A lot of these guys set themselves up to be scammed by having unrealistic expectations----both on dating sites and facebook chat. If they approached the same age girls in the west, they would be called dirty old men or stalkers. I registered on a dating site looking for a Filipina 30 to 40 years.and had replies from 18 to 65yo and probably a third were scammers ----but I found a wonderful 35yo who is now my wife. Kimmie is not an aggressive scammer and from what she has said, she just tells her tale of woe and lets them offer her assistance-----she just doesnt tell them that they are not the only one. It is more like she is actually looking for love and stability but she is happy for a few casualties on the way to support her efforts. If you were poor and supporting 4 kids and someone offered you money, what would you do?
We will have to take Kimmie at word about her not asking for money or help first and letting the old lonely guy offer first. Then again how much trust can we put on her? She is not the only victim here. The guy who sent her money to visit him which she accepted then blocked all contact on facebook ( by her admission ). Just an overall sad situation for EVERYONE.@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@@senseofstile I never said she was a bystander----. Maybe you dont know that the Philippines is a Catholic country and their church preaches no contraception---and there is no sex education---so choice----4 children and no support because fathers in Philippines are not made legally responsible. Look at your own life and say you have never made a wrong choice or one you regret.
I never said you did. Regardless of the belief, everyone makes choices. Don't shoot the messenger. Reality is what it is. I will support all children that I am the father of.
Even though I was introduced to my now filipina wife through mutual friends, and was online with her a loooonnng time before we met in person, Kimmie's words about "good girls" are true. My lady never asked me once for money until I was coming to meet her and she need funds to meet me in Cebu. Great vid!! Educational.
That's very true. Met a guy who had a business here in UK he had been out to the Philippines to meet his intended and decided he would put her on the payroll. In the meantime he decided make a surprise visit ( Oh dear ) what he found he was writing to her sister and when he asked where his intended was he was told she is in America with her husband yipe ki tay
Met my Filipino wife now of 12 years, on line, and sent her only $200 dollars for airfare to Manila to meet me when I arrived. She said she loved me before we met, and I told her nonsense you must know someone in person, but she insisted, and she was right, as of today 12 years later, she still kisses me 100’s of times a day, and I do trust her in all things! Including $ etc. We are now building a home on the island of Poro, and will move there this fall. Its been a wonderful ride with my Filipino wife! She never ask me for money even though she was very poor. A word of advice, spend at least 6 to 12 months with her before jumping into marriage! I also do not to this day have a clue how her mind works, but it is a great mind! Rick
Paul good video chat. I really enjoy the listing to the basic rules of a scammer and how to scam. Basically they all use the same scenarios for scamming. Thanks
All the things Kimmie spoke about are what all we ex-pats learn at the start, and dating sites are not all bad. I met both my serious gfs on dating sites my first gf we were together 2 years and the second I live with now and we are married for 5 years . Kimmie was so right about so many things , a scammer will hit you for money straight away and it is always for something that will make you feel sorry, at one stage I had 8 Lolas die and they all needed a casket lol. Just dont send money, at all. Wait until you meet her and spend time with her before you even contemplate sending money. Also a Filipina doesnt look at love the same as a western girl , a western girl will be 110% sure she is before she will say the word and even then she will hold back until the bitter end in case she will scare you away, Filipina will tell you she loves you the first hour of meeting you , some think love is really liking you and others think it is wanting to have you as a bf.
These 3 segments were awesome. And my kudos to Kim for being so honest and up front. She is a very classy and very honest lady. And you show alot of class by your friendship and trust you have in each other. Thank you both for this great lesson. I have been coming to the Philippines for 5 years now and have a wonderful fiancee and love the country. Again thank you both
Revisiting this interview again, I remember a much old video I saw where you tell of 3 scams. One was an American who ran over a stray dog while driving, and was scammed to pay the taxi driver for it. The other was about a girl you met on the street walking during the day. You describe her answering multiple phones where she was scamming multiple foreign men. Was this interview the same girl? What was the name of the other vid? I would like to see it again. Amazing story! Keep up the good work, Paul.
Thanks for the heads up. I think I might be f-ing up over here in La La land of OC county. Nothing significant invested thus far but time and emotions.
Brave and good of her to to explain the thinking of a scammer and how to see thru them. I hope this means she intends to avoid the practice now and can find honest income. Well moderated! Not surprising it’s a common practice for those with looks but too bad it’s wasted on games like this. Great video
Wow. This kimmie is good at working the angles. 4 kids ? She didn’t learn her lesson after 2 kids ? When I was a kid i put my hand on the stovetop after my mom was cooking It only took one bad burn to learn to double check the stove later in life before touching again. Kimmie is a prime example of someone who doesn’t have much of a thought process and keeps making the same mistake over and over again. A woman like this will bankrupt a man but I’m smart enough to only have fun with girls like this and leave when I’m done. Other foreigners get stuck and get a girl like this pregnant only to deal with a lot of headache later. If you are a foreigner and a sucker for women get your tubes tied so you don’t have a child and get extorted later in life.
She's addictive bless her! I bet if you'd have put a link 'go fund her', she would still have loads wanting to help her financially regardless of her past.
You ever see "No Neck Ed" on that 90 day Fiancee show? Somehow I think his infuriatingly weak personality is the type of guy that knowingly gets strung along in the "hopes" that one day something will materialize. You have to give Rose (his GF) credit cause she puts up with him.
I watched all 3 videos. I totally get both sides of the coin. Keep in mind here is a women who was poor and made her situation a lot worse by picking 4 wrong men for her in a row, plus having a children with them out of wedlock. Placing her in a bad financial situation and forcing her to scam men especially western men. I don't blame her for the guys who offered to sent money. We control our lives by the decision we make that are good or bad and I do wish her the best!
Sage advice from you and her Paul, that it is best for a guy to meet them when you arrive in the Philippines . It is important to make sure thatthe lady is located on the same island, that the guy is not sending bus fare from Mindanao to Manila.
