I just want to admire Granger for stepping in every time Amber was fighting back tears. Everytime she had to answer and she was struggling with the amount of emotion around this topic and holding back tears ( being the most brave and amazing woman ever), he looked her in the eye and continued for her. I truely felt like watching that he was telling her "I got you babe". I love that more than anything. I see the true love there!!!
Just came upon your channel, my heart aches for your family. May God give you the strength and lead you to a path of comfort knowing how much River was loved by you all. An abundance of prayers to you. 🙏🙏🙏
Why is the lefty media giving them a platform you know they hate the Christian right wing with a passion! That doesn’t make you think that doesn’t make you go hmmm 🤔
Our daughter Hannah was 34 month's old when she drowned. She unlocked our gate, used a chair, could swim and I know the immersion into cold water was what contributed to her death. We founded Hannah's Foundation in Australia and we've spoken in the USA on drowning. More discussion needs to happen on the layers. I worked on Hannah for 17 minutes, Ambulance for another 14min and then she was gone. She was in the water for less than 2 minutes because we have recorded timeliness. You're story resonates so much xxxx.
I just want to give Granger and Amber huge hugs. I live in Ontario, Canada, and I lost my sister on May 10th of this year, and my Mother, 2 days later, on May 12th. I am going through a pretty rough time. I teared up, plenty, watching this video. The loss of a dearly loved one is such a huge cross to bear. Please know that I think about you both, often. Congrats on the birth of your new, precious boy.
I cried the second he started talking about him. I can’t imagine this type of grief. No mother or dad should ever have to go through that. Praying them
At our local public pool the rule is that children under 8 must be within arms reach of their parent at all times in the pool. I don’t take my eyes off my kids when we are at the pool.
@@megatrexyeh3092 she lost a child. You can see the heartbreak on her face and in her voice. Just because she’s smiling doesn’t mean she’s not heartbroken
@@linanicolia1363 granger and amber smith. Granger writes and sings country music and they have 3 children London, Lincoln and river who sadly passed away to drowning.
@@megatrexyeh3092 they are my idols. They are great people and I don’t think she was smiling on purpose. I think she was smiling while thinking about good memories. They are amazing people.
@@megatrexyeh3092 please see their u tube channel, you will see how supportive they are for their family and how they are coping by their faith, and beginning their forever home. They gave over $375 thousand dollars towards the Livelikeriver fund they set up to educate people , turning a tragedy into something positive. Believe me Amber grieves daily, and is open in sharing her loss. She blamed herself for so long. She is a wonderful person, I have contact with her on occasion. You will fall in love with them, cry with them and learn, pray,laugh with them . Then you will admire them from learning how to be a better person . 😇🙏🎈
Robert Brown just because someone smiles doesn’t mean they are feeling it. I smile for photos and fake smile all day with my depression. Don’t be ignorant.
They are still in denial and blame the pool. They are not strong but they are avoiding the responsibility that was theirs, to keep the kid safe. They failed. That story about the lock is a confusing mess. A toddler will not open a lock. He will push a door.....so the lock was not LOCKED. Dad was practicing some dancing moves with his daughter, so he says......Who was watching the toddler ? no one. Did mom think the toddler was big enough to entertain himself ? I guess she did. You cannot take your eyes off, little kids......That is how they stay safe. They do not drown, do not get kidnapped or do not get ran over by cars.......Little kids survive if their parents are vigilant. If they are not, they are in constant danger.
@@linanicolia1363 Yeah because we all should live covered in bubble wrap just like you. You're a miserable person and your only existence in life is to belittle people who are in pain because you seem to pretend to know the facts. Stop pretending to be a perfect person as there is no such thing. There is a cure for Narcasssicm you should probably look into it. The only reason why you're shaming them is because of your own insecurities and downfalls. You weren't there but you act as if you were. How about you look in the mirror and fix the nastiness coming out of your soul before you try to play a perfect parent. Accidents are just that, accidents, you lunatic.
@@ASmith-jn7kf So you are okay with Lina judging Amber and Granger Smith, but you're not okay with Jay judging Lina's judgment of them? That doesn't really make sense.
...of course they do. That look that praise that support that starring into each others eyes. That's what love looks like. They are what the world should see if they looking to reference LOVE.
@@linanicolia1363 You simply cannot watch your child every second. No one can. What is easy is being an armchair quarterback, but it's not fair to anyone.
It breaks my heart. I saved a little 2 year old. We were sitting around a bonfire and the older kids were watching the little ones. I'd keep checking on them. One time I went to check on them. The little man thought he'd lean over the side and fell in .. i didnt think I could have moved that fast. I don't think I ever screamed so loud in my life. I ran into him and his family about a year ago .. OMG!! He's one heck of a Tall young man. 17 years old. 6' 3" . I thank God I was able to be there when I was. If it was 5 minutes later. It would have been to late.
This family is the best. After hearing about the drowning I started looking them up and watched their youtube channel. Such really great Christians and you see that in them. Since watching them I have gotten closer to God, reading my Bible, reading devotionals and praying several times a day. Amber has Arise With Amber on youtube Sunday mornings I never miss. Granger sings country music but he's not like some of the other country artist. He has got to be the most HUMBLE guy I have ever seen. They teach family values and their children will grow up having much more respect for the little things in life compared to some of the artist that live in mansions and have everything. They make my day when I see the videos. I have so much respect for this family and much respect for the interview. This was very sweet and caring for such a tragedy. Natalie, you did very well. As Granger would say, "YEEYEE !" God Bless everyone
#LiveLikeRiv and live in the moment. I am glad that this interview finally came out. The sheer strength of Granger and Amber is amazing. I can't even begin to imagine the depth of their grief.
The pain is so visible. I can’t imagine what they felt having to say goodbye to their little boy. I pray that Granger and Amber stop blaming themselves. You didn’t screw up. It was just an awful thing that just happened. Sending hugs to these beautiful people.
