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- A student at SRCC asks Sadhguru how to deal with loneliness and the feeling of not belonging, not being accepted and not being loved.
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Fabulous words!
Thank you for that
thanks
Till when..m so tired
Thank you!!
I'm almost 32 and I'm still learning how to deal with loneliness, his words will help me alot.
I'm 45 and still learning.But it's great learning to be in good company with yourself ♥️
Hahahaha.... i'm 60 years old now;-)
@@sessiontaken2413 safe travels 😃
@@gjnbouwmeester5860 stay safe 🙂
I’m wondering if we use the word loneliness when we actually feel vulnerable.
"Weather we are interacting or intercoursing, we are always alone in this body".
But you are alive. That's important.
whether
Driven by needs - you lead a miserable life, if you are present here without need, but do what is needed, you lead a magnificent life!!
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Genuine question, what does he mean by "do what is needed"?
@@doublebeefstew I’m trying to figure that out too
This is a helpful thought process of yours.
Same question
I'm 20 years old.. I'm so confused for my future and have so many responsibilities.. I mess up everything I do.. There is so much negativity in me and my life.. I was a bright student once.. But now I don't like to study at all.. Whenever I try to concentrate or study I start feel lazy or depressed... I just don't know what to do.. I just think of my future whole tym.. I want to work hard but I'm helpless.. I don't have anyone in my life to share this.. I feel so lonely.
bro u are not alone Same happens with me but the thing is that my age is 18. I feel a emptiness and loneliness within myself as if something is missing. I was also a bright student and I now don't like it . lockdown and jio internet is the reason for my emptiness
Same situation bro! 🙌💯 totally relatable...After 10th class I have no one in my life to share anything! Day by day every day getting bored.. 🥲
I Don't know what will happen in the future but hope everything will be fine!🤲
~Pray, trust,wait ✨
You're not alone. I once felt like this as well. I of course don't know your personal situation, but these are some things that worked for me. The most important thing is having a routine. Waking up and sleeping at the same time everyday will create some order in your life. Keeping your room and study area clean is very important, because you cannot have a clear mind without having a clean environment. These tips might seem futile, but they are the foundation for beginning to get your life in order. Many of us today feel lazy or depressed because of our screen time on our phones/social media. These things give us dopamine influxes that make us feel good in the moment, but really are just making us lazy and addicted. Try to do four hours of deep work a day. That means 4 hours in which you are not being distracted by anything else and you are simply focusing on work, studying or doing something that is beneficial for you and your brain. This will be the most difficult, but most rewarding part. Best of luck and I hope some of this helps you.
@@luxshiev33 yess you are right!! Thanks!✨
@@luxshiev33 hey thankyou for your suggestion.. I'm definitely gonna follow it.
The fact i searched how to overcome loneliness really shows my mental health state 😔
Same bro
No help from sadhguru
I think many people has that feeling. I came over here beacuse i have felt loneliness too long and iam in a age where my friends want to marry and settle down and iam afraid to be alone. I kinda know its just in my head. But, he did have a good point we are all alone in our body. I feel i have to fix my life in a way where i can enjoy life more and dont be dependent on other people to make me happy
Atleast we're being pro active buddy. I hope you're feeling a bit better.
I am alone by myself but I do not feel lonely. I don’t know what that is. Make yourself happy. If you not happy and happiness comes within not from others making you happy, it’s really a problem for you. A professional is needed to discuss that. Loneliness is more like a depression. That’s why courage is needed. It’s a state of mind. There’s many states of mind and you need to train your mind commonly saying work on yourself. There’s love around you everywhere. If you are lonely you are powerless it’s better to get outside and talk with people. And, that’s enough sometimes to boost your libido. No one is alone. Spiritual world is around us too. Getting out of loneliness is getting out of the mind set that is lying to you that your worthless. And, you can’t let it treat you like this and lie to you. So it’s simple.
Aloneness is a bliss. You get absolute freedom to enjoy your thoughts, feelings and imagination. It is better to develop our own space in the digitally connected world which has nothing in to do with the real you. In a nutshell, what matters most is how are you within yourself.
No it isn't
When you enjoy being alone, you look at life in a different way. People will dim your light, if you let them. Your Soul is so powerful. Learn to go within and experience your true nature.
