You're experiencing what it feels like to outgrow your circle. This usually happens when you're going to new levels and evolving. Things that were once ok, aren't anymore. You are well on your path to greatness. Keep going, Leo!
I'm living the reclusive life right now.....there's nothing wrong with it....do what you have to do to keep your peace of mind because people can be too much at times
You said that...I get supa fly and smelling good...I get my music and jump in the ride... Have cocktails wherever I want and let life move me! I always have a great time!
I know how you feel. My dating life is so bad that I've never even been in a relationship! I try to give guys a chance, but the texting hours later or days at a time, wanting me to chase them and making me feel inadequate---tuh! There's someONE out there for me but right now I'm over it and I'm got damn tired of waiting!!! ain't even had a bf yet and all my classmates are on there 2nd baby like wtf!??? Like where is the damn love? I'm tired of playing candy crush looking like I'm texting somebody!!! I want somebody to call my ass and see how I'm doin! Hell I feel like I have so much passion and love to give and nobody wants it and I'm not giving it away in pieces it's either one man's or mines alone!!!
JUST ME I feel you at this point 25 yrs old and still single I gave up on love lol I'm tired of looking for something that isn't there I'm glad I'm not the only person who feels this way seriously
Totally feeling your frustration I stopped dealing with people for the same reasons. Words of wisdom if someone is interested in you it won't be a struggle to hang out with them. If they want you around they would be there with you and make sure your rolling together the entire time. You are worthy of someone who will accommodate and include you every step of the way. Don't settle. And don't take it personal. Keep it moving with your head up.
Oh Man AFTER all that I would have went home as well took a luxurious bubble bath with a glass of wine and a sweet smelling candle to counteract the sour day and went to bed!!! Feel BETTER keep your head up this too shall pass💕
My feelings would be hurt too. Like the other comment said, it may be time to upgrade your inner circle or just cut it down significantly. Put yourself first !!!! Real friends will EFFORTLESSLY give love and support to you. Its not that hard, so... "Moving On Swiftly and Professionally" !!!!!!!!!!
Honestly I've been over a lot of people and I've been over the whole, "Oh nobody loves me, I'm so alone, I wish I had someone to love me & care for me" Bullshit. I've decided a long time ago that EVERYTHING has it's time. Right now is the time for me to build MYSELF UP & BUILD MY LIFE UP. Until the man who I'm destined to be with comes into my life, I'm gonna love myself & continue to better my life. I'm gonna take care of myself & show love towards myself rather than search for a guy & date an endless amount of assholes. The fuck I look like running around trying to get someone just to say I can have someone.
I was thinking the same thing. Friends wouldn’t do that to you. He didn’t get the hint. They were mistreating him and because he wanted to sleep with one of the guys he kept putting up with their bullsh*t. Also, if you notice in the beginning he was talking about one of the guys and how he was telling him to tip. If you want someone to tip bigger, why didn’t he add on to the tip himself. He also was probably making jokes about that guy, and the guy didn’t want to be bothered with him after that encounter. He has this tendency of mocking people and then get mad and shocked when they don’t want him around. Common sense should have told him after they ditched him the first time he should have went home or went somewhere else. Hang with people who respect you. It’s very simple, but guys will put up with anything when they want to sleep with somebody whether straight or gay!😒
2 things... You probably shoulda just kicked it with your friend who was ready to leave. I think THAT was a sign for you. The other is that once you left, they probably didn't think you'd really come back. Granted, they SHOULD have communicated better regardless.
Aww Justin I swear we always end up going through similar situations. I'm in the process of moving in with my cousin because I want to get myself together and I hate my current apartment. I'm also seeing people true colors so I been distancing myself from certain people. So I definitely understand. Shoot I need to vent as well because it's times I spaz the hell out lol
justin: There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with you.... You are GROWING as a person and are growing OUT of the friendship with this guy. At times we grow and have to leave others behind. All friends aren't equal and should be categorized appropriately based on where they are in their lives and behaviors. There are some people is never go out to eat with because I know they're tacky, and tip badly..... But they end up fading out altogether.... Lol..... In terms of dating, you know how dudes are and most of them aren't worth the trouble of dating. Just dress, rest, continue your work on you and do you!!!!!! And do it well!!!!