Admittedly cute. While pleasant interview, she obviously didnt learn to keep her legs closed. She is nice for coffee and not much more, based on the interviews. Informative interview for those not up on scamming techniques.
Hi Paul I'm here in Scotland but have been to Phillipines several times. What I was going to ask was.. the last time in part 2 of the scammer series Kimmie said she was having a distance relationship with a foreigner but this wasn't mentioned in the latest video. I just wondered what happened there with that guy
Don Taylor that’s great information don . Thankyou so much . I thought football in the phillipines .was not on . I am Still in Las Vegas though no Medicare for ex pats out of the country except Guam .
Exactly. Two way honesty is not in the equation and you don't always reap what you sow. A reality check is needed with at least face to face meeting to assess the situational evolvement.
ANOTHER GREAT VIDEO! Marriage scam. Would you marry a guy you dont even like to come to his country and scam him that way? How many girls do you know who do that? And if the girl does marry a guy how long is she likely to stay with him?
So far so good - there is nothing wrong in my view if someone is receiving honest support - it's people's choices. The issue have is when lies are told maybe causing some guy to overextend himself or hold back from maybe other commitments he has made. As Paul says, buyer beware, wait till you are in the Phils before you go in boots and all, and remember, buying attention, a GFE or cam style relationship, is not love.
One thing I see with the dating sites is that they are scamming as well.If you hook up, then you wont use the site anymore. So they try to keep you from hooking up in reality. So its doubly difficult.
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 I'll tell you the rest of my story after I've met her, if it happens. It's taken almost 2 years to weed through the bad to find 1 diamond. I should know soon, but so far this one now has met all your criteria for being a keeper. We will see.
Amazing the hypocracy I'm seeing here. Seems a lot are willing to cast the first stone. Didnt know christ had some "perfect" brothers out there. No empathy whatsoever.
So her big score is $157.00. I just lost five hundred on the Dallas cowboy game . If she was here I wouldn’t have gone to the casino at all . So This girl is worth two hundred a week to me ..time to think bigger kimmy and see the world like Paul did.
Daniel Lawson No dan the problem is being brought up in poverty only the strong family bonds allow for all the smiles. You can’t get scammed unless you allow it my friend
Another good video. I am a horney old man. But I would never send money to a person I don’t know. Doesn’t matter who they are or what their situation is. But I do give money to World Vision, a bonifide, legitimate charity organization.
I started with Russian scammers back in '07; then moved on to the Philippines in '08. After a rush of initial interest, it came down to two genuine ladies. I really hated letting one down, as she had been let down quite a few times already. I picked a good gal though, and our kids have been there with us 3 times. It's tricky online dating, but it worked out for us !!
It takes two to tango. In a relationship, potentially or real, both parties have their own motivations, whether good or evil, benign or toxic. Breaking a trusting person's heart, it's not like simply justifying one's actions, i.e. getting inside a house feeling entitled, and saying the door wasn't locked. When one exploits or takes advantage of the other party's plight and vulnerabilities, and worse, even spins the episode to make himself/herself appear as the victim, that is the height of human monstrosity. Once a scammer, always will be a scammer! One or two life mistakes, I e. doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results, is insanity. You may be dealing with a socio-psychopath!!
For every one girl scammer there are 4 guy scammers using girls facebook pictures to scam you, thats why you should always use video when you chat to them.
I can see how she would be successful she is gorgeous. This is exactly why I'm not going to get online to meet a Filipina until I've actually moved to the Philippines
Thanks to Kimmie for sharing. I think this revelation only helps a lot of expats. Questions for her. What does she say her job is to her online prospects? If upon meeting her expat(s), if she is not attracted to him will she end the online relationship? Or will she continue as long as they continue to send her funds?
Great interview, I'm sure the lonely old men would've of been happy for the attention she gave and been happy to help her out. I hope this woman's dreams come true.
Its unfortunately a education issue. If you dont have the money to get a college education, more often than not, this happens... However, you choose your future even in hard times. I know of other woman with the same circumstance in life, but took hold of their life to make it more rewarding and not by scamming. Its sad she had to lower her morals for this...
Look,I been threw all of that, and I think most older guys looking overseas , online whatever, have been through this , know 9 out of 10 online situations go south,yes it's easy way ,but it's easy way to meet the WRONG and not SERIOUS ONES ,yes PAUL, much better to meet them IN PERSON 👍😁
I'm 69 and have been talking to a nice Filipina who is 53 for over 4 months. I told her that I am troubled that the Philippines has not said anything about when they will allow tourists again so I told her if I don't have any more information than I do now (3/7/21) that then I will rethink my decision to go to the Philippines. You'd think I broke off an engagement. She's upset and crying. Now I don't respond well to being put on a guilt trip so I'm leaning on cooling our relationship. I may well go to the Philippines but as a single man with no girlfriend waiting for me. What do you think?
Good interviews. I am on a filipino dating site and the vast majority of the girls will ask for money during the first day chatting, and then there are others that wait a few days then spring it on you. I am also on another site for a different in Asia and that never happens. As you mentioned probably for the Philippines for sure it seems to be better to wait until you are there.
Suppose you were wrong and the girl is a legitimate province girl and just spent her last 50 peso to get there. Right is right and wrong is wrong. I’m not defending scammers, I’m just saying, we all know right from wrong.. let’s all just do what is right. You’ll feel better for it.
I dont know why some of them are asking for money even meeting for a day..thats why Filipinas had a bad reputation to some of the foreigners...that's sad to hear
Mark told me.. Do Not send cash to someone you never met... I"M a slow learner yet Ive been here before. But she didn't want to leave and lied to me in SRI Lanka.. I am talking to a girl that lost her job immediately, 5 months behind on CHEAP RENT, load for phone and again 22 days later. I know YOU know the answer and I hate it. I have multiple obligations going on here that require cash flow (not an extra 50-100 every time the phone rings. Thanks for this post. I wish this person would shoot me straight and she is to a point. But I know if you smell smoke, there is a fire. I got involved too early, talking to people and I guess it's not a good idea to begin with. I have No ONE to come see or any direction where to go. But I know I want to come. The tickets have soared at least 35 percent or more as well. Im just screwed..AND I got to drop this lady that might affect her, I dont know... I wish I did..
