1. If you have a scarcity mindset 2. Not buying something nice for yourself. Out of your league 3. You will compromise at the price of not being happy just to not be alone 4. You are indecisive 5. You compromise your behavior when you like someone 6. You can’t say what you mean 7. You can’t admit to your mistakes 8. You feel like you owe someone after they do something for you 9. You can’t say “No” 10. You think your ideas/ desires are silly 11. You rewrite/rephrase everything in text 12. You don’t like how you look in photos. Especially if you’re not a model 13. Blocking people all the time, especially trolls 14. Comparison 15. Taking hours to get ready 16. You refuse self-improvement 17. You don’t feel like you deserve something when you are in a relationship with a man 18. When others people opinions triggers you 19. You feel like you need to do something to please them 20. When you are scared of peoples negative emotions/reactions
@@happywater1012 Nervous system regulation techniques. Allowing yourself to cry or release the trauma stored in your subconscious and body. Exploring your childhood trauma and finding ways to heal that. I really love EFT Tapping, outdoor walks, tuning into my inner child, singing, yoga... find what works for you. You are worthy.💖🙏🏼
No, I never focus on women, I only focus on myself! I'm extremely selfish. I don't even treat women well and they absolutely adore me! Worship me, really. Put me on a pedestal and butter me up all the time. I know there are a lot of women out there that are desperate and needy for my attention and love, but they will have to wait until I feel like giving them an opportunity with me. ;)
22year old girl here..been watching your videos Margarita for the past year and I cannot even put to words how much you’ve helped me with tuning in my feminine energy.Every day that passes I get some type of comments from people around me especially men,that my vibration and energy is so different,eleganant,esoteric, gentle,and feminine. So thankful that I discovered you and i follow you religiously😁 everything you talk about automatically becomes my law.
I’m so glad you’ve both found her channel - you will have a wonderful life now you have her tips and knowledge. I so wish I had her advice at 22 - I’m almost 34 and only learning all of this now, and being kind with myself as I develop my energy, expectations and esteem. Keep showing up here! ❤
Love how you slid a quote from the bible in at 31:23: "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces." - Matthew 7:6. Thank you for this video.
I am a 26 year old introvert female. And i am happy to have my own chicken coop. Having high self esteem is a daily goal and a lifelong commitment!! It’s OKAY to have lazy and down time and don’t do anything!! It’s actually very healthy too!! Cry lay around in your bed sleep more and just be HUMAN!
Watching this made me realise my self-esteem is way better than I thought! It's a long and winding journey, but working on yourself truly pays off. Thanks for all you do to empower others 💖
“Acting like it’s a virtue “ Omg that’s it. 😤 My aunt is exactly like this. You don’t need to have a man or be in a big event to look good and feel good about yourself!!! She drives me crazy. She doesn’t love herself. I am the total opposite even though i grew up around her. I think it’s because as an introvert i get my validation from myself. It doesn’t matter how much hardship you have gone through. It’s still a one and only you that actually should be having more love not hate!!
Stops whatever I'm doing. Queen has posted. Could you please do a video on taking risks in things like starting your own career (or a career that makes you happy) and taking that leap of faith, knowing you're going to make mistakes and you're going to probably learn a lot?
Why some people like to treat regular human being as if they were Gods? Why would you stop everything you’re doing to watch a TH-cam video from a woman with a history like so many others ? Don’t get it wrong, Margarita is great. But let’s not put TH-camrs on pedestals. 😂
@@nathalian.7209well Margarita's story is not like "others". Her mum gave her a better opportunity in life when moved to the UK from Russia when Margarita was 5 y.o. Probably she would not have achieved that much without her mum's decision
Ranks of womanhood and ranks of feminine energy❤ i want to hear about that. Finally putting my life where i want. I just turned 30 and its time to change things up. Gonna buy ur book❤
Saying no is really hard for me. It's also hard to buy things for myself, especially when it's just for fun (like spending money to travel). It's like I just can buy useful things. And it's my own money. I'm working on it.