I think that rain was just a sign to make you realize that some things need to be washed away. You did a good thing by getting in your car and going home. Why follow those who aren't concerned about your well being..drunk or not. As I get older my circle stay getting smaller..
Sounds like college stories, when plans start falling through for the night, bail. I learned that shit real quick. Its not worth your spirit energy because once you start having fun the struggle will linger. I hope you have wonderful Sunday and relax like Patti Labelle's relevancy.
Omg I totally feel you! I have a so call friend who would text me "we on our way" and the next thing I know their asses are in the club asking if I'm in. I'm like, I know it didn't take you 10 mins to get there. By this time I'm blown. I'm like why the fuck can't you just wait for me to get there so we can all go in together or text me when you are actually leaving so we can get there at the same time. That's how all my other friend do it or we'll meet at one persons house and all ride together. I don't get it. I don't want to be searching for you in a big ass club like a lost puppy. Ugh!
Sometimes Justin shit just go wrong cuz that's the universe communicating with you. Perhaps contrary to you wanting to be out and getting to know this guy, the universe was like nope it's not the right time nor place. Just never know. Everything happens for a reason. Another thing, you don't have to live a reclusive life. First of all you have too much personality. All you need to do is see people for who they really are and start kicking them out your circle if they aren't the quality friend you want or need in your life. I live by the motto "do unto others as you would have them do unto you." I'm a sensitive and caring person as well so my CLOSE circle of friends are the same way. I only want people that understand and respect my ways cuz if not it will cause one to just want to go home, cry, scream and not come out the house again. You are a good person. Align yourself with other good people or as my mama puts it "like minded people." Lol!! You'll be in my prayer tonight. Keep your head up and feet on the ground my brother👍🏿
I do think that this has something to do with you being in a transitioning period from living on your own and living with someone else. Although this doesn't have a direct connection to that, I think that its normal for it to add to your overall state of anxiety and sort of being on edge. I also think that you may be on another level from your friends as far as the emphasis that you place on respect, caring for others and just looking out for people in general. Sometimes we expect to get from people what we put out and that's not always the case. Thank you for sharing this moment with us!
Hey Justinj1232 I'm goin through it myself but I'm glad that venting to us helped and u can tell it calmed u cause by the end of the video u wasn't as amped up. So i hope things get better in your world. And as much as u wanted to chill wit that person and with every road blocc u came to it almost seems like something was keeping it from happening. Sometimes we should stop and pay attention to tha signs.....
Breathe Justin Breathe! It sounds like that night irked your last black nerve! Chile go to bed and sleep it off. You ain't got no time for foolishness.
Hey Justin boo I love your videos.. this is my first time commenting and this video touched and agreed with my spirit lol.... I literally had a similar night with a friend...very similar club situation as well
Justinj1232 did you tell your friend how you felt before you posted this video or if he seen your black v neck roast he should call you up immediately and say sorry. Maybe he was having a bad day too. I had something similar like that with a friend of mine a he called me right away to apologize.
Aww Justin, I hope u feeling better. I agree with some of the previous comments, 1. The Universe is speaking to you (usually happens when a series of events/plans go haywire leaving you confused) 2. Definitely seems you were sent on a wild goose chase bcuz who doesn't know the room number they're in while in the damn room!! Everywhere they told you meet them they just so happened to be gone on to the next place? ✋PLEASE!! They didn't want you there. Get some new friends when you're ready and keep it pushin.
Its apart of the growth process. You're growing ur "friends" are still in neutral. I remember when things started to get out of sync for me, just couldn't figure out why things suddenly seemed to annoy, bore, or drive me up a wall. I fell back from everything & eventually found myself n a new setting around new ppl doing bigger & greater things. If ur not losing friends or things, u not growing. Ur simply growing love, push up, blossom. You'll love where u find urslf even tho this part seems strange.
