How to ask for sex (for the first time) from a woman

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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Buy this audio recorder that allows you to record secretly right here. gasknight.com/collections/knight/products/knight-mini-voice-recorder-and-mp3-player

    • @PropheticWordTheMiracle
      @PropheticWordTheMiracle ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My sister you have Sex eyes eish😢❤❤

    • @BIGGSAMMIE
      @BIGGSAMMIE ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@PropheticWordTheMiracle It's a contact lens and I'd say it doesn't really look good on her...

    • @PropheticWordTheMiracle
      @PropheticWordTheMiracle ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BIGGSAMMIE but me i like such type of girls

    • @deniskarina6540
      @deniskarina6540 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow...the colour of ur eyes 🔥

    • @maxwellinima3604
      @maxwellinima3604 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love it

  • @jackosodo3838
    @jackosodo3838 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This delivery was a great one Jess.
    It's kinda playing a cool psychological game here, the more you act smart the more she's likely to fall for it herself without draining yourself out. Kudos!

  • @podcastpioneer256
    @podcastpioneer256 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I was on this channel when it was still around 200k subs, pleased to see a mil now. Well deserved

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks

    • @brightanku5062
      @brightanku5062 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes Jessica is so good at what she does😘

  • @godwinojuyah7948
    @godwinojuyah7948 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    A very straight forward advice that can even save one from rape problem. Consent especially fro the female is a MUST. Thanks

  • @debnath2000
    @debnath2000 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Your presentation is always aboveboard. I keep coming back to listen to you because of your style of presentation. You’re very good at what your doing.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So nice of you

  • @firstwaysegun5892
    @firstwaysegun5892 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Jessica is one of the best coaches on relationships I have listened to. She does a lot of researches before delving into any topic.
    I started following her when she had less than 25k subscribers.
    Many of my knowledgeable friends I share her videos with, testify to her in-depth knowledge.
    I see her hitting 2million subscribers in no time. She's good at what she does.
    Keep up the good work Jessica. See you at the top .

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Wow, thank you!

    • @rasrooq2000
      @rasrooq2000 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@JessicaOS
      In fact, you really deserve that comment. You are really good at what you do.
      Hmmmm , lest I forget; your Diction and the English language are way too good.

  • @calvinlindo1160
    @calvinlindo1160 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just Love the way how you put this accross and I know alot of Men will have Learn from what you said because the average Men tend to be selfish when it come to having Sex and many can't read the signs coming from a Woman and therefore tend to misinterpret her body language..Location,Timing and the way you approach Asking for Sex is always gonna play the integral part of being successful and it's very important to remember that "You Only Got One Chance To Make A 1st Impresion", so give it your Best Shot, so she will want to be with you again..

  • @luseinepaulmoiba6617
    @luseinepaulmoiba6617 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    You nailed it Jessi❤
    Watching your videos every night before sleeping has taken me from being good to being better in the aspect of relationship. You're always accessing all areas hitting the nail on it head.
    Thanks for teaching our generation

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Love that!

    • @trigger60
      @trigger60 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She is the best !

    • @tongobong1
      @tongobong1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@JessicaOS sorry but your advice of asking for sex using words is just terrible. A man should never ask for sex using words only by using his body language and reading her body language. If a man and a woman are kissing passionately then this is a clear sign woman wants sex with the man. All they need is the right location where they can undress without getting caught... It is that simple.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tongobong1 ok. those who find value in what i say, will take it.

    • @tongobong1
      @tongobong1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JessicaOS asking for sex two times like a nerd that has a business proposition will turn off many women. You just described the way men should never ask for sex so the value you gave is negative.

  • @isseymiyakecomedy
    @isseymiyakecomedy ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this little sermon.. Most men don't know when and how they can confront a lady in a mannerful and respected way.... You're good, kudos 👌

  • @bayouradekunle3500
    @bayouradekunle3500 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great analysis, it’s studying the body language as well as seeking consent for me, those are extremely important. Great job Jess

  • @asanibabatunde8646
    @asanibabatunde8646 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Jessica talks as if everyone is programmed. When emotion takes over, everything is secondary.

