I shared this on Facebook also.. because I see people posting shit every hour on the hour on Facebook SEEKING VALIDATION and approval... but like you said they are missing something in their life..
I know this an old video. But I literally deleted ALL my social media. No IG, no FB, no Twitter. Because I was literally losing my mind, comparing myself to other women my age, and somehow I was losing sight of how loved and amazing I am before I got into this social media wave. This video is important to our generation and it’s something we all need to see.
Soooo true.most people on social media are insecure,problematic,or flat out insane. My sole social media is youtube,and that is it. I really do not care if people like me or they dont.that is not my problem. I view it as god did not put me on earth to win a popularity contest.this is real life,not saved by the bell
Baby you were preaching!! I know people that be putting on for social media and I know the truth and when I tell you I be having tea parties with my sister about this mess, I'm not lying. But let me stop talking about others bc I am always seeking validation from these dudes that could give 2 fucks about me but this video really helped me open my eyes. Keep doing your thing.
That's why I deleted every social media I had. I learn my lesson by exhibiting the behaviors you talked about in this video. There is no need to give away yourself so easily. Let people earn the right to get to know you. Mystery can be very powerful. Seeking validation is so prevalent in our generation. People put a false image on Facebook and really have a distorted perception of themselves on social media.
Alot of people need to see this because it's getting outta hand. Most people are searching for that validation but the need to discover why they feel the need to be validated in the first place.
I’m going to make sure I look my BEST in all of my pictures. I may talk all kind of ways on my timelines but I’m going to do my BEST to look the part. That’s not going to change, either lol 💜🤘🏾
Justin I love you cos you say it as it is. I know exactly the kind of people you're talking about. Keep speakin the truth an keep vids like this comin please Lots of love Ash xxx
One thing I don't do anymore is post about my job. No one knows what I do. I also don't post about relationships . I stopped posting about my everyday activities I felt like everyone was in my life. One time my boyfriend put candles all over the room for me and I was like ooh lemme put this on Instagram and he yelled at me NO!! Let this be just for us. That's when I realized I been doing too much. Now I only post what I cook and about my blog
Justin you are always on my timeline due to those I follow. I un subscribed to you a few months back due to the trayvon case we had a few disagreements and I must say, I tuned in one day afterwards and haven't stopped. I Secretly adore you, I misjudged you and I was wrong! You speak the truth on alot of issues, I'm keeping it real. I apologize to you, you have definitely redeemed yoself with me :-) I love you Justin, speak!!!!
I absolutely love your realness. You definitely hit on a serious topic, I feel for the kids that are growing up in the age of social media. Keep up the great work Justin 3
So agreed...that's why I have to take social networks with a grain of salt....nothing is quite what it seems...I stay asking people who they are trying to convince...me or themselves
As old as this vid is it stands even more true today in fact it's gotten worse....Justin maybe u need to repost this or do a new similar vid bcuz people need to hear this again years later 😔
People love to seek validation. They do it because they know something in their relationship is fucked up. I wish people would just live and not try to please mfers that they dont know or even care about.
I know someone that do this so much...and then when she finds out her man is doing some bullshit...then she is posting butt hurt posts for a couple of hours then she will start all over again...smh. Love this video.
I shared this on Facebook also.. because I see people posting shit every hour on the hour on Facebook SEEKING VALIDATION and approval... but like you said they are missing something in their life..
Amen!
Preach preacher... Yaassss!!!!!
Preach Loving It So True
Speak that truth!
Very good message!
Preach Justin!
I totally agree!!!! I keep my personal life off all social networks.
Preach! You are speaking the truth justin!
Truth!!!!!
I know this an old video. But I literally deleted ALL my social media. No IG, no FB, no Twitter. Because I was literally losing my mind, comparing myself to other women my age, and somehow I was losing sight of how loved and amazing I am before I got into this social media wave. This video is important to our generation and it’s something we all need to see.
Good Teaching!
Truth
Soooo true.most people on social media are insecure,problematic,or flat out insane. My sole social media is youtube,and that is it. I really do not care if people like me or they dont.that is not my problem.
I view it as god did not put me on earth to win a popularity contest.this is real life,not saved by the bell
Great topic
Amen to everything u said in this video!
This video has really touched home!
Great message!
Baby you were preaching!! I know people that be putting on for social media and I know the truth and when I tell you I be having tea parties with my sister about this mess, I'm not lying. But let me stop talking about others bc I am always seeking validation from these dudes that could give 2 fucks about me but this video really helped me open my eyes. Keep doing your thing.