As the saying goes, "Everybody that Came with you, Cant Go with you" Sometimes u have to be done with everyone to really get back to you and what makes you happy. You can still deal with folks, but it has to be from afar and on your own time. Otherwise, you will keep coming back to this point. A lot of times when this happens God is trying to show you something or do something in your life and he has to remove the things that would otherwise distract you if they remained there. You're doing right by just doing you. Much luv!
Justinj1232 God is pushing you out of your comfort zone..trust me when I tell you that its not the ppl its the spirit that's operating in them to force you to do what you were created and purposed to do. You know it, and you've been running for a long time. God has a greater work for you to do...you got an audience but now its time for Kingdom work! I don't care what it looks like, God is calling you for something greater...get ready for the Saul/Paul experience!!!!
I GET IT!! I dont fuck wit nobody....I always say I rather b around kids than adults on anyday...I JUST DONT HAV TIME!! you will sit back and reflect and see and reevaluate wat u got going on. U will also realize that ur growing and ur friends arent... soon you will choose friends that can u can learn from and help u in some type of way. And at the same time they can learn from u and you will help them in some type of way.....Not just being there to drain the hell out of you!!
When is the situation secure, on the drive home, Justinj1232 that's exactly why, I pick and chose who, what, where, cause child let tell ya!!!Ppl switch up with the quickness!!! choices!! who I go out with, what is the occasion, and where are we going, and if we end up going three or more different places I need details, I do not play no games, with nobody!!!!cause after dinner Justinj1232 the signs were written on the wall, you should have left, got into your car, and drove to the crib and called it a night!!!!! see now you know the next time, if it is a next time, not to go out with em!!!! make your own plans with staple minded fokes, that have direction and you can enjoy yourself!!! trust me I know how you feel!!! that kind of non sense does hurt, but I bet you will grow from it!!!! Ppl ppl !!! Smdh!!! Vent and just know from here on out!!! they start talking about going out!!! Shut em down!!!
Preach! Ugh I JUST snapped on my homeboy about this. I'm TIRED of stating my feelings just for somebody to damn disregard them. Then people be confused when you cut they ass off!
Oh and the situation that you went through tonight is a sign that you are growing the fuck up and your friend may not be. I am living the living under the rock moment right now too to get away from all the bullshit and get myself together. Stay focused sweetie
Sometimes you just outgrow people, or maybe you are meant to be going in a different direction from your core group and you are still trying to hold on to it. It IS frustrating and maybe you do need to center yourself...block out the "noise".
It's my 4th year at PSU but I still need a semester for more credit and I've been there and done that meaning a group goes downtown and don't know how to fucking act! The having enough cash is a factor, ppl drunk and not picking up the phone or phone is dead is yet another one. There is inner peace when you realize that you are too mature for some group thing and you don't need to be there altogether. Like the fuck was I doing outside waiting to get in in some bar then lose my friend (my experience) how do 21 yr old get lost! Like I said I got more credits to go so catch my ass reading up on some shit and sipping a beer or wine on Friday nights!
Justin it's just that devil he likes confusion always and look at it a another way God was just showing you things to make you open up your eyes remember when people show you who they are believe them.
I feel you Justin. And I love you and hate that you don't have someone just for you , if it takes this much to get to now him what will it take to be with him. Oh yeah and don't cut us off. Some of us need your face and opinions in the place.
That was so messed up for them to give you the run around like that. I hate seeing you like this, but it'll get better. You do so much good by uplifting people and making their day on here, it's going to come back to you tenfold. 🙌🏾🙌🏾 I believe in you and everything you're trying to do. We love you, Justin ❤️
Hope you are feeling better Justin. Just saw your video, catching up from the weekend. Sorry you had a shitty weekend. But just like the rain ended, your trials and frustrations will ease up and the sun will shine again. And Amen for the anxiety pills! I feel you on that one.😘
It will get better I would of left two if I were you just make sure you talk to your friend in a nice way and tell him how you feel instead of brushing it to the side cause if you don't say nothing then if he try that again things can get real heated because you holding it in so let it out and express your feelings if he still being a ass dissmiss his ass that's what I do
You are just outgrowing folks Justin. Truth is: with every step up you will have to leave friends behind. I have been lucky and blessed in my life, that also meant I had to learn to let go. You are clearly meant for big things: you will find that very few can keep up. Bless you beautiful: you will meet folks who are on your level and who care about your feelings.
