in the moment, no schedule, no obligation. I may have something I am responsible for but it is done when I most feel like doing it not because I made myself do it or have to do to stave off anxiety.
We can be free. Are we willing to unlearn, to take our leap?
That red looks beautiful on you! From the top, to the lipstick, to the hair color. Yaaaaas ❤
Hello Stephanie and Everyone! Great conversation:)
I need redirect. They let me go. I don't want the traditional job. I don't know what Fitz my needs. I have been working in the field of caring for other people children. Yet, I have no children of my own. I am not qualified to climb the latter unless I return to school and reenter into debt.
Visitors still get automatic health insurance when they go to Cuba. Was just there last month.
GM! Watching the replay. I relate to your point about the job being our value. I got my doctorate degree so that I would get more respect from my colleagues. You are right.
Good morning from the replay! ❤
Hello, glad to be here
Do you have a job or do you have a master is the title of your next book Stephanie. 😊 Tfs
you look so pretty again today 4:07 Stephanie. ❤.. I had a master al.most 🤨after 18 years of being cool working with a female supervisor off site.. and how you ladies ...HELLO 🤗
Good morning! Listen to the replay on my way to work. 1.5 hr commute.
Steph you were serious today. Hello from San Diego. I am sure at least it is for me....FEAR
Good Morning Stephanie, catching the replay from the future. You are so right, there is no argument I love it when someone tells me the truth❤Straight no chaser
P.S. I need to get my coat and leave 😂
Morning everyone!
Good morning Terri! 💗
Your videos are a reflection of your relentless effort. Keep inspiring us with your hard work! - "Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard."
Replay. Excellent discussion. So thought provoking. Thank you!
Watching replay, i have my note pad
I absolutely adore Stephanie’s energy!🩷
That person who says you don’t give resources is a naysayer. Thank you……..next!!!
Hello Stephanie, you are so inspiring. Thank you for speaking to the spirit in me.
Hello from Texas. Watching the replay.
Good morning 😊from the replay
yes, i'm working on standing in my humanity versus linking my identity and value to my profession
Hello, Stephanie 🩷🙋🏾♀️-Amora from Nashville, TN
Good morning! I'm a friend from the future! 😊
We want out! Life abroad can be better and so many have shown Us how! So what is the first step out of a toxic relationship with punching in and out.
Wow Amen 13:28 min. Never saw it this way!
I'm planning my escape for early next year.
Hello from Baltimore Maryland 😊 (replay)
13:44 wow this is so true.
Continued health insurance for a bundle of vision, dental, and medical in California is $2,400+ dollars per month.
That is insane!!! Is that via your job, COBRA, or private pay insurance (no job involved)?
It is what my job has offered me .
Hello and Belated Good Morning, Ladies 🙏🏾✨❤️🪷🌞. Hello Stephanie 👋🏾. I have more than one “No.” I don’t feel valued. I can’t grow or try other things. I feel put in a box with a title that doesn’t define me. I feel disrespected as a Genxer and overlooked, and undervalued. I get off work late and tired when I get home.
I know about the online Teaching realm…could help answer some questions
Hello I'm Yvette love from Florida..I really do appreciate your telecast..truly I am a supportive of your shared information. Thank you soooo much.
This is really talk💯
Good morning Stephanie,❤
Hello Stephanie
Good video🙂
I'm #3 Loyalty😬
Hey and Greetings from New York.. love you and keep doing what you’re doing.
Thank you ❤❤!
Grand rising family
Hello, thank you for this excellent content!!
This was so informative
Happy Anniversary 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Preach Stephanie
Relay Sis-Star ✨💫🌟Excellent discussion Stephanie (no I don’t see how they think you look like Wanda lol)! Great questions/test! Oooooh, Learning how to live is a Space! Thank you 🙌🏾🦋
Hi from Jamaica
Good morning replay
Good morning👍🏽
Hello Good Morning!!!
Goodmorning Stephanie🤗
Good morning Lena! 👋🏾