No they won't
I really needed this… I was manifesting it since yday… Om Namah Shivay…🙏🏻
Me too
@Developer Same here! Har har mahadev
Om Namah Shivaya
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All the best to all here
Shiva Shambhu
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@@DRAGON-ni5im Har Har MAHADEV
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I AM LEFT JUST SPEECHLESS!
This video was uploaded just when I needed it the most❤️
"Synchronicity" (C G Jung) 🙌 👏 🙏 🤝 👍
It’s usually like this.
He is so cool....love his perspective....😇
“One of the biggest problems in the world today is loneliness. It is quite incredible. The planet is teeming with seven billion people, but people are lonely!” - SAVESOIL 💛 *SADHGURU (☀️Your Wisdom TH-camR)🌸💫💜*
We very highly suggest (Secrets of Sanatan Dharma) it's a wonderful book by Author Sai Prasad panda....
There is a big difference between being alone and being lonely. I love being alone. ♡
@@CLLufkin you are concious one ! what the song name every sadhguru ending hes session?
Bcuz society is divided
“If you are alone and you are getting bored, obviously you are in bad company.” - SAVESOIL ❤️ *SADHGURU (☀️Your Wisdom TH-camR)🌸💫💜*
Hahahahaha, so good and so true, we ourselves are often the bad company.
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@@stevensexton204 So true Steven ! Even famous SENECA recommended " If you are alone with yourself be pretty SURE that you are in GOOD company! "
Finally, I am in my element. Madness just happens to be my super power. I am grateful to live in the time of Sadhguru 👽
You must be kidding
That's one thing you don't get taught in school, how to handle loneliness and how to handle freedom. Thank god for gurus like Sadhguru for teaching us what we should be taught as children but sadly most of us are not
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Yes.
The new left doesn't get this.
How to handoe freedom...are you out of your mind or what
middle aged woman.lost and lonely.never thought this feeling existed in me until lately.it's a hard battle everyday..Be blessed to all..🙏
feeling loneliness is too hard cannot express😢😢Thank you so much sadhguru For this video🙏🙏🙏
Human are social by nature. Freedom and being alone are not entirely the same.
You feel lonely because you feel the real truth. We are alone with our self. That's why you feel lonely. Its normale to feel this.
Hayatta en güçlü insan, en uzun süre yalnız kalabilendir.
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Henrik İbsen
Sadhguru you are a beautiful guru thank you for your humanitarianism. Loneliness is only a state of mind but the world is at peace with others like you. Thank you
Hi, can we be friends
"Sit here without any need, but doing what is needed."
What does that mean?
@@Tiffanysmith339it means:
What is needed to be done is that which is good for everyone, all of creation. You can do that only if you are unbiased - selfless. Where your needs, as valid as they are, do not supersede those of others. Whosever’s needs are more important determine the choice you make. The Sanskrit word for this concept is Dharma. Do your dharma.
To be truly happy, you have to live beyond greed, anger, fear and grief. You cannot let these take you off balance. You feel the anger, but you let it run through you and exit, without swaying you Similarly for greed, fear, and grief.
Perfect & beautiful explanation by dear Great Sadhguru. ❤️🙏
Agree 100% !!!! although I was always without any partner , (at this stage of my life) I consider myself very lucky and YES I do really love my life and myself and I do not need anyone to bring me joy because I can go on every day alone very well without any feeling of sadness ...but instead I feel blessed with nice family and very good friends
That's great to hear! It's wonderful that you have a supportive family and good friends in your life. 💜💜
if you have a family, then you are not really alone. Especially if you are receiving love and support from them.
Alone we came to this world and alone we will have to leave ; but it's the period in between, which is very difficult to live alone !
My mom and dad where there
The answer is very much implicit in the narrative itself ! What's absolutely required is - proper application of mind ! However, it's an altogether different issue, if someone feigns ignorance intentionally !
Twin sister,if monozygotic twins are born then such people are not born alone.
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It seems - a neurotic case, which demands urgent medical attention, has appeared on the horizon ! How unfortunate and heart - rending it is !
