Melaine White coming from someone who works at a bank I can assure you that there are plenty of people with little common sense who have this type of money 😩
Look at her face when he breaks it down, she's borderline in tears. She knows she messed, she knows she's being scammed. But she's so mentally..... sad and broken..... that she can not admit it. She does not want to say it aloud and breathe it into her reality. It's like even though she knows its BS, it's her mental safespace, and if she admits its all BS then she'll more than likely have a nervous break down and have to be baker acted.
Magick Miiror But then there’s this: antidisestablishmentarianism. (I can’t take credit for this. I learned this was the longest word in the English language a long time ago. I would cite my source, but I cannot remember it. Funny though, huh?
CutsieFace McGee you don't know that. Sometimes dementia can present in its first days as racism or anti Semitic ideals. A person who was the most open minded and sweet person will all of a sudden turn into someone who does nothing but talk about how much they hate Jews. Sometimes it presents as fervent religiosity, someone who never went to church is all of sudden reading the Bible and saying that god speaks the her. Dementia is a tricky thing. One thing is for certain, this family should have power of attorney over this woman and she needs to be evaluated to find out if she is having brain issues or if she is just an idiot. Either way she need to be controlled before she spends every penny she has and ends up homeless or a burden to her family. I will admit at first glance it appears she's so stupid it makes me want to punch her in face.
@@megaroo6110 I don't think so because she's not the first person on this show who's sending money to different people and not once did he ever mention dementia with her or any of the other people that were doing the same thing she's doing.
CutsieFace McGee but she is the first person to leave the show still half way believing she is going to meet prince charming on the internet. And I didn't say she had dementia, if you read my comment what I said was she needs to be evaluated to see if she had ANY mental issues going on. I was simply giving examples of the symptoms of early stage dementia that aren't commonly known and it's asinine to say she absolutely doesn't have dementia when she hasn't been evaluated. Either way, she needs to be controlled because she's either mentally ill or she's mentally incompetent and she WILL continue to do this because she didn't comprehend why it was wrong. You can see it on her face, she doesn't get it.
All For Jesus absolutely right. These men are completely interchangeable! She doesn't care if one disappears as long as there is a backup. There is as much genuine love on her side as on the scammers.
I honestly feel bad for some of the older generation that might not understand how the internet works... But this lady is just not learning from her mistakes.
It's not because of age...she is also one of those people who would get a letter soliciting money or a phone call from a stranger or the old lost wallet in a parking lot and would fall for it.
Sadly, the older adults in my life (who are younger than her) will believe anything they read on the internet....after decades of warning us that the internet was full of child molesters, scam artists, and viruses. Now they click on anything and believe every meme they see.
yeah, that's why most of those women are doing irrational stuff. It's easy to make fun of them, and I'm not saying it's smart to send money amd belive in every word , but..... loneliness for some people are really really something horrible to deal with. Good she ended up in Dr. Phil show maybe she'll get help.
It doesn't mean, that you are that dumb to give money to a stranger. She looks like a person with less intelligence. Women who solely depend on their husbands, don't know what to do when husband is no more. They are not independent. I don't feel sorry for her at all for losing money.
@Karina Peters Not everyone is you, some people make irrational decisions when overcome with certain emotions, especially loneliness and/or especially over a long period of time.
Aren't solid, healthy relationships based on give and take? These so-called "relationships" are just take, take, take; doesn't that raise any red flags for these people? I mean if a guy is asking me to go hungry and send him my last $5 and let my lights get shut off, I'd think, "Gosh, what a selfish jerk! He calls me his 'soulmate' and 'love of his life', yet he's asking me to put myself in precarious situations all the time." I mean doesn't this lady think, would a general, who has been engrained throughout his career to uphold a particular code of conduct that the military requires, a code of ethics and morals, personal integrity, ask some housewife to leave her 40-year marriage and wipe out her bank account??? She has no sense in her head.
