Things to know in your 20s ep1: Love, Dating, Relationship, Breakup, Marriage, Finance
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How to be a boss in your 20s
I’m so following you ,I love this 🥰🥰
Talk about Abuse
Finances
Abuse
This is really educating. I’m in my mid 20s and I watched my mom not tolerate nonsense from my dad. They are not even together no more. I watched her put her strength as a man and tolerated no nonsense not even from her family. I had a relationship that he spoke with disrespect with me once and I gave him back. He broke up with me stating that two men can’t be in a relationship… lol. My friends had me all bs talks that I can’t be like this with men and that men won’t find me attractive. Guess what! I’m with the most amazing man ever. Ladies! Don’t settle for less!!
yes!!!!!
i love this, thank you
don’t accept disrespect at all
Wow good for you sis!
Omggg🥺🥺🥺🥺
FT, this was nice!
Lemme just add.. I watched this entire video hoping that you'd touch on the most important aspect of a relationship.
A relationship with God.
If that part isn't highlighted and isn't FIRST established, all the things said in this video would fall apart like a pack of cards.
I personally think everyone should date with the intent of marriage otherwise not at all because you will end up falling into the temptation of sin... before jumping into a relationship you must first of all find out what God says about you, to you and who you should be with.
Most people tend to want God results without God Himself.
It's not a relationship joined together that can't be broken, it's a relationship God has joined together.
We see people going into relationships with the wrong mindset, accepting everything God's Word has said is wrong to be right and expect to live in a fairytale of a marriage.
That is not to say if you follow God, you won't encounter challenges but yes, He will deliver out of them all.
A relationship should be a triangle; with God at the top and then the man and woman together looking up to their Maker.. no way you can go wrong when you put pleasing God before your desires which as humans can tend to be selfish, wrong and full of deception.💕
Wow. Well said sis! Well said. God first‼️
Nice one👏👏👏👌
So apt!!!
So accurate 💯
Most people tend to want God results without God himself.... this hit me
“If you know you deserve better,get better”!
There's a shame attached to women when they walk out from a marriage no matter who is at fault. We're expected to "keep a man." And the fact that society also shames women for being single at certain age so the pressure makes a lot of women settle for less. I hope we can all do better and have the confidence to shut down people who project their insecurity on us.
Talk about girls dating married men . Talk about abuse ( mental , emotional & physical) thank you
"people know your worth but just hope you don't"
Thisss!
I followed her ,I enjoyed the wedding ceremony online .i was shocked when I heard she left the marriage.I’m glad you are doing fine .you are strong 💪 ❤️
Hi. May you kindly share her name on IG.
@njideka
So, I'm making another comment, because I made my first comment only halfway into the video. Talk about abuse 😁😁
First off, I'm so sorry two beautiful women like you both have gone through abusive relationships, and I'm complete thankful you both have had the courage to leave them. Applause to Njideka leaving a whole marriage. That's amazing.
I wish everyone, especially we ladies, knew that humans are very intentional in their actions, regardless of which side of the good-bad spectrum they are on. If they are being hurtful, treating you badly, they know what they're doing. There's frankly no need to stay, to explain to them how to do better. If you've even had the time to do it once, then you shouldn't have to do it again.
I wish people would understand that love is the barest minimum that should keep a person in a relationship. As Njideka said, and I'm only going to reiterate with a story, when I left a certain relationship I was in, I told the guy I was done. And he said to me "done? I thought you liked me!" with so much indignation. Lol. I told him "me liking you, having feelings for you, is the most irrelevant thing in the world. You exhaust me, and I'm constantly tired because of you."
And that love thing, two weeks into the relationship? Even in 6 months, I do not want to hear it. Which is true! A man shouldn't be telling you "I love you" 2 weeks, 1 month into a relationship, because if he isn't being manipulative, then he's really clueless. Love grows with time. It's not the constant butterflies you feel during the honeymoon stage. Go through that stage first, get to the one where you guys have the little arguments, see if you still want to be with them.
Lastly, I have a more lovely admiration for you FT, and I like Njideka too; just knowing her today. You both are so mature, and I'm looking forward to seeing more content from you FT. I have a feeling this is a series that I'm going to truly truly love.
