The ONLY Right Way to Handle INSULTS | अपनी INSULT का जवाब देना सीखो || Stoicism

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  • Other people can be a source of happiness, joy and love in our loves but also they can bring sadness and a lot of irritation along with their goodness. But how we react to such external stimuli depends on our mindset and how we have trained ourselves to deal with such people. We usually know how to react when someone compliments us or bless us with their love, but what about the insults? How should you handle the insults? In this video, we will discuss the only right way to handle insults and insulting people, through Stoic Philosophy.
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  • @inhalepositivevibes1638
    @inhalepositivevibes1638 2 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    " They laugh at me because I'm different ; I laugh at them because they're all the same". :)

  • @priyakanaujiya7152
    @priyakanaujiya7152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    'Insulting' is the Problem of majority of the youngers ,but thanks to this channel for advising.🙏🙌

    • @hemantsinghchauhan8546
      @hemantsinghchauhan8546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Youngsters bhi ek dusre ki har samay insult hi krte rhte h

    • @GhostWriter_369
      @GhostWriter_369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hemantsinghchauhan8546 😂😂🤞

    • @kuhaalgupta1910
      @kuhaalgupta1910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hemantsinghchauhan8546 sahi kaha aur usko moj ka nam dete hai 😠 mujhe bahut irritation hoti thi jab meri bejjati hoti thi
      Really telling kabhi kabhi khoon kar dene ka man karta tha
      Vo log moj moj me mammi papa tak bol dete the isliye

    • @kuhaalgupta1910
      @kuhaalgupta1910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Andromeda 🙀😲😀😀

    • @prachet3334
      @prachet3334 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@kuhaalgupta1910yes

  • @shriya7287
    @shriya7287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Today I realized that i am wiser than i think I was because I always focus on my behavior..And i never blame someone for my hardships.. I am the reason for my happiness and sadness no one else... This video gave me some confidence about my self. Thank you.

    • @humbleperson2536
      @humbleperson2536 ปีที่แล้ว

      i realized it before my age the result is nothing😮 everything become pointless

  • @boringbug4fx
    @boringbug4fx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    People can give you only those things which they have. If they themselves don't have respect, how can you expect to gain it from them✨

    • @avnish054
      @avnish054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      true😊

  • @ashwini6987
    @ashwini6987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    But environment also makes a lot of difference.
    surround yourself with people who want best for you" - jordan peterson

  • @ramavtarsoni3853
    @ramavtarsoni3853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This channel deserves millons of subscribers.

  • @Prem25219
    @Prem25219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Now i get to know how react on our insult. You showed me another and new perspective to see our disrespects and insult. This video is so knowledgeable to become better person in our life. Thanks a lot for this video.

  • @drewmcintyre5667
    @drewmcintyre5667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ye video mujhe itna pasand hai ki kai baar me logo se insult leta hu is video ke liye

  • @alokyadav984
    @alokyadav984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This is why I always ignore insult 😉

  • @Ashutoshchauhan1001
    @Ashutoshchauhan1001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Iam addicted to your Videos
    I always wait for your next video ❤️❤️

  • @nikhilsarode9889
    @nikhilsarode9889 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Why this guy has too low subscribers??
    He deserves more......!

  • @nandninayak7061
    @nandninayak7061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love your content really free me itna achi bate btate ho. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge to us ❤️

  • @ayushkumar4432
    @ayushkumar4432 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I was surviving on this situation, thanks for making this video at my time.
    Your fan from UP 😀

  • @hhIsTheBest
    @hhIsTheBest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for your videos bhaiya. Im constantly watching your channel for 8+ months now. And these videos made me a lot more mature than people my age. Thank You 🙏

  • @kajalkashyap939
    @kajalkashyap939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Now I know how to treat haters thanks for your advice 😊

  • @smilecable-funny
    @smilecable-funny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This channel is more than Pro...
    Just keep it up bro✌️👍

