She can come to my house for any holiday anytime except I live in Michigan. I hosted every year for my uncle and great aunt who were only 2 years apart in age. I have lost them all now and would have her any day!
Obviously the friends she has aren't good people. They should invite her but don't, although they know she is lonely at home. How can these people even live with what they're doing?
That is Belfast, I recognize the beautiful City Hall in the background. I have so many relatives there who would LOVE to share time with this beautiful soul. Wish I knew how to reachher.
@@charlenerathgeb8217 Yes, I hope that contacts have been made. Josephine wished for a family. I hope Christopher heard this and is doing something for her. To me, social media is neither beautiful or particularly positive. Though, this is *an excellent example where good will, love & joy could be spread.* Saying hello is a good first step but kindness to others takes sacrifice & risk as well. Thank you for sharing the video is of Belfast. I casually guessed Northern Ireland but was not certain. Best to you💙
Same as my ex. He had a coercively controlling mother who offered to help him with his £30k debt if he and his child moved back to Wales and dumped me. He did both.
Same here...i know I'm missing chances to have a normal life and family like everyone else but what shall i do!..pleasing my parents comes first!...for the same reason as hers!
@@nansweetnan Your mum will never leave you, she will always be with you in spirit. Your heart will heal eventually, my heart was broken when my mum died but I know I will see her lovely face when my time comes.
She made her best friend at 67, enjoyed that friendship for 20 years, how beautiful! 😍 and I gave up at 37 & thought you one cant make good friends beyond college days!
I lost both of my parents 29 years ago this Christmas. I wish I lived near Josephine. I would “adopt” her as our new mom/grandma. It kills me that she is alone for Christmas! 💔😭
I am in California so I cannot invite Josie to my home, but in her honor, I will "adopt" a local senior for the holidays (and beyond). Perhaps others could do the same? I have a feeling Josie might like to know the impact she has had around the world.
The sad thing is that Josephine ended up being worse off having an overprotective parent. I know someone in a similar situation, parents wanted to keep her at home, now she’s very lonely and her parents have died. Never hold your kids back in life!
Sometimes it's easy not to appear shy in the moment, depending on the day, but in other circumstances, the shyness might be almost overwhelming for some people.
This is me in a few years! Grew up pleasing everyone became a breadwinner. Helped everyone out and forgot I have my own life to build. Now all my siblings are partnered and I’m still on my own but has gotten older now. I sometimes have to beg to be included on their outings but I don’t want to ask all the time. I was so focused on work and providing when I was younger I also forgot to build my own community, now that I’m older it is harder to make friends.
There’s a whole world of people who have chosen their family members. You wouldn’t even have to beg to be included; you can come to my house!! I make a great cousin 😂
I don’t think this title should have the words - broke my heart. This is a story of resilience. She has an open heart, obviously takes pride in her appearance and maintains a positive outlook. She just keeps on keeping on, which is all we can do… I’ve been in romantic relationships during my life, and at times I felt the most lonely… Having children certainly does not guarantee you’ll be cared for in old age… I think the key is to develop hobbies and interests that take you outside of your own self indulgence.
I I’m in Rhode Island, USA. We have a program called “The Village” where folks volunteer to help seniors. We provide rides to appt., wellness checks, visits, small home repairs or tasks, and the like. Look for a way to get active with your local community…volunteer at a senior center, nursing home, hospice, etc. our elders are often the most overlooked population, hungry for companionship. Give a bit of your time. You will be amazed how much you get back.
Josephine, if you read this comment please remember that your advice is going to help many of us who take life on too seriously and care too much about others. God Bless You.
It felt like I was having a quiet private chat with her one on one and that she was speaking just to me. I'm sorry for her loneliness but I'm grateful for her spirit.
I hope someone nearby Josephine has now taken the initiative to go meet her and invite her for Christmas, at the very least. A dear person who deserves to have many friends.
It would have been nice if we could have had a way to send her Christmas cards so she knows that she has reached many of us with this video she was a lovely lady
My name is also Josephine and I am also an only child. Being an only child is also something I feel deeply has affected me and a big part of who I am. This hit hard.
