Interracial Dating, How Asian Guys Approach Girls - Double Chen Show
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ต.ค. 2024
- Would you date an Asian? how about Hispanics? Mike and Dan gets into the topic of interracial dating.
What is the difference between Asian and Western guys when it comes to approaching girls?
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I'm black and I met and married a Korean guy while I was living in Seoul. Lucky for me his parents and extended family welcomed me with open arms. I was totally prepared for the scene that was described in the video but his family was great... And they are korean korean... The never lived overseas kind. They even paid for our traditional korean wedding.
I speak korean..not fluent but pretty well (hubby can't speak English) so I think this helped.... I also can eat korean food like a champ and y'all know how much asian moms love to feed ya haha.... It's the best. Just wanted to share a positive story in case there's anyone out there freaking out about meeting their partners' parents
This was what I was looking for. Thank you for posting something positive.
My Korean is getting better. I better go practice.
I have a video on my channel where my Korean husband I talk about what my experience was like meeting the inlaws and our advice on how to handle the situation. Check it out if youre bored. Some people found it helpful.
+J Hearts J wow you're so lucky I hope that happens for me. I love korean men and I'm mexican american. Gives me some sense of hope :)
It's nice to hear your story. As a black girl, sometimes I've felt disadvantaged in the past when it comes to interacting with an Asian guy. I wasn't sure if it was because I seemed too outgoing, but I'm just a nice person :).
+Aariyan096 *I'm introverted as well
I've never met the "shy, quiet, awkward" asian guy. The Asian guys at my school are super loud and confident and approach girls first. Im black but I'm extremely shy and I'm the awkward one. Haha.
browneyedfairy awkward is in. You're beautiful queen, no matter what.
They ( asian guys ) are American at heart.
I don't think women like "alpha males" as much as they are attracted to confident men. A stereotypical "alpha male" is aggressive, macho, pushy, and brash: that is not what all women are attracted to (though some might be). Confidence, on the other hand, is when you are comfortable being yourself, whatever that is. It's very attractive in a person of any gender.
Speaking for myself, I am not at *all* attracted to an aggressive, macho, brash "alpha" male. I am much more attracted to funny, smart, calm, CONFIDENT men. You can be confident without being "alpha".
(I keep putting "alpha" in quotes because I don't like using that term for people. You can have alpha dogs or alpha wolves in a wolf pack, but the term "alpha male" doesn't have any scientific basis and is used mostly by pick-up artists to make some men feel less masculine.)
Those "alphas" you described are hyper-masculine men to compensate with such behaviour for their insecuritues and lack of example-figure.
The actual alphas are the ones you described to be attracted to; Self control.
For once we agree
Alpha males aren't brash or pushy.
@Santolina8: WOWOWOWOWOW, Luv your comment and I agree with you. I think what has got MANY black women even considering asian men is due to Kpop and Kdramas but mainly Kpop ( South Korea ). At least this is my opinion.
I would totally date asian men. I have the "I date whoever I find attractive" approach. No racial preference at all
Yes, I would date Dan.
Goodness your gorgeous.
Jessica Garcia Thanks :-)
Yes they both are :)
Jessica Garcia I have got to disagree..slightly..I think Mike is Handsome...:)..
+Eric Sheng Sheesh
He became even MORE attractive when he said he is willing to do chores. I mean COME ON.
I am 100% Chinese born in the US. My boyfriend is Native American and German. I date people not because of their race, but who I am attracted to
That's the spirit!
beauty is a universal trait : )
I cannot believe my comment already has 19 thumbs up wow
Respect is what matters and respect to you.
so true^^ communication, respect faithfulness and Honesty makes a relationship work
My uncle married a Japanese girl and I now have a blackanese cousin. We are a very diverse family tbh. I have a black & Mexican cousin. And Im black & German. It's pretty cool, we have so much going on during family reunions.
Haha I don't care if the Asian guy is a bit "feminine" or "not manly", if he's attracted to me but he's shy I wouldn't care about that because I'm shy too. I wish it was different though, I wish more Asian guys could date girls who aren't Asian. It doesn't seem fair that Asian girls dating other race guys is fine but Asian guys dating other race girls is like bad.
i agree :)
that's how i feel when dating girls that's not chinese. as long as we fit together and are happy is what matter
Delirious Tea I'm so glad someone agrees! Thank you :D
White guy speaking, I genuinely don't mind / am glad for you guys if you date. There is nothing wrong there, come on.
Totally agree!! Thank you!!
I'm not an Asian so i'm not the one to talk about this. I think Chinese parent's are *generally* more concerned about their sons and the girls can have their own problems, hence the unfairness of the interracial dating.
I am currently dating a chinese guy. he's the love of my life but not because he's chinese. he's a human.
Uhh. Speciesist 😫🤢
I date any creature without trying to have preferences.
How did you get him? I want this guy so bad
Can I ask how old are are plz Ratchet
water9baby 9 I am a Chinese guy,just get out there and talk to guys ,I think they’d be willing to talk to j
I am actually extremely attracted to Asian women and men , but I'm black and I find it very hard to approach them in fear of rejection.
elizabeth jomes well they shy so u typically will have to make the first move
you can be rejected by anyone and asians are no different... i'm shy about approaching people too but every time i do i am pleasantly surprised. most people are cool but of course there is always the occasional a**hole out there.
