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@13:06 My Pinay wife was 40 years younger. I never experienced any resentment or judging from PI peoples. Back in the US though we experienced lots of negative assumptiive behavior from American women. Men never, just envy. I'd tell those Karens their attitude is why we older esteablished and fed up men go to Asia where women still are women, not the obnoxius whales prevalent in the States.
@17:00 Worldwide and thoughout time, women always look for security, first for themselves, then for children they may have. It's well known that women marry up the social status not down. Men don't care nearly as much about status. We're visual animals. A beautiful poor girl is just as if not more desireable than some spoiled brat rich girl regardless of her looks.
Extremely interesting, educational and fair from you Pea, to show the “other side of the mirror”. Brownie points for you to present diversity, but also to give a voice to your males compatriots, that are often ignored on other channels. Once again you surprised, entertained and informed your lucky subscribers. Thank you for all your efforts. 👍😊
@21:29, For Paul.. That "Pump and Dump" you're talking about is not just in your culture. The majority of children born in the US now are to unmarried women.
As an American, living in Bacong and in a relationship with a Filipino, this video was very refreshing. These 3 young men, gives me hope there is a bright future for this world. As a foreigner, it also upsets me when i see someone from another country, being arrogant and forgetting they are not in their country and need to respect the Philippines and the Filipino people. Blessings to these 3 young men.
Those guys have their head together. My Philippine woman is only a few years younger than me and I'm 57. So young age is not a priority for me. Also one other advantage Philippine men have is Japanese women are attracted to them. :-) Westerners wouldn't even be given the time of day from them. LOL
@@TheFilipinaPea this is why your beautiful country will thrive and flourish when others are sinking, without even realising it, lost in ridiculous, destructive and totally pointless, endless and petty negative arguments.
These guys are so polite that it’s obviously difficult for them to say anything negative about others. They value “telling it like it is,” but they’ve been thoroughly trained not to do so if it’s negative. They are as endearing as Filipinas. I wish them the best of luck in finding kind wives.
of course no native men like when foreign men come to their country and "take" their young women . that is a natural feeling/reaction , men in the entire world feel the same way . the best way to approach this issue as a foreigner is to show you are polite , not vulgar , and your intentions are good , not overstepping any bounderies of local culture and sort of blend in .
@@darkglobe406. I'm an American black and I'm okay if some foreign guys come and take the majority of our black females. 😅 Oh.. man. They are so difficult.
It’s so good that you are bringing out Filipino men and their aspects and feelings about dating and foreigners!! Good on you👍🏼❤️❤️ To me, as a foreigner male, it is just important to know male concepts of foreigners when coming to their country. Everyone is important to know about when you visit or experience a different culture! Salamat Po Pea!
I am from Canada and i was raise to be very respectful to people, the world today as gone mad, one of my main reason to want to retire to the philippine is how people are they look like very kind and nice people and i feel i would fit perfectly there.
Not all pimp....some men talk cash sh!t within earsh"t especially if they size you up and think they can whip your a$$ or have a sh*t or know they can get you kicked out of the country. Soooooooo yeah
@M J I had the same experience in Japan and Korea older people but I came with respect which made them get an idea "oh he knows, he has manners and respects his elders". Every other person gave me a suspicious side eye
these guys are awesome so freindliest people in the world I have Philippines partner and she is amazing I could never fault any of them they are without doubt the most freindliest people on earth love them all what nice guys
Another great video and great perspective from the local men. They all seemed like stand up guy's and I respect how they view things. The one thing that stood out to me was the one guy saying that just like some foreigners can be assholes, so can Filipinos, we're all human and have good day's and bad days. To me the moral of the story is no matter where you're from, treat people how you want to be treated.
Wow, you gentlemen are so nice and open minded. My deepest respect, looking so much forward to visiting your amazing country ❤ regards jannick, Denmark 🇩🇰
I have two daughters and I would be proud for them to go out with any of these guys. They are open minded, educated and appear to respect women. Great video!
I am an Aussie and a regular visitor to the Philippines (well I was pre-virus). Nothing pisses me off more than seeing another foreigner there bragging how their country is better. It occasionally happens and it is just embarrassing. He is very right with the good and bad in everyone. Have met both here, have met both in the Philippines. I've got some very good friends over there. Overall, the vast majority of Filipinos are absolutely awesome. The country as a whole is awesome. Miss it greatly.
Nice piece with the men. I'm 24 years older than my asawa. When we met,(in person in the Philippines) we clicked right away. Most of her friends were older. I thank God for her everyday. She checked all the boxes. (i put her to the test) We've been together 10 years now, married eight. Happy beyond words!
What amazing people . Tolerant when men of most cultures will say sarcastic comments when asked these questions . They seem friendly , intelligent and tolerant . And special thanks to Filipina Pea and i am sure philippines will grow to even greater heights with such youth . A big hello to all of you from india .
Wow, the Philippine’s men perspectives, this was FANTASTIC Pea! I’ve always wondered how us foreigners were viewed by some of the country’s men. We are so focus on the women that it’s rare to consider the mindset of anyone else.
I was in Manila and Davao three years ago. Beautiful country. Loved it. People are awesome 👏 always polite. Very helpful. Can’t wait to get back. Great video. Three nice guys.
These guys are very well spoken, and their English is great! About the complaining (because I was recently there and will return), it’s not that we think your Country is bad as we love a lot of aspects of it, it’s just certain parts, such as the traffic sucks in the big cities. Nice interview and I wish these guys good luck in their futures!
@@TheFilipinaPea And you're used to it. For us these are cold water in the face shocks that take some adjustment. Vocalizing is part of that adjustment. But these things are miniscule. Like making conversation about the weather.
