Don't let the process of applying for the VA Aid and Attendance program intimidate you! It can be less stressful and you can get a decision in just a couple of months. This video will show you the process, step-by-step! Let me know if you decide to go for it! How Confident are You as a Family Caregiver? Take the Quiz www.sofiaamirpoor.com/Home
Sofia Amirpoor thank you very much can’t wait to finish the vid. 8 months is bad but i guess when going through VA stuff that 8 months is pretty good especially for applying on your own. Good job again and congrats.
Thank you for sharing this story of your struggles with the VA. My story about trying to get benefits from thevVA. It lasted from 2013 until 2022. I learned that hiring an attorney would make things move along much faster, and would result in the maximum VA benefit. Yes, the attorney received 30% of my back pay, but that's a whole lot better than getting nothing and being frustrated every day of my life.
This was one of the most helpful videos I've come across in all my research. Thank you for taking the time to post and organizing your video very efficiently.
God Bless You for posting this. We are starting the process and were told that it was best to let an attorney handle this. Unfortunately, our loved one does not have the luxury of spending any unnecessary funds...we are trying to squeeze, stretch, or save every nickel we can...sounds like this will help us save them ~30,000 nickels!
@Belinda Hoosech that's awesome! If only I had a nickel.....! The website has changed a bit since I made that video, but this will still help you a lot. Good luck with your application process!
I couldn't thank you enough!!! This is an amazing video and I appreciate you caring enough to share this with everyone. I have been gathering the forms and information piece by piece but this video summed it up for me!!! GREAT JOB!
Thank you so much for this video! It was very informative! You really helped me to gauge where to start, and how to get organized for the application process to help my dad! You are truly a blessing!
Thank you so much for this!!!! I’m the ONLY family member for my 80yr old father who’s been living with me and my family and I am completely lost on how to get him the living assistance he needs.
You're AMAZING!! And soo kind....thank you sooooo much for your help. I'm on top of this to file......Good luck with your journey as you care for your father also
I just watched your step by step. I called the va hotline they told me to only submit the 2680 the doctor filled out and they would contact me for additional info he is already getting disability compensation they said not to fill out the 527EZ he is 87 my mom has Dementia
Thank you so much for all you do Sophia. Does the aid and attendant benefits cover surviving spouses ? My dad was a war time vet who passed in 2020 and I’m taking care of my elderly mom, I hope this is something I can look into for her.
@Sarah B yes! As long as they were married when your dad passed away and if he would have met criteria for service, and if your mom Currently meets the criteria regarding her needs….then it sounds like that may just work Out for her ! Good luck with the process and let us know how it turns out!
Hi Sophia, thanks for your wonderful video! I have a question and a comment: 1) I haven’t filed income tax returns for years. My income wasn’t enough to qualify. Will this be a problem? 2) I was talking to a lady the other day and happened to mention I was in the military. Instead of saying “Thank you for your service”, she said “Thank you for my freedom” What a nice response!
Hi Richard. My dad also hadn’t filed for many many years and it was not a problem. And thank you for all that you sacrificed so that I could have the privilege to live in this beautiful country! I appreciate you so much! Have a lovely day!
Do you have a video or how to complete each section of say the 21-680 section by section if completing for someone else. We are trying to obtain Aid and Attendance for a veteran relative with worsening Dementia currently in an Assisted Living facility hoping to avoid her having to be sent to a nursing home where she doesn't belong, 8 months from now when all of her money is gone except her social security monthly check. I am also concerned about the "Claimant section" and who fills that part out? It asks for the phone number but am afraid to put her phone as she doesn't always answer and won't remember speaking with anyone. Same for mailing address vs. address where she resides (assisted living facility) because she doesn't always get her mail. My relative served during the time of the Bay of Pigs, but the VA Benefits representative encouraged me to apply as did her VA CSW. On the 966 form there is a section for Claimant and one for the Veteran. Which do I complete? Should I do both? Again they ask for mailing address, phone, etc. You mentioned the VA doesn't recognize POA, however section III Declaration of Intent asks for name of Attny, or Agent if a valid POA has been completed, which it has. I am POA for my relative. Sorry for so many questions and for making this great video! I feel like I am doing this alone......
Question: I listing out all the expenses, would li include the prepaid funeral costs? Also in regard to medical and care giver expenses out of pocket, HOW FAR BACK CAN I LIST? Expenses within the current year? Thank you in advance and so appreciative of your timley response.
@@SofiaAmirpoor Hello Sofia- I work in the health and aging industry and I'm trying to help some of our senior vets get this benefit. There are lots of "sharks" out there that are just after their money, so I figured, maybe I can learn this and offer it. I know I'm ethical- but I'm not sure how to navigate the VA (it's a BIG animal!) so this video was EXTREMELY helpful. I'm teaching myself so I can help senior vets with a limited income get some help. It's my way of giving back.
Ruthy, that's awesome! I like how you say the VA is a big animal.....you couldn't be more right about that! Your senior vets are so lucky to have you! Let me know if you have any questions, I can try to help.
Thank you for your video. My mother will be applying for benefits as a surviving spouse sometime this year when she falls below the current net worth of 155,356.00. She is currently living in an assisted living facility. She was in the Womens Army Corp for two years herself but did not serve a day during time of war. My father retired with 20 years of service and he was in the Korean Conflict and Vietnam war. My question is what bank records and proof of financial income is needed. Thank you very much.