Keep up the good work Frances❣️❣️❣️
I really needed to read this. Thank you so much 💖
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Thanks love, for sharing your story and your kind words
@@francestheodore thank you for your amazing content always! ❤❤❤
I really like your comment. Especially the bit where you pointed out that people know what they’re doing and if they hurt you? They’re doing that intentionally . Vile people are deliberate about whatever they do and I wish others would realize that.
Hmmm.....when I thought I know a lot about relationship. This is really an eye opener, thank you so much for this video.
Please talk on abuse(types of abuse)and finances,and just how important being financially independent it is before entering into a relationship because I feel we don’t stress on that enough
I learnt a lot
I remembered when I was in a relationship😂 ishh I know I’m too young for that but it was just all stupid🤧 frr I could remember when I went through his phone😭🥺 omg I cried that day and I was happy I left the relationship cause he was like I’m not dating the girl, and up till now he still post her on his status and everywhere on social media🤧 but thanks to God almighty for having this strong mind and for me being able to move on without looking back at what ever thing he has to tell me🥰
Njideka is so well spoken. I really enjoyed watching this 🥺
YOU DESERVE A HEALTHY & HAPPY RELATIONSHIP- don't let anyone make you settle for less.💛💛💛
I love the way you talk about finances. Following you on TH-cam, I’m 17 going on 18 and I’m so proud of how I started building my skills which I’m earning from today. You have really taught me not to limit myself. Frances, you’re changing lives. You have changed mine for good. I can never stop thanking you
Pls which skill is that Dumebi?
I’m 19 years old and do all these you guys did now. I’m glad I came across this video to watch everyday and learn from. I’m definitely struggle with these things and thank you so much for this educational video! I thought I was the only one that do this and I’m so glad I’m not alone. This video has taught me a lot and I’m definitely going to start changing before I hit 20. Much love
Thank you so so much for this video 🥺🥺🥺..
I had someone that we were dating and he stayed 3 good months without calling or texting even when I do he won't pick or text back and he came back 6 days again and wanted us to get back telling me I won't understand and that we are still dating you can imagine and I was seeing this same person posting on Whatsapp and Instagram and refused picking or reaching me.
At least with this video I know my worth and what am going to do about it..
Interesting topic 👏
Please talk about the effects a broken home has on children. Can a broken home affect the functionality & future relationship(s) of children that comes from one? If yes, WHY??? And how can it be fixed.
It can o. And therapy, healing and knowing God is the only solution. Sis... there are plenty videos on TH-cam touching on dysfunctional family systems, and how to keep your sanity in those trenches.
have a great day ahead.💛💛
"Is the argument worth the relationship?"
Frances, you're wise❤️
"People know your worth, they just hope you don't" WORRRD🔥
We normalize things that are not normal, don’t give an excuse for someone else, the devil you don’t know is better than the angel you don’t know… really got me coz I’ve heard those exact words before!!!
I’m glad I watched every second of this😩
Next topiccc-FINANCE
We need to know if it’s too early to spend money or nottt!
I'm just watching this and I learnt a lot for someone that's the eldest child and sister to 4 other sisters, I needed this and I did learn a lot..... Thank you Frances
Yall are the absolute best i admire your courage to come on here to share experiences on this subject trust me i legit agree with everything your guest speaker said i am a 24years old single mother i left my toxic abusive ex and escaped with my two kids and i am completely fine! so babes leave that toxic relationship today the universe will help you
500 views is what I pray to get in a week!!😩, your channel inspires meeee❤️🥺, your growth is wowww
Me too let's keep going at it. We'll grow 🤗 💜
@@tranquilmomentswithme7643 yess and tyyyy💜
If you deserve better, get better
If you know what you want, go for what you want
Frances, I’m glad I found your YT channel. Ever since I subscribed, I have gotten better. From your advice about finances months back, I have 2 good paying jobs. Your nuggets of wisdom about relationships, love and so many more is definitely top notch. You’re so different from many TH-camrs, I can’t wait for episode 2
That checking your partner’s phone topic is very dicey. If you are given a reason to check the phone and you go ahead and check it and find unpleasant things that you can’t tolerate, then leave. You checking the phone is not the problem.
