Dave Ramsey on How Successful People Tackle Loneliness
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- Dave Ramsey on How Successful People Tackle Loneliness
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“Success is just standing on the pile of your mistakes rather than underneath it.”
Well if you knew it was a mistake how did it become a mistake? Response to the orgial quote (“Success is just standing on the pile of your mistakes rather than underneath it.”)
Well said. Thanks for the goof quote
Could u tell me what he meant by saying i started beating this drum at the first of the video ?
Could u help !
i like this quote. definitely a great way at looking at things.
This guy was the best hire in the history of Ramsey
Dope conversation bro!!!
Anthony O’Neal lurking in the comments like usual! 😂😂
Hey its Anthony Oneal!!
@@beeezeee1783 😂
I love you long time
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"the more people i know ... the more i love my dog!"
💯🙏
The more I love myself *
If your dog could talk you wouldn’t like him as much 😂
Yes! Honestly I'm not a church attendant because of all the judgemental people who wanna do what this man wants. "Let's get together and read the bible!" Hard pass, that is my private time - I want a friend not a pastor. You don't need to be Bible thumping with your peers to be a good person. I'd rather be home with my dogs.
John Delony is a gem.
Agreed! He’s really the best.
I remember half the comments were hating on him when he first got hired
@@ladev91 lol do you remember why?
Dr Delony, in my opinion is hands down the best personality on Ramsay solutions, only one I’m consistently watching their content.
Yes yes yes!
Truth. I unsubscribed from all of the others including the main show. 1. Dave’s bullying of callers has gone too far. 2. Covering for Chris Hogan while at the same time firing low level employees for morality offences.
Agreed! Haven’t missed an episode yet!
@@CurtMortis I so wish this wasn’t true, but it is. :(
Fully agree! Dr. D is real and he tries hard to do his job to the best of his ability. AO on the other hand - tries to “impress” and he is artificial.
I dont hate people , I just like them better when there not around - Henry Bukowski
This is so true! I been in isolation myself. It’s hard meeting people as an adult
We work on only what we can control- read the slight edge- no season lasts forever!
From a single mom who worked on herself- made a million mistakes but didn’t give up - has a doctorate, masters in nutrition- and owns a 6 figure business...and came from nothing and nowhere - Mottville MI.
As an introvert, it makes me feel better about myself that Dr. Delony is also an introvert.
Yep!
Same
I'm an introvert and can't imagine why that would be something to feel insecure about.
Dr. Delony an Introvert?! Man nice joke hhaha
@@oaoskey6051 - I get extremely uncomfortable with public speaking, however I've noticed in the past that when I'm (forced to) publicly speak often and consistently, I quickly become very good at it, and others would likely assume that I have the personality for it. I suspect Dr. Delony is extremely intelligent and therefore is able to quickly become very good at it even though he doesn't posses a natural talent for it.
I love what Dave says about connecting with people who are more ‘successful’, (or, have experienced things you’ve not experienced yet). Learning is constant and we all learn from one another. To grow as a person, you need to hang out with others who know more than you. Everyone knows something you don’t. You know something others don’t. Stay humble and be open-minded to opportunities in life.
This special with Dave is so 🔥😍 it peels back a layer and is super relatable and helpful.
This is something that a great number of business leaders and church leaders need to hear. Isolation can be very negative in the long term. Relationships that hold integrity as a standard, while encouraging each other to stick to that standard, are golden.
Some people don't outgrow their high School friends. I remember watching a documentary on Mark Cuban, and he said that he is worth over 5 billion dollars, and his best friends are his four high School friends.
but I also think it depends on the caliber of your high school friends.
For whatever reason, I was exposed to five of the best gals I would ever meet in Jr. and High school and all of them married great guys too. So I am still to this day best friends with all of them. A girl I met when I was five was toxic to me and I was free of her at age 34 ( bless the Lord ) and a couple of gals that I've met since then did not work out either. That makes no sense though LOL because my picker ought to be better. Not one of my good friends from High and Jr. High begrudge my big new house whether they have one or not. It's not Dave Ramsey big of course LOL...but I've picked newer friends that did. Odd.