Right! Even if you're in a face to face relationship with someone, it's never supposed to be take take take. When I need help, my boyfriend helps me and when he needs help, I help him. That's how it's supposed to be when you're dating whether it's online or face to face. My boyfriend and I are face to face but you can bet I wouldn't put up with him just taking and never giving and I wouldn't expect him to put up with me if I was doing that. I damn sure wouldn't put up with it from someone online. People need to use their brains.
I've met a few of those scammers. Several I would tell them what they wanted to hear. I've even told them I'd send them money, had them believing I was in love with them and couldn't wait to see them. Then I pissed them off when I let them know I knew their game. I never sent money.
You are so right! 3 yrs ago i got out of a bad relationship, decided i would spend a year or 2 just being with me and my dog. During that time, i started adult coloring, then that took off to me painting and doing all kinds of artsy stuff!
I wanna feel bad for her…but I almost don’t and I feel horrible saying that. Never have I ever seen such a stubborn woman, it’s sad. Reminds me of the lady who thought her own child was the love child between her and Tyler Perry even though they never met 🙄
Worse than that selena i remember that episode and the fake tyler perry told her that they had a child together. She then said she cant remember given birth especially because she hasnt met the guy but it must be true because he said so.
It’s probably the same person scamming her each time. They know her weaknesses and how to get to her. Someone *needs* to gain control of all of her finances. She’s not capable of making logical decisions. She’s delusional. She’s not of sound mind, and I can’t believe her family has let it go on this long.
I wish I could feel more empathy for this woman. I don’t. She is purposely putting herself in this situation over and over again. She’s hurting everyone she loves and she doesn’t care. She is very selfish.
You mourned him for what? 12 hours 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this woman really needs someone to have power of attorney over her so she has zero control over any money she has or is getting
Why?? How many Dr.Phils have we seen with some older person being swindled out of their money by the most obviously deceptive circumstances. I agree with other commentor, dont sympathize over someone's stupidity.
This is quite sad really. Loneliness has driven this woman to actively ruin her own future in the pursuit of potential companionship. Clearly she should not be in control of her finances, if her loved ones knew that she spent $4,300 on gift cards over a one month period for a random person on the internet, they should have stepped in and saved her from herself, they could have spared her the $100,000 loss. She shouldn't have access to her bank account, nor the internet until she addresses her issues and seeks appropriate help. She is wilfully ignorant of the reality of what has happened, and that is because she's desperately lonely.
Pogg that’s all well and good but unless she’s legally declared incompetent by a court (meaning an actual judge) no one can do that against her will. It’s clear her sister and daughter DID try to do exactly that but she refused to cooperate. Sometimes people are their own worst enemies and too stupid and stubborn to be helped. It doesn’t make them mentally ill, just stubborn. In that case there’s nothing legally you can do. I should know, I’m a lawyer who deals with guardianship on a constant basis.
Where does she bank and have her financial accounts? I work in the financial industry - this would be the exact kind of situation we would shut down and restrict her account. So many earmarks of a sweetheart scam. This woman needs to have a trusted power of attorney helping her manage her affairs.
They need to create a mental disorder category for these starved-for-attention catfish victims. They’re obsession and actions are not logical or sane. What would you call it?
This lady seems intellectually disabled. Very few of her replies to anything Dr. Phil has said in any of these clips is an actual reply which makes sense. It’s like she isn’t fully comprehending the entire question.
The saddest part is these scammers aren’t doing much to woo these poor women. They really are just so lonely and desperate for companionship that all the guys have to do is say “hello baby I love you you’re beautiful” twice a day and the women are hooked. They just want some sort of positive affirmation even if it isn’t at all specific to them or who they are as a person.
She wouldn’t be lonely and in this predicament if she had spent some of that money on good marriage therapy and worked it out with her long term spouse.
“Yes, but...” “Yes, but...” “Yes, but...” BUT WHAT. She clearly needs some guidance and tender honesty but, damn, I guess someone else would be better at it than me because she’s driving me insane.
Honestly, Lois seems so easy to scam that we should all just grab a random picture of some stranger off of Instagram and message her lol-- I feel so bad for her daughter and everyone else trying to get her to see sense
It makes no sense that she’s lonely and wants to be with someone when she was already married!!! Lol she already had that. I think a mental health evaluation would be good right about now.
