Pop Holmes.......lot to be said for staying single! Jump on a jet and land in Amsterdam in 5-6 hours! Have some fun at a reasonable price in the “ red light district ! “ ....jet home with a smile on ur face! ....no fuss, no muss !
This 80 year old man retires to the Philippines... meets a 20 year old girl... they date for a few weeks.... one night, after dinner, he struggles down to his knee, opens a little box and says, "Darling, will you be my widow" .💍
Relationship issues are pretty much the same around the world. The only advantage as an expat here in the Philippines is that it's very easy to find a replacement.
Those women easy to get is only relying to find man with money and to suport them and her family😂😂Just be careful because now is getting alots of people infected with HIV everyday
Great video I like the idea of not having the time nor energy to constantly argue. I’m a young guy and I feel the same way. Those relationships are only gonna get worse.
I know this was an old video, but I laughed and laughed. I’m a woman in my 50’s and I’ve been seriously thinking about moving to the Philippines. I would be moving with my younger, very single brother in his very early 50’s. He can be rather charitably described as the north-facing end of a southbound horse, and his AMERICAN dating life has become my chief spectator sport since my husband passed away. As I am somewhat handicapped, and also the one with the funding, he lives with me and takes care of the house while I work remotely from home. I cannot IMAGINE how much havoc he would wreak amongst the local girls. He’s a good-looking fit fellow, but he has the personality to keep that in check. Listening to you gentlemen describe your dating adventures, I will have to buy popcorn and beer by the CASE as I sit on the couch to witness the show if we moved to the Philippines. Just out of curiosity, I have to ask: All the advice on moving to and/or retiring in the Philippines seems to be biased heavily toward older men dating local women. But what do FEMALE retired single expats do? Just sit around, take it easy, and watch the spectacle?
I think it's easy for women to date men. I think it's better for a woman to be in the West and use dating apps. If you want to find a man in Philippines, that is okay too. The income here is very low though and you might need to look after him, in the West, its the other way round. I don't think men have put much thought into your situation lol. Most average guys don't have a shot with western women, so they go to Philippines instead. I havn't dated for about 3 years so thinking of going to Philipines or Thailand. If I can find a Western woman then it's great, but I can't. Lucky I can retire, so most likely will go oversea's to find a partner
If you want to give it a try, why not my friend, life is for living. You can definitely find a filipino bf no problem, but just like the western men, you'll be facing the same burden.
Great Video, as usual. Frank is hilarious ! I don't know if you've ever done a video on Filipina Stubbornness or "Tampo" but my filipina of over 11 years is headstrong to say the least. Love her with all my heart and she's amazing but when she hits "Tampo" it's like a frickin' light switch and it can last for hours or days
Some are wants younger than them some are not, If am looking for my partner is older than me😂😂😂😂😂 not younger than me, because i called it respect for myself..
I remember meeting an eighty plus year old in Tunisia who was chasing the young lasses. He bedded one and was convinced she was coy due to being a virgin whatever blurs the cruel truth that she found him repulsive as I read in her eyes, woman to woman! You men would be wise to read the eyes, interpret the vocal pitch and observe! The old guy was being ripped off at every turn and of course not either loved or respected by those who were overcharging him, expecting him to foot the bill in all the expensive restaurants etc., the girls shrinking away from his advances.
TJ King - I think you're right. It's important to be honest and respectful with your intentions...if you want to have a short term relationship be clear about that upfront.
@TJ King Im sorry but i dont agree. Love has no age limit. Just look for someone who's not ashamed to hold your hand while walking and ready to fill in the spaces between your fingers - not the one who's willing to hold whats inside your wallet😜✌✌✌
Great video Paul, really good advice. I'm about 18 months away from a visit to the Philippines, I hope it's alright if I plan to visit you and your expat friends as part of my visit.
@@Pat_KraPao You hit the nail on the head. If I wanted a relationship to last I would find one my own age. These girls want love a stupid old fart I don't care what they say.
Just ended a 7 and a half year with a woman with serious anger issues. Her 2 timing me online didn't help either. Take it slow guys and for the love of God, don't buy a house or property there. Chances are sooner or later you will become homeless 80% of the time. If you want property, buy a condo. Expats can own condos. Lots of crazy women out there, and men. Just beware. Keep up the video's Paul. Don't know how I missed this one. Hope to visit with you and Mark later in 2022 if this pandemic crap is over. If you break up don't worry, there is 10,000 lined up to take her place. 60+ year old males are invisible in the USA. I had 2 Filipina,s I met in the USA, that had serious anger issues as well. I think it is just part of the Filipino culture. Anger and Tampo, which I call high blood pressure, "The Silent Killer". When I get there, will have to get Baby Mae and Jen to set me up with some of their interviewee's. lol. Just be careful folks. As always Paul I enjoy the videos. Hope to see you guys in late 2022.
You are their ATM . It’s disgusting to imagine an 80 year old with someone half his age (and younger ). Disgusting for all you old men prying on younger women . You need caretakers instead of mates . !!!
I can feel him. Nothing in the West prepares you for an extremely beautiful girl crying a river of tears, BEGGING you to continue. No need for the little head taking over your better judgement. It's also your heart of White Knight kicking in.
Hi Sir Paul, I love your videos. I am a Filipina and I know what is going on around here. Most of my co- Filipinas wanted to marry a foreign guy because they can see good future ahead and wanted to see beautiful or handsome offsprings especially from the white guy. Some of the girls here have their hidden agenda in marrying old guy foreigner. Relatives of that girl/girls are happy when they knew that she is engaged to someone who is in a different race. I have several neighbors here married to foreigners, they live happily and I noticed foreign husbands uplifted their lives. Because maybe they are generous or feel happy to see somebody's lives also happy. So very true that when you marry a Filipina girl, it's like marrying the entire family. In my case, I wanted to have a foreigner for home buddy someone who can I talk with. I don't want money from someone because I already have, I like hard earned money. I do hope I could find my the one in your channel Sir Paul.
Hello from the USA and happy Saturday early morning, i wouldn't mind meeting someone like yourself,or even you,with your post,you're one step closer to meeting someone, just take your time,and this is coming from a SBM with a passport.
Just don’t take them back to your place to stay the night ,meet them away from your castle and even take them to a hotel until you are sure stops a lot of ongoing stuff
Im 46 and I feel invisible here in Canada aswell... that's so true u feel alive again in pinas. U guys hit the nail right on the head. .. I hope my pinay dont turn out to be a psycho though. She was so sweet the month we spent together but I see another side to her now, as u guys described. But I'm going back in a few months and taking a chance living with her...