Oh yes they did screw up. They knew their 2 boys were playing with squirt guns. Where did they think the water was coming from?. All they had to do was fill up 2 buckets of water. And tell them," this is where you fill up your water guns at". ""I don't want to see either one of you, near the pool or you are in trouble." Could of saved his ill life. River was trying to fill up his water gun when he drowned. I just hope people can learn from this horrible circumstance.
@@outoftime7740 and I PRAY TO GOD, you never have to go through something so horrible!! SHAME ON YOU FOR JUDGING THESE POOR PARENTS. SHAME. ON. YOU. 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
When my brother passed away...I vowed to never let life take joy away from me again... so I just gravitate to everything good in life. I go to joy, I bring joy, I give joy, I welcome all the joy. I cant take another blow.
Two of the most beautiful people both inside and out. The way they look at each other, the respect, the love is incredible. I cannot begin to imagine this level of pain, I am so sorry for the loss of your son. You are in my prayers ❤❤❤
The deep respect and love these two have for each other is so beautiful and apparent in the way they look at each other and touch each other. Such a beautiful family. So sorry for your loss. ❤️
That is an unimaginable pain that NO parent should ever face, my heart goes out to them. I really comment them for sticking together through their grief, most couples end up seperating after the loss. Its good to see a couple actually turning to each other rather than against each other. 💔💕
I grew up around water. My Grandma was always a nervous wreck, and I couldn’t understand why. Now as an adult with 3 boys I understand it completely. I can’t imagine this heartache, and my heart goes out to this family. 💕
So did they say they had their eyes on him?? So you are judging wrongly. Don't judge them as judging when they have the right to judge if they want. They were not being truthful. The child doesn't have magical powers so unless God opened the gate it was not locked or they thought it was.
Please forgive yourselves. There are so many ways a child can might find a few moments to encounter a life threatening danger. It’s a matter of luck to be right there at every moment. I’m so sorry for these parents and so impressed with their courage. This message will help save children’s lives.
These 2 parents are the strongest I've ever ever seen. There's no way I could do this interview. I cannot imagine losing a child. I don't even wanna think of it. Their strength, and way of thinking of this is amazing, admirable, and just Wow! I am so sorry for their loss. I cry for them, I pray for them, and I agree with their cause and I myself will spread the word here in Massachusetts of a pool, a bucket, any body of water and how fast it can happen. I lost a nephew to drowning in the Merrimac River a couple years ago. He was 21 and an athlete and it didn't matter. I work 6 days a week 10 hours a day to take care of my 2 younger kids, my 2 older ones are out in the world on their own but they still need dads help now and again but I'll spread the message while working and on my day off. May God be with the Smith family and everyone else.
You guys are doing a lot of good by warning others about how quickly a child can drown. This tragedy has brought purpose and meaning into your lives. You'll be rewarded for it. And all of you will be together again. We're all just passing through this life.
My sister fell in the pool on vacation about 28 years ago whilst reaching for a potato chip she dropped. I saw it, told my dad, and I've never seen a man jump over so many people so fast to get to her. We are a lucky family.
I lost my oldest 38 year old grandson 3 weeks ago his body was found in the river and this past Sunday September 3 my 13 year old great grandson took his own life, our family is so devistated but I know Jesus died for our sins. Losing a child is unimaginable I feel sad for your loss and I know your son is with our Savior. I feel your hurt and guilt. I bought your book and am in the process of reading it so very helpful for my grief.
So so sorry for your losses and I know there are no words and I only wish you the best moving forward. You seem like a strong person and that's very admirable.
My wife lost her 4 yr old brother from drowning at their home pool. To this day she will not go under the water in a pool. I don’t feel she has ever dealt with it but I’ve got her back when ever we’re at a pool with the grandkids, I’ll jump in to go under water with them. My heart hurts for your family so much. God bless
My 1 yr old cousin drowned in 1976. She got into their backyard pool and each parent thought the other was watching her. I still feel sad and remember the look of her at the funeral. She was a beautiful baby who looked perfect. The pain never goes away.
What a beautiful couple. I've never heard such a detailed depiction of the reality of a child drowning. It is such invaluable information. Such a wealth of information. What a great interview. This is the first time I have ever understood about child drowning. They are helping so many people. He is so intelligent and articulate, honest and real. And Amber is such a sweet soul. This was an incredible interview. Morales knocked it out of the park because she was a quiet interviewer and real. The key was the length of the interview. It so rarely happens that people are given beyond 5 minutes. This was really great.
My in laws are getting an underground pool and I’m a hot mess. My son is 43 inches tall and 4 yrs old just recently. I’m like man, now I have to be on guard 100% all the time. Really scary.
I love watching The Smiths on TH-cam. They are a wonderful family. Im so glad they have a platform to share their story and bring awareness to childhood drowning.
I am so sorry for your loss. River is still with you with your memories & love for him. He is waiting in heaven for mom & dad. God bless you & your family.
Children especially toddlers are soooo smart. They analyze everything. They watch us unlock doors, use computers, enter passwords. They pay attention to details we don’t even know we’re doing and they are fast. May GOD be with you all. Your baby boy was so blessed to have you as parents. He was sooo smart.
My heart goes out to this sweet, courageous family. Their son is truly a continuous shining light for all of us. God bless them in their life journey as they live and give so much love and hope to others. They are remarkable and are honoring their precious son’s life so courageously. Keeping them and their family along with all the other families who have suffered such a tragedy in my prayers.
So brave, so courageous and love that they can help people with drowning education even as they grieve. My heart and prayers to Granger and Amber and their children. ❤️
River was such an amazing, sweet, loving little boy and he is so missed by so many of us, I can never imagine the pain amber and granger have had to deal with over the last year, but they both continue to stay strong and positive for their other kids and I give them so much credit for that and for not letting this tragedy destroy their family like it does to so many others. We miss you River Kelley! 🎈🦋❤️
Under circumstances like this it is inevitable to do some heart searching. "Could I have done this?" "If only I had done that ". It is clear from the interview there is no guilt. I also found out that there are many many other similar tragedies where nothing could have been done. As they said, it only took seconds. Amber and Granger will continue to live with their pain but I pray that they recognise how powerfully God is using them and River and how strong a rock they are for others.