I had a neighbour who was 94, and she was very fit and cheerful....I asked her what was her secret, and she said..." I don't really know, but I think it is because I never married..."..😊
The title was misleading this wasn’t heartbreaking it was a testimonial to the resilience and fortitude of a woman who makes her life worth living. Sometimes the hand we’re dealt is read and played wrong. But we must carry on with our hearts open and head held high. She’s a role model for those who are the last ones standing. Do it in grace and style ❤
HELL YEAH SHE IS…she’s Baddd Ass! Strolling down the street, breathing fresh air and enjoying life as it is. I hope to have pure joy and a smile at her age❤️
What do you mean with that the hand we are dealt with are read wrong? Some people enjoy and need company much more. People have no idea what it’s really like to be totally alone! I’m like Josephine, although I’m only 39z And I hate it, I would have preferred to die with my siblings. You have no idea how hard it is.
Dear Josephine…sending love and hugs to you now and especially on Christmas Day 2024! Your smile gave me such a lift! From California an 83 year old lady!
What a lovely Lady. There are millions like her. Lovely and lonely. We should all cherish these sweet old ladies and welcome them in our midst. Especially at christmas.
There's so many good people in the world who live alone and would love someone to talk to or have a meal with and be treated kindly. They are the real jewels if you can find them, you're blessed. God bless Josephine 🙏
She is a lovely woman. There are so many wonderful people living alone and often lonely, especially in their senior years. We are an odd society at times. ❤
What a darling she is. If I lived close I would totally have her over for the holidays. I hope someone on here is able to connect with her and adopt her into their family. It broke my heart! there are so many people in her position, it is so sad. Bless her heart!
I am none practicing homosexual but never told anyone because of my culture and religion. I pretended all my life. I lived with my mother and I am nearly sixty. I am frightened when my mother dies how will I cope. Life has been difficult but mother was always there even though I never told her the truth. I understand more than anyone about loneliness. More than half of my life has passed let's hope I don't have a long life. When God is ready to take me it will be the happiest day of my life. It will be end of a long journey. I am so glad about this channel. It is one of few times when I can open up. It has been difficult but I managed to keep my dignity and uphold moral values and I am proud about this.
Very touching interview, made me reflect about my life. 27yo, still living with my mom, grandpa and grandma. Not because I can't take care of myself, I actually cover a bunch of the expenses of the house, but because I love them, care and look out for them. And now I'm thinking about when they're gone and if I'll be alone like her. Scary stuff.
OMG, if anyone knows her, please invite her in !!!! What a darling lady. I've never married, being shy and I feel so lonely. With a world is crueler than ever 😢💔
How lovely is Josephine, such a shame seeing beautiful people alone. Can you not use your media influence to help find her some friends. Good Luck Josephine. You are an angel.
I would love to have her as my neighbor. Over the years, I have provided dinners for all of my family and extended family. Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving, July 4th, and most of them are all gone now. It's been really difficult missing them. Not long before I am gone too.
Ma'am Josephine, for the short amount of time I saw you through this video, let me tell you that I love you and God bless you🙏🏻 I'm an only child too and both my parents and all grandparents passed away already, but I'm only 28 years old. I live alone with my cat🐈,but Jesus Christ also resides in my peaceful home and in my heart. To Christopher, I love you and thank you for making these videos. God bless all of you 🙏🏻
What a lovely woman! I’ll live in America otherwise I would love her at my home for holiday! Praying someone sees this that lives close to her and invites her into their family !💕
Folks that are only childrenaturally think that if you have siblings that you're not alone or lonely. Sadly , it might even be more painful to realize you have siblings that don't get along with you and you are equally as lonely.
When this channel gets to a million subs, I'll proudly say I was in the first 15k.
I would love to meet you !!! Praying for you to have a family for this Christmas 🎄
we are.
She can come to my house for any holiday anytime except I live in Michigan. I hosted every year for my uncle and great aunt who were only 2 years apart in age. I have lost them all now and would have her any day!