@@hearhearhear1 are u Asian?
@@NTDOffTheGreatWall I know this was 5 years ago but seriously do you think it's okay for a woman to approach the man?
@@water9baby972 if you notice that he's shy with everybody, especially with girls, then yes you might consider approaching that guy.
Awesome video guys. My hubby is Chinese and I'm African American and I definitely had to initiate conversation when we getting to know each other. He said he liked me but was afraid I would slap his face if he asked me out. His siblings were cool but the older generation of his family scared the HELL out of me. LOL
hahaha that was a random fear of his
Lol that fear was random
I absolutely find Asian men attractive. I've never had the chance to date one, but I've always found them attractive.
SOME
@greas Wyq Absolutely. SOME.
the shy thing is real. My husband is chinese and before we got married he was so shy even to express his feelings to me although his actions were speaking. I decide to ask him if he likes me and he said he loves me but he didn't know where to start to tell me the reality. lol
Swahili 101 nice story
His answer made me chuckle hahahah, that's the most beautiful answer a person can give! God bless you both!
Is it me or black and Asian couples are rare ?
14salka very very rare
Look up the Charlie Murphy interview for Chappelle Show's Rick James episode. He mentions that.
I am married to a black guy for 15 years. It is more common now.
@@KatherineCheng77 More common for Asian women with a Black man and see them everywhere. It is extremely rare to see an Asian man with a Black women.
If you live in California or Texas there everywhere you need to get out more.
regarding racism/prejudices. ....
Im from south america (Chile) and growing up in L.A. (anyone Latino is considered Mexican apparently) anyway... I remember a white kid asked me "so uhhh, did your parents jump the border ha ha ha "
so, I punched him in the face. I was expelled from school but I would so do it again!!
: ) cheers!
Proud.
¡Hazlo otra vez con más ganas para que lo sientan sus hijos del futuro! 🤣😂🤣
I can relate, though in a different yet similar way....
Being half Puerto Rican & half Cuban, I once had a coworker ask me if I came to the US on a floating door... 😒 So in front of everyone I responded “No, but I heard a few of them that did passed his mom hopping between rafts on their way here! 👍🏽👍🏽” -And yes, I literally gave him 2 thumbs up!! The shock and laughter guaranteed everyone some after lunch entertainment for a few days after. Never again did he say anything racist (to my face, at least) ever again 👍🏽👌🏽 ....pa que sepa 😂
So sad got into a suck racism..
@@alishamcg I am a Chinese and I can feel the way local people (especially elder ones) treat foreigners, like viewing an animal or alien..
Sad! Hopefully Asian men will begin to reject the prejudice of their parents and reach for happiness. The parents will come around, be courageous. Many non Asian women are attracted to Asian men. Many! African American, Latina, White, Beautiful, intelligent, kind young women just waiting for you guys to notice! Trust me. I'm a mom of 3 grown, well educated, very successful African American daughters, all with graduate degrees (one an Emmy award winning journalist) they are very attracted to Asian men!
+Michelle Autore Very true. My parents come around and love my wife. :D
Michelle Autore what about European girls attracted to asian guy ?
@@2WongsMIR I want this Asian guy so bad
@@water9baby972 LOL.
@@2WongsMIR glad you find my pain amusing :/
Love your videos. I am so happy that there are Asian males out there willing to date outside their race. I have been married 7years to my Chinese hubby and love him and our two Chinese/Mexican sons dearly.
Nancy Mata thanks :-) and happy for you :-)
Okay, so lots of asian guys won't approach girls? How would a girl go about approaching them? There are a lot of really cute asian guys in my school, and I would really like to talk to them, but they always seem to be hanging out with asian girls (who are obviously like 20-bazillion times hotter than me).
prettypianoplayer100 If you think about it.. They seem so much hotter to you cause asian faces are less familiar to you compared to for example your own "race". Therefore they seem more exothic to you and more attractive.
While in the other hand - the asian guys have the same skin colour like those girls which means they look not as special to them. So I would doubt that you're less attractive to them based on your skin colour - if anything it would be the opposite.
So if you're interested - just go for it girl! Know your own value and beauty so that this beauty shines bride enough for anyone to see who's not completely blind ;P
JustLIkerapunzel That's true, I guess. Thanks ^_^
prettypianoplayer100 GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!
I'm asian and ugly *^*
Pema Khandro That is fairly difficult, in my opinion. It's a remarkable feat all on it's own if you're an ugly asian person.
I honestly think that white girl will start dating way more asian guys nowadays because of K-pop o.O
Kpop is a turn off for me personally but my first crush on Asians was the Chinese gangster from the film Rush Hour lol 👀👅💋
@@water9baby972 Jackie Chan
@@water9baby972 Ahh, Ken Leung!:) My crush was Jet Li!:)
Throughout the entire video, I couldn't help but just laugh sometimes. As an Asian guy going to high school in the middle of Illinois, I could relate to so much! Keep it up guys!
Nice I lived in Illinois
My fiance and I live in Michigan. What he says he remembers most about high school is being the ONLY Asian in entire high school. The Midwest is sadly not very diverse. :(
Dan was a beautiful child! He grew to be very handsome. I think Mike and Dan are both very attractive. That's why I watch this channel.
