20 Signs of Low Self-Esteem. Redefine Your Boundaries NOW.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 พ.ค. 2024
- Ever feel like you're the only one struggling with confidence?
Spoiler alert: you're definitely not. My latest video, 'Redefine Your Boundaries: Identifying 20 Signs of Low Self-Esteem & Gain Confidence,’
is all about spotting signs of low self-esteem we all miss and what to do about them.
I'm sharing the top 20 signs that might suggest your self-esteem needs a little (or big) boost, plus I'm throwing in some straightforward,
no-nonsense ways to start valuing yourself more. We're talking about real steps you can take to feel more confident and set boundaries that respect your worth.
If you've ever doubted your value, found it tough to say 'no,' or just want to feel a bit better about yourself, this video is for you. It's packed with insights, personal reflections, and practical tips to help you kick those self-doubt habits to the curb.
Let's face it, recognizing those signs is the first step toward making a change.
So, why not take a little time for yourself, watch the video, and see which
tips you can start using today? Let's get on this journey together and turn those doubts into confidence.
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“Convenient women don’t make history” 👏👏💗
Not all heroes wear capes, good Moms are unnoticed (except by their husbands and God-Source itself and that's what all matters).
Focus on you and the focus becomes you ❤
Trying to… but it’s difficult to control the emotions.. any insight? ❤🎉😊
@@happywater1012 Nervous system regulation techniques. Allowing yourself to cry or release the trauma stored in your subconscious and body. Exploring your childhood trauma and finding ways to heal that. I really love EFT Tapping, outdoor walks, tuning into my inner child, singing, yoga... find what works for you. You are worthy.💖🙏🏼
@@MandyJRoss Thank you! 👍💪
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No, I never focus on women, I only focus on myself! I'm extremely selfish. I don't even treat women well and they absolutely adore me! Worship me, really. Put me on a pedestal and butter me up all the time. I know there are a lot of women out there that are desperate and needy for my attention and love, but they will have to wait until I feel like giving them an opportunity with me. ;)
It’s so refreshing from one mother to another to hear “sometimes I don’t have the patience and sometimes I don’t know”
Love how you slid a quote from the bible in at 31:23: "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces." - Matthew 7:6. Thank you for this video.
Amen Jesus is Lord!
22year old girl here..been watching your videos Margarita for the past year and I cannot even put to words how much you’ve helped me with tuning in my feminine energy.Every day that passes I get some type of comments from people around me especially men,that my vibration and energy is so different,eleganant,esoteric, gentle,and feminine. So thankful that I discovered you and i follow you religiously😁 everything you talk about automatically becomes my law.
I am 22 & she’s helped me grow & self respect myself so much!
I’m so glad you’ve both found her channel - you will have a wonderful life now you have her tips and knowledge. I so wish I had her advice at 22 - I’m almost 34 and only learning all of this now, and being kind with myself as I develop my energy, expectations and esteem. Keep showing up here! ❤
YES “nice girls” don’t achieve their real dreams & goals because other people use their time, energy, & love up for themselves
I am 22 & learned how to say no & set boundaries this year! I wish I did way earlier but my family & society brainwashed me to put everyone else first- NO MORE! I’m attempting to move through life with a random tall white man’s audacity!
That’s hilarious 😂
"You've got your back if things don't work out. That is true self esteem." 10:14
I am a 26 year old introvert female. And i am happy to have my own chicken coop.
Having high self esteem is a daily goal and a lifelong commitment!!
It’s OKAY to have lazy and down time and don’t do anything!! It’s actually very healthy too!!
Cry lay around in your bed sleep more and just be HUMAN!
1. Hating myself in pictures.
2. Putting boundaries down with people.
Ranks of womanhood and ranks of feminine energy❤ i want to hear about that. Finally putting my life where i want. I just turned 30 and its time to change things up. Gonna buy ur book❤
Stops whatever I'm doing. Queen has posted. Could you please do a video on taking risks in things like starting your own career (or a career that makes you happy) and taking that leap of faith, knowing you're going to make mistakes and you're going to probably learn a lot?