I don't recall her giving out how many foreigners she has in her "scam pool" at any given time. My guess is it is the hundreds. Also, there is a chance her monthly scam income is higher than most foreigners living there.
I heard her talk about understanding Filipinas. If I was still looking (but I'm not), I would look for a Filipina who is making the effort to understand the guy...really understand the foreigner guy.
I've watched all three episodes of the Filipina scammer and I don't see anything that proves she is a scammer. She seems to be above board and very open and honest. Those are not qualities of a scammer. On another note, she's my favorite Filipina who has ever appeared on your couch. I'd take her in a heartbeat. 👍🏽
Interesting video. My thoughts on this. As I previously mentioned, she has children. She is out of the loop regarding desirability. Hence she is poor, she is a scammer, etc. I would say 100% of the "advice" videos are dealing with either filipinas you're not to crazy about looking at or filipinas with children. Paul is correct about the online dating being somewhat a waste of time. You aren't gonna find any attractive filipinas without children. It really puzzles me that guys would get on a plane looking for women with children. You probably can find plenty of them in your home country. On the other hand, if you are searching for an attractive filipina without children, you are gonna need to travel. Keep in mind all this is my opinion and based on my experience. I can't recall seeing any interviews of attractive filipinas without children. However if you do meet them or experience the rare occurrence or meeting one online, they never ask or hint for money. Why is that? The reason is attractive filipinas without children aren't poor. Are they rich? No, they are non-poor. Hence they don't need your money. Kimmie said she doesn't ask for money but, from what she says it seems she does "hint" for money. Also it seems obvious she is quite reluctant to give out a monthly dollar/peso total amount she collects. I would be a little surprised if she did. My guess is it substantial. What to do? Yes, Paul has the right idea to meet girls in person. Will you meet one? You might and you might not. It might take a day and it could take 7 years. What?? All the channels will say meeting a filipina is merely a "process". The reality is you really need to get lucky. You might get lucky, and you might not. Bottom line is if the woman is separated or has children, run like hell. There is no such thing as a scammer that "doesn't" have children. All scammers have children. I would say there are approx 1000 foreigners living in Dumaguete. How many are with filipinas that are originally from Dumaguete? Answer zero. Hmmm doesn't that strike you as a bit strange?
All scammers have children---rubbish, you just havent met the right scammer yet. On line dating works for a lot of people---those guys who have unrealistic expectations will never succeed. There are youtubers who have married Filipinas with children so I would guess that there are plenty of others---indeed I personally have a friend who has married a Filipina and accepted responsibility for her 5 children who are now all in Australia. Why would you "run like hell" from a beautiful woman because she is separated---thats just an obstacle to deal with if you really like someone and dealing with it gives you more time to be sure about your relationship. It took 2.5years for my wife's annulment to be processed and we are happily married. Life was not meant to be easy otherwise you wouldn't appreciate it.
Clyde, thanks for the response and your personal views. All scammers have children. I know it is a popular belief that there are scammers out there that are attractive and don't have children. I have been doing this for awhile and I haven't found any evidence of that. It is an urban legend that just won't die. Regarding you're annulment, congratulations. Did you adopt her children? I met with a Philippines attorney yesterday and asked a lot of questions regarding immigration and the separated woman process. Since you brought it up, what grounds did you use for your annulment? 5 children? Was she separated? At any rate, what does all this tell you about availability? Apparently there are very few available attractive filipinas without children. The reason is there has been that stampede of foreigners that are all looking for the same thing. Hence the only women left are separated women. Could you go to prison for dating a separated women? Yep, you sure can. It appears you took the risk and things worked out. Some guys just don't like that risky business. There is a "Locked up Abroad" episode about a British guy that went to jail in the Philippines because he was dating a separated filipina. It ain't good. Run like hell? It might be the best option considering the risk of a Philippine prison.
@@senseofstile you make a lot of assumptions----------I didnt say that my wife had children, and she doesnt. My friend who took on the Filipina with 5 children---she was a widow. If you consulted an attorney you should know that the usual grounds used are psychological incapacity or deception---we used incapacity. Yes, adultery is a criminal offence in the Philippines, so you should be aware of the girls current or recent relationship with her husband----my wife was separated nearly 10 years
@@clydeseaside345 Thanks for the clarification. You are correct the most common reason for annulment is psychological incapacity. Keep in mind the grounds for annulment are very narrow. Regardless of the length of separation there is always a risk for prison.
@@senseofstile keep in mind that not all women with children are separated, or ever married. Right now over 50% of all children born are out of wedlock. most youmg and scammed by their Filipino BF who disappears as soon as he finds about it. Usually doesn't leave the area as he has to hang around and laugh and brag about how he knocked up another one with his buddies who are doing the same thing. Seems to be the most popular game of the young males here.
Paul & Kim, it's very interesting Kim is not the problem here the guys who do not think right because they are too old to think right at the time and they just focus on getting the girl, forget about they can't do what they want meaning the old guy wouldn't satisfy her.
I was married to 2 flipinas divorced both of them in the US (one I met in Cebu and the other in LA) both received greens cards all in all 450 k settlements please don’t feel bad but the poor one from Cebu was really grateful
Hey Paul, after watching these 3 videos, I'm guessing many American guys have $20 here, $50 here to be able send overseas without really missing it. Hey we're wealthy here right? Especially if we're old, we have plenty of dough! Both sides are trying to get something from the other party. Most guys here looking over there probably are lacking serious social skills. I'm guessing Kimmie was quite a saleslady in her past. The girl can talk!
Scaming in Philippines is all over. The issue is that they are not poor but don't know how to manage money. This girl is so irresponsible to have 4 kids from 4 fathers and the men could not afford her coz her spending habbit is high. I bet you this girl she gets the money and spend it in a day. I am not sorry for either the girl or the men that have been scammed. Easy come easy go comes to play here.
