My sister tried that. She: "BTW I'm gay." All of us: "Ok, good for you." She: "Nah, I was just trying to shock you." We: "Sis, you have a lesbian/ace aunt, a trans cousin, and a sex-positive grandma whose best friend was bi back in the 40's. You've got to try harder than this."
I won't put words into your mum's mouth but if it were up to me, I would've said that you are wonderful, whoever or whatever you chose to be. What matters is that you are loved and know how to love in return. 😢
For real though, gay teenagers sometimes don't realise they are gay until very later years. Meanwhile other people who is close to them already pick up a sign that they are gay. It's quite funny that i know some who realise they are gay, and revealed to their friends (including me), and their friends was like "yeah we already expect for a while from watching your body language/voice/appearance."
Yup, one of my teachers told us a story about her daughter's coming out (I don't know why we were talking about coming out stories in class (most of the people in that class are LGBTQ+)) and she said that she knew her daughter was gay since like primary school. So yeah if parents are knowledgeable enough about this they know quite early on that their child is LGBTQ+
Yeah,im Gay but i didn’t realize that i wasn’t straight until like 2.5 years ago,and my cousin (who is also Gay,he and his husband are the only one’s that i came out to irl) told me a story about my mom (who has unfortunate been gone for many years now,long before i even know what Gay was,and who was probably Bisexual/Pansexual/Bicurious herself) where when i was very young he was at our house and they were talking about me,and she told him "yk,sometimes i feel like that boy is Gay" i just wonder how she knew lmao
I think the funniest thing about this is that by the end SHE was telling HIM what he was, the "what do you mean" was sooo loud I'm crying that's so funny lmao
Dude this is crazy, my dad knew I was lesbian a year before I told him by accident, I was like "and you didn't told me while I was wondering what I was...?", it was so weird. I swear parents know everything, it's scary.
@@groggyowl6871 I think so too, at the time I was very young and didn't know my dad that well but now that I got more interaction with him I see that he is just like that, it's kind of funny 😹
It's funny when they get offended that everyone already knew. Big dramatic moment ruined. I don't know. Is it like a surprise party? Are you supposed to pretend to be surprised? It would be funny though if all their friends just said 'oh you're gay? We can't be friends with you anymore.' Just as a prank.
@@KenjaTimu Offended? I wasn't offended but surprised bc my dad was the one who told me at 13 that teenagers should wait until they were 16 to even think about they preferences, that before that time they shouldn't know meanwhile at 13 I already knew. I told him when I was 15 by complete accident and I expected him to say something like "you are too young to know that" instead he was joking about it and obviously I was very happy, confused as why he didn't told me before but happy.
I remember when my best friend came out to me as bi, I already knew he was for a long time but I never said anything cuz I wanted to wait till he felt confortable. We were drinking and playing Skullgirls on my house, and all of a suden almost completely out of the blue he told me he had something to tell me that he hadn't tell anyone, and then he told me he was bisexual. I gave him a hug and told him I had the feeling but I'm glad he trfelt the confidence to tell me. He froze and told me he was expecting me to freak out so that he could play it as a joke lmao It took him about 2 or 3 years (can't really remember) to come out to his parents and our other friends, but almost everyone was really supportive ❤
my friend is exactly like this, everyone knows, my brother on the other hand was the opposite, it's so not obvious at all even though I'm very close with him, so I'm shocked for weeks lol
My coming out was... not the best. Essentially, I wrote a letter to my friends just in case my parents decided to make me transfer schools (cause I was actually planning at the end of the school year to come out and was afraid cause super religious, and anti-LGBT), my parents found the said letter. They then started to ask me questions and essentially guilt trip me to an extent. Thus triggering me to have an anxiety attack. My mom actually apologized to me a few years later though (better late than never) and is supportive, and my dad doesn't even recall my anxiety attack and is still very vocal about being against it.