Hi, thanks for making this video! So first off I have a couple of questions...The first line asks for the "Veteran Beneficiary Name" ?? Is that the actual veteran that I'm applying for? But Section 2 asks for "Claimants Name" ?? I'm assuming the claimant is the spouse? Thank you.
Hi Sophia...Wonderfully helpful vid. Thank You, & Congrats on dad's approval. My question is, does this benifit extend to the survived spouses of veterans? My grandma will be 94 next month. I'd like to get her set up.
Yes, as long as the veteran would have qualified himself, then his surviving spouse should qualify too, as long as she meets the criteria for homebound or needs assistance with ADLs. Good luck!
I am helping with the application process for my grandmother. If she decides to sell her house, which is in a trust, would that count towards her net worth and disqualify her for the benefits?
Thank you for this video. Very comprehensive. My family is applying for our mom, surviving spouse of a deceased veteran. Any advice or resources to share?
Hi Caroline, thanks for your comment! I think I put everything I know into that video! The VA website has changed a bit since I made that, but once you are able to navigate to the correct area on their site, the rest should be the same. My advice would be to have all the documents and forms you need ready and organized before you start the application…the process will go much smoother. And if you get hung up or have questions, call the VA helpline that I included in the description of that video. They actually answer right away and are very helpful…surprise, surprise!! Best of luck in your application process for your mom! I’d love to hear how it goes!
Hi Sofia, What a GREAT, helpful video! I'm helping my brother apply for VA Pension and A&A. Did you also include in your application the "Statement In Support of Claim" form #21-4138?
This form can be helpful, however it is not required. With this form you support the claim by including a "buddy letter" from a family member, friend, etc that details your issues. I am currently working on a claim for someone and I am having his daughter write a letter detailing why her father is in need of assisted living, such as accidents, incidents or need for assistance with ADL's. You do not use this form unless you are providing additional information such as the letters.
Thank you so very much for sharing your insights! I was so overwhelmed when I heard about the application process but now it does not seem so insurmountable. I do have two questions, if I am filing an application online do I still have to mail the various forms to their respective offices? Second question, my dad is currently in a skilled nursing home, his Medicare benefits have been exhausted and we are looking at an additional 4-6 weeks of care due to stage 4 wounds. Once he's fit for assisted living, he will be moving to a different facility. That said, what facility do I list for application purposes, the skilled nursing home or the assisted living community, or both? Thank you so much for your help!
Hi Lisa, I'm glad that this video made the task seem a bit less daunting! Do be aware that this video is about 2 years old and the VA website has changed a bit since then, but the process should be pretty similar. If you are applying entirely online, don't start the process until you have all your documents in order. Then you can scan all your documents and save them onto your computer, then upload them all at once onto the VA application site. Super easy! Regarding which facility to use on the application, I'd say use the nursing home for now and you can always change it later. My dad had to move during the application process and I just gave them an update. 4-6 weeks may not be enough time to heal a stage 4 wound, so his stay there might be longer than you expect. If you have other questions you can always call the VA helpline at 800-827-1000. They are very helpful answering questions about the application process. Good luck, and I'd love to hear how it goes!
Hi Sofia, I echo all the comments about how wonderful this video is - thank you! A question for you, was your dad already in the VA healthcare system? My dad gets his healthcare through a private insurance right now and I was rather hoping I could 'simply' apply for aid and attendance and not have to apply for VA healthcare...Thoughts?
@ladickinson1 Good question! No, my dad never used the VA health system, it is not required. Like your dad, mine just went to his private doctor. This video is a few years old, so their website has changed a bit, but I think you’ll be able to figure it out, the forms are the same, that’s the most important part! Good luck!!
How were you able to find a copy of your parent’s marriage certificate? Both of my parents have Alzheimer’s and they don’t know of the info that we need to even search for it….i even went to a couple of some paid search sites and none were even able find the info….
@bawiin2 if I recall, they didn’t actually need a copy of the certificate. They only needed the names, maybe birthdates, date and location of marriage and/or divorce. Maybe other family members can help with this info. Hopefully, this makes it easier. Good luck!
You are so thoughtful and kind to share this information Sofia. I went through a similar process as yours to get my Mom approved (very recently) to receive benefits as a widow of a veteran. Do you happen to know if we have to re-qualify each year for the benefit and also, if I am my Mom's primary caregiver, am I supposed to keep records of the activities, etc., that I perform on her behalf? In other words, once approved, will the VA ever ask for proof (receipts, etc.) that the benefit is being used specifically for her needs? I am confused as to how tedious I need to be keeping up with receipts, records, etc. Do you do this with your Father? Thanks for any advice!
Hi Lisa Nutt, I have not kept track of one expense or time and the VA has never asked. This money is to be used for any need that your mom might have, period. She can use it for anything. Whoo hoo!!!
I think I am going to have a similar problem as you with the marriages and divorces as I try to gather the documents to apply for my dad. Am I reading question 22 correct that I have to list if his spouses were married before as well? I know the names of his 2 wives and 2 divorces. But am I reading it correct that I have to list if his ex wives had other marriages?
@Samantha Daniel I honestly don’t know the answer. But if you call the VA Helpline, they will answer that for you. Here’s the # 800-827-1000. Good luck to you!