  • @sameerkhan-qg3qi
    @sameerkhan-qg3qi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    MAKE A DETAILED VIDEO ON balancing introvertness and extrovertness
    What i obsevred in myself is sometimes i think to much about whats inside me( thoughts, ego, guilt, happiness, sexual desire , sensation etc ). and than sometimes and totally think about whats outside me ( society, universe , existance , econominies, justice , social aspects) and although both are equally important for life but because of this i cant balance my innerself and outerself and result is that i become confused and unfocused. So how to become a balanced ambivert person. Make a detailed video on this topic

  • @koronaholidayplanners6859
    @koronaholidayplanners6859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    need one more episode on anger, insult management and patience sirjee...😊🙏🙏

  • @anuragratna1381
    @anuragratna1381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I certainly think that self control should be there but accepting insult all the time should be repelled you cant alway make yourself calm by accepting insult sometime you have to provoke your internal bad person to deal with it which will build a balance between your positive and negative characters both

  • @boujpurisongs2.o
    @boujpurisongs2.o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for video 😍😘😍

  • @ronakb8411
    @ronakb8411 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u sir kyu ki aap ka chenol bilkul different or useful topics par videos banati he jo logo ki madad karsakti he

  • @kanikasingh6808
    @kanikasingh6808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This vedio is about how not to get affected by people only you are the reason for your pain and pleasure

  • @ayurvedalifestyle7478
    @ayurvedalifestyle7478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    much needed thankyou 😌😌

  • @artwithvinay
    @artwithvinay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    U r right ❤️💯

  • @sankettiwari6202
    @sankettiwari6202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    After watching this..my mind has achieved a unique relaxment but I have some dout..like when I felt insulted by someone and that's moments I couldn't reacted, after this I loss my confidence..and get stressed please make a vidio that how to get over from that's satuation..

  • @disharawat2117
    @disharawat2117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sir im big fan of you your voice and the way you explain .things i. Never missed a single video and...
    Im always try to implement your teachings .... And I'm really very free internally..nothing outsider is matter much for me
    But im thinking that is ity bad attitude to other .. Im confused
    Can u help me in this

  • @drewmcintyre5667
    @drewmcintyre5667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is time is video ki sbse jada jarurat thi thanks

  • @omsingh2158
    @omsingh2158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks ♥️

  • @ParthivShah
    @ParthivShah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great podcasts sir👍

  • @shashiguttu
    @shashiguttu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My schoolteacher took revenge of my father from me and deliberately insulted me no.of times in class, I was just 13 yr old, bcoz of which I am still mentally suffering ,now I m 23.

  • @chessli369
    @chessli369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks ya Mara fav. Video hai 😍

  • @RohanSingh-zg4hf
    @RohanSingh-zg4hf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great Video. Sir👌

  • @goreshivam5338
    @goreshivam5338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    @Psychology in Hindi can you give me source of clip which is used at 2:02(the guy doing karate katas)

  • @isha5412
    @isha5412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    More on this topic

  • @Factwala7509
    @Factwala7509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks
    I needed this today

  • @uttameducation7466
    @uttameducation7466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi bro, I had eagerly waited for your new video.

  • @shivamcreatz5847
    @shivamcreatz5847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Boht achi video hai ❤️👍🏻🔥 thanks for making it🎶💐

  • @ranjanrana6181
    @ranjanrana6181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amazing👍 and very helpful.

  • @usamakhan1o
    @usamakhan1o 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very useful video sir thank you 🙂

  • @Spilltuber
    @Spilltuber 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If anyone insults me i proudly react like they are Appreciating me.. 🤣then it doesn't look like it's an insult....

  • @suryapratapsingh1856
    @suryapratapsingh1856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best Advice for every one...👍👍👍👍💯💯💯💯

  • @ifam4076
    @ifam4076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I will try it on my mummy and papa😛😛😛..........whenever they will scold me

  • @Techywithnilesh
    @Techywithnilesh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I understand what to do when someone disrespect you.....firstly ignore them , keep them out from your life.. spend your time in completing dream not in thinking why he/she is insulting me ..

  • @kavra99
    @kavra99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks bro Bas Yahi dhund rha tha
    Specialy Ab jab comfort zone se bhar ana hai 😊

  • @RakibBadhon
    @RakibBadhon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thanks for your valuable information.