Lady Lowman I mean maybe. Or maybe she had a mental breakdown. Who knows I guess- she just doesn’t seem to be confident in her decisions tho either. So I dunno
@@missychelle33 I can think whatever I think. Everyone can have an opinion. Are you trying to tell me I can't have an opinion? Cop on to yourself. You're a control freak trying to tell random people on TH-cam what they can or cannot think. You just had a thought about me and expressed it
I really wish these videos weren't chopped up. After watching several clips, THIS video finally has the answer. She only got on Facebook in 2018. The woman knows nothing about social media and how the internet works. She's in a questionable marriage and goes through a divorce in the midst of finding this "General" and then finds man after man to fill the void and fill her mind and heart with nonsense. This is EXACTLY why men and women should be alone and work on themselves after divorce but they want to jump into a new relationship to prove themselves loveable and it ends in disaster or dysfunction. She's allowed her loneliness to consume her and she's not willing to accept and forgive herself for any of it. To answer Dr. Phil's questions logically would be to admit the truth. She can't do that because it hurts too much.
Awww man.. when she said she’s lonely and had that weary smile of worry. I feel bad for her. I don’t think she quite wants to believe that she still has no one... that’s got to feel bad having all these people you talk to not be real.. I hope they can sit her down and talk with her gently about this. No need to be stern with her, she’s just feeling alone and lost. You can see it from a mile away
I wouldn’t have the patience to explain such a simple scenario over and over to this lady. I guess I don’t have a big enough heart because her excuses and denial are beyond frustrating. She is so lucky that someone of importance with the knowledge and resources is patient enough with her to not give up and tell her if she wants to be blind and give all her money away then she can do it. I just don’t understand how people can get so far in life being so ignorant
I am suspicious of Dr. Phil's shows. They seem to feel exploitative. She said she did it out of loneliness, which would cue him to try and help her, but he seems to go over that and keep pointing out her flaws. She is already embarrassed! Don't add insult to injury Doc. Phil. Smh
Sad, she's clearly depressed and insecure to the point where she HAS to believe one of these men are real or else she will probably lose her mind and do something horrible to herself.
I was thinking the same thing. her sister and her daughter seem to be huge influences in her life. she doesn't seem so bright. I think in my opinion someone should of been over her affairs along time ago.
2:45 “I would probably tell them to be more cautious online” lady, you sent over $100k to random people, you got family telling you you’re being scammed and STILL don’t get that you’re being scammed with valid proof and evidence 🙄🤦🏾
This woman has something else going on in her head. It's not just the scam, but something healthwise. I hope this poor woman in the sweater is okay, she acts like my grandmother with Alzheimer's, and my grandpa with dementia. I know she's humiliated, but I'm glad her daughter and sis are there for her. She needs help. :(
I don’t know how I’d feel if a part of my life (any part) was broken down and dissected in that amount of detail on national television like her relationship timeline and budget were
I felt it was interestig what Dr Phil said about being your best friend when it comes to logic...can people always be that reasonable when they take decisions?..of course we all should be, it´s nice to remember that parameter. Maybe in life situations almost everybody had experience the feeling of wanting to believe the best out of others. Unfortunately many people don´t have good intentions
He wants her to be logical, but she doesn’t have common sense. She CAN’T be logical.
Confirmation bias :(
Doesn't explain how she was able to have $105k of disposable income.
@@melainewhite6409 None needed. Ex husband, former job, inheritance...
Melaine White coming from someone who works at a bank I can assure you that there are plenty of people with little common sense who have this type of money 😩
Look at her face when he breaks it down, she's borderline in tears. She knows she messed, she knows she's being scammed. But she's so mentally..... sad and broken..... that she can not admit it. She does not want to say it aloud and breathe it into her reality. It's like even though she knows its BS, it's her mental safespace, and if she admits its all BS then she'll more than likely have a nervous break down and have to be baker acted.
For $100,000 you could’ve bought a husband.