If she has red flags which you are suggesting, don't commit fully to her yet, date around first. Once you find one with a great heart, then settle down.
Actually, It's like watching two old men comparing notes on young girls. They're complaining? Look in the mirror guys, you are old an one of the reason's you're here is for the young meat. Therefore it's a trade-off.
@@blackjackamsterdam7075 No, same anywhere, I remember the sitcom Good Times. the character JJ ugly as hell had beautiful girl friends. But he was very young. My father was well off 6 figure income, had young girls in his 50's and 60's.
So sorry y'all past relationship ended bad.i am married to a foreigner too.i work full time,and pay bills.the reason i am not insecure and controlling because he is showing me everyday that he love me.he dont go around with out me and he dont go alone with friends and girls.the reason girls get insecure because some men go out with other people acting like a bachelor.of course wife will be insecured.every situation has a reason.every actions has a reactions.good luck to your new partner.
Merlyn Channel Filipinos need to improve the way they treat foreigners. Many men come from far away to take a filipina girl and this is how the country treats him? Shame on Philippines for this. Filipino parents train and teach your daughters better.
This was a really great video. I am not at retirement age yet but as a middle-aged woman, I see my retirement as being a peaceful happy time in my life when I can finally relax from years of hard work, sit back and be in the company of likeminded positive happy people. Other people's anger, mood swings, and drama is something that I could not put up with at any time in my life especially not at retirement. I also feel that in that situation we older adults tend to be more vulnerable because we are so invisible to the opposite sex in the world we come from. Some of these women know that and play on that vulnerability to manipulate their prey and get them exactly where they want them! I am happy you got out of this with your sanity and your good sense of humor!
I began watching this video with the expectation of seeing a disgruntled, "denigrate the ex" foreigner, only to hear someone taking responsibility for his errors, as well. Yes, painfully funny for those who have had similar experiences. Social norms in The Philippines, and in Cambodia & Thailand, encourage jealousy, spite, vengeance/revenge, and domestic violence. These are promoted as acceptable personality traits, in movies, in the law & courts, and amongst the general population. Acting on such traits is viewed as "because he/she loves her/him" or "because he/she was dishonoured by him/her". As such, an expat who, most likely, comes from a culture where these traits have been frowned upon since the late-1960s/early 1970s - albeit, not accepted by the majority until a decade, or so, later - is usually ill-equipped to "fit in", because it is like going back to a high-school mentality for us. At the same time, feminism is being heavily promoted in these countries, via internet, television, movies, and humanitarian aid groups whos' sole focus are on women & children. Succinctly, the local populations are being bombarded with a lot of mixed messages, which must confuse the hell out of them; some ideals appreciated & embraced, others being uncomfortable/offensive because they tend to villify the status quo.
This is a classic story for all of us men. We meet an angel and we fall with the infatuation with both eyes closed. One day we wake up and realize what we let into our little drawer. It's not her fault, she was every bit of what you were not inviting into your life. "She show her real self a few mouths later" is not true, we we're blinded by what we initially interpreted. Date several months first, make sure she supports you for who you are or want to be, you're not going to change and most women aren't either. It's like shifting an old Eaton Fuller 18 speed, it all has to work together in a timely matter and both eyes wide open.
Hi Paul, good advice, I've been dating and marrying Filipino girls in the Philippines for some 27 years now, and made a lot of mistakes on the way, but one thing is for sure, from my experience, the girl needs to come from a stable family, with both parents living in harmony under the same roof, and they need to be not alcoholics, the richer or poorer it makes no difference, as the rules stay constant, now what I am going to add will be controversial and may invite hate from some ladies, but generally, the younger the girl is legally, the better, the fewer relationships the girl has had previously the better for the foreigner man and his girlfriend to maintain a long loving relationship.
I am a new subscriber,,, love the humor you bring to life in PH. I plan on being there in the next 12-18 months and will be 56 have modest Social Security income and been talking for several months to a Filipina Teacher, she has never hinted for a dime from me. She has a great sense of humor never gets angry or offended at my American humor, if she doesn't understand instead of getting upset she will ask the meaning and when she finally gets it she laughs a beautiful kind of laugh that is contagious,,, I can't wait to be with her in person, maybe I have truly gotten a lucky catch..
I feel so sad with your experiences with your filipina partners, I had a relationship with a peruano and we lived for 6 yrs with no money involve, I work for my needs and he works for his own needs, if we go for a holiday its clear who spends for this and who spends for that. We were happy and have not done damages from each other he is back in peru for some medical reasons and that his benefits in spain he trusted it to me.
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Cool bud...I'm actually lm the Philippines next weekend (Cebu) . Doing a reckie for early retirement. (im 46) . Your videos are very informative..good job keep it up.
I had starting watching this several weeks ago. But now having communicated with several ladies on cupid and so much of what you two said here is right on for my circumstances. I am retiring early and have every intention of living there as soon as covid bs allows. BTW, you two are a natural and hilarious. Hope you do another one together.
I can relate to that ! Advice for everyone … take ur time , don’t over spend Or they think your loaded and when they bring the whole family on the first meeting , you can be sure it will be always like that !
Great conversation exchange and advise, you two had me laughing my butt off several times during the interview. Why not seek more mature companionship? might be better for the blood pressure :) Personally I'm attracted to bigger ladies that come naturally with age, they're usually great cooks, as compassionate as young ladies and easy to talk too. Slowing down is good for gentlemen our age.
Hi Paul, Enjoyed your previous videos. I have lived between Leyte and Angeles City for many years and have seen many disasters.Not always natural. Everyone should read a book called Private Dancer by Stephen Leather. Very funny and sooo true.They should give every poor guy a free copy to read on the flight to MNL or BKK..Serious.. Keep up the excellent content and good luck with the Chanel .
One moral of the story is: women are like cats -- they invariably land on their feet. Don't let your instincts to protect prevent you from doing what has to be done.
Feel lucky it took a year before you realized problems. I spoke to someone almost everyday for 1.5 years online. When I arrived I knew within 3 days there would be issues. Within a month I broke it off. I had so much time invested I wanted it to work. We split up 3 more times in 9 months. Each time we got back together she seemed more psychotic. She also had absolutely insane jealously for no reasons whatsoever. She is the only woman I dated in my life that I felt was clinically mentally ill. She was totally different in person than she was online.