Why some people like to treat regular human being as if they were Gods? Why would you stop everything you’re doing to watch a TH-cam video from a woman with a history like so many others ? Don’t get it wrong, Margarita is great. But let’s not put TH-camrs on pedestals. 😂
@@nathalian.7209I agree. Treat this person as a friendly advisor... Not as a queen
Just do it. That's it.
@@nathalian.7209well Margarita's story is not like "others". Her mum gave her a better opportunity in life when moved to the UK from Russia when Margarita was 5 y.o. Probably she would not have achieved that much without her mum's decision
@@YanaWanderlust. only in my friend group I have 3 girls who are daughters of immigrants mothers. Yes, margaritas story are like many others.
you should definitely make the video on 7 levels of feminine energy, looking forward to it!!!
“Cheaty” lol. Sad but true. Gotta move on and up!!!
Watching this made me realise my self-esteem is way better than I thought! It's a long and winding journey, but working on yourself truly pays off. Thanks for all you do to empower others 💖
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I used to really struggle with: thinking I owe people if they were nice to me (still but now I’m able to stop myself) and also saying no and please them… My self esteem were so low. I’m glad to become more confident with time.
Thank you for differentiating the fact that women are raised differently by society. It’s for real.
“Acting like it’s a virtue “
Omg that’s it. 😤
My aunt is exactly like this.
You don’t need to have a man or be in a big event to look good and feel good about yourself!!!
She drives me crazy.
She doesn’t love herself.
I am the total opposite even though i grew up around her.
I think it’s because as an introvert i get my validation from myself.
It doesn’t matter how much hardship you have gone through. It’s still a one and only you that actually should be having more love not hate!!
ranks of feminine energy!! thanks for the video ♥
You’re extremely correct- most people are obese & financially illiterate… we have to do things outside the norm (prioritize our health & finances) if we want to be healthy & thriving ❤❤❤
I take "Any decision is better than no decision".
Saying no is really hard for me. It's also hard to buy things for myself, especially when it's just for fun (like spending money to travel). It's like I just can buy useful things. And it's my own money. I'm working on it.
Did you read my mind? This is exactly the kind of video I needed to watch today lol
I'm having a hard time letting him go. He lied to me I knew he had another girl but still I was a fool. He blocked me on instagram then told me he wanted to talk.He told me that the girl got jealous of me (she doesn't know he was with me at the same time) after that he didn't have the courage to talk in person like grown adults.
So I end things bia text.
Now he is in a relationship with her
And I fell bad sometimes but i want to start my love journey ❤
Stay strong... letting go is not easy.... but as time passes and you focus on yourself, you'll feel better each day.
Best wishes and hugs :-)
the biggest reason why I feel like I my confidence is getting crashed is, the feeling that I still carry from when I was 7 years old. I am being neglected emotionally often from my parents. I love them and I am confident but what I really feel like is weakening my self confidence is, not being enough with my being for my friends and family. Or not getting loved. I am right now on the path of healing my inner child. But I have the urge to fall back like how they neglected me, I am neglecting my needs and emotions. Therefore I set boundaries with my friends but actually I am just teriffied to be close to them. It feels complex..
I love how you put it that your opinion about something doesn’t mean that you have a problem with that person. Even though many people take things personally i learned not to give a f*ck and they can cry about it as much as they want I don’t have any real reason to change my opinion.
Love all your videos!!
Spot on as always! You rock! God bless you and your beautiful family 🥰
Loved this, big thanks.
I love hearing you say, “ MY KIDS!!!!” ❤
Thanks for the video
I can’t tell you how important this account has become to me so quickly, like this is the content I’ve been looking for without realising
Haven't watched a 30 min TH-cam video in a while and you made me do it❤
Girl, you are SO INSPIRING. Thank you for putting this out there and for putting yourself on the internet. You are helping me so much.
Thank you Margarita ❤
Cracked me open. In a good way.
I love you and I love your videos, thanks for your help ❤
Brilliant Margarita.
This is a great podcast! So many of the points hit home!
Honestly, conflict still scares me. Working on it!
Also, good video 🙌
definitely saying no and being afraid of negative emotions! but you really put things into perspective and I definitely don’t feel alone😅 Thank you for your time and energy💞💞
Love Margarita! Her anxious attachment videos helped me tremendously, more therapy.