I’ve done something similar with my own mom. 😭 She made me marathon the movies in *The Mummy* series and I went “Holy crap she’s hot!” after Evie twirled some sais. In a panic I turned to look at my mom who was still watching the movie and her response was “honey I’ve known about you being a lesbian for YEARS”
Actually my older brother came out to me a couple days ago. I kinda knew about it before (more like I had my suspicions) but I had no idea on how to ask him. So we were randomly playing and he suddenly stopped and told me "I thought you may had figured out already but ..... I'm gay" just like that, he said it in the most casual way that I wasn't sure if he was joking or no. That caught me so off guard that I just went "Oh really? Well that's cool, I'm straight!" (I'm not straight help)
Parents know us better 😂. As a member also I knew my friend was also gay because I saw the signs in him. That time he didnt knew but I can tell. When he came out, I was not shocked but I was supportive.
Reminds me of my cousin. When I was a kid, I asked my mom if he's gay. She said I shouldn't make assumptions. Well I was right. And turns out, his own mom also noticed even before he was a teen.
I don't remember specifics but I might have said something like I was gay to my parents in the car but they told me I'm not or I wasn't allowed to. I guess I'm not gay
When I came out as bisexual to my mom and she replied with "Okay" and I just stood there confused and my face was like 😮. So she doesn't mind it at all since one of her friends is gay but still, it was so funny 😭
Parents do be know everything even though you wouldn't tell them I didn't even tell my parents that I'm a Bi but when I said I'm in a relationship they asked me if it's a boyfriend or a girlfriend 💀 I was like HUHHH?? And they just casually said to bring Her/him and told me I'm already big enough to decide for myself "Honestly not all family is this so I'm so greatful to have them"
I remember I purposely told my mom I was bi while she was sick so she was like half out of it so when she would reply she couldn’t really say anything homophobic I guess. Anyway I did and she was like yeah I knew since you were a kid and I was like oh 🧍. I’m very much like the stereotype for bi women where you are a bit tomboy-ish so she was like yeah from that I’ve thought. But she was supportive so we good 👍
I came out accidentally to my mom. I was telling her about the people i had been with for the first time and then she said "oh so you've been with both boys and girls" and i panicked for a second but there was no point in hiding it so i just said yes and kept telling the story kinda uncomfortably lol
For me, i told my mom that i'm bi (I'm pansexual actually, i also date trans/non binary, etc.) when I was like 15 or 16 years, and I was so nervous and she just said "oh, really?" I said "yeah, actually i like this friend (trans boy, she though he was a girl) that i told you before" and she was like "oh, cool" and then 3 seconds later I remembered that my mom is lesbian 😂 she couldn't care less AJHAHAHA
Big sigh. Please stop perpetuating the idea that bi people only are attracted to cis men and women. It's not true. We can be attracted to binary trans people and nonbinary people. The bi means and has always meant "attraction to the same gender and to other genders". Not "attraction to two genders." Not even "attraction to two or more genders."
@@neon4948 ik that following the name one could assume that it's only "two", but bisexuality is liking two or more genders. also saying that trans ppl aren't included on bisexuality is being transphobic, since you're separating them from men and women.
I was like: I think I like girls too mom. Mom: really? Me: yeah I like both but tbh I'm not entirely sure (at that point in life I never had a relationship so I wasn't really experienced to be sure) Mom: good for you, as long as you study and get a good job you can do whatever you want
Kinda relate but not me, it's my cousin. She said to my mom in kinda hushed tone (because I heard)"I think my daughter is a lesbian" my mom said "no don't say that!" LOL Well I think that her son is not straight/pos 🤣🤣
He is bi! This was just something he did as a kid. Also the word “gay” can be used as an umbrella term so anyone with an attraction to the same sex or gender can be included in that.
En un grupo en línea hablaban sobre bromear con esto a tus padres, y yo lo intenté con mi madre. También dije que era gay para ver su reacción, y su reacción fue la misma "ya lo sabía" 😂. Yo estaba cómo ¿Qué?. Ni siquiera lo soy LMAO
Has Mysta exclusively said he's gay? He's always come off as bi to me. Or he's bi with a preference to dudes? Anyway, mums really know their kids well, most of the time.
I don't recall this conversation, that's how much of a non-surprise it was for me, but I had a friend come out in high school after school one day, and they revealed to me sometime later that my response was, "oh, okay, yeah, I kinda figured," and then I immediately moved on to "what do you want to do tonight?" I don't know if this was a let down or a relief for him. I also don't have anything in particular that made it obvious, but more likely it was just a bunch of small cues. 😅
theres nothing like being what you really are, God made us men or woman, if you feel atraccted to the same sex, youre not in the right path but God love you the same and wait for you to return to the rigth path.