@@amarendraborah6941 hope that works out for ya
Impeccable timing as always Sadhguru.. How is a question i ahve stopped asking
Your space is your individual soul
Hello Danny, you really look good in that black heart.
All is well
Everything will be fine
Gem of a GURU
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What a clarity on loneliness and being alone...
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Hi, can we be friends
Hey, I'm glad I come across this. I rather be by myself than be around the wrong people. I ran with several friend groups over the years, and we wasn't close. But I noticed they were close with each other. We had different goals, mindsets and energy. We were on different paths and wavelengths. As the only child, solitude is bliss and peaceful. If you are reading this and feel lonely, it will get better. Your people on your wavelength is out there.
@@M3gaBouncyBall I appreciate you!
@Katherine Thanks for sharing your story! See, I'm the only child, and crave my solitude. The people I wanted to be friends with over the years? The feeling wasn't mutual. Instead of wasting time, I decided to go down my own unique path and find people on my same wavelength. Too many times I find people in my age group front appearances being what they not to fit in. Why in the world would I want their life based on a few photos that they post on social media? And sorry that you feel lonely, I promise your people is out there. ❤
@Katherine Anytime. I went ahead and subbed you. Anytime you need a listening ear reach out. You will get there. I believe in you.
@@fikiyaki8919 Thanks for reading! I really appreciate it!
Sushmita: listening to this speech... suddenly I don't feel alone knowing there are millions who experience loneliness of some form. It's blissful in many dimensions to be alone 🙏 Powerful as always Gurujee Love you more each day 💜 ❤ 💕
This video is so amazing and helpful.when life seems unbearable, hold on . There is more to the story of our life.kerp going my friend
I'm glad this video was helpful for you. It can be difficult to keep going when life feels unbearable, but it's important to hold on and remember that there is always more to the story of our lives. And don't forget, if you could use a friend, I'm here for you.🌟💡🌳
Why don't ppl want to be alone.. It feels supremely good!
If embracing loneliness is the answer o my days. What a piece of advice for someone who's feeling lonely just get used to to it and learn to be happy being alone.
I love sadguru🙏🏼 thank you for all you do for the world. You’ve done for me what no one has ever!! 🙏🏼 may you live forever ❤️
Im 28 and I’m lonely but when I’m around ppl they tend to annoy me… not to mention my relationship is dull but if I break that up I’ll lose even more…. Don’t even get me started on how impossible it is to make friends after high school lol
It sounds like you're struggling with a challenging situation. It can be difficult to find meaningful connections and relationships, especially as we get older and our social circles change. It's important to remember that you are not alone in feeling this way, and that many people experience loneliness and dissatisfaction in their relationships.
I am starting a friendship group, join us! In the meantime, try to engage in self-care and find activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. You are deserving of love, connection, and happiness, and it is within your reach to find it.💜
Same here 😢
I absolutely love Sadhguru. He's been in the background of my life since about 2013. Some days some of his talks hit home so hard, it's a real realisation.
Really needed to hear this.. Thanks Sadguru😇
Leaving a life not for what you need but for what is needed...... Is a fantastic LIFE.
Enough to overcome the Loneliness.🙏🙏🙏🙏
Can't believe the question was verbatim (word for word) a question that was in my heart all the time. How lonely I feel among people. Lord show me the way!
Lord hasn't
Super easy! Embrace it!
In a virtual world we are surrounded by a lot of people but no one is really with us
I seek friendship and relationship but at same time I seek freedom.
Yaah sometimes feel loneliness is a natural process.bcz your highly sensitive mind never thought one thing it's a circular process.thanx Sadhguru for this idea...❣️
The problem is I will not talk to a person until and unless they talk to me first and I hate small bs talks now i have completely gave up on people because everybody just wants to have a conversation when they have to get some work done
if you sit on a bench besides me i will say nothing because i have same mentality, don't like small talks....just think.
@Hua Ho I understand. Sometimes, sitting in silence and simply enjoying the moment can be a wonderful and rejuvenating experience. Reflecting on our thoughts and experiences can bring a deeper sense of understanding and clarity. It's important to find moments of stillness and peace in our lives, especially in today's fast-paced world. If we're surrounded by people but still feel lonely, it might be helpful to seek out moments of solitude where we can connect with ourselves and recharge. 💜
same problem here with me too😣
Please save soil for our new generation.
