It's literally like dealing with an 8yr old, my ex narc is 51, 6ft 3 inches tall and acts like he's in elementary school , the level of immaturity, and pettiness is totally sooooo ridiculous, the trance is real people!!
Let me guess you were an angel victim ! For all we know you could’ve been toxic imature petty physically abusive, emotionally abusive and all ! It just didn’t work out that’s it ! Leave it at that He 51 6’4 most likely has his finances in order I’m pretty sure she’s good right now and not on TH-cam complaining about you !
@Sniggle & Straggle Theatre and by the way loser he does not have his finances in order, has awful credit and is an alcoholic, so why don't you just take your toxic little pathetic ass to another post to talk shit without even showing your most likely ugly ass face! Boyahhhh !
I dumped the narcissist and never gave a crap what he did after. I knew who he really was and didn’t want him any more He’s the messed up one. It had nothing to do with me. His loss, my gain. I have a special gift. I can see through bull sh*t.
The narcissist discard me first but what he didn't know was I was already over him months before the discard. I was able to walk away freely it was like my getaway free ticket. If I were to see him with someone else I wouldn't give a 💩 in fact I would pray for the next person.
@Leon R Walker Jr YESSSSSS!!! ME TOO, I did the same thing. My motto is: Sometimes you have to play the fool to trick/flip a fool. This is how you avoid the EXTRA drama. When it's all said and done and the dust settles, they look back and realized they messed up, BUT IT'S TOO LATE AND OVER!!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🎉🎉🎉🎉
Yes, same here. He discarded me but I knew it was coming and was waaaay over him. I did foolishly give him a second chance but put a wall around my heart