What Should Women Who Have Sacrificed Their Career For Marriage And Kids Do ?

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  • @Doctorni
    @Doctorni ปีที่แล้ว +142

    I am a young female doctor 22 years old and all women from past two generations in my family are working . Because of this there is no gossip group in my family and no relatives coming to home because all women are working

    • @JyoSco007
      @JyoSco007 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awesome!

    • @divyad601
      @divyad601 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👍👏👏

    • @pritamdas9015
      @pritamdas9015 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Either you're not 22 or you're not a doctor

    • @himanshugurjar2492
      @himanshugurjar2492 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@pritamdas9015great😂😂

    • @shailendrapawar2487
      @shailendrapawar2487 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Itna bhi sahi nhi bolna tha😂😂

  • @drkk3199
    @drkk3199 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    I asked the same question to my father in law who told me not to work and look after my daughter. I asked him.. then why to send my daughter to school.. she will finally get married and get kids. Then he had no answer. I put up my buissiness

    • @dahliajaji9547
      @dahliajaji9547 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Excellent

    • @pritpalsingh5927
      @pritpalsingh5927 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The only answer is to pass the information to your offspring

    • @arvinderbains3880
      @arvinderbains3880 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I personally think parents need to be more supportive and understanding that women need to work and give value back into the house and society. But there is always a way of talking to parents and winning them over. I have been living with my in-law for 24 years. I think it always the way putting your point forward. Pray to God and support your husband and family I say as a British born woman.

    • @kavithajagdish7968
      @kavithajagdish7968 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very hard hitting, but true

    • @surbhiajmera1021
      @surbhiajmera1021 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great 👌 well said..

  • @queenofskills3635
    @queenofskills3635 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    For my marriage I left my career and government job offer and biggest tragedy happen is my In laws broke the marriage immediately on 5th day..😢 left the country thinking husband will keep happy but worst life I face when I was unable to find any job in other country.... and husband was Sravan kumar.... never trust on any man and leave the job.... to get back life on track i returned india and made career again, it took lot of time... earning good now and happy...

  • @Hetal28
    @Hetal28 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Very good topic sir
    I have been working women earning high salary (abroad) and also took break when I had my kids. As we have no help like maids.
    I did all work myself home cook + office. Also in laws side pressure to keep up with Lena dena culture , entertain their guests.
    Sir it was very hard to do it all. Indian in laws don’t care whether we work or not but we have to maintain the fly status , entertainment rishtedaar etc
    Both situations we are badly judged.
    Worst thing is people will tell us of you look tired , not fresh even after we slog for them. Yes we earn money but the price we may is high.
    In India atleast maids help is the positive side.

    • @diauser3327
      @diauser3327 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      this is the real picture, for women work + home + kids + health issues etc all responsibility is thrown at, but for men just the work, really always feel lucky ones are born as men

    • @bagefamily
      @bagefamily ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hame to bethne ka bhi parmission nahi ,bimar hua to alsi bolajatahe.

    • @surbhiajmera1021
      @surbhiajmera1021 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Harsh truth of society!

    • @sneha-qn4jn
      @sneha-qn4jn ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Hemant81Kumar kitna kare yaar kitna? Hum bhi insaan hai tired ho jate hai. Hum humari friends se milne jao toh hum toh mauj masti karne jaa rahe. Lekin in laws k friends, relatives, husband k dost sabko entertain hum hi kare

    • @sneha-qn4jn
      @sneha-qn4jn ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Hemant81Kumar aap ghar k kya kaam karte the during your youth and padhai k time? Aur wahi office k hectic kaam karke ghar m bhi kaam karna padta hai hume. Aur aapki bhiwi apne ghar chodke aapke saath rehne aayi hai and aap in laws k ghar jane se thak gaye? Wah wah!

  • @dr.sunitaagarwal8706
    @dr.sunitaagarwal8706 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm a doctor with a self esteem. I became a doctor, in the first place fighting all obstructions from my conservative father's family.
    Now, I'm living separate from my husband with two kids, whom i have raised alone, and are both now doctors...
    I think my pathetic marital status is because i had a self esteem, i was working and i was earning...
    Yesss, my point is working ladies are exploited and tortured more...

