How to ask for sex (for the first time) from a woman

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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +52

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    • @PropheticWordTheMiracle
      @PropheticWordTheMiracle ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My sister you have Sex eyes eish😢❤❤

    • @BIGGSAMMIE
      @BIGGSAMMIE ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@PropheticWordTheMiracle It's a contact lens and I'd say it doesn't really look good on her...

    • @PropheticWordTheMiracle
      @PropheticWordTheMiracle ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BIGGSAMMIE but me i like such type of girls

    • @deniskarina6540
      @deniskarina6540 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow...the colour of ur eyes 🔥

    • @maxwellinima3604
      @maxwellinima3604 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love it

  • @asanibabatunde8646
    @asanibabatunde8646 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Jessica talks as if everyone is programmed. When emotion takes over, everything is secondary.

    • @raymondroberts5943
      @raymondroberts5943 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      So you emotional friend lol 😂😂😂

    • @titusmurithi9068
      @titusmurithi9068 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No! Emotions should Never Take over.... If it does... Failure! Failure!
      Successful Men control any kind of Emotion...
      Sometimes they're helped in it, it's Not easy... That's why People Say: Behind Every Successful Man, There's a Woman 🥲

  • @firstwaysegun5892
    @firstwaysegun5892 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Jessica is one of the best coaches on relationships I have listened to. She does a lot of researches before delving into any topic.
    I started following her when she had less than 25k subscribers.
    Many of my knowledgeable friends I share her videos with, testify to her in-depth knowledge.
    I see her hitting 2million subscribers in no time. She's good at what she does.
    Keep up the good work Jessica. See you at the top .

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Wow, thank you!

    • @rasrooq2000
      @rasrooq2000 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@JessicaOS
      In fact, you really deserve that comment. You are really good at what you do.
      Hmmmm , lest I forget; your Diction and the English language are way too good.

  • @jackosodo3838
    @jackosodo3838 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This delivery was a great one Jess.
    It's kinda playing a cool psychological game here, the more you act smart the more she's likely to fall for it herself without draining yourself out. Kudos!

  • @godwinojuyah7948
    @godwinojuyah7948 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A very straight forward advice that can even save one from rape problem. Consent especially fro the female is a MUST. Thanks

  • @podcastpioneer256
    @podcastpioneer256 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I was on this channel when it was still around 200k subs, pleased to see a mil now. Well deserved

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks

    • @brightanku5062
      @brightanku5062 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes Jessica is so good at what she does😘

  • @debnath2000
    @debnath2000 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Your presentation is always aboveboard. I keep coming back to listen to you because of your style of presentation. You’re very good at what your doing.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So nice of you

  • @amaadomaatv
    @amaadomaatv ปีที่แล้ว +113

    It's the Cleanliness for me tho😂😂

  • @luseinepaulmoiba6617
    @luseinepaulmoiba6617 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    You nailed it Jessi❤
    Watching your videos every night before sleeping has taken me from being good to being better in the aspect of relationship. You're always accessing all areas hitting the nail on it head.
    Thanks for teaching our generation

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Love that!

    • @trigger60
      @trigger60 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She is the best !

    • @tongobong1
      @tongobong1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@JessicaOS sorry but your advice of asking for sex using words is just terrible. A man should never ask for sex using words only by using his body language and reading her body language. If a man and a woman are kissing passionately then this is a clear sign woman wants sex with the man. All they need is the right location where they can undress without getting caught... It is that simple.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tongobong1 ok. those who find value in what i say, will take it.

    • @tongobong1
      @tongobong1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JessicaOS asking for sex two times like a nerd that has a business proposition will turn off many women. You just described the way men should never ask for sex so the value you gave is negative.

  • @agudreezy6080
    @agudreezy6080 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love how this girl jumps right into the points rather than try to make the whole story excessive

  • @darlingtonodom6913
    @darlingtonodom6913 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Considering I have a visit all planned for today, I had to stay till the end of the video...Made total sense....nailed it

    • @masindisfinest
      @masindisfinest ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your comment kept me here till the end 🤎

  • @davidmanson7159
    @davidmanson7159 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This lady is really good. Showing class and respect. Growing up without a father figure, I love how she breaks it down.

  • @CozyPahpee
    @CozyPahpee ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Women need validation. Like every married man knows. It doesn't matter that you have been going through and through. You just gotta find a way to make her feel like it's her first time again. 😂😂. We're nailing it Jess

  • @calvinlindo1160
    @calvinlindo1160 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just Love the way how you put this accross and I know alot of Men will have Learn from what you said because the average Men tend to be selfish when it come to having Sex and many can't read the signs coming from a Woman and therefore tend to misinterpret her body language..Location,Timing and the way you approach Asking for Sex is always gonna play the integral part of being successful and it's very important to remember that "You Only Got One Chance To Make A 1st Impresion", so give it your Best Shot, so she will want to be with you again..