This video is so important because I could sense I’ve been out of touch with my feminine energy for a while but I didn’t know why. I didn’t even realize my self esteem has been low until I watched this and could relate to a majority of these points. Wow thank you Margarita. I truly hope you know how valuable your content is. Side note - very interested in the 7 ranks of womanhood 💛
You’re extremely correct- most people are obese & financially illiterate… we have to do things outside the norm (prioritize our health & finances) if we want to be healthy & thriving ❤❤❤
I am 22 & learned how to say no & set boundaries this year! I wish I did way earlier but my family & society brainwashed me to put everyone else first- NO MORE! I’m attempting to move through life with a random tall white man’s audacity!
I love how you put it that your opinion about something doesn’t mean that you have a problem with that person. Even though many people take things personally i learned not to give a f*ck and they can cry about it as much as they want I don’t have any real reason to change my opinion.
Yes, I want you to talk about the Ranks of Feminine Energy. You are a beautiful, extremely smart and just all around wonderful young lady. You go, Girl!! Thank you for your mission of helping females everywhere at every age! I'm 68 and only wish I would have encountered your wisdom and charm in my younger years.
I loved the one about beeing able to admitt that you don't know something or not beeing good at something as a sign of good self-esteem. I too think that having self-esteem also means beeing self-aware, knowing your weaknesses. And beeing able to admit them without the feeling of beeing less because of it. When somebody always act as if he is superman, knows everything, is capable of everything, never doubts himself - for me that is not high self-esteem but rather the opposite
I used to really struggle with: thinking I owe people if they were nice to me (still but now I’m able to stop myself) and also saying no and please them… My self esteem were so low. I’m glad to become more confident with time.
Hearing you talk about declining a small, insignificant request from your husband and your emotional reactions to it was very... validating probably isn't the right word. However, it was nice to hear that I'm not the only one who struggles with pushing back and protecting my time/energy/etc. in the small ways. That pattern has come to my attention recently, and I'm so encouraged to hear that another woman who I respect is also doing work in this area. Can't wait for your book! It's preordered! ❤
Levels/stages of feminine energy!!! Please make a video on this topic!! And thankyou for your hard work, I've come to understand my feminine energy so much better and I'm able to embrace myself slowly as I learnt more after watching your video. I'm aspiring to be like you and I'm working on myself to be a better version of myself. thank you again.
I love the assertive way you talk! I still struggle with the idea of my presence is enough for a man to like me and value me and always think I must be so sexy, so charming, so kind, and stand out in terms of my intelligence and other things in order to have him like me! Could you please make a video about how to be make ourselves believe that the essence of me being is enough for a man to like me versus being sexiest, most intelligent, and kindest?
I am so fascinated by the way you give this precious information about us women. I so appreciate you and your channel because it is another universe to have such opportunity to learn new and grow in this free space of internet. Thank you so much for your willingness to help us and for your work overall.
Honestly Margarita, these are SUCH good tips for everyone I think. Not just women. I truly think you nailed this one across the board. I am so tempted to share with my husband… but I won’t 😂!! So well done 💯
I'm having a hard time letting him go. He lied to me I knew he had another girl but still I was a fool. He blocked me on instagram then told me he wanted to talk.He told me that the girl got jealous of me (she doesn't know he was with me at the same time) after that he didn't have the courage to talk in person like grown adults. So I end things bia text. Now he is in a relationship with her And I fell bad sometimes but i want to start my love journey ❤
i appreciate your videos, your free firey spirit sprinkled with your very fluid authentic comedic nature really uplift and put a smile on my face. i enjoy watching and listening to what you have to say. you are someone many woman of any age can admire. thank you for taking the time to share your gift with me.
I would also love a more elaborate video or podcast on self-esteem part when you start acting the same with the guys you like and the guys you don’t care about. Would love to hear more about that and how to get there!
I’m 62 and just now learning about boundaries and self esteem. I left a 27 year marriage to a narcissist. I’ve been divorced for 2 years. I keep attracting the same kind of men. Your podcasts have been helping me. I still have a ways to go. 😢
I have gained so much info from your videos & I am sharing with my (sisters) girlfriends!! You are soooo relatable on so many levels! Your advice has been inspiring! Luvya 💕
definitely saying no and being afraid of negative emotions! but you really put things into perspective and I definitely don’t feel alone😅 Thank you for your time and energy💞💞
I’d love a video on being in your feminine energy as a single mom….its so hard because you have to maintain a certain way of masculinity in this role. Thank you!