@Neil Stewart don't bring the cnuts to your home country. Don't spend much money on them if you meet them in your home country. They're always single looking for a BBD.... always wear a condom because they can never be trusted. Good luck.
Iam56 if I was in my 60s living with a woman of 27 it’s not good you know their gold diggers because the way this lady acted hitting someone like that she was loosing or scared 😟 of loosing her meal ticket 🎫 one must realise if your in a relationship with a younger woman in Asia their family come before you. My advice is meet someone your own age with a good education. Cling on insecure and probably had Daddy issues
Too bad you'd have to experience that one. It's a sad reality that women in my country tends to look at men like you as someone they can take advantage. You have to settle with women who are more matured, well-mannered, self-assured and has a career of her own. No woman on her right mind would hook up after 30mins.😂
Definitely! Why these old men (sorry for the word old) choosing younger gilrs and expecting love in return?lol.Im sorry im not saying all girls are like this.I think you guys better look for a girl close to your age.
@@Kitiwake hahaha, funny but not true. Open your eyes. Most young girls are very materialistic and they want easy money. Oldies were into sex and young girls. The satisfaction they can get from each other is mutual. Try to be an old man without money, see if you can get hot young lady
TH-cam recommend this video since i already subscribe to your channel. But amazing at how over the last 3 years you've become so much younger looking. So much that you look in your 50's in recent vids & nearly 70 here. Obviously your lifestyle & baby Mae have brought a renewed vitality to your life. Obviously keep doing what you're doing brother, because its obvious to see its working like a charm 👍
I'm sorry to hear of your misfortunes with Filipinas, but I appreciate the laughs! You made some great points that Western men should hear. Fortunately, my relationship with my wife is the exception and not the rule. We knew each other for two years before we married. We celebrate our seventh anniversary next week. And, she is not the jealous type. I'm blessed!
Very good video guys.I am an old fart,as well I have been married to a Filipina for 43 years a very good wife and mother.But what you say about the actions I do agree.
Great Advice!!!! I agree you need to go slow and get to know her. Get to know the expectations she has also what her family expects from you and what she expects you to do for her family. If you move here and have tons of money to waste then it’s no problem but if you come here and have a slight budget then these things are important since you may not be able to meet those expectations.
I think what happened is that a young girl does normally get emotionally attached easily. This is why you have to go through a proper courtship if you're here. Dating doesn't exist in this culture. Otherwise you're just trying to get back to america essentially and you know that experiment was a failure. You know the definition of insanity, right?
TRUE, TRUE, TRUE. IN THE PHILIPPINES AND ALL SOUTH EAST ASIA (AND OTHERS) THEY HAVE THIS MIND. WESTERNS IF YOU WANT FUN, HAVE FUN BUT NO ONE LOVE YOU AT FIRST. DONT BEG FOR LOVE
It is better to find woman that is old enough and know what she wanted, not the young right now she loved and liked you, but in the end she will leave you voz your too old fir her.. you know young girls are ...she just loved you because of your money😜, that’s a different story..
Love your videos Paul, you're a very intelligent and down to earth guy with a great sense of humour. So true your comment about "getting to know her" before you cement a relationship. I've had a Filipina mate for the past five years and couldn't be happier, she's smart, sweet, extremely attractive and very very loving,but I still waited 5 years prior to marrying her and all is working out tremendously. Keep up your great videos. All the best, Jordan Barak, Israel
Maria S.E. Filipinos need to improve the way they treat foreigners. Many men come from far away to take a filipina girl and this is how the country treats him? Shame on Philippines for this. Filipino parents train and teach your daughters better.
@@aussies_are_white0057 im sorry for that..its really sad but i cant speak for them. Just be careful guys. Diggers are everywhere .. in any colors, in any places😔
Maria S.E. many filipinas leave the old guy that got them after a few years and take his money and kids away. Some have affairs with younger men (many whom are married) in the neighborhood. There is a growing negative perception that people are having about them nowadays.
Hi Maria I also take your advice because my ex girlfriend is pinay she lives in Cebu City a province she told me she had a business master degree then she was scaming
Hey Paul, i am enjoying watching and listening to you both. Lol,where are you guys in the Philippines? I am going back home by February. Hopefully to see you and have a chitchat or coffee . Our western life here in North America is huge different in there.that’s a good advice Paul for him.
From my vast travel experiences with women from ALL the MAIN cultures of this life including filipinas..They can ALL be compared to beautiful sweet smelling Roses when you first meet them...then...as time goes by...that novelty usually thins down considerably in alot of cases...to the point where their thorns start showing through...You cant have the Rose flower without its thorns..thats a fact of life..whether its the human female or the flower that we chose to talk about.
You do realise when you step off the plane you turn into an ATM got to get real it's the only thing they see in you, marry you and they know you are 2 or 3 decades older than they are and it turns into a waiting game for them rent don't buy is the way to go
@@TG-vk5uy how many marry filipinas who where born in the same decade has themselves , the filipina girls get the men when they are usually cash rich whoe have spent years building a pot...its simply economics to them and if you think differently then your going to end up pot less
This was a funny video, but very informative! I can't wait for travel restrictions to be lifted and things get back to some since of normalcy. I have to come visit! Thanks Paul.
Paul still catching up on your videos lol lived and worked abroad for 30 years eight in Thailand when you smile at your friend when he describes his girlfriend break me lol lol lol when I come to the Philippines your my first stop for advice and the good company lol. Keep the videos going honest and to the point although as we say in Belfast can take the horse to water but can’t make it drink the water lol unfortunately us old eejits our the same when we get sound advice
If there's an area of life that requires the most wisdom, self-awareness and adaptability it's relationships. Been with my filipina wife for a bit over 5 years and the number one thing is, be with someone who you can respect. It just gets better and better, because even when we have disagreement, the respect is always there. I let her have tampo and don't react, so guess what? She comes back really quickly and gets over it. That's probably the biggest problem in older foreigner/younger filipina relationships, older men get impatient with the 'drama'.
I met a psycho guy here in America. He smothered me, he called me 5 to 10 times a day. I was tired of it I work 70 hours a week. He would let me pulled over while I am driving and he wanted me to show him the trunk of my car. Psycho!!
Great interview! Very serious and humorous at the same time. Are you saying that even after only one date the girl expects you to move her in with you?