    • @raymondroberts5943
      @raymondroberts5943 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So you emotional friend lol 😂😂😂

    • @titusmurithi9068
      @titusmurithi9068 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No! Emotions should Never Take over.... If it does... Failure! Failure!
      Successful Men control any kind of Emotion...
      Sometimes they're helped in it, it's Not easy... That's why People Say: Behind Every Successful Man, There's a Woman 🥲

  • @amaadomaatv
    @amaadomaatv ปีที่แล้ว +114

    It's the Cleanliness for me tho😂😂

  • @agudreezy6080
    @agudreezy6080 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love how this girl jumps right into the points rather than try to make the whole story excessive

  • @ebiseifegha9372
    @ebiseifegha9372 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Jessica, I respect your teaching on this particular episode, you nailed it. You’re an inspiration to this generation. Thanks so much for the lecture and God bless you.

  • @georgeperkins5506
    @georgeperkins5506 ปีที่แล้ว

    You nailed it Jessi.
    I dont kno if am the only one addicted to your teaching's buh truth be told you've help shape my relationship life and am grateful.

  • @chefjoechege7120
    @chefjoechege7120 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As always, you hit all the right notes. Sex is supposed to be a beautiful expression, the first time should be especially special. Thanks Jess

  • @kenechukwukelvin2969
    @kenechukwukelvin2969 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You nailed it heavily. I don't play with constant and first time making her feel special is very very neccessary than making it about yourself.

  • @leonbobb-p4m
    @leonbobb-p4m ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pleasant morning, I find your topics are very timely, and informative. Keep the good work up. May the good Lord continues to bless you with all of the resources you need to keep on the right path.

  • @CozyPahpee
    @CozyPahpee ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Women need validation. Like every married man knows. It doesn't matter that you have been going through and through. You just gotta find a way to make her feel like it's her first time again. 😂😂. We're nailing it Jess

  • @opitopeter28
    @opitopeter28 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You nailed it Jessica♥. Keep them coming! Am glued to the channel 👏👏

  • @haronbelmos2872
    @haronbelmos2872 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I Thank God
    Jessica!
    This video has changed my mindset helping me immensely!!
    I’ll definitely apply it from right now honestly I’m in a precarious situation
    I didn’t know what to do so she feels uncomfortable already
    But this video is Godsend

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great to hear that

  • @trevorross1311
    @trevorross1311 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You nailed it, congrats on 1M subscribers Jessica.👍🏾👍🏾

  • @jmdigoro
    @jmdigoro ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You nailed it Jess. Thank you❤

  • @kobinarhin
    @kobinarhin ปีที่แล้ว

    You nailed it girl. Good to know I was doing it right all along. I would love to hear more about other such topics soon.

  • @samsonbanda6509
    @samsonbanda6509 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You nailed it!!
    For me it was much easier because she was also enthusiastic about it 💓💓💓

  • @IsaiahNduom
    @IsaiahNduom ปีที่แล้ว

    This particular episode is super duper. I can see some ladies testifying the fact. Thanks sis. Jessy.

  • @ebonyg9632
    @ebonyg9632 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You nailed it. Your advice is on point 🎯.

    • @joshuaenock4194
      @joshuaenock4194 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just like how you lock away my heart

  • @gerardgibbs8728
    @gerardgibbs8728 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi J as a senior citizen this topic was. educational.i did learn a lesson on vagina stimulation .I am living in Trinidad and Tobago WI.but you sound like a Trini,keep up the good work.

  • @ejazzymusic1192
    @ejazzymusic1192 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thanks Jess! Consent is everything, it has to be mutual. You nailed it! 😊

  • @daryllong5730
    @daryllong5730 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These days you have to be very patient and you will definitely right of everything else. You nailed it.

  • @innodavidson4497
    @innodavidson4497 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks!

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you too 🫶🏾

  • @bennyaustin3169
    @bennyaustin3169 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You nailed it Jess! 😊

  • @nketiaanthony7008
    @nketiaanthony7008 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You nailed it!
    In fact you are very good at relationship issues

  • @trendxy3211
    @trendxy3211 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sex and sex education is always a difficult and sensitive subject both at home, school and the wider society. thank you Jessica for the effort to enlightened this generation that sex is more than just a porn! and for the fun part you really nailed it

  • @sadiak7205
    @sadiak7205 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you very much!
    U NAILED IT SISTER JESSICA

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No problem 😊

  • @davidmanson7159
    @davidmanson7159 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This lady is really good. Showing class and respect. Growing up without a father figure, I love how she breaks it down.

  • @kaygey7186
    @kaygey7186 ปีที่แล้ว

    You nailed it right there & yet being neat & knowing how to put your words works everytime

  • @ongesodan
    @ongesodan ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Perfectly said, you nailed it. Thanks Jess

  • @B_fortune
    @B_fortune ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jessica, you nailed it
    But seriously when it's comes to the cleanliness for men. I think the reason why we mostly don't put that into consideration is because we always think about ourselves and not the opposite sex and that's really bad 😊

  • @amachreejonathan1524
    @amachreejonathan1524 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I nailed it! Thanks Jess!