My only 2 complaints about the Philippines are: 1. Internet is SLOOOOOOOW. I was there in 2018 and the best speed I was getting in Antipolo is 1.4Mbs. I guess I've been spoiled in the states with 1Gbs wired and 950Mbs on my phone. 2. Lack of etiquette with regards to waiting in line by only a few people. When pulling into a driveway to the mall for example, I have the right of way. Yet someone else would turn left right in front of me from the other direction. They won't even wait for me to complete my turn, but they will cut me off despite me being there first and I have the right of way. Then there are lines. I was ordering food at Greenich (I think that's what it's called) and this woman clearly jumped right in front of me and started to order. What's ironic is that the woman taking the order didn't call her out. She continued to take her order despite acknowledging me. I couldn't let this go. I got in between them and said, "Excuse, I am next. Why would you cut in front of me? And you, you saw that I was next yet you proceeded to take her order?" Neither of the women said anything. The woman that cut in line just said "Ah, ok". Same with the cashier. She just said, "What can I get for you?" No apology or acknowledging their mistakes. To add to that people were looking at me as if I'm the bad person. The instigator. I know this isn't all of the Philippines but in the 3 weeks I was there, it happened to me at least 12 times. People cutting in line. I called people out about 8 of those times. My wife was restraining me and telling me to "hayaan mo na". Such thing has happened to me in the USA. But not 12 times in 3 weeks! Filipinos pride themselves with good manners and respect. It sure doesn't show at certain times.
@@Mr-Clark It can be annoying to foreigners, when people jump the queue, and the slow internet is really frustrating, …BUT you need to remember that you’re in a poorer country than your own, and with that comes lower quality. You also need to adjust your high standards to the ways of a different culture. Don’t live there if you can’t adjust, or you will be unhappy and a constant embarrassment to your wife, and that will only damage your relationship.
@@brianp6097 The internet I understand. Less developed... makes sense. But good manners knows no social status. Rich, middle class or poor... can be courteous if they choose to.
I panicked when I first opened this video, because I initially thought you'd chosen 3 ugly Filipinas to interview, but then I realised they were 3 handsome dudes 😂😎
I think that old white men that date young Filipina women are super creepy. I feel bad for the Filipina because she is poor and the main reason why she is with the old man is for his security, ie: money
I like your interview, I am an American and I have visited your country twice now. Once in 2018 and 2019. The men you choose spoke very honestly and I actually agree with every perspective that they shared. Salamat po
Insightful video. Really helps other men get the masculine point of view that we need from other men, particularly from men of that culture. Thank you.
It is not the money, the cash that most Filipinas are after. It is a way out of poverty and help for their family that they want. For the older men it is not a young beautiful body that we are looking for. The newness and excitement of any woman's body wears off with time. It is the feeling of being young again that a young woman gives to an older men. A new lease on life when we thought our life was winding down. It does not take long for love and respect to grow. Both parties need to be loved and respected. Both bring something much more meaningful to the relationship then money or sex.
Peas blog is right, James,many gals there find the foreigner to be different,& attractive, as we find them,& the illusion of security helps,as you said with the family,my Asawa who's been a OFW in more than one country says, notice if it were not about the bucks also,why there doesn't seem to be older rich Pinoy men being chased,,says they want out of the country also, I think, the cultural mistique is lost on them over the foreigners, I'm happy for all us lucky Western guys, Cheers 🥂💓🇵🇭🇨🇦
Awesome video. When i was in the U.S. Navy, i had a fhillipino friend and he took me to his home and it was awesome because it was during the Holidays and they all were awesome and so friendly. Wow such a family oriented attitude. Also now that i am older i still have a fhillipino friend and he is one of my best friends.
Personally, What I really love about the Phillipine's is the culture of respect, honor, being family oriented, high morals about marriage, and the warm climate.
I think your interview videos show how welcoming and friendly in general everyone is there. That’s why people visit or even stay permanently. I think when you mix cultures it breaks down myths and barriers between us. I really enjoy the interviews you do like this. keep up the good work and have a great day.
I like Pol, he operates with confidence and has an abundance mindset. I wish more foreign men going to the Philippines had his confidence. I think every guy that moves here should make a Filipino best friend. I have a few, (besides the men in my family) and they really make my experience here better. It's good to have a local man's perspective and insight sometimes, often they see things that your Filipina may not. It's not hard to find guys with common interest in the city, well, at least it wasn't when I was in metro manila.
⭐⭐⭐ These 3 guys are really well spoken and considering there age are extremely mature, this highlights how education is what helps create well adjusted and balanced people no matter there culture or country. And all 3 of these guys work to better there lives and inturn will be able provide a stable and loving home for there partners and children, therefore helping to break the cycle of poverty in the Philippines, you guys should be proud. You are all funny and have some good things to say, I can't wait to see part 2 and we all know what was whispered between the 3 of you guys when Pea asked what filipina like about foreigner 😅. I cant wait to see more. And if you read this miss Pea we would all love it if even after part 2 you got these guys back more regularly, especially if you done a special sit down 2 episode with these 3 guys and Angel and the girls all together as I know there would be some fun conversations to be had there with you miss Pea and the 6 of them. 🙏🤣. ⭐⭐⭐ Wolf man x
Hello Pea, this is a great video. I’ve watched other videos and heard others saying that Filipino guys don’t like foreigners dating Filipinas. This is a great illustration of what Filipinos think in general about foreigners and not all Filipinos hate foreigners. I believe the Philippine culture is all about good hospitality, friendship.
Nice interview Pea. As an American dating a Filipina in Caloocan, I wondered what the men there are thinking. Part 1 provided a lot of information. Your questions excelled. I hope the Philippines reopens soon.
In part one (1) pretty interesting point of view of young Filipino men in their 20"s ... can't wait to see part 2 on Friday . You really know how to keep my focus attention on interviews.
What you are doing to help us understand each other is extremely important and appreciated, this helps everyone to be mindful of how we treat each other, at the end of the day we are all in this together, so let's continue to learn like and love✌️
I’m glad you appreciate it, Bobby, and that’s my overall mission, exactly 👍 I could do videos about me walking around and showing what I ate for dinner, but ….. why??
Roy Jones Roy just wanted to know what you like for dinner in case he happens to be around you he will know what you enjoy for dinner. Roy I know I seen her eating thin sliced steak fried then wrapped in lettuce like a burrito here. If that helps.