Philip Mayo I talked to one girl for an hour, next thing I have friends messaging me wanting to know about my engagement! She had changed her profile surname to mine on fb and was proudly announcing we were engaged! Some filipinas can be very possessive and very immature
@@stevecadman137 How do you deal with this if I may ask? I'm recently divorced after 25 years and I will be 51 years old this month so I haven't been in the dating scene for many years. I did meet one filipina online and have known her for over two years and even went to visit her 4 times and lived with her for a total of 9 months over those 4 visits. She is a wonderful, loving, honest lady of 37 years and has 3 children- 14, 13 and 11. The kids are great kids and I've grown to really care about them. The problem is me. I'm not sure I want to be a dad again after raising own my 3 children here in the USA. It's taken me a lot of thinking and praying about it but I think I've come to the conclusion that I just don't want children at this time in my life. I'm still torn about it. Anyway, that's why I'm asking questions about dating because I've never had the opportunity to meet any other girls because I was with my girlfriend.
Philip Mayo You're in almost exactly the same situation I am! It's a really big call, raising someone else's kids at our age! I weighed up all the pros and cons and decided my girlfriend (as she was then) and her kids were worth spending my energy on. She's a wonderful woman, friend, partner. I'm so glad I chose the way I did. As to the crazy immature one, I explained to her that what she had done was completely inappropriate, also with the multiple fb accounts under different names (which is really common for filipinas!) is scary for foreign men, because we end up not being sure who we're really talking to. I was gentle with her but I was really firm that her behaviour just scared me off, and would do the same to any man and that she needed to mature a lot before thinking about a relationship. She was very young though, I wouldn't have gotten into a relationship with her anyway because of her age. Then I blocked her and put a public announcement about it on my Facebook page. End of story. I feel for that girl but a lot of staying safe is having really clear boundaries for myself. I had a minimum age of woman (35) that I would even consider for a relationship. She had to be from a good family, not necessarily wealthy but with pride and ethics. Sounds like even though it might be a big ask to take on those three kids Philip, it could well be worth the effort. If you're looking for a mature filipina who doesn't want kids, you're probably going to be looking for a very long time because they nearly all want kids.
Man I don't normally laugh about topics like this but hell the way your sharing this together had me holding my gut and laughing and rolling around on the floor ,gee some of that info you was sharing was so funny 🤣🤣🤣
No fool like an old fool. I am an old fart too. But I know none of these young girls is going to love me. Don't fool yourself.
Pop Holmes.......lot to be said for staying single! Jump on a jet and land in Amsterdam in 5-6 hours! Have some fun at a reasonable price in the “ red light district ! “ ....jet home with a smile on ur face! ....no fuss, no muss !
Beautiful? They've got teeth like piranhas! Beware the head job from the slighted!
Couple of nice blokes. The one on the left has a great sense of humor, doesn't miss a beat.
@@eddiesaninocencio6635 good luck with that trash can, in the meantime maybe you can get outside and yell at a few clouds
@@lkabong5529:Your answer wins this discussion thread!
I should have listened to this before she knew where I lived.
This 80 year old man retires to the Philippines... meets a 20 year old girl... they date for a few weeks.... one night, after dinner, he struggles down to his knee, opens a little box and says, "Darling, will you be my widow" .💍
Yes, widow, so they can get his money
Best comment ever!! 😂😂😂
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Catching up on your videos. This quickly has become one of my favorite channels. There's a realness/ comedy that i appreciate .
Thanks!!!
Paul - your reaction to the "about 30 minutes" statement was priceless!! :)
You guys are hysterical together. Please make more videos together.
I just found this video. They are hilarious! I agree they need to make more videos together!
Same.. it's a perfect mix of fun and real life
What a great interview.....as real and honest as it can be. Both of you are just fantastic!! Bravo...well done
Thanks Thomas!
Relationship issues are pretty much the same around the world. The only advantage as an expat here in the Philippines is that it's very easy to find a replacement.
Retiring in Paradise absolutely. Have fun hope AIDS will not get them. Lol.
@@Atomy-Journey Thanks mate, I am very careful. Cheers
Those women easy to get is only relying to find man with money and to suport them and her family😂😂Just be careful because now is getting alots of people infected with HIV everyday
@@Kitiwake : Yeah, a "butterfly."
Everywhere you dork. Women are like pennies, you can find them everywhere.
Great video I like the idea of not having the time nor energy to constantly argue. I’m a young guy and I feel the same way. Those relationships are only gonna get worse.
Then find someone who local men want to date or sleep with. Avoid those that only sell to white men who’d do anyone exotic.
amazing video!))) thanks Paul! greetings from Russia with love!
I know this was an old video, but I laughed and laughed. I’m a woman in my 50’s and I’ve been seriously thinking about moving to the Philippines. I would be moving with my younger, very single brother in his very early 50’s. He can be rather charitably described as the north-facing end of a southbound horse, and his AMERICAN dating life has become my chief spectator sport since my husband passed away. As I am somewhat handicapped, and also the one with the funding, he lives with me and takes care of the house while I work remotely from home. I cannot IMAGINE how much havoc he would wreak amongst the local girls. He’s a good-looking fit fellow, but he has the personality to keep that in check. Listening to you gentlemen describe your dating adventures, I will have to buy popcorn and beer by the CASE as I sit on the couch to witness the show if we moved to the Philippines. Just out of curiosity, I have to ask: All the advice on moving to and/or retiring in the Philippines seems to be biased heavily toward older men dating local women. But what do FEMALE retired single expats do? Just sit around, take it easy, and watch the spectacle?
I think it's easy for women to date men. I think it's better for a woman to be in the West and use dating apps. If you want to find a man in Philippines, that is okay too. The income here is very low though and you might need to look after him, in the West, its the other way round. I don't think men have put much thought into your situation lol.
Most average guys don't have a shot with western women, so they go to Philippines instead. I havn't dated for about 3 years so thinking of going to Philipines or Thailand. If I can find a Western woman then it's great, but I can't. Lucky I can retire, so most likely will go oversea's to find a partner
If you want to give it a try, why not my friend, life is for living.
You can definitely find a filipino bf no problem, but just like the western men, you'll be facing the same burden.
Great Video, as usual. Frank is hilarious ! I don't know if you've ever done a video on Filipina Stubbornness or "Tampo" but my filipina of over 11 years is headstrong to say the least. Love her with all my heart and she's amazing but when she hits "Tampo" it's like a frickin' light switch and it can last for hours or days
Guys, choose wisely, coz young girls are happy go lucky, so, they just want to have someone to take care of them😜 ...
Find same age partner...or five to ten years gap is enough
Some are wants younger than them some are not, If am looking for my partner is older than me😂😂😂😂😂 not younger than me, because i called it respect for myself..
bono hiuson 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Easy to find gf in Philippines, but cheap hahaha, sorry but it’s true..
