I recently realized that I was living in my masculine. I grew up being encouraged to play lots of sports and to be a provider and not rely on a man and it now feels good stepping into my power as a woman. It feels as though this has been the missing puzzle piece in my whole life so I'm basically retraining my brain. Thank you so much for you videos you're absolutely amazing and love the way you explain things.
I grew up around man, I was the only girl in my family, so even my brothers used to makes me feel bad when I was femenine, now days I realized that being in my masculine energy was hurting myself :"(. This videos are very helpful for me, for healing the girl inside me
Your videos are literally life changing for me. I grew up with lots of negative preconception about femininity, motherhood, and ability to procreate, mainly because of my mother. I was the child resulting from unwanted pregnancy and my mom would talk very negatively about getting pregnant with me. That really affected my perception of what it is like to be a female. Also, within my household, everything was pretty much focused on my Dad which made me fear entering into a relationship with a male. I saw a relationship as something that takes the vitality and energy away from female. Only last year after I have completely cut all ties with family, I really started to see how the relationship with my mom and the family dynamic influenced my view on femininity. Throughout my 20’s my body has been sending me lots of signs but I ignored all of them. I think I was attracted to your video because I felt like it was time for me to find that lost balance again. Thank you so much for this.
your videos are like a reminder for me to always go back to my feminin side.. to accept myself and to learn how to love it.. actually you make me feel that I'm good enough for everything and everyone! thank you so much Jillz ❤
1. 1:18 feeling burnt out 2. 4:00 being controlling 3. 5:20 lack of passion in your current relationship or attracting feminine partners 4. 7:26 struggle with feeling emotions/sensations such as crying or joy or how sunshine feels on the skin 5. 8:54 basing your worth on external achievements
Found your channel yesterday and I am so happy about it, I immediately sent a video of yours to some girlfriends. For years I have only attracted feminine men, I knew I was giving of more maskulin vibes, but I had no idea how to not to 😅. Found out about feminine energy a few months ago and I am already feeling a lot better, but it is very difficult to let go of the control and the urge to always be achieving something. Receiving makes me feel vulnerable. And vulnerability makes me feel unsafe 😅 Long journey ahead, glad to have your videos by my side!
I watched most of your videos this week and I LOVE IT! I love your energy and your vibes and I learned alot from you 🥺🥺🥺 This video exactly what i need cause I decided that this winter will gonna be THE BEST WINTER IN MY LIFE no more depression or low feelings! 💪 and so far so good 😂❤
I have to support myself and work I don't have time for all girly things even though I would like. Being feminine takes time and effort and you have to consciously focus on that. Anyway, I think you're doing a great job Jillz! Wish you only the best!
There is so much to being feminine besides putting time and effort into girly things. You can access deeper parts of your feminine simply by asking yourself how you connect more with your inner feminine in the moment. How sit, talk, drive...it can all be feminine.
Jillz! I love that you mention control as an opposing aspect of the feminine. I resonate with you when you share about "being in the flow". I will keep this in mind! Thank you for another amazing video.
So glad it resonates 💖 Being more in the flow has been so helpful for helping my energy and happiness levels. I'm super sensitive so it's been a big one for me!
God created us uniquely for His purpose. We are living it. Experiencing it, right now. The present really is a gift. I agree with what this message says when it says we feel our best when we are more ourselves. Being ourselves is the gift to the world. Everyone else is a gift to us. If we truly respected the fact, the truth, that everything we're experiencing is a gift to us, everything is being used by God for good, everything is for our benefit. Because that is how God rolls. We must love God to love ourselves. May we all be true to ourselves, and eventually, everywhere we look, we will see and feel pure joy because that's what it feels like to be in the presence of God, confident, alive, awake, aware, present, paying attention, resting, trusting in God. All the good news
A way I am enjoying my feminine energy in my work is typing slower and investing in ergonomics. I recently got a lap desk and it FEELS so much better to type on it :) Fem energy can improve those traditionally masculine areas too.
Thank you for the chapter on control. I think I need to surrender myself more to the natural flow of life and stop fixating on questions such as when will it happen?