When I worked at the Walmart in College Station , Texas, I used to speak with one of their family members each time he came in. He always spoke about how great and loved the kids are , he also spoke about how great of parents Granger and his wife are. The first time I helped this gentleman , he was buying supplies to make a big red bow for Granger’s son’s service . I am truly so sorry for your loss 😔 I do believe in Heaven, and one day God will reunite him with you . Your family is in my prayers and thoughts.
Amber and Granger were already prewarned about some of the questions, they wanted to answer em all. Yes it seems insensetive but they too have asked some parents the same question and what steps they may take.
She really is a terrible interviewer. Asking these sad questions about a heartbreaking, unimaginable incident and she’s smirking. Really annoying to me.
I almost drowned when I was a kid, it was after swimming lessons, and I decided to try and practice, my sister began screaming on top of her lungs and saved my life. They are right, a kid does not know what to do, I remember panicking and breathing in the water and thinking I was dying.
A little boy I used to take care of drowned at 18 months. It took 3 minutes to get his heartbeat back and he was in the pool for an unknown amount of time. (His father was stoned on the couch and his mother came to pick him up and found him in the pool). He was in a coma for a couple days and by some miracle, he woke and had no deficits. He was actually very advanced and is working on a medical degree now.
Same my sisters thought I was playing N my mom thought I was waving so she was waving back..until my cousin pulled me out this happened at the beach btw...
ezzy Alvare they say that’s a warning someone is drowning. A person is in the water and their arms are up splashing, and waving. Most people are not aware, and possibly think that the person is playing in the water. Thank God you were saved.
I am such a Smiths fan, I watch The Smiths, Arise with Amber and all the Granger videos as well. Bless this family, they are so strong and it's their foundation in God that has kept them going each and everyday. Yee Yee family member right here. #Livelikeriv
A child can drown right in front of their parent. I was in Galveston at a hotel and was walking by the pool. I saw a child floundering in the water as his mother was in the pool ten feet away. She was drinking and talking to someone. I yelled out that her kid was drowning and she shrieked and grabbed him. He was so quiet and not making a noise. Thankfully they got to him in time but I don't know what would have happened if I hadn't walked by.
Amen. “If you’re not in the arena with me then I will not take the criticism seriously.” No truer words. God Bless Your Family! Your older children are blessed to have both of you be a part of this with them. It has to an unbelievable hurt, but thank God you are be able to keep waking up each day for them.
I adore the Smiths and feel their pain so deep as a parent that has lost a child myself! River will always be remembered by those that knew him the short time he was here he obviously left a beautiful impression.
I so honor and respect this couple! Their maturity in handling this situation with their children is incredibly! What an awesome couple and parents they are! I am in awe! So thankful you know the Lord, and the incredible peace He brings!
I have watched their TH-cam channel for a long time. I cried like a baby when I found out about river. As a momma of 3 I can’t imagine what they went through.
Thank you Granger and Amber. This was such a powerful interview and clearly a very difficult one. I learned a lot, particularly that there is usually no one to blame in such tragic events. God gathered up River to Himself and then set about making good in the situation. He is touching thousands, if not millions, of people through River and through your testimonies. You have given such strength and courage and hope to so many others as you share your pain with them. May God continue to use you mightily in His service and give you the healing and strength you will need to continue.
Y'all are so blessed to have had each other during this difficult time. I lost my middle son Shane on Sept 4, 2002 to an accidental overdose at the age of 15. (I only recently learned that that was Granger's birthday). I was a single mom of three boys and it was very hard for me to deal with the pain of losing my middle son at that time. I was blessed though to have a very supporting church family who were there for me and my boys. I pray that as the days and years go on you'll find peace as I have knowing that my boy is with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and thank HIM that we will be able to see our kids again one day. xoxo to y'all and your family, Grandma Kay
There was a time I kept moving too. Someone told me the same. It's in you, not out there. So you cannot distance yourself from it by moving away geographically. But...I believe it can be a first step. You aren't gonna miraculously start feeling better. However, there could be fewer intense triggers, and that helps.
My husband has been through alot of tragedy and lost his youngest son last year, Logan. Watching him dwindle has been so heartbreaking as there are good days and bad days. There is a little peace in Logans children's smiles that make us think how greatful we are that Logan was able to give the greatest gift of life through him having children. I personally do not feel the pain of losing a child, but i see what my husband goes through each day that a piece of his heart will always bare an empty space. To anyone out there listening, never lose hope or faith. Prayer and time and lots of love and understanding are key to helping a loved one cope with loss. When it comes to the loss of a child, no matter how old you or your child is, the hurt is still the same and the burden is very real. Always have open arms for someone to hold and keep your ears open to listen. It really does go along way, when someone is ready to talk. God Bless -A
Whenever, I sell a house with a pool to a family I always warn them about the stats gingerly. Kids are so fast. Pools, tubs, lakes should always be looked at with huge respect. Kids are ingenious and will find a way. I am so sad for these folks. With our pool we had a regular fence and screened in area and a 5' mesh fence (I know they are unattractive but, they really do work to keep kids out along with pool wave alarms) I always recommend these to clients. It just can happens so fast and I have heard so many of these stories. We had a friends child fall into our pool. We were all there watching. My daughter jumped in and saved her. This can happen anywhere. This can happen to anyone. Praying for healing for this amazing family.
It cannot happen anywhere, stay away from pools. It cannot happen to anyone. Young children and adults have no business in large bodies of uncontrolled waters like rivers, lakes and possibly even some beaches. Children under 15 should not be in a pool without a life vest. It's not magic. You say you were all watching them why didn't you all jump in?? Why would your daughter have to do that??
My son is exactly how they described their son. I am constantly terrified of of my son being around water because he is so fearless. I’m so sorry for their loss. Uhg I can’t even imagine.