For real.
she tried. 3 times
SAY UNCLE!!! That's what she was trying to do🤣
For 1/3 of that she can have me
Well said!!!
When there's money involved, it's a scam. Period!
Exactly!
100% correct
Wait what?
Irritating how ridiculously stupid one can be- sorry but she derserves all the scams
period queen you tell em
I never ever knew that ‘Commonsensical’ was a word.. but it damn well is and I feel so educated rn.
Why not? Nonsensical is.
Though technically I think it’d be two words lol
I like it :) I’m going to be using this!
Disestablishmentarianism is a word too, the longest one I know 😂
@@magickmiiror2853 supercalifragilisticespialidocious
Magick Miiror But then there’s this: antidisestablishmentarianism. (I can’t take credit for this. I learned this was the longest word in the English language a long time ago. I would cite my source, but I cannot remember it. Funny though, huh?
I will never understand people like this
Lonely and stupid are a bad combination
Kelly Henderson good thing I’m only one of those things during quarantine
They’re very lonely and easy to manipulate, and that’s the sad part
@@lovellyrosy true
@@kellyhenderson9972 Is anything paired with stupid a good combination?
Why all I can hear is the General singing, "For a great low rate..."😂😂🤣
...you can go online
Get yourself scammed
And lose every dime!"
Miss Vincent 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 lol love it.
IKR, thinking the same
@@EmoJones13 oh my gosh I'm rolling😂😂😂😂😂
OMG that's me 😅
Plot twist: Her ex husband is all these guys trying to get all her money
lmaooo
🤣🤣🤣🤣
That would be sooo 😄😆🤣😂👻🤡
Honestly... you're probably right though! XD lmmfbao
Hahaha
Explaining logic to an illogical person is like trying to explain colors to a blind person.
I like how Dr. Phil tried to get her to “look over the fence” a different point of view.
Im amused by how hard it was for her to do so.
Many people refuse to look at situations from a different point of view if they want to be right so badly
She’s brain damaged. Maybe some early dementia? She doesn’t grasp what it means to have depleted your entire retirement.
Not dementia. She's fully functional and aware. She's just a stupid idiot. But this is not dementia.
CutsieFace McGee you don't know that. Sometimes dementia can present in its first days as racism or anti Semitic ideals. A person who was the most open minded and sweet person will all of a sudden turn into someone who does nothing but talk about how much they hate Jews. Sometimes it presents as fervent religiosity, someone who never went to church is all of sudden reading the Bible and saying that god speaks the her. Dementia is a tricky thing. One thing is for certain, this family should have power of attorney over this woman and she needs to be evaluated to find out if she is having brain issues or if she is just an idiot. Either way she need to be controlled before she spends every penny she has and ends up homeless or a burden to her family. I will admit at first glance it appears she's so stupid it makes me want to punch her in face.
CutsieFace McGee pay attention to her speech. Something is definitely off
@@megaroo6110 I don't think so because she's not the first person on this show who's sending money to different people and not once did he ever mention dementia with her or any of the other people that were doing the same thing she's doing.
CutsieFace McGee but she is the first person to leave the show still half way believing she is going to meet prince charming on the internet. And I didn't say she had dementia, if you read my comment what I said was she needs to be evaluated to see if she had ANY mental issues going on. I was simply giving examples of the symptoms of early stage dementia that aren't commonly known and it's asinine to say she absolutely doesn't have dementia when she hasn't been evaluated. Either way, she needs to be controlled because she's either mentally ill or she's mentally incompetent and she WILL continue to do this because she didn't comprehend why it was wrong. You can see it on her face, she doesn't get it.
"you mourned him for what, 12 hours" 🤣🤣 gold
Damn, females am I right 🤣🤣 (jk)
💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 he’s a savage
She’s in love with the idea of being in love.
All For Jesus absolutely right. These men are completely interchangeable! She doesn't care if one disappears as long as there is a backup. There is as much genuine love on her side as on the scammers.
I honestly feel bad for some of the older generation that might not understand how the internet works... But this lady is just not learning from her mistakes.