Have you watch the blogger of rich and middle class and low class, watch that and you will see the difference, how to date a Filipina...
I remember meeting an eighty plus year old in Tunisia who was chasing the young lasses. He bedded one and was convinced she was coy due to being a virgin whatever blurs the cruel truth that she found him repulsive as I read in her eyes, woman to woman! You men would be wise to read the eyes, interpret the vocal pitch and observe! The old guy was being ripped off at every turn and of course not either loved or respected by those who were overcharging him, expecting him to foot the bill in all the expensive restaurants etc., the girls shrinking away from his advances.
Paul you are the man. Love that twisted sense of humor !
Thanks dickey
I admire Paul for being with a pinay in her mid-30's. (like 34 yrs old) Mabuhay.
Wow! Got a good laugh out of the "about 30 minutes" line. You guys are hilarious! You can take this show on the road.
When you become our age forget about true romance. “Short time relationships” are the way to go.
TJ King - I think you're right. It's important to be honest and respectful with your intentions...if you want to have a short term relationship be clear about that upfront.
@@wackkawack6640 Ned from Philippine Dreams, take a look
@TJ King
Im sorry but i dont agree. Love has no age limit. Just look for someone who's not ashamed to hold your hand while walking and ready to fill in the spaces between your fingers - not the one who's willing to hold whats inside your wallet😜✌✌✌
Great video Paul, really good advice. I'm about 18 months away from a visit to the Philippines, I hope it's alright if I plan to visit you and your expat friends as part of my visit.
sure!
Wow. Thanks for the video. Question; instead of “girls” why not women? Women who have jobs and have their act together?
These guys are only looking for young girls. It's an ego boost for them.
@Jimmy Bufferz They don't believe the girl is there for the money. They want to believe the girls are attracted to their looks and personality.
@@Pat_KraPao it's a win win situation by 2 adults
@@stateofmind4341 I agree. The OP was asking why these men go after girls instead of older women.
@@Pat_KraPao You hit the nail on the head. If I wanted a relationship to last I would find one my own age. These girls want love a stupid old fart I don't care what they say.
It’s refreshing to watch such an honest interview.
Just ended a 7 and a half year with a woman with serious anger issues. Her 2 timing me online didn't help either. Take it slow guys and for the love of God, don't buy a house or property there. Chances are sooner or later you will become homeless 80% of the time. If you want property, buy a condo. Expats can own condos. Lots of crazy women out there, and men. Just beware. Keep up the video's Paul. Don't know how I missed this one. Hope to visit with you and Mark later in 2022 if this pandemic crap is over. If you break up don't worry, there is 10,000 lined up to take her place. 60+ year old males are invisible in the USA. I had 2 Filipina,s I met in the USA, that had serious anger issues as well. I think it is just part of the Filipino culture. Anger and Tampo, which I call high blood pressure, "The Silent Killer". When I get there, will have to get Baby Mae and Jen to set me up with some of their interviewee's. lol. Just be careful folks. As always Paul I enjoy the videos. Hope to see you guys in late 2022.
True about the invisible part, even for younger guys. Though I would say the same for 60 yr old ladies, also invisible, at least for attractive men.
You are their ATM . It’s disgusting to imagine an 80 year old with someone half his age (and younger ). Disgusting for all you old men prying on younger women . You need caretakers instead of mates . !!!
Great show, love your sense of humor 🤣
That's why I'm a loner but doesn't mean I feel lonely.
Alone but no lonely
Thank you Frank for sharing and Thank you Paul for bringing Frank onto your channel. :)
That was a fun one guys!
Nice that you can keep smiling;-)
Bluer skies ahead...
This was one of the funniest serious situation summaries I have ever seen. Good advice, tainted with a dam good belly laugh. Rock on you 2.
I can feel him. Nothing in the West prepares you for an extremely beautiful girl crying a river of tears, BEGGING you to continue.
No need for the little head taking over your better judgement. It's also your heart of White Knight kicking in.
finally getting a chance to watch some of your older videos. I got to say I haven't laugh so hard in a long time
Hi Sir Paul, I love your videos. I am a Filipina and I know what is going on around here. Most of my co- Filipinas wanted to marry a foreign guy because they can see good future ahead and wanted to see beautiful or handsome offsprings especially from the white guy. Some of the girls here have their hidden agenda in marrying old guy foreigner. Relatives of that girl/girls are happy when they knew that she is engaged to someone who is in a different race. I have several neighbors here married to foreigners, they live happily and I noticed foreign husbands uplifted their lives. Because maybe they are generous or feel happy to see somebody's lives also happy. So very true that when you marry a Filipina girl, it's like marrying the entire family.
In my case, I wanted to have a foreigner for home buddy someone who can I talk with. I don't want money from someone because I already have, I like hard earned money. I do hope I could find my the one in your channel Sir Paul.
Hello from the USA and happy Saturday early morning, i wouldn't mind meeting someone like yourself,or even you,with your post,you're one step closer to meeting someone, just take your time,and this is coming from a SBM with a passport.
I thank you for your kind words and support
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 welcome Sir Paul
@@darrellsmith8050 Hi Sir, sounds good to hear from you.
You sound like a very nice lady .... :)
Very good video Paul. Yes this is an old but it showed up on my feed. Very good one for laughs. Priceless
Just don’t take them back to your place to stay the night ,meet them away from your castle and even take them to a hotel until you are sure stops a lot of ongoing stuff
Im 46 and I feel invisible here in Canada aswell... that's so true u feel alive again in pinas. U guys hit the nail right on the head. .. I hope my pinay dont turn out to be a psycho though. She was so sweet the month we spent together but I see another side to her now, as u guys described. But I'm going back in a few months and taking a chance living with her...
Nick be careful. Sometimes being single and having a peaceful life is better than the drama and stress that comes with a lot of them. It can scar you.
Please be discrete and read the good with the bad-i had 2 Flipinas divorces
If she has red flags which you are suggesting, don't commit fully to her yet, date around first. Once you find one with a great heart, then settle down.
It's like watching the two old Muppet's who hang around in the theatre .in a nice way 💰
That is the best way to say it
2 clowns but super good and funny ones
In Asia all western men are sexy man no matter what age
Thats so funny.. got me cracking up
Statler and Waldorf.........two Old Famous New York City Hotels
Actually, It's like watching two old men comparing notes on young girls. They're complaining? Look in the mirror guys, you are old an one of the reason's you're here is for the young meat. Therefore it's a trade-off.