    • @nirupamasharma4389
      @nirupamasharma4389 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ma'am, jab koi revolution hota hai to kuch logon ki bali chadhti hai. Ap usi sacrifice ka part ho. Apki agar daughter hai to usko ye problem face nhi karni paregi. Yehi apke sacrifice se nikalne wala achievement hoga. My mother, a working woman exhausted herself with working inside and outside home, her health degraded. She took all those bitter jibes (tum karti hi kya ho) from my patriarchal father. She deserved nothing of it. But unke is sacrifice ka phal mujhe aur meri behen ko mila. We both were very clear in choosing our life partners. No specific gender roles. Ghar ke kaam kbhi career ke bich nhi aayenge, naa woman ke naa man ke. Agar meri mother ne ye example set naa kiya hota, to main bhi shayad unke jaisi ya unse bhi kharab zindagi jeeti.

  • @suravibehera2246
    @suravibehera2246 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    It's very grateful to see many men are raising their voices like you for the economic empowerment of women.. Keep it up 👍

    • @nirupamasharma4389
      @nirupamasharma4389 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      But not all of them are openly saying that working women don't have to do all the household works like before. That's also a point!!

  • @swatikumar112
    @swatikumar112 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Sir this is my story. I am just trapped with the wrong people with wrong mentality. I m struggling to maintain my sanity just for my little son because i want to raise him right. I have found your videos and it's given me hope to make me stronger emotionally

    • @manishatandon9747
      @manishatandon9747 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Dear Swati
      I have lived the kind of life that you described . Please start working ,your job will be your support system

    • @SH-nv5sp
      @SH-nv5sp ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same with me.l feel physically and mentally drained.

    • @rachanachaturvedi4718
      @rachanachaturvedi4718 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dear Swati..you are not alone..there are many others suffering like you..take one day at a time and keep walking..you will overcome your obstacles successfully.
      I am in the same boat..take care.

  • @meenakshidinkar7231
    @meenakshidinkar7231 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I started working after 21 years of marriage.4 years have passed.
    Its been really fulfilling.
    I enjoy my life very much now.

  • @charanjeetkaurgrewal9695
    @charanjeetkaurgrewal9695 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Not agreed.women submit themselves to the circumstances inspite of having potential in them because after losing their all opportunities they endure what cannot be cured.

  • @meenalpande2868
    @meenalpande2868 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This video is amazing. I left job to be with my daughters and fully enjoyed the time. Now they are grown up and I have started my boutique.

  • @kusumrastogi5672
    @kusumrastogi5672 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    In foreign countries u can work at any age and learn skills too, but this is not the case in India, not enough job opportunities here

  • @meherbaker2662
    @meherbaker2662 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I left my job I was in British visa office with very good salary. I absolutely hv no regrets bringing up my kids. Loved each n every moment with them. My kid went through 10 operations but I hv never felt bad it's part of life made myself n my child strong a child who could not walk is a karate champion today. I am a proud mother n a woman. I kept learning n doing something from home. So each one to his own.

  • @peacenlove
    @peacenlove ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I really love your work but don't get me wrong, this is the reason I feel Indian men should help with housework. Indian men have no idea how much goes into managing a home. You will go to a hotel and give money for the same services. And when you are at home, you think everything occurs magically. Beds are made, home is organised, everything is in order, breakfast-lunch-dinner nutritious tasty meals you are getting. How? Genie magic? You think women have no work? How about you try to maintain a home?
    Women's work is unending work. You will eat and leave the plate on the table and go. Maids ko manage bhi toh karna padta hai. Managing a home is like managing a small hotel. Aap ne jo ek kapda pehen ne ke liye, subah kapde ke dher bana diya tha, woh phir apne aap kaise sahu jagah me chala gaya almirah me? Dawaiyan time pe mil gayi, thodi thodi der me chai-naasta, saaf sutre, istri kiye huwe kapde. Kaise ho gaya ye sab?

    • @varshasindhu5672
      @varshasindhu5672 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes I agree. Men think that a maid who comes for 3-4 hours can do all this work. She will sweep and mop and wash some dishes that is it! I have to bathe my daughter, dress her and take her to school, make her 2 lunch boxes, then make dinner, wash dishes, clean the kitchen, buy groceries, organise the clothes, make the beds, clean toilets, organise the mess that my family makes, pick up my daughter from school , help her with school work, take her to the park, give my family dinner , again wash and replace dishes, then go to bed.
      It is not hard work but it’s not like we are sitting around all day doing nothing.
      Another thing is- because I am at home my husband can work any job in any city, he can travel on the job too. This brings financial benefits to our entire family.
      When children hit their teens, the mother can work outside the home if she wants but it is naive to say that a home-makers work can be done by some maid.
      I’ve seen small children come to the park with nannies. Never seen the parents. I feel sad for those kids.