In response to your question in the video this is my fear, or question rather. I’ve always been very agreeable. Played the part of a “good girl” growing up. I feel like my personality was always just whatever it needed to be at the moment to accommodate other people. I was conditioned so much so to do this that now as a fresh 24 year old I feel like I don’t even know who I am. My one goal above all else has always been to be a parent and wife because I never really knew what a complete family felt like. Now that I’m older I have such a case of self doubt that I wonder if those things are even important to me or have I just been taught that achieving that family dynamic would be the ultimate “success” in my mind. It’s so hard to gain a since of confidence when I feel like all it takes is me watching a new show to want to adopt a new personality…I also can’t make a decision to save my life. Which just frustrates me more. But I know one day I’ll get a handle on it. Definitely will be picking up the book. I feel like your videos make me feel like it’s possible to change. You truly feel like an older sister in my healing journey. Thank u for creating this space for me and others to feel validated like this
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
One of this tips reminded me of something you said about the low percentage of women who drag men along. I was one of those. It wasn't malicious on my part I was just depressed and so many other things. Yet the consequence was devastating. My child paid the price.
How funny, I've just started the video, but I was thinking today about all of this advice online on this subject and realized... Hey, this is a form of splitting, of b&w thinking, of extremes and nothing in between which is the result of a person living in survival. In reality, when you're healing and accepting you don't know everything, that we're all learning how to do this thing called life, you chill more... Not in the letting people step on you cause "love and light", no. But in the "hey, I don't like this, imma tell you and if it doesn't work I'll take a breaky break and if it works out after that ok, if not ok again" way. This whole extreme "boundry setting" comes from a very fearful place and it's setting off the other person too tbh. Anyway, just my two cents, back to the video 😁 Congrats on your book!
I was doing the extreme boundary thing and my therapist said that it’s quite normal in the beginning to overdo it a bit if they come from a lifetime of people pleasing. Once we get used to it - it should go into a happy medium of firm but flexible boundaries as we do further healing.
I adore you. I am late in the game but girl, you teach me, you make laugh so much. You are the counselor I wish I had. Thank you in advance for all the good advice I will binge your videos over the weekend xx❤ just pre ordered your book. 🎉
I'm nervous because I'm 38 year old graduate with no kids , funny. But i have little to no experience with sex or dating . I've been pretty much used or friendzoned by pretty much every woman I've encountered. I've finally found happiness alone but I still would like to be in a relationship and dating . Love you content and hope you can help
LOVE so much your content. You are a great human being and putting yourself sometimes in vulnerable situations, it makes you so much beautiful and respected. Amazing the video, by the way. I found myself in some of these situations but I am working for a while on me and it is amazing how the process goes. 🎉❤🦋🎶🍾
1. These are the ways you want to be treated. 2. Be my Manual 3. InConvinient and happy 4. If you are afraid of challenging yourself. Scarcity mindset. 5. Be afraid to buy something for yourself. 6. Sacrifice to be in a relationship, then be happy. What is the point of checking phones or worried about being faithful. Your time is precious. 7. You must be decisive. Train like a muscle. Stop trying to be a good girl.
Decisive people always appear so confident - getting better but def need to work on it. So true how it all stems from our childhood. Always wanted approval and be the good girl …
the biggest reason why I feel like I my confidence is getting crashed is, the feeling that I still carry from when I was 7 years old. I am being neglected emotionally often from my parents. I love them and I am confident but what I really feel like is weakening my self confidence is, not being enough with my being for my friends and family. Or not getting loved. I am right now on the path of healing my inner child. But I have the urge to fall back like how they neglected me, I am neglecting my needs and emotions. Therefore I set boundaries with my friends but actually I am just teriffied to be close to them. It feels complex..
1. If you have a scarcity mindset
2. Not buying something nice for yourself. Out of your league
3. You will compromise at the price of not being happy just to not be alone
4. You are indecisive
5. You compromise your behavior when you like someone
6. You can’t say what you mean
7. You can’t admit to your mistakes
8. You feel like you owe someone after they do something for you
9. You can’t say “No”
10. You think your ideas/ desires are silly
11. You rewrite/rephrase everything in text
12. You don’t like how you look in photos. Especially if you’re not a model
13. Blocking people all the time, especially trolls
14. Comparison
15. Taking hours to get ready
16. You refuse self-improvement
17. You don’t feel like you deserve something when you are in a relationship with a man
18. When others people opinions triggers you
19. You feel like you need to do something to please them
20. When you are scared of peoples negative emotions/reactions
“Convenient women don’t make history” 👏👏💗
Not all heroes wear capes, good Moms are unnoticed (except by their husbands and God-Source itself and that's what all matters).
