Great podcast! The part about not dating in a silo and having mentorship from a Godly couple who can relate well to what you're going through is key! Also having someone who would still choose you even after conflict..that's it!
I married, but things didn't work out. I have emotional problems that I never dealt with that caused our marriage to break down. But my ex also was not compatible with me. So I am returning to the single life, and accepting that this is the final situation I will live in. Biblically, socially, and emotionally remarriage is not something that I can partake in.
I don't have to know if she's the one. For me, there's no one because I want to be single. Not to serve, but because my life is a train wreck, and I refuse to bring someone into my mess.
Amen!It's who we choose to commit to daily.I hate the whole finding your specific kingdom spouse.
Did you use a therapist for pre-marriage counseling or is that something you did through your church? Great idea!
We used a pastoral couple!!!
I struggle with this when deciding who I want to date. Personally, I don't want to go on a date before I know someone.
What about the story of Ruth and Boaz?
Major respect to JJ. We certainly need more male perspectives speak out
Kait brings out the best me in me too :)
@@jjtomlin Yes, shout outs to Kait for starting such difficult conversations and creating the perfect grounds for both perspectives as well 🙌
Great podcast! The part about not dating in a silo and having mentorship from a Godly couple who can relate well to what you're going through is key! Also having someone who would still choose you even after conflict..that's it!
For sure!!! 💯
This was so good 👍 it really gave me clarity. Thank you!
Glad you enjoyed!!!
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I married, but things didn't work out. I have emotional problems that I never dealt with that caused our marriage to break down. But my ex also was not compatible with me. So I am returning to the single life, and accepting that this is the final situation I will live in. Biblically, socially, and emotionally remarriage is not something that I can partake in.
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I am so grateful for you both and your vulnerability to share your story. THANK YOU! SO SO VERY MUCH!
Oh my!! So amazing!! So encouraging! ✨✨
Aw great!!! Happy to hear you enjoyed!!
I don't have to know if she's the one. For me, there's no one because I want to be single. Not to serve, but because my life is a train wreck, and I refuse to bring someone into my mess.
You ok bro? Need some encouragement or support?
Thank you both so much. This is a God send. Love it ❤
So encouraging ! Thank you for sharing your story !
Awesome and thorough info guys!! TY!
I believe in premarital before engagement