I have felt guilt for ending certain relationships because they crossed boundaries multiple times. I am learning to build self esteem to trust my decision that that boundary was worth setting.
10:13 men don't lose themselves to relationships, at least not to the extent that we do as women. The day they realize that it's no longer serving them, they won't even pack their clothes. 😂 They just leave. No discussions about it. No bargaining. No closure.
Bruh! This episode is exactly what I needed to hear this Sunday morning! Thank you Muthoni. Nimerudi kuongeza... 😂😂😂Waaah! I did that Matatus thing literally the other day and I felt different. Exercise saying no because people have been testing my boundaries lately. Uwe! Thanks again.
😂😂😂That Matatu thing is real! We gotta learn to prioritize ourselves. It is a start and you can slowly build up before you get to the big things that will feel like you are trying to move a mountain. I'm so proud of you for starting with the matatu thing.
I'm happy to hear you are on the journey of unlearning people pleasing. It can really be hard but just take it one step at a time and if you find yourself back there, don't be too hard on yourself. You are doing it for the first time, it might take some time to adapt to it.
I have felt guilt for ending certain relationships because they crossed boundaries multiple times. I am learning to build self esteem to trust my decision that that boundary was worth setting.
Never let guilt stop you from protecting yourself. Your self-worth is more important.
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10:13 men don't lose themselves to relationships, at least not to the extent that we do as women. The day they realize that it's no longer serving them, they won't even pack their clothes. 😂 They just leave. No discussions about it. No bargaining. No closure.
Right? We need to start moving the same way because the way we've been going about it isn't working at all.
Don't lose yourself in there.
Bruh! This episode is exactly what I needed to hear this Sunday morning! Thank you Muthoni.
Nimerudi kuongeza... 😂😂😂Waaah!
I did that Matatus thing literally the other day and I felt different. Exercise saying no because people have been testing my boundaries lately. Uwe!
Thanks again.
😂😂😂That Matatu thing is real! We gotta learn to prioritize ourselves. It is a start and you can slowly build up before you get to the big things that will feel like you are trying to move a mountain. I'm so proud of you for starting with the matatu thing.
Love love this episode. I can easily compare this with people pleasing, which is sth I'm unlearning
I'm happy to hear you are on the journey of unlearning people pleasing. It can really be hard but just take it one step at a time and if you find yourself back there, don't be too hard on yourself. You are doing it for the first time, it might take some time to adapt to it.
I got a plant because I’m allergic to flowers so far the plant is still alive so that’s good . lol
That was such a great idea. Now that lasts even longer. I love it.
Looking fab Muthoni❤. The three eyes behind you.. wondering whether it's deliberate 😊
thank you. Yes 😊, very intentional.