Awww J sorry about your night. Maybe thats just a sing that its time for you to just switch your energy from having a relationship and just focus all of it on the moves you wanna make career wise.
I truly appreciate your honesty in this video. I myself feel that " reclusive" spirit at times, it's ok to shut their world off every now & then...no phone..no tv..no social just peace & your thoughts.
Hey Justin I know I'm late with my comment. I understand completely! How you were feeling, I love you videos and how u speak the truth about the things your passionate about. You uplift with me your videos!!! when I'm down... So I just wanna say love u #jays4ever💋
Yeah you have surpassed the ppl you associate with. Time to find a new group of ppl to hang with... Or just take the time to focus on yourself. I had to do the same thing. You are headed for greater things! Time to move forward.
SOmetimes we need to be by ourselves to reflect. you get to the point where other people's energy is just throwing you off and pissing you off. I get it, I went through the winter not wanting to be bothered.
I understand how you feel that has happened to me so many times and I've actually lost friends because of it. But they wasn't real friends anyway so my life is way better now
I watch a lot of your videos... you teach me soooooooooo much about learning to be alone and being okay with that and not being pressed for people and the bullshyt that they bring I appreciate you 😘
You're experiencing what it feels like to outgrow your circle. This usually happens when you're going to new levels and evolving. Things that were once ok, aren't anymore. You are well on your path to greatness. Keep going, Leo!
My girl :)
Art Cathey EXACTLY.
Art Cathey Co-Sign... Girl you telling the truth. I was about to post the same thing until I saw yours.
Art Cathey PREACH! Everyone cannot travel down your path or be apart of your journey
Justinj1232 You need to hurry and get the hell outta Memphis. Don't look back!
I'm living the reclusive life right now.....there's nothing wrong with it....do what you have to do to keep your peace of mind because people can be too much at times
Missrere1984 truth, being your own friend is the best for you because I just don't trust people nowadays.
You said that...I get supa fly and smelling good...I get my music and jump in the ride... Have cocktails wherever I want and let life move me! I always have a great time!
You ain't never lied!
for real
I know how you feel. My dating life is so bad that I've never even been in a relationship! I try to give guys a chance, but the texting hours later or days at a time, wanting me to chase them and making me feel inadequate---tuh! There's someONE out there for me but right now I'm over it and I'm got damn tired of waiting!!! ain't even had a bf yet and all my classmates are on there 2nd baby like wtf!??? Like where is the damn love? I'm tired of playing candy crush looking like I'm texting somebody!!! I want somebody to call my ass and see how I'm doin! Hell I feel like I have so much passion and love to give and nobody wants it and I'm not giving it away in pieces it's either one man's or mines alone!!!
JUST ME I feel you at this point 25 yrs old and still single I gave up on love lol I'm tired of looking for something that isn't there I'm glad I'm not the only person who feels this way seriously
@@Anymous578 any updates?
Any updates?
You need some time by yourself where you can think, hear the birds, feel the sun and just overall be at peace. Pray for peace and understanding.
Yes
Totally feeling your frustration I stopped dealing with people for the same reasons. Words of wisdom if someone is interested in you it won't be a struggle to hang out with them. If they want you around they would be there with you and make sure your rolling together the entire time. You are worthy of someone who will accommodate and include you every step of the way. Don't settle. And don't take it personal. Keep it moving with your head up.
Oh Man AFTER all that I would have went home as well took a luxurious bubble bath with a glass of wine and a sweet smelling candle to counteract the sour day and went to bed!!! Feel BETTER keep your head up this too shall pass💕
That moment when you say "take me to my car" oh shit done got real 😤😤😤
This is why my ass is single because I'm fucking crazy lmao...yassss
men men men MEN!