When you lose a child it’s the worst pain you will ever feel . I lost my son and I pray to god every day don’t take anymore of my children I can’t live through it again . My mother lost two sons March 19 2017 due to a car accident the pain is awful .. Amber and Granger I’m so sorry and we love you so much
When my youngest daughter took swimming lessons I had her wear swim shoes. It was something the instructor was against because it makes it harder to swim and somewhat uncomfortable for the child. But the reality is as stated in this video many children who drown are not dressed for swimming. This family is so courageous. I hope God brings them peace.
Amazing how you as parents can cope with this loss, how well you guys have thought this through. And helping others and educate other families. Love you guys 🙏❤️
I sometimes notice my mind drifting to such scenario's and they are always followed by me picturing shooting myself through the head... We only have one, so that would be a legit option...
@@LauravanKessel Hey girl, are you okay? If you need help I really encourage you to reach out to someone!! Here’s the national suicide hotline 800-273-8255 . Praying that you’re okay!!
@@oliviadixson47 I think she is referring to if something happened to her child. She is saying she only has one. If a tragedy, God forbid, happened. She would have no other children here to live for. I totally understood her statement.
You are so brave and selfless to tell your heartbreaking story. I’ve lost three family members to tragedies. I know how much it can change a person. Thank you for doing good deeds even though you’ still experiencing periods of pain and grief! God bless your precious family!!!
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I just want to admire Granger for stepping in every time Amber was fighting back tears. Everytime she had to answer and she was struggling with the amount of emotion around this topic and holding back tears ( being the most brave and amazing woman ever), he looked her in the eye and continued for her. I truely felt like watching that he was telling her "I got you babe". I love that more than anything. I see the true love there!!!
R.I.P river
Agree
I was just thinking the way she turns to him for comfort when she is struggling. The way she looks at him for strength is amazing
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Just came upon your channel, my heart aches for your family. May God give you the strength and lead you to a path of comfort knowing how much River was loved by you all. An abundance of prayers to you. 🙏🙏🙏
Hearing anyone talk about their child in past tense, absolutely breaks my heart.
My heart breaks for all of these families. Watching through tears 😭
I couldn’t even begin to imagine...💔
Very much so
Why is the lefty media giving them a platform you know they hate the Christian right wing with a passion! That doesn’t make you think that doesn’t make you go hmmm 🤔
Our daughter Hannah was 34 month's old when she drowned. She unlocked our gate, used a chair, could swim and I know the immersion into cold water was what contributed to her death. We founded Hannah's Foundation in Australia and we've spoken in the USA on drowning. More discussion needs to happen on the layers. I worked on Hannah for 17 minutes, Ambulance for another 14min and then she was gone. She was in the water for less than 2 minutes because we have recorded timeliness. You're story resonates so much xxxx.
I can't explain how sorry I am about Hannah.
Oh Kat....I am thinking of you sweetheart. So so sorry.
Much love and respect to your family Kat.
I’m so sorry for your loss .
I’m sorry for your loss.
I just want to give Granger and Amber huge hugs. I live in Ontario, Canada, and I lost my sister on May 10th of this year, and my Mother, 2 days later, on May 12th. I am going through a pretty rough time. I teared up, plenty, watching this video. The loss of a dearly loved one is such a huge cross to bear. Please know that I think about you both, often. Congrats on the birth of your new, precious boy.
I cried the second he started talking about him. I can’t imagine this type of grief. No mother or dad should ever have to go through that. Praying them
The way they look at one another for support while speaking is touching. Losing a child is possibly the hardest thing to ever go through.
At our local public pool the rule is that children under 8 must be within arms reach of their parent at all times in the pool. I don’t take my eyes off my kids when we are at the pool.
I've never seen heartbreak so visible on two people's faces as Amber and Granger. God Bless them and the kids.
So sad
She's smiling how is that a visible heartbreak?
@@megatrexyeh3092 she lost a child. You can see the heartbreak on her face and in her voice. Just because she’s smiling doesn’t mean she’s not heartbroken
It's the opposite for her
I have children and I wouldn't be happy about it from the beginning
He's such a underrated singer more people need to listen to his music🙏✝️
never heard of these people......who are they ?
@@linanicolia1363 granger and amber smith. Granger writes and sings country music and they have 3 children London, Lincoln and river who sadly passed away to drowning.
@@linanicolia1363 they have you tube channels (granger smith - for his music and The Smith's- for the family videos)
Good Christian people ,Amber and Granger
The sadness in those poor parents eyes
God please give them patience
She's smiling
@@megatrexyeh3092 , cause she is thinking good memories of her son.
@@megatrexyeh3092 they are my idols. They are great people and I don’t think she was smiling on purpose. I think she was smiling while thinking about good memories. They are amazing people.
@@megatrexyeh3092 please see their u tube channel, you will see how supportive they are for their family and how they are coping by their faith, and beginning their forever home. They gave over $375 thousand dollars towards the Livelikeriver fund they set up to educate people , turning a tragedy into something positive. Believe me Amber grieves daily, and is open in sharing her loss. She blamed herself for so long. She is a wonderful person, I have contact with her on occasion. You will fall in love with them, cry with them and learn, pray,laugh with them . Then you will admire them from learning how to be a better person . 😇🙏🎈
Robert Brown just because someone smiles doesn’t mean they are feeling it. I smile for photos and fake smile all day with my depression. Don’t be ignorant.
Amber is such a beautiful soul, truly.
I love how Granger said "It happened. It's not happening." That's something to help everyone move forward with anything they face in life.
Unless there’s a reminder of whatever trauma you faced on a regular basis and you can’t get away from it in order to move on.
I can’t believe how strong they are. It’s unbelievable.