They say the perpetrator will often return to the scene of the crime and even talk to the police... Maybe these 2 are busy working together.... I think I may have sent some pesos to a ladyboy named Paul(ine).
Ha ha America’s team is dead and buried this year . But Seattle and the ravens are making me money . So any football on tv over there Paul Or just hot girls with funny accents to keep you happy . I am looking forward to chapter four with kimmy the scammer I have a old movie to send her called the sting To up her game.
I'm a Steelers fan and I get to watch all the NFL games for free. I used to buy NFL GamePass but no more. Just need a VPN and the right site to tap in. No college games, though.
She can make money with out scaming buy helping guys see if the girls are scaming them the the guy would pay her to go visit the girls and see if they scammers or real
I rent a house in lapinig island i am 55 puertorrican retired from high frequency trading for virtu financial i go twice a year. Theres reason old foreigners go there no 1 to meet young filipinas for fun no 2 to marry a young one no 3 to enjoy their culture and respect their traditions. I am in number 3 .
If an old guy offers money ? Where is the scam ? If she lies about her mother being in the Hosp or some other tragedy. Then she is the scammer ! In my opinion. The best way to meet the honest girls either on FB or in the dating sites. Is if you are already in the Philippines . Then if you are say 60 yrs old don't look for a 20 yr old. It can work out . But then it can go south real quick ! Been there done that !
Scammers are in so many grades There are really stupid scammers There are extremely clever scammers and all in between I think this lady is not the most clever one But she did well Clever scammers have like 4 to 5 guys and know how to play them Depends also how desperate the guys are
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Yes Paul I met some scammers Really stupid ones and really clever ones And it's is true most... Not all... Scammers have children A clever scammers will not go for just a bus fare Most desperate and lonely guys will send them a lot of money 80 % to 90 % of the ladies on dating sites are scammers So not surprising that most guys will meet them The rest are not the most clever ones or religious lunatics You just must be lucky to find a good and decent lady in the Philippines BTW red flag if a lady don't want to show herself on you tube or any social media She may have a past
Kimmie is NOT a SCAMMER! The men offered the money to help. No one put a GUN to their head or had their arm twisted! With the exception of transportation money and then blocking them ... that is a scam. On one hand, if I was the guy, better to get out early and cut your losses. But, she did travel to meet some of the potential husbands. With the exception of OLDER men who can NOT travel to the Philippines ... she provides them something to look forward in their day. WHAT IS A SCAMMER? A guy pretending to be a woman ... having multiple on-line relationship for CAT-FISHING ... sitting all day in a cyber cafe since internet speed is faster ... and never doing LIVE videos for obvious reasons. I am happy for Kimmie and her LDR. Has she meet him in person? Live video calls are good, but NOT the same as being face-to-face. Stay safe ... :)
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Great channel man I just found you. You're doing some great stuff here bringing the videos everybody wants and needs to see about Filipinas and life in the Philippines. I haven't seen this with the other channels. How many channels have did an interview with a Filipina scammer to learn how and why they do it. Did you ever ask Kimmie what Filipina's actually think about older guys? Anyway, I just subscribed keep up the great videos.
She is fun, just for entertainment, lonely guys will throw money into her Patreon or Paypal. Lot's of lonely guys with money would love to chit chat with her from 10000km away
A lot of these guys set themselves up to be scammed by having unrealistic expectations----both on dating sites and facebook chat. If they approached the same age girls in the west, they would be called dirty old men or stalkers. I registered on a dating site looking for a Filipina 30 to 40 years.and had replies from 18 to 65yo and probably a third were scammers ----but I found a wonderful 35yo who is now my wife. Kimmie is not an aggressive scammer and from what she has said, she just tells her tale of woe and lets them offer her assistance-----she just doesnt tell them that they are not the only one. It is more like she is actually looking for love and stability but she is happy for a few casualties on the way to support her efforts. If you were poor and supporting 4 kids and someone offered you money, what would you do?
Spot on!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We will have to take Kimmie at word about her not asking for money or help first and letting the old lonely guy offer first. Then again how much trust can we put on her? She is not the only victim here. The guy who sent her money to visit him which she accepted then blocked all contact on facebook ( by her admission ). Just an overall sad situation for EVERYONE.@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
Keep in mind, she isn't an innocent bystander. Having 4 children is a choice she made.
@@senseofstile I never said she was a bystander----. Maybe you dont know that the Philippines is a Catholic country and their church preaches no contraception---and there is no sex education---so choice----4 children and no support because fathers in Philippines are not made legally responsible. Look at your own life and say you have never made a wrong choice or one you regret.
I never said you did. Regardless of the belief, everyone makes choices. Don't shoot the messenger. Reality is what it is. I will support all children that I am the father of.
Even though I was introduced to my now filipina wife through mutual friends, and was online with her a loooonnng time before we met in person, Kimmie's words about "good girls" are true. My lady never asked me once for money until I was coming to meet her and she need funds to meet me in Cebu. Great vid!! Educational.
Thanks!
I've been married to a Filipina for 20 years. I still have a lot to learn about how her brain works.
Omg. But I am not totally surprised.
Haha this is in her brain$$$$$"
please smarten up!
That's very true. Met a guy who had a business here in UK he had been out to the Philippines to meet his intended and decided he would put her on the payroll. In the meantime he decided make a surprise visit ( Oh dear ) what he found he was writing to her sister and when he asked where his intended was he was told she is in America with her husband yipe ki tay
LOL Happens in all countries, but PH to America makes me crazy.
married to mine for 22 years, still haven't gottten her figured out yet, LOL. I know one thing, she loves me to death, and that is great...