I absolutely loved this video, and I pressed 'play' with reservation; (because I have become so focused on the female perspective I guess) I couldn't surmise that I would glean so much insight and confirmation as to how Filipinas differ from other women, and in other ways stand under the same umbrella with all women. This was a very welcome surprise for me. Thanks Pea, and well done.
Excellent Pea, as a Western man who has never been to the Philippines, YET ! I would be more than happy to spend time in the company of these fantastic young men. This is the first time I have heard the opinions of Filipino men. They have a great attitude and are very respectful towards others. You and there families should be really proud of these young men. I can’t wait to come to the Philippines as I think my nature would fit in perfectly there. You have such a beautiful culture and lovely people. We in the west could learn a lot from your culture. As for the attitude of, “we have the best country”, everybody THINKS they are from the best country. We should be looking to see and find what is great in every country. I really enjoyed listening to the guys, it lets us here there views and I really respected there views and thoughts. Great vlog guys and Pea should spend more time with you guys. RESPECT from the west. Another great vlog Pea.
Not sure why people insist on saying their country is the best. My immediate reaction is "oh really so you've explored everywhere else??" I just never understood that ignorant mindset as a U.S. citizen
@@greg2999 Insisting and rubbing in the face is an issue, but there are objevtive factors to grade countries. So there are top tier countries and low tier countries no doubt, but the arrogance is the problem. You should look up HDR (Human developpment Index) of certain countries.
I really like it when you interview people on you chanel, and it was great to hear the guy's point of view. Kudos to all of them for being so open about their opinions.
A really good topic, I enjoyed listening to the 3 Pinoy guys honest opinions; more foreign guys need to be more confident about how Filipino guys regard us there. I can only speak for myself in saying that far from looking down on Filipinos, I respect them for their humility and ability to make the best of any situation. We can learn a lot from each other even tough our cultures and lifestyles are different.
This was a refreshing interview. I appreciate the honesty and candidness these gentlemen brought. Relationships are kind of the same everywhere. Great video.
This was a good conversation! I wish I could have sat down with the four of you and had time to contribute to all of the topics covered. It's so hard now days to have a good heart felt talk between people with out getting offended. This coming from a 56 year old guy who is straight forward and honest. I don't believe in pulling verbal punhes. If you claim your an adult then be an adult one day I hope to make it to your country because I have many friends from the Philippines and deep down inside we know we are all the same.
Pea. I am hooked on your channel. Hands down, you are the best!!! What I love so much about your channel is first and foremost you are a philipina and no subject (minus political issues) is off limits. Your content provides us foreigners with an accurate outlook of the life of Philippines. This is a classic example. Keep up the great work. (Still gloating over the 40s ladies interview, a masterpiece).
The guy in the middle is a character I'd bet his really funny after a few san migs.I admire the strong bakada friendship between men their it makes the guys really happy and I've not seen such closeness in the west between men I certainly wouldn't share a glass of beer 😀
I have to tell you that as I’ve been watching your channel for some time I’ve noticed your confidence and skill at interviewing and keeping a good flow is continually improving. I’ve always enjoyed your work. I can also say that I am enjoying it more and more these days. Props to you. I look forward to watching you grow even more in the future. I will also say that I started working with Filipinos many years ago here in Silicon Valley. At the time I found that I had to be careful working with some (just some) Filipino men because they weren’t good at following through with a job. At the same time, I developed a great respect for Filipino women. They worked very hard. And, yes, they were also beautiful. I remember one Filipina early on that was here in the U.S. working and saving up so that her husband could join her here. Her diligence at work and faithfulness to her far away husband was simply amazing. It is because of her that I’ve always had a soft spot when it comes to Filipino women.
Very good interview with these three gentlemen, they showed a lot of maturity. And they gave their true feelings and answers to your questions. Now on the other hand I have experienced issues with some of the not so intelligent men or the not responsible man I shall say. Because one of them joked about me being a grandpa to my wife. In the rest of the guys laughed when they won the basketball court. But I just looked at that as immaturity and a sense of ignorance. But honestly I didn't take it personal, but it made my wife very upset. Come to find out she knew those guys. And as a result of other things I'm no longer with her after I found out what she was doing for the whole 5 years we were together. Excellent interview with these guys I'm looking forward to the next one. If you have not already interview them could you ask them about how do they feel about black men being with the Filipino women. Thanks Pea❤
As a foreigner we complain because we are stressed or not knowing the way things are. The most common is dealing with government offices and paperwork. It takes forever to get things done
Ms. Pea. Thank you very much for this video. It is very rare to here Filipino men's perspective and it is very refreshing. As a male looking to retire in the Philippines in the about 3-5 year it is great to hear the male point of view (POV) on foreigners and not just the women's POV. Thanks again and look forward to more great content.
Honest Guys. ❤ Keep going with the interviews Pea, get the older generations views on foreigners, say 60+ lolo's, will be interesting to see if their views are different to these guys. 😀
It's nice to get a fresh perspective of things from the guy's point of view. I get wrapped up in the video and then we have to wait for part 2. I always say, "She did it again!" But it's OK lol
Pol is a very smart man, i especially agree with his comment about the complaining. If you feel the need to complain about the Philipines, then why are you there!! Well done Pea.
Thank you for sending out positive messages and information. I was recently discouraged by a ex Pat blogger who said women were only interested because of mens size. Keep up the professional work.
I think there was a specific cultural difference brought up there - the guys were all being polite when they spoke about complaining foreigners but I really think it's quite ingrained in western culture, certainly in the UK. Complaining as well as comparing your success to your neighbours (keeping up with the Joneses) is somewhat of a national passtime. I remember when I was a lot younger visiting Florida where I got chatting to a woman I met in a mall there - she was originally from Manchester however she moved to USA as she didn't like the weather (too much rain) - she originally lived in New York but left there because it was too cold in winter - when I met her she was in Florida in summer complaining about it being too hot - some people really struggle to focus on the positive things in life. I think the 3 guys there seem to be quite comfortable with who they are and accepting of others
My first thought when reading this was a conversation with a young lady in Florida some years ago. We were working in a back office of a small engineering firm with only fans to cool things down. The owner said she was thinking of putting air conditioning back there. When she left, my work partner said she hoped that never happened, and I asked why. She said she grew up in Michigan and was cold a lot as a child and swore she would go to Florida and never be cold again, and did it. She said she didn't have A/C in her house or her car and loved the heat. I didn't feel quite the same, but thought, How awesome that she likes and appreciates this! That was about 30+ years ago and has been a reminder to me ever since, to appreciate the good points of my conditions. I grew up in western South Carolina and we had a lot of "halfbacks" who moved from the northeast to Florida, said it was too hot and moved halfway back, many into the Carolinas, where they still complained about everything...