Focus on you and the focus becomes you ❤
Trying to… but it’s difficult to control the emotions.. any insight? ❤🎉😊
@@happywater1012 Nervous system regulation techniques. Allowing yourself to cry or release the trauma stored in your subconscious and body. Exploring your childhood trauma and finding ways to heal that. I really love EFT Tapping, outdoor walks, tuning into my inner child, singing, yoga... find what works for you. You are worthy.💖🙏🏼
@@MandyJRoss Thank you! 👍💪
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No, I never focus on women, I only focus on myself! I'm extremely selfish. I don't even treat women well and they absolutely adore me! Worship me, really. Put me on a pedestal and butter me up all the time. I know there are a lot of women out there that are desperate and needy for my attention and love, but they will have to wait until I feel like giving them an opportunity with me. ;)
22year old girl here..been watching your videos Margarita for the past year and I cannot even put to words how much you’ve helped me with tuning in my feminine energy.Every day that passes I get some type of comments from people around me especially men,that my vibration and energy is so different,eleganant,esoteric, gentle,and feminine. So thankful that I discovered you and i follow you religiously😁 everything you talk about automatically becomes my law.
I am 22 & she’s helped me grow & self respect myself so much!
I’m so glad you’ve both found her channel - you will have a wonderful life now you have her tips and knowledge. I so wish I had her advice at 22 - I’m almost 34 and only learning all of this now, and being kind with myself as I develop my energy, expectations and esteem. Keep showing up here! ❤
Love how you slid a quote from the bible in at 31:23: "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces." - Matthew 7:6. Thank you for this video.
Amen Jesus is Lord!
"You've got your back if things don't work out. That is true self esteem." 10:14
1. Hating myself in pictures.
2. Putting boundaries down with people.
Thank you for differentiating the fact that women are raised differently by society. It’s for real.
It’s so refreshing from one mother to another to hear “sometimes I don’t have the patience and sometimes I don’t know”
I am a 26 year old introvert female. And i am happy to have my own chicken coop.
Having high self esteem is a daily goal and a lifelong commitment!!
It’s OKAY to have lazy and down time and don’t do anything!! It’s actually very healthy too!!
Cry lay around in your bed sleep more and just be HUMAN!
YES “nice girls” don’t achieve their real dreams & goals because other people use their time, energy, & love up for themselves
Watching this made me realise my self-esteem is way better than I thought! It's a long and winding journey, but working on yourself truly pays off. Thanks for all you do to empower others 💖
❤
I take "Any decision is better than no decision".
“Acting like it’s a virtue “
Omg that’s it. 😤
My aunt is exactly like this.
You don’t need to have a man or be in a big event to look good and feel good about yourself!!!
She drives me crazy.
She doesn’t love herself.
I am the total opposite even though i grew up around her.
I think it’s because as an introvert i get my validation from myself.
It doesn’t matter how much hardship you have gone through. It’s still a one and only you that actually should be having more love not hate!!
Stops whatever I'm doing. Queen has posted. Could you please do a video on taking risks in things like starting your own career (or a career that makes you happy) and taking that leap of faith, knowing you're going to make mistakes and you're going to probably learn a lot?
Why some people like to treat regular human being as if they were Gods? Why would you stop everything you’re doing to watch a TH-cam video from a woman with a history like so many others ? Don’t get it wrong, Margarita is great. But let’s not put TH-camrs on pedestals. 😂
@@nathalian.7209I agree. Treat this person as a friendly advisor... Not as a queen
Just do it. That's it.
@@nathalian.7209well Margarita's story is not like "others". Her mum gave her a better opportunity in life when moved to the UK from Russia when Margarita was 5 y.o. Probably she would not have achieved that much without her mum's decision
@@YanaWanderlust. only in my friend group I have 3 girls who are daughters of immigrants mothers. Yes, margaritas story are like many others.
Ranks of womanhood and ranks of feminine energy❤ i want to hear about that. Finally putting my life where i want. I just turned 30 and its time to change things up. Gonna buy ur book❤
Honestly this helps. It’s exhausting caring what people think and placating to them.