Didn't skipped any ads because queen deserves it🥳😍❤
LOVE so much your content. You are a great human being and putting yourself sometimes in vulnerable situations, it makes you so much beautiful and respected. Amazing the video, by the way. I found myself in some of these situations but I am working for a while on me and it is amazing how the process goes. 🎉❤🦋🎶🍾
great video margarita!
Learning life and English with you Margarita ❤ Thank you ❤
❤ you have helped me so so much
I couldn´t agree more! People can put this topic across way too harshly! Xx
Yaayyy I like this new microphone !
the audio is crispy, the knowledge is juicy 🍒 congratulations of your book! I can't wait to fill it with post-its!!!
I cannot wait to read your book
Low boundaries with him, with myself too I suppose. I really want to change this part of my identity.
Honestly this helps. It’s exhausting caring what people think and placating to them.
I love, love, Loooove your content. Is a true gem and is a crime that it has not gone viral for the right reasons.only toxic and useless content does.
Since watching your videos I have slowly getting back to the pre 2020 me
Honestly Margarita, these are SUCH good tips for everyone I think. Not just women. I truly think you nailed this one across the board. I am so tempted to share with my husband… but I won’t 😂!! So well done 💯
I will definitely be buying your book ❤
This video is so important because I could sense I’ve been out of touch with my feminine energy for a while but I didn’t know why. I didn’t even realize my self esteem has been low until I watched this and could relate to a majority of these points. Wow thank you Margarita. I truly hope you know how valuable your content is.
Side note - very interested in the 7 ranks of womanhood 💛
I laugh so loud every time!! You’re so wise and also so funny!!
Calling me out on being indecisive 🫢 so spot on 🤍!
Hearing you talk about declining a small, insignificant request from your husband and your emotional reactions to it was very... validating probably isn't the right word. However, it was nice to hear that I'm not the only one who struggles with pushing back and protecting my time/energy/etc. in the small ways. That pattern has come to my attention recently, and I'm so encouraged to hear that another woman who I respect is also doing work in this area.
Can't wait for your book! It's preordered! ❤
I liked the sound of your other microphone more, feels more intimate 😊 Other then that I love all your content! Excited for the book!❤
Yeah make the video about the ranks!!!❤
Saying “I don’t know” is powerful!
The Liz Hurley analogy was great
You're fantastic ♥️♥️♥️
This video is so humbling. When u think you've got ur shot together and then nope got more work to do.
Your videos help me so much
Yes, I want you to talk about the Ranks of Feminine Energy. You are a beautiful, extremely smart and just all around wonderful young lady. You go, Girl!! Thank you for your mission of helping females everywhere at every age! I'm 68 and only wish I would have encountered your wisdom and charm in my younger years.
i really enjoy hearing u talk bc youre confident with who u are
“So what who cares” is my mantra at the moment and it’s so freeing please make a video on the law of least effort 🙏🏼🙏🏼
I loved the one about beeing able to admitt that you don't know something or not beeing good at something as a sign of good self-esteem. I too think that having self-esteem also means beeing self-aware, knowing your weaknesses. And beeing able to admit them without the feeling of beeing less because of it. When somebody always act as if he is superman, knows everything, is capable of everything, never doubts himself - for me that is not high self-esteem but rather the opposite
This was such a great episode, thank you so much! Also ranks in womanhood video - yes please. Sending lots of love 💕
Yes please do ranks of feminine woman video! Amazing video again, thank you ❤ I struggle with acting like good girl still and what people think of me…
Thanks for this great channel .. Nader Hassan from Egypt ❤
I would also love a more elaborate video or podcast on self-esteem part when you start acting the same with the guys you like and the guys you don’t care about. Would love to hear more about that and how to get there!
I adore you. I am late in the game but girl, you teach me, you make laugh so much. You are the counselor I wish I had. Thank you in advance for all the good advice I will binge your videos over the weekend xx❤ just pre ordered your book. 🎉
many usefull information! i also laughed a lot :) The Virgo vibes are on point xx
One of this tips reminded me of something you said about the low percentage of women who drag men along. I was one of those. It wasn't malicious on my part I was just depressed and so many other things. Yet the consequence was devastating. My child paid the price.