Hi there! I’m a Filipino American in California. I enjoyed this video. I’ve always wondered what the locals think about me when I’m there. Very informative! Maybe you should do a quick video with three foreigners and ask them the opposite point of view. Thanks Pea for great content! Loyal viewer here 🙏🏻
I can't express how much I enjoyed this video. I would have thought that I, myself would enjoy your interviews with the women more but this one kept me focused. All three of the men were good but Pol was fantastic! He is definitely a 'keeper'. He was fun and straight forward. Full of life. Make sure he tells you what he shared with the other two about why Filipinas look for foreigners. I believe I know what he was saying to them and I suspect you guessed at the time or when you edited the video. Another great one Pea. Salamat po.
You are unbelievable. Another great interview with 3 intelligent Filipinos. The guys were great, just like the women you interview. How do you find these quality folks?
Thank you for sharing the male perspective. When I think of the Filippino man, the machismos culture of the Spanish come to mind.. I would say from my experience the males in the country are very considerate of me most of time. But when drinking with the alpha males there was some tension... But in all, I love visiting and enjoying the culture of the country.. It has made me a better person from the exposure. Something positive I can share with others here in America. Be Blessed Pea !
These are descent young men who have a great attitude. there opinions so far match exactly with what my GFs nepherws told me when i asked how they felt about western men dating Filipinas. i wish these guys a great future
I am impressed that these young men speak so openly about their views. They are articulate and open-minded, seems more so than Westerners. This is what I like about Filipinos, at least the few Filipinos I have seen or I have met.
As an American, I see no difference in these 3 young men and three young American guys I might select for a similar interview. Phrases like "but not always", "each person is different", "it depends on the individual". Qualifying terms. Letting us know, not all Filipinos feel that way and not all foreigners are the same.
Great guys, very intelligent and insightful. A refreshing change to the other channels pleading for foreigner boyfriends, or Tik Tok nonsense. We don't see enough of developing aspirational younger side of the Philippines.
Very nice interviews! Nice people. Again, Filipino Pea, you are such a GREAT communicator. Where I live, we deal with a lot of foreigners from Mexico or more south. (I live in Texas, USA) For me, remembering, believing, we are all MADE BY GOD and much loved by Him, influences my attitudes towards all.
Great words Tammy, Wholeheartedly agree...I ran Texas Air Freight, and Benchmark, as the operations manager for many years... They are gone now, but I have my cherished memories of The State of Texas, btw Love your Governor...
Mexicans aren't really foreigners in Texas. They've been there longer than any other peoples on the planet. Sure, borders got drawn up and changed over time, names of places changed, but the people who are now known as Mexicans have always been there.
I think they all seek comfort, security, loyalty, a true life Partner, I think that goes both ways, I was seeking a replacement for my wife that passed from cancer, and I got a whole lot more she is beautiful, sweet, she is Provincial, very empathetic and she is a super woman. Just amazing a special lady
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@13:06 My Pinay wife was 40 years younger. I never experienced any resentment or judging from PI peoples. Back in the US though we experienced lots of negative assumptiive behavior from American women. Men never, just envy. I'd tell those Karens their attitude is why we older esteablished and fed up men go to Asia where women still are women, not the obnoxius whales prevalent in the States.
@17:00 Worldwide and thoughout time, women always look for security, first for themselves, then for children they may have.
It's well known that women marry up the social status not down. Men don't care nearly as much about status. We're visual animals. A beautiful poor girl is just as if not more desireable than some spoiled brat rich girl regardless of her looks.
Extremely interesting, educational and fair from you Pea, to show the “other side of the mirror”.
Brownie points for you to present diversity, but also to give a voice to your males compatriots, that are often ignored on other channels.
Once again you surprised, entertained and informed your lucky subscribers.
Thank you for all your efforts. 👍😊
@21:29, For Paul.. That "Pump and Dump" you're talking about is not just in your culture. The majority of children born in the US now are to unmarried women.
As an American, living in Bacong and in a relationship with a Filipino, this video was very refreshing. These 3 young men, gives me hope there is a bright future for this world. As a foreigner, it also upsets me when i see someone from another country, being arrogant and forgetting they are not in their country and need to respect the Philippines and the Filipino people. Blessings to these 3 young men.
They’re some very level-headed young men, yes 👍
Ohhh I was living in bacong too before way back 2001..my aunt still living there right now..
Those guys have their head together. My Philippine woman is only a few years younger than me and I'm 57. So young age is not a priority for me. Also one other advantage Philippine men have is Japanese women are attracted to them. :-) Westerners wouldn't even be given the time of day from them. LOL
@@ukspankedyank you are delusional- enjoy the dream 😋
@@TheFilipinaPea this is why your beautiful country will thrive and flourish when others are sinking, without even realising it, lost in ridiculous, destructive and totally pointless, endless and petty negative arguments.
These guys are so polite that it’s obviously difficult for them to say anything negative about others. They value “telling it like it is,” but they’ve been thoroughly trained not to do so if it’s negative. They are as endearing as Filipinas. I wish them the best of luck in finding kind wives.
of course no native men like when foreign men come to their country and "take" their young women .
that is a natural feeling/reaction , men in the entire world feel the same way .
the best way to approach this issue as a foreigner is to show you are polite , not vulgar , and your intentions are good ,
not overstepping any bounderies of local culture and sort of blend in .
@@darkglobe406. I'm an American black and I'm okay if some foreign guys come and take the majority of our black females. 😅
Oh.. man. They are so difficult.
These 3 young gentlemen were raised right I can tell.