My father is currently in a skilled nursing facility which medicare and tricare for life are paying for but only has about two weeks left. It looks as though he'll need to be going into a group home after this. He's the veteran and lived in AZ, I'm trying to help my mom with this from across the country :( Should I fill out this VA-21-0966 form now or do I need to wait until he's been transferred into a group home before filling out the intent to file form?
@Megan Crowell. Fill it out now. You have 6 months to complete your application, and the earlier you submit it, the farther back the retro payments will go. Once he is discharged from the nursing home and is in the home, their administrator will need to fill out the form for assisted living/group home to verify his needs….along with the form that his doctor fills out….(I’m sorry, I don’t remember the names of the forms right now, but they are mentioned in the video). But even though he is still in the nursing home, there is plenty of work that you can start doing to start gathering documents. I’m sure it will go smoothly. Good luck to you and I’d love to hear how it goes! Please tell your dad that his service and sacrifice is so appreciated and never forgotten 😊
Thank you for this. I am nearly done applying for my 88 year old dad. Does he have to sign it, or can I do this for him and sign it for him? You don't mention any attachments. Should I send his insurance papers? Thanks!
Hi Sally, if your dad can sign, he should, even if it's only an "X". If an "X", there should be a place for you to sign as witness. As far as insurance papers go, I would send in a copy of proof of any premiums that he might be paying since that would be counted towards his medical expenses. Otherwise, no, I don't think so. You can call the VA Helpline at 800-827-1000 to make sure since I'm not an official expert, and it looks like their forms have changed since I went through this process for my dad, so I don't want to give you wrong info. Good luck with your dads application process.....I hope it goes well!
Thank you for the video. I am getting the forms together for my mom, a surviving spouse of a veteran (my dad). Do I have to input my dads info on all the forms under Veterans name etc or can I leave it blank. He passed away 38 yrs ago. Thanks again.
Hello Sofia! Your videos are very informative! My mom already receives DIC compensation after my dad passed last year. To file a claim to receive SMH (Aid & Attendance) do I have to still send all the documents I've already provided them when I filed for DIC compensation? Are just the form to file for Aid & Attendence?
Hi Brittnie, I honestly don’t know the answer to that question. Here is the VA helpline phone number, I’m sure they will be able to answer your question. 800-827-1000. Good luck!
Mom was approved from Dads service but died before she got a dime. Any recourse for the siblings. She spent 7 mos in Assisted living. died Dec 2019. Intent to file acknowledged may 2019
Hi Greg, sorry about your mom. I would have thought that she could be paid for May-December, since it should be a retro benefit, but I'm not 100% positive. And since it's been 10 months since she passed away, I'm not sure what they would say. If you haven't already, start with calling the VA helpline, maybe they can help answer this. 800-827-1000 Good luck!
@@SofiaAmirpoor well the va said that since we paid the assisted living with my mothers home equity instead of our own accounts that we were not eligible for reimbursement from the va. Only if we were a dependent at the time
Thank you for this video! I do have a question about assets. If they're over the asset limit is there a way to spend down? Will they still qualify? I'm getting ready to apply for my dad, but I don't think he will qualify. Thank you so much.
Hi Richard! From what I understand, the VA no longer looks at assets, now they use “net worth”. A home (on less than 2 acres), a car and personal items, furniture and belongings are not counted. I believe the cut off for net worth is around $125,000. If your dad lives in assisted living, nursing home, attends adult day care or uses a home care agency at home, then the cost can be deducted from net worth. And there are lots of medical expenses that can be deducted too. There is a 3 year look back period. I’m sure that you are allowed to spend down, but I’m not familiar with the list of things you are allowed to spend on. I recommend that you call the Help Line that you can find in the description of this video, they can answer that for you. If he is close, but not sure, I’d apply, just so you don’t always wonder. And you might get a happy surprise!! Good luck, I’d love to know how it goes!
@@SofiaAmirpoor No. Cost for assisted living etc... is deducted from income. Net worth is different. Over the "cut off " is an automatic denial. You have to reapply and prove that your net worth is under the cut off.
What if the the surviving spouse need services could we fill out the information the same. My grandfather passed but my grandmother needs the services.
The form Examination for House Bound Status or Permanent Need for Regular Aid and Attendance -form 21-2680 has a place for both the veteran's info, as well as a spouse who is applying. But because I don't want to provide incorrect info, I recommend that you call the VA Helpline at 800-827-1000 and ask if you also need to complete the Application for Veterans Pension - form 21P-527EZ. Good luck!
Hi Sofia, thank you for the great information. If I started the online application do I still need to send the Intent to file claim form 21-0966? It seems like the online application is time stamped.
Hi Ric. I think you are right, it is more useful for paper submissions. But it certainly couldn’t hurt to submit online. I’m one to always cover my rear!
Thanks Janet ! I think their website has changed a bit since I made this video last year. Thinking about making an updated video, but this one should give you a really good idea of the process. Good luck with your application!
I keep hearing that my Dad can not participate in this program because he is not 100% (disability rating percentage) disabled. Is that true that a veteran can't even participate in this program or be " qualified " if he or she is not rated 100% disabled by the VA ????
Hi Jeanine. I think that your dad might qualify if he currently needs assistance, however, I am definitely not an expert at all the criteria. I recommend that you call the VA helpline, they will answer that for you. 800-827-1000. Good luck!