Shavonne TV wow that's a good reason XD
I've never had a boyfriend. so if a Chinese guy asked me out, I wouldn't say no
Chinese guys are not good at asking girls out. Likely you will have to make the first move.
puttputt524 It depends. My friend who lives in China and is grown up there and actually never left the country shows waaaaay much more emotion towards me then I do to him.
@@puttputt524 seriously? How do I do that?
I dated a guy from Beijing China. One of the best guys I've ever met.
Peggy Hill nice name lmao
Hey guys! I'm British and I really love your channel! I'm very diverse and I have friends in school from lots of different cultures! I have lots of respect for people from every country. I went to London once, which was new for me because I don't live near there, but it amazed me how diverse it was! I love to speak other peoples languages and I'm actually learning a few Asian languages, and also some European ones. I really wish everyone was just so forward and accepting, that may not ever happen, but I'm glad there are at least some accepting people. :)
TaGz42 thanks :-)
No problem! :D
Im English too and we need to have pride for our culture too. Knights are just as cool as anything else haha.
Die-versity is anti-White
I am currently dating an Vietnamese guy, and he is the love of my life. Race shouldn't matter if you love them and you have a good personality.
My sister married a first generation American Asian and my family loves him. We are African American.
I am glad to know that you guys are open-minded. I love Asian culture and trust me I get weird looks or made fun because of it. But really breaks my heart sometimes is that I love covering Asian pop culture news but I do from time to time do get some Asian people who don't like me reporting on it or are mean to me. Sometimes I wonder why because I love everyone. Especially Asian men! I love them but sometimes I feel from the Midwest perspective their is a lot of closed-minded going on but I hope to do an episode like this as well. Because I find that there are some Asian men who go for non-White women but I feel like you said because of the stereotypes it makes it harder.
Thanks! That means a lot!
typically, most asian that grows up from the generation x & y era are open minded. it's our parents and grand parents that are a little stubborn. I personally had no problem dating girls or making friends outside of my ethnicity but bringing them home is a different story. because of the crap i saw my friend had to go through and the nonsense me and my exgf had to go through at that time, i cannot put them or anyone through the same thing again. i still have no problem dating girls and making friends of different ethnicity but sometimes it's a shame that people take it the wrong way when i have to distant them from the environment of my family.
because of how western cultures work, some of my friends get offended when i didn't invite them to my family events where as they had invited me.
it's just a shame... shame shame shame...
Sorry that's your experience. I just started watching kpop mv and totally feel in love. My advice, do you and don't let anyone tell you any different. Smile hon, the world isn't all that bad.
Leianess
I am starting to realize that more and more but it has been hard.
Delirious Tea
Trust me I know the feeling. I have Hmong friends for example that I know that I will never be able to hang out with them because their families don't like Black people because of the stereotypes out there.
i am an italian girl, and despising what usually people think about italian guys (flirty, manly, good lovers blahblah) i think they are all terribly shy and never have the courage to do "the first step" infact italy is one of the country with less births in the world, they just can't approach girls anymore nowaday! so when i met my chinese boyfriends who approaced me in a very open and gentle way, than that was the time when i thought "i'll never date another italian man in my life"
Hahaha these two are the dynamic duo. I just love watching their videos. And their rapid fire segment had me laughing out loud so hard. You guys rock!
My parents are very fair when it comes to dating. They look at the actual person, not their race. And they were immigrants from Hong Kong. They hated guys I brought home in the past because they weren't sure if they'd treat me well. They loved my late-fiance when thy first met him though (he was Caucasian). They cried and said they lost their son when he passed away. Asian men are terrified of me lol. I'm 100% Chinese but I am very confident, openly communicate, and easily talk to new people and make them feel as if they've known me for years. I actually had some Asian tell me they're intimidated by me. I'm 32... and there was one Asian guy about the same age that was trying to date me. He called to ask me to dinner and he was doing it in a very roundabout way (it frustrates me to no end when people don't get straight to the point). But I wanted to get to know him, so I said "sure, that'd be great where are we go..." before I could finish my sentence, he says "well you don't have to if you don't want to." I laughed and said reassuringly, "I just said yes, so it's all good." And he says yet again, "I mean I'm sure you're a very busy woman so you don't have to say yes to make me feel better, I'll understand if you don't want to." I finally said a little more firmly, "Look, I don't know what kind of women you dealt with in the past, but I am very direct and I have no problems telling you no, politely, if I don't want to go to dinner. I won't want to waste either of our time. So I said yes, you can accept it or we don't go." We did go to dinner but he was just too insecure for my taste and I tactfully told him soon afterwards that I find him to be very handsome and a great guy but it's just not a match and he will be awesome for someone else.
I was always in a grey area of racism. I'm white, but I have a large birthmark on my face. I was bullied by EVERYONE. It's weird how my physical difference actually helped the other kids overcome racism by banding together against me. It was painful, and still is to a degree, but it's made me who I am today.
I really like your channel, I'm half asian and I can see both western and asian cutlure. Your videos are fun and informative xD. Subbed
Thanks James!
me too C:
I recently have been dating a chinese guy from my college. i am white/latina. It's my first time dating an asian man. He was a little shy at first but super polite and sweet! :) Nothing seems VERY different from my past dating experiences but we do get some glances from others, mostly asian people but nothing rude just curious glances. Interracial couples are interesting to look at and I would glance too if I saw one walk by.
