The Biggest Mental Mistake Made by Coaches and Athletes

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  • Do you want to win more? Dr. G. discusses why taking your goals and expectations into a BIG game can set you up for choking.
    Dr. Alan Goldberg, internationally known peak performance consultant and director of Competitive Advantage specializes in helping athletes across all sports at every level, bust slumps and overcome performance fears and blocks. Dr. G's website, www.competitive... offers thousands of pages of FREE resources including mental toughness questionnaires for athletes, parents and coaches, articles on every aspect of coaching and parenting in youth sports, as well as a mental toughness blog.

ความคิดเห็น • 41

  • @bobosputnik
    @bobosputnik 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Best thing a coach ever said: We play winning football (soccer). Not "we have to win." The difference: What we do, how we prepare, how we reset after mistakes, THAT will result in wins. But you cannot play result. You simply must play.

  • @kickypunchyathletickarate7652
    @kickypunchyathletickarate7652 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    "Serious breaks kids down" every coach should watch this.

  • @gregorysweeting2512
    @gregorysweeting2512 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I like Carl Lewis approach to competition. He told his athletes to
    "Just run your race,not winning."

  • @1dripy-e5s
    @1dripy-e5s 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This should be mandatory viewing for all coaches.

  • @montestafford6011
    @montestafford6011 8 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This guy is a genius!!

  • @jimq7689
    @jimq7689 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This guy has helped a lot, wish I knew about this when i was in school would have helped alot in both athletics and academics.

  • @chrisjamescoaching
    @chrisjamescoaching 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love this. I always tell my clients to focus on the process and you'll achieve the outcome!

  • @tomazapat8749
    @tomazapat8749 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    big respect goes to you dr.g!!!

  • @benitathomas3325
    @benitathomas3325 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is great information to an athletes and coaches. ❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😊

  • @tiberiumseeker2422
    @tiberiumseeker2422 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    3:23
    The time to think of the importance of a performance is during practice.

  • @tomaskovac5216
    @tomaskovac5216 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is amazing!!!! Can someone tell me where can i watch full video?

  • @David-r4p3e
    @David-r4p3e ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Do everything durring practice. Train your ass off.lush yourself be hard on yourself ect bc whin the pressures on and it's game time u actually wanna just relax so u can perform . If you have everything u had to for your practices u don't need to be intense and nervous and phyced out . Relax and don't worry it's already there . Perform now focus and relax and don't be to serious this is actually when u will perform at you're greatest .. and if u do make mistakes forget about it and move on come practice time again u can correct those issues . Great advice . As time changes diets changes the way we workout ect .. modern phycology has to advance as well this is a different approach u don't gotta be yelling and getting all crazy . RELAX

    • @aerobertson
      @aerobertson 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I respect your opinion, but I found out that coaching. Everyone is not the same. You have to approach all athletes different. Some athletes doesn’t require a lot of yelling, but some athletes do and those that do sometimes that yelling strikes of fear into getting them on the right path. some athletes are just wired different and you have to find out what works and what don’t work, but the same method does not work for every athlete it just doesn’t.

  • @joshuachandler989
    @joshuachandler989 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Dr G, stay true

  • @danielroman1484
    @danielroman1484 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes I don’t know what happened to me senior year for basketball I made the team after being cut the previous year, I remember all the plays and then one day it all went away barely touched the floor it’s like my love for the game just left me I never could really show how good I was in games, I think being cut my junior year really hurt me I felt completely empty inside I guess I never healed from it

  • @Lehmann108
    @Lehmann108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    We have control over action alone, never over its fruit (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad Gita).

  • @NikaMaul
    @NikaMaul 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    How about the coach that screams and yells. Pulls you the moment u make a petty mistake. I need to show my teen this, she's in a very toxic situation and it's having fun anymore.

    • @JordyOkc
      @JordyOkc 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Get her out of the situation

    • @olivy217
      @olivy217 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s a hard situation my son has suffered the same for many years so o found another team it may be easier said than done but it was the best choice for him he was starting to dread playing

  • @kayakair1
    @kayakair1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good stuff. .Listen to Rick Rassier's podcast, "The Biggest Lie in Sports" & "The Ticket to the Next Level" for the right perspective. He also has one where he talks about the biggest obstacles in sports and puts a lot of envious on the fear of losing.

  • @OneAthlete_mindset_app
    @OneAthlete_mindset_app 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Don’t focus on winning during the game
    Goals are for training, not for the game
    Leave expectations behind when you step on the field
    Trust your practice, let your body perform naturally

  • @kashifjaved4545
    @kashifjaved4545 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whats the solution to this problem?

  • @timhill2645
    @timhill2645 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    where are you

  • @pokerlife123
    @pokerlife123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    SO WHAT SHOULD WE THINK ABOUT IN COMPETITION ?

    • @thehappyguysclub8136
      @thehappyguysclub8136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      just be in the moment...

    • @ninjahstef
      @ninjahstef 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How to improve performances regardless of results

    • @balasubramanianviswanathan8806
      @balasubramanianviswanathan8806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fun, Process of Doing it, Possibilities, Learning and most importantly joy of doing things, continuous improvement, excellence and not perfection

    • @Xcoming2
      @Xcoming2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What's for dinner...

    • @kenemesay
      @kenemesay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      doing what you do best on court/field. that's what we do. we aren't the best team but that's how we work together as a team. because when we start focusing on winning, games go south

  • @winingmoonmedia855
    @winingmoonmedia855 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    sir i am ajay from india .i was 100mts sprinter before 2years and i used to maintain gud acceralation at 70kgs of my weight and i have stoped my practice ,its gona 2yrs i had left practice and now my age is 21 my weight is 82kgs .and i want to start my practice again, because i love it , does my body support that . so far up to what age i can stress my body in workouts and sprint,

    • @balasubramanianviswanathan8806
      @balasubramanianviswanathan8806 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are still peaking, dont worry about age, try to do a biomech analysis, if there is a scientific sports coaching institute nearby visit them, lot of details come into play when to plan to come back, posture, gait, muscle power (there are 2 type of muscles - one which give short bursts of power and the other which sustains power for a long duration) endurance, if you school / college has a coach it would be better or seek guidance from an Exercise Physiologist and Sports Physio

  • @kinhamid9665
    @kinhamid9665 ปีที่แล้ว

    Here's a coach-coach coaching coaches.

  • @NatureSycho
    @NatureSycho 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You whoever are reading this,
    You will be The Greatest athletes of all time just study the life of Bruce Lee for 6Months to 1Year with constant implementation

  • @Kirstine-z5r
    @Kirstine-z5r 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Biggest mistakes
    Child abuse sport in tv sport

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would much appreciate this without the footage of the audience tbh