Perhaps because they are "true friends," i.e. people who knew him long before he had an 8 figure net worth and they still treat him like "him."
@@mandysimmons2769 I still have contact with two ladies who were my h.s. besties. I do have other friends too, but those ladies from "the day" are true friends through and through.
@@wiseowl2020 I'm glad for ya. I bet you are too though!
I'm going to listen to this clip like 1,000 times over the next year, I can tell right away
What happens when you outgrow your family though? It’s not just friends, it could be family as well
same
Even family is in your life for a specific season. Just because you share blood does NOT mean they are always suppose to be in your life.
love them from a distance
I’ve outgrown mine. We just…don’t know each other, we don’t see things the same, we don’t have a deep connection, they don’t know my current self
I really appreciate this candid talk with Mr. Ramsey and Dr. Delony. It makes internalize and gain new perspectives in my own personal life. I’d love to see more candid conversations with Mr. Ramsey and the rest of the personalities.
It can feel stupid to "be real", especially in business and career relationships. It's best to not listen to the voice that tells you to be someone your not.
I've always believed that old saying, u are the average of the 5 plp u choose to surround urself with. Having a small core group of authentic plp to look up to, to admire, to learn from, is in my opinion a great virtue. In each chapter of r lives, r friends can change, but r values shouldn't, (if they r good.) so its apparent that there might be fluctuations in those friendships, & in the size of ur true connections. Great topic for all walks of life!
I was literally just thinking about this exact thing this week and reaching out to someone who is an amazing business woman who I'm really interested in getting to know - but had some of those doubtful thoughts that you talked about in the back of my mind. Thank you for this amazing conversation! Love it!
I like the dynamic. They are having a good conversation.
This was very relatable! I need more of these Delony sessions dealing with deep issues like this.
I had to comment again. I have lived this truth. As I attain different levels of success people have floated in and out of my life, some by my doing, and as I get older I have become more discerning who is a true friend and who just likes me in my current state of success. It's like the Fleetwood Mac song, "Dreams", where it says, "thunder only happens when it's raining. Players only love you when your playing". Great video topic!
A lot of petty, jealous haters in the world. The best thing you can do for yourself, if you have money or have a plan to get money, is to keep your mouth shut. Don’t tell anyone because they will try to get in your head and in your wallet.
Man that intro was rough. I miss me and my friends ghetto parties. They were by far much better than the ones these days.
Is that because less people got shot and killed back in the day or something?
Haha I know the feels. I’m successful but I’ve gotten my wife to let me hang out with my party friends who don’t have a care in the world. That way we’re successful but I still have fun 😂😅 but we’re buying a rental property every year with 20% down and $1000 avg cashflow per property each month, so our finances are good too and we have no debt aside from the money-making rentals.
I really enjoy this actual conversation between the two. Very cool!
I think I needed to hear this from them. Sometimes I forget DR is a real person. Dr. D is a very interesting interviewer. Good move
Dave and John are my favorite Duo
You chose awesome friends Dave! Dr Cloud is amazing!
I’ve been able to work with Dr. Cloud a few times. He really is awesome!
I love Dave, he’s a different person on another show that isn’t his because he respects the host
Agree on all of these points...part of the reason for my loneliness is because I had to work so hard to get where I am that I didn't have time to cultivate friendships
Thank you for this great discussion! The isolation of the Lockdown, as well as, health and financial problems has been challenging. This helped mucho ❤
This was the best conversation I’ve seen on YT
I needed to hear this. So many have "images" to ahold. I had someone tell me what my "image" should be. My image is that I am who I am. Dave and I are extroverts! Great video message.
If you lost everything, no one would be around. Were attentive due to the stuff we own!!! not because people really truly like us!! Obviously, we do have good friends BUT most of those people just like the status or stuff you own...and only a handful are actually true friends!