I was in the first 16.9k.
@@ronaldlindeman6136me too!
Having a family doesn’t mean you won’t be alone.
TOTALLY TRUE.
@@Anna-ww4pv sad but true.
I think the worst kind of loneliness is being in someone's company and feeling totally invisible.
Yep
so true....
I HOPE THAT ANYONE WHO KNOWS JOSEPHINE WILL CONTACT HER AND INVITE HER FOR CHRISTMAS . GOD BLESS THAT LADY.
Obviously the friends she has aren't good people. They should invite her but don't, although they know she is lonely at home. How can these people even live with what they're doing?
This!!
@@duchesslisa9099 ?? This what?
I would definitely invite her ❤
There's a whole movie in that 3 minute conversation. God bless her beautiful spirit.
"I have friends but when it comes down to it, you're still on your own."
I felt that deep 😢💔
@bamajenn333 I am so sorry to hear that. But chin up, you are still loved by others.
46 year old bloke and this has brought a tear to my eye.
Wish she lived on my street. Would love to have her for Christmas dinner.
Such a sweet lady
I don't know that she would like to be had for Christmas dinner. Lol.
@@wesmariner I'd rather have turkey...
She's quite sharp at 87. I hope she finds someone special to spend the holidays with.
I regret, not living in the city which Josephine resides. I would love for you, Josephine, to be a part of our family. It would be our honor❤
That is Belfast, I recognize the beautiful City Hall in the background. I have so many relatives there who would LOVE to share time with this beautiful soul. Wish I knew how to reachher.
@@charlenerathgeb8217 Yes, I hope that contacts have been made. Josephine wished for a family. I hope Christopher heard this and is doing something for her. To me, social media is neither beautiful or particularly positive. Though, this is *an excellent example where good will, love & joy could be spread.* Saying hello is a good first step but kindness to others takes sacrifice & risk as well. Thank you for sharing the video is of Belfast. I casually guessed Northern Ireland but was not certain. Best to you💙
Such a good soul 💞
@@dudley8671 What a perceptive thought, that kindness to others takes sacrifice and risk as well.
@@gracehope7 Thank you & best wishes to you. 💙
How nice was that!? Reminds me of a time when people simply spoke to one another for no other reason than to be kind!
Yes true no one bothers any more
She missed her chance at love because she didn't want to disappoint her parents. How sad. You made such a lovely portrait of her.
Same as my ex. He had a coercively controlling mother who offered to help him with his £30k debt if he and his child moved back to Wales and dumped me. He did both.
Same here...i know I'm missing chances to have a normal life and family like everyone else but what shall i do!..pleasing my parents comes first!...for the same reason as hers!
I relate to her a lot as a single woman, and I’ve had chances x
I hope Basil is still alive and watching this. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if he got back in touch with her?
Such a sweet lady…..she needs to be someone’s surrogate grandmother…..
Yes, she would be a wonderful grandma to some very lucky children. 🙋❤
hi josephine. You can be my surrogate mother. My mom died in 2020. i miss her and am so lonely without her. God Bless you
@@nansweetnan Your mum will never leave you, she will always be with you in spirit. Your heart will heal eventually, my heart was broken when my mum died but I know I will see her lovely face when my time comes.
She made her best friend at 67, enjoyed that friendship for 20 years, how beautiful! 😍 and I gave up at 37 & thought you one cant make good friends beyond college days!
I hope someone adopts her as granny into their family.
At 87 she still has a twinkle in her eye! I love that, and her too! 🥰
Aww, someone should ask the Belfast council to organise social gatherings for lonely people at Christmas time. This should happen everywhere!
I lost both of my parents 29 years ago this Christmas. I wish I lived near Josephine. I would “adopt” her as our new mom/grandma. It kills me that she is alone for Christmas! 💔😭
Goodness, almost 90 and looking like tgat is truly amazing
Josephine, is wonderful. I hope people near her see this and speak to her. She's really lovely.