It’s so good that you are bringing out Filipino men and their aspects and feelings about dating and foreigners!! Good on you👍🏼❤️❤️ To me, as a foreigner male, it is just important to know male concepts of foreigners when coming to their country. Everyone is important to know about when you visit or experience a different culture! Salamat Po Pea!
And if you decide to live there, acculturate.
I love the Philippines. The most beautiful scenery, and the greatest people on Earth! Mabuhay! 🇵🇭
I am from Canada and i was raise to be very respectful to people, the world today as gone mad, one of my main reason to want to retire to the philippine is how people are they look like very kind and nice people and i feel i would fit perfectly there.
Filipino guys are the most chill guys and are very accepting of us foreigners
haha, ya , you keep thinking that, lol
@M J Can you describe which Latin countries are you're referring too? I've heard Panama's not that bad but I'd like to know your thoughts.
Not all pimp....some men talk cash sh!t within earsh"t especially if they size you up and think they can whip your a$$ or have a sh*t or know they can get you kicked out of the country. Soooooooo yeah
@M J I had the same experience in Japan and Korea older people but I came with respect which made them get an idea "oh he knows, he has manners and respects his elders". Every other person gave me a suspicious side eye
these guys are awesome so freindliest people in the world I have Philippines partner and she is amazing I could never fault any of them they are without doubt the most freindliest people on earth love them all what nice guys
Another great video and great perspective from the local men. They all seemed like stand up guy's and I respect how they view things. The one thing that stood out to me was the one guy saying that just like some foreigners can be assholes, so can Filipinos, we're all human and have good day's and bad days. To me the moral of the story is no matter where you're from, treat people how you want to be treated.
Wow, you gentlemen are so nice and open minded. My deepest respect, looking so much forward to visiting your amazing country ❤ regards jannick, Denmark 🇩🇰
I have two daughters and I would be proud for them to go out with any of these guys. They are open minded, educated and appear to respect women. Great video!
I am an Aussie and a regular visitor to the Philippines (well I was pre-virus).
Nothing pisses me off more than seeing another foreigner there bragging how their country is better. It occasionally happens and it is just embarrassing.
He is very right with the good and bad in everyone. Have met both here, have met both in the Philippines. I've got some very good friends over there.
Overall, the vast majority of Filipinos are absolutely awesome. The country as a whole is awesome.
Miss it greatly.
Especially if they're from the Communists Isle of Australia
These are all bright and fair minded young men, very encouraged for the future of the Philippines with this quality of young people.
Nice piece with the men. I'm 24 years older than my asawa. When we met,(in person in the Philippines) we clicked right away. Most of her friends were older. I thank God for her everyday. She checked all the boxes. (i put her to the test) We've been together 10 years now, married eight. Happy beyond words!
I love these 3 guys they are hilarious. I love their opinions and respect their points of views. It's nice and refreshing to hear their honesty.
What amazing people . Tolerant when men of most cultures will say sarcastic comments when asked these questions . They seem friendly , intelligent and tolerant . And special thanks to Filipina Pea and i am sure philippines will grow to even greater heights with such youth . A big hello to all of you from india .
Wow, the Philippine’s men perspectives, this was FANTASTIC Pea! I’ve always wondered how us foreigners were viewed by some of the country’s men. We are so focus on the women that it’s rare to consider the mindset of anyone else.
ski season is starting in colorado now. who wouldn't to see the pea in the snow for a challenge?
Hahahahaha
I was in Manila and Davao three years ago. Beautiful country. Loved it. People are awesome 👏 always polite. Very helpful. Can’t wait to get back. Great video. Three nice guys.
It’s nice to know that the guys are just as nice as the girls. What lovely people. 💕
I really enjoy the way those young men speak. Also I enjoy their English... that's what I miss in Thailand sometimes.
These guys are very well spoken, and their English is great! About the complaining (because I was recently there and will return), it’s not that we think your Country is bad as we love a lot of aspects of it, it’s just certain parts, such as the traffic sucks in the big cities. Nice interview and I wish these guys good luck in their futures!
The traffic, pollution and long lines even make us complain too 😂
@@TheFilipinaPea And you're used to it. For us these are cold water in the face shocks that take some adjustment. Vocalizing is part of that adjustment. But these things are miniscule. Like making conversation about the weather.
My only 2 complaints about the Philippines are:
1. Internet is SLOOOOOOOW. I was there in 2018 and the best speed I was getting in Antipolo is 1.4Mbs. I guess I've been spoiled in the states with 1Gbs wired and 950Mbs on my phone.
2. Lack of etiquette with regards to waiting in line by only a few people. When pulling into a driveway to the mall for example, I have the right of way. Yet someone else would turn left right in front of me from the other direction. They won't even wait for me to complete my turn, but they will cut me off despite me being there first and I have the right of way. Then there are lines. I was ordering food at Greenich (I think that's what it's called) and this woman clearly jumped right in front of me and started to order. What's ironic is that the woman taking the order didn't call her out. She continued to take her order despite acknowledging me. I couldn't let this go. I got in between them and said, "Excuse, I am next. Why would you cut in front of me? And you, you saw that I was next yet you proceeded to take her order?"
Neither of the women said anything. The woman that cut in line just said "Ah, ok". Same with the cashier. She just said, "What can I get for you?" No apology or acknowledging their mistakes. To add to that people were looking at me as if I'm the bad person. The instigator.
I know this isn't all of the Philippines but in the 3 weeks I was there, it happened to me at least 12 times. People cutting in line. I called people out about 8 of those times. My wife was restraining me and telling me to "hayaan mo na". Such thing has happened to me in the USA. But not 12 times in 3 weeks! Filipinos pride themselves with good manners and respect. It sure doesn't show at certain times.
@@Mr-Clark It can be annoying to foreigners, when people jump the queue, and the slow internet is really frustrating, …BUT you need to remember that you’re in a poorer country than your own, and with that comes lower quality. You also need to adjust your high standards to the ways of a different culture. Don’t live there if you can’t adjust, or you will be unhappy and a constant embarrassment to your wife, and that will only damage your relationship.