It's not because of age...she is also one of those people who would get a letter soliciting money or a phone call from a stranger or the old lost wallet in a parking lot and would fall for it.
Sadly, the older adults in my life (who are younger than her) will believe anything they read on the internet....after decades of warning us that the internet was full of child molesters, scam artists, and viruses. Now they click on anything and believe every meme they see.
I don't. Natural selection, baby!
You dont have to know how the internet works.
She should know how PEOPLE/men work.
Nothing to do with age, but she may be too old to have been diagnosed with a learning disability. She's clearly not all there
It broke my heart when she said I’m lonely 😔
yeah, that's why most of those women are doing irrational stuff. It's easy to make fun of them, and I'm not saying it's smart to send money amd belive in every word , but..... loneliness for some people are really really something horrible to deal with. Good she ended up in Dr. Phil show maybe she'll get help.
It doesn't mean, that you are that dumb to give money to a stranger. She looks like a person with less intelligence. Women who solely depend on their husbands, don't know what to do when husband is no more. They are not independent. I don't feel sorry for her at all for losing money.
People that get caught in those scam always do because they feel lonely 😢
Barbara Rowley Is a dog gonna lay her on the bed and give it to her?
@Karina Peters Not everyone is you, some people make irrational decisions when overcome with certain emotions, especially loneliness and/or especially over a long period of time.
Aren't solid, healthy relationships based on give and take? These so-called "relationships" are just take, take, take; doesn't that raise any red flags for these people? I mean if a guy is asking me to go hungry and send him my last $5 and let my lights get shut off, I'd think, "Gosh, what a selfish jerk! He calls me his 'soulmate' and 'love of his life', yet he's asking me to put myself in precarious situations all the time." I mean doesn't this lady think, would a general, who has been engrained throughout his career to uphold a particular code of conduct that the military requires, a code of ethics and morals, personal integrity, ask some housewife to leave her 40-year marriage and wipe out her bank account??? She has no sense in her head.
Sara Romero - Dr. Phil couldn't have said that any better himself!
Right! Even if you're in a face to face relationship with someone, it's never supposed to be take take take. When I need help, my boyfriend helps me and when he needs help, I help him. That's how it's supposed to be when you're dating whether it's online or face to face. My boyfriend and I are face to face but you can bet I wouldn't put up with him just taking and never giving and I wouldn't expect him to put up with me if I was doing that. I damn sure wouldn't put up with it from someone online. People need to use their brains.
@@annepurcell4495 Aw thanks, Anne! ❤
@@zombie_queen9336 That's how a healthy relationship should be!
That's because you don't have a screw loose.
I've met a few of those scammers. Several I would tell them what they wanted to hear. I've even told them I'd send them money, had them believing I was in love with them and couldn't wait to see them. Then I pissed them off when I let them know I knew their game. I never sent money.
Good for you!
That's hilarious! Waste their time hunny!!!!
@@positivity4765 that's what they said... Lol. Told me I was wrong for doing them that way..... REALLY?
Then blocked me before I could respond, I lost a few nights of sleep over that.... NOT
Lol you have everything you ever need
This is why you always need to look for a good hobby in your life. You will never feel lonely at any age if you have a strong passion for something.
You are so right! 3 yrs ago i got out of a bad relationship, decided i would spend a year or 2 just being with me and my dog. During that time, i started adult coloring, then that took off to me painting and doing all kinds of artsy stuff!
sam ryon same here! I also started painting and it’s pure joy! Good luck with your art :)
@@svetakus5338 i strated collecting old pokemon ccards,best thing in the world
I started journaling and now I could see how I have progressed the last few months…based on how much I write *and especially how much I skip.*
Being single were the best years of my life when I was in college....
She can’t answer a simple question. It’s so sad.
I wanna feel bad for her…but I almost don’t and I feel horrible saying that. Never have I ever seen such a stubborn woman, it’s sad. Reminds me of the lady who thought her own child was the love child between her and Tyler Perry even though they never met 🙄
Worse than that selena i remember that episode and the fake tyler perry told her that they had a child together. She then said she cant remember given birth especially because she hasnt met the guy but it must be true because he said so.