Met my Filipino wife now of 12 years, on line, and sent her only $200 dollars for airfare to Manila to meet me when I arrived. She said she loved me before we met, and I told her nonsense you must know someone in person, but she insisted, and she was right, as of today 12 years later, she still kisses me 100’s of times a day, and I do trust her in all things! Including $ etc. We are now building a home on the island of Poro, and will move there this fall. Its been a wonderful ride with my Filipino wife! She never ask me for money even though she was very poor. A word of advice, spend at least 6 to 12 months with her before jumping into marriage! I also do not to this day have a clue how her mind works, but it is a great mind! Rick
Great story Rick best of wishes to you
If guys haven't learned this by age 30, Darwinian principals should take care of them.
I have the ultimate defense against scammers… I am dirt poor. There simply isn’t any money to grift!
This gotta be the best Scammer video ever !!!! Lol
Not really I don't think she is clever enough
However she is quite beautiful
Very interesting 3-part sires Paul. Suppressed on her honesty.
Paul good video chat. I really enjoy the listing to the basic rules of a scammer and how to scam. Basically they all use the same scenarios for scamming. Thanks
Interesting series, thanks for sharing.
Thanks for watching!
All the things Kimmie spoke about are what all we ex-pats learn at the start, and dating sites are not all bad. I met both my serious gfs on dating sites my first gf we were together 2 years and the second I live with now and we are married for 5 years . Kimmie was so right about so many things , a scammer will hit you for money straight away and it is always for something that will make you feel sorry, at one stage I had 8 Lolas die and they all needed a casket lol. Just dont send money, at all. Wait until you meet her and spend time with her before you even contemplate sending money. Also a Filipina doesnt look at love the same as a western girl , a western girl will be 110% sure she is before she will say the word and even then she will hold back until the bitter end in case she will scare you away, Filipina will tell you she loves you the first hour of meeting you , some think love is really liking you and others think it is wanting to have you as a bf.
Well said
interesting topic Paul....keep the interviews coming
LOVE THEM
These 3 segments were awesome. And my kudos to Kim for being so honest and up front. She is a very classy and very honest lady. And you show alot of class by your friendship and trust you have in each other. Thank you both for this great lesson. I have been coming to the Philippines for 5 years now and have a wonderful fiancee and love the country. Again thank you both
Thank you so much Michael
a man in his retirement age expecting a 20-year-old to fall for him.
You can tell a scammer right away.
Revisiting this interview again, I remember a much old video I saw where you tell of 3 scams. One was an American who ran over a stray dog while driving, and was scammed to pay the taxi driver for it. The other was about a girl you met on the street walking during the day. You describe her answering multiple phones where she was scamming multiple foreign men. Was this interview the same girl? What was the name of the other vid? I would like to see it again. Amazing story! Keep up the good work, Paul.
Thanks for the heads up. I think I might be f-ing up over here in La La land of OC county. Nothing significant invested thus far but time and emotions.
Brave and good of her to to explain the thinking of a scammer and how to see thru them. I hope this means she intends to avoid the practice now and can find honest income. Well moderated! Not surprising it’s a common practice for those with looks but too bad it’s wasted on games like this. Great video
After that I block them.
Excellent!!
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Wow. This kimmie is good at working the angles. 4 kids ? She didn’t learn her lesson after 2 kids ? When I was a kid i put my hand on the stovetop after my mom was cooking It only took one bad burn to learn to double check the stove later in life before touching again. Kimmie is a prime example of someone who doesn’t have much of a thought process and keeps making the same mistake over and over again. A woman like this will bankrupt a man but I’m smart enough to only have fun with girls like this and leave when I’m done. Other foreigners get stuck and get a girl like this pregnant only to deal with a lot of headache later. If you are a foreigner and a sucker for women get your tubes tied so you don’t have a child and get extorted later in life.
Paul. I use t to be in the car business too. Man you are good! Thanks for the great videos.
Thanks for watching!
She's addictive bless her! I bet if you'd have put a link 'go fund her', she would still have loads wanting to help her financially regardless of her past.
Yes I should stay away from the Philippines, even after watching all 3, l would like to meet her.
@@aussiex0152 lol
You ever see "No Neck Ed" on that 90 day Fiancee show? Somehow I think his infuriatingly weak personality is the type of guy that knowingly gets strung along in the "hopes" that one day something will materialize. You have to give Rose (his GF) credit cause she puts up with him.
I watched all 3 videos. I totally get both sides of the coin. Keep in mind here is a women who was poor and made her situation a lot worse by picking 4 wrong men for her in a row, plus having a children with them out of wedlock. Placing her in a bad financial situation and forcing her to scam men especially western men. I don't blame her for the guys who offered to sent money. We control our lives by the decision we make that are good or bad and I do wish her the best!
Sage advice from you and her Paul, that it is best for a guy to meet them when you arrive in the Philippines . It is important to make sure thatthe lady is located on the same island, that the guy is not sending bus fare from Mindanao to Manila.
Paul, watched all with Kimmie, awesome, thank you,! Paul/Maze find her, yet? hehe!
When they talk about expenses, empathize with them but do not send anything. What did they do before you came along?
Admittedly cute. While pleasant interview, she obviously didnt learn to keep her legs closed. She is nice for coffee and not much more, based on the interviews. Informative interview for those not up on scamming techniques.
I wonder how many guys found her on Facebook and will be her next cash cow.
Unbluffable, that is a good question
Hi Paul I'm here in Scotland but have been to Phillipines several times. What I was going to ask was.. the last time in part 2 of the scammer series Kimmie said she was having a distance relationship with a foreigner but this wasn't mentioned in the latest video. I just wondered what happened there with that guy
They are no longer together
Don Taylor that’s great information don . Thankyou so much . I thought football in the phillipines .was not on . I am
Still in Las Vegas though no Medicare for ex pats out of the country except Guam .
Is she ever looking for true love or is she afraid of it. Can she be trusted ever
Yes can't be trusted
Sounds like the “old lonely guys” are also using the girls
I agree
Exactly. Two way honesty is not in the equation and you don't always reap what you sow. A reality check is needed with at least face to face meeting to assess the situational evolvement.
haha Gotta love it! I'd be tempted to let her scam me if I got to partake-very cute as well as Dangerous...lol
Nice show
ANOTHER GREAT VIDEO! Marriage scam. Would you marry a guy you dont even like to come to his country and scam him that way? How many girls do you know who do that? And if the girl does marry a guy how long is she likely to stay with him?