My grandmother was the product of an Asian father and Native American mother, absolutely beautiful woman, inside and out. When I reached puberty, she sat me down and gave me a nugget of wisdom, that still 20 years later makes me gasp and laugh. She was the one who gave me the talk and told me that despite the fact she had 6 kids by my grandfather, a Spanish and Israeli Jew, that and I quote, " To get the job done right, sleep with at least one Chinese man because they know what they are doing." So, I'm sharing that little nugget of wisdom with all of you TH-cam commenters.
That's disgusting and whorish.
OhFortunae, you're pathetic, short sighted, and goonish
OhFortunae Nope, it's awesome. ^_^
OhFortunae excuse me? I am multiracial just like they are. And there is NOTHING wrong with being open about things like that. You have to find out sooner than later
HAHAHA!
My high school, I had friends of every nationality. I thank God for your discussion. You are such good guys.....Great!
Joshua Howard thanks Joshua and thanks for watching!
Quick note, after reading other comments it doesn't sound like Asian men have anything to worry about. Women all over the world seem interested, as long as men don't treat them like a piece of ass (which is what some of the comments indicate they have done and still do).
Dan's hot #justsaying 😊
JellyBumFruitcakes yasssss
JellyBumFruitcakes for real
They both are.
My hubby is korean and I am Latina (Peruvian/Puerto Rican) we’re happy as ever 💕💕💕💕
Iranian-born California girl here. Growing up I was always attracted to the Asian guys at school, but they were never interested in dating non-Asian girls. All through Uni, and my adult years, I've never been asked out by an Asian man once, although I've nursed a few crushes along the way! :)
I love you so much guys, you are really great, I can't help but watching all your videos one after another! :D My boyfriend is Chinese and we live in Poland now, and people here are sooo surprised when they see us together! In China it was similar :) But I always feel very proud with my Chinese bf ;)
soluszynification Thanks :-)
Wow Gratulacje :D Zawsze chciałam mieć azjatyckiego chłopaka haha :D Ale mam jeszcze troche czasu, może akurat się uda :D Czy mogę spytać jak się poznaliście? ^^
MrThemorningsun Hahaha :D Really?
I am Slovakian and I also like Chinese men, because they are more nice and respectful also more smart then white boys(no offense anyone) I wish you all the best! Make nice Eurasian babies ;)))
Patty Stanley Haha, pewnie. Poznalam go cztery lata temu przez strone do nauki jezykow gdzie uczyl mnie chinskiego, potem skajpowalismy przez jakis czas. Rok temu bylam na stypendium w Chinach i akurat mielismy okazje sie spotkac kiedy on przyjechal do mojego miasta no i tak to sie zaczelo :) Powodzenia w szukaniu, jakby co to najlepsi mezowie sa podobno w Szanghaju i okolicach :P
I had a crush on a boy who happened to be chinese when I was a freshman in high school. He was really smart and funny. I sat next to him in science class and we would talk a little but he seemed shy. I told him one day that I liked him and he got so awkward and quiet. He wouldn't even make eye contact with me or reject me properly. I never really understood it but that was around 9 years ago. I still go to his families restaurant whenever I am in town because I love the food there and his mom gave me free egg rolls!
I think he liked you. But being near you triggered his "fight or flight" instinct, and he definitely chose flight. Sadly I speak from experience.
Chris Chu and puttputt are 100% correct.
i'm sure he liked u. when i was in high school i was also too shy to approach the girl i liked. we talked a lot through messages but whenever we met in class i was too shy to even make an eye contact longer than 3 seconds. finally after 2 months she stopped replying my messages, her friend told me that i was too "slow". that could be the first time he's really attracted to a girl because that was also the same case with me when i was too "slow" and didn't know how to approach a girl properly.
Trust me he likes you too Asian men are like that they really respect woman specially when they like the person they can't even talk to them they are shy but trust me that was just a sign of respect cause in his mind his thinking way too hard like if I talk to this beautiful lady that I like and I respect I might just get hurt so I'll just going to keep quite and be polite west culture is different from them but I hope you'll understand him
I'm a Chinese so based on what I observed in my country there are few things u may misunderstood. First, it's kind of an awkward thing to say about relationship, love, and sex in public space in China. It may make people feel really uncomfortable to just tell him that u like him in class( couples always interact in private or secret places). Second, Chinese guys may not want to show "secret" CP relationships to other students. This may cause a jealousy from other students or anger from the teacher. Also the eye contact lacks in Chinese CP relationship which means that guy may feel really shy if u show him a smiling and lovely face but don't know how to react. Lastly, may be the most important thing is that Chinese parents normally don't allow their kids to date during school lives so once I hanged out with girls I had to lie to my parents about "studying together" or "group projects"..