I am so thankful to have found your channel. Your videos are so helpful! Full of depth, authenticity, and peace. And you are so beautiful! My heart is so full. May God bless you. Sending you lots of love. 🙏💕
I'm a single mom and I have been for 15 + years. The first couple of years I didn't really date. (Taking care of a newborn and taking the time to make sure I was physically and mentally ready for a relationship, after I got out of a controlling relationship w a cheater.) I can see It's how I unintentionally carry myself that puts some guys off. I'm generally an easy going friendly woman. I don't put up w bs, and I'm not into hookups. Between my work schedule and having a kid, my life hasn't had a ton of free time. Most of my free time I've used for myself. One thing I've noticed is I cross my arms a lot. I've just always found it more comfortable. I'm not trying to send out "back off" vibes. I can't figure out how to hold my arms or hands without feeling super awkward. That I'm sure affects my energy I send out too. I haven't really been able to find some videos about how one should carry ourselves. Do you recommend any?
I had all of these signs a few years ago. I'm convinced it's one of the main reason why I was extremely depressed. 9:35 It really was soul-crushing. I was at rock bottom during my degree study because I put so much attention to achieving high results. When I failed to get 4flat, I felt like I failed as a human being. My god! It was the most masculine years of my life and I hated it. 5 years later I've healed from my depression. I've healed A LOT of my childhood trauma too :)
Super helpful thanks Jillz, definitely tuning into my feminine side is been the most transformative healing experience ever, is worth the effort and pain to break from the known/learnt to the natural/intuitive
Emotional vulnerability is one of our feminine strengths right? What is the best response to the wounded feminines who tell us 'you are too emotional and need to find a way to deal with ur vulnerability' ..for years i use to feel bullied and weak by these comments until i came across the feminine vs masculine polarity. Your videos have been so helpful, Jill.! 💖
My trouble with #1 burnout is how do you stop the expectation to push through no matter what when the world doesn’t give you a choice meaning masculine formed deadlines and intrusive people? I’d hate to have a feminine day to myself when it means ex. I could lose my job. It seems like the women around me are not in line with themselves so they are not accommodating to this and men don’t show any sensitivity to this everyone just thinks you’re being weak.
Im so tired by just being there for my family everybody needs me and I just can't . I need time for myself on top of that my career shifted and its been so exhausting even though im not pressured to do anything but the anxiety part stuck around even on days with nothing to do. how do I break out of that?
I’m a trans woman, and I also have PTSD from serious childhood trauma. I’ve slowly been getting better at being in my feminine energy, but for me it’s incredibly difficult. There are obvious differences in the way that I was raised as a boy. I was taught that my feelings were not of any value whatsoever and that achievement was all that mattered. Also abuse trauma as a child made me live a lifetime in fight or flight. Another key struggle I’m having is the lack of hormone cycle. I’m trying to talk to an endocrinologist about emulating a cycle because as it stands I spend 100% of my time in an ovulatory phase hormonally. Which would coincide with being quite driven I would think, and make it very easy to be in the masculine. I’ve worked through the TBM system much like Jillz has I’m sure but couldn’t find any support there . In fact I seemed to be the only person of transgender experience. I understand that people are probably going to suggest that I’m not a real woman, because this is TH-cam. But I know that being a feminine woman is my path because my heart has always desired it. I see myself now as a pioneer. Someone who is breaking new ground trying to figure these things out so that other feminine trans women may some day also have a better experience. I’ve come up against a ton of resistance. From religion, society, family and my feelings have always constantly been invalidated. I’ve always been seen as “other”, of “less value” and “not enough”. Overcoming inferiority to live authentically is a difficult challenge for me and I’m grateful to have as much universal support as I’ve had. I do believe that I stumbled across your work when I needed it most and I will always be grateful for the help you have given me Jillz.
Jill what if we end up attracting wounded masculines or abusive and agressive like men, scolds us with bad words and get triggered easily no matter how kind and politely we try to explain things? Be it friends or soulmates...how do we handle this and what should i work on more?
