Why get Married? - Part 1/3 - (Getting Hitched Series) - Abu Usamah
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Do you have a son or daughter to marry off?
Not sure about the in laws?
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To get an Islamic perspective on these issues and much more information in helping you make the right decision. Then do not miss this lecture series "Getting Hitched"
This is a 3 part series of lectures that will cover different areas of marriage
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Part 1 - Why get Married? - (Getting Hitched Series) - Abu Usamah - • Why get Married? - Par...
Part 2 - Does Islam allow Forced Marriage? - (Getting Hitched Series) - Alyas Karmani - • Does Islam allow Force...
Part 3 - The ideal Muslim husband - Alyas Karmani - • The Ideal Husband - Al...
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ABOUT THE SPEAKER -
Abu usamah was born in New Jersey in 1964. He embraced Islam in 1986 and went onto studying in the Islamic University of Madina for eight years where he graduated from the College of Da'wah and Usool-ad-Din.
sheikh abu usamah has been very active in da'wah since the day he embraced Islam. He has been the Imam of various mosques in the United States and in the United Kingdom. His zeal and eagerness in conveying the true message of Islam has lead him to many parts of the world, delivering lectures and seminars, as well as translating for many scholars and du'aat from the Arab world.
Abu Usamah has been blessed in studying with some of the greatest scholars of our time, to name a few, Shaikh Umar Fulaatah at the Rawdah of the Prophets Mosque, Shaikh Muhammad 'Atiyyah Saalim (author of Tafsir 'Adwaa ul-Bayaan'), Shaikh Abdullah Muhammad al-Ghunaymaan, Shaikh Muhammad al-Jaami, Shaikh Saalih al-Fawzaan and many more. He was also very fortunate to have spent two summers in intensive study under Shaikh Ibn Baaz and Shaikh Ibn Uthaymin.
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The men are not free from blame, as well with the sisters.
The men are concerned with the looks, and beauty, the sisters are concerned with wealth, stablity, looks, and the Pious sisters, who care only for Deen, are looking at the wrong places.
And the parents, clearly dont have an understanding of the Sunnah, giving unreasonable dowries, and Too many racial boundaries as well.
Ill marry any woman, she just needs to be doin her obligations, trying her hardest to please Allaah, i dont care if shes 60, she has one leg, shes ugly, ill beat anyting wallahi, diein ouchea, holding onto ur deen is like holdin a burnin coal, now a days theres so much expectations u need a degree, 20k dowry, back in the day u turn 15 and u can get married for how much quran u know!
if it was only that easy to find a well balanced man.
Our priority as a muslim is to Obey Allaah, and to stay away from Disobeying Allaah. And doing the means (ie. searching) through halal avenues and also with plenty of du'a, Allaah will grant us a pious spouse inshaa'Allaah.
Don't think any other way. Its just shaytaan influencing us muslims, that if we stick to the sunnah 100% there is no way we will get married! Shaytaan's the Deciever of Decievers....don't be decieved by him.
Flee to Allaah and Allaah will Provide us inshaa'Allaah.
"A man expects a perfect wife, a woman expects a perfect husband, but what they don't know was that they were made for each other"
Don't look for a perfect man rather look for the man that would be the perfect match for you. and obviously make dua' to The Creator of all that exist to give you a good spouse.
Salaam
masha allah he is a good speaker , first time i hear him
Assalamu Alaikum, I would like to know, what is more important to do first? Hajj or get married? I have recently been thinking about these 2 and don't know which is a higher priority than the other? I have been saving up for marriage and Alhamdulellah I'm well on my way to this goal, but recently I heard a hadith that whoever has the money and time and is able to go hajj but doesnt, then Allah will be displeased with him. So I want to know, what comes first in this case? Marriage or Hajj? jzk
Well balanced people are made, not born. Very few people in this world are complete balanced individuals, only those who wish to be are the ones that we can hope for.
May Allah bless me in helping me find a pious sister. Im a revert to Islam and i don't know the proper channels i need to go through to find a wife and obviously i don't have a family that will support me in finding me one. May Allah help me because i am desperate to find a wife and i'm confused as to what to do and how to act. Ameen.
masha allah he is a good speaker , first time i hear them
Allah willing I will watch this tonight
Jazakellah , nice speaker
I do learn from his videos but its so difficult for me as a new muslim to follow bc I don't speak arabic... and sometimes I can't tell if he's speaking english again or not so I spend more time trying to catch up than actually following the discussion (@_@)
what is well balanced???
Jazak Allah Ghair teacher.
Allahu su7anu wat3ala doesnt like his abd to come back as single or loneliness, only Allah is One and are alone, no one beside him. So you should get married if you can, you will get big rewards, inshallah.
no of course no one gonna forced u if u don't want marriage not even islam but don't refuse marriage and go to haram
my dear brothers and sister follow the sunnah insha allha allha will give better azar
subhan Allah even on lectures we get 'first' its so annoying
If only bruv, if only. May Allah make it easy for us.. Ameen.
Im very much interested and attracted to modesty, as well as women who obey Allah by covering themselves. More than I am to women who don't cover. And im a revert.
always wonder what my life would have been
like if we married
i like the shiekh i like his arabic
@yahya99 Well is Hajj a pillar of islam? and it is possible to do both but Hajj is a pillar of islam n marriage is not a pillar n ALLAH knows best
I dont think the problem is a lack of women or men who want to get married i think its a simple lack of flexibility and lack of commitment I know many man who proposed and got turned down because, 1.they werent rich 2. wrong nationality 3.short 4.convert 5had a first wife already just like women ask and get turned down because 1.were married before 2.not supermodel 3.wrong nationality 4.too old etc etc so when the bro and sis give up this perfect image they have then they will easily find one
Oooh brother, you two should meet=0). Khayr insha'Allah
well its simple then. You and saaratheconquerer can get married
Jazakallahu kheyran wa jazaa
Saaratheconquerer, I totally agree with you. Our Muslim brothers are not interested hijab women. They go for those who expose their sexiness. Please.......
Average age for marriage in Pakistan is 30 nowadays,parents don't want to marry childrens why dont know?
Assalamoalaikum respected sister your comment is very wrong Aqeedah wise .
A Muslim should expect from Allah thats why when a muslim sister wears Niqaab ,she should also learn what is true Islam and SubhanAllah a small test by Allah Azz Wa Jall and our faith shakes so much .I advise you to listen to Shaikh Assims lecture "Help is anyone there" and do repent to Allah Azz Wa Jall after watching that whole video
what would the people say "Baba Ali" lol
lol, I totally agree with you! Sheikhs always talk as if it all that 'easy' uff
when is the right age .to get married? after puberty yea right :'(
agreed...
wow what country do you live in, in this modern world is so easy to find a woman with an education ,
if only my parents
First, YAY
Do you have to get married?
not true 90% of the guys i know only marry hijabis sometimes it depends on westernization. remember not all the people that are around you are the norm, the world is big and diverse. salam....
lol... I feel the same about women 'if only it was that easy to find a well balanced woman.'
ooh no it's the opposite for me. I can't find a muslim woman who WON'T sacrifice her deen for that stuff. ;_; I'd love nothing more than a very pious muslim woman, but yeah even I know guys like me are in the minority. Especially her in the west...
i dont know about other guys but i do like sister with hijab and more so i turn me on, why do i get turn on is do to respect Allah Almighty command, and for herself, well as other good character she might have. i guess it depending on person.
24:32 :)