I can’t tell you how important this account has become to me so quickly, like this is the content I’ve been looking for without realising
ranks of feminine energy!! thanks for the video ♥
Saying no is really hard for me. It's also hard to buy things for myself, especially when it's just for fun (like spending money to travel). It's like I just can buy useful things. And it's my own money. I'm working on it.
This video is so important because I could sense I’ve been out of touch with my feminine energy for a while but I didn’t know why. I didn’t even realize my self esteem has been low until I watched this and could relate to a majority of these points. Wow thank you Margarita. I truly hope you know how valuable your content is.
Side note - very interested in the 7 ranks of womanhood 💛
“Cheaty” lol. Sad but true. Gotta move on and up!!!
You’re extremely correct- most people are obese & financially illiterate… we have to do things outside the norm (prioritize our health & finances) if we want to be healthy & thriving ❤❤❤
I am 22 & learned how to say no & set boundaries this year! I wish I did way earlier but my family & society brainwashed me to put everyone else first- NO MORE! I’m attempting to move through life with a random tall white man’s audacity!
That’s hilarious 😂
Tall? Most of the time they're not even tall or attractive in any way, and yet their confidence and audacity is out of the roof 😂
you should definitely make the video on 7 levels of feminine energy, looking forward to it!!!
I love how you put it that your opinion about something doesn’t mean that you have a problem with that person. Even though many people take things personally i learned not to give a f*ck and they can cry about it as much as they want I don’t have any real reason to change my opinion.
the audio is crispy, the knowledge is juicy 🍒 congratulations of your book! I can't wait to fill it with post-its!!!
Did you read my mind? This is exactly the kind of video I needed to watch today lol
Yes, I want you to talk about the Ranks of Feminine Energy. You are a beautiful, extremely smart and just all around wonderful young lady. You go, Girl!! Thank you for your mission of helping females everywhere at every age! I'm 68 and only wish I would have encountered your wisdom and charm in my younger years.
“So what who cares” is my mantra at the moment and it’s so freeing please make a video on the law of least effort 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Girl, you are SO INSPIRING. Thank you for putting this out there and for putting yourself on the internet. You are helping me so much.
I loved the one about beeing able to admitt that you don't know something or not beeing good at something as a sign of good self-esteem. I too think that having self-esteem also means beeing self-aware, knowing your weaknesses. And beeing able to admit them without the feeling of beeing less because of it. When somebody always act as if he is superman, knows everything, is capable of everything, never doubts himself - for me that is not high self-esteem but rather the opposite
I used to really struggle with: thinking I owe people if they were nice to me (still but now I’m able to stop myself) and also saying no and please them… My self esteem were so low. I’m glad to become more confident with time.
Hearing you talk about declining a small, insignificant request from your husband and your emotional reactions to it was very... validating probably isn't the right word. However, it was nice to hear that I'm not the only one who struggles with pushing back and protecting my time/energy/etc. in the small ways. That pattern has come to my attention recently, and I'm so encouraged to hear that another woman who I respect is also doing work in this area.
Can't wait for your book! It's preordered! ❤
Love Margarita! Her anxious attachment videos helped me tremendously, more therapy.
Levels/stages of feminine energy!!!
Please make a video on this topic!! And thankyou for your hard work, I've come to understand my feminine energy so much better and I'm able to embrace myself slowly as I learnt more after watching your video. I'm aspiring to be like you and I'm working on myself to be a better version of myself. thank you again.
Omg I love this post so much. I had no boundaries and now I just cut everyone out. Both don't work. I needed this post 🙏
Yes please do ranks of feminine woman video! Amazing video again, thank you ❤ I struggle with acting like good girl still and what people think of me…
I love the assertive way you talk! I still struggle with the idea of my presence is enough for a man to like me and value me and always think I must be so sexy, so charming, so kind, and stand out in terms of my intelligence and other things in order to have him like me! Could you please make a video about how to be make ourselves believe that the essence of me being is enough for a man to like me versus being sexiest, most intelligent, and kindest?
I am so fascinated by the way you give this precious information about us women. I so appreciate you and your channel because it is another universe to have such opportunity to learn new and grow in this free space of internet. Thank you so much for your willingness to help us and for your work overall.