I'm a Woman of Color... I brought a Chinese guy home to meet my family.... Did not go well at alllllll, but his family was very accepting of me. I don't get it....
leelee4990 closed minded people, sadly
lili4990 my friend and family make fun of me for liking asian men looool I see you girl...
most black people believe they must date their own race why I don't know
@@TetukraBOA more like white people
that moment when my family is pretty much interracial l. dad: korean and mexican
mom:African American and Native American
Hello to you both. Fantastic show! I am American and have always been attracted to Asian men. I was also raised to love and respect all and myself. Keep talking about the topics that most would avoid. Be brave... be the socially responsible. And most of all... keep being the most authentic you..you both can be. Thank you for sharing with us... your fan.. and admirer Tonia from Michigan
Imma a black girl and I absolutely ADORE asian men
As a black female; I wish more asian male would date other race of girls not just white girls. I have many Latino and Black friends who have yellow fever, but can't seem to get asian men out of the stereotype mind set. I've hear of the most sick things. An example would be one Caucasian girl in my high school class ones said to an asian guy who liked her the she only dates the good looking Asians (like the k-pop stars). This asian kid was veey good looking. He was hot and many of thw hottest Latinos and blacks at my school wanted him but he only went for the white girls. There's nothing wrong with having you likes and dislikes when it comes to the type of girl you like but he only wanted the white girls beacuse thats what you always see. Asian girl with white guy or a few asian guys with white girls. Please don't be afraid to taste the raindow.
I hear you, but you can't really force attraction on people. If the dude in your school liked white chicks, then thats just what he liked. Not all Asian dudes are exclusively into white girls if they don't date Asian, but the ones who are you just have to leave alone.
i only really like Asian men
Utopia._.dreams nice :-)
Asian men are caring, handsome, responsible and intelligent. My sister and I date Asian guy. Love
I got a question how come everytime Asian guys talk about dating outside their race the first thing they think is white girl?..... like dude hello black girls are fucking awesome white girls are over rated black girls equal ratings we fucking rule bro!!
same here man I'm only attracted to Asian guys and it's really a problem for me. because most no...all of the ones I know would never go for me:(
same here
lmao " I think she might be fat one day"
Hi guys! I'm Black as you can see and I've been happily dating a Korean American guy for one year! We live in the south and have a multitude of friends that are diverse and fun. Also did I mention that I'm Buddhist and he's Christian lol We have a great time. :)
I was born in Hong Kong and came to America when I was three. I found myself more attracted to Caucasian women. I agree with you guys and I am planning to do what will make me happy and follow my religion and culture. :)
If I was single I would definitely date an Asian guy, I find Asian guys really attractive!
Wendiee Jackson nice!
Wendiee Jackson Are u into east asian guys or south asian guys lol
nice
My boyfriend is Asian, i'm not. I knew he liked me but he was super shy and stuff and I felt that it was hard for him so I was the one that asked him out.
That's so nice! You're a great person!
I had a crush on a couple of asian guys growing up in Watsonville, CA and they had absolutely no interest in me. I'm really straight forward and also 5'10" so it certainly could have been an issue with my more frank, open personality and that I was literally 6" taller than every asian boy I went to school with until my last year in high school. The asian girls wouldn't date any white guys either in my experience...I also was born in 1970 and I think all cultures are more open especially now. Thanks for the informative videos.
I don't think this is true. Like the guys explain in the video, Asian guys are not good at expressing romantic interest.
Can you guys elaborate on how Asian guys would interact with black girls, do they do or not like them? Like generally with each minority: Chinese, Korean, Japan?
I like these two, love their energy, most of all, they are honest and authentic! This is a fun video.
I get approached mainly by Asian men. I am Black and live in Toronto.
They're not shy...at least the Asian men who approach me.
They're westernized.
I'm definitely into Asian men but I'm not their type. I'm kind of fat, and I'm white. I doubt they would ever approach me and my confidence level is pretty bad haha.
u can lose ur weight. and i will love u... ♥ Hahahahahah
sameeee
+Jackie Reynolds Hi, as a curvy white girl married to an Asian man I want to reassure you that some men are not superficial and don't care about looks. Another point is that a lot of men love curves. What if you take initiative and let a person know that you would like to get to know him...?
+Jackie Reynolds Im asian and ONLY date thick girls
+Jackie Reynolds I'm fat and white and dated a Chinese guy for 5 years!! It can happen, lol.
It's interesting because I had a friend who was dating a black guy for 3 years...but she knew her parents are against interracial relationship so she asked me for my opinion and what I said to her was, "Your parents are not going to grow old with you...and people nowadays...all your friends accept your relationship." But she said she didn't want to be disowned because one of her cousin had a interracial relationship and was disowned. Eventually she said she wants to be with someone she could bring home. Which is sad because I think if he makes her happy she should have sticked to him otherwise she shouldn't use race as a break up excuse.
Go for the black women. They are the best.
ABC born and raised in Kansas City, Mo. in the 70's and 80's... you nailed it. I ended up marrying an Italian chick from Venice (that I met in China)... saving grace was that she speaks Chinese.
I live in Austria now and a local ABC introduced me to your show... I thought I was the only person that went through all the issues you guys cover. Thanks - you guys kick ass!
I'm so attracted to Asian men. But out of the many many that live around me, I have only been approached by two. Maybe I'm not the Asian guy type!? Lol great video guys!
***** I suggest you go up to us Asian guys and get to know us! Trust me, you wont regret it. Some of us are shy... thats the ugly truth and probably why!
+Patrick Trieu Asian guys need to man up and start approaching women more. Stop being so beta.
I like them as well ,but they are hard to find here.
Meg L keep looking babe! You won't regret it!! ;)
Sorry for the multiple posts it wasn't working
I'm curious are Asian guys even into African American women ?