I am in California so I cannot invite Josie to my home, but in her honor, I will "adopt" a local senior for the holidays (and beyond). Perhaps others could do the same? I have a feeling Josie might like to know the impact she has had around the world.
When she said "I wish I was part of a family", all I wanted to do was give her a hug.....
The sad thing is that Josephine ended up being worse off having an overprotective parent. I know someone in a similar situation, parents wanted to keep her at home, now she’s very lonely and her parents have died. Never hold your kids back in life!
Yea but also don't push them to be 1 of the many fkin morons that most people are. It's a 2 way street. Most people are miserable followers.
@@mr.motivation3797 balance!
That sweet lady is anything but shy. She deserves all the friends in the Universe!
Sometimes it's easy not to appear shy in the moment, depending on the day, but in other circumstances, the shyness might be almost overwhelming for some people.
What a lovely woman. I wish her good health and happiness. 😊
This is me in a few years! Grew up pleasing everyone became a breadwinner. Helped everyone out and forgot I have my own life to build. Now all my siblings are partnered and I’m still on my own but has gotten older now. I sometimes have to beg to be included on their outings but I don’t want to ask all the time. I was so focused on work and providing when I was younger I also forgot to build my own community, now that I’m older it is harder to make friends.
There’s a whole world of people who have chosen their family members. You wouldn’t even have to beg to be included; you can come to my house!! I make a great cousin 😂
@@plushrush so lovely of you to invite her ❤️❤️❤️
@@SamJone2024 so sorry to hear about your story … I hope you can get to social clubs so you can meet more people 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
I can barely write this through my tears. What a beautiful soul she is. I hope she finds friends and people to share Christmas with ❤
I don’t think this title should have the words - broke my heart. This is a story of resilience. She has an open heart, obviously takes pride in her appearance and maintains a positive outlook. She just keeps on keeping on, which is all we can do… I’ve been in romantic relationships during my life, and at times I felt the most lonely… Having children certainly does not guarantee you’ll be cared for in old age… I think the key is to develop hobbies and interests that take you outside of your own self indulgence.
I I’m in Rhode Island, USA. We have a program called “The Village” where folks volunteer to help seniors. We provide rides to appt., wellness checks, visits, small home repairs or tasks, and the like. Look for a way to get active with your local community…volunteer at a senior center, nursing home, hospice, etc. our elders are often the most overlooked population, hungry for companionship. Give a bit of your time. You will be amazed how much you get back.
I also live in RI thank for helping seniors
Whoever is watching this and lives near her give her a family!
Sometimes the issue of being alone is outliving the people we loved dearly.
So true vest wishes from Ireland ❤
I know exactly how she feels. I live exactly the way she does . It's very hard .
Josephine, if you read this comment please remember that your advice is going to help many of us who take life on too seriously and care too much about others. God Bless You.
I’d love to adopt Josephine and make her a part of my family!
You look wonderful for 87 !!!
It felt like I was having a quiet private chat with her one on one and that she was speaking just to me. I'm sorry for her loneliness but I'm grateful for her spirit.
Hope some of her neighbours see this
❤️
I would adopt this kind lady as my grandmother in a heartbeat 💗 my children would love and cherish her.
I love her candor. There's a sadness but she looks lovely; get dressed up when she goes out and holds her head high. God bless you, Josephine.
I hope someone nearby Josephine has now taken the initiative to go meet her and invite her for Christmas, at the very least. A dear person who deserves to have many friends.
Josephine is simply magnificent!
Lovely lady. Just needs people living nearby to her to see this vlog and give her some time. Don’t let her be lonely.
What a lovely lady. I hope someone who is kind and has a good heart will see this , and ask her over for the holidays.
What a beautiful thought. 🌟🌺🌷🌻💐
Wow she's great for 87. Josephine you're very welcome to visit me in the Netherlands 🎉❤
It's better to be alone than having someone that makes you feel alone.
It would have been nice if we could have had a way to send her Christmas cards so she knows that she has reached many of us with this video she was a lovely lady
That is such a splendid idea.