    • @ektakadyan4683
      @ektakadyan4683 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ya ,aadmi khbhi nhi samaj skta ,jo housewife ghar ko apna sab kuch deti h ,earning zero h ,vo subh sab kuch manage krti h ,school bhejne se ,tiffin ,homework, vo inhe lgta h ki apne aap ho jata h ,hr jagah gurugram nhi h ,sab kuch khudh manage krna hota h

    • @Mudit-ji9pl
      @Mudit-ji9pl หลายเดือนก่อน

      maid ko manage krna 🤡
      that is the work you

  • @pranav275
    @pranav275 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    He is absolutely right about the saree draping.. This business is actually being done in South ranging from Rs 300 to 1000 based on how it needs to be draped for the occasion

  • @ruchapanchakshari1814
    @ruchapanchakshari1814 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    So true sir...I am also from the "sacrifice" group 😊but I am totally agree with you 👍

  • @SwetaSingh-tf1xf
    @SwetaSingh-tf1xf ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Sir, the women are bringing a lot on the table- personally and professionally and the men are digesting all of it without a burp.

    • @KCR3306
      @KCR3306 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It's sad that masculine energy is celebrated and femenine energy is ridiculed to the extent that most females have ( most of the time ) taken the mascular role to be accepted and appreciated in society, if you look back, history is proof how monotheism was established, eleminating the divine feminine. Social conditioning is the worst thing and few jokers giving advice based on their own limited perspective in life is quite amusing. Ladies ' you do you' if you are happy however you choose to be happy you will inevitably blossom my queens.

    • @pranavveenaraju
      @pranavveenaraju ปีที่แล้ว

      Dear stupid sister, he was talking about women who used to work earlier but have stopped working on some lame reasons & pretexts .. He never said women dont earn or they are useless .. read , listen and understand ... india has only 19% working women population , bangladesh has 35% ... why cant women come out and work ... work and earn well and achieve something in life.. speaking in favor and for betterment of women also makes u angry bcoz u want everyone to praise and pamper u

    • @asthasingh2899
      @asthasingh2899 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KCR3306 So true sis💯 you are spitting facts.. couldn't have said better.

    • @surjyasahu5397
      @surjyasahu5397 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bhai video pura dekho
      Inke video middle-class aur uske upar wale ke liye he
      Lower middle class or village or small town female ke liye nahi he

    • @nirupamasharma4389
      @nirupamasharma4389 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      No they are not. I have heard a lot about this feminine energy and masculine energy bullshit. This is another excuse that women are coming up with. Ghar se baahar nikalke paise kamane se feminine energy mar nhi jati. A woman can be in masculine energy sitting at home as well. Feminine and masculine are two characteristics, and both are required by both man and woman. Lord krishna was feminine most of the time - calm, peaceful and soft. Occassionally he utilised his masculine energy through sudarshan chakra and anger when it was needed the most.
      Main bhi married woman hun, mera bhi ghar hai. Aise bhi kitne kaam hote hain ghar pe madam? Jhadu poncha maid karti hai. Dishwasher hai bartan ke liye, washing machine hai kapron ke liye. Agar washing machine me kapre daalna bhi kaam lagta hai, to wo bhi ap maid ko bol sakte ho, 500 rs me kar degi. Baaki sab bache hue kaam like purchasing groceries, wardrobe organisation etc., lagbhag sab jobs me sat sun off milta hai ajkal. Shopping and grocery purchasing to sab online hi chal raha hai.
      Please stop making excuses and earn some money for youself atleast. Taking care of your own expenses is no one's business. Otherwise don't feel bad when husband or in-laws say that you do nothing. Come out of stupid bubble.
      I call myself a feminist, but now after these comments if i am called a misogynist then i must say, my definition of feminism is very different than so called feminists out there!!