They are still in denial and blame the pool. They are not strong but they are avoiding the responsibility that was theirs, to keep the kid safe. They failed. That story about the lock is a confusing mess. A toddler will not open a lock. He will push a door.....so the lock was not LOCKED. Dad was practicing some dancing moves with his daughter, so he says......Who was watching the toddler ? no one. Did mom think the toddler was big enough to entertain himself ? I guess she did. You cannot take your eyes off, little kids......That is how they stay safe. They do not drown, do not get kidnapped or do not get ran over by cars.......Little kids survive if their parents are vigilant. If they are not, they are in constant danger.
@@linanicolia1363 your comments are absolutely disrespectful and disheartening. You werent there you can't judge something you have no right to speak.
She has the right to judge what she feels she needs to judge. What right do you have to judge her??
@@linanicolia1363 Yeah because we all should live covered in bubble wrap just like you. You're a miserable person and your only existence in life is to belittle people who are in pain because you seem to pretend to know the facts. Stop pretending to be a perfect person as there is no such thing. There is a cure for Narcasssicm you should probably look into it. The only reason why you're shaming them is because of your own insecurities and downfalls. You weren't there but you act as if you were. How about you look in the mirror and fix the nastiness coming out of your soul before you try to play a perfect parent. Accidents are just that, accidents, you lunatic.
@@ASmith-jn7kf So you are okay with Lina judging Amber and Granger Smith, but you're not okay with Jay judging Lina's judgment of them? That doesn't really make sense.
So sad to hear them speak of their loss. They are so courageous and kind to share this to help other people.
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I just love how they look at each other when each other is speaking you can see the love and respect they have in each other and it's beautiful 🙏
Me. Agree. Amazing couple
...of course they do. That look that praise that support that starring into each others eyes. That's what love looks like. They are what the world should see if they looking to reference LOVE.
As a mother, I can't even imagine the heartache that they live with. Their family and beautiful little boy are in my prayers
Watch your kids ! every second. Easily avoidable.
@@linanicolia1363 You simply cannot watch your child every second. No one can. What is easy is being an armchair quarterback, but it's not fair to anyone.
My heart goes out to this family. We lost two children, and you're never the same. You're not alone.
It breaks my heart. I saved a little 2 year old. We were sitting around a bonfire and the older kids were watching the little ones. I'd keep checking on them. One time I went to check on them. The little man thought he'd lean over the side and fell in .. i didnt think I could have moved that fast. I don't think I ever screamed so loud in my life. I ran into him and his family about a year ago .. OMG!! He's one heck of a Tall young man. 17 years old. 6' 3" .
I thank God I was able to be there when I was. If it was 5 minutes later. It would have been to late.
This family is the best. After hearing about the drowning I started looking them up and watched their youtube channel. Such really great Christians and you see that in them. Since watching them I have gotten closer to God, reading my Bible, reading devotionals and praying several times a day. Amber has Arise With Amber on youtube Sunday mornings I never miss. Granger sings country music but he's not like some of the other country artist. He has got to be the most HUMBLE guy I have ever seen. They teach family values and their children will grow up having much more respect for the little things in life compared to some of the artist that live in mansions and have everything. They make my day when I see the videos. I have so much respect for this family and much respect for the interview. This was very sweet and caring for such a tragedy. Natalie, you did very well. As Granger would say, "YEEYEE !" God Bless everyone
This was the hardest thing to watch.... hearing him explain how it happened. 30 seconds is all it takes. I literally can’t....
Props to the interviewer for keeping it together. I’m sitting here bawling listening to them talk🥺😭
When they talked about their other kids being there and witnessing everything just broke my heart completely..wishing the best for this family
Live like Riv. He is a hero in heaven.
#LiveLikeRiv and live in the moment. I am glad that this interview finally came out. The sheer strength of Granger and Amber is amazing. I can't even begin to imagine the depth of their grief.
What a wonderful couple!
The pain is so visible. I can’t imagine what they felt having to say goodbye to their little boy. I pray that Granger and Amber stop blaming themselves. You didn’t screw up. It was just an awful thing that just happened. Sending hugs to these beautiful people.
Even the interviewer at one point when asking if the other kids were there when it happened looks like she’s holding back tears :(
CPS would not mercy on them 2
Oh yes they did screw up. They knew their 2 boys were playing with squirt guns. Where did they think the water was coming from?. All they had to do was fill up 2 buckets of water. And tell them," this is where you fill up your water guns at". ""I don't want to see either one of you, near the pool or you are in trouble." Could of saved his ill life. River was trying to fill up his water gun when he drowned.
I just hope people can learn from this horrible circumstance.
@@outoftime7740 and I PRAY TO GOD, you never have to go through something so horrible!! SHAME ON YOU FOR JUDGING THESE POOR PARENTS. SHAME. ON. YOU. 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
@@kellyw05istandwithtasha88 Oh boo hoo. I feel sorry for the little boy, who never even got a chance to live. It could have been so easily avoided.
The loss of a child is something that no family should ever go through, and when it happens the most we can do is stand beside them
When my brother passed away...I vowed to never let life take joy away from me again... so I just gravitate to everything good in life. I go to joy, I bring joy, I give joy, I welcome all the joy. I cant take another blow.
I feel the same .
I’m so sorry for your loss. That’s very amazing for you to take grief and turn it around like that. ♥️
My brother died COVID-19 nov 23 😭😭😭😭😭
@@paulaprettypaula4213
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Hopefully I’ll get there but now it’s horrible 😱😭😭😭
Two of the most beautiful people both inside and out. The way they look at each other, the respect, the love is incredible. I cannot begin to imagine this level of pain, I am so sorry for the loss of your son. You are in my prayers ❤❤❤
The deep respect and love these two have for each other is so beautiful and apparent in the way they look at each other and touch each other. Such a beautiful family. So sorry for your loss. ❤️
That is an unimaginable pain that NO parent should ever face, my heart goes out to them. I really comment them for sticking together through their grief, most couples end up seperating after the loss. Its good to see a couple actually turning to each other rather than against each other. 💔💕
You can tell he is holding himself responsible for that accident. That has got to be hard to live with.