Sometimes we can consistently attract these people into our life if we're too critical of ourselves and lack self-love. Not always of course, but start there. And it may be time to start creating better boundaries with people like this ❤️
@@JillzGuerin you should potentially consider if it's something possibly interesting. I feel like lots of ladies don't have affirmative places for community and support for feminine things sometimes. I'd be so nice to have something sort of free flowing talking about feminine things and places ladies can go for guidance or support from the ❤️
Thank you Jillz I feel that my issue is the 3rd one and often comes up in my relationships. My partners say I am too aggressive and pushy in terms of seeking out physical attention from them, its a terrible cycle of me feeling rejected and them feeling all I care about is sex. I was brought up to think its all men wanted but I see in adult like that is not true and that they are more sensitive than I thought. However this may be because I am often in my masculine energy when it comes to my approach in sex. How can I change this?
First of all , u guys should stop defining personality traits as masculine and feminine. These are just traits okay?Being in control gives u power, and a if person doesn't like power then what can I say!! Just say u guys aren't able to handle power and aren't comfortable. But the problem is everything you guys aren't comfortable with ,u guys label them as masculine! That's how u people turned all the good stuffs into male stuffs. And If someone thinks she is good without any success, success is secondary to her ..then okay she is good . 👍 .Lol
another comment.. it's a question actually! I was in a relationship and I didn't know how to express my feelings.. not in words but my ex didn't feel it was real.. and he was right because I suddenly realised that I cannot express my emotions with my body.. eyes.. face.. even with others I sometimes feel like a robot talking kinda embarrassing to say that but is it because of my masculine energy? is it enough to do the steps you said in your "how to activate feminin energy" video?
Those things will help but it sounds like you're just uncomfortable using your voice...this might sound weird but try writing first. If you're upset about something, write down how you feel and everything you're thinking. And you can choose to share that with the person or just use it as a way to gather your thoughts. Sometimes all it takes is a little bit of practice. Just focus on how you feel + why 😊
your videos are like a reminder for me to always go back to my feminin side.. to accept myself and to learn how to love it.. actually you make me feel that I'm good enough for everything and everyone! thank you so much Jillz ❤
I recently realized that I was living in my masculine. I grew up being encouraged to play lots of sports and to be a provider and not rely on a man and it now feels good stepping into my power as a woman. It feels as though this has been the missing puzzle piece in my whole life so I'm basically retraining my brain. Thank you so much for you videos you're absolutely amazing and love the way you explain things.
I'm so glad you're reconnecting back to your feminine again! It's truly such a powerful thing ❤️
Same 🙌🏾
I grew up around man, I was the only girl in my family, so even my brothers used to makes me feel bad when I was femenine, now days I realized that being in my masculine energy was hurting myself :"(.
This videos are very helpful for me, for healing the girl inside me
Definitely need more feminine energy relationships around right now 😭💔 grateful for this video!!
Your videos are literally life changing for me. I grew up with lots of negative preconception about femininity, motherhood, and ability to procreate, mainly because of my mother. I was the child resulting from unwanted pregnancy and my mom would talk very negatively about getting pregnant with me. That really affected my perception of what it is like to be a female. Also, within my household, everything was pretty much focused on my Dad which made me fear entering into a relationship with a male. I saw a relationship as something that takes the vitality and energy away from female. Only last year after I have completely cut all ties with family, I really started to see how the relationship with my mom and the family dynamic influenced my view on femininity. Throughout my 20’s my body has been sending me lots of signs but I ignored all of them. I think I was attracted to your video because I felt like it was time for me to find that lost balance again. Thank you so much for this.