  • @namrathas5804
    @namrathas5804 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Namaste sir, I have started watching your videos very recently and its a blessing to have an elder teach us in such a nice and blunt ways both. I was working as a software engineer 8 years back and after my child was 2 year I had to quit working as we moved abroad. I decided to stay home as child care was very expensive here and we were not comfortable leaving our child in day care. But over the period i started self victimizing and felt nobody is acknowledging my sacrifices so there was no peace at home because of this. But i thoroughly enjoyed my life with my kids so i wont say its a sacrifice :) . Gradually I started focusing on how to get it right so I started my youtube channel and I attended some personal training which gave me the confidence that I can go back to work and my kids are old enough and go to full time school so now I am preparing for my interviews and will soon join the IT company again. I totally agree with what u said in this video sir and thanks to wisdom you give us through your videos. Also please suggest the employment opportunities to those who want to do something being at home. Thank you sir 🙏

    • @kusumrastogi5672
      @kusumrastogi5672 ปีที่แล้ว

      After a gap of so many years will u get employment in IT sector?

    • @Mudit-ji9pl
      @Mudit-ji9pl หลายเดือนก่อน

      women who dont even earn a single penny wants 12lpa guy and they are not even at good at cooking so what those women brings on table

  • @preetiwadhwa2008
    @preetiwadhwa2008 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Sir,
    My mom (died 15 yrs bck) was working in Delhi Administration n at the age of 9 yrs I learnt to receive gas cylinder after measuring it. And because I am working (free Lancer n entrepreneurs) made my girl totally independent since she was a small girl.
    Working moms have better upbrought children.

  • @Saitama408
    @Saitama408 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Sir, one question, what can those women do whose husband and in-laws doesn't allow any maid in the house and want bahu to do all the chores as well as look after the children? Consider this a situation of middle class housewife 🙏

    • @SheShinesNeha
      @SheShinesNeha ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I was in the same condition 2 year back...
      So I started working from home
      Mil pressurised me with more house work, so that I quit my job.
      But I stayed focused and after a year of struggle they stopped troubling me when they saw that I was managing my work and house well and was being appreciated in my work.
      After that I hired a maid for which they could not say no.
      Now I do what I want and enjoy my part of freedom. 😁

    • @ektakadyan4683
      @ektakadyan4683 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SheShinesNeha what job u have started please reply

  • @mubbygaming2847
    @mubbygaming2847 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Like your advice,l am starting my job again after 12yrs after listening to you.from Pakistan

  • @seemasaini7665
    @seemasaini7665 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Hello Sir
    You thought process is same as of my father. He raised us the same way. I remember I left my family and marriage for a duration of two years to continue growing in my career and now I feel that's the best decision I have ever made.
    Now I am back at my home in a better MNC and financial status. There was a time i was thinking of coming back home and leaving my job behind but father didn't let me. Thanks for spreading such ideas. I have my father at that time some might not have. This will help them. Thanks 🙏
    Regards
    Seema

  • @abc_t5
    @abc_t5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    As an unmarried female, I agree with you. I have seen housewives in my family taking pride in staying at home & doing 'house chores' & what they do in the name of house chores is cook & wash clothes using washing machines of course. Because doing dishes & cleaning the house is done by househelps. Today, in the 21st century there are machines for almost every work. I fail to understand how are the modern world's Indian housewives bringing equal or near-to-equal contributions to the family. Yet men are blamed for not providing enough.😢
    And how can housewives raise/teach children when they have low IQs themselves? The condition of many housewives' brains is horrible. They are unable to have a constructive criticism, an opinion of themselves & use the basic gadgets or internet.
    But if I say these things loudly people may call me anti-feminist but the truth is truth.

    • @ektakadyan4683
      @ektakadyan4683 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hello sis ,jab shadi ho jaygi ,bacche honge ,joint family m rhna hoga tb bat krna ,sab kuch aapko hi krna ho ,tb bat krna ,abhi aapo kuch samaj nhi aayga

    • @ninanani4085
      @ninanani4085 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ektakadyan4683true😂

  • @MsDESTINY999
    @MsDESTINY999 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Even though I'm a woman I totally agree with you.. woman should work not for others but for themselves and their and family members sanity.

  • @sunitasuraj7569
    @sunitasuraj7569 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Yes....yes. Yes . ...I am 55 year old...worked for 32 years .. has to leave job as politics played against me by bosses...will start working again because of you Sir .... already started looking for a job/running a PG

    • @dahliajaji9547
      @dahliajaji9547 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Madam, work for pleasure and keep yourself engaged so that you don't get involved in petty household politics. Enjoy your middle age. Don't work under someone else

    • @dreamsdesires
      @dreamsdesires 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey, how was your experience running a pg?