@@blackjackamsterdam7075 No, same anywhere, I remember the sitcom Good Times. the character JJ ugly as hell had beautiful girl friends. But he was very young. My father was well off 6 figure income, had young girls in his 50's and 60's.
Great show today good advice, I got as many laughs as you did.
That's the thing about you, your no nonsense outlook on things you tell it like it is.
So sorry y'all past relationship ended bad.i am married to a foreigner too.i work full time,and pay bills.the reason i am not insecure and controlling because he is showing me everyday that he love me.he dont go around with out me and he dont go alone with friends and girls.the reason girls get insecure because some men go out with other people acting like a bachelor.of course wife will be insecured.every situation has a reason.every actions has a reactions.good luck to your new partner.
Merlyn Channel
Filipinos need to improve the way they treat foreigners.
Many men come from far away to take a filipina girl and this is how the country treats him?
Shame on Philippines for this.
Filipino parents train and teach your daughters better.
Merlyn Channel Maam I LOVE YOUR ANSWER! Salute to your husband!
Extremely enlightening. Thanks for sharing the experience!!!
Thanks for watching Arthur!
some people hate and judge, but i love how you guys laugh and find humor even in bad situations. rock on, gentlemen.
This was a very insightful and useful video. Thank to you both.
This was a really great video. I am not at retirement age yet but as a middle-aged woman, I see my retirement as being a peaceful happy time in my life when I can finally relax from years of hard work, sit back and be in the company of likeminded positive happy people. Other people's anger, mood swings, and drama is something that I could not put up with at any time in my life especially not at retirement. I also feel that in that situation we older adults tend to be more vulnerable because we are so invisible to the opposite sex in the world we come from. Some of these women know that and play on that vulnerability to manipulate their prey and get them exactly where they want them! I am happy you got out of this with your sanity and your good sense of humor!
Very cool video. Fun and informative. Enjoying your films Paul!
Thanks Dan, I appreciate your support and input!
I had a similar issue in the Philippines except that I was the psycho.
Self-awareness proves you're NOT a psycho!
😂
honesty to the highest level LOL, she just can’t go in to ur mind..
LOL! you are an original.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Great interview Paul , very enlightening listening to Frank
I began watching this video with the expectation of seeing a disgruntled, "denigrate the ex" foreigner, only to hear someone taking responsibility for his errors, as well. Yes, painfully funny for those who have had similar experiences.
Social norms in The Philippines, and in Cambodia & Thailand, encourage jealousy, spite, vengeance/revenge, and domestic violence. These are promoted as acceptable personality traits, in movies, in the law & courts, and amongst the general population.
Acting on such traits is viewed as "because he/she loves her/him" or "because he/she was dishonoured by him/her". As such, an expat who, most likely, comes from a culture where these traits have been frowned upon since the late-1960s/early 1970s - albeit, not accepted by the majority until a decade, or so, later - is usually ill-equipped to "fit in", because it is like going back to a high-school mentality for us. At the same time, feminism is being heavily promoted in these countries, via internet, television, movies, and humanitarian aid groups whos' sole focus are on women & children.
Succinctly, the local populations are being bombarded with a lot of mixed messages, which must confuse the hell out of them; some ideals appreciated & embraced, others being uncomfortable/offensive because they tend to villify the status quo.
The spread of feminism into the Philippines will likely be even more destructive that it has been in the USA due to their immense preexisting issues.
I like those older Paul videos 😂 Here for the laughs….better than any TV Show!
This is a classic story for all of us men. We meet an angel and we fall with the infatuation with both eyes closed. One day we wake up and realize what we let into our little drawer. It's not her fault, she was every bit of what you were not inviting into your life. "She show her real self a few mouths later" is not true, we we're blinded by what we initially interpreted. Date several months first, make sure she supports you for who you are or want to be, you're not going to change and most women aren't either. It's like shifting an old Eaton Fuller 18 speed, it all has to work together in a timely matter and both eyes wide open.
Salute driver
Hi Paul, good advice, I've been dating and marrying Filipino girls in the Philippines for some 27 years now, and made a lot of mistakes on the way, but one thing is for sure, from my experience, the girl needs to come from a stable family, with both parents living in harmony under the same roof, and they need to be not alcoholics, the richer or poorer it makes no difference, as the rules stay constant, now what I am going to add will be controversial and may invite hate from some ladies, but generally, the younger the girl is legally, the better, the fewer relationships the girl has had previously the better for the foreigner man and his girlfriend to maintain a long loving relationship.
You Make Good points
I am a new subscriber,,, love the humor you bring to life in PH. I plan on being there in the next 12-18 months and will be 56 have modest Social Security income and been talking for several months to a Filipina Teacher, she has never hinted for a dime from me. She has a great sense of humor never gets angry or offended at my American humor, if she doesn't understand instead of getting upset she will ask the meaning and when she finally gets it she laughs a beautiful kind of laugh that is contagious,,, I can't wait to be with her in person, maybe I have truly gotten a lucky catch..
That's great David!
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 oh and I forgot she teaches right outside Dumaguete, so maybe we meet in the hopefully not so far future..
@David Chaplin Sad but often true
@David Chaplin She's never asked him for any money for several months. Why would you think that?
I would love to get an update on this guy. How is he doing almost a year later.
Check the "Every Man Has a Story" TH-cam channel.
I feel so sad with your experiences with your filipina partners, I had a relationship with a peruano and we lived for 6 yrs with no money involve, I work for my needs and he works for his own needs, if we go for a holiday its clear who spends for this and who spends for that. We were happy and have not done damages from each other he is back in peru for some medical reasons and that his benefits in spain he trusted it to me.
Where do you live Marlyn, sound very nice
Excellent videos Paul...Your a Legend!!
Only in my own mind Ryan, lol, appreciate your support buddy
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Cool bud...I'm actually lm the Philippines next weekend (Cebu) . Doing a reckie for early retirement. (im 46) . Your videos are very informative..good job keep it up.
I had starting watching this several weeks ago. But now having communicated with several ladies on cupid and so much of what you two said here is right on for my circumstances. I am retiring early and have every intention of living there as soon as covid bs allows. BTW, you two are a natural and hilarious. Hope you do another one together.
I can relate to that ! Advice for everyone … take ur time , don’t over spend Or they think your loaded and when they bring the whole family on the first meeting , you can be sure it will be always like that !
Great video...Solid gold advice 😊
Craig Schuler Thanks Craig!