4C Created Beautifully type in ambw in the search youtube bar, theres an huge Asian male/black women community on youtube, so they're out there.
Yes
It rly depends on the dude like generally not.. imma have to be honest like I don't have a preference and I dated a black girl for like 1.5 yrs but I feel like a lot of Chinese dudes would prefer white... It's cultural
@4C Created Beautifully SOME but Not ALL. There are SOME asian men who would not be caught dead with a black woman....but not ALL feel that way. There is a AMBW/BWAM community out there
My family is interracial already...so I am Filipino-Japanese-Spanish....and my boyfriend is African American...my Papa keeps saying, "He not fit door!" hahahaha.... My sister was in a Chinese School before and she has Chinese suitors and Papa was like...."Chinese - why Chinese...what I did wrong to you?" and I just keep laughing.....Asian parents are stubborn really....lovable in their own special way :)
@1:59: As a Fil-Am, I totally had the same feelings and experiences 100%. I too grew up in a predominantly white environment and was mainly attracted to Caucasian females until I went to the Philippines and lived in NYC for 2 years.
I like how you said “you are rebellious” , that’s what kind of older Asian man I need.
i dont like asian girls im asian too im more attracted to black girls
Jimmy Dang you like black women but can you talk to them and dont be afraid. Middle class men look good too
You idiot now
@Jimmy Dang: Black women are like any other race of women. Get the courage and go up and SPEAK TO THEM, Jimmy, don’t be scared. They won’t bite you.
24:58 "Chores" is spelled "Choirs" :P WHICH OF YOU IS THE VOCALIST IN THIS MARRIAGE?!
lololol i saw it too!
I think that when it comes to Asian guys dating non-Asian girls is a lot to do with stereotypes. I grew up in Minnesota, which has a very small Asian population (Up in Grand Marais there is no one other than Nords), and I remember the stereotypes that would be said when talking about dating Asian men. The one I remember always being told was that there would never be an Asian guy taller than me.. im 5'7.5 -.- I never dealt with racism but very few kids in my school did. I think the worst was that I was called a nazi A LOT because I have some german heritage and I was also made fun of for enjoying and learning about various culture, conveniently that passion started from learning about Chinese culture.
I'm Asian and I'm 5'4 and barely into puberty! C'mon!
I've been this height since I was 12 .-. I learned from observation that there are quite a bit of tall Asian dudes. There is one particular guy who is around 6'1 and loves to bump Hyuna when driving around xD
Im asian girl raised in asia, 5'8"
Yeah, I've dealt with the racist comment in school. Sorry to hear about your bullying. I'm 5'9 btw.
hi i am sorry to hear that you were bullied for having a german background ( i am german). i don´t feel like there is a lot of serious racism in my place. nevertheless there of course are stereotypes and i won´t exclude myself and i think that it is really difficult to not have any stereotypes at all. the thing is that i have never seen that someone was put down for their race or something. it´s only that i get a lot of stares and i earned a lot of "have you gone crazy?" for learning korean. i feel really insecure talking about this because i am afraid to offend someone but on this channel you all seem to be respectful so i hope no one will get me wrong. i just have no idea how to talk about this topic bc i feel like whatever i say will sound racist so i will just stop here.
Im glad that you guys feel this way because im an Asian (Chinese) women I love the Black men and alot of times I get a bad state down from Asian people just because im with them.
Oh my gosh i am so asian, you guys are basically describing me. I've liked this girl for literally 2 years and have done almost nothing about it, and I love what you guys have to say about racism, I can seriously relate.
so basically you guys are all talking about white girls💀 show latinas some love
Lol they are crazy
That's all asians people talk about when they talk about dating
I am a Chinese guy, but I also love Latino girls
@bashar al butseggs: That is THEIR OREFERNCE, so let them HAVE IT. There are millions of asian men out there that do like/love latinos
I dated a Chinese guy who later I found out was an excessive gambler. I dated a Filipino guy who thought he was a player. Then I dated a Korean guy once who was trying to be a player but had no game. Anyway, I stopped dating Asian guys. lol.
Maybe you just like bad boys? You need to find a nice Asian guy who is down to earth and appreciates you.
Kakinoki TRYING TO BE A PLAYER BUT HAD NO GAME DEAD 😂
Growing up I've always been attracted to Asian guys like even now I can't imagine myself being with someone that's non asian it gives me this weird feeling
you're awesome!! keep it up :)
Same.
The college advice really sparked my motivation to not only do well but take advantage of my college experience... I just got my acceptance letter today; I've got a lot of thinking to do, but I'm much more excited after hearing their words.
I really appreciate the winter things you said about being bullied. I have not faced racism but I have a visible disability so I got some bullying for that. You are right good friends and a good attitude can go a long way.
I find myself only being attracted to asain guys
yea your do says it all
Yeah! Midwestern probs! I am a caucasian female that is attracted to asian males. Living in Missouri, I get to see very few in a year. :P We need to fix this.
where were you when I was in missouri :-)
even you live asia, it's not easy cause of many barriers, language, culture etc.
Yes I has a thing for Asians, but the thing was I didn't live near any. So I couldn't date any. I'm Latina btw :D I love Asian culture always found it so interesting. Wish people would be more open-minded about interracial dating.