  • @sonalsharma5293
    @sonalsharma5293 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Ek aur topic hai aapke liye. Why can’t men have choice to stay at home fathers ? If women are highly qualified n ambitious.. let them bring bread n butter n let men take care of kids n home n parents etc. I believe u can’t leave everything to maids or helpers . N it’s not easy to compete with youngsters who have no other responsibilities at home. Too much mediocrity in things because of these home entrepreneurs nowadays. Not all can give good quality stuff or value for money to customers. As a customer I m tired of such mediocrity

  • @appuraji007
    @appuraji007 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i think more than money aspect, women need to have a job just to utilise her skills. and although i don't have kids, i have seen some employers discriminate if you have joined a job after a maternal break or after any other break too..

  • @padmajac7089
    @padmajac7089 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sir, please also make part 2 of this video talking about how the husband of working woman should share the work load of the woman once she starts working.

  • @Prashanti347
    @Prashanti347 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    (Amazing ) I have lost many good opportunities, but I dont think i have sacrificed, instead i have got opportunity to frame the good going future of both children.

  • @pallavipareek6187
    @pallavipareek6187 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Yes sir. Please make a video on the ideas of earning at home! I wanted to do something while i was at home when i took break from the job after having a baby, but that research took much time. Please give some practical ideas if u can. Thank you for your words of wisdom🙏🏻

    • @anilakunapareddi
      @anilakunapareddi ปีที่แล้ว

      Your thoughts and ideas are so interesting and practical.

    • @sjc4836
      @sjc4836 ปีที่แล้ว

      U can become online reseller.
      You can do trading
      You can learn parlour..masaage coirse and start own setup.
      E t c
      Many more ideas i hv.

  • @mariajosh42
    @mariajosh42 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yup... its a great point. Stay at home is a choice, it's freedom,.... its not sacrifice.
    Taking care of family is a calling, not sacrifice.
    Its an eye- opener.

  • @zahrashad
    @zahrashad ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very crude but undiluted truth. Been in this mode for more than 2 decades and now trying to start afresh and build a career with some new skills that I am training for. Financial independence is paramount and the earlier we start realising it the better. Keeps us ladies out of mess and with a more progressive mind set. Thanks sir for being blunt about this thing. I appreciate it so much.

  • @nutrifityou2957
    @nutrifityou2957 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Your thought process is very clear & also help getting clarity. I am working from home but it's a high pressure job. My husband is also in a high pressure job. I am thinking about switching to a more flexible & less pressing job so family life is better. In India, if a women is working by her own will, & in laws pay attention to kids, they put it as ehsaan on us & always make us feel like being a selfish & bad mother. Please make a video on how we can stop feeling ashamed by this & do our work with more happiness.

    • @kaminipatil5195
      @kaminipatil5195 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are doing job for bright future.Don't trapped in inlaws game.If they are logical then why you are emotional.Think logically.Emotions are temporary.

  • @nuttie421
    @nuttie421 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes sir... U have given me food for thought...

  • @drnavneetgill1978
    @drnavneetgill1978 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are just a gem sir.This is iconic “jo ghar mein akeli bethti hai uska affair nhi hoga?😂.This is the biggest myth in the society

    • @ninanani4085
      @ninanani4085 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Patriarchy का सिक्का चलाए रखने के लिए औरतों को crush करके रखना बहुत जरूरी है।
      घर पर खाली बैठेगी तो अफेयर करेगी. बाहर काम पर निकलेगी तो affair करेगी। कुछ तो कहना ही है। ऐसा लगता है वो औरतों के साथ अफेयर करती हैं।
      या जो आदमी उनके साथ affair करते हैं वो सत्यवान और राम होते हैं।

  • @buddybrotales1002
    @buddybrotales1002 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very very important topic . Thanks for sharing. It’s going to be very helpful 👏👏👏👏🙏

  • @yatharthn
    @yatharthn ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The reasoning for medals and upbringing is a flawed one. Even if a mother is providing completely nutritionally there are many other factors like accessibility to sports infrastructure such as coaches, equipment, food safety and income safety that leads to poor athletic development of our population.

  • @sharadaray6601
    @sharadaray6601 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is a topic which has never been thought about and discussed so clearly and strongly...hats off to you Sir... keep up the good work...it is helping millions of people... thank you

  • @kaushaliaf
    @kaushaliaf ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Everyone should read Lean In...such men are more dangerous who think that they don't have any inherent gender bias but ultimate it shows in their behavior...
    Hamne to allow kiya attitude..