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5 out of 5 stars again.
I hope that you are heard.
Would love to hear your take on rankings of levels of levels of feminine energy.
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Keep up the good valid work.
Your efforts are appreciated.
Love this ❤ mic was good, I preferred the other one. Crisper sound. But amazing content 😊
Ooh yes please, ranks of feminine energy, would love to hear about that. Love your content ❤ True Queen!!
This is soooo good! And you are hilarious 😂
In response to your question in the video this is my fear, or question rather. I’ve always been very agreeable. Played the part of a “good girl” growing up. I feel like my personality was always just whatever it needed to be at the moment to accommodate other people. I was conditioned so much so to do this that now as a fresh 24 year old I feel like I don’t even know who I am. My one goal above all else has always been to be a parent and wife because I never really knew what a complete family felt like. Now that I’m older I have such a case of self doubt that I wonder if those things are even important to me or have I just been taught that achieving that family dynamic would be the ultimate “success” in my mind. It’s so hard to gain a since of confidence when I feel like all it takes is me watching a new show to want to adopt a new personality…I also can’t make a decision to save my life. Which just frustrates me more. But I know one day I’ll get a handle on it. Definitely will be picking up the book. I feel like your videos make me feel like it’s possible to change. You truly feel like an older sister in my healing journey. Thank u for creating this space for me and others to feel validated like this
You empower me with your feminine leadership. Bought the book, audio, & subscribed. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. 💕
Omg I love this post so much. I had no boundaries and now I just cut everyone out. Both don't work. I needed this post 🙏
Ranks of feminine energy & womanhood! As always, thank you for the excellent video 💙🩵
Acting around the man you like the same as you act around men you don’t like his genius. Concise piece of advice.
Loved the video
I’m also afraid of people’s negative reactions if I didn’t do or act as they like! Or even say anything that is against their beliefs! It’s exhausting
How funny, I've just started the video, but I was thinking today about all of this advice online on this subject and realized... Hey, this is a form of splitting, of b&w thinking, of extremes and nothing in between which is the result of a person living in survival. In reality, when you're healing and accepting you don't know everything, that we're all learning how to do this thing called life, you chill more... Not in the letting people step on you cause "love and light", no. But in the "hey, I don't like this, imma tell you and if it doesn't work I'll take a breaky break and if it works out after that ok, if not ok again" way. This whole extreme "boundry setting" comes from a very fearful place and it's setting off the other person too tbh.
Anyway, just my two cents, back to the video 😁 Congrats on your book!
I was doing the extreme boundary thing and my therapist said that it’s quite normal in the beginning to overdo it a bit if they come from a lifetime of people pleasing. Once we get used to it - it should go into a happy medium of firm but flexible boundaries as we do further healing.
I was hoping to hear more on how to deal with someone who is not respecting your boundaries, when they are somebody you cannot simply get rid of. Particularly how to hold on to one's self respect when this is happening, and there is simply no changing it. I am currently struggling with this right now, so if anyone knows of any videos to help on that topic, awesome...
thank you, Margarita, this was really good. Did somebody write the list of signs of self-esteem already? i want it hahah
I need yo work on my self love and self esteem. I see myself and I tend to look for validation from others, Whenever I am attracted to a guy, I follow them around like Child and obsess over them, it's probably so unattractive and why I have been rejected in the past. I really wish I was like you. I want to be that woman who loves herself,who doesn't follow other ppl around or seek others approval and doesn't care if anyone likes her or not. I want to be self secure but then I might get called too self obsessed or a narcissist or get told "you think you are all that"
It feels weird to be the girl that loves herself. The baddy
omg, do the ranks please!
Besides your great advice I watch you when I want to laugh... You are hilarious 🤣 thank you darling.. Love your videos
Would love to hear the ranks of feminine energy women! ❤
Loved this podcast, made me realise some areas of growth for me - but also, made me realise so many ways in which I have grown in self esteem! 🎉❤
wow first one to comment ig its a sign that am obsessed with ur videos
Decisive people always appear so confident - getting better but def need to work on it. So true how it all stems from our childhood. Always wanted approval and be the good girl …
God, I love these videos and this community ❤