This is sooo true tho, the way I’ve been on another level from late last year, transformed a lot, from huge weight loss, feeling and looking better, having better self love & self care, being more conscious and paying attention to not just who seems to wanna come back into my life but those that haven’t even reached out, some were shocked with how I’m doing now especially with how I’m in the military now too. Honestly I feel I’ve really come a long way & I plan on continue my journey with bettering myself as private as I can be. I always remember how ppl say “ppl will only like u when it’s beneficial” they see you’re doing good, forgetting it was a whole process but that’s just wat it is 🤷🏽♀️ Also as u get older it’s only few that are real genuine friends that will stick around, everyone else don’t be surprised if it’s envy or they being miserable & they want u too be like them
Yes!!! These are by far my favorites. Take care y’all. Thank you for being vulnerable.
I think Ramsey hired Dr. Deloney as a personal psychiatrist 😂😂 love these guys
Wow the part about living a double life bringing a leader down... someone’s always watching so is God... deep
I'm impressed Dave knew about Uncle Rico!
"You would be amazed at that all these successful people are really all their success is a pile of mistakes you've made and you are standing on it rather than laying under it. So they have all climbed a mountain of garbage too."
Great clip! Good advice for men & women alike. Greetings from 🇦🇺 Australia!
This is a gem of a conversation. Thank you!
"I am going to go first, and practice friends."
I'm a leader in my field. 25,000 of my members look to me to succeed for them...
I don't have those men in my life. I desperately want and need them. I keep searching and they're so hard to find.
Such a big challenge. Have you heard about Carey Nieuwhof’s Leader’s Circle? You would be a great candidate for the premium level.
I'll be your friend hahaha
Dr. D has gotta hit us up with that hairdresser they got at Ramsey giving him those fresh cuts
This isn't a post for anyone to feel sorry for me or anything like that, but I just want to be vulnerable. Maybe someone will or will not read this. I'll be 28 in 2 days, and I have no friends. I have hardly any family left. Loneliness is destroying me. I cannot for the life of me find anyone who wants to truly be my friend. I lost all my high school friends. Never hear from them. I've always tried and stay out of trouble, live basically a good wholesome life, that is also God centered. Still to feel like no one wants to be in my life. Can't find the right girl, cannot get my family to have anything to do with me. Anyone have any advice? I'm desperate...
Wesley, I hope that these suggestions might help you - joining clubs that interest you (eg sporting, book, youth, church etc). There are many out there, you need to find one or two that interest you. Volunteering at animal shelters, hospitals, meal services, big brother programs, services for the elderly etc. Volunteering will make you feel good and also the recipient. After my Dad passed away my Mum struggled with having to live on her own after 54 years of marriage. She decided to become a volunteer and enjoys it immensely. You said that you live a God centred life, do you attend church? There are many churches that have social groups. As for your family, maybe tell them that you miss them and would like to spend more time with them and see how they respond. Maybe you might need to be the initiator/organiser of family get togethers (something as simple as a regular coffee meet up). I hope that this gives you some ideas/direction.
The distinction between youth and age is life experience. We cannot expect someone in their 40's to understand and appreciate the life experience of someone in their senior years. What is the msg we want to impart to our progeny? You WILL make mistakes. Admit your mistakes and have a soul- searching conversation with your progeny...they long for your truth and are more forgiving than one might think possible.
Pain is beauty.
My high school friends are still good friends of mine and I don't understand why we would have to outgrow them. We are all educated, similar lifestyles. Not all of my hs friends are still there but quite a few and it's perfect that way.
Same I had tons of “friends” in high school but after graduating I quickly realized I only had a couple of true friends. Everyone kinda goes off in their own direction, we don’t necessarily have to outgrow them. It’s all about keeping your true friends close and not worrying about people who want your company for their own benefits who won’t support you in your time of need.
Thats awesome but I think you are the exception not the rule. Most people do dumb decisions and hang with the wrong crowd when they are younger. He is saying there is nothing wrong with outgrowing an immature or bad crowd.
I think for a lot of people that are posers they're just young and insecure. With age a lot of people lose that and start to realize what's important in life. When I was in my teens and early 20's I actually felt and believed I didn't deserve to even interact with people including relatives because I was not on tract to be super successful and thought I had no value. A lot of people take until their late 20s to get on the right track career wise and so many younger people think they need to have it all, including a house asap after they graduate. This can cause people to become posers because they think no one could love them or think of them as worthy to interact with just for who they are.
this was just what I needed. thank you Dave and John
Dave Ramsey for US President 2024 🇺🇸
Clean water, cleans dirty water.