Give this message to God with love 😘: Hey G, there sure are a lot of people in the world suffering from external factors out of their control (poverty, hunger, famine, natural calamities, trauma from abuse, disregard for human rights), how about you focus your efforts on improving the situations of those people instead of damning people in an everlasting oven for perfectly healthy sexual expressions and sexuality or god forbid being born in a country predominantly composed of people that praise completely different gods through no fault of their own from generations of childhood indoctrination?
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My sister tried that. She: "BTW I'm gay." All of us: "Ok, good for you." She: "Nah, I was just trying to shock you." We: "Sis, you have a lesbian/ace aunt, a trans cousin, and a sex-positive grandma whose best friend was bi back in the 40's. You've got to try harder than this."
LMAO i love this
you have a wonderful family !
woah that is cool
How can you be both Leabian and Asexual?
Or was that 2 different aunts?
@@somedudewatchintv5297 that probably means that their aunt is attracted to women but not sexually
This is how it went for me:
"Mom, I'm... gay."
"No, you're not."
"What?"
"You're not."
*The End*
wow some parents can be...well...not so supportive..hang in there buddy!
@@nida.k6812 aw thank you!
Dang bro, my condolences to you... Hope you'll figure this situation out in what ever way, though. Stay strong! 💪
@FH_Mio thank you so much, hun ❤️
I won't put words into your mum's mouth but if it were up to me, I would've said that you are wonderful, whoever or whatever you chose to be. What matters is that you are loved and know how to love in return. 😢
Mama Rias: Tell me something I don't know
is he still bi or has he turned gay?
He sound so chill nowadays I love it, it sounds like he’s more comfortable
For real though, gay teenagers sometimes don't realise they are gay until very later years. Meanwhile other people who is close to them already pick up a sign that they are gay.
It's quite funny that i know some who realise they are gay, and revealed to their friends (including me), and their friends was like "yeah we already expect for a while from watching your body language/voice/appearance."
Yup, one of my teachers told us a story about her daughter's coming out (I don't know why we were talking about coming out stories in class (most of the people in that class are LGBTQ+)) and she said that she knew her daughter was gay since like primary school. So yeah if parents are knowledgeable enough about this they know quite early on that their child is LGBTQ+
How can you pick up the signs? any examples?
I'm not sure if I showed any signs etc but yeah growing older I realize I'm bi and or pan not entirely sure what one I am
@@caffeinatedx Maybe celebrity crushes? I've heard about those being a bit of an indicator
Yeah,im Gay but i didn’t realize that i wasn’t straight until like 2.5 years ago,and my cousin (who is also Gay,he and his husband are the only one’s that i came out to irl) told me a story about my mom (who has unfortunate been gone for many years now,long before i even know what Gay was,and who was probably Bisexual/Pansexual/Bicurious herself) where when i was very young he was at our house and they were talking about me,and she told him "yk,sometimes i feel like that boy is Gay" i just wonder how she knew lmao
I think the funniest thing about this is that by the end SHE was telling HIM what he was, the "what do you mean" was sooo loud
I'm crying that's so funny lmao
"Mum, I'm gay."
"Yeah I know."
"You know what?!"
"That you're gay."
"I am??"
Mysta Rias and Mama Rias probably 😂
Dude this is crazy, my dad knew I was lesbian a year before I told him by accident, I was like "and you didn't told me while I was wondering what I was...?", it was so weird. I swear parents know everything, it's scary.
Probably wanted you to figure it out for yourself.
@@groggyowl6871 I think so too, at the time I was very young and didn't know my dad that well but now that I got more interaction with him I see that he is just like that, it's kind of funny 😹
It's funny when they get offended that everyone already knew. Big dramatic moment ruined.
I don't know. Is it like a surprise party? Are you supposed to pretend to be surprised?
It would be funny though if all their friends just said 'oh you're gay? We can't be friends with you anymore.' Just as a prank.
