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  • @bossbruda
    @bossbruda ปีที่แล้ว +23

    We need a video on "When they reach out after a period of no contact, seem interested and start pulling away, seeming not interested, mixed signals"👀

    • @ConfidencePT
      @ConfidencePT ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This has been happening with my ex for the last 14 months. She still reaches out. I asked to meet 3-4 times when she did and she didn't meet with me. Yet, she still reaches out now.

    • @daughteroftheking6402
      @daughteroftheking6402 ปีที่แล้ว

      Going through the Same a little over a year now 🤦‍♀️

    • @alpen4921
      @alpen4921 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m having a similar struggle I’d appreciate some support with. My ex (14 years) broke up with me for the second time just over a year ago now. I begged, pleaded for about 2 weeks and then went into no contact. After 6 weeks they messaged me to say it felt strange not to talk and would I like to meet up as they had some of my things they wanted to give me. I thanked them and said it was too soon for me. I knew I hadn’t accepted the breakup and I was hoping for a miracle she would come back saying she had made a mistake however she never replied to my message.
      Concerned, a few weeks after I reached out to her to try and explain why I’d said what I’d said and she simply agreed it was too soon and she would post me my things. Form this point on I tried to keep the lines of communication open, using our dogs as an excuse. She would reply although she didn’t encourage or initiate any communication.
      6 months after the breakup I did managing to arrange to go and visit the dogs knowing I’d get to see her too. I had to jump through hoops to make it happen and when I got there she was understandably distant. The trip,ended with a hug that she pulled away from that left me with mixed emotions. So much so that I messaged her after saying see her again was really nice but I felt she seemed awkward around me so I was going to give her space. If she wanted to talk she knew where I was.
      A few weeks later I get a letter from her. She told me she finds it difficult to share her feelings, even more so in person, however she needed to tell me she had met someone else and moved on. I guess this is what I had sensed when I saw her. I messaged her to thank her for the letter and wished her success and happiness. I then stopped contacting her. That was in January.
      In June it was her 40 birthday. I toyed with the idea of messaging her but didn’t in the end. I felt it was wrong to impose myself I. Her new life. That door had closed and she had told me she’d moved on. I still miss and hope she would come back but that needs to come from her.
      2 weeks later it was then my birthday. Surprisingly she sent me a card. She had had it made, with photos of the dogs on the front and written inside she wished me a happy birthday. She went in to say “missing you a lot”. And the. Signed off with the dogs names. Under the dogs names she had added her own. In addition to this, on my birthday, I received a text message from her mum. Again, wishing me a happy birthday adding, she wondered when I was going to visit and not to forget they had a spare bed.
      To put her mums message into context. I have not heard from the ex’s family since the break up and even then only from her brother saying he was sorry to hear the news. Her mum and dad never reached out and I honestly never expected them to. I understood from my ex that her mum had taken on 1 of the dogs so there may be a relevance to the birthday card here.
      So that was 3 weeks ago. I did message my ex, and her mum, to thank them both. To my ex I simply thanked her for the thoughtful card and added I miss and hope they are all well too. To her mum, I said it w@so lovely to hear from her. I think about them a lot and it would be lovely to see them in the future.
      I’ve now spent the best part of 3 weeks hoping for a sign or a response to my messages. All the old anxieties and doubts have resurfaced. Did I do or say the right thing or have I messed up my only chance of recovering the break up. So that’s what I am hoping to get support with from this group.
      Best wishes, Alex

    • @ConfidencePT
      @ConfidencePT ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@alpen4921 I'm at the point where I'm replying, but keeping the conversations brief and not carrying them. I'm in a good place and getting to the point where I think I'm Ok whatever happens.

    • @droflivelife
      @droflivelife 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Easy answer. Never reach out first. Always choose your dignity first. If you reach out first, very good chance you will get an answer you don't want to hear or no answer at all. Take it from me, now into 4 months and if someone doesn't want you enough to reach out or just even ask are you OK, they are not ready yet.

  • @waynemotty3265
    @waynemotty3265 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    So surprised you only have that amount of subscribers. I find your content extremely useful and informative. You should have at least 100,000 subs. Keep up the good work.

  • @neil5872
    @neil5872 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The power of, "i dont know", good 1.

  • @timcorley5558
    @timcorley5558 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is a extremely valuable video to watch. Everything makes so much sense to me.

  • @sonasharma5109
    @sonasharma5109 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    your honesty is endearing

  • @PathTracer75
    @PathTracer75 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree with everything you've said, big truth! Thanks for your efforts Alexis!

  • @heematara27
    @heematara27 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    C’est vraiment brillant cette vidéo. Difficile à digérer mais extrêmement utile! Merci mille fois Alex! Et je vous souhaite une excellente fête de l’Action de Grâce! 🦃

  • @janrosado4254
    @janrosado4254 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi, so if I think my situation resounds on fact 1, maybe it will get to the other facts anyway, even tho you said in fact 1 that I will not get my ex back??
    Thank you