Aw well I'm so glad that you're here 💖💖💖
your videos are like a reminder for me to always go back to my feminin side.. to accept myself and to learn how to love it..
actually you make me feel that I'm good enough for everything and everyone!
thank you so much Jillz ❤
Aw I'm so glad!!! 💖💖💖
1. 1:18 feeling burnt out
2. 4:00 being controlling
3. 5:20 lack of passion in your current relationship or attracting feminine partners
4. 7:26 struggle with feeling emotions/sensations such as crying or joy or how sunshine feels on the skin
5. 8:54 basing your worth on external achievements
Especially the comment about having value above a job, what you do, ect. So true of feminine energy 💗
Yes! So important!! 🙌
Found your channel yesterday and I am so happy about it, I immediately sent a video of yours to some girlfriends. For years I have only attracted feminine men, I knew I was giving of more maskulin vibes, but I had no idea how to not to 😅. Found out about feminine energy a few months ago and I am already feeling a lot better, but it is very difficult to let go of the control and the urge to always be achieving something. Receiving makes me feel vulnerable. And vulnerability makes me feel unsafe 😅 Long journey ahead, glad to have your videos by my side!
I’m so glad you found me!!! Making a transition like this can take some time, but is so rewarding. You’ll get there soon!! 💖💖
Receiving is a vulnerable thing. I think it's really beautiful that you're doing this deep exploration! Keep it up, sister!
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And LOVE that you mentioned about anxiety/depression being from being out of alignment sometimes too!! 🤗
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I watched most of your videos this week and I LOVE IT!
I love your energy and your vibes and I learned alot from you 🥺🥺🥺
This video exactly what i need cause I decided that this winter will gonna be THE BEST WINTER IN MY LIFE no more depression or low feelings! 💪 and so far so good 😂❤
I have to support myself and work I don't have time for all girly things even though I would like. Being feminine takes time and effort and you have to consciously focus on that. Anyway, I think you're doing a great job Jillz! Wish you only the best!
Thank you! It’s all about finding the right balance that works for you + your lifestyle and what makes you feel best! 💖
There is so much to being feminine besides putting time and effort into girly things. You can access deeper parts of your feminine simply by asking yourself how you connect more with your inner feminine in the moment. How sit, talk, drive...it can all be feminine.
It really resonates with my current situation
I really need to balance and tap in my feminine energy!!
Thank you for this video 🥰
Of course!!! So glad it was helpful 💖💖
What are you doing to tap into your feminine energy today?
Jillz! I love that you mention control as an opposing aspect of the feminine. I resonate with you when you share about "being in the flow". I will keep this in mind! Thank you for another amazing video.
So glad it resonates 💖 Being more in the flow has been so helpful for helping my energy and happiness levels. I'm super sensitive so it's been a big one for me!
Is there a male TH-camr with the same message you’re sending but to men?
Thanks Jillz for spreading the light✨
God created us uniquely for His purpose. We are living it. Experiencing it, right now. The present really is a gift. I agree with what this message says when it says we feel our best when we are more ourselves. Being ourselves is the gift to the world. Everyone else is a gift to us. If we truly respected the fact, the truth, that everything we're experiencing is a gift to us, everything is being used by God for good, everything is for our benefit. Because that is how God rolls. We must love God to love ourselves. May we all be true to ourselves, and eventually, everywhere we look, we will see and feel pure joy because that's what it feels like to be in the presence of God, confident, alive, awake, aware, present, paying attention, resting, trusting in God. All the good news
A way I am enjoying my feminine energy in my work is typing slower and investing in ergonomics. I recently got a lap desk and it FEELS so much better to type on it :) Fem energy can improve those traditionally masculine areas too.
I was just telling my husband I want to get a lap desk lol 😊
Thank you for the chapter on control.
I think I need to surrender myself more to the natural flow of life and stop fixating on questions such as when will it happen?
Thank you so much Jillz! This is such a great video. I honestly needed to hear this.
So glad it was helpful!! 💕
Excellent video, Jillz. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you!! 🥰🥰
Wow!! This channel is my everything
So glad you’re enjoying my videos!! 💜
I am so thankful to have found your channel. Your videos are so helpful! Full of depth, authenticity, and peace. And you are so beautiful! My heart is so full. May God bless you. Sending you lots of love. 🙏💕
Aw thank you so much!! ❤️❤️
You're welcome!@@JillzGuerin 🤗❤
I feel I need a bit more feminine energy, thank u for this video 🌷👍🌞
Thanks for watching 😘😘
What are you doing to tap into your feminine energy today?
