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Thank you

I will be including them in all the letters I write to myself moving forward

That sounds far. What have you been exploring so far?

I'm glad you're finding it helpful.

Yes I have. These are those blockbusters I used to catch on KTN back in the day and always nice to go back to. I'll definitely be adding Maid in Manhattan to my christmas watchlist, it's been a while

I am so glad you are on this journey with me. I love that you have figured out the bits you want to work on where your dream life is concerned. I believe in you. You will definitely get to do all the things you are capable of just work towards making that happen in small ways that will build up to the big thing. I feel you on that emotional regulation bit, I have started this thing where I count my breathes when my emotions feel dis-regulated. I have noticed that has been helpful. I will keep creating coz I know that these messages are not time bound they can help someone even if they find the videos 2 years after they were made. I will keep creating for those of us who are here, the others will find us on the journey and when they come, we will welcome them.

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I'm glad to know you are enjoying them

Thank you 😊

Thank you so much. I'm glad to hear that this resonated with you.

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Thank you. That's unfortunate but people's reactions still stand so at least we learnt a thing or two about how people think out here.

@ absolutely babes

Exactly! Why would anyone think they can justify it to be honest! It's really terrible out here.

Having grown up in a home where we are 2 girls, no boys, no one mentioned that children were raised differently according to their genders. Gender roles were non-existent in our home tbh.

I'm so glad to hear that. Yes we are taking matters into our own hands and making the rules.

Watching that happen and seeing how different the expectations are is so weird. You don't know why it's happening and what you did to be the one always offering labour while others just chill and enjoy being children.

😂😂😂 Happy pants for the win

@JustDoingLife 💃🥳

Let me look her up

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It is really sad that this is what we are dealing with

Please do. We need to show up in numbers. We need it for our own safety

I definitely will. I'll keep sharing until the day comes.

I didn't lie. It was an episode in self love, self acceptance, self care and seeing yourself all wrapped in one. I'm glad you enjoyed it and hope you picked up that pen and paper.

Thank you so much. Share with those you feel will also feel the same way. I'm glad to know you are enjoying the episodes and picking up some gems too.

It's crazy how those connections happen sometimes! 😂 It feels like courting is a lost art thanks to that accessibility thing. It's like a double edged sword. I would love to meet someone the old school way but at the same time, I don't like to leave my house and when I'm outside, I don't want to be disturbed 🙃 Na pia I don't want to use apps 😂😂😂

Thank you 🙏🏿

Right? They keep telling us tomorrow and that never comes. We are tired of waiting

My pleasure 💕

Yaaaaay! I'm so glad to hear that. It's been helping me make sure I do one self care exercise every week no matter how busy or depressing it gets

Yaaaay! I'm trying to get to that point too. A solo date a week

Woiye... Pole. I hope you have something else that slaps just as much

@@JustDoingLife thankyou :)

I’m so glad you enjoyed it!

That's a great way to spend a morning. Those sunrise rays hit different 👌🏿 so gentle and cuddly. I hope you get to do that soon since we are in the rainy season and the sun has become a littu hard to find in the morning

Thank you. I am so glad to hear you enjoyed it

Thank you

Just remember you are doing it all for the first time so extend yourself grace even as you learn.

@JustDoingLife true ❤️

On point ​@@JustDoingLife

​@@JustDoingLife❤this is lovely honestly

Thank you so much.🤍

💯 sometimes those things were informed by half-truths and withheld info, it's always good to go back and reevaluate.

And we have to learn it and start doing it because that's the hard part. Sometimes we know things and then the story ends there, we should also implement to make sure the women coming after us don't have to deal with the same BS we had to deal with.

Thank you

The space?

Yaaaaay, love to hear it.

I did mine yesterday morning and read it again this morning and it gave me a sense of calm, almost as if I had someone cheering me on. Some sort of hope.

Thank you so much. I'm glad you enjoyed it.

Pole sana. I see how that can be so detrimental to other parts of life too. I hope you are able to manage and don't lose your job.

Such a heavy thing to deal with honestly.