I grew up around water. My Grandma was always a nervous wreck, and I couldn’t understand why. Now as an adult with 3 boys I understand it completely. I can’t imagine this heartache, and my heart goes out to this family. 💕
Oh, the absolute HORROR of losing a child... May God bless these dear people.
Could have easily been avoided. You are supposed to watch your toddlers.
@lina nicolia shut up ok no job is to easy to screw up okay.
Let's not judge somebody you wasn't there , no not talking about you Seth.
So did they say they had their eyes on him?? So you are judging wrongly. Don't judge them as judging when they have the right to judge if they want. They were not being truthful. The child doesn't have magical powers so unless God opened the gate it was not locked or they thought it was.
@@ASmith-jn7kfKaren
Please forgive yourselves. There are so many ways a child can might find a few moments to encounter a life threatening danger. It’s a matter of luck to be right there at every moment. I’m so sorry for these parents and so impressed with their courage. This message will help save children’s lives.
These 2 parents are the strongest I've ever ever seen. There's no way I could do this interview. I cannot imagine losing a child. I don't even wanna think of it. Their strength, and way of thinking of this is amazing, admirable, and just Wow! I am so sorry for their loss. I cry for them, I pray for them, and I agree with their cause and I myself will spread the word here in Massachusetts of a pool, a bucket, any body of water and how fast it can happen. I lost a nephew to drowning in the Merrimac River a couple years ago. He was 21 and an athlete and it didn't matter. I work 6 days a week 10 hours a day to take care of my 2 younger kids, my 2 older ones are out in the world on their own but they still need dads help now and again but I'll spread the message while working and on my day off. May God be with the Smith family and everyone else.
You guys are doing a lot of good by warning others about how quickly a child can drown. This tragedy has brought purpose and meaning into your lives. You'll be rewarded for it. And all of you will be together again. We're all just passing through this life.
My sister fell in the pool on vacation about 28 years ago whilst reaching for a potato chip she dropped. I saw it, told my dad, and I've never seen a man jump over so many people so fast to get to her. We are a lucky family.
They are so strong to speak publicly about this. I’m crying watching it, and just heartbroken for them.
Granger and Amber are amazing. So sweet, loving and supportive of each other through their pain and grief.
Beautiful couple. 💞 So sorry for your loss. May the Lord continue to give you strength. 🙏🙏🙏
I can’t imagine the grief. This makes me want to educate myself even more as a single mom. Thank you for this reminder.
I lost my oldest 38 year old grandson 3 weeks ago his body was found in the river and this past Sunday September 3 my 13 year old great grandson took his own life, our family is so devistated but I know Jesus died for our sins. Losing a child is unimaginable I feel sad for your loss and I know your son is with our Savior. I feel your hurt and guilt. I bought your book and am in the process of reading it so very helpful for my grief.
So so sorry for your losses and I know there are no words and I only wish you the best moving forward. You seem like a strong person and that's very admirable.
My wife lost her 4 yr old brother from drowning at their home pool. To this day she will not go under the water in a pool. I don’t feel she has ever dealt with it but I’ve got her back when ever we’re at a pool with the grandkids, I’ll jump in to go under water with them. My heart hurts for your family so much. God bless
You are a sweet man, Rob. 🙂
This absolutely terrifies me as a parent.... There are no words; I'm so sorry this is your pain.
Two remarkably phenomenal people. I gain strength through their vulnerability. Stay strong you two. I pray for peace in your hearts.
My 1 yr old cousin drowned in 1976. She got into their backyard pool and each parent thought the other was watching her. I still feel sad and remember the look of her at the funeral. She was a beautiful baby who looked perfect. The pain never goes away.
By the grace of GOD these fine people will make something great out of their worst moment
By the grace of God the boy would have been saved...
@Mark of the Mole myths?! Remember this comment you made in the afterlife
@@ldv02 GOD BLESS YOU!!!! “Tomorrow” comes sooner than this person thinks.
Now they're pregnant and having another baby
What a beautiful couple. I've never heard such a detailed depiction of the reality of a child drowning. It is such invaluable information. Such a wealth of information. What a great interview. This is the first time I have ever understood about child drowning. They are helping so many people. He is so intelligent and articulate, honest and real. And Amber is such a sweet soul. This was an incredible interview. Morales knocked it out of the park because she was a quiet interviewer and real. The key was the length of the interview. It so rarely happens that people are given beyond 5 minutes. This was really great.
This hurt me so bad. They are right. Drowning happens more than people think. Even to teenagers.
My in laws are getting an underground pool and I’m a hot mess. My son is 43 inches tall and 4 yrs old just recently. I’m like man, now I have to be on guard 100% all the time. Really scary.
My teenage brothers drowned... it's so common. My heart goes out to them.
@@ashley123nm I’m so sorry
@@teresasahli5891 thank you for your kindness. Have a blessed day 💛
I love watching The Smiths on TH-cam. They are a wonderful family. Im so glad they have a platform to share their story and bring awareness to childhood drowning.
Can’t imagine what they went threw or anyone else in this case. Prayers to all!
I am so sorry for your loss. River is still with you with your memories & love for him. He is waiting in heaven for mom & dad. God bless you & your family.
I'm not crying... You are. I Love this family. They've Helped me in so many ways. ❤🙏❤🙏❤
Children especially toddlers are soooo smart. They analyze everything. They watch us unlock doors, use computers, enter passwords. They pay attention to details we don’t even know we’re doing and they are fast.
May GOD be with you all. Your baby boy was so blessed to have you as parents. He was sooo smart.
Not really, most dogs are smarter
Nelu, you are so right. Kids take in everything!
So true.
@@Adityathegreatrulesthisworld you must not have kids or maybe you may still be a child yourself. 🙄
He was 3 hon, I highly doubt he knew the password. Who said it was locked with a key pad??
Coming up on a month since I lost my four year old son. I hope my wife and I can be as strong as you guys. We have two others to raise as well.