My feelings would be hurt too. Like the other comment said, it may be time to upgrade your inner circle or just cut it down significantly. Put yourself first !!!! Real friends will EFFORTLESSLY give love and support to you. Its not that hard, so... "Moving On Swiftly and Professionally" !!!!!!!!!!
You appreciate us for listening...we appreciate you for venting and getting things off your chest. Let it out. We r here 4 u!!
Honestly I've been over a lot of people and I've been over the whole, "Oh nobody loves me, I'm so alone, I wish I had someone to love me & care for me" Bullshit. I've decided a long time ago that EVERYTHING has it's time. Right now is the time for me to build MYSELF UP & BUILD MY LIFE UP. Until the man who I'm destined to be with comes into my life, I'm gonna love myself & continue to better my life. I'm gonna take care of myself & show love towards myself rather than search for a guy & date an endless amount of assholes. The fuck I look like running around trying to get someone just to say I can have someone.
Justin we are in the same boat!!!! I'm on the verge of just being a loner F.E! Real life
Lol Tony is cute and very married. I've been keeping my eye on him though lol
They didn't want to be bothered with you..That's why they ditched you
I was thinking the same thing. Friends wouldn’t do that to you. He didn’t get the hint. They were mistreating him and because he wanted to sleep with one of the guys he kept putting up with their bullsh*t. Also, if you notice in the beginning he was talking about one of the guys and how he was telling him to tip. If you want someone to tip bigger, why didn’t he add on to the tip himself. He also was probably making jokes about that guy, and the guy didn’t want to be bothered with him after that encounter. He has this tendency of mocking people and then get mad and shocked when they don’t want him around.
Common sense should have told him after they ditched him the first time he should have went home or went somewhere else. Hang with people who respect you. It’s very simple, but guys will put up with anything when they want to sleep with somebody whether straight or gay!😒
Don't worry about it, its their loss not to have such a cool person to be around.
Awwwww :)
Plz come to Orlando on yo way to see Mrs Tracy in Miami lol
Get some rest. Calm down.
Classic V-neck 😭😭😭😭
this is precisely why I have one friend and she is soon going to be downgraded to acquaintance. People are just disappointing.
This man really gives the real on his channel. It's blunt,pulls no punches,no sugar coating. Straight up!!!
Get you a hot shower/bath and get some rest. You will be fine in the morning.
Justin I'm on the same page. I'm over being around folks who only care about themselves entirety. I feel every word you said.
It seems like they didn't want to be bothered with you.
2 things... You probably shoulda just kicked it with your friend who was ready to leave. I think THAT was a sign for you. The other is that once you left, they probably didn't think you'd really come back. Granted, they SHOULD have communicated better regardless.
Aww Justin I swear we always end up going through similar situations. I'm in the process of moving in with my cousin because I want to get myself together and I hate my current apartment. I'm also seeing people true colors so I been distancing myself from certain people. So I definitely understand. Shoot I need to vent as well because it's times I spaz the hell out lol
justin:
There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with you.... You are GROWING as a person and are growing OUT of the friendship with this guy. At times we grow and have to leave others behind. All friends aren't equal and should be categorized appropriately based on where they are in their lives and behaviors. There are some people is never go out to eat with because I know they're tacky, and tip badly..... But they end up fading out altogether.... Lol..... In terms of dating, you know how dudes are and most of them aren't worth the trouble of dating. Just dress, rest, continue your work on you and do you!!!!!! And do it well!!!!
TASconfidential not true..he is crazy
Charletta Ramono
You were right...😔
Justin, God is doing this for a reason. He's removing the unnecessary people in your life for the necessary ones to come in. Trust the process.
I watch this every week
Never take this down I need this every now and then. Thank you for your rawness. Has me in tears laughing even single time.
Lol me too! I revisit this video every couple of months or so haha 😂
I love everything about Justinj1232 He's always in some way giving me life with no parole...Keep doing ya thing daddy...YOU THAT BABY
I hate hood boogers and hanging with ppl who are to much lol so don't feel bad lmao
I think that rain was just a sign to make you realize that some things need to be washed away. You did a good thing by getting in your car and going home. Why follow those who aren't concerned about your well being..drunk or not. As I get older my circle stay getting smaller..