I love Paul's smirk on his face when Frank started to tell his girlfriend story.
Its hilarious
Great conversation exchange and advise, you two had me laughing my butt off several times during the interview. Why not seek more mature companionship? might be better for the blood pressure :) Personally I'm attracted to bigger ladies that come naturally with age, they're usually great cooks, as compassionate as young ladies and easy to talk too. Slowing down is good for gentlemen our age.
Thanks. Very helpful. Another "moral of the story" is: Have an exit strategy going in.
Boom
Hi Paul,
Enjoyed your previous videos.
I have lived between Leyte and Angeles City for many years and have seen many disasters.Not always natural.
Everyone should read a book called Private Dancer by Stephen Leather.
Very funny and sooo true.They should give every poor guy a free copy to read on the flight to MNL or BKK..Serious..
Keep up the excellent content and good luck with the Chanel .
One moral of the story is: women are like cats -- they invariably land on their feet. Don't let your instincts to protect prevent you from doing what has to be done.
Feel lucky it took a year before you realized problems. I spoke to someone almost everyday for 1.5 years online. When I arrived I knew within 3 days there would be issues. Within a month I broke it off. I had so much time invested I wanted it to work. We split up 3 more times in 9 months. Each time we got back together she seemed more psychotic. She also had absolutely insane jealously for no reasons whatsoever. She is the only woman I dated in my life that I felt was clinically mentally ill. She was totally different in person than she was online.
Yep, happened to me 2x times.
@Neil Stewart don't bring the cnuts to your home country. Don't spend much money on them if you meet them in your home country. They're always single looking for a BBD.... always wear a condom because they can never be trusted. Good luck.
As my mother always said knowing someone and living with them is two different things.
@Neil Stewart You're nuts. They're not worth it, sorry pal.
Wow, Yu are describing what happened to me and she was a Phillipino
Great TH-cam! My first rule is to learn from other peoples mistakes. I learned here. Thank you!
Iam56 if I was in my 60s living with a woman of 27 it’s not good you know their gold diggers because the way this lady acted hitting someone like that she was loosing or scared 😟 of loosing her meal ticket 🎫 one must realise if your in a relationship with a younger woman in Asia their family come before you. My advice is meet someone your own age with a good education. Cling on insecure and probably had Daddy issues
Those moments really cracked me up
"And how did that go"?
"Not good"
Too bad you'd have to experience that one. It's a sad reality that women in my country tends to look at men like you as someone they can take advantage.
You have to settle with women who are more matured, well-mannered, self-assured and has a career of her own. No woman on her right mind would hook up after 30mins.😂
Good advice
Thanks for sharing your friend’s story. Was very entertaining to hear because most of us have had similiar experiences. 😅
Frank, how could you think a young hot girl would be with a 60+-year-old for anything other than money?
Definitely! Why these old men (sorry for the word old) choosing younger gilrs and expecting love in return?lol.Im sorry im not saying all girls are like this.I think you guys better look for a girl close to your age.
True
@@Kitiwake You are watching too much porn smh!
@@Kitiwake hahaha, funny but not true. Open your eyes. Most young girls are very materialistic and they want easy money. Oldies were into sex and young girls. The satisfaction they can get from each other is mutual. Try to be an old man without money, see if you can get hot young lady
@@Catz21adventures Try to get ANY woman without money. Unless the guy is physically attractive.
TH-cam recommend this video since i already subscribe to your channel. But amazing at how over the last 3 years you've become so much younger looking. So much that you look in your 50's in recent vids & nearly 70 here. Obviously your lifestyle & baby Mae have brought a renewed vitality to your life. Obviously keep doing what you're doing brother, because its obvious to see its working like a charm 👍
I'm sorry to hear of your misfortunes with Filipinas, but I appreciate the laughs! You made some great points that Western men should hear. Fortunately, my relationship with my wife is the exception and not the rule. We knew each other for two years before we married. We celebrate our seventh anniversary next week. And, she is not the jealous type. I'm blessed!
Yes you are so lucky, God bless you both!
You guys make me smile. Great talk
That's awesome!
Very good video guys.I am an old fart,as well I have been married to a Filipina for 43 years a very good wife and mother.But what you say about the actions I do agree.
Great video life experience. Thanks to both you guys for sharing so openly!
You bet!
Great Advice!!!! I agree you need to go slow and get to know her. Get to know the expectations she has also what her family expects from you and what she expects you to do for her family. If you move here and have tons of money to waste then it’s no problem but if you come here and have a slight budget then these things are important since you may not be able to meet those expectations.
Exactly! Right on the money Monty. We all need to just take our time and move forward with a plan in place
I think what happened is that a young girl does normally get emotionally attached easily. This is why you have to go through a proper courtship if you're here. Dating doesn't exist in this culture. Otherwise you're just trying to get back to america essentially and you know that experiment was a failure. You know the definition of insanity, right?
TRUE, TRUE, TRUE. IN THE PHILIPPINES AND ALL SOUTH EAST ASIA (AND OTHERS) THEY HAVE THIS MIND. WESTERNS IF YOU WANT FUN, HAVE FUN BUT NO ONE LOVE YOU AT FIRST. DONT BEG FOR LOVE
Please look for women your age not young girls ,if the expats take the girls the boys will not have their pair
It is better to find woman that is old enough and know what she wanted, not the young right now she loved and liked you, but in the end she will leave you voz your too old fir her.. you know young girls are ...she just loved you because of your money😜, that’s a different story..
You guys are hilarious! I hope your friend is in a happy place now.
Love your videos Paul, you're a very intelligent and down to earth guy with a great sense of humour. So true your comment about "getting to know her" before you cement a relationship. I've had a Filipina mate for the past five years and couldn't be happier, she's smart, sweet, extremely attractive and very very loving,but I still waited 5 years prior to marrying her and all is working out tremendously. Keep up your great videos. All the best, Jordan Barak, Israel
Thank you Jordan!
Good vid and very funny and informative. Your mate is quite a character in a good way.
I like to date 3-4 decades to make sure the relationship can stand the test of time before marrying, haha
😂 😂 😂
Yes, it takes longer than a decade to decide if she is right for you!
wow 😅😅😅
Sometimes 40 years is not enough. Ask the 40 and 50 years marriages that end in divorces.
Any idea when travel to the Philippines from the USA is opening up?
nope
ONly 2 girlfirends.during your time there ? You should have had 2 getting off the plane...haha!
Great video gentleman!!
I could say that every one of us is unique so better find a filipina who is secured in her own career. Stay away from girls with full of life dramas😊
Maria S.E.