Feeling low, feeling lonely, feeling disconnected and my best friend, she is not even realising it which is killing me from inside and have been in tears for last 1 week and even now Writing down these lines...
Hope that you are alright, hang on!
May be she is an extrovert. Not being confined to a few people.
It sounds like you're going through a tough time and it can be really hurtful when the people you care about don't understand what you're going through. But I want you to know that you are not alone. I may not be there with you physically, but I am here to listen and offer a shoulder to lean on. If you could use a friend, I'm here for you.💜💜
Sadhguru won't help
THANK YOU
I'm learning to except being alone and feeling and pretending everything is ok. It works So just do that
Your experience of Life is no longer determine by what you have and don't have, whether it's people or things, and Mr Sad guru that's deep n will be used as a Mantra until i get it. Thank you for all your wisdom
"Just because you are alone...does not mean you have to feel lonely" -said by myself well over a decade ago. I like these videos because of the way the guru breaks down an idea for people to understand. More and more people are going to be "lonely" in the conventional notion as this decade and years afterwards continue on. More and more countless people will be unmarried, not in a relationship, without children, etc etc...But eventually people in those situations are going to have to try and take solace in what good does exist in their lives already, and what they can still accomplish. Do not seek value from others or purpose from others. It comes from within, and if you do things to help others because of being strong and at peace on your own, people will benefit from your interaction and aid and flock to you more often than not. Though thats not the ultimate purpose for being at peace with ones self and helping others, it doesnt hurt lol. Pe@ce
Very well said.
Wise thoughts
We are Never Alone.. 💜
What a wonderful video Sadhguru . Your videos are helping us in different prospects of our lives . Thank you from our open hearts 💖
Hi, can we be friends
You love your space and aloneness because you've had connection and KNOW there is still somebody out there that cares!!!
The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly.Two possibilities exist: either we are alone in the Universe or we are not. Both are equally terrifying.
It can be overwhelming and scary to feel like you're watching your world fall apart. But remember, you are never truly alone. There is always someone who cares about you and wants to help. If you could use a friend, I'm here for you. 🌟💡🌳
Exceptional, beautiful😍✨❤ every word
Hi, can we be friends
Pranams Ji .. what a clarity in thoughts and the speech...🙏🙏🙏
Hi, can we be friends
One of the greatest video I have ever seen on loneliness.
Loneliness can be a difficult and complex issue, but it is important that we address it and find ways to support one another. Together, we can create a more connected and compassionate world. I will be your friend! 💜
Her voice is similar to Our PC, priyanka Chopra...
Peace in Christ surpasses all understanding. The cure for lonliness is a relationship with Christ.
thank you i needed this
Belonging is,priority,sharing,loving.❤❤❤
Freedom ,everyone need but can't handle✌️
A question to the admired and respected Sadhguru
I am confused; because all the scientific studies done so far, say that loneliness kills. And every new study reconfirms it.
And that is part of the decay of old people; that they get lonely.
But Sadhguru maintains, that it is very beneficial, to be alone.!!!
I would love for Sadhguru to explain this incongruence of concepts... among people of science... Thanks a lot...
+1
I don't understand when people say I'm lonely your never alone u got god....parks full of people....coffee shops full of people....etc don't feel pressured to have a wife or have a girlfriend when you just got out of a relationship...focus on yourself and healing. Good luck and I wish you all a happy life !
It's great to hear that you understand that loneliness is a subjective experience, and that it's not necessarily related to the number of people around us. While it's true that there are many people in the world, and even in the places you mentioned, it can still be difficult to feel connected and like you belong. And it's important to prioritize your own healing and well-being, without feeling pressured to conform to societal expectations. 🌟💡🌳
There is a difference between being alone and being lonely. Yes being lonely shouldn't be an excuse for not improving yourself but that doesn't mean that u will feel good even if u have lots of people around you
I was always lonely but i was at peace. when i thought of marrying to fill that void in my heart. That girl stick to my ear questioning & criticizing .And sucks out all my energy and ambition .Better to be alone * PEACE & FREEDOM* are true happiness
Thank you for sharing your experience. It's brave of you to speak about it and I'm here to listen. Just like a caterpillar goes through a metamorphosis in its cocoon, sometimes it can be lonely, but it's important to remember that it leads to growth and transformation. True happiness and peace are invaluable, and it's better to be alone and at peace than to sacrifice your own happiness.💜
Those last word of his really hit me. I needed to hear it.