I am trying to apply for aid and assistance for my mother inlaw ,her husband is deceased and was a ww2 vet, do I need a dd-214 or is everything I need on his discharge papers?
Hello, I need help. I’m 100 percent unemployable. I’m retired from the Air Force. I’ve been put into an assisted living facility. I served from Jan 73 to Jan 93. I would like to talk to some one to explain my situation. I don’t do computers. I’m 76 years old. I love this facility I’m in but $5000 a month is killing me. I’d like to get air and assistance. Please help me.
Thank you for correcting me! No disrespect intended. I am not a veteran. I'm just a lay person trying to help other lay people with a very foreign and complicated process. Thank you for your service!
@Laurie Hi! No thank you😊! I don’t think anyone is allowed to charge to help with this process. The hardest part is gathering all the documents and getting your parent to the doctor so they can complete the certification paperwork….only family can do these things. If you need help with the forms, you can call the helpline, or go to your local VA service center. Good luck!
@@charleshowell6097 The DAV DOES NOT WORK for the VA. You are completely WRONG. The DAV is a veteran service organization and NOT in any way a part of the VA. Call them. You have totally WRONG information.
I am 65 I am on social security disability I was award social security disability in 1989 I had my award letter from social security administration but my ex-wife threw all my paperwork out in the garbage when we separated in 1993 I send away for my military records I live in the Philippines I send the social security administration here in the Philippines at the U.S. Embassy they sent me a email and told me they can't retrieve my social security disability award letter I try to go no social security website my social security account it wouldn't let me because it said you need a U.S address if I get social security administration to send me a letter berify that I was awarded s social security disability and the reason and the date would VA accept that
Hi Robert, I'm not sure about that, but if you call the VA Helpline, they could probably answer that for you. Here is the # 800-827-1000 Good luck to you!
@@SofiaAmirpoor I went on social security website and try to do my socia security account but it wouldn't let me because it said you have to have a U.S address thank you I keep trying to found out
Hey Robert, I found this page for VA benefits where you can submit your question online. I don't know how fast the response will be since many government offices are closed for awhile, but at least it's something! iris.custhelp.va.gov/app/ask/
Good luck, even with a tbi and not being able to use my right hand they are giving the run around.. I literally need a baby sitter.. But I can go live in a nursing home, home nice of them..Im only 40 i dont want to go live at some nursing home or have to pay someone out of my own pocket.. Then again I forgot bread is only 10cents so why am i complaining.. Forgot being 100% means your rich balling out of control. Time to go pick up my lambo..pssh.. wish I never would have joined and gone to school like everyone else
Don't let the process of applying for the VA Aid and Attendance program intimidate you! It can be less stressful and you can get a decision in just a couple of months. This video will show you the process, step-by-step! Let me know if you decide to go for it!
How Confident are You as a Family Caregiver? Take the Quiz
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Sofia Amirpoor thank you very much can’t wait to finish the vid. 8 months is bad but i guess when going through VA stuff that 8 months is pretty good especially for applying on your own. Good job again and congrats.
Sofia Amirpoor in home attendant who signs form? If it’s a family member as an example.
@@magalover2024 the in home attendant would sign the form.
Thank you for sharing this story of your struggles with the VA. My story about trying to get benefits from thevVA. It lasted from 2013 until 2022. I learned that hiring an attorney would make things move along much faster, and would result in the maximum VA benefit. Yes, the attorney received 30% of my back pay, but that's a whole lot better than getting nothing and being frustrated every day of my life.
This was one of the most helpful videos I've come across in all my research. Thank you for taking the time to post and organizing your video very efficiently.
I'm glad you found it so helpful! Are you getting ready to apply?
You can look up your local county Va office. And they will assist you with 100% of everything
Great video! You explained the V.A. Aid and Attendance Benefit like a professional!
Thanks Kevin! I think the website has changed a bit since I made this, I should make a revised one!
God Bless You for posting this. We are starting the process and were told that it was best to let an attorney handle this. Unfortunately, our loved one does not have the luxury of spending any unnecessary funds...we are trying to squeeze, stretch, or save every nickel we can...sounds like this will help us save them ~30,000 nickels!
@Belinda Hoosech that's awesome! If only I had a nickel.....! The website has changed a bit since I made that video, but this will still help you a lot. Good luck with your application process!
I couldn't thank you enough!!! This is an amazing video and I appreciate you caring enough to share this with everyone. I have been gathering the forms and information piece by piece but this video summed it up for me!!! GREAT JOB!
You are so welcome!
Very thankful for all this info. I will begin the process now. Most helpful is the initial intent to file form that I didn't know about. Thanks.
Glad to be helpful! Good luck !
Thank you so much for this video! It was very informative! You really helped me to gauge where to start, and how to get organized for the application process to help my dad! You are truly a blessing!
Glad to help! Good luck!
WOOOOW this is so much and so complicated thank you sooo much for taking the time to help others with this!!!
You’re welcome!! The VA website has changed a bit since I made this, but the process should be the same. Good luck!
Thank you so much for this!!!! I’m the ONLY family member for my 80yr old father who’s been living with me and my family and I am completely lost on how to get him the living assistance he needs.
Same
THANK YOU FOR THE INFORMATION! Going to give it my best shot!