I will ask in our follow up interviews
So far so good - there is nothing wrong in my view if someone is receiving honest support - it's people's choices. The issue have is when lies are told maybe causing some guy to overextend himself or hold back from maybe other commitments he has made. As Paul says, buyer beware, wait till you are in the Phils before you go in boots and all, and remember, buying attention, a GFE or cam style relationship, is not love.
One thing I see with the dating sites is that they are scamming as well.If you hook up, then you wont use the site anymore. So they try to keep you from hooking up in reality. So its doubly difficult.
Yup
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 I'll tell you the rest of my story after I've met her, if it happens. It's taken almost 2 years to weed through the bad to find 1 diamond. I should know soon, but so far this one now has met all your criteria for being a keeper. We will see.
Amazing the hypocracy I'm seeing here. Seems a lot are willing to cast the first stone. Didnt know christ had some "perfect" brothers out there. No empathy whatsoever.
So her big score is $157.00. I just lost five hundred on the Dallas cowboy game . If she was here I wouldn’t have gone to the casino at all . So This girl is worth two hundred a week to me ..time to think bigger kimmy and see the world like Paul did.
Go cowboys
Great video but I’m glad I didn’t meet her online😊
Good job Paul.
Thanks Rick!
Kimmy your the best
Think love you Kimmy
Daniel Lawson No dan the problem is being brought up in poverty only the strong family bonds allow for all the smiles.
You can’t get scammed unless you allow it my friend
Thank you for sharing
My pleasure
these scammers should just sell thier asses, at least its honest work
Another good video. I am a horney old man. But I would never send money to a person I don’t know. Doesn’t matter who they are or what their situation is. But I do give money to World Vision, a bonifide, legitimate charity organization.
I started with Russian scammers back in '07; then moved on to the Philippines in '08. After a rush of initial interest, it came down to two genuine ladies. I really hated letting one down, as she had been let down quite a few times already. I picked a good gal though, and our kids have been there with us 3 times. It's tricky online dating, but it worked out for us !!
Those gums are off the charts
Wow! Take me to the cleaners...
if they're so poor where are they getting online and a computer?
Kim can try to scam me anytime She is a babe
It takes two to tango. In a relationship, potentially or real, both parties have their own motivations, whether good or evil, benign or toxic. Breaking a trusting person's heart, it's not like simply justifying one's actions, i.e. getting inside a house feeling entitled, and saying the door wasn't locked.
When one exploits or takes advantage of the other party's plight and vulnerabilities, and worse, even spins the episode to make himself/herself appear as the victim, that is the height of human monstrosity.
Once a scammer, always will be a scammer! One or two life mistakes, I e. doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results, is insanity. You may be dealing with a socio-psychopath!!
For every one girl scammer there are 4 guy scammers using girls facebook pictures to scam you, thats why you should always use video when you chat to them.
Very interesting. Think I might be the one being scammed but I’m not spending much at all. Mostly heading to heart break.
I can see how she would be successful she is gorgeous. This is exactly why I'm not going to get online to meet a Filipina until I've actually moved to the Philippines
Kimmie is great. I don't feel bad for the suckers at all. Send me bus fare hahaha
Thanks to Kimmie for sharing. I think this revelation only helps a lot of expats. Questions for her. What does she say her job is to her online prospects? If upon meeting her expat(s), if she is not attracted to him will she end the online relationship? Or will she continue as long as they continue to send her funds?
Just realized this is an old video 😊. Great series nonetheless.
Great interview, I'm sure the lonely old men would've of been happy for the attention she gave and been happy to help her out. I hope this woman's dreams come true.
Thanks John!
This girl is no scammer she is doing a service for these sad old perverts
Its unfortunately a education issue. If you dont have the money to get a college education, more often than not, this happens... However, you choose your future even in hard times. I know of other woman with the same circumstance in life, but took hold of their life to make it more rewarding and not by scamming. Its sad she had to lower her morals for this...
The opportunities for the poor are incredibly limited in the Philippines, unlike the West. Her morals are survival.
She is a beautiful soul
18 months later - Jan. 2021 - I wonder where Kimmie is now and what she is doing?
She is doing good
The scammers are good entertainment value...whats a few hundred bucks to us westerners...just watch out for STD's if you ever hook up....
Ken Siely stay tuned, my next upload is miss Kimmie follow up
Lol what about HIV aids
Look,I been threw all of that, and I think most older guys looking overseas , online whatever, have been through this , know 9 out of 10 online situations go south,yes it's easy way ,but it's easy way to meet the WRONG and not SERIOUS ONES ,yes PAUL, much better to meet them IN PERSON 👍😁
Paul its safe to say if she ask you for money in a few months SHE IS A SCAMMER
At least shes honest thats a pluss
Kimmie can be my Mama Sang!
I'm 69 and have been talking to a nice Filipina who is 53 for over 4 months. I told her that I am troubled that the Philippines has not said anything about when they will allow tourists again so I told her if I don't have any more information than I do now (3/7/21) that then I will rethink my decision to go to the Philippines. You'd think I broke off an engagement. She's upset and crying. Now I don't respond well to being put on a guilt trip so I'm leaning on cooling our relationship. I may well go to the Philippines but as a single man with no girlfriend waiting for me. What do you think?
Good idea
Good interviews. I am on a filipino dating site and the vast majority of the girls will ask for money during the first day chatting, and then there are others that wait a few days then spring it on you. I am also on another site for a different in Asia and that never happens. As you mentioned probably for the Philippines for sure it seems to be better to wait until you are there.
I agree completely
FF film crew, that sounds like a mean and vindictive trick to pull. Two wrongs don’t make a right.
Suppose you were wrong and the girl is a legitimate province girl and just spent her last 50 peso to get there. Right is right and wrong is wrong. I’m not defending scammers, I’m just saying, we all know right from wrong.. let’s all just do what is right. You’ll feel better for it.