Latinas
Nicky vanilla Us Asian guys diiieeeee for Latinas! Latina women are our goddesses!!! :)
My grandma in the 1950's dated a Chinese American man named Barry. My Grandma said she couldn't take the relationship further because his parents wanted him to only marry a Chinese girl lol
During the end when you guys talk about deciding a major in college, I was very surprised. I'm currently in my second year of college and I'm undecided on my major. During my first year, I only cared about making friends/meeting new people/my social life and I dealt with a lot of girl drama.. Due to that negative experience, I went through so much that I didn't want/have the energy to get involve with clubs or anything. However, this year I'm apart of a lot of things and no, I'm not sad or going through anything anymore. Anyways, I'm also full on Chinese and my family drives me insane about not declaring a major. They are always advising me to go into the medical or engineering field and I know I have zero interest in those two areas. Sometimes I feel disappointed in myself for not knowing, but just listening to your guys's advice..It made me cheer up to still be questioning what is it that I want because I'm still learning about myself. Also, you guys definitely drilled it into my head to not listen to what others want me to do. So thank you guys ^^
Dan it is hard to believe that the opposite sex rejected you. You are adorable.
thanks :-)
im Hispanic- i date anyone who makes me go "Hello 😎!" including asian guys
I'm insanely attracted to Asian men... >.
I had a pretty bad university experience. Most of my classmates hated me, the professors were really mean to me (one even tried to throw me out of my program), and on top of that, the school kept adding classes to my schedule so it took me longer to graduate than normal, because they were trying to get all of the money they could. The positive thing is that I graduated anyway, despite everyone's bad attitude. But I really hated the whole experience.
Now, I went to a two year college before I transferred to university, and I loved that so much more. The students were nice, the professors actually cared about me, and the overall feeling was just good. I wish I could have gotten my four year degree at college rather than university. But it wasn't possible with my major so I was forced to go to a really horrible school.
I am another Chen from Mainland China, I like your show a lot. glad you guys bring some sensitive topic up and pave the roadmap.
any girl that you go out with will be lucky! you both are really smart, kind and good looking.
So I don't have "yellow fever" or anything like that but I'm open to dating Asian. I love Asian culture, in particular Chinese. When it comes to Asian men, I really haven't met any in person that I found attractive and or approachable. Plus I really don't know what they might think of black people... Like in all seriousness. I feel like it can be a difficult transition for American whites to get comfortable with black culture (and we are from the same country) so I wouldn't want my first relationship with an Asian guy ending up being a cultural experiment gone wrong. Plus we look so different, so I'm wondering like how that would affect a potential dates perception on me, if at all.
I have dated a black woman before. She was very nice and the difference in culture was not the reason it ended. Asian guys (I don't speak for all) are generally simply very shy. I know that is a turn off for most women, but if you are ever interested in an asian guy, simply talk to him and who knows what will happen :)
@Rika Chan
Okay, your comment is the best one I've seen so far,
O//O, this made my heart jump...
I think it's more Asian women dating outside of their race versus Asian men you see it everywhere
You guys are so awesome. I'm so thankful that you guys are bold about knowing who you are and encourage so many people along the way! Please don't EVER belittle what you guys do! I'd be honored to run into guys somewhere. 😄
You know what Double Chen. I just wanna hug you two. Seriously you guys are amazing.
I've been asked to teach her how to say hello in Korean by a Chinese girl; I've been spoken to in Cantonese at a cash register. Being none of those, I was tempted to say "Achievement Unlocked: You've found a rare Asian."
Perhaps it must be a college environment thing, as I've faced very little judgement and racism from people in general. In fact those are the only instances when someone made assumptions on my ethnicity and they came from other Asians.
Are you Mongolian? If so, then high five!
You get the high five!!
People always think I'm Korean whenever I introduce myself to them. It's so annoying. They don't even know what Mongolia is.
My husband is from Fuzhou, China and didn't come to America until he was 22. I met him when he was 28/29. He taught himself English, never went to school, and we met while I was working through college. Now we're happily married with a 2yr old lol. From what I've seen, Chinese guys (& even girls) like him usually stick with other Chinese, because I keep hearing them all say the interracial couples they know get divorced (which is funny because I keep hearing about all the chinese-only couples divorcing lol). He was really worried about it, and said the biggest reason he trusts me not to cheat and just change my mind/give up is because I'm a Christian.
I think it is easier for asians that go to school here and are more assimilated (basically, cultural/language barriers are less of an issue).
In general, though, I don't think I've ever seen an asian guy with a non-asian girl other than online, but I've seen asian girls with non-asian guys. We seem to be a pretty rare couple combo.
Does that mean he's not Christian? Does that ever create conflict?
Kathryn DeRhodes Well... Don't know about that... A white friend of mine always dated asian guys in the past view years lol
So... I'd say it really depends... And it makes for sure a difference if they are asian in meaning of knowing that culture and living it or like asian but living for several generations in that other country so that only the grandparents really remember their countries traditions by heart...
MrThemorningsun I think it depends on the girl. I have an interest in Asian languages and culture so I personally like Asian men who retain some of their culture. I can easily understand the cultural differences and work past language barriers. Other girls who may not know much about Asians / Asia, might prefer to date a more westernized Asian man.