  • @bayouradekunle3500
    @bayouradekunle3500 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great analysis, it’s studying the body language as well as seeking consent for me, those are extremely important. Great job Jess

  • @isseymiyakecomedy
    @isseymiyakecomedy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this little sermon.. Most men don't know when and how they can confront a lady in a mannerful and respected way.... You're good, kudos 👌

  • @chefjoechege7120
    @chefjoechege7120 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As always, you hit all the right notes. Sex is supposed to be a beautiful expression, the first time should be especially special. Thanks Jess

  • @ebiseifegha9372
    @ebiseifegha9372 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Jessica, I respect your teaching on this particular episode, you nailed it. You’re an inspiration to this generation. Thanks so much for the lecture and God bless you.

  • @shekukoroma-qj2ql
    @shekukoroma-qj2ql ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really learn from this video more over in the area of choice of words

  • @emmanuelaluyor5876
    @emmanuelaluyor5876 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You nailed it! Thanks Jess 😃

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      sending you more nails soon. lol

  • @trevorross1311
    @trevorross1311 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You nailed it, congrats on 1M subscribers Jessica.👍🏾👍🏾

  • @ejazzymusic1192
    @ejazzymusic1192 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thanks Jess! Consent is everything, it has to be mutual. You nailed it! 😊

  • @kenechukwukelvin2969
    @kenechukwukelvin2969 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You nailed it heavily. I don't play with constant and first time making her feel special is very very neccessary than making it about yourself.

  • @georgeperkins5506
    @georgeperkins5506 ปีที่แล้ว

    You nailed it Jessi.
    I dont kno if am the only one addicted to your teaching's buh truth be told you've help shape my relationship life and am grateful.

  • @haronbelmos2872
    @haronbelmos2872 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I Thank God
    Jessica!
    This video has changed my mindset helping me immensely!!
    I’ll definitely apply it from right now honestly I’m in a precarious situation
    I didn’t know what to do so she feels uncomfortable already
    But this video is Godsend

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great to hear that

  • @leonbobb-p4m
    @leonbobb-p4m ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pleasant morning, I find your topics are very timely, and informative. Keep the good work up. May the good Lord continues to bless you with all of the resources you need to keep on the right path.

  • @ebonyg9632
    @ebonyg9632 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You nailed it. Your advice is on point 🎯.

    • @joshuaenock4194
      @joshuaenock4194 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just like how you lock away my heart

  • @opitopeter28
    @opitopeter28 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You nailed it Jessica♥. Keep them coming! Am glued to the channel 👏👏

  • @joshuaemmanuel3240
    @joshuaemmanuel3240 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We both nailed it 😂😂😂

  • @gerardgibbs8728
    @gerardgibbs8728 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi J as a senior citizen this topic was. educational.i did learn a lesson on vagina stimulation .I am living in Trinidad and Tobago WI.but you sound like a Trini,keep up the good work.

  • @jmdigoro
    @jmdigoro ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You nailed it Jess. Thank you❤

  • @sadiak7205
    @sadiak7205 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you very much!
    U NAILED IT SISTER JESSICA

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No problem 😊

  • @samsonbanda6509
    @samsonbanda6509 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You nailed it!!
    For me it was much easier because she was also enthusiastic about it 💓💓💓

  • @daryllong5730
    @daryllong5730 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These days you have to be very patient and you will definitely right of everything else. You nailed it.

  • @trendxy3211
    @trendxy3211 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sex and sex education is always a difficult and sensitive subject both at home, school and the wider society. thank you Jessica for the effort to enlightened this generation that sex is more than just a porn! and for the fun part you really nailed it

  • @nketiaanthony7008
    @nketiaanthony7008 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You nailed it!
    In fact you are very good at relationship issues

  • @ongesodan
    @ongesodan ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Perfectly said, you nailed it. Thanks Jess

  • @francykay_studio
    @francykay_studio ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You really nailed it Jessica

  • @kelsta227
    @kelsta227 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You nailed it. Very educative. Many thanks.

  • @rahabmugambi7697
    @rahabmugambi7697 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You nailed it.very impressive.cleanliness is paramount.

  • @samkay2337
    @samkay2337 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You nailed it as always. Thanks Jessica

  • @africahistorian3719
    @africahistorian3719 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are there a lot of Carpenters in the house?😂 You nailed it

  • @nwachukwuohameje8570
    @nwachukwuohameje8570 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciate, approve, and applaud this message, Queen Jessica. She said it all.