@@KenjaTimu Offended? I wasn't offended but surprised bc my dad was the one who told me at 13 that teenagers should wait until they were 16 to even think about they preferences, that before that time they shouldn't know meanwhile at 13 I already knew. I told him when I was 15 by complete accident and I expected him to say something like "you are too young to know that" instead he was joking about it and obviously I was very happy, confused as why he didn't told me before but happy.
@@-.SpaceNoah.- I didn't mean you. I've just seen it.
"My son, I saw you wearing frilly cute maid outfit."
Funny as it is, this is very wholesome
People overuse that stupid word so much that it doesn't mean anything anymore. You might as well have said that water is wet.
Lmao when you did a revelation as a prank, but revelation actually happened, and it's to you.
❌ tell you parents you're gay
⭕ your parents tell you you're gay
I remember when my best friend came out to me as bi, I already knew he was for a long time but I never said anything cuz I wanted to wait till he felt confortable.
We were drinking and playing Skullgirls on my house, and all of a suden almost completely out of the blue he told me he had something to tell me that he hadn't tell anyone, and then he told me he was bisexual. I gave him a hug and told him I had the feeling but I'm glad he trfelt the confidence to tell me. He froze and told me he was expecting me to freak out so that he could play it as a joke lmao
It took him about 2 or 3 years (can't really remember) to come out to his parents and our other friends, but almost everyone was really supportive ❤
literally came out to my friend playing skullgirls too, what a coincidence!
I was so gay from such a young age that I never had a coming out lmao, literally
Inspirational ✨
Really inspirational. I aspire to be as gay as you one day.
my friend is exactly like this, everyone knows, my brother on the other hand was the opposite, it's so not obvious at all even though I'm very close with him, so I'm shocked for weeks lol
of course it's the Uki pfp that just realizes without hesitation lmao. Good for you though, that's bold!
I didn't knew what coming out of the closet was because my mom was super supportive of LGBT, though I noticed I was bi/ace(maybe) at 20yo
That's one giga chad mom ngl
Why is this so funny 😂😂😂 mysta is indeed special
He came out as a prank but his mom already knew and threw him off.
brooo, I had this whole leading up to coming out to my mom and she responded with "yeah, I kinda figured" 💀 they're all telepathic or some shit
Mysta Mama: "YOU AR GAE"
I don't know if Riasmama take this a joke or not, if not, it's just simply that she knew her son too well
What if mama know what msyta was doing and decided to mess with him 😂
My coming out was... not the best. Essentially, I wrote a letter to my friends just in case my parents decided to make me transfer schools (cause I was actually planning at the end of the school year to come out and was afraid cause super religious, and anti-LGBT), my parents found the said letter. They then started to ask me questions and essentially guilt trip me to an extent. Thus triggering me to have an anxiety attack.
My mom actually apologized to me a few years later though (better late than never) and is supportive, and my dad doesn't even recall my anxiety attack and is still very vocal about being against it.
Mamarias is really a best Mom 😎
I’ve done something similar with my own mom. 😭 She made me marathon the movies in *The Mummy* series and I went “Holy crap she’s hot!” after Evie twirled some sais. In a panic I turned to look at my mom who was still watching the movie and her response was “honey I’ve known about you being a lesbian for YEARS”
That movie made many people out themselves. Bi people were very conflicted too. 😂
If my mom knew she would kill me
Actually my older brother came out to me a couple days ago. I kinda knew about it before (more like I had my suspicions) but I had no idea on how to ask him.
So we were randomly playing and he suddenly stopped and told me "I thought you may had figured out already but ..... I'm gay" just like that, he said it in the most casual way that I wasn't sure if he was joking or no. That caught me so off guard that I just went "Oh really? Well that's cool, I'm straight!" (I'm not straight help)
Same vibe as “mum, am I adopted?” Yea.
“Oh..”
Mama Rias knew before he knew! They always say parents know you more than you know yourself!
This reminded me that I have yet to come out to my family 💀
Best of luck to you❤!
How it went for me with my religious grandpa (cuz my parents don’t care (in a positive way)) :
« I’m gay. »
« Oh. Not me. »
« … »
The End-
Grandpa😭
LMAO, It's impossible to hide things from mothers
Mysta: "Mom... I'm gay''
Mysta Mama: ''I know''
Young Mysta was conspiring with the skittle squad
How adorable bwhahhahaha I love this vtuber ♡
Parents know us better 😂. As a member also I knew my friend was also gay because I saw the signs in him. That time he didnt knew but I can tell. When he came out, I was not shocked but I was supportive.