Hey I’m so sorry for your loss. I know words don’t mean anything but truly I am sorry
I hope you and your family are well❤❤
As someone who lost both my teenage daughters in a car accident I can feel them.
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you love 🤗💗🤗
I'm so sorry as well.No parent should go through that.
Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear this. My prayers are with you.
I'm so sorry.
Oh may God bring you comfort! I cannot even begin to imagine that pain!😢
It breaks my heart seeing the pain trough this parents eyes. I hope they find straight and happiness ♥️
My heart goes out to this sweet, courageous family. Their son is truly a continuous shining light for all of us. God bless them in their life journey as they live and give so much love and hope to others. They are remarkable and are honoring their precious son’s life so courageously. Keeping them and their family along with all the other families who have suffered such a tragedy in my prayers.
Yall did no wrong. We still love yall and praying for yall.
How many more Y'all's you gonna do?😂 May I ask where your farm at? 😂
@@ethancrabtree3094 not nice
@@ethancrabtree3094 sad. Just not.
@@jenniferrae6646 ^
@@ethancrabtree3094 why are you even here?
Heart wrenching interview... I hear stories like this way too many times. My hear goes out to their family and their strength.
So brave, so courageous and love that they can help people with drowning education even as they grieve. My heart and prayers to Granger and Amber and their children. ❤️
River was such an amazing, sweet, loving little boy and he is so missed by so many of us, I can never imagine the pain amber and granger have had to deal with over the last year, but they both continue to stay strong and positive for their other kids and I give them so much credit for that and for not letting this tragedy destroy their family like it does to so many others. We miss you River Kelley! 🎈🦋❤️
What a courageous couple. What they are doing to help this world through their own pain is a gift to their baby.
I pray for you. My heart breaks listening to this. This is one amazing family.
Not one thing on this earth, could compare to what these people are going through, not a thing. Bless their hearts ❤🙏🏻
Amber and Granger ❤️ beautiful interview well done 🙏🏻
The pain in their faces. Imagine their hearts. OMG, may God help them (He obviously IS helping, but o Lord their heartbreak is palpable)
I think they're finding meaning really means dealing with their guilt. How horrific a tragedy.
Under circumstances like this it is inevitable to do some heart searching. "Could I have done this?" "If only I had done that ". It is clear from the interview there is no guilt. I also found out that there are many many other similar tragedies where nothing could have been done. As they said, it only took seconds.
Amber and Granger will continue to live with their pain but I pray that they recognise how powerfully God is using them and River and how strong a rock they are for others.
When I worked at the Walmart in College Station , Texas, I used to speak with one of their family members each time he came in. He always spoke about how great and loved the kids are , he also spoke about how great of parents Granger and his wife are. The first time I helped this gentleman , he was buying supplies to make a big red bow for Granger’s son’s service . I am truly so sorry for your loss 😔 I do believe in Heaven, and one day God will reunite him with you . Your family is in my prayers and thoughts.
Heartbreaking tragedy. May other parents and babies benefit from Granger and Amber’s message of their loss. They’ll all reunite soon, PTL.
Thank you for sharing the layers of drowning of children. What a difficult interview but you all handled yourselves beautifully.
Omg I cannot believe they asked about having another child?! Horrible question
Amber and Granger were already prewarned about some of the questions, they wanted to answer em all. Yes it seems insensetive but they too have asked some parents the same question and what steps they may take.
They are always well informed what will be asked ...they have the final say .
She really is a terrible interviewer. Asking these sad questions about a heartbreaking, unimaginable incident and she’s smirking. Really annoying to me.
Typical dumbest/insensitive question people ask or say to a grieving chil as if that would change anything.
Even if they were briefed about the question doesn’t change the fact how rude and totally inappropriate that question as/is.
My daughter was a near drown as well. Very adventurous & still untamed. My heart goes out to you both. #1000days ❤️
I almost drowned when I was a kid, it was after swimming lessons, and I decided to try and practice, my sister began screaming on top of her lungs and saved my life. They are right, a kid does not know what to do, I remember panicking and breathing in the water and thinking I was dying.
A little boy I used to take care of drowned at 18 months. It took 3 minutes to get his heartbeat back and he was in the pool for an unknown amount of time. (His father was stoned on the couch and his mother came to pick him up and found him in the pool). He was in a coma for a couple days and by some miracle, he woke and had no deficits. He was actually very advanced and is working on a medical degree now.
I almost drowned once and was surrounded by tons of adults. It took awhile for someone to realize that I was drowning.
Thats horrible 😞 and so scary.
Same my sisters thought I was playing
N my mom thought I was waving so she was waving back..until my cousin pulled me out this happened at the beach btw...
When someone is drowning it’s hard to hear them
I'm glad you are here to talk about it ❤
ezzy Alvare they say that’s a warning someone is drowning. A person is in the water and their arms are up splashing, and waving. Most people are not aware, and possibly think that the person is playing in the water. Thank God you were saved.
I am such a Smiths fan, I watch The Smiths, Arise with Amber and all the Granger videos as well. Bless this family, they are so strong and it's their foundation in God that has kept them going each and everyday. Yee Yee family member right here. #Livelikeriv
A child can drown right in front of their parent. I was in Galveston at a hotel and was walking by the pool. I saw a child floundering in the water as his mother was in the pool ten feet away. She was drinking and talking to someone. I yelled out that her kid was drowning and she shrieked and grabbed him. He was so quiet and not making a noise. Thankfully they got to him in time but I don't know what would have happened if I hadn't walked by.
Amen. “If you’re not in the arena with me then I will not take the criticism seriously.” No truer words. God Bless Your Family! Your older children are blessed to have both of you be a part of this with them. It has to an unbelievable hurt, but thank God you are be able to keep waking up each day for them.
To lose a child is the saddest thing in the 🌎 😢
I adore the Smiths and feel their pain so deep as a parent that has lost a child myself! River will always be remembered by those that knew him the short time he was here he obviously left a beautiful impression.
Two amazing parents and people. Praying for their strength. Such unconditional love.