Topic : how to discover yourself
Also career switch
I’m from Russia, and this girls on this video is so so pretty 😍 enjoyed all the time
OMG!!You guys definitely dropped something great! I say most of these things too,because I too have been in a relationship and when I left I was broke and my life was falling apart..Great points, I love how you guys see life and think as well!!
Thank you Frances🥺🥺
"If you know you Deserve Better, Get Better", this one got me.
I followed her and was surprised when I heard she was getting married but wasn’t surprised when dey broke up. If you rush into it you will rush out of it period!
omg njideka is so smart! wish her the best
Njideka was spitting pure facts in this video… wayyy too relatable facts
Amazing and educative contents always ☺️much love ❤️from Gambia 🇬🇲
Really enjoyed watching this video, it was educative and the point about finances I agree 100% you can’t go into a relationship to solely be the dependent on your partner for me I don’t even want to think of marriage until I have something going on for me like I’m financially independent
Same
This was so insightful. Reaffirmed my decision not to rush anything, let everything take it's course.
THIS VIDEO NEEDS TO GO VIRAL!!!!!
Thank you so much I needed to watch this . TH-cam knew my heart to recommend this to me
This is really really Educative, these guys these days tell you from the first day that dey love you.
I just binged your entire 20s series and I feel fed, nourished. Thank you so much FT❤️ you’re impacting lives!
This is the best video I’ve seen on the internet this week. It’s a 10/10 for me. S/o to you two beautiful women, so eloquent and so enlightening!, My friends really need to see this because we’ve all been going about it wrong. Thank you so much for this episode, really looking forward to seeing more episodes. SUBSCRIBED 😁
My love for this video cannot be over emphasized, I felt so happy watching and I mean I've learnt a lot
I love the fact that your empowering and educating people and trust me I'm your greatest fan😘😘
My advise to ladies your happiness should be in you and not your man, when you realize that, thats when you find true living. Happiness is in you, find it and you be happy for the rest of your life
It's the weather that will change o. It will rain tears
I watch this videos twice,this video really opened my eyes to so many things about relationship and self love
Please talk about finance..... how can a girl make her own money comfortably?? I enjoyed this section thank you
Please talk about abuse because I believe abuse comes in different forms but some people only see the physical abuse and disregard the others.
Tbh!!, The fact that I came across one of your videos on my home page and checked your other videos out and I had to subscribe cause it had some content I needed to change my mindset and this one happens to be the best so far. Good job babes❤️
This session has blessed me as a lady in her mid twenties 🙏,,I have learnt so much from this
This was so good guys! I love seeing nontoxic advice from women❤️ everything you guys said was true and transparent. Thank you.
As a 15yr old am glad to be hearing this now so thank you Francess& co 😘❤️
God you girls make me so happy.. jeez ❤️ I’m so proud of you guys for leaving abusive relationships.
Yes I love this series ❤
Exactly Ladies we need to learn how to be independent qnd take care of our selves without relying on a man....enjoy being on your own
This video needs and will go places a lot of girls need this
This is really educative I must say...even as a guy I got to learn a lot from this...why did it have to end?...big ups shawdy🙌
I'm loving this new series. I love it when F.T says RELAXXXXXXXX.
Thank you for doing this francesss😘❤
Frances is such an intelligent woman
How come the I’m now seeing this channel 😢 so educative, y’all are doing a great job 👏
So educating, so full of wisdom....I learnt so much watching this particular episode tbh😊
Damn!!! This is a strong coincidence!
Someone once said same thing to me! “the devil you know is better than the angel you don’t know”. Referring to his abusive ex as the devil and I, the angel because he knew and had been with her longer, he would rather go back to her to try change her than start a relationship with me. I was like really!!!! Na that devil go kee you be that!! Such a toxic statement!! And true, you can never change someone, they can only consciously try to change if they want to!!
Please talk about the fight that comes with being young and wanting to do a lot for yourself . Reaching your goals and all financially and all
This is everything!!! You are teaching so much here. A lot of people know these things but still ignore. I love how you also use your experiences so people know that everyone can make wrong choices, but you need to realize and pick yourself up!
Never knew she will ever open up about her marriage. I was genuinely curious.
Love this soo much , thank you for being open and honest with your experiences a lot of people go through so much in relationships and don’t have the right guidance. This was really good.