@@brianp6097 The internet I understand. Less developed... makes sense.
But good manners knows no social status. Rich, middle class or poor... can be courteous if they choose to.
This is nice to hear. Thanks.
very interesting videos as always, love and support from Philippines 🤗
There you are Simple Life 👍😊
I panicked when I first opened this video, because I initially thought you'd chosen 3 ugly Filipinas to interview, but then I realised they were 3 handsome dudes 😂😎
I think that old white men that date young Filipina women are super creepy. I feel bad for the Filipina because she is poor and the main reason why she is with the old man is for his security, ie: money
Great energy from all four people , good to see during these craxy times.
I like your interview, I am an American and I have visited your country twice now. Once in 2018 and 2019. The men you choose spoke very honestly and I actually agree with every perspective that they shared. Salamat po
These guys hit the nail on the head! Great job Pea!
Great conversation .
Wow !!! Hard hitting truth, but done in a very gentle way. I did not expect the comments that were made. Great job.
Another top notch video ! We always wondered what the guys thought about us. You found a good group to interview.
Insightful video. Really helps other men get the masculine point of view that we need from other men, particularly from men of that culture. Thank you.
It is not the money, the cash that most Filipinas are after. It is a way out of poverty and help for their family that they want. For the older men it is not a young beautiful body that we are looking for. The newness and excitement of any woman's body wears off with time. It is the feeling of being young again that a young woman gives to an older men. A new lease on life when we thought our life was winding down. It does not take long for love and respect to grow. Both parties need to be loved and respected. Both bring something much more meaningful to the relationship then money or sex.
Peas blog is right, James,many gals there find the foreigner to be different,& attractive, as we find them,& the illusion of security helps,as you said with the family,my Asawa who's been a OFW in more than one country says, notice if it were not about the bucks also,why there doesn't seem to be older rich Pinoy men being chased,,says they want out of the country also, I think, the cultural mistique is lost on them over the foreigners, I'm happy for all us lucky Western guys, Cheers 🥂💓🇵🇭🇨🇦
I came over here from MTR videos and I have been binge watching. I love your videos. Please keep up the GREAT VIDEOS.
Thanks, my friend - that’s music to my ears 👍❤️
Awesome video. When i was in the U.S. Navy, i had a fhillipino friend and he took me to his home and it was awesome because it was during the Holidays and they all were awesome and so friendly. Wow such a family oriented attitude. Also now that i am older i still have a fhillipino friend and he is one of my best friends.
Thank you Pea for interviewing the local guys as well. I think you're doing great work for documenting the opinions of everyday people.
Personally, What I really love about the Phillipine's is the culture of respect, honor, being family oriented, high morals about marriage, and the warm climate.
this is what i like and love too, about the Philippines, way better then here in the US, ok hehe
I think your interview videos show how welcoming and friendly in general everyone is there. That’s why people visit or even stay permanently. I think when you mix cultures it breaks down myths and barriers between us. I really enjoy the interviews you do like this. keep up the good work and have a great day.
I like Pol, he operates with confidence and has an abundance mindset. I wish more foreign men going to the Philippines had his confidence.
I think every guy that moves here should make a Filipino best friend. I have a few, (besides the men in my family) and they really make my experience here better.
It's good to have a local man's perspective and insight sometimes, often they see things that your Filipina may not. It's not hard to find guys with common interest in the city, well, at least it wasn't when I was in metro manila.
I really enjoyed hearing the guys point of view on Foreigner/Filipina relationships
⭐⭐⭐ These 3 guys are really well spoken and considering there age are extremely mature, this highlights how education is what helps create well adjusted and balanced people no matter there culture or country. And all 3 of these guys work to better there lives and inturn will be able provide a stable and loving home for there partners and children, therefore helping to break the cycle of poverty in the Philippines, you guys should be proud. You are all funny and have some good things to say, I can't wait to see part 2 and we all know what was whispered between the 3 of you guys when Pea asked what filipina like about foreigner 😅. I cant wait to see more.
And if you read this miss Pea we would all love it if even after part 2 you got these guys back more regularly, especially if you done a special sit down 2 episode with these 3 guys and Angel and the girls all together as I know there would be some fun conversations to be had there with you miss Pea and the 6 of them. 🙏🤣.
⭐⭐⭐ Wolf man x
Thanks. It's nice to hear your local guys opinions. Nice change. This gives foreigners a better understanding.
Hello Pea, this is a great video. I’ve watched other videos and heard others saying that Filipino guys don’t like foreigners dating Filipinas. This is a great illustration of what Filipinos think in general about foreigners and not all Filipinos hate foreigners. I believe the Philippine culture is all about good hospitality, friendship.
You are fearless, nothing off limits, great viewing, thank you
Nice interview Pea. As an American dating a Filipina in Caloocan, I wondered what the men there are thinking. Part 1 provided a lot of information. Your questions excelled. I hope the Philippines reopens soon.
Epic interview. Mad props to the excellent men and their open sharing.
In part one (1) pretty interesting point of view of young Filipino men in their 20"s ... can't wait to see part 2 on Friday . You really know how to keep my focus attention on interviews.
What you are doing to help us understand each other is extremely important and appreciated, this helps everyone to be mindful of how we treat each other, at the end of the day we are all in this together, so let's continue to learn like and love✌️
I’m glad you appreciate it, Bobby, and that’s my overall mission, exactly 👍
I could do videos about me walking around and showing what I ate for dinner, but ….. why??
@@TheFilipinaPea .What did you eat for dinner & dessert?😁
@@TheFilipinaPea 😊👍
@@TheFilipinaPea BINGO!
Roy Jones Roy just wanted to know what you like for dinner in case he happens to be around you he will know what you enjoy for dinner. Roy I know I seen her eating thin sliced steak fried then wrapped in lettuce like a burrito here. If that helps.
I absolutely loved this video, and I pressed 'play' with reservation; (because I have become so focused on the female perspective I guess) I couldn't surmise that I would glean so much insight and confirmation as to how Filipinas differ from other women, and in other ways stand under the same umbrella with all women. This was a very welcome surprise for me. Thanks Pea, and well done.
