Depression from missing your kids from a divorce. Motivation for divorce parents.
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- Put yourself in a position environment. Surround yourself with positive mindset people. Force yourself to get up and move. When the time comes that your children are in your arms again. They will need a motivated positive thinking parent to guide them through the difficulties of life. Do not feel defeated. You can bounce back. You can and will survive this. I believe in you. This is Life after divorce and it sucks but it will be ok.
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This has been tough for me. I'm late 20's, havent seen my son since October when I moved out from my divorce. Hes in NY, and I'm in GA. Working hard to get back up, getting into school, doing everything I can to be a father.
From missing his 3rd birthday and Christmas, waking up everyday with a pit in my stomach has been the norm. I don't deserve to be that boys daddy, but he loves me and I'll make sure his life will be comfortable. I'm tired of those hurricane bipolar storms of crying and keeping it together at work. I don't Skype him much, its awkward and when he cries, reaching for the phone, it's even more tough. I feel guilty, keeping his photos in my background are hard, I want to change them but then I'm upset I changed them. God I miss his sweetness. I'll be damned if anyone tries and stops me from keeping him in my life and not being the best dad I can be.
Thank you for taking the time to make these man. I hope you get your bearings back into a better place than before.
Respect and love to all the determined strugglers out there. We have this.
God bless you brother I hope things are turning around 🙌🙏
I feel lost every day but I believe the most high will pull me thru.
Hi EJ James yes the most high will pull you through. I'm sorry you're going through that. I understand. Someday are good some bad. Stay strong mentally physically and spiritually.
Thanks for posting this video. I have two children, a 9 year old son and a 6 month old daughter from two failed relationships. The pain I felt from missing my son was and still is overwhelming at times. Me and his mother split when he was 4 and I see him every other weekend. He's like my best friend, it's just non stop laughs when we're together.
Now I'm in the same situation again with my daughter the pain has intensified, especially with lockdown. I see her every few days but its difficult because the split was so recent. I completely adore her, she's my absolute ray of sunshine.
I love them both to bits and when I read about some of you guys not seeing your children for months or even years I know that must require a massive amount of strength. I know I'm lucky to have two beautiful children that I get to see on a regular basis, but that doesn't stop the pain of missing them.
I really hope you get everything back on track, you sound like a great dad.
Thank God you can see them. Keep connecting with them. Stay strong and positive. I'm praying you will come through and reach the next level.
Sending you all the strenght and force I can. All the way from Stockholm (Sweden), from a divorce dad going through his hell.
Thank you so much. I hope things get better for you my friend and they will. Keep strong and positive
when I found ur channel I wasnt able to get out of bed, not eating, bathing, crying all the timr as he told me he wanted a divorce. In one of ur videos u said no matter what, get up and move literally. I dont know where I would have been if in that moment I wasnt watching ur vids. lol since then, I'm a less basket case lol ty for putting urself out there and filming which must of took courage. u have made me remember either man or woman we r all human. I love ur channel and great video
Thank you so very much. I hope and pray things get better for you. I know it's hard. You will survive it does get better. Stay focused and consistent. Get up keep moving. I know you can do it. Keep living keep striving. Keep in touch. 🌹💐💪
I can relate to what you felt. I am very depressed and sleep as late as I can. Many days I don't even have the strength to bathe properly. The only days I have energy are those when I see the children. Eventually I had to learn to put a smile on during the day, and there are small things in life that bring temporary Joy. But my family is the only thing that brings me true happyness
Checking in on you. I hope your doing well. Thinking about you. Keep your head up. Stay strong and positive. You will survive.
Yes it hurts like hell after losing my kids to divorce ESPECIALLY SINCE I DID EVERYTHING 4 MY KIDS AND THEIR MOTHER BRAINWASHED THEM TO MAKE ME THE BOOGIE MAN;
YES IT HURTS LIKE HELL
SO THANK U SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO
Recently divorced haven’t seen my son in a little over a year now. He’s three and We talk all the time but I can tell how much he misses me. I feel it in a part of my heart I didn’t even know existed. Hope I get to see him soon. I don’t think I can keep going without him but he’s all that keeps me going.
God I pray you reach down and bring this beautiful child and loving parent together. Create the way that only leads them back together in each other's arms again dear lord 🙏 I pray this shall be done. Amen. Stay strong 💪 and believe
I'm having a Facebook page called the voice of a father. It's designed to build up, support divorced fathers who are not able to see their childeren.
Thank you for sharing this. Thank you for helping them. We need to support eachother because no one will. I look at your Facebook page.
You are doing such a great service to us single Dads and it still hurts for me. I believe this hurt never goes away, I believe we just get better at coping in this situation. Keep being amazing dude. I’m supporting you from a far
You are not gonna be the same after divorce
This channel has helped me immensely. I haven’t seen my daughter in almost a year and it’s brutal.
Thank you for your messages. I am still new to my divorce and having my children gone for extended times is breaking me down. In 13 hours my 3 babies leave for 3 weeks to be with their father for the marriage to his mistress and I am already missing them so badly. I do not know how to handle the pain. Thank you for helping us all through it.
Lorrie I'm sorry your experiencing this. I can't imagine how you feel right now. There is pain and it's ok to cry. But soon will come comfort and peace knowing that your children love you and that's all that matters. The faster you can come through and heal the better off you and your children will be. They love you and while they are gone prepare yourself mind body and spirit to give them the best version of you when they come back. And every time they go become wiser stronger and mentally and emotionally healthier so they have the greatness in you as a role model to look up to.
How are you doing now?
Feel a lot pain to know I can’t see my boy every day
Sending love brother 🫂 hang in there. I'm with you on this. I know it hurts. We will survive and overcome.
I miss my son so much. Now that the coronavirus is here I haven’t been able to see him 2 weeks or so because I don’t want to risk getting him sick. I FaceTime him at his moms house and I see them
So happy and I am so happy for them. But for me, he bearly pays attention and I just miss him so much.
thank you brother
You seem like a wonderful father & person. It breaks my heart to especially hear about Dad's missing their kids & it makes me so upset that some people keep their kids away from their other parent. I myself sooo miss my children every day but its because they grew up! Two still live with us at 25 & 27 & my other daughter, 30, is only a few suburbs away. I think there is something really wrong with me. I just miss them all the time from throughout their childhood.
I'm going through it all now for the last couple of years. I'm in the Bay area if you ever want to connect. Thank you for your words or encouragement.
I'm going through it right now and I'm losing my 2 boys, never Fealt pain like this in my life
I love you brother. Stay strong. Yes it is the worst pain in the world. But you are a King and you will survive anything.
@@lifeafterdeath1 thank you so much for the kind words,I watch your videos for encouragement every day,Love you brother,hope you one-day get to be with your daughter again,I think the hardest part for me is knowing I caused mine,if it were not for a belief in God,I would probably not still be here. Stay strong,please keep making these videos of encouragement, they help all of your fellow Brothers in Arms out here to cope with the loss and the Trauma 🙏
Where does a middle aged divorced dad ,12 year family man go to make new friends if he doesn’t do social media and is old school guy from other side of country with no family or friends? In CA people are very standoffish, paranoid ,and selfish it seems? I guess I will die alone like my father did it seems .History always repeats itself
R u seeing your kid now