Filipinos need to improve the way they treat foreigners.
Many men come from far away to take a filipina girl and this is how the country treats him?
Shame on Philippines for this.
Filipino parents train and teach your daughters better.
@@aussies_are_white0057 im sorry for that..its really sad but i cant speak for them. Just be careful guys. Diggers are everywhere .. in any colors, in any places😔
Maria S.E. many filipinas leave the old guy that got them after a few years and take his money and kids away. Some have affairs with younger men (many whom are married) in the neighborhood.
There is a growing negative perception that people are having about them nowadays.
I understand where you coming from but please not all of us are the same. Thank you
Hi Maria I also take your advice because my ex girlfriend is pinay she lives in Cebu City a province she told me she had a business master degree then she was scaming
Hey Paul, i am enjoying watching and listening to you both. Lol,where are you guys in the Philippines? I am going back home by February. Hopefully to see you and have a chitchat or coffee . Our western life here in North America is huge different in there.that’s a good advice Paul for him.
From my vast travel experiences with women from ALL the MAIN cultures of this life including filipinas..They can ALL be compared to beautiful sweet smelling Roses when you first meet them...then...as time goes by...that novelty usually thins down considerably in alot of cases...to the point where their thorns start showing through...You cant have the Rose flower without its thorns..thats a fact of life..whether its the human female or the flower that we chose to talk about.
You guys were great !
holy crap, your describing my filipina gf .. what's her name I might know her lol
so HOW to do dating safely? moving together not before 2 or 3 months?? just meet once in a while and not every day?
whats the best strategy?
Just stumbled to ur channel and u two are freaking Hilarious 😂
Hahahaha,these guys are great
Best relationship video I've seen here in duma
This video is better than Comedy Central! Great information about the Barangue (sp?)
Glad you enjoyed it!
Man I would love to have a few coldies with these two.
...and then have them introduce me to a few hotties!
Great video Paul, funny and entertaining but also express some reality of life in the Philippines
Thank you Carlo, trying our best to tell it the way it really is
You do realise when you step off the plane you turn into an ATM got to get real it's the only thing they see in you, marry you and they know you are 2 or 3 decades older than they are and it turns into a waiting game for them rent don't buy is the way to go
@@TG-vk5uy how many marry filipinas who where born in the same decade has themselves , the filipina girls get the men when they are usually cash rich whoe have spent years building a pot...its simply economics to them and if you think differently then your going to end up pot less
Very valuable information thanks for doing these kind of videos
Is that 30 minutes before she packed her stuff to move in or was it already packed on hand on meeting? Haha
Chris MacQueen 😂😂
This was a funny video, but very informative! I can't wait for travel restrictions to be lifted and things get back to some since of normalcy. I have to come visit! Thanks Paul.
Jerry Springer.........really
Paul still catching up on your videos lol lived and worked abroad for 30 years eight in Thailand when you smile at your friend when he describes his girlfriend break me lol lol lol when I come to the Philippines your my first stop for advice and the good company lol. Keep the videos going honest and to the point although as we say in Belfast can take the horse to water but can’t make it drink the water lol unfortunately us old eejits our the same when we get sound advice
Thank you Dave
If there's an area of life that requires the most wisdom, self-awareness and adaptability it's relationships. Been with my filipina wife for a bit over 5 years and the number one thing is, be with someone who you can respect. It just gets better and better, because even when we have disagreement, the respect is always there. I let her have tampo and don't react, so guess what? She comes back really quickly and gets over it. That's probably the biggest problem in older foreigner/younger filipina relationships, older men get impatient with the 'drama'.
Ps. Find someone who you can be best friends with also
I met a psycho guy here in America. He smothered me, he called me 5 to 10 times a day. I was tired of it I work 70 hours a week. He would let me pulled over while I am driving and he wanted me to show him the trunk of my car. Psycho!!
Yikes!
“Whey I met she full of life and energy “. So true during the romance period.
Great interview! Very serious and humorous at the same time. Are you saying that even after only one date the girl expects you to move her in with you?
Philip Mayo I talked to one girl for an hour, next thing I have friends messaging me wanting to know about my engagement! She had changed her profile surname to mine on fb and was proudly announcing we were engaged! Some filipinas can be very possessive and very immature
@@stevecadman137 wow!
@@stevecadman137 How do you deal with this if I may ask? I'm recently divorced after 25 years and I will be 51 years old this month so I haven't been in the dating scene for many years. I did meet one filipina online and have known her for over two years and even went to visit her 4 times and lived with her for a total of 9 months over those 4 visits. She is a wonderful, loving, honest lady of 37 years and has 3 children- 14, 13 and 11. The kids are great kids and I've grown to really care about them. The problem is me. I'm not sure I want to be a dad again after raising own my 3 children here in the USA. It's taken me a lot of thinking and praying about it but I think I've come to the conclusion that I just don't want children at this time in my life. I'm still torn about it. Anyway, that's why I'm asking questions about dating because I've never had the opportunity to meet any other girls because I was with my girlfriend.
Philip Mayo You're in almost exactly the same situation I am! It's a really big call, raising someone else's kids at our age! I weighed up all the pros and cons and decided my girlfriend (as she was then) and her kids were worth spending my energy on. She's a wonderful woman, friend, partner. I'm so glad I chose the way I did. As to the crazy immature one, I explained to her that what she had done was completely inappropriate, also with the multiple fb accounts under different names (which is really common for filipinas!) is scary for foreign men, because we end up not being sure who we're really talking to. I was gentle with her but I was really firm that her behaviour just scared me off, and would do the same to any man and that she needed to mature a lot before thinking about a relationship. She was very young though, I wouldn't have gotten into a relationship with her anyway because of her age. Then I blocked her and put a public announcement about it on my Facebook page. End of story. I feel for that girl but a lot of staying safe is having really clear boundaries for myself. I had a minimum age of woman (35) that I would even consider for a relationship. She had to be from a good family, not necessarily wealthy but with pride and ethics. Sounds like even though it might be a big ask to take on those three kids Philip, it could well be worth the effort. If you're looking for a mature filipina who doesn't want kids, you're probably going to be looking for a very long time because they nearly all want kids.
Philip Mayo hope that answers your question!
Why not choose a woman 35 to 40 above..there are many good women there!
Exactly
Man I don't normally laugh about topics like this but hell the way your sharing this together had me holding my gut and laughing and rolling around on the floor ,gee some of that info you was sharing was so funny 🤣🤣🤣