A wonderful 1st hand perspective from 3 guys who understand the culture. Thanks Pea...another home run
Excellent Pea, as a Western man who has never been to the Philippines, YET ! I would be more than happy to spend time in the company of these fantastic young men. This is the first time I have heard the opinions of Filipino men. They have a great attitude and are very respectful towards others. You and there families should be really proud of these young men. I can’t wait to come to the Philippines as I think my nature would fit in perfectly there. You have such a beautiful culture and lovely people. We in the west could learn a lot from your culture. As for the attitude of, “we have the best country”, everybody THINKS they are from the best country. We should be looking to see and find what is great in every country. I really enjoyed listening to the guys, it lets us here there views and I really respected there views and thoughts. Great vlog guys and Pea should spend more time with you guys. RESPECT from the west. Another great vlog Pea.
Not sure why people insist on saying their country is the best. My immediate reaction is "oh really so you've explored everywhere else??" I just never understood that ignorant mindset as a U.S. citizen
@@greg2999 Insisting and rubbing in the face is an issue, but there are objevtive factors to grade countries. So there are top tier countries and low tier countries no doubt, but the arrogance is the problem. You should look up HDR (Human developpment Index) of certain countries.
I really like it when you interview people on you chanel, and it was great to hear the guy's point of view. Kudos to all of them for being so open about their opinions.
A really good topic, I enjoyed listening to the 3 Pinoy guys honest opinions; more foreign guys need to be more confident about how Filipino guys regard us there. I can only speak for myself in saying that far from looking down on Filipinos, I respect them for their humility and ability to make the best of any situation. We can learn a lot from each other even tough our cultures and lifestyles are different.
This was a refreshing interview. I appreciate the honesty and candidness these gentlemen brought. Relationships are kind of the same everywhere. Great video.
This was a good conversation! I wish I could have sat down with the four of you and had time to contribute to all of the topics covered. It's so hard now days to have a good heart felt talk between people with out getting offended. This coming from a 56 year old guy who is straight forward and honest. I don't believe in pulling verbal punhes. If you claim your an adult then be an adult one day I hope to make it to your country because I have many friends from the Philippines and deep down inside we know we are all the same.
I like these guys, especially the big guy
They are very opened minded!
Well done guys and of course Miss pea😘
Pea. I am hooked on your channel. Hands down, you are the best!!! What I love so much about your channel is first and foremost you are a philipina and no subject (minus political issues) is off limits. Your content provides us foreigners with an accurate outlook of the life of Philippines. This is a classic example. Keep up the great work. (Still gloating over the 40s ladies interview, a masterpiece).
The guy in the middle is a character I'd bet his really funny after a few san migs.I admire the strong bakada friendship between men their it makes the guys really happy and I've not seen such closeness in the west between men I certainly wouldn't share a glass of beer 😀
I have to tell you that as I’ve been watching your channel for some time I’ve noticed your confidence and skill at interviewing and keeping a good flow is continually improving.
I’ve always enjoyed your work. I can also say that I am enjoying it more and more these days.
Props to you. I look forward to watching you grow even more in the future.
I will also say that I started working with Filipinos many years ago here in Silicon Valley. At the time I found that I had to be careful working with some (just some) Filipino men because they weren’t good at following through with a job.
At the same time, I developed a great respect for Filipino women. They worked very hard. And, yes, they were also beautiful.
I remember one Filipina early on that was here in the U.S. working and saving up so that her husband could join her here. Her diligence at work and faithfulness to her far away husband was simply amazing.
It is because of her that I’ve always had a soft spot when it comes to Filipino women.
Well thanks Brian 👍❤️😊
@@TheFilipinaPea Don’t tell anyone. But I think I’m developing some kind of a crush on you. 😇😉
Great a see a bunch of young lads on the channel so relaxed chilled out and level headed. No jealousy whatsoever towards older foreign guys
There didn’t seem to be a bit of animosity, nope 👍😊
I love the Philippines and the people are lovely and very friendly ❤️
My Filipina wife is 7 years younger than me, we love eachother very much! We also love out beautiful half/half son John!
your interviews and questions are really good, I love learning about the various cultural differences.
Very informative video. I appreciate your ability to ask the right questions and your attention to detail.
Very good interview with these three gentlemen, they showed a lot of maturity. And they gave their true feelings and answers to your questions. Now on the other hand I have experienced issues with some of the not so intelligent men or the not responsible man I shall say. Because one of them joked about me being a grandpa to my wife. In the rest of the guys laughed when they won the basketball court. But I just looked at that as immaturity and a sense of ignorance. But honestly I didn't take it personal, but it made my wife very upset. Come to find out she knew those guys. And as a result of other things I'm no longer with her after I found out what she was doing for the whole 5 years we were together. Excellent interview with these guys I'm looking forward to the next one. If you have not already interview them could you ask them about how do they feel about black men being with the Filipino women. Thanks Pea❤
Some great guys assembled right there. Pol seems like a blast.
As a foreigner we complain because we are stressed or not knowing the way things are. The most common is dealing with government offices and paperwork. It takes forever to get things done
Ms. Pea. Thank you very much for this video. It is very rare to here Filipino men's perspective and it is very refreshing. As a male looking to retire in the Philippines in the about 3-5 year it is great to hear the male point of view (POV) on foreigners and not just the women's POV. Thanks again and look forward to more great content.
Honest Guys. ❤ Keep going with the interviews Pea, get the older generations views on foreigners, say 60+ lolo's, will be interesting to see if their views are different to these guys. 😀
thank you Pea i appreciate hearing these young men share their thoughts
It's nice to get a fresh perspective of things from the guy's point of view. I get wrapped up in the video and then we have to wait for part 2. I always say, "She did it again!" But it's OK lol
These guys seem like they're pretty cool I can hang out with them. My wife is Filipino i found everyone was so friendly.
Pol is a very smart man, i especially agree with his comment about the complaining.
If you feel the need to complain about the Philipines, then why are you there!!
Well done Pea.