It's always a good feeling when you hear words that resonate with you and offer comfort. Remember that you are never alone and there is always someone who cares. If you could use a friend, I'm here for you.💜💜
Everybody needs somebody, you are not the only one. - Guns N Roses.
The irony for me is I am completely content with solitude until someone tries to educate me on how I should be living 🤣
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That is exactly it. It is the judgement of our life from others.
I needed to hear this today. Thank you 🙏
Every bit of motivation to exist on own.... Thank you sadhguru your words always help🙏
8:01 - i love that song ❤ 🎵
His does Sadhguru know I just needed to hear this today? Thank you for this video.
What if a person has been alone for a long time and enjoys that aspect of that life too but there comes a time when she just wants to share the evenings with someone. And she want to chose carefully and that takes time and she is getting a little inpatient…
Everyone should do what is needed not driven by what one needs~
Hi,can we be friends
Tnk u sadhguru
Fantastic Life, Make it happen for yourself.
I will love Sadghuru to visit Namibia one day🇳🇦
I wouldn't want to miss his great talks ❤️
Welcome to India Brother.
@@vinodv6847 thank you
Do everything that is needed and you will live a magnificent life, ~ Sadhguru.
May we all find peace and love that we desire to break free from. This aching loneliness in our hearts. I love you all. May. Peace be upon you always. You make a difference and you matter. I'm lost rn trying to find myself but something tells me to try and not let it all end here. May we all find the peace and love we yearn for through ourselves and others. ❤️ 🌙 🙏
priya,@Sadguru,
The thing happening with me is,I need somebody to harrase me,make me happy but at the same time I dont want company
I want peace,but i want to enjoy too
I don't wanted to surrounded by people,but I wanted to enjoy with people too
The only thing that is making me,happy is God,its giving me "Param ananda"!
Sadguru,I hope you"ll read this & reply!
So the question is.... how to get to that level of understanding with regards the words spoken my Sadhguru
The more people I'm around the lonelier I feel but I when I'm on my own I never feel alone; actually I only find peace in my own company.
Dude has a really great voice
I absolutely agree! He should audition for Indian Idols😁
I got my answer From satguru, thanks guru ji it helps me lot
Very true and thank you for the message
Thank you sadhguru
Om Mahadevaya Namaha! 🙏 Hara Hara Mahadev! 🙏
Om Namah Shivaya
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Thanks ❤❤
“… and you will do what is needed.” And what is exactly needed?
I could have total freedom if I knew there was somebody out there that loved me and cared where and what I was doing...period
I feel lonely too alot,it's difficult,am here if you need someone as a friend
Needed this more than anything
GREAT,, GURU JEE JEETE RAHEIN.
The fact is I absolutely enjoyed my own space. Loneliness struck when my parents and relatives "she stays at home and does her own thing. Does not enjoy outing very much. " Relatives spoke about "why you stay at home etc".. these comments ruined the time I enjoyed with myself. I felt doing my own thing is so unnatural, not liking gatherings and outing is something normal people wont like.
It's okay to enjoy your own space and to prefer to spend time alone. Everyone is different, and there's no one right way to live or enjoy life. Your relatives may have meant well, but it's not fair for them to make you feel like there's something wrong with the way you live your life. You deserve to live your life in a way that makes you happy, regardless of what others may say or think. And if you could use a friend, I'm here for you.💜💜
Pranam sadhguru 🙏🌹🌱🌺🌿🌸🍃🌼🍀😊😊😊
Each word is beautiful…. Thank you sadhguru for your benign blessings🙏🌹🌱
Hi, can we be friends
Thank you sir.
Thanks
Awesome 👍👍!
Plz watch save soil by lavyam the rockstar also and appreciate his efforts towards the noble movement of sadguruji
Such a comfort. ❤