Reminds me of my cousin. When I was a kid, I asked my mom if he's gay. She said I shouldn't make assumptions. Well I was right. And turns out, his own mom also noticed even before he was a teen.
the nokia 😆
I don't remember specifics but I might have said something like I was gay to my parents in the car but they told me I'm not or I wasn't allowed to. I guess I'm not gay
Its knd sad but the way u wrote it 😂
NO BC when i was younger my sister came out to my mom and her reaction was: "oh i though youre sister was the gay one" SKSKS
Love that you’re using that nokia phone😂
Bro, one time i was sitting with my dad on the balcony talking and he randomly just hit with a “i always thought you were gay”
(Im gay btw)
When I came out as bisexual to my mom and she replied with "Okay" and I just stood there confused and my face was like 😮. So she doesn't mind it at all since one of her friends is gay but still, it was so funny 😭
That awkward laugh was hiding real pain
i came out to my family and they were like "...cool" and then we watched topgun
me too mysta. me too. my parents clocked me very early on
Bruh all 3 of my sisters knew i was bi before i told them, I was like... how?
Pride Month everyone...
thats so cute
Lmaoo that laugh was genuine
Parents do be know everything even though you wouldn't tell them I didn't even tell my parents that I'm a Bi but when I said I'm in a relationship they asked me if it's a boyfriend or a girlfriend 💀 I was like HUHHH??
And they just casually said to bring Her/him and told me I'm already big enough to decide for myself
"Honestly not all family is this so I'm so greatful to have them"
In the past, coming out of the closet was a death sentence. now most (not all) of the families are like "A ok" My respects to the OG Gays ✊🏻
Ugh, good old days...
most?? in what fantasy world do you live...
@@colavanilla9014 Compared to back then? He's not wrong.
Mamarias: Oh...I know
Me: :0 aoop jumpscare-😮
Well i suppose she was half right 😂
The mum everyone wants frr
I remember I purposely told my mom I was bi while she was sick so she was like half out of it so when she would reply she couldn’t really say anything homophobic I guess. Anyway I did and she was like yeah I knew since you were a kid and I was like oh 🧍. I’m very much like the stereotype for bi women where you are a bit tomboy-ish so she was like yeah from that I’ve thought. But she was supportive so we good 👍
I came out accidentally to my mom. I was telling her about the people i had been with for the first time and then she said "oh so you've been with both boys and girls" and i panicked for a second but there was no point in hiding it so i just said yes and kept telling the story kinda uncomfortably lol
Maybe we should've asked Mama Rias the answer to this question instead. She was direct
i read the title wrong and i thought it said mysta came on his mom
That would be a whole different video my dude
@@vtuberdaily 😭 no way this interaction is real
Maybe the best thing to do is act like it’s a really obvious joke and see how she reacts. If she reacts well then tell her you weren’t joking
she really said "YOU ARE GAY"
She UNO reversed card him
I thought he actually was gay lol. Also that title sounds crazy without context 💀💀
Thanks for the laugh 💀💀💀💀
For me, i told my mom that i'm bi (I'm pansexual actually, i also date trans/non binary, etc.) when I was like 15 or 16 years, and I was so nervous and she just said "oh, really?" I said "yeah, actually i like this friend (trans boy, she though he was a girl) that i told you before" and she was like "oh, cool" and then 3 seconds later I remembered that my mom is lesbian 😂 she couldn't care less AJHAHAHA
Big sigh. Please stop perpetuating the idea that bi people only are attracted to cis men and women. It's not true. We can be attracted to binary trans people and nonbinary people. The bi means and has always meant "attraction to the same gender and to other genders". Not "attraction to two genders." Not even "attraction to two or more genders."
hi! i just wanted to say that bisexuality includes nonbinary and trans ppl..
@@chvreuseno, its not.
@@chvreusebi means 2 bro
@@neon4948 ik that following the name one could assume that it's only "two", but bisexuality is liking two or more genders.
also saying that trans ppl aren't included on bisexuality is being transphobic, since you're separating them from men and women.