It's ridiculous how dumb they pretend to be. But these women have worked for FBI or other amazing jobs that take serious brains to do 🤦🤦
She Mrs Perry did my head in with her walking in faith nonsense
It’s probably the same person scamming her each time. They know her weaknesses and how to get to her. Someone *needs* to gain control of all of her finances. She’s not capable of making logical decisions. She’s delusional. She’s not of sound mind, and I can’t believe her family has let it go on this long.
I wish I could feel more empathy for this woman. I don’t. She is purposely putting herself in this situation over and over again. She’s hurting everyone she loves and she doesn’t care. She is very selfish.
"The General" It's a Florida man that sells car insurance lol
Go to the general and save some
Time!
@@missmarymary6506 🤣🤣🤣
Yeah, but I'm sure that General would actually deliver.😁
aaaaaaahahahhahaha
For a great new rate you can get online go to the general and save some time 🤣🤣
I have never seen human who deserves a hug more.
She’s an idiot
I would hug her and then give her a bluddy good shake until she comes to her senses
She’s a moron. I couldn’t trust myself to not slap her.
I agreed until i realized she thought her fiance or whatever died and then started a new relationship the next day.
Dimitra Kupraiou nope he’s right what a moron she is she has no common sense at all
when she said “I’m lonely” ...I felt that
Me too
I feel sorry for her. To say someone will come for her eventually shows she’s lonely & doesn’t ultimately care who “gets” her as long as someone does.
You mourned him for what? 12 hours 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this woman really needs someone to have power of attorney over her so she has zero control over any money she has or is getting
I edited my comment so you could try to find out what it is in the replys
Fr (☞ ಠ_ಠ)☞
777 yeah-
You ain’t lyin😂
fr.mexico from anywhere lol China
5K she can have mine.
I really feel sorry for this woman😞😞😢
Why?? How many Dr.Phils have we seen with some older person being swindled out of their money by the most obviously deceptive circumstances. I agree with other commentor, dont sympathize over someone's stupidity.
Shes dumb
I do too Kwanda. It's a shame that people are this lonely and desperate for love 💔💔💔
"Three days later you're engaged." Lois lady:Okay with him disappearing and switiches to the Morris guy.
This is quite sad really. Loneliness has driven this woman to actively ruin her own future in the pursuit of potential companionship. Clearly she should not be in control of her finances, if her loved ones knew that she spent $4,300 on gift cards over a one month period for a random person on the internet, they should have stepped in and saved her from herself, they could have spared her the $100,000 loss. She shouldn't have access to her bank account, nor the internet until she addresses her issues and seeks appropriate help. She is wilfully ignorant of the reality of what has happened, and that is because she's desperately lonely.
Pogg that’s all well and good but unless she’s legally declared incompetent by a court (meaning an actual judge) no one can do that against her will. It’s clear her sister and daughter DID try to do exactly that but she refused to cooperate. Sometimes people are their own worst enemies and too stupid and stubborn to be helped. It doesn’t make them mentally ill, just stubborn. In that case there’s nothing legally you can do. I should know, I’m a lawyer who deals with guardianship on a constant basis.
When the commercial said "Go to the general & save some time" that's not what they meant
No Facebook for you, missy.
Havin' Fun Hahahahahaha Hahahahahaha Hahahahahaha 😂
Where does she bank and have her financial accounts? I work in the financial industry - this would be the exact kind of situation we would shut down and restrict her account. So many earmarks of a sweetheart scam. This woman needs to have a trusted power of attorney helping her manage her affairs.
Something is wrong with this woman. Thank goodness her daughter escaped that fate.
this is what loneliness does to some people
*ME STRAINS EYES THROUGH TIREDNESS* YAYAY DOCTOR PHIL
5am and here I am
I feel bad for this lady because she was catfished and her heart strings were tugged at
Plot twist: the general was just trying to sell her car insurance 💁♂️
How does someone this delusional even have $100k+ to spend on men
They need to create a mental disorder category for these starved-for-attention catfish victims. They’re obsession and actions are not logical or sane. What would you call it?