  • @madhugupta6016
    @madhugupta6016 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Childs safety is a very important issue

    • @laxmitomar5254
      @laxmitomar5254 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Condition favourable nahin hai toh mat karo .
      Set your priority that's ok

    • @laxmitomar5254
      @laxmitomar5254 ปีที่แล้ว

      Staying in family still you are an individual .
      Think in that direction

  • @rashmidixit2521
    @rashmidixit2521 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes ,I agree. I have stood for myself as a single parent.

  • @kiransharma7848
    @kiransharma7848 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Super fun ! You're a Nice Man with great values in life. Appreciate you ji...🙏🌺

  • @quirkymom2676
    @quirkymom2676 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yes please share some home based ideas as I have toddler and aged mil at home ..

  • @NehaVerma-yg1dc
    @NehaVerma-yg1dc ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Too good sir ek ap he ho jo hamarey typical samaj ke ankhon se galat soch ka chashma utar rahey ho i really respect u from the bottom of my heart💖 agar har ek lady or male ke soch ap jesey ho jaye toh hamarey desh sudhar jaye

  • @alkagaur2662
    @alkagaur2662 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waah! Seedhi baat no bakwaas.. anand aa gaya. Sahi galat to sab ko pta hai lekin aapne jo aaina dikhane ka kaam kia hai vo behad prashansniya hai.
    Its really moral boosting post..
    Greatful to you. 🙏

  • @abhishekshukla2745
    @abhishekshukla2745 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is one of the channel where I regularly come to get more clarity in my life. Thanks you for discussing such deep topics

  • @1602parag
    @1602parag ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Another gem of a video by Amitji. I relate to it 200%. It's high time we adopt these best practices and relieve people of inferiority complexes. Indian women have a lot of potential, our past history is a prime example.

  • @maithilisatpute7454
    @maithilisatpute7454 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Uncle if possible please focus on the topic related job options for women sitting at home..like work from home kind of options..in the next videos..

  • @chandrika1815
    @chandrika1815 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Absolutely true as you said in this video heavy works nd household chores r done by men as well, even then some women will be blabbering and such women cannot do anything in their life. Strongly said no work is low r high as per their need nd capability earn some amt.
    You are the person to bring out the exact problem with solution in various field. आप अकेला व्यक्ति हो जो सब के पोल खुलवा देते हो और ऐसे वीडियो बनाते रहो हमें भी कुछ आईडियास मिलेगा खूब-खूब धन्यवाद.

  • @jhaskumar3
    @jhaskumar3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you sir ji, completely agree with you

  • @inamdarmrudula3064
    @inamdarmrudula3064 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yes, motivated. I am working for 30 years , retiring after 4 years. Now I am searching for some business after retirement.

  • @reenas1115
    @reenas1115 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I live in Boston I agree with u but Indian husband are not working at home it’s hard for women

    • @reenas1115
      @reenas1115 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indian men have lot of ego

  • @neversurrenderinlife
    @neversurrenderinlife 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Kasam se kaha se late ho aisa topic. You are too good at attracting people with relevant questions. Good job sir I admire your truthfulness.

  • @sridevni
    @sridevni ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm happy to see u addressing important topics. These shud be discussed at every platform in d nation. Hope our folks learn.Ppl sweep all issues under the carpet lying about family & kids happiness.

  • @snehangshubanerjee9554
    @snehangshubanerjee9554 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you sir! I'm always questioned to have these thoughts. Keep going!

  • @InFactImpact
    @InFactImpact ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Jab aap kisi ke ghar jaate hain, apko khana kaun offer karte hain? Aadmi ya aurath? Thoda sa iss kona pe bhi dhyaan dijiye. I agree hum exactly sacrifice nahi bol sakte. Lekin situations aise lead karte hain.

    • @dahliajaji9547
      @dahliajaji9547 ปีที่แล้ว

      Now cooking is not a difficult job . With new gadgets it is easy to cook. Grocery, vegetables fruits can be bought by Apps like big basket, Dunzo etc. Maid is there to do other household work. Hence many home makers especially from middle class can work outside or do business. Work may not be bringing you fat pay cheque but to keep you occupied.