Sofia, I'm so glad to have found you. Your videos are great. Do you have separate videos for applying for Survivors Benefits?
Thanks
My pops is 80
He never applied for VA
He served in 68
Sofia, great information you shared. As for statements from banks, credit cards etc - do you black out the account numbers?
I did black out the account #s
Sophia, SO DO I include a copy of the most recent filed TAX return? Thank you in advance !
I honestly don’t recall. My dad didn’t file for years , so it wasn’t an issue. But for others, I’m not sure. Sorry.
You're AMAZING!! And soo kind....thank you sooooo much for your help. I'm on top of this to file......Good luck with your journey as you care for your father also
You are so welcome!
I just watched your step by step. I called the va hotline they told me to only submit the 2680 the doctor filled out and they would contact me for additional info he is already getting disability compensation they said not to fill out the 527EZ he is 87 my mom has Dementia
Awesome! I'm so glad you got your answer!
thank you so much! So helpful and gave me the confidence I need to fill out this form.
You're so welcome! You've got this!
Thank you so much for all you do Sophia.
Does the aid and attendant benefits cover surviving spouses ? My dad was a war time vet who passed in 2020 and I’m taking care of my elderly mom, I hope this is something I can look into for her.
@Sarah B yes! As long as they were married when your dad passed away and if he would have met criteria for service, and if your mom
Currently meets the criteria regarding her needs….then it sounds like that may just work
Out for her ! Good luck with the process and let us know how it turns out!
@@SofiaAmirpoor thank you again for your hard work and experience. Your videos are so important and encouraging.
Hi Sophia, thanks for your wonderful video! I have a question and a comment:
1) I haven’t filed income tax returns for years. My income wasn’t enough to qualify. Will this be a problem?
2) I was talking to a lady the other day and happened to mention I was in the military. Instead of saying “Thank you for your service”, she said “Thank you for my freedom” What a nice response!
Hi Richard. My dad also hadn’t filed for many many years and it was not a problem. And thank you for all that you sacrificed so that I could have the privilege to live in this beautiful country! I appreciate you so much! Have a lovely day!
Do you have a video or how to complete each section of say the 21-680 section by section if completing for someone else. We are trying to obtain Aid and Attendance for a veteran relative with worsening Dementia currently in an Assisted Living facility hoping to avoid her having to be sent to a nursing home where she doesn't belong, 8 months from now when all of her money is gone except her social security monthly check. I am also concerned about the "Claimant section" and who fills that part out? It asks for the phone number but am afraid to put her phone as she doesn't always answer and won't remember speaking with anyone. Same for mailing address vs. address where she resides (assisted living facility) because she doesn't always get her mail. My relative served during the time of the Bay of Pigs, but the VA Benefits representative encouraged me to apply as did her VA CSW. On the 966 form there is a section for Claimant and one for the Veteran. Which do I complete? Should I do both? Again they ask for mailing address, phone, etc. You mentioned the VA doesn't recognize POA, however section III Declaration of Intent asks for name of Attny, or Agent if a valid POA has been completed, which it has. I am POA for my relative. Sorry for so many questions and for making this great video! I feel like I am doing this alone......
Inspiring to Veterans to be informed. Thank you.
Thank you . I appreciate you watching!!
thank you thank you thank you! Great video. Very reassuring and insightful.
4/2/24 where do I send a hard copy of 21-2680? Thank you for all the info you are providing.
Question: I listing out all the expenses, would li include the prepaid funeral costs? Also in regard to medical and care giver expenses out of pocket, HOW FAR BACK CAN I LIST? Expenses within the current year? Thank you in advance and so appreciative of your timley response.
THANK YOU!!!!!! Very informative and helpful!
Thanks Ruthy!! I'm glad you found it helpful! Are you getting ready to apply ?
@@SofiaAmirpoor Hello Sofia- I work in the health and aging industry and I'm trying to help some of our senior vets get this benefit. There are lots of "sharks" out there that are just after their money, so I figured, maybe I can learn this and offer it. I know I'm ethical- but I'm not sure how to navigate the VA (it's a BIG animal!) so this video was EXTREMELY helpful. I'm teaching myself so I can help senior vets with a limited income get some help. It's my way of giving back.
Ruthy, that's awesome! I like how you say the VA is a big animal.....you couldn't be more right about that! Your senior vets are so lucky to have you! Let me know if you have any questions, I can try to help.
Thank you for your video. My mother will be applying for benefits as a surviving spouse sometime this year when she falls below the current net worth of 155,356.00. She is currently living in an assisted living facility. She was in the Womens Army Corp for two years herself but did not serve a day during time of war. My father retired with 20 years of service and he was in the Korean Conflict and Vietnam war. My question is what bank records and proof of financial income is needed. Thank you very much.
I greatly appreciate your time, this was very beneficial
I’m so glad to help!
Hi, thanks for making this video! So first off I have a couple of questions...The first line asks for the "Veteran Beneficiary Name" ?? Is that the actual veteran that I'm applying for? But Section 2 asks for "Claimants Name" ?? I'm assuming the claimant is the spouse? Thank you.
thank you for a very helpful informative information!
Hi Sophia...Wonderfully helpful vid. Thank You, & Congrats on dad's approval. My question is, does this benifit extend to the survived spouses of veterans? My grandma will be 94 next month. I'd like to get her set up.