I dont know why some of them are asking for money even meeting for a day..thats why Filipinas had a bad reputation to some of the foreigners...that's sad to hear
@@rosemarierigos3585 yes but i think now that it is a small percentage. most are good, kind and polite woman just trying to meet men and not scamming.
I actually knew of a genuine relationship, just kidding, it was a scam in disguise.
Kind of sad for everyone
Mark told me.. Do Not send cash to someone you never met... I"M a slow learner yet Ive been here before. But she didn't want to leave and lied to me in SRI Lanka.. I am talking to a girl that lost her job immediately, 5 months behind on CHEAP RENT, load for phone and again 22 days later. I know YOU know the answer and I hate it. I have multiple obligations going on here that require cash flow (not an extra 50-100 every time the phone rings.
Thanks for this post. I wish this person would shoot me straight and she is to a point. But I know if you smell smoke, there is a fire. I got involved too early, talking to people and I guess it's not a good idea to begin with. I have No ONE to come see or any direction where to go. But I know I want to come. The tickets have soared at least 35 percent or more as well. Im just screwed..AND I got to drop this lady that might affect her, I dont know... I wish I did..
The first picture my girlfriend sent me she was in front of the alter at church....Good girl and I spent 3 weeks with her in Davao. Still together..
Awesome!
long scam
Maybe ask when she will quit scamming? Why would she quit? Kimmie is obviously good at what she does.
I will put that on the question list
I don't recall her giving out how many foreigners she has in her "scam pool" at any given time. My guess is it is the hundreds. Also, there is a chance her monthly scam income is higher than most foreigners living there.
@@senseofstile I will be sure to ask her for follow up
Okay
@@senseofstile She'll probably just have to pull up her quickbooks to give you an accurate count.
I heard her talk about understanding Filipinas.
If I was still looking (but I'm not), I would look for a Filipina who is making the effort to understand the guy...really understand the foreigner guy.
find a girl with a good job and education
I've watched all three episodes of the Filipina scammer and I don't see anything that proves she is a scammer. She seems to be above board and very open and honest. Those are not qualities of a scammer. On another note, she's my favorite Filipina who has ever appeared on your couch. I'd take her in a heartbeat. 👍🏽
Terry Ashley I agree, she was completely transparent
She was anything but "very open and honest" to many people. The lack of honesty was permeating from her pores to people and is parasitical in nature.
I have been involved with a a filipina for 6 years..dont know her better now than in the beginning...and l true hard on that
That's the type of girl that would cheat on her man.
I’ve seen this woman on Facebook.
so what is her facebook page.
What a great girl! What a trooper! I have a friend in a very similar situation to Kimmy’s. I wish Kimmy all the best in the world. She deserves it.
A great girl? A scamming liar is a "great girl"? Scary words
She reminds me of an American Filipina
Interesting video. My thoughts on this. As I previously mentioned, she has children. She is out of the loop regarding desirability. Hence she is poor, she is a scammer, etc. I would say 100% of the "advice" videos are dealing with either filipinas you're not to crazy about looking at or filipinas with children. Paul is correct about the
online dating being somewhat a waste of time. You aren't gonna find any attractive filipinas without children. It really puzzles me that guys would get on a plane looking for women with children. You probably can find plenty of them in your home country. On the other hand, if you are searching for an attractive filipina without children, you are gonna need to travel.
Keep in mind all this is my opinion and based on my experience. I can't recall seeing any interviews of attractive filipinas without children. However if you do meet them or experience the rare occurrence or meeting one online, they never ask or hint for money. Why is that? The reason is attractive filipinas without children aren't poor. Are they rich? No, they are non-poor. Hence they don't need your money.
Kimmie said she doesn't ask for money but, from what she says it seems she does "hint" for money. Also it seems obvious she is quite reluctant to give out a monthly dollar/peso total amount she collects. I would be a little surprised if she did. My guess is it substantial.
What to do? Yes, Paul has the right idea to meet girls in person. Will you meet one? You might and you might not. It might take a day and it could take 7 years. What?? All the channels will say meeting a filipina is merely a "process". The reality is you really need to get lucky. You might get lucky, and you might not. Bottom line is if the woman is separated or has children, run like hell.
There is no such thing as a scammer that "doesn't" have children. All scammers have children.
I would say there are approx 1000 foreigners living in Dumaguete. How many are with filipinas that are originally from Dumaguete? Answer zero. Hmmm doesn't that strike you as a bit strange?
All scammers have children---rubbish, you just havent met the right scammer yet. On line dating works for a lot of people---those guys who have unrealistic expectations will never succeed. There are youtubers who have married Filipinas with children so I would guess that there are plenty of others---indeed I personally have a friend who has married a Filipina and accepted responsibility for her 5 children who are now all in Australia. Why would you "run like hell" from a beautiful woman because she is separated---thats just an obstacle to deal with if you really like someone and dealing with it gives you more time to be sure about your relationship. It took 2.5years for my wife's annulment to be processed and we are happily married. Life was not meant to be easy otherwise you wouldn't appreciate it.
Clyde, thanks for the response and your personal views. All scammers have children. I know it is a popular belief that there are scammers out there that are attractive and don't have children. I have been doing this for awhile and I haven't
found any evidence of that. It is an urban legend that just won't die. Regarding you're annulment, congratulations. Did you adopt her children? I met with a Philippines attorney yesterday and asked a lot of questions regarding immigration and the separated woman process. Since you brought it up, what grounds did you use for your annulment?
5 children? Was she separated? At any rate, what does all this tell you about availability?
Apparently there are very few available attractive filipinas without children. The reason is there has been that stampede of foreigners that are all looking for the same thing. Hence the only women left are separated women. Could you go to prison for dating a separated women? Yep, you sure can. It appears you took the risk and things worked out. Some guys just don't like that risky business.