  • @nathasham4263
    @nathasham4263 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very factual and eye opening video👏👏

  • @ginniegill9448
    @ginniegill9448 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing.. you are so knowledgeable and understand the nuances so well…

  • @adanu88
    @adanu88 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We need more men like u in our society.

  • @SoulHouse-qp3lr
    @SoulHouse-qp3lr ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Pls make a video about career options after break n what things taken into consideration while deciding to pursue any career opportunity.

  • @prisurya1
    @prisurya1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    More power to all of us!!..let's explore together possibilities to earn and grow.

  • @maithilisatpute7454
    @maithilisatpute7454 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello uncle very relevant topic.. Thanks for talking openly about it

  • @artibhatnagar7062
    @artibhatnagar7062 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir I am 55 years old and after listening to you I have started tiffin service from home.

  • @sitisiddharthamandal4027
    @sitisiddharthamandal4027 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sir I am pregnant and due to som complexity I have to take a break from my job... But I am feeling guilty that I am not doing anything right now.. but after marriage when 6 years I was working till my pregnancy came my in-laws treated me like I am enjoying my life where as I didn't had any made for cooking and other house hold work... Sir aap bilkul sahi ho ... And Shas is like I have done sacrifice and your are just enjoying... She is enjoying the pension of shasur and that too she always blam him that he didn't allow her to work...

  • @krishnaveniachary5196
    @krishnaveniachary5196 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Blessed with your words

  • @kshitijapratinidhi-ghan9355
    @kshitijapratinidhi-ghan9355 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Agreed to some extent !! I am working since the last 30 years , loaded in many ways ... Thought provoking

  • @vasundharaneeli6041
    @vasundharaneeli6041 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Sir, so according to you, there is no value added by a lady who stays at home does cooking for her kids, husband(morning itself tiffin are ready for them), keeps the house neat and clean, take cares of the health of all family members, may be small small work , but like that many works she does, many times multitasking too...yes even though maid is there , but still much is left is do for us housewives ...

    • @Sanatan_Samiti
      @Sanatan_Samiti ปีที่แล้ว

      He is idiot sister, now there are simply not many jobs at all for so many millions of people be it men or woman. Be proud of being homemaker.

    • @shekhar301
      @shekhar301 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      seems he is upset with his daughter in law!.....hahaha...absolute crap he is talking. He may be good in property dealing and money making but is not a social engineer which he is claiming to be. Shameful advocay and analysis. Fathers missing is not the reason of crimes , fathers abusing and missing is the reason. Of course female standing up and becoming independant is the need of the hour. But blaming her and the logic given behind is absolute crap.

    • @kiranthorat7557
      @kiranthorat7557 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree with ur maid thought sabko lagta h maid does all work...maid is just a help she does half work only uske baad ka repetitive work aur maid ko help and all is not considered.

    • @mikkunmummaworld9895
      @mikkunmummaworld9895 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly no value is added by stay at home mom.... because jo vo kahati hai naa ki hum ghar pe rahake kya kya karti hai , ye sare kaam ek working lady bhi karti hai... husband ko kyu chahiye ki wife hi tiffin ready karke de..vo khud kyu nhi jata kitchen me...aur rhe bacho ke tiffin ki baat to working lady bhi karti hai suba suba tiffin ready...ghar ke sare kaam...saaf safai , cooking...aur bacho ke sath time spend karne vali baat to shuruaat ke 2 saal ke baad home makers ke bache bhi play group me yaa school me jaate hai..4 saal baad to aajkal tuition bhi bhejna start kar diya kaafi logo ne...to fir bacho vala bahana to jindgi bhar nhi chalega ki ghar baith ke bache sambhalti hai
      Shuru ke 2 saal to working lady bhi full time deti hai bacho ko...kyunki 6 months ki maternity leaves n thn unhe 2 saal ki CCL milti hai bacho ki care ke liye...aajkal technology karti hai ghar ke aadhe se jyada kaam to n bache kuche maid karti hai...India 50% population ghar me baith sirf khana banati hai...to fir Desh ki GDP kaise aage badhegi

    • @bhawanasingh7682
      @bhawanasingh7682 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He is not opposing housewives, he is educating us that we if we can outsource or deligate few tasks and live a better life.

  • @myyoutubeshortvideos6676
    @myyoutubeshortvideos6676 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One of the revolutionary videos. If all men and women will listen it and follow it, it will bring change in thought process of the people which will result in positive change in the country. Salute you sir. Keep on. Somewhere I read "A woman is slave untill she is independent".