Yes, as long as the veteran would have qualified himself, then his surviving spouse should qualify too, as long as she meets the criteria for homebound or needs assistance with ADLs. Good luck!
I am helping with the application process for my grandmother. If she decides to sell her house, which is in a trust, would that count towards her net worth and disqualify her for the benefits?
Can a veteran with service connected terminal cancer and does not need to be left at home get Aid & Attendance and also Caregiver support?
Does anyone have images of a filled out form especially examples of the ADLs? There’s so much mixed info out there.
Does the spouse if a deceased non disabled veteran need to be at poverty level to qualify? This is what we were told.
My 90 year old mother is the surviving spouse of a Veteran. Would this info apply to her?
Hi there! Yes!!!
Thank you. I can start filing. Now. Thats great info.
Is the VA Aid better than IHSS? Father-in-law is a veteran and is 91.
Very well said. Thank you.
Very welcome!
Thank you for this video. Very comprehensive. My family is applying for our mom, surviving spouse of a deceased veteran. Any advice or resources to share?
Hi Caroline, thanks for your comment! I think I put everything I know into that video! The VA website has changed a bit since I made that, but once you are able to navigate to the correct area on their site, the rest should be the same. My advice would be to have all the documents and forms you need ready and organized before you start the application…the process will go much smoother. And if you get hung up or have questions, call the VA helpline that I included in the description of that video. They actually answer right away and are very helpful…surprise, surprise!! Best of luck in your application process for your mom! I’d love to hear how it goes!
Hi Sofia, What a GREAT, helpful video! I'm helping my brother apply for VA Pension and A&A. Did you also include in your application the "Statement In Support of Claim" form #21-4138?
This form can be helpful, however it is not required. With this form you support the claim by including a "buddy letter" from a family member, friend, etc that details your issues. I am currently working on a claim for someone and I am having his daughter write a letter detailing why her father is in need of assisted living, such as accidents, incidents or need for assistance with ADL's. You do not use this form unless you are providing additional information such as the letters.
im a vetran i'm trying to apply for aid and attendance i dont who's the benaficiary who's the benaficiary
Thank you for all the information
Great video! Thanks for sharing!
Thank you so very much for sharing your insights! I was so overwhelmed when I heard about the application process but now it does not seem so insurmountable. I do have two questions, if I am filing an application online do I still have to mail the various forms to their respective offices? Second question, my dad is currently in a skilled nursing home, his Medicare benefits have been exhausted and we are looking at an additional 4-6 weeks of care due to stage 4 wounds. Once he's fit for assisted living, he will be moving to a different facility. That said, what facility do I list for application purposes, the skilled nursing home or the assisted living community, or both? Thank you so much for your help!
Hi Lisa, I'm glad that this video made the task seem a bit less daunting! Do be aware that this video is about 2 years old and the VA website has changed a bit since then, but the process should be pretty similar. If you are applying entirely online, don't start the process until you have all your documents in order. Then you can scan all your documents and save them onto your computer, then upload them all at once onto the VA application site. Super easy! Regarding which facility to use on the application, I'd say use the nursing home for now and you can always change it later. My dad had to move during the application process and I just gave them an update. 4-6 weeks may not be enough time to heal a stage 4 wound, so his stay there might be longer than you expect. If you have other questions you can always call the VA helpline at 800-827-1000. They are very helpful answering questions about the application process. Good luck, and I'd love to hear how it goes!
Where is the description box you’re talking about?
Under the video.
Hi Sofia, I echo all the comments about how wonderful this video is - thank you! A question for you, was your dad already in the VA healthcare system? My dad gets his healthcare through a private insurance right now and I was rather hoping I could 'simply' apply for aid and attendance and not have to apply for VA healthcare...Thoughts?
@ladickinson1 Good question! No, my dad never used the VA health system, it is not required. Like your dad, mine just went to his private doctor. This video is a few years old, so their website has changed a bit, but I think you’ll be able to figure it out, the forms are the same, that’s the most important part! Good luck!!
Thank you l will complete it ASAP!
Good luck with your process. Keep us posted on how it’s going!
How were you able to find a copy of your parent’s marriage certificate? Both of my parents have Alzheimer’s and they don’t know of the info that we need to even search for it….i even went to a couple of some paid search sites and none were even able find the info….
@bawiin2 if I recall, they didn’t actually need a copy of the certificate. They only needed the names, maybe birthdates, date and location of marriage and/or divorce. Maybe other family members can help with this info. Hopefully, this makes it easier. Good luck!
Thank you so much you helped me out a bunch!
You are so thoughtful and kind to share this information Sofia. I went through a similar process as yours to get my Mom approved (very recently) to receive benefits as a widow of a veteran. Do you happen to know if we have to re-qualify each year for the benefit and also, if I am my Mom's primary caregiver, am I supposed to keep records of the activities, etc., that I perform on her behalf? In other words, once approved, will the VA ever ask for proof (receipts, etc.) that the benefit is being used specifically for her needs? I am confused as to how tedious I need to be keeping up with receipts, records, etc. Do you do this with your Father? Thanks for any advice!
Hi Lisa Nutt, I have not kept track of one expense or time and the VA has never asked. This money is to be used for any need that your mom might have, period. She can use it for anything. Whoo hoo!!!