I'm a single mom and I have been for 15 + years. The first couple of years I didn't really date. (Taking care of a newborn and taking the time to make sure I was physically and mentally ready for a relationship, after I got out of a controlling relationship w a cheater.) I can see It's how I unintentionally carry myself that puts some guys off. I'm generally an easy going friendly woman. I don't put up w bs, and I'm not into hookups. Between my work schedule and having a kid, my life hasn't had a ton of free time. Most of my free time I've used for myself.
One thing I've noticed is I cross my arms a lot. I've just always found it more comfortable. I'm not trying to send out "back off" vibes. I can't figure out how to hold my arms or hands without feeling super awkward. That I'm sure affects my energy I send out too. I haven't really been able to find some videos about how one should carry ourselves. Do you recommend any?
I had all of these signs a few years ago. I'm convinced it's one of the main reason why I was extremely depressed.
9:35 It really was soul-crushing. I was at rock bottom during my degree study because I put so much attention to achieving high results. When I failed to get 4flat, I felt like I failed as a human being. My god! It was the most masculine years of my life and I hated it. 5 years later I've healed from my depression. I've healed A LOT of my childhood trauma too :)
Thank you this video realized me how i'm have a lot of masculine energy and wounded feminine energy
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It’s like you’re reading my mind. This helps so much. Thank you for this
Of course!! So glad it was helpful for you ❤️❤️
Super helpful thanks Jillz, definitely tuning into my feminine side is been the most transformative healing experience ever, is worth the effort and pain to break from the known/learnt to the natural/intuitive
SO transformative 🙌
Emotional vulnerability is one of our feminine strengths right? What is the best response to the wounded feminines who tell us 'you are too emotional and need to find a way to deal with ur vulnerability' ..for years i use to feel bullied and weak by these comments until i came across the feminine vs masculine polarity. Your videos have been so helpful, Jill.! 💖
It is a strength but of course you can go too far with this just like anything. But you don't need to respond! Their opinion doesn't matter lol 😉
This was so good. Great video!!
Thank you so glad you liked it! ❤️
I had a boyfriend that pretty much wanted me to operate from the masculine & be feminine energy when he wanted or it suited him. No crying.
My trouble with #1 burnout is how do you stop the expectation to push through no matter what when the world doesn’t give you a choice meaning masculine formed deadlines and intrusive people? I’d hate to have a feminine day to myself when it means ex. I could lose my job. It seems like the women around me are not in line with themselves so they are not accommodating to this and men don’t show any sensitivity to this everyone just thinks you’re being weak.
Does taking a nap or going for a walk count as listening to my feminine energy?
Yes! Some of my favorite activities lol 😊
Yes! Anything that includes listening to your beautiful body is tuning into your feminine energy!
Your content is so inspiring and life changing, i love these. Thankyou so. Much.
Thank you!! So glad you're enjoying my videos ❤️
This video helps me a lot ! Thank you so much again ♥️
Of course! 😘
Your videos are def eye opening, I recently subscribed and really enjoyed watching them 💕💕💕
Thank you!!! So glad you’re here!! 💖
Im so tired by just being there for my family everybody needs me and I just can't . I need time for myself on top of that my career shifted and its been so exhausting even though im not pressured to do anything but the anxiety part stuck around even on days with nothing to do. how do I break out of that?
Thank you❤
Thank you!! This helped a lot!!
Of course! So glad! 🥰
Like always amazing video 👍🏻
thank you 💖💖💖
I’m a trans woman, and I also have PTSD from serious childhood trauma.
I’ve slowly been getting better at being in my feminine energy, but for me it’s incredibly difficult. There are obvious differences in the way that I was raised as a boy. I was taught that my feelings were not of any value whatsoever and that achievement was all that mattered. Also abuse trauma as a child made me live a lifetime in fight or flight.
Another key struggle I’m having is the lack of hormone cycle. I’m trying to talk to an endocrinologist about emulating a cycle because as it stands I spend 100% of my time in an ovulatory phase hormonally. Which would coincide with being quite driven I would think, and make it very easy to be in the masculine.