This is a very interesting interview, as a Zambian TH-camr, i will visit Phillipines very soon, am impressed!
Thank you for sending out positive messages and information. I was recently discouraged by a ex Pat blogger who said women were only interested because of mens size. Keep up the professional work.
Nooooo, size has very very little to do with it
GREAT bunch of guys! Be fun to hang out with them
Thanks, Vault Boy! 😂😂😂
I think there was a specific cultural difference brought up there - the guys were all being polite when they spoke about complaining foreigners but I really think it's quite ingrained in western culture, certainly in the UK. Complaining as well as comparing your success to your neighbours (keeping up with the Joneses) is somewhat of a national passtime. I remember when I was a lot younger visiting Florida where I got chatting to a woman I met in a mall there - she was originally from Manchester however she moved to USA as she didn't like the weather (too much rain) - she originally lived in New York but left there because it was too cold in winter - when I met her she was in Florida in summer complaining about it being too hot - some people really struggle to focus on the positive things in life.
I think the 3 guys there seem to be quite comfortable with who they are and accepting of others
Hahahahaha
Wow, was her name Karen? 😂
@@TheFilipinaPea It probably should have been, strangely enough though we've not kept in touch 🤣
My first thought when reading this was a conversation with a young lady in Florida some years ago. We were working in a back office of a small engineering firm with only fans to cool things down. The owner said she was thinking of putting air conditioning back there. When she left, my work partner said she hoped that never happened, and I asked why. She said she grew up in Michigan and was cold a lot as a child and swore she would go to Florida and never be cold again, and did it. She said she didn't have A/C in her house or her car and loved the heat. I didn't feel quite the same, but thought, How awesome that she likes and appreciates this!
That was about 30+ years ago and has been a reminder to me ever since, to appreciate the good points of my conditions.
I grew up in western South Carolina and we had a lot of "halfbacks" who moved from the northeast to Florida, said it was too hot and moved halfway back, many into the Carolinas, where they still complained about everything...
Hi there! I’m a Filipino American in California. I enjoyed this video. I’ve always wondered what the locals think about me when I’m there. Very informative!
Maybe you should do a quick video with three foreigners and ask them the opposite point of view.
Thanks Pea for great content! Loyal viewer here 🙏🏻
I can't express how much I enjoyed this video. I would have thought that I, myself would enjoy your interviews with the women more but this one kept me focused. All three of the men were good but Pol was fantastic! He is definitely a 'keeper'. He was fun and straight forward. Full of life. Make sure he tells you what he shared with the other two about why Filipinas look for foreigners. I believe I know what he was saying to them and I suspect you guessed at the time or when you edited the video. Another great one Pea. Salamat po.
thank you for the enlightening perspective. Keep up the excellent interviews Miss Pea!
You are unbelievable. Another great interview with 3 intelligent Filipinos. The guys were great, just like the women you interview. How do you find these quality folks?
I spend a LOT of time looking 👍😊
I like these guys you need to have them on again
Its good to hear the men's point of view on things. Hope you do more videos like this because it provides a balanced view of people there. Great job😀
I’ll try to bring you a cross section of everyone here 👍😊
REAL INSIGHTFUL THE GUYS ARE COOL AND YEA ITS GREAT THEY DONT MIND! 👍🏽
Thank you for sharing the male perspective. When I think of the Filippino man, the machismos culture of the Spanish come to mind.. I would say from my experience the males in the country are very considerate of me most of time. But when drinking with the alpha males there was some tension... But in all, I love visiting and enjoying the culture of the country.. It has made me a better person from the exposure. Something positive I can share with others here in America. Be Blessed Pea !
These are descent young men who have a great attitude. there opinions so far match exactly with what my GFs nepherws told me when i asked how they felt about western men dating Filipinas. i wish these guys a great future
Filipino guys are relax and chill
I am impressed that these young men speak so openly about their views. They are articulate and open-minded, seems more so than Westerners. This is what I like about Filipinos, at least the few Filipinos I have seen or I have met.
The Pea always gets an immediate thumbs up. I am never disappointed
And i had first comment
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Thanks Ed - I hope I never fail you 👍❤️😊
@@TheFilipinaPea not even in a parallel universe Pea
Great interview Pea, you definitely got great feedback from these 3 gentemen, their perspectives are quite important in the big picture.
As an American, I see no difference in these 3 young men and three young American guys I might select for a similar interview. Phrases like "but not always", "each person is different", "it depends on the individual". Qualifying terms. Letting us know, not all Filipinos feel that way and not all foreigners are the same.
That's true bro, I'm a straight dick to people, but I try my best to be that way across the board.
ahh hahaha,
I liked these young men. Very thoughtful answers. Thanks guys. You too Pea
I swear! Filipinos are frikin awesome!
Cool guys - smart and humble.
Great guys, very intelligent and insightful. A refreshing change to the other channels pleading for foreigner boyfriends, or Tik Tok nonsense. We don't see enough of developing aspirational younger side of the Philippines.
Great! Because I don’t understand TikTok 😂
What cool guys. I enjoyed every minute of this video.
Very nice interviews! Nice people. Again, Filipino Pea, you are such a GREAT communicator. Where I live, we deal with a lot of foreigners from Mexico or more south. (I live in Texas, USA) For me, remembering, believing, we are all MADE BY GOD and much loved by Him, influences my attitudes towards all.
Great words Tammy, Wholeheartedly agree...I ran Texas Air Freight, and Benchmark, as the operations manager for many years... They are gone now, but I have my cherished memories of The State of Texas, btw
Love your Governor...
Mexicans aren't really foreigners in Texas. They've been there longer than any other peoples on the planet. Sure, borders got drawn up and changed over time, names of places changed, but the people who are now known as Mexicans have always been there.
Very good Pea . You picked some great guys . And those two , will be great Drs !! Be safe out there folks ... gubs
I think they all seek comfort, security, loyalty, a true life Partner, I think that goes both ways, I was seeking a replacement for my wife that passed from cancer, and I got a whole lot more she is beautiful, sweet, she is Provincial, very empathetic and she is a super woman. Just amazing a special lady
Nice to see this perspective Pea.