Honestly Margarita, these are SUCH good tips for everyone I think. Not just women. I truly think you nailed this one across the board. I am so tempted to share with my husband… but I won’t 😂!! So well done 💯
Since watching your videos I have slowly getting back to the pre 2020 me
I'm having a hard time letting him go. He lied to me I knew he had another girl but still I was a fool. He blocked me on instagram then told me he wanted to talk.He told me that the girl got jealous of me (she doesn't know he was with me at the same time) after that he didn't have the courage to talk in person like grown adults.
So I end things bia text.
Now he is in a relationship with her
And I fell bad sometimes but i want to start my love journey ❤
Stay strong... letting go is not easy.... but as time passes and you focus on yourself, you'll feel better each day.
Best wishes and hugs :-)
i appreciate your videos, your free firey spirit sprinkled with your very fluid authentic comedic nature really uplift and put a smile on my face. i enjoy watching and listening to what you have to say. you are someone many woman of any age can admire. thank you for taking the time to share your gift with me.
I couldn´t agree more! People can put this topic across way too harshly! Xx
When it comes to decision making - HUMAN DESIGN is what we all can benefit from and learn it as a great tool to operate in our own lives.
Thanks🙏🏾✨
I would also love a more elaborate video or podcast on self-esteem part when you start acting the same with the guys you like and the guys you don’t care about. Would love to hear more about that and how to get there!
@ 2:11 - love. I find Margarita warm and very funny.
I just love your podcasts! My fear is being yelled at. I’m afraid when people get mad at me. No matter what it is. Anger is my enemy. 😢
I’m 62 and just now learning about boundaries and self esteem. I left a 27 year marriage to a narcissist. I’ve been divorced for 2 years. I keep attracting the same kind of men. Your podcasts have been helping me. I still have a ways to go. 😢
I have gained so much info from your videos & I am sharing with my (sisters) girlfriends!! You are soooo relatable on so many levels! Your advice has been inspiring! Luvya 💕
definitely saying no and being afraid of negative emotions! but you really put things into perspective and I definitely don’t feel alone😅 Thank you for your time and energy💞💞
I laugh so loud every time!! You’re so wise and also so funny!!
You empower me with your feminine leadership. Bought the book, audio, & subscribed. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. 💕
This was such a great episode, thank you so much! Also ranks in womanhood video - yes please. Sending lots of love 💕
She is so amazingly wonderful, i learned so much from her, and I am a trained licensed psychotherapist. Of course she's gorgeous too!!
Saying “I don’t know” is powerful!
Spot on as always! You rock! God bless you and your beautiful family 🥰
I’d love a video on being in your feminine energy as a single mom….its so hard because you have to maintain a certain way of masculinity in this role. Thank you!
many usefull information! i also laughed a lot :) The Virgo vibes are on point xx
Love all your videos!!
This video is so humbling. When u think you've got ur shot together and then nope got more work to do.
Haven't watched a 30 min TH-cam video in a while and you made me do it❤
Funny and informative thanks for this video❤
In response to your question in the video this is my fear, or question rather. I’ve always been very agreeable. Played the part of a “good girl” growing up. I feel like my personality was always just whatever it needed to be at the moment to accommodate other people. I was conditioned so much so to do this that now as a fresh 24 year old I feel like I don’t even know who I am. My one goal above all else has always been to be a parent and wife because I never really knew what a complete family felt like. Now that I’m older I have such a case of self doubt that I wonder if those things are even important to me or have I just been taught that achieving that family dynamic would be the ultimate “success” in my mind. It’s so hard to gain a since of confidence when I feel like all it takes is me watching a new show to want to adopt a new personality…I also can’t make a decision to save my life. Which just frustrates me more. But I know one day I’ll get a handle on it. Definitely will be picking up the book. I feel like your videos make me feel like it’s possible to change. You truly feel like an older sister in my healing journey. Thank u for creating this space for me and others to feel validated like this
i really enjoy hearing u talk bc youre confident with who u are
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked he up now online. impressive
Acting around the man you like the same as you act around men you don’t like his genius. Concise piece of advice.
Love love love love your content ❤❤❤❤
One of this tips reminded me of something you said about the low percentage of women who drag men along. I was one of those. It wasn't malicious on my part I was just depressed and so many other things. Yet the consequence was devastating. My child paid the price.