There is a "Locked up Abroad" episode about a British guy that went to jail in the Philippines because he was dating a separated filipina. It ain't good. Run like hell? It might be the best option considering the risk of a Philippine prison.
@@senseofstile you make a lot of assumptions----------I didnt say that my wife had children, and she doesnt. My friend who took on the Filipina with 5 children---she was a widow. If you consulted an attorney you should know that the usual grounds used are psychological incapacity or deception---we used incapacity. Yes, adultery is a criminal offence in the Philippines, so you should be aware of the girls current or recent relationship with her husband----my wife was separated nearly 10 years
@@clydeseaside345 Thanks for the clarification. You are correct the most common reason for annulment is psychological incapacity. Keep in mind the grounds for annulment are very narrow. Regardless of the length of separation there is always a risk for prison.
@@senseofstile keep in mind that not all women with children are separated, or ever married. Right now over 50% of all children born are out of wedlock. most youmg and scammed by their Filipino BF who disappears as soon as he finds about it. Usually doesn't leave the area as he has to hang around and laugh and brag about how he knocked up another one with his buddies who are doing the same thing. Seems to be the most popular game of the young males here.
Paul & Kim, it's very interesting Kim is not the problem here the guys who do not think right because they are too old to think right at the time and they just focus on getting the girl, forget about they can't do what they want meaning the old guy wouldn't satisfy her.
do Philippine women invest any money or is it all spent on living?
There no such thing as following in love in chatting
great video, you and Kimmie were great
could be easy to fall in love with her,,,she has something special !!! unlucky me,,,i did not find one like that when i went to the Philippines .
I was married to 2 flipinas divorced both of them in the US (one I met in Cebu and the other in LA) both received greens cards all in all 450 k settlements please don’t feel bad but the poor one from Cebu was really grateful
Yeah... me love you long too! Brutal and to the point!
😘
Hey Paul, after watching these 3 videos, I'm guessing many American guys have $20 here, $50 here to be able send overseas without really missing it. Hey we're wealthy here right? Especially if we're old, we have plenty of dough! Both sides are trying to get something from the other party. Most guys here looking over there probably are lacking serious social skills.
I'm guessing Kimmie was quite a saleslady in her past. The girl can talk!
She's a great girl and friend
Scaming in Philippines is all over. The issue is that they are not poor but don't know how to manage money. This girl is so irresponsible to have 4 kids from 4 fathers and the men could not afford her coz her spending habbit is high. I bet you this girl she gets the money and spend it in a day. I am not sorry for either the girl or the men that have been scammed. Easy come easy go comes to play here.
I guess I’m more judgmental than the majority of the guys here.
Hello Paul
They say the perpetrator will often return to the scene of the crime and even talk to the police...
Maybe these 2 are busy working together.... I think I may have sent some pesos to a ladyboy named Paul(ine).
Ha ha America’s team is dead and buried this year . But Seattle and the ravens are making me money . So any football on tv over there Paul Or just hot girls with funny accents to keep you happy .
I am looking forward to chapter four with kimmy the scammer I have a old movie to send her called the sting To up her game.
I'm a Steelers fan and I get to watch all the NFL games for free. I used to buy NFL GamePass but no more. Just need a VPN and the right site to tap in. No college games, though.
She can make money with out scaming buy helping guys see if the girls are scaming them the the guy would pay her to go visit the girls and see if they scammers or real
Amazing....Disgusting but amazing...
😂 😂 😂
I rent a house in lapinig island i am 55 puertorrican retired from high frequency trading for virtu financial i go twice a year. Theres reason old foreigners go there no 1 to meet young filipinas for fun no 2 to marry a young one no 3 to enjoy their culture and respect their traditions. I am in number 3 .
If an old guy offers money ? Where is the scam ? If she lies about her mother being in the Hosp or some other tragedy. Then she is the scammer !
In my opinion. The best way to meet the honest girls either on FB or in the dating sites. Is if you are already in the Philippines . Then if you are say 60 yrs old don't look for a 20 yr old. It can work out . But then it can go south real quick ! Been there done that !
Thanks Marc
Scammers are in so many grades
There are really stupid scammers
There are extremely clever scammers and all in between
I think this lady is not the most clever one
But she did well
Clever scammers have like 4 to 5 guys and know how to play them
Depends also how desperate the guys are
Are you speaking from experience?
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
Yes Paul
I met some scammers
Really stupid ones and really clever ones
And it's is true most... Not all... Scammers have children
A clever scammers will not go for just a bus fare
Most desperate and lonely guys will send them a lot of money
80 % to 90 % of the ladies on dating sites are scammers
So not surprising that most guys will meet them
The rest are not the most clever ones or religious lunatics
You just must be lucky to find a good and decent lady in the Philippines
BTW red flag if a lady don't want to show herself on you tube or any social media
She may have a past
Kimmie is NOT a SCAMMER! The men offered the money to help. No one put a GUN to their head or had their arm twisted! With the exception of transportation money and then blocking them ... that is a scam. On one hand, if I was the guy, better to get out early and cut your losses. But, she did travel to meet some of the potential husbands. With the exception of OLDER men who can NOT travel to the Philippines ... she provides them something to look forward in their day. WHAT IS A SCAMMER? A guy pretending to be a woman ... having multiple on-line relationship for CAT-FISHING ... sitting all day in a cyber cafe since internet speed is faster ... and never doing LIVE videos for obvious reasons. I am happy for Kimmie and her LDR. Has she meet him in person? Live video calls are good, but NOT the same as being face-to-face. Stay safe ... :)
I want Kimmie to scam me!
I heard that
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Great channel man I just found you. You're doing some great stuff here bringing the videos everybody wants and needs to see about Filipinas and life in the Philippines. I haven't seen this with the other channels. How many channels have did an interview with a Filipina scammer to learn how and why they do it. Did you ever ask Kimmie what Filipina's actually think about older guys? Anyway, I just subscribed keep up the great videos.
She is fun, just for entertainment, lonely guys will throw money into her Patreon or Paypal. Lot's of lonely guys with money would love to chit chat with her from 10000km away