My name is also Josephine and I am also an only child. Being an only child is also something I feel deeply has affected me and a big part of who I am. This hit hard.
I'm not an only child but I'm quite shy and in the past, I did my best to keep my parents happy 😊
I had a neighbour who was 94, and she was very fit and cheerful....I asked her what was her secret, and she said..." I don't really know, but I think it is because I never married..."..😊
It would be lovely to have Josephine join in for Christmas.
I love this woman. What a sweet soul. She'd be welcome at my table any day and twice on Christmas.
But seriously... We need to find Basil!
There is a Basil James Wheldon from England. Born 1913. Died 1965.
@@deliabotha7187 Probably not the right one. About 24 years her senior.
@@k.e.becquer4681 I am from South Africa. Her story touched my heart. 🙂
@@k.e.becquer4681even a photo of him on Google😊
But 87 and walking around and living on her own, she’s amazing!
The title was misleading this wasn’t heartbreaking it was a testimonial to the resilience and fortitude of a woman who makes her life worth living. Sometimes the hand we’re dealt is read and played wrong. But we must carry on with our hearts open and head held high. She’s a role model for those who are the last ones standing. Do it in grace and style ❤
@@phillynurse9492 Amen!
Salt of the earth❤
HELL YEAH SHE IS…she’s Baddd Ass!
Strolling down the street, breathing fresh air and enjoying life as it is. I hope to have pure joy and a smile at her age❤️
What do you mean with that the hand we are dealt with are read wrong?
Some people enjoy and need company much more.
People have no idea what it’s really like to be totally alone!
I’m like Josephine, although I’m only 39z
And I hate it, I would have preferred to die with my siblings.
You have no idea how hard it is.
And she looks fit and healthy for her age. Some people have all the family but surrounded by drama!
What a lovely woman. Someone adopt her please!
Dear Josephine…sending love and hugs to you now and especially on Christmas Day 2024! Your smile gave me such a lift! From California an 83 year old lady!
Sending love and hugs back to you lovely lady, across the pond! 🌷🍀❤️
Amazing. Almost 90 and as clear as a bell. Very strong spirit, lovely person.
Yes, why does it surprise you?
Most older adults aren't going to suffer with dementia.
I would sit and have coffee and hear here stories anytime.
The woman has a radiant outlook and mentally she seems sharp!! For an 87 year old!! WOW WOW WOW!!
What a lovely Lady. There are millions like her. Lovely and lonely. We should all cherish these sweet old ladies and welcome them in our midst. Especially at christmas.
And sweet old gentlemen!
What a lovely lady and you sound like a kind hearted man. Thank you.
What a sweet, dear woman. I'd like to give her a hug.
I want to adopt Josephine into my family!💕
What a lovely woman
This couldn’t have come at a better time for me. .Thank you!
What a lovely lady, I want to adopt her...I only live an hour away x
Try and make contact with her.
Go find her!🙏
There's so many good people in the world who live alone and would love someone to talk to or have a meal with and be treated kindly. They are the real jewels if you can find them, you're blessed.
God bless Josephine 🙏
She is a lovely woman. There are so many wonderful people living alone and often lonely, especially in their senior years. We are an odd society at times. ❤
She looks great for 87 and getting out and about town as well.
With her mobility and living in a town she could have quite an active social life. Need to have interests and want to exchange.
With her mobility and living in a town she could have quite an active social life. Need to have interests and want to exchange.
She looks great for 57 these days!
I wish there was a way we could connect with others who are lonely. Older people can be so beautiful to sit with.
What a darling she is. If I lived close I would totally have her over for the holidays. I hope someone on here is able to connect with her and adopt her into their family. It broke my heart! there are so many people in her position, it is so sad. Bless her heart!
Wouldn't it be lovely if Basil was still alive also was single & they met up because of this little interview...🙏
I know a family of Wheldons but sadly no Basils!! Would have made a wonderful story.
@mightymo8699 ahh that's so sad...that would of a beautiful story for them both...thank you for letting us know...bless them
Bless Josephine and her tender heart.