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      indeed you did

  • @danielokeke4172
    @danielokeke4172 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of the many best.. you nailed it, Jess.

  • @archibongedem9968
    @archibongedem9968 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You nailed it, as usual, dear Jessi.
    Kudos to you!

  • @kelsta227
    @kelsta227 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You nailed it. Very educative. Many thanks.

  • @Diamonds001
    @Diamonds001 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the best TH-camr on relationships, who gave you this wisdom you portrays?

  • @Officiallywind
    @Officiallywind ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You nailed it😂😂. Thanks Jess❤❤😊

  • @rahabmugambi7697
    @rahabmugambi7697 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You nailed it.very impressive.cleanliness is paramount.

  • @AustinBlings-rz4tj
    @AustinBlings-rz4tj ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You nailed it🥺
    Thanks Jessica for the teaching

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @YKPTANNOR90
    @YKPTANNOR90 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jess ....You nailed it....your voice alone❤

  • @joshuaemmanuel3240
    @joshuaemmanuel3240 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We both nailed it 😂😂😂

  • @sanoviashiloh1
    @sanoviashiloh1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Jess!! You NAILED IT!!!

  • @darlingtonodom6913
    @darlingtonodom6913 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Considering I have a visit all planned for today, I had to stay till the end of the video...Made total sense....nailed it

    • @masindisfinest
      @masindisfinest ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your comment kept me here till the end 🤎

    • @talktalk2412
      @talktalk2412 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How did it go?

  • @nwachukwuohameje8570
    @nwachukwuohameje8570 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciate, approve, and applaud this message, Queen Jessica. She said it all.

  • @williebryant8131
    @williebryant8131 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Jess! Very insightful and valuable information!👍🏾

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @rasrooq2000
    @rasrooq2000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome! I love your topics and delivery. Always on point. Thanks 🙏👍❤

  • @merezuabdulmalik4084
    @merezuabdulmalik4084 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    😂😂😂 Omoh na ordinary sex person won stress you again

  • @andrewmwinga5279
    @andrewmwinga5279 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really like the way you organize your content, presentation, confidence with which you bring and just the flow… Well done Jess… btw watch so many of your videos before subscribing and recommending my other boys, kinda picky with my TH-cam Channels … way to go

  • @beebeesfuntasticadventures6110
    @beebeesfuntasticadventures6110 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As a happily divorced female who watches you for fun, all points are right on. Greetings.

    • @comicaddict04
      @comicaddict04 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey let's share contacts

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I see u sis!

    • @beebeesfuntasticadventures6110
      @beebeesfuntasticadventures6110 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@comicaddict04 , I have watched your last video on your channel, nice.

    • @nawazoTV
      @nawazoTV ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m rooting for you two. 👍 seems like fate. Both of you are adventurous and road trip people 😊

  • @SoJesusChristMusic
    @SoJesusChristMusic ปีที่แล้ว

    Jessica hitting all the topics 🥳

  • @mcufancentral2257
    @mcufancentral2257 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I dont ask for sex. I have NEVER asked for ask. I just allow it to happen at the right time; the time when it's supposed to happen

  • @rayneilnelson2191
    @rayneilnelson2191 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U building me in all wht l missed thx Jess u the best. Ray, Chingola, Zambia 🇿🇲

  • @brighta8699
    @brighta8699 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm hopping my girlfriend will not see this so that when I apply them on our first sex request in the relationship. She will say I'm very polite . Hopefully things will work out for me and we will both enjoy. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ I need good wishes.

  • @anchebahenoch6713
    @anchebahenoch6713 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You nailed it. Very insightful information. I learn a lot from your videos. Thank you

  • @dotienoo
    @dotienoo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Simply don't sk for sex verbally, be so good, so sesnsitive, respectful, funny and irresistible to the lady that all she wants is to have sex with you. Pay attention to her emotions and little little things bout her, responding maturely to her heart, making her comfortable with be with you at any situation. Be clean and well groomed at all time even when she comes to you unexpectedly. Always be romantic with her without looking like a sex hunter. Remember ladies are quite intelligent and from the time you approached her she knew sex will be on the way. So focus on her and make her want it with you more than you want it with her. Good luck. 😊

  • @CarlosRamirez-xx6jz
    @CarlosRamirez-xx6jz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YOU NAILED IT JESSICA OS. 👏 👏👏

  • @alromclean4536
    @alromclean4536 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You nailed it❤

  • @somtovalentine8391
    @somtovalentine8391 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the video Jessy 😊
    I'm loving it. ❤

  • @gerardlayne1210
    @gerardlayne1210 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do like your take on personal relationships. I sent a link of this to my sons.