It annoys me how some people are racist. Like, just because they have a different skin tone or come from a different culture they're inferior to you?? Recently I dated a guy who was white and his mom (who was raised in a Southern household) didn't approve of me simply because of my race. I've been in that position where there was a phase in my life when I wished I wasn't Asian; I wished I had blonde or brown hair and light colored eyes. But recently I've really been interested in my culture which is why I've become so interested in these videos.
i know your feelings girl
im an asian guy from austria and the situation over here with racsim is even worse
You should never be ashamed of what you are,your culture is beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise or make you feel less worthy.
:)
Race is more than just skin colour; intelligence and such also on average differentiate between the races; and if one does not like it in a White country because of "muh racism" go to your own land where you will be accepted.
OhFortunae, you have much to see and learn. Intelligence has nothing to do with race. Neither are any other traits besides skin color and general features. Just because one does well in the maths and sciences doesn't mean they are more intelligent. That has more to do with cultural environment, parenting, and what is considered the social norm for that society.
Racism and the degree to it differs from state to state and even town to town. This is why there is such a disconnect as to just how much our country is racist (real answer is it varies but definitively exists). If we're going to improve as a country (in any aspect), we must continue to progress, not regress. The statement, "go back to your own country", is a short sighted and lazy response that holds us back as a country. If you're asian, technically, they got here first through the land bridge and came back again building the transcontinental railway (this is also most likely why Eskimos look Asian). I've lived in multiple states and regions. Racism absolutely is still a problem in this country and people like you making such statements contribute to that ongoing problem. Also, "white" is not a race... Perhaps if you don't like how we as a country are looking to progress you should go back to your home country? Just stop the nonsense
ohdaUtube It is proven by research that genes determine potential, you idiot; hence mongoloids, Europoids and sub saharan Africans behave differently from each other yet will behave alike with their own people separated in regards with geography - hence we have European expression in Australia for example, sub saharan failure in Detroit, or haiti, or South Africa, Rhodesia etc., etc.
Race, clearly, is more than just skin colour hence facial feautures, hence bone and body structure, hence forensics can determine from a piece of bone whether it was of a negro or caucasoid; hence intellectual differences, hence different average hormone quantities depending on the race. Culture derives from race. Get it, turd.
Factual; the European Clovis people were the first to set foot on the land we todat call America - but even if not, the U.S.A. and Canada clearly were build and maintained by and intended to be, for White people, it is only the last 60 years to be ''celebrated as dieverse'' and a ''melting pot''.
Also, White IS a racial classification you race-deniar, you anti-White genocidal piece of trash.
Hey guys I just happen to stumble upon this channel and I have to say I like it. I am not your target audience but I still enjoy watching and learning from other cultures even if they are from the same country as me.
***** Thanks :-) welcome!
I just want to say how much your words about bullying and discrimination was so spot on. To be not an ignorant back. It was beautiful!
And Mike is super gorgeous. :D
Honestly speaking, Mike looks like Jackie Chan......
The guy on the left is pretty hot lol
Right?
the 1 in the red
I know. I was agreeing.
oh lmfao I thought you meant the one on the right hahahahaha but yeh...mmmmm lmao
im white, tall, blonde, blue eyed, wealthy girl thats never not nice to anyone and i have a good personalty... but, not to hate on my own race or other races, but I just find asian men more attractive, the only attractive white men i see are in movies...
Exactly!
Wanna make blue eyes and yellow skin babies together?
+Keyspirits yes. of course I do. 😁😂😜👌🔥🔥
+xXSkyRelmXx I agree... I'm white and I only really find Asian men attractive any more.. occasionally I'll see a hot white or black guy for example, but it's like hearing a song of a genre you don't personally care for.. it's great and all, it just doesn't make you feel anything..
maybe ur gay lol
asian men look more feminine so maybe thats y :P
I remember after I got out of high school and was starting college and was learning korean that almost every korean girl I spoke to wanted me to introduce them to caucasian boys and every korean guy I had met either stopped talking to me after learning I wasn't Asian or they wanted to have sex with me because there was a rumor that caucasian girls are great in bed.
Most of them said they'd date or have sex with a foreigner but they'd never get serious about one because their parents were against it. Not saying all are like that it was just my experience lol
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Maighdean Gemini, it depends on the Asian guy. I dated only white girls (just worked out that way) till I was in my mid twenties and if she was the right one, I had every intention of marrying her. My parents are straight from Korea and I was born and raised here although I did live in Korea for about seven years. Not every Asian guys think the same way. Shoot, if I were single and not married I'd ask you out. ;) Should approach every guy the same way: get to know them and have a feel as to where it's going. If it's not what you're looking for? Next!
Maighdean Gemini I feel sad for your experience, not for any dating thing, just for the fact that you couldn't find someone who would just converse with you as two human beings, the Korean girls sees you as a leverage to reach white males and the Korean guys either shun you or only sees you as a potential sexual partner. I mean, wtf is wrong with ppl's mind these days, do we have nothing left in our mind for communication but that man/woman thing?
I started out as an Art major, became a Geology major, studied Criminal Justice and them became an EMT, lol, so I understand where you were coming from. I told my daughter, who is graduating high school soon, to take care of her generals first, then think about what she is interested in before deciding on a major.
I have to wake up early tomorrow, but you guys are so funny I cannot stop watching your videos! I'm already addicted. Greetings from South America :)