Finding you has changed mi life!
I love, love, Loooove your content. Is a true gem and is a crime that it has not gone viral for the right reasons.only toxic and useless content does.
How funny, I've just started the video, but I was thinking today about all of this advice online on this subject and realized... Hey, this is a form of splitting, of b&w thinking, of extremes and nothing in between which is the result of a person living in survival. In reality, when you're healing and accepting you don't know everything, that we're all learning how to do this thing called life, you chill more... Not in the letting people step on you cause "love and light", no. But in the "hey, I don't like this, imma tell you and if it doesn't work I'll take a breaky break and if it works out after that ok, if not ok again" way. This whole extreme "boundry setting" comes from a very fearful place and it's setting off the other person too tbh.
Anyway, just my two cents, back to the video 😁 Congrats on your book!
I was doing the extreme boundary thing and my therapist said that it’s quite normal in the beginning to overdo it a bit if they come from a lifetime of people pleasing. Once we get used to it - it should go into a happy medium of firm but flexible boundaries as we do further healing.
Learning life and English with you Margarita ❤ Thank you ❤
Ranks of feminine energy & womanhood! As always, thank you for the excellent video 💙🩵
I love listening to you!❤
I liked the sound of your other microphone more, feels more intimate 😊 Other then that I love all your content! Excited for the book!❤
This is soooo good! And you are hilarious 😂
I adore you. I am late in the game but girl, you teach me, you make laugh so much. You are the counselor I wish I had. Thank you in advance for all the good advice I will binge your videos over the weekend xx❤ just pre ordered your book. 🎉
Didn't skipped any ads because queen deserves it🥳😍❤
This is a great podcast! So many of the points hit home!
I'm nervous because I'm 38 year old graduate with no kids , funny. But i have little to no experience with sex or dating . I've been pretty much used or friendzoned by pretty much every woman I've encountered. I've finally found happiness alone but I still would like to be in a relationship and dating . Love you content and hope you can help
Ooh yes please, ranks of feminine energy, would love to hear about that. Love your content ❤ True Queen!!
Love this ❤ mic was good, I preferred the other one. Crisper sound. But amazing content 😊
Yaayyy I like this new microphone !
Thanks for this great channel .. Nader Hassan from Egypt ❤
LOVE so much your content. You are a great human being and putting yourself sometimes in vulnerable situations, it makes you so much beautiful and respected. Amazing the video, by the way. I found myself in some of these situations but I am working for a while on me and it is amazing how the process goes. 🎉❤🦋🎶🍾
I love hearing you say, “ MY KIDS!!!!” ❤
1. These are the ways you want to be treated.
2. Be my Manual
3. InConvinient and happy
4. If you are afraid of challenging yourself. Scarcity mindset.
5. Be afraid to buy something for yourself.
6. Sacrifice to be in a relationship, then be happy. What is the point of checking phones or worried about being faithful. Your time is precious.
7. You must be decisive. Train like a muscle. Stop trying to be a good girl.
Decisive people always appear so confident - getting better but def need to work on it. So true how it all stems from our childhood. Always wanted approval and be the good girl …
Margarita, you’re not only beautiful but also intelligent, and funny. You’re rock ❤
Agreed Dog, hush your fangs! LOL!!
My parents seriously taught me nothing, would of loved to grow up with advice like this 😫
I’m also afraid of people’s negative reactions if I didn’t do or act as they like! Or even say anything that is against their beliefs! It’s exhausting
the biggest reason why I feel like I my confidence is getting crashed is, the feeling that I still carry from when I was 7 years old. I am being neglected emotionally often from my parents. I love them and I am confident but what I really feel like is weakening my self confidence is, not being enough with my being for my friends and family. Or not getting loved. I am right now on the path of healing my inner child. But I have the urge to fall back like how they neglected me, I am neglecting my needs and emotions. Therefore I set boundaries with my friends but actually I am just teriffied to be close to them. It feels complex..
Low boundaries with him, with myself too I suppose. I really want to change this part of my identity.
I cannot wait to read your book
The Liz Hurley analogy was great
Ranks of womanhood, please 😊 I would love to hear more on that. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts, I am learning so much.
I will definitely be buying your book ❤
Loved this, big thanks.
Thank you Margarita ❤