I’ve worked through the TBM system much like Jillz has I’m sure but couldn’t find any support there . In fact I seemed to be the only person of transgender experience. I understand that people are probably going to suggest that I’m not a real woman, because this is TH-cam. But I know that being a feminine woman is my path because my heart has always desired it.
I see myself now as a pioneer. Someone who is breaking new ground trying to figure these things out so that other feminine trans women may some day also have a better experience.
I’ve come up against a ton of resistance. From religion, society, family and my feelings have always constantly been invalidated. I’ve always been seen as “other”, of “less value” and “not enough”. Overcoming inferiority to live authentically is a difficult challenge for me and I’m grateful to have as much universal support as I’ve had.
I do believe that I stumbled across your work when I needed it most and I will always be grateful for the help you have given me Jillz.
You got a new candle ❤️ xoxo
Haha yep! 😊
love this!
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I love your style! 👚👗
Thank you!!🥰
excellent videos
Jill what if we end up attracting wounded masculines or abusive and agressive like men, scolds us with bad words and get triggered easily no matter how kind and politely we try to explain things? Be it friends or soulmates...how do we handle this and what should i work on more?
Sometimes we can consistently attract these people into our life if we're too critical of ourselves and lack self-love. Not always of course, but start there. And it may be time to start creating better boundaries with people like this ❤️
Remember our outer world can be a reflection of our inner world. Learn to LOVE yourself and be confident in who you are 💖💖
@@JillzGuerin thank u so much, will be mindful on these aspects!💞
We are surfers.
@jillz you should also maybe consider like a feminine energy Zoom call for ladies sometime! Rewatching this video 😊
That’s such a good idea! 🥰🥰
@@JillzGuerin you should potentially consider if it's something possibly interesting. I feel like lots of ladies don't have affirmative places for community and support for feminine things sometimes. I'd be so nice to have something sort of free flowing talking about feminine things and places ladies can go for guidance or support from the ❤️
@@JillzGuerin also too it'd be nice to speak about things that are totally opposite of our culture! And have it be welcome!
you cannot impress a man by doing what he does anyways...?
Thank you Jillz I feel that my issue is the 3rd one and often comes up in my relationships. My partners say I am too aggressive and pushy in terms of seeking out physical attention from them, its a terrible cycle of me feeling rejected and them feeling all I care about is sex. I was brought up to think its all men wanted but I see in adult like that is not true and that they are more sensitive than I thought. However this may be because I am often in my masculine energy when it comes to my approach in sex. How can I change this?
First of all , u guys should stop defining personality traits as masculine and feminine. These are just traits okay?Being in control gives u power, and a if person doesn't like power then what can I say!! Just say u guys aren't able to handle power and aren't comfortable. But the problem is everything you guys aren't comfortable with ,u guys label them as masculine! That's how u people turned all the good stuffs into male stuffs. And If someone thinks she is good without any success, success is secondary to her ..then okay she is good . 👍 .Lol
Finally somebody said it
another comment.. it's a question actually!
I was in a relationship and I didn't know how to express my feelings.. not in words but my ex didn't feel it was real.. and he was right because I suddenly realised that I cannot express my emotions with my body.. eyes.. face.. even with others
I sometimes feel like a robot talking
kinda embarrassing to say that but is it because of my masculine energy?
is it enough to do the steps you said in your "how to activate feminin energy" video?
Those things will help but it sounds like you're just uncomfortable using your voice...this might sound weird but try writing first. If you're upset about something, write down how you feel and everything you're thinking. And you can choose to share that with the person or just use it as a way to gather your thoughts. Sometimes all it takes is a little bit of practice. Just focus on how you feel + why 😊
@@JillzGuerin maybe you are right.. I'm a little bit shy about how I'm gonna look like while expressing those feelings..
thanks again jillz 💐❤
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My INTJself feels so attacked!
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I hope this video is made for men. If it is for women’s it’s such a miss. You’re giving coward energy
your videos are like a reminder for me to always go back to my feminin side.. to accept myself and to learn how to love it..
actually you make me feel that I'm good enough for everything and everyone!
thank you so much Jillz ❤
Yes - reintegrating our feminine energy is such a gift. Hope you're feeling in the feminine flow today!