That's why I deleted every social media I had. I learn my lesson by exhibiting the behaviors you talked about in this video. There is no need to give away yourself so easily. Let people earn the right to get to know you. Mystery can be very powerful. Seeking validation is so prevalent in our generation. People put a false image on Facebook and really have a distorted perception of themselves on social media.
+Raven Williams WIsh I could delete all of mine but I need it for promotion.
+Denee Weathers I feel you me too
Spot on Raven!
yesssssssssssss so agree!!! good video!! good topic!!!!!
just spoke of this today! ppl have forgotten what it means to matter to themselves.
Alot of people need to see this because it's getting outta hand. Most people are searching for that validation but the need to discover why they feel the need to be validated in the first place.
These videos really got me through some tough situations. Thank God Justin. I go back and watch them
i'm pressed about that shit.lol
You make me laugh so much!!!!! Thanks :)
I’m going to make sure I look my BEST in all of my pictures. I may talk all kind of ways on my timelines but I’m going to do my BEST to look the part. That’s not going to change, either lol 💜🤘🏾
Reallly loved this vid Justin! wish it was longer haha
I love you and your vids, keep it up !! Looking forward to more
This is by far one of my favorite videos! Love it!
Justin I love you cos you say it as it is. I know exactly the kind of people you're talking about. Keep speakin the truth an keep vids like this comin please
Lots of love Ash xxx
My Exact Thoughts
I truly love you😍😍😍
The best way to date is through friends, family and chance meeting at face to face!
I love the way you say trouble!
One thing I don't do anymore is post about my job. No one knows what I do. I also don't post about relationships . I stopped posting about my everyday activities I felt like everyone was in my life. One time my boyfriend put candles all over the room for me and I was like ooh lemme put this on Instagram and he yelled at me NO!! Let this be just for us. That's when I realized I been doing too much. Now I only post what I cook and about my blog
I shared this on my FB and I hardly ever share vids there, but people need to see this. I have watched this video at least 3 times.
Justin you are always on my timeline due to those I follow. I un subscribed to you a few months back due to the trayvon case we had a few disagreements and I must say, I tuned in one day afterwards and haven't stopped. I Secretly adore you, I misjudged you and I was wrong! You speak the truth on alot of issues, I'm keeping it real. I apologize to you, you have definitely redeemed yoself with me :-) I love you Justin, speak!!!!
So true Justin I am guilty of this. Why do we do this to our self? It like it is in our dna with today society to post and boast seeking validation.
i watch all your videos and i love them yassss you make my day will be starting my blog videos soon thanks too you
I absolutely love your realness. You definitely hit on a serious topic, I feel for the kids that are growing up in the age of social media. Keep up the great work Justin 3
And when the car get repod they gon say its the devil. Lol lmao
Great video man!!!
Thank you Justin for this video, the selfies or whatever they are called be killing me. Some people stay posted up in the bathroom taking pics....lol
Laaaaaawd you be reading my MIND!!!!!
PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!! :D
This is why I love Justin J #truthspeaker
I love you. Love the vid
So agreed...that's why I have to take social networks with a grain of salt....nothing is quite what it seems...I stay asking people who they are trying to convince...me or themselves
Lol love you justin i look forward to your videos everyday
OMG! I agree so much with your views. I am in Memphis. I'd love to meet you.
You like the male Madea Lmfao I love you!!
As old as this vid is it stands even more true today in fact it's gotten worse....Justin maybe u need to repost this or do a new similar vid bcuz people need to hear this again years later 😔
hunni bunni YESSS!
Good video J!!!U the only one that make good videos without music playing!!!!
CHUUUUUUTCHHHH!
People love to seek validation. They do it because they know something in their relationship is fucked up. I wish people would just live and not try to please mfers that they dont know or even care about.
Very true
You should add Instagram and Twitter on the title because I almost skipped this video !! I love this video
Great video justin
I'm seeking validation in school. I love being told how smart I am.
Right! Lmao...
Giving a play by play blow of their life...who cares!! Shut them down!!
I know someone that do this so much...and then when she finds out her man is doing some bullshit...then she is posting butt hurt posts for a couple of hours then she will start all over again...smh. Love this video.
IG!!! Stand by your truth lol 😂💜 love you Justin J 1232!!!! 😘
Say that!!!!
Yes justin.
Good video!
AMEN!!!!!!!! *puts tithes in blue envelope*
This is what I keep telling ppl omg
Im on Facebook and Instagram nobody know my business. I go to god for my problem .
Yessss
True T!
I say the same thing....if you always on fb talkin about how in love you are something is wrong!
Yea I see it on fb and ig smh.
Heart
Get n my spirit im deleting my account
#Casketsharp I wanna drop a name. I would pay u for a read on this home wreckn queeeeen!!!!
Great message!