She is lonely and is showing signs of codependency. It's a sickness that can be severely devastating.
She will continue to get scammed.. 🤦🏻♀️
Ahh yes doctor Phil at 4 in the morning
Someone needs to step in and save this woman from herself cause she is absolutely insane
This lady seems intellectually disabled. Very few of her replies to anything Dr. Phil has said in any of these clips is an actual reply which makes sense. It’s like she isn’t fully comprehending the entire question.
The saddest part is these scammers aren’t doing much to woo these poor women. They really are just so lonely and desperate for companionship that all the guys have to do is say “hello baby I love you you’re beautiful” twice a day and the women are hooked. They just want some sort of positive affirmation even if it isn’t at all specific to them or who they are as a person.
I feel sorry for that lady.... she seems to have a lot of issues
Are we going to talk about the “common sensical”
She is so detached from reality, so far into her fantasy that she is incapable of seeing the truth.
She wouldn’t be lonely and in this predicament if she had spent some of that money on good marriage therapy and worked it out with her long term spouse.
You don't know her story and a marriage therapy needs the two persons to want it to work. Which isn't always the case sadly.
Yesssss
@@beepboop7090 My point was, it would have been worth a good try first. Seems she got divorced because she was messing around with men online.
Captcha Neon see how you said seem. It's easy to assume the worst when we know close to nothing about someone
Some psych help and a Caribbean cruise, maybe.
How delusional can someone be?? She doesn't want it to be true and it's aggravating to watch
My God this is painful to watch.😕
"you mourned him for what, like 12 hours?" 😂
And she actually says "no" in some phased out look.
This lady must be very depressed and cant think straight or just incredibly naive. Or Something is not clicking right on the Reality realm.
I've never seen somebody throw their hands up and say "oh well" so many times lol
I feel sorry for the poor woman. She's so desperately lonely.
“Yes, but...” “Yes, but...” “Yes, but...” BUT WHAT. She clearly needs some guidance and tender honesty but, damn, I guess someone else would be better at it than me because she’s driving me insane.
this is the saddest excuse for a human I have ever seen in my life
Imagine being this CARELESS with money 🤨
This is so sad she really doesn’t get it Smh
Honestly, Lois seems so easy to scam that we should all just grab a random picture of some stranger off of Instagram and message her lol-- I feel so bad for her daughter and everyone else trying to get her to see sense
She's not all there!
A young teenage girl who doesn't know better in an older woman body.
I think it's the same person or a group of people scamming this woman.
It makes no sense that she’s lonely and wants to be with someone when she was already married!!! Lol she already had that. I think a mental health evaluation would be good right about now.
Maybe it was a loveless marriage or he abused her. Something happened in that marriage for her to snap like that
Lady Lowman I mean maybe. Or maybe she had a mental breakdown. Who knows I guess- she just doesn’t seem to be confident in her decisions tho either. So I dunno
I don't think it's a mental health issue. I think she has learning disabilities
@@uyoebyik i don’t think ur qualified to say that.
@@missychelle33 I can think whatever I think. Everyone can have an opinion. Are you trying to tell me I can't have an opinion? Cop on to yourself. You're a control freak trying to tell random people on TH-cam what they can or cannot think. You just had a thought about me and expressed it
Sounds like she needs adult services helping her.
My God. If loneliness makes you so stupid you are more to blame than the scammers. Get a kitten.
I really wish these videos weren't chopped up. After watching several clips, THIS video finally has the answer. She only got on Facebook in 2018. The woman knows nothing about social media and how the internet works. She's in a questionable marriage and goes through a divorce in the midst of finding this "General" and then finds man after man to fill the void and fill her mind and heart with nonsense. This is EXACTLY why men and women should be alone and work on themselves after divorce but they want to jump into a new relationship to prove themselves loveable and it ends in disaster or dysfunction. She's allowed her loneliness to consume her and she's not willing to accept and forgive herself for any of it. To answer Dr. Phil's questions logically would be to admit the truth. She can't do that because it hurts too much.