Sounds like college stories, when plans start falling through for the night, bail. I learned that shit real quick. Its not worth your spirit energy because once you start having fun the struggle will linger. I hope you have wonderful Sunday and relax like Patti Labelle's relevancy.
Omg I totally feel you! I have a so call friend who would text me "we on our way" and the next thing I know their asses are in the club asking if I'm in. I'm like, I know it didn't take you 10 mins to get there. By this time I'm blown. I'm like why the fuck can't you just wait for me to get there so we can all go in together or text me when you are actually leaving so we can get there at the same time. That's how all my other friend do it or we'll meet at one persons house and all ride together. I don't get it. I don't want to be searching for you in a big ass club like a lost puppy. Ugh!
Sometimes Justin shit just go wrong cuz that's the universe communicating with you. Perhaps contrary to you wanting to be out and getting to know this guy, the universe was like nope it's not the right time nor place. Just never know. Everything happens for a reason. Another thing, you don't have to live a reclusive life. First of all you have too much personality. All you need to do is see people for who they really are and start kicking them out your circle if they aren't the quality friend you want or need in your life. I live by the motto "do unto others as you would have them do unto you." I'm a sensitive and caring person as well so my CLOSE circle of friends are the same way. I only want people that understand and respect my ways cuz if not it will cause one to just want to go home, cry, scream and not come out the house again. You are a good person. Align yourself with other good people or as my mama puts it "like minded people." Lol!! You'll be in my prayer tonight. Keep your head up and feet on the ground my brother👍🏿
Love this comment!
You spoke the truth...Great Comment, I wish both You and Justin the best in life 😀
I do think that this has something to do with you being in a transitioning period from living on your own and living with someone else. Although this doesn't have a direct connection to that, I think that its normal for it to add to your overall state of anxiety and sort of being on edge. I also think that you may be on another level from your friends as far as the emphasis that you place on respect, caring for others and just looking out for people in general. Sometimes we expect to get from people what we put out and that's not always the case. Thank you for sharing this moment with us!
No it has something to do with me trying to be booed up that night and everything went sour.
Hey Justinj1232 I'm goin through it myself but I'm glad that venting to us helped and u can tell it calmed u cause by the end of the video u wasn't as amped up. So i hope things get better in your world. And as much as u wanted to chill wit that person and with every road blocc u came to it almost seems like something was keeping it from happening. Sometimes we should stop and pay attention to tha signs.....
Breathe Justin Breathe! It sounds like that night irked your last black nerve! Chile go to bed and sleep it off. You ain't got no time for foolishness.
Justin just calm down, love the beard. Please be a bit more selective of whom you hang out with. You are a celebrity.
And those females weren't taught that they should ALWAYS bring enough cash whenever they go out.
Hey Justin boo I love your videos.. this is my first time commenting and this video touched and agreed with my spirit lol.... I literally had a similar night with a friend...very similar club situation as well
Justinj1232 did you tell your friend how you felt before you posted this video or if he seen your black v neck roast he should call you up immediately and say sorry. Maybe he was having a bad day too. I had something similar like that with a friend of mine a he called me right away to apologize.
Aww Justin, I hope u feeling better. I agree with some of the previous comments, 1. The Universe is speaking to you (usually happens when a series of events/plans go haywire leaving you confused) 2. Definitely seems you were sent on a wild goose chase bcuz who doesn't know the room number they're in while in the damn room!! Everywhere they told you meet them they just so happened to be gone on to the next place? ✋PLEASE!! They didn't want you there. Get some new friends when you're ready and keep it pushin.
You know sometimes being a recluse isn't that bad. You need your peace of mind especially when being around selfish people.
Its apart of the growth process. You're growing ur "friends" are still in neutral. I remember when things started to get out of sync for me, just couldn't figure out why things suddenly seemed to annoy, bore, or drive me up a wall. I fell back from everything & eventually found myself n a new setting around new ppl doing bigger & greater things. If ur not losing friends or things, u not growing. Ur simply growing love, push up, blossom. You'll love where u find urslf even tho this part seems strange.