I think also thinking of what insight you can put into their lives as well as what they can do for you would be helpful
Really really enjoy listening to you all ❤
I’ve been looking for something like this
I have always loved the idea of an "eagle" cohort. Have had the privilege a couple of times in my life.
Thank you for this interview.
Evolution of Friends!!!
Great wisdom. Thanks for sharing 👍🇺🇸
I want more stuff like this!
Really enjoyed this conversation! Thank you.
This is such an important conversation. I would love if they had more like this.
I get energy from being alone!
“11 will email me when I’m down, 6 will carry the casket” wow
Great merger between you guys 10 10
This is an awesome conversation
Good advice, authentic people in any situation.
Love this !!! So helpful
Friends just need money or money phrased as "work".
Excellent insight!!!
I disagree. My HS and college friends are very dear to me. But, the difference is, I went to boarding school with them. They were brought up the same way I was in the same denomination I was. They knew me as a venerable teenager and we can talk about anything and we talk about everything. We are all down to earth. They are real people. We get together every 5 years still and my family still goes on vacation with some of our HS/college friends.
Sounds like you haven’t outgrown them yet. Some of the things we can’t understand until we personally experience them
@@samtavoosian3059 by that standard if you and your wife are highschool sweethearts you're doing it wrong. You should have outgrown her or him.. doesn't make any sense. If your friends aren't dragging you down, there is absolutely no reason to "outgrow" them. In fact, it is such a egoistical way of looking them that I can't believe Dave, who is a self claim religious person, would think like that
@@201francois your friends don't have to drag you down in order for you to outgrow them. People do grow apart it's just life.
@@carnivore_princess you should reread the original statement.
Loving this advice
That's a hard balance for professionals. You dedicate to carrier and everything else disappear s.
Amazing insight!!
You can see John cringing internally here a few times.
This is the realest
I'm proud too!!!
Wow thats a great interview
This is so cool!
Isolation is the only slice of heaven in this hell. Why seek poor quality humans for entertainment?
Wow! I hadn’t paid attention to this part of my life. :/
Is this glancing blow about the situation with Chris?! It needs to be discussed.
no it doesnt
What happened
@@Justin-sx6se google his name
No, it does not
More of this
Where can I find a good Southern man to marry? 😭. I’m Canadian!
Move to Texas
Texas can always use good people. There are still good men here who want to start a family.
Agreed. Come to Texas. But please be a woman who loves to cook and clean and be supportive
Stop looking
Uh…the South?
Dealing with this now I started trading and making money now I'm dealing with fake jealous friends but I decided to join an investor group and hopefully meet new people who have similar interests
this conversation was great to listen in on
Hope you guys still reach out to Chris Hogan to see how he's doing.
Dave said to ask people into your life! Well, that is a tall order, indeed. I live in Minneapolis, MN , and people here do not want to associate with others unless they can so them some good.
I live in the exact same area and you have to be careful but I think there's opportunities that maybe we don't see right away or that represent opportunities
This just gave me the push I needed to reach back out to a friend who has been reaching out to me
What do you do when we have things and your husband doesn’t want to talk to you
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Why don't you speak to professional athletes? So many would benefit from hearing you in person. Will your shows ever be translated into other languages?
Wow, I feel like a bad friend not being close to friends from H.S. And college but it is true they are different. People I would be in brawls, smoke, drink with fun but now as a father I would NEVER allow these people around me.
"New Levels, New Devils", Yeah....
Why does this feel like a lot of passive aggressive jabs at Chris Hogan?
Can you explain what happened there? I’m out of the loop
@@HenryPaulThe3rd Chris resigned/ was fired for sleeping around.
Finance Avengers
We all know how Robert Kraft deals with loneliness
Dave who?
Step 1: By all of the oprhans.
John Delony bullcràps alot. Dave Ramsey is straight to the freakin point
Did he say read the Bible?