I think I am going to have a similar problem as you with the marriages and divorces as I try to gather the documents to apply for my dad. Am I reading question 22 correct that I have to list if his spouses were married before as well? I know the names of his 2 wives and 2 divorces. But am I reading it correct that I have to list if his ex wives had other marriages?
@Samantha Daniel I honestly don’t know the answer. But if you call the VA Helpline, they will answer that for you. Here’s the # 800-827-1000. Good luck to you!
Thank you for the information!
You’re welcome!
My father is currently in a skilled nursing facility which medicare and tricare for life are paying for but only has about two weeks left. It looks as though he'll need to be going into a group home after this. He's the veteran and lived in AZ, I'm trying to help my mom with this from across the country :( Should I fill out this VA-21-0966 form now or do I need to wait until he's been transferred into a group home before filling out the intent to file form?
@Megan Crowell. Fill it out now. You have 6 months to complete your application, and the earlier you submit it, the farther back the retro payments will go. Once he is discharged from the nursing home and is in the home, their administrator will need to fill out the form for assisted living/group home to verify his needs….along with the form that his doctor fills out….(I’m sorry, I don’t remember the names of the forms right now, but they are mentioned in the video). But even though he is still in the nursing home, there is plenty of work that you can start doing to start gathering documents. I’m sure it will go smoothly. Good luck to you and I’d love to hear how it goes! Please tell your dad that his service and sacrifice is so appreciated and never forgotten 😊
Thank you for this. I am nearly done applying for my 88 year old dad. Does he have to sign it, or can I do this for him and sign it for him? You don't mention any attachments. Should I send his insurance papers? Thanks!
Hi Sally, if your dad can sign, he should, even if it's only an "X". If an "X", there should be a place for you to sign as witness. As far as insurance papers go, I would send in a copy of proof of any premiums that he might be paying since that would be counted towards his medical expenses. Otherwise, no, I don't think so. You can call the VA Helpline at 800-827-1000 to make sure since I'm not an official expert, and it looks like their forms have changed since I went through this process for my dad, so I don't want to give you wrong info. Good luck with your dads application process.....I hope it goes well!
Thank you for the video. I am getting the forms together for my mom, a surviving spouse of a veteran (my dad). Do I have to input my dads info on all the forms under Veterans name etc or can I leave it blank. He passed away 38 yrs ago. Thanks again.
Yes, put your dads name on all forms. Good luck!
Thank you.@@SofiaAmirpoor
Thank You ! Very Very & Very Helpful ! Thank You !
Hello Sofia! Your videos are very informative! My mom already receives DIC compensation after my dad passed last year. To file a claim to receive SMH (Aid & Attendance) do I have to still send all the documents I've already provided them when I filed for DIC compensation? Are just the form to file for Aid & Attendence?
Hi Brittnie, I honestly don’t know the answer to that question. Here is the VA helpline phone number, I’m sure they will be able to answer your question. 800-827-1000. Good luck!
Thank you so much!
@liv tellez I'm not sure about that, here is the VA Helpline:
800-827-1000, they should be able to answer your questions. Good luck to you!
if you have ,100% permanent can you apply for pension and a and a ?
@@Delivery111 Apply for whatever you want. You will only get the greater of the two benefits, not both.
If I am applying for a surviving spouse, do I still fill out in the same place online?
@Melissa Polom yes I believe you do!
Mom was approved from Dads service but died before she got a dime. Any recourse for the siblings.
She spent 7 mos in Assisted living. died Dec 2019. Intent to file acknowledged may 2019
Hi Greg, sorry about your mom. I would have thought that she could be paid for May-December, since it should be a retro benefit, but I'm not 100% positive. And since it's been 10 months since she passed away, I'm not sure what they would say. If you haven't already, start with calling the VA helpline, maybe they can help answer this. 800-827-1000 Good luck!
@@SofiaAmirpoor well the va said that since we paid the assisted living with my mothers home equity instead of our own accounts that we were not eligible for reimbursement from the va. Only if we were a dependent at the time
Thank you for this video! I do have a question about assets. If they're over the asset limit is there a way to spend down? Will they still qualify? I'm getting ready to apply for my dad, but I don't think he will qualify. Thank you so much.
Hi Richard! From what I understand, the VA no longer looks at assets, now they use “net worth”. A home (on less than 2 acres), a car and personal items, furniture and belongings are not counted. I believe the cut off for net worth is around $125,000. If your dad lives in assisted living, nursing home, attends adult day care or uses a home care agency at home, then the cost can be deducted from net worth. And there are lots of medical expenses that can be deducted too. There is a 3 year look back period. I’m sure that you are allowed to spend down, but I’m not familiar with the list of things you are allowed to spend on. I recommend that you call the Help Line that you can find in the description of this video, they can answer that for you. If he is close, but not sure, I’d apply, just so you don’t always wonder. And you might get a happy surprise!! Good luck, I’d love to know how it goes!
@@SofiaAmirpoor No. Cost for assisted living etc... is deducted from income. Net worth is different. Over the "cut off " is an automatic denial. You have to reapply and prove that your net worth is under the cut off.
What if the the surviving spouse need services could we fill out the information the same. My grandfather passed but my grandmother needs the services.