He roasted his own night. Me as hell
As the saying goes, "Everybody that Came with you, Cant Go with you" Sometimes u have to be done with everyone to really get back to you and what makes you happy. You can still deal with folks, but it has to be from afar and on your own time. Otherwise, you will keep coming back to this point. A lot of times when this happens God is trying to show you something or do something in your life and he has to remove the things that would otherwise distract you if they remained there. You're doing right by just doing you. Much luv!
"Nails 💅🏾 bought to fall off, wig🧔🏻♀️👩🏽🦰 about to fall off ,drippy drop face 😅 "lol 😅😂😫
Justinj1232 God is pushing you out of your comfort zone..trust me when I tell you that its not the ppl its the spirit that's operating in them to force you to do what you were created and purposed to do. You know it, and you've been running for a long time. God has a greater work for you to do...you got an audience but now its time for Kingdom work! I don't care what it looks like, God is calling you for something greater...get ready for the Saul/Paul experience!!!!
"I feel like I'm bout to be a fuckin recluse in a minute" I agreed with this statement
I'm very territorial too I'm not about to let nobody piss on my damn tree for real!
Do you! Don't second guess yourself! chances make champions. Team Justinj1232 you win! I think your going to do big things in the near future.
I GET IT!! I dont fuck wit nobody....I always say I rather b around kids than adults on anyday...I JUST DONT HAV TIME!! you will sit back and reflect and see and reevaluate wat u got going on. U will also realize that ur growing and ur friends arent... soon you will choose friends that can u can learn from and help u in some type of way. And at the same time they can learn from u and you will help them in some type of way.....Not just being there to drain the hell out of you!!
If you cant change the people around you change the people around you. I will be ok JustinJ
When is the situation secure, on the drive home, Justinj1232 that's exactly why, I pick and chose who, what, where, cause child let tell ya!!!Ppl switch up with the quickness!!! choices!! who I go out with, what is the occasion, and where are we going, and if we end up going three or more different places I need details, I do not play no games, with nobody!!!!cause after dinner Justinj1232 the signs were written on the wall, you should have left, got into your car, and drove to the crib and called it a night!!!!! see now you know the next time, if it is a next time, not to go out with em!!!! make your own plans with staple minded fokes, that have direction and you can enjoy yourself!!! trust me I know how you feel!!! that kind of non sense does hurt, but I bet you will grow from it!!!! Ppl ppl !!! Smdh!!! Vent and just know from here on out!!! they start talking about going out!!! Shut em down!!!
Preach! Ugh I JUST snapped on my homeboy about this. I'm TIRED of stating my feelings just for somebody to damn disregard them. Then people be confused when you cut they ass off!
Oh and the situation that you went through tonight is a sign that you are growing the fuck up and your friend may not be. I am living the living under the rock moment right now too to get away from all the bullshit and get myself together. Stay focused sweetie
Sometimes you just outgrow people, or maybe you are meant to be going in a different direction from your core group and you are still trying to hold on to it. It IS frustrating and maybe you do need to center yourself...block out the "noise".
It's my 4th year at PSU but I still need a semester for more credit and I've been there and done that meaning a group goes downtown and don't know how to fucking act! The having enough cash is a factor, ppl drunk and not picking up the phone or phone is dead is yet another one. There is inner peace when you realize that you are too mature for some group thing and you don't need to be there altogether. Like the fuck was I doing outside waiting to get in in some bar then lose my friend (my experience) how do 21 yr old get lost! Like I said I got more credits to go so catch my ass reading up on some shit and sipping a beer or wine on Friday nights!
Justin it's just that devil he likes confusion always and look at it a another way God was just showing you things to make you open up your eyes remember when people show you who they are believe them.
Ugh, that would have driven me crazy. Even if I waited to get in, I would be no fun the rest of the evening.
I feel you Justin. And I love you and hate that you don't have someone just for you , if it takes this much to get to now him what will it take to be with him. Oh yeah and don't cut us off. Some of us need your face and opinions in the place.