  • @shekukoroma-qj2ql
    @shekukoroma-qj2ql ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really learn from this video more over in the area of choice of words

  • @Afam2929
    @Afam2929 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I Neiled it , Thanks Jess

  • @TodayDose
    @TodayDose ปีที่แล้ว

    Coming back to this channel today, and of course you nailed it! Thanks

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome, thank you!

  • @africahistorian3719
    @africahistorian3719 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are there a lot of Carpenters in the house?😂 You nailed it

  • @HopeHaven1
    @HopeHaven1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You nailed it, Jessica.

  • @addorichmond6643
    @addorichmond6643 ปีที่แล้ว

    You Nailed it Jessi😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @augustineaduboampong3257
    @augustineaduboampong3257 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are wonderful, well researched, good delivery and on point.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you kindly!

  • @godfredexperience1552
    @godfredexperience1552 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You nailed it Jess❤

  • @ajisejhyde4206
    @ajisejhyde4206 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spot on
    Thanks Jess, You nailed it as usual.

  • @LDMAssignments
    @LDMAssignments ปีที่แล้ว

    You nailed it Jess... I was in this situation barely 48hrs ago... Thanks for teaching...

  • @fbijoelee14774
    @fbijoelee14774 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can’t wait to meet you in person Jess. I love everything you do. I’m in Kumasi ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @AyomiAaron-xm3ed
    @AyomiAaron-xm3ed ปีที่แล้ว

    I have liked all the talks in this channel hope for more thanks

  • @fussiont.v7394
    @fussiont.v7394 ปีที่แล้ว

    You nailed it... I've always enjoy your videos

  • @nathanfelix3802
    @nathanfelix3802 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes Jessica. You truly nailed it. Wonderful information.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @Drea2000
    @Drea2000 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jessica you the best since day one I heard you everything about me changed thank you keep doing the great work..❣️❣️

  • @leroyzikode9771
    @leroyzikode9771 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nailed it Jess👌💯❤️

  • @CD_Cyberdeus
    @CD_Cyberdeus ปีที่แล้ว

    I Nailed it. ( though i was just curious )
    You are awesome, thats how a mother should tell her son how to behave.
    Great delivery, great voice. Great structure i would give less time on grooming and add a comparison stating that Imagine how would you feel if she smelled. Itz in our nature to have a healthy relagionship)

  • @charlesnjonjo7677
    @charlesnjonjo7677 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videos. From here in Kenya I have to watch your videos before I go to bed.

  • @lubones6372
    @lubones6372 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great Job Jessica!!!

  • @johnkwameimmenseawafia2325
    @johnkwameimmenseawafia2325 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love watching your tips, but this is my first time hearing strategies like this.
    Thank you

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad to hear it!

  • @ifeanyiokagbue1553
    @ifeanyiokagbue1553 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I nailed it!! Thanks Queen Jess!

  • @kencamallroundtvchannel2334
    @kencamallroundtvchannel2334 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I NAILED IT THANKS JESS

  • @mutale72
    @mutale72 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great presentation. You nailed it. I follow you from Zambia

  • @isaacaigbe4013
    @isaacaigbe4013 ปีที่แล้ว

    You nailed it! Nice talk!

  • @FrankOfori-x5h
    @FrankOfori-x5h 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very informative thanks Big Sis for insight really appreciate it you nailed it💯

  • @izulucky5778
    @izulucky5778 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You nailed it Genius!💯

  • @garyallen9417
    @garyallen9417 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You Nailed it!

  • @modiseemanghendrikchosi8546
    @modiseemanghendrikchosi8546 ปีที่แล้ว

    You nailed it Jess!... I'm your fan

  • @greatfadaabraham
    @greatfadaabraham ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You nailed it! Jess❤️

  • @py5985
    @py5985 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ur voice got me watching...it's a gift

  • @katlegopj1064
    @katlegopj1064 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Jess, this video was really Insightful for you.
    You Nailed It!

  • @JERRYDON-js7rq
    @JERRYDON-js7rq 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I NAILED IT, THANK YOU JESS OS.

  • @carscom-nw5sd
    @carscom-nw5sd ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes jess u nailed it 🔥❤️ breaking it down detail by details ❤️🔥