  • @Officiallywind
    @Officiallywind ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You nailed it😂😂. Thanks Jess❤❤😊

  • @rayneilnelson2191
    @rayneilnelson2191 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U building me in all wht l missed thx Jess u the best. Ray, Chingola, Zambia 🇿🇲

  • @bennyaustin3169
    @bennyaustin3169 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You nailed it Jess! 😊

  • @IsaiahNduom
    @IsaiahNduom ปีที่แล้ว

    This particular episode is super duper. I can see some ladies testifying the fact. Thanks sis. Jessy.

  • @AustinBlings-rz4tj
    @AustinBlings-rz4tj ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You nailed it🥺
    Thanks Jessica for the teaching

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @anchebahenoch6713
    @anchebahenoch6713 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You nailed it. Very insightful information. I learn a lot from your videos. Thank you

  • @archibongedem9968
    @archibongedem9968 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You nailed it, as usual, dear Jessi.
    Kudos to you!

  • @kobinarhin
    @kobinarhin ปีที่แล้ว

    You nailed it girl. Good to know I was doing it right all along. I would love to hear more about other such topics soon.

  • @williebryant8131
    @williebryant8131 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Jess! Very insightful and valuable information!👍🏾

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @kaygey7186
    @kaygey7186 ปีที่แล้ว

    You nailed it right there & yet being neat & knowing how to put your words works everytime

  • @merezuabdulmalik4084
    @merezuabdulmalik4084 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    😂😂😂 Omoh na ordinary sex person won stress you again

  • @rasrooq2000
    @rasrooq2000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome! I love your topics and delivery. Always on point. Thanks 🙏👍❤

  • @beebeesfuntasticadventures6110
    @beebeesfuntasticadventures6110 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As a happily divorced female who watches you for fun, all points are right on. Greetings.

    • @comicaddict04
      @comicaddict04 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey let's share contacts

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I see u sis!

    • @beebeesfuntasticadventures6110
      @beebeesfuntasticadventures6110 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@comicaddict04 , I have watched your last video on your channel, nice.

    • @nawazomuzik
      @nawazomuzik ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m rooting for you two. 👍 seems like fate. Both of you are adventurous and road trip people 😊

  • @B_fortune
    @B_fortune ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jessica, you nailed it
    But seriously when it's comes to the cleanliness for men. I think the reason why we mostly don't put that into consideration is because we always think about ourselves and not the opposite sex and that's really bad 😊

  • @dennisotieno6830
    @dennisotieno6830 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Simply don't sk for sex verbally, be so good, so sesnsitive, respectful, funny and irresistible to the lady that all she wants is to have sex with you. Pay attention to her emotions and little little things bout her, responding maturely to her heart, making her comfortable with be with you at any situation. Be clean and well groomed at all time even when she comes to you unexpectedly. Always be romantic with her without looking like a sex hunter. Remember ladies are quite intelligent and from the time you approached her she knew sex will be on the way. So focus on her and make her want it with you more than you want it with her. Good luck. 😊

  • @brighta8699
    @brighta8699 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm hopping my girlfriend will not see this so that when I apply them on our first sex request in the relationship. She will say I'm very polite . Hopefully things will work out for me and we will both enjoy. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ I need good wishes.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you got this

    • @pauldirc..
      @pauldirc.. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Does it work

  • @Vidora.creator
    @Vidora.creator ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You nailed it! Thanks Jess!! ❤ I really think a lot of men need to see this.. Their delivery and hygiene sucks you wouldn’t want to try anything with them. Thank you for this.

  • @GovSlyOloks
    @GovSlyOloks ปีที่แล้ว

    few of these points have actually worked for me, and still working

  • @alromclean4536
    @alromclean4536 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You nailed it❤

  • @danielokeke4172
    @danielokeke4172 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of the many best.. you nailed it, Jess.

  • @mcufancentral2257
    @mcufancentral2257 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I dont ask for sex. I have NEVER asked for ask. I just allow it to happen at the right time; the time when it's supposed to happen

  • @LDMAssignments
    @LDMAssignments 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You nailed it Jess... I was in this situation barely 48hrs ago... Thanks for teaching...

  • @Diamonds001
    @Diamonds001 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the best TH-camr on relationships, who gave you this wisdom you portrays?

  • @sanoviashiloh1
    @sanoviashiloh1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Jess!! You NAILED IT!!!