  • @shwetamaurya3116
    @shwetamaurya3116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank a lot Sir 🙂 literally amazing vedio!

  • @ankitajha-10
    @ankitajha-10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're the best.

  • @Rohit-Kumar-774
    @Rohit-Kumar-774 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks bhai

  • @sandeshtimalsina3594
    @sandeshtimalsina3594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Make videos on movie and character analysis
    1. Shutter island
    2. Nightcrawler
    3. GOT characters etc

  • @drewmcintyre5667
    @drewmcintyre5667 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    3:21 is music pe jo voice ayi hai apki vo esi hai ki ushe me word's me nhi bata pa rha. Ye ek alag hi experience hai 😍

  • @theshagunshow426
    @theshagunshow426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    But me kya karu jab mere parents kudh hi mujhe mere aim ke liye support nhi karte aur padhai karne ke liye bolte h , % acha aye uske baad karna bolte h ,abhi me 5 months Tak apne aim ke uper action nhi le sakti.Kya iska koi solution ha sir,?🙏

    • @theshagunshow426
      @theshagunshow426 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please solution bataye please sir🙏

    • @x_thisissunny
      @x_thisissunny 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you got your aim?

  • @kunalkhandagale1929
    @kunalkhandagale1929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best buddy yaar aap bahut ache explain kerte ho sir ji 😇😊🥰😍🙌

  • @pranjalisorde542
    @pranjalisorde542 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think it's a blessing to watch this vedio. Thnx for sharing

  • @BSingh-bv6pw
    @BSingh-bv6pw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Not necessarily we've weak point if we're getting irritated. But yes, those who try to irritate us, are definitely having so many weak points that's why they suffer from negative thinking. Those weak people actually try to hide their weaknesses whenever they try to abuse or try to show their aggression to others 😊👍

    • @Conway1
      @Conway1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bingo

  • @PujaKumari-hj5zs
    @PujaKumari-hj5zs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Last 30 seconds are great..

  • @junaidahmad1016
    @junaidahmad1016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i am first viewer from pulwama kashmir

    • @mystery15
      @mystery15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      114th from bandipora

    • @junaidahmad1016
      @junaidahmad1016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mystery15 nice to see u here

  • @Praveenkumar-ev3tj
    @Praveenkumar-ev3tj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    love you brother

  • @bidesilahuret.v.byrajchaml311
    @bidesilahuret.v.byrajchaml311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very good

  • @sumansaurabh3540
    @sumansaurabh3540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Now I got a new method of insulting 🙇

  • @rahmatali6555
    @rahmatali6555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    deep knowledge

  • @PRAVEEN-uv8lh
    @PRAVEEN-uv8lh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanku sir

  • @dpacethakur8439
    @dpacethakur8439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But jitna adjust karoge utna hi dabbaawoge.. kya ye baat sach hai??

  • @juhizinzuwadia9340
    @juhizinzuwadia9340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice concept

  • @drewmcintyre5667
    @drewmcintyre5667 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Apke videos muje esi duniya me lejate hai ki subh se raat tak or raat se subh tak bas yahi cycle calti rheti hai

  • @rzbncicon2421
    @rzbncicon2421 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Woow what a points really motivating🥰🥰🤗

  • @nitudas7
    @nitudas7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you🤍

  • @bantusinghrathore5543
    @bantusinghrathore5543 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing sirr!!!!👍👍

  • @InsaneNova
    @InsaneNova 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤ good vid

  • @FITNESS_KING_420
    @FITNESS_KING_420 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Time is EVERYTHING

  • @sushilnayak8639
    @sushilnayak8639 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Most of the comments here are only talking about coping which feels good in books and to some extent for overselves , but none of the comments i have seen where literrally the person who insulted gets backfired or brought down , 😢

  • @krishnaaggarwal3953
    @krishnaaggarwal3953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But does that mean we should just ignore eve teasing? And not take any action?