Some days I talk to no one but the dog. Josephine really touched my heart and how lovely you were with her also touched my heart. Thank you
I am none practicing homosexual but never told anyone because of my culture and religion. I pretended all my life. I lived with my mother and I am nearly sixty. I am frightened when my mother dies how will I cope. Life has been difficult but mother was always there even though I never told her the truth. I understand more than anyone about loneliness. More than half of my life has passed let's hope I don't have a long life. When God is ready to take me it will be the happiest day of my life. It will be end of a long journey. I am so glad about this channel. It is one of few times when I can open up. It has been difficult but I managed to keep my dignity and uphold moral values and I am proud about this.
I'll adopt her, she is precious.
you are a doll Josephine!
WOW! Marriage, children, were not in her cards of life. Blessings to her!😊
Very touching interview, made me reflect about my life. 27yo, still living with my mom, grandpa and grandma. Not because I can't take care of myself, I actually cover a bunch of the expenses of the house, but because I love them, care and look out for them. And now I'm thinking about when they're gone and if I'll be alone like her. Scary stuff.
87 and still beautiful. ❤
Poor Josephine, she hated being on own but she still lived life to the fullest and she's 87 never gave up on life, a lot of people could take notes.
OMG, if anyone knows her, please invite her in !!!! What a darling lady. I've never married, being shy and I feel so lonely. With a world is crueler than ever 😢💔
An open invite for that adorable lady to spend Christmas at my home.
Get off your hands from Josephine! She's mine 😂❤❤❤❤❤
What a lovely person! Deep and not that shy after all 🎉
better still find elderly ppl in your own town and cities that are alone to help because i bet there are thousands.
I admire the courage of this lovely woman--she deals with her life with grace as best as she can.
She has such a beautiful smile.
I'm 70 and never married, no kids. It is lonely, especially on holidays. If I lived near this lady, we could be great friends.
Start a group for widows or AllOne singles. I bet there are others!
How lovely is Josephine, such a shame seeing beautiful people alone. Can you not use your media influence to help find her some friends. Good Luck Josephine. You are an angel.
"just get on with things and try not to let life get you down". Excellent advice!
Desperately trying to talk myself out of booking 2 tickets to Belfast (me and hubby) for Christmas. Bless this beautiful soul. ❤
In my head i have Basil seeing this and they reunite. 🙏♥️ What a lovely lady.
A sweetheart. I love how Josephine was always so respectful towards her parents. That is true love.
Many people who have 'families' are even more alone.
I would love to have her as my neighbor. Over the years, I have provided dinners for all of my family and extended family. Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving, July 4th, and most of them are all gone now. It's been really difficult missing them. Not long before I am gone too.
A million times tougher than most teenagers these days, looks great for 87!
I would GIVE ANYTHING to have this woman as family and bring her to meet my parents and siblings and spend Christmas with her EVERY year!
What a beautiful soul Josephine is, I wish I could give her a hug🙏❤️
Ma'am Josephine, for the short amount of time I saw you through this video, let me tell you that I love you and God bless you🙏🏻 I'm an only child too and both my parents and all grandparents passed away already, but I'm only 28 years old. I live alone with my cat🐈,but Jesus Christ also resides in my peaceful home and in my heart. To Christopher, I love you and thank you for making these videos. God bless all of you 🙏🏻
As a shy only child, I totally understand her! ❤
She is a so sweet and precious. I pray someone sees this and invites over for the holiday. I would totally invite her for a holiday dinner.
Being single is an honour. You stay away from so many troubles. Devote yourself to spirituality and you will feel whole.
What a lovely woman!
I’ll live in America otherwise I would love her at my home for holiday! Praying someone sees this that lives close to her and invites her into their family !💕
Folks that are only childrenaturally think that if you have siblings that you're not alone or lonely. Sadly , it might even be more painful to realize you have siblings that don't get along with you and you are equally as lonely.
@ christicostigan This….right there hits hard!
Yep
Beautiful Josephine! Would love to have her for a neighbor