I so honor and respect this couple! Their maturity in handling this situation with their children is incredibly! What an awesome couple and parents they are! I am in awe! So thankful you know the Lord, and the incredible peace He brings!
I have watched their TH-cam channel for a long time. I cried like a baby when I found out about river. As a momma of 3 I can’t imagine what they went through.
I agree. I admire their strength...I honestly don't think I could handle loosing one of my kids! 😳😫💗
God bless this couple & their children...unimaginable grief...Thanking them for saving other lives from their loss...
When he talked about the resilience of his other two children I lost it. 💔
This brought me to tears. Prayers for this family to stay strong and find solace.
Thank you Granger and Amber. This was such a powerful interview and clearly a very difficult one. I learned a lot, particularly that there is usually no one to blame in such tragic events. God gathered up River to Himself and then set about making good in the situation. He is touching thousands, if not millions, of people through River and through your testimonies. You have given such strength and courage and hope to so many others as you share your pain with them. May God continue to use you mightily in His service and give you the healing and strength you will need to continue.
Amen
so heartwrenching! My heart and prayers go to the whole family and friends!
I'm so sorry for your loss. thank you for speaking out to help other families.
Y'all are so blessed to have had each other during this difficult time. I lost my middle son Shane on Sept 4, 2002 to an accidental overdose at the age of 15. (I only recently learned that that was Granger's birthday). I was a single mom of three boys and it was very hard for me to deal with the pain of losing my middle son at that time. I was blessed though to have a very supporting church family who were there for me and my boys. I pray that as the days and years go on you'll find peace as I have knowing that my boy is with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and thank HIM that we will be able to see our kids again one day. xoxo to y'all and your family, Grandma Kay
I’m so sorry for your loss 😥
I lost my only child,my son,I had to move also.My therapist told me where ever I go my grief will follow me.She was right.
So very sorry x
There was a time I kept moving too. Someone told me the same. It's in you, not out there. So you cannot distance yourself from it by moving away geographically.
But...I believe it can be a first step. You aren't gonna miraculously start feeling better. However, there could be fewer intense triggers, and that helps.
River was so special 😪 My heart still aches for them and for the loss of him
My husband has been through alot of tragedy and lost his youngest son last year, Logan. Watching him dwindle has been so heartbreaking as there are good days and bad days. There is a little peace in Logans children's smiles that make us think how greatful we are that Logan was able to give the greatest gift of life through him having children. I personally do not feel the pain of losing a child, but i see what my husband goes through each day that a piece of his heart will always bare an empty space. To anyone out there listening, never lose hope or faith. Prayer and time and lots of love and understanding are key to helping a loved one cope with loss. When it comes to the loss of a child, no matter how old you or your child is, the hurt is still the same and the burden is very real. Always have open arms for someone to hold and keep your ears open to listen. It really does go along way, when someone is ready to talk. God Bless -A
Whenever, I sell a house with a pool to a family I always warn them about the stats gingerly. Kids are so fast. Pools, tubs, lakes should always be looked at with huge respect. Kids are ingenious and will find a way. I am so sad for these folks. With our pool we had a regular fence and screened in area and a 5' mesh fence (I know they are unattractive but, they really do work to keep kids out along with pool wave alarms) I always recommend these to clients. It just can happens so fast and I have heard so many of these stories. We had a friends child fall into our pool. We were all there watching. My daughter jumped in and saved her. This can happen anywhere. This can happen to anyone. Praying for healing for this amazing family.
It cannot happen anywhere, stay away from pools. It cannot happen to anyone. Young children and adults have no business in large bodies of uncontrolled waters like rivers, lakes and possibly even some beaches. Children under 15 should not be in a pool without a life vest. It's not magic. You say you were all watching them why didn't you all jump in?? Why would your daughter have to do that??
Heartbreaking, but pleased to see the positivity and resistance of parents who experiences such a tragic loss. Bless your little angel 👼
My son is exactly how they described their son. I am constantly terrified of of my son being around water because he is so fearless. I’m so sorry for their loss. Uhg I can’t even imagine.
I'm sure your son is amazing. But if watch there videos with him no one was like river
No one is like anybody. We are all unique.
When you lose a child it’s the worst pain you will ever feel . I lost my son and I pray to god every day don’t take anymore of my children I can’t live through it again . My mother lost two sons March 19 2017 due to a car accident the pain is awful .. Amber and Granger I’m so sorry and we love you so much
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you.
@@StandingInMyPower thank you very much 🙏 god bless you
@@faithinhumanity3390 God Bless you and your family.
@@StandingInMyPower you also
When my youngest daughter took swimming lessons I had her wear swim shoes. It was something the instructor was against because it makes it harder to swim and somewhat uncomfortable for the child. But the reality is as stated in this video many children who drown are not dressed for swimming.
This family is so courageous. I hope God brings them peace.
The heartbreak is painful to watch.. Praying for them
Amazing how you as parents can cope with this loss, how well you guys have thought this through. And helping others and educate other families. Love you guys 🙏❤️
I can t imagine. My brain cant wrap around it. I pray I'm not tested, I'm not strong enough to handle that.
I sometimes notice my mind drifting to such scenario's and they are always followed by me picturing shooting myself through the head... We only have one, so that would be a legit option...
@@LauravanKessel Hey girl, are you okay? If you need help I really encourage you to reach out to someone!! Here’s the national suicide hotline 800-273-8255 . Praying that you’re okay!!
@@oliviadixson47 I think she is referring to if something happened to her child. She is saying she only has one. If a tragedy, God forbid, happened. She would have no other children here to live for. I totally understood her statement.
You are so brave and selfless to tell your heartbreaking story. I’ve lost three family members to tragedies. I know how much it can change a person. Thank you for doing good deeds even though you’ still experiencing periods of pain and grief! God bless your precious family!!!
I can't imagine the lost. My heart breaks for ur family. I'm so sorry. God bless, prayers for ur healing. ❤