  • @gloriou__345
    @gloriou__345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👍👍

  • @nandanigupta3102
    @nandanigupta3102 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative

  • @taljitsingh2216
    @taljitsingh2216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙏

  • @LegalBird369
    @LegalBird369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤️❤️

  • @sam.karan7568
    @sam.karan7568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can anyone explain it in right way...🧐🧐
    LAMBORGHINI jo manufactur karta hai aap vo pasand karte ho, na ki vo aapke pasand se apne manufacturing ko change karta hai.
    🤔Kyuki vo apne pachan Kayam rakhna janta hai.

  • @maakekasam123
    @maakekasam123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Laught at yourself no one will insult you 😂

  • @aradhnashing9585
    @aradhnashing9585 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good bro

  • @rajeebbehera8515
    @rajeebbehera8515 ปีที่แล้ว

    Heart touching video

  • @omshreekunghadkar8083
    @omshreekunghadkar8083 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved it

  • @ImranAli-tb9mb
    @ImranAli-tb9mb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice video

  • @AshishKumar-uw7ju
    @AshishKumar-uw7ju 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    50% people read comments while watching the video
    😂😂

  • @deepraman9999
    @deepraman9999 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really really helpful 👍👍

  • @_ShahnawazShirgaonkar
    @_ShahnawazShirgaonkar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @maverickmaven7168
    @maverickmaven7168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bhai timing hai teri yea hi chahiye tha jio raje

  • @md.siddiqurrahman5620
    @md.siddiqurrahman5620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My Ammu :" Jab koi hathi sarakh se jata hain, kutte agsar bhokte hain to khud ko ek hathi ke tarha samjho or un kutto par dheyan matt do. "
    Me : kiya aapko main hathi dikhta hoon?
    😂😂😂

  • @shiv_524
    @shiv_524 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brother you help me a lot💥🙏🙋

  • @drewmcintyre5667
    @drewmcintyre5667 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best video

  • @pearlspearls4830
    @pearlspearls4830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How can I understand that my lover attached with other person ??
    Plz help me
    Plz help me

  • @motabhai6530
    @motabhai6530 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video brother🙏

  • @shaikh_shahnawazz
    @shaikh_shahnawazz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bhai ek video sense of humour par bhi banao

  • @nsbr6
    @nsbr6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good video 👍🏻

  • @dr.romantic9561
    @dr.romantic9561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Expecting - next videos about all 👇 & their core philosophy one by one :-
    Fredrick whilim neitcher
    Carl jung
    Socrates
    Plato
    Aristotle
    Shri.Gaudapadacharya
    Shri.gopalpadacharya
    Adi Shankaracharya
    Lao-Tzu
    Confucius
    Buddha
    Chanakya
    Mahaveer
    Krishna
    Yuval noha hararri
    Robert greene
    Jordan b Peterson
    Krishnamurthy
    Sadguru
    OSHO
    Marcus Aurelius
    Sun Tzu
    Napoleon
    Alexander the Great
    Genghis Khan
    Leonardo da Vinci
    Georg Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel
    John Locke
    Kabir
    Nagarjuna
    Bodhi dharman
    Ramkrishna
    Swami Vivekanand
    Ravana
    Hitler
    Einstein
    Carl Sagan
    Stephen Hawking
    N.Tesla
    Thomas adison
    Epicurus
    Rumi
    Sandeep Maheshwari
    Neem karoli baba
    Steve jobs
    Jack ma

  • @badhanpaul3779
    @badhanpaul3779 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💛💛

  • @drewmcintyre5667
    @drewmcintyre5667 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    3:21 ye voice music sunte sunte subh hi ho jaygi

  • @jagdishsinghjagdishsingh8365
    @jagdishsinghjagdishsingh8365 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please ek video sarcasm ke bhe banao pls pls pls 🙏🙏🙏

  • @bishalpbparkour5624
    @bishalpbparkour5624 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️🙏

  • @MoinKhan-uf4pg
    @MoinKhan-uf4pg 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    But always draw a line where you should say firmly to stop a person if someone known insults make sure you tell them the limit is crossed.

  • @bishalkantaswain3575
    @bishalkantaswain3575 ปีที่แล้ว

    If stoicism is right, then what about our self respect and how to protect it?😢😢

  • @shweta1557
    @shweta1557 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💜