  • @lazycat8946
    @lazycat8946 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very nice topic covered

  • @sachishukla2387
    @sachishukla2387 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent content! Loved it.sadly I am stuck in same situation. But all set to start again

  • @shikharbhardwaj1352
    @shikharbhardwaj1352 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ek dum sahi jagah hit kiya hai apne...!!!🙏🙏🙏

  • @LifeExperienceOfRK65
    @LifeExperienceOfRK65 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir,
    बहुत खूब, सही डांट लगाकार दोंनो पक्षों को सुनाया है,
    Or मार्गदर्शन भी दिया. ये है U Tube का सही इस्तेमाल. ❤❤❤❤

  • @sivankasmemoir9770
    @sivankasmemoir9770 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice. Thank you for the insights

  • @geetanjaligarg338
    @geetanjaligarg338 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very good video sir....beautifully put in words

  • @sync1832
    @sync1832 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    People don't understand that they have their own purpose. Ladies should do what they have to and not try to replace men and vice versa.

  • @charupahwa3225
    @charupahwa3225 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir bahut bahut thanks is liberation ke liye

  • @thankcode
    @thankcode ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Brutally honest 👏

  • @JaiHind_SamruddhaBharat
    @JaiHind_SamruddhaBharat ปีที่แล้ว

    Very motivating video 🙏🙏😀 very few can call a spade a spade..! Candid straight forward and practical .

  • @Poonammahendru123
    @Poonammahendru123 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very practical and eye opener 👌

  • @shriidharkulkarni6648
    @shriidharkulkarni6648 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very very relevant content. Thanks for upload.

  • @poojayadav-iv8fo
    @poojayadav-iv8fo ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your all videos are amazing sir... 🔥

  • @darshanadey4696
    @darshanadey4696 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Very informative video Sir. Now a days every girl/woman should work whether small or big or from home no matter what. Family obligations must not be a barrier. Could you please a video on remote/work from home job/business opportunities for woman. It would be very useful for ladies out there Sir.

  • @chetnatyagi2531
    @chetnatyagi2531 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless you Sir.

  • @savitadogra4357
    @savitadogra4357 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was much needed . Thank you sir..

  • @nsattorney
    @nsattorney ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes Sir.. you inspired me.. I need your more suggestions and advice. M feeling positive energy in me while listening you.

  • @swetatripathy13
    @swetatripathy13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent video. We should learn from it.

  • @dilbagsingh4857
    @dilbagsingh4857 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are a genius person sir thanks

  • @navaruthu4896
    @navaruthu4896 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    First of all sir…many women would want to continue working after children but it is the in laws and husband who restrict us …we want to work hard but egoistic male does not want us to work ..

    • @navaruthu4896
      @navaruthu4896 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pradeepsingh-ol8jj sick

    • @AKPsingh9153
      @AKPsingh9153 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why do u even listen to them?😂
      Just dont do any work for one month and if they bark let them or give them suitable replies. Kuch din kalesh hoga aur phir sab kuch line pe àa jayega.

  • @corinneteron9637
    @corinneteron9637 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bravo Sir......every point put across absolutely brilliantly.... hard hitting but still with that wonderful thread of humor that is uniquely yours.

  • @kajalaggarwal4766
    @kajalaggarwal4766 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing content❤

  • @artikadian24
    @artikadian24 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You always bring the answer the moment I question myself

  • @chaitrashekar715
    @chaitrashekar715 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yess!! Pls give ideas 💡

  • @gurcharankaur7997
    @gurcharankaur7997 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, u are motivating

  • @manviiam
    @manviiam ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You nailed it! 💯

  • @amus2264
    @amus2264 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes , thanks a lot sir .

  • @kumarisony9058
    @kumarisony9058 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nicely described sir, please dont go by the negative reviews, we love your opinions. Please keep up the good work

  • @anilkumar-lp6zu
    @anilkumar-lp6zu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    great thought

  • @dr.dharababar6305
    @dr.dharababar6305 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best clarity giver.. great 👍 work.

  • @forever10369
    @forever10369 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very true sir

  • @deepak-singh2010
    @deepak-singh2010 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well said sir ji. Pranam 🙏

  • @snehakar6601
    @snehakar6601 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very interesting topic