Thank you for shedding more light on this topic. I actually admire and love this lady..
This is such an insightful video
Loved every bit of it and I see each and every concept from a different perspective now!
Big ups FT!🥳
People change but not for everyone, they would for the ones they love.
Two young beautiful and smart women I love this❤️
Yess!!! You always have a choice!!!
** Going 24hours without talking to someone you say you like or love - 🚩
This is a good watch!!!!
Thank you beautiful ladies❤️
This was so HELPFUL!! God bless you for this. Can’t wait to see more of this series.
Men are not stingy!!, they just don’t think u deserve there money!!!. Jot things down ooo, me am learning so much. Njideka u are such a smart, beautiful and strong woman, u earned a follower today 😍. Welldone FT too💪🏻
Totally obsessed with this video 😭😭 was such a breath of fresh air!! Thank you for such an amazing episode, can’t wait for more ❤️ shoutout to njideka such a smart and eloquent lady . May God bless you ❤️
Thank you for watching. God bless you too
How can I love this video twice? Love every bit!♥️
I really love naomi for the fact that she is my birthday mate same year i love how she loves herself more than anything many young ladies would have stayed because of shame and what people will say God gat you babe❤️
U just don’t how much u inspire Nd educate me ❤️❤️❤️thanks a lot fr this awesome video
if you know you deserve better, get better!!! this was so educative & I’m happy she chose herself.
This was surprisingly enlightening! Well done, Frances! Looking forward to more content 💞
Thank you Frances , I love this series, I love this episode. Thank you and njideka for sharing your stories 🖤
Wow!!! Thank you so much for this beautiful section. You're both so eloquent and very intelligent. Using your life experiences to even lead us through and teach us. Wow!!! Please talk about handling your life or relationship as a single mom, cause I am one. Thanks...
I really enjoyed this bestie. Everything factual 👍
Very insightful,you being happy is a priority !
I love your channel Frances ❤️and I also love Njidekah so much, she made so much sense in this video 👏
This is like the best thing I have heard this month
Njidekah💕 is so amazing like a big sis giving advice fr
Omg i love you sooooooo much Frances
Your videos are always very educative and you're so full of wisdom!🥺
I love that pretty lady too
She's very very very very intelligent tf😭♥️
Thank you FT for this lovely advices putting myself first in relationships has made me leave many toxic relationships which am grateful for
This was so enlightening to watch you both are amazing big hugs to njideka she’s a super woman I love her courage and the best thing you could do to yourself, is telling yourself self the truth I love that for her!
Waiting on the next episode Frances 😘 you are brilliant!
You both talked facts only.... and your guest has a good sense of humor😂😂. Love you guys
I can’t believe I cried watching this!!
I’m glad I watched this, it’s not late for me
This is a must watch!! I love you girl
Came back to watch this again with my friend that keeps getting the wrong idea about relationships 🎧🎧
I hope you see this because girrrrllll, I just found your YT and I'm never leaving! I've been binge watching you for over three days now and I literally mean this when I say I'm learning alot here. It's so inspiring and educating. I love it here❤️ keep it up darling 💕
You killed this dear for real . many needed to hear this
you guys were spitting facts! this video was very enlightening & entertaining, i love it💕
“If you know you deserve better get better”
From a Christian girl perspective.
I'll date with the aim of marriage if not its ungodly. Many young people today think its okay to have sex with someone you just started dating two weeks ago but absolutely wrong to say I love you to them too early. In order for any marriage or relationship to work. There has to be forgiveness. Tolerance, compassion amongst many others.
Well as a Christian girl Christ made it clear that our husband is our head we are to show respect to them. I think it's typical of men to yell when they are in a heated argument but what is not okay is raising their hands and hitting a woman they claim to love. Well ladies. It's important that who ever you are dating knows God and is a true son of God because only a true son of God will know how to treat God's daughter just the way Christ has said Husbands should love their wives.
Am the type of woman that loves to be above men always. I love to challenge men and demand equality but when it comes to my partner. No no. I already understand that he is above me.
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This was so inspiring…I’ll definitely look forward to more topics of discussion on the series
Had the same conversation yesterday, people actually change if they want to
I really love this podcast i learn a lot from this keep bringing these pls, we educated ourselves a lot from this 💕💕💕