Focus on the goal remember big things are in store for you...///party later
That was so messed up for them to give you the run around like that. I hate seeing you like this, but it'll get better. You do so much good by uplifting people and making their day on here, it's going to come back to you tenfold. 🙌🏾🙌🏾 I believe in you and everything you're trying to do. We love you, Justin ❤️
Hope you are feeling better Justin. Just saw your video, catching up from the weekend. Sorry you had a shitty weekend. But just like the rain ended, your trials and frustrations will ease up and the sun will shine again. And Amen for the anxiety pills! I feel you on that one.😘
A true leo! We have so much in common!
Here in 2024. Your old videos are popping up for some reason.
It will get better I would of left two if I were you just make sure you talk to your friend in a nice way and tell him how you feel instead of brushing it to the side cause if you don't say nothing then if he try that again things can get real heated because you holding it in so let it out and express your feelings if he still being a ass dissmiss his ass that's what I do
"Uncle Tom, uncle Rukas" 😫
Y'all need to just sit down and talk about the situation
Justin, I think it would be great if you made a t-shirt (black v neck)
I hear and see you justin. Take you a Zanax and hit the hay. You got this.
This when he still had his deep memphis accent
"Take me to my leader 🚙" lol 😆 😂
did you really go to bed? imma guess no.. lol
"You a Man 👨 🗣" lol 😆
I feel the same way Justin
Not freezing LOL
relaxxxx justin
You are just outgrowing folks Justin. Truth is: with every step up you will have to leave friends behind. I have been lucky and blessed in my life, that also meant I had to learn to let go. You are clearly meant for big things: you will find that very few can keep up. Bless you beautiful: you will meet folks who are on your level and who care about your feelings.
Awww J sorry about your night. Maybe thats just a sing that its time for you to just switch your energy from having a relationship and just focus all of it on the moves you wanna make career wise.
I truly appreciate your honesty in this video. I myself feel that " reclusive" spirit at times, it's ok to shut their world off every now & then...no phone..no tv..no social just peace & your thoughts.
U in your feelings bae. I'm with you he wrong but he's having a off night so you being the bigger person j just ignore it he cares
This was a bad day/night...but let that go...never give up.
Hey Justin I know I'm late with my comment. I understand completely! How you were feeling, I love you videos and how u speak the truth about the things your passionate about. You uplift with me your videos!!! when I'm down... So I just wanna say love u #jays4ever💋
Yeah you have surpassed the ppl you associate with. Time to find a new group of ppl to hang with... Or just take the time to focus on yourself. I had to do the same thing. You are headed for greater things! Time to move forward.
Awww, sorry you had a bad night Justin! Smh.
You're just experiencing growing pains it happens as you mature....venting is good therapy...better out than in
When I have bad energy like this back to back, I distance myself from everybody until my focus is clear.
Girl gon go ! Lmaoooo
He sooo much funnier when he's PTFO
SOmetimes we need to be by ourselves to reflect. you get to the point where other people's energy is just throwing you off and pissing you off. I get it, I went through the winter not wanting to be bothered.
Oh and if it wasnt for the video I wud hav started my day watching one of ur old videos....so..thanks for the video!!
Oooo Justin I don't think I've ever seen u this pissed off. Chil don't let them brang ur pressure up
I watch this vid alot fyi... one of your best vids. CANDID
I understand how you feel that has happened to me so many times and I've actually lost friends because of it. But they wasn't real friends anyway so my life is way better now
Been. THERE. like everyone said, get some rest and then reassess things with a level head.
It's all gonna be worth it! Ur gonna look back on this vid I love you!!! Hope u doing good
Its hard to deal with people when your different levels. Sounds like they need to catch up..
sorry to hear about your day.i truly understand on what you are going through.but things will workout.god bless you.
I watch a lot of your videos... you teach me soooooooooo much about learning to be alone and being okay with that and not being pressed for people and the bullshyt that they bring I appreciate you 😘
You said the only reason you were trying to hang out because you were interested in that guy...God was sending you signs that he was not for you