  • @somtovalentine8391
    @somtovalentine8391 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the video Jessy 😊
    I'm loving it. ❤

  • @CD_Cyberdeus
    @CD_Cyberdeus 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I Nailed it. ( though i was just curious )
    You are awesome, thats how a mother should tell her son how to behave.
    Great delivery, great voice. Great structure i would give less time on grooming and add a comparison stating that Imagine how would you feel if she smelled. Itz in our nature to have a healthy relagionship)

  • @thanetworksguy8754
    @thanetworksguy8754 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You Nailed it Jess..As Usual..You rock! ❤❤

  • @charlesnjonjo7677
    @charlesnjonjo7677 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your videos. From here in Kenya I have to watch your videos before I go to bed.

  • @garyallen9417
    @garyallen9417 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You Nailed it!

  • @joelkebaso
    @joelkebaso ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is an amazing piece of advice especially us young men.I do really enjoy my time by watching your content.Much love from USA

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate that!

  • @favouronyeisi7100
    @favouronyeisi7100 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Jess, I've really learnt alot in a Short Time. You Nailed it 😊💯

  • @CarlosRamirez-xx6jz
    @CarlosRamirez-xx6jz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YOU NAILED IT JESSICA OS. 👏 👏👏

  • @katlegopj1064
    @katlegopj1064 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Jess, this video was really Insightful for you.
    You Nailed It!

  • @michaelemediong3605
    @michaelemediong3605 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You nailed it Ma'am Jess! ❤️.. I love your videos!

  • @gerardlayne1210
    @gerardlayne1210 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do like your take on personal relationships. I sent a link of this to my sons.

  • @YKPTANNOR90
    @YKPTANNOR90 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jess ....You nailed it....your voice alone❤

  • @iredibiadavidson9940
    @iredibiadavidson9940 ปีที่แล้ว

    U nailed it.
    Man's gat to be clean and in good shape

  • @emmanueltungu
    @emmanueltungu ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! This is powerful, I have been doing this but now I know how to do it in a better way.

  • @findlaterjames6900
    @findlaterjames6900 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another Classic Jess,you nail it!!!.

  • @tusiimericky2746
    @tusiimericky2746 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankful about this my role model 😊,iam based in East Africa Kampala Uganda.

  • @andrewmwinga5279
    @andrewmwinga5279 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really like the way you organize your content, presentation, confidence with which you bring and just the flow… Well done Jess… btw watch so many of your videos before subscribing and recommending my other boys, kinda picky with my TH-cam Channels … way to go

  • @TodayDose
    @TodayDose ปีที่แล้ว

    Coming back to this channel today, and of course you nailed it! Thanks

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome, thank you!

  • @py5985
    @py5985 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ur voice got me watching...it's a gift

  • @a-listmovies8146
    @a-listmovies8146 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You nail it. Thanks Jessica!

  • @johnkwameimmenseawafia2325
    @johnkwameimmenseawafia2325 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love watching your tips, but this is my first time hearing strategies like this.
    Thank you

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad to hear it!

  • @Drea2000
    @Drea2000 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jessica you the best since day one I heard you everything about me changed thank you keep doing the great work..❣️❣️

  • @augustineaduboampong3257
    @augustineaduboampong3257 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are wonderful, well researched, good delivery and on point.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you kindly!

  • @kevincroft9848
    @kevincroft9848 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Jessica for your vide for us men .They are invaluable they teach us so much about women and what they real want out of a man .
    Thanks Jessica your favourite video watcher oy your video messages
    Kevin from UK 🇬🇧

  • @FrankOfori-x5h
    @FrankOfori-x5h 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very informative thanks Big Sis for insight really appreciate it you nailed it💯

  • @WisdomHeath
    @WisdomHeath 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's the environment tip for me. I don't have any challenge with the others, except this one. Nigeria is a very crazy place and sometimes even a calm environment can become chaotic [lol]

  • @asieduscripchurez9057
    @asieduscripchurez9057 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You nailed it 🎉🎉😂😂

  • @AyomiAaron-xm3ed
    @AyomiAaron-xm3ed ปีที่แล้ว

    I have liked all the talks in this channel hope for more thanks

  • @akandeluckyakorede9410
    @akandeluckyakorede9410 ปีที่แล้ว

    I nailed it!!!
    Thanks for sharing the unspoken rules

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @tapibakevin1072
    @tapibakevin1072 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You nail it!Thank Jess!Communication!

  • @charlesawuahsenior6333
    @charlesawuahsenior6333 ปีที่แล้ว

    I NAILED IT😂😂😂 appreciate your effort ✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼🙌🏿🙌🏿

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!! 😁

  • @ifeanyiokagbue1553
    @ifeanyiokagbue1553 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I nailed it!! Thanks Queen Jess!

  • @Bobby-l7z
    @Bobby-l7z ปีที่แล้ว

    Well thanks for the video, I benefited a lot, so proud of your eloquency