The form Examination for House Bound Status or Permanent Need for Regular Aid and Attendance -form 21-2680 has a place for both the veteran's info, as well as a spouse who is applying. But because I don't want to provide incorrect info, I recommend that you call the VA Helpline at 800-827-1000 and ask if you also need to complete the Application for Veterans Pension - form 21P-527EZ. Good luck!
@@SofiaAmirpoor thank you
Hi Sofia, thank you for the great information. If I started the online application do I still need to send the Intent to file claim form 21-0966? It seems like the online application is time stamped.
Hi Ric. I think you are right, it is more useful for paper submissions. But it certainly couldn’t hurt to submit online. I’m one to always cover my rear!
Great help, thanks!
Can you be any sweeter?
Many thanks! You have helped me so much!
Thanks Janet ! I think their website has changed a bit since I made this video last year. Thinking about making an updated video, but this one should give you a really good idea of the process. Good luck with your application!
I keep hearing that my Dad can not participate in this program because he is not 100% (disability rating percentage) disabled. Is that true that a veteran can't even participate in this program or be " qualified " if he or she is not rated 100% disabled by the VA ????
Hi Jeanine. I think that your dad might qualify if he currently needs assistance, however, I am definitely not an expert at all the criteria. I recommend that you call the VA helpline, they will answer that for you. 800-827-1000. Good luck!
What if I only want to apply for housebound and not aid and attendance
Your doctor fills out the 21-2680 you don’t make that determination.
Perfect 👍
Thank you! Cheers! 😃
I am trying to apply for aid and assistance for my mother inlaw ,her husband is deceased and was a ww2 vet, do I need a dd-214 or is everything I need on his discharge papers?
As far as I understand, the DD214 is another term for the discharge papers. If you already have the discharge document than you should be good!
@@SofiaAmirpoor Thank you very much Sofia
I'm starting this process for my 93 yo mother. In this case it is a spouse of her veteran husband. Is the process the same?
Yes ma’am.
Tanks...
Hello, I need help. I’m 100 percent unemployable. I’m retired from the Air Force. I’ve been put into an assisted living facility. I served from Jan 73 to Jan 93. I would like to talk to some one to explain my situation. I don’t do computers. I’m 76 years old. I love this facility I’m in but $5000 a month is killing me. I’d like to get air and assistance. Please help me.
Is there a grandchild or someone who can help you with the computers?
DD- 2, 14. That was hard being a Veteran hearing her say “ DD -2,1, 4 “. 😖😖😖
Thank you for correcting me! No disrespect intended. I am not a veteran. I'm just a lay person trying to help other lay people with a very foreign and complicated process. Thank you for your service!
Sofia Amirpoor haha, no problem, that’s just a term ( DD Form ) EVERY Veteran knows very well!
Thank you!!
Can I hire you to do this process for my parents?
@Laurie Hi! No thank you😊! I don’t think anyone is allowed to charge to help with this process. The hardest part is gathering all the documents and getting your parent to the doctor so they can complete the certification paperwork….only family can do these things. If you need help with the forms, you can call the helpline, or go to your local VA service center. Good luck!
Thank you
Can a vets wife qualify?
Yes!
Use the DAV to file for A &A they are experts.
U better don't.
@@wecountingmoneyoverhere2517 You are totally WRONG
They VSO’s work for the VA, not you. Who do you think they will be loyal towards, you or to the people that pay them.
@@charleshowell6097 The DAV DOES NOT WORK for the VA. You are completely WRONG. The DAV is a veteran service organization and NOT in any way a part of the VA. Call them. You have totally WRONG information.
@@alfrede.neuman8898If you care to read my comment again, maybe slower so you get the whole jest, I was talking about the VSO’s.
I am 65 I am on social security disability I was award social security disability in 1989 I had my award letter from social security administration but my ex-wife threw all my paperwork out in the garbage when we separated in 1993 I send away for my military records I live in the Philippines I send the social security administration here in the Philippines at the U.S. Embassy they sent me a email and told me they can't retrieve my social security disability award letter I try to go no social security website my social security account it wouldn't let me because it said you need a U.S address if I get social security administration to send me a letter berify that I was awarded s social security disability and the reason and the date would VA accept that
Hi Robert, I'm not sure about that, but if you call the VA Helpline, they could probably answer that for you. Here is the # 800-827-1000
Good luck to you!
@@SofiaAmirpoor ok thanks but I live in the Philippines I don't think you can called a toll free number from the Philippines but thanks
@@SofiaAmirpoor I went on social security website and try to do my socia security account but it wouldn't let me because it said you have to have a U.S address thank you I keep trying to found out
Hey Robert, I found this page for VA benefits where you can submit your question online. I don't know how fast the response will be since many government offices are closed for awhile, but at least it's something! iris.custhelp.va.gov/app/ask/
Good luck, even with a tbi and not being able to use my right hand they are giving the run around.. I literally need a baby sitter.. But I can go live in a nursing home, home nice of them..Im only 40 i dont want to go live at some nursing home or have to pay someone out of my own pocket.. Then again I forgot bread is only 10cents so why am i complaining.. Forgot being 100% means your rich balling out of control. Time to go pick up my lambo..pssh.. wish I never would have joined and gone to school like everyone else
Sorry you’re down on your luck?
I like your lips
Are you married?
Thank you. I can start filing. Now. Thats great info.
Thank you for this video. Well done and to the point.
Thanks for saying so!