Awww man.. when she said she’s lonely and had that weary smile of worry. I feel bad for her. I don’t think she quite wants to believe that she still has no one... that’s got to feel bad having all these people you talk to not be real.. I hope they can sit her down and talk with her gently about this. No need to be stern with her, she’s just feeling alone and lost. You can see it from a mile away
Tell her Dr Phil, save her money and her life! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Her delusions are unmatched, it’s sad but that’s what loneliness can do to a person
Lot's of people are lonely but they're not stupidly optimistic like she is
Omg well that is totally fu*ked up right there. She was ready to fend this scammer :(( Very sad :(
I feel like someone’s gonna show up for me soon...
Me: yea the GRIM REAPER.
Some people are just stupid no matter how much logic you throw at them they will still be stupid. She is one of those people
she's to far gone
Loneliness causes people to behave in a most desperate manner. It's extremely saddening.
I wouldn’t have the patience to explain such a simple scenario over and over to this lady. I guess I don’t have a big enough heart because her excuses and denial are beyond frustrating. She is so lucky that someone of importance with the knowledge and resources is patient enough with her to not give up and tell her if she wants to be blind and give all her money away then she can do it. I just don’t understand how people can get so far in life being so ignorant
And dr Phil just keeps mocking her in public. I don't that's the right way to help her
I am suspicious of Dr. Phil's shows. They seem to feel exploitative. She said she did it out of loneliness, which would cue him to try and help her, but he seems to go over that and keep pointing out her flaws. She is already embarrassed! Don't add insult to injury Doc. Phil.
Smh
Somminvested in the delusion. She doesn't want to be wrong. Doesn't want to be seen as or think she's been foolish.
Omg her family needs to granted power of attorney over her. And take her access to that much money and any electronic devices from her.
He asked the same question like 6 times before she answered him properly.
I just feel so bad. When she says she just wants someone promising in my life cause she is lonely that hurt me
Sad, she's clearly depressed and insecure to the point where she HAS to believe one of these men are real or else she will probably lose her mind and do something horrible to herself.
If you start talking to somebody and they they ask you for money straight away should that be a red flag ding ding ding
I honestly think this woman has learning difficulties.
I was thinking the same thing. her sister and her daughter seem to be huge influences in her life. she doesn't seem so bright. I think in my opinion someone should of been over her affairs along time ago.
I’m sorry but how did this woman accumulate that money in the first place.. ok..maybe inheritance
I really do be watching Dr Phil early for once instead of videos from three years ago
Damn I wish I had 100, 000 just laying around that I could give away to someone, that’d fix all my problems
"you have to be your own bestfriend here." i hope there's a Dr. Phil in the Philippines too. NOT an RTIA. ahaha
Lonliness is very sad
2:45 “I would probably tell them to be more cautious online” lady, you sent over $100k to random people, you got family telling you you’re being scammed and STILL don’t get that you’re being scammed with valid proof and evidence 🙄🤦🏾
This is just so very sad. I feel so bad for her. 😔 💙
That lady has no idea what a run on sentence is much less where she is.
She doesn’t want to hear it. Maybe when she goes totally broke?
This is why you talk on the phone and online, and see their *real face* .
It's probably the same person tricking her over and over again
This woman has something else going on in her head. It's not just the scam, but something healthwise. I hope this poor woman in the sweater is okay, she acts like my grandmother with Alzheimer's, and my grandpa with dementia. I know she's humiliated, but I'm glad her daughter and sis are there for her. She needs help. :(
I don’t know how I’d feel if a part of my life (any part) was broken down and dissected in that amount of detail on national television like her relationship timeline and budget were
How do off-balanced people like this have that kind of money ($100k) in the first place?
I felt it was interestig what Dr Phil said about being your best friend when it comes to logic...can people always be that reasonable when they take decisions?..of course we all should be, it´s nice to remember that parameter. Maybe in life situations almost everybody had experience the feeling of wanting to believe the best out of others. Unfortunately many people don´t have good intentions