I recall a post on reddit where a girl made her big reveal... to her lesbian mothers lol. And was shocked they weren't.
Oh nah guys bro has been gay and has been known 😱
I was like: I think I like girls too mom.
Mom: really?
Me: yeah I like both but tbh I'm not entirely sure (at that point in life I never had a relationship so I wasn't really experienced to be sure)
Mom: good for you, as long as you study and get a good job you can do whatever you want
OMG LMAO
Me : mom I'm aro-ace
Mom : no you just haven't found the right person yet
10 years later
Mom : why you haven't married yet.
Me : bruh
Gee mom I wonder why 😑
Kinda relate but not me, it's my cousin.
She said to my mom in kinda hushed tone (because I heard)"I think my daughter is a lesbian" my mom said "no don't say that!" LOL
Well I think that her son is not straight/pos 🤣🤣
LMAOOOO
😂😂😂
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I thought he said he was bi tho. I’m so fucking confused. Oh well. Pride!
He is bi! This was just something he did as a kid. Also the word “gay” can be used as an umbrella term so anyone with an attraction to the same sex or gender can be included in that.
@@suyanforu yeah I just realized. I’m pan but sometimes I use this term. Damn I feel silly…
@@STAAAAAAAAAAAARRRS it's all good, there also a bunch of queer terms that I myself don't know yet lmao
The Nokia😂
Mine was like:
"Mom, I'm lesbian"
*mom leaves the room and doesn't talk to me the next day*
This is so wholesome :')
Also, nevwr knew Mysta was gay 🤔
The last time I heard him speak on his sexuality, he said he might be or is bi. But that could’ve changed since then 😂
@@sin3197 last time I heard of him talking about it was a very long time ago when he complained about getting no bitches 😂
I prefer to think he's just a free spirit 🙏😔
he's said he's bisexual
He went Gawk Gawk 3000 on a Bilbo for an experiment, i don't think it could get any more obvious
My mum has always being like: You sure you are not gay? I wouldn't mind.
(I'm not gay btw)
En un grupo en línea hablaban sobre bromear con esto a tus padres, y yo lo intenté con mi madre. También dije que era gay para ver su reacción, y su reacción fue la misma "ya lo sabía" 😂. Yo estaba cómo ¿Qué?. Ni siquiera lo soy LMAO
Has Mysta exclusively said he's gay? He's always come off as bi to me. Or he's bi with a preference to dudes? Anyway, mums really know their kids well, most of the time.
He's stated that he's bi but it's a relatively recent thing, early on in niji career he said either bi-curious or straight depending on the instance
WAIT HE IS? I thought Mysta is bi
Yeah he's bi, but he was talking about when he was younger and tried to prank his mom and she pulled an uno reverse card on him lol
Get this guy to asylum
So is he actually straight then?
He’s bi
he gay fr?
wow
I don't recall this conversation, that's how much of a non-surprise it was for me, but I had a friend come out in high school after school one day, and they revealed to me sometime later that my response was, "oh, okay, yeah, I kinda figured," and then I immediately moved on to "what do you want to do tonight?"
I don't know if this was a let down or a relief for him. I also don't have anything in particular that made it obvious, but more likely it was just a bunch of small cues.
😅
Is he gay fr though?
I think he is bisex
@@vtuberdaily yes Mysta said he is bi
So is he gay?
No Mysta has said that he is bisexual
So is he gay or not?
he's bi
What about mika??
theres nothing like being what you really are, God made us men or woman, if you feel atraccted to the same sex, youre not in the right path but God love you the same and wait for you to return to the rigth path.
Give this message to God with love 😘:
Hey G, there sure are a lot of people in the world suffering from external factors out of their control (poverty, hunger, famine, natural calamities, trauma from abuse, disregard for human rights), how about you focus your efforts on improving the situations of those people instead of damning people in an everlasting oven for perfectly healthy sexual expressions and sexuality or god forbid being born in a country predominantly composed of people that praise completely different gods through no fault of their own from generations of childhood indoctrination?
So he is gay??? /gen
he's bi
"Mom , dad I need to tell you that I bi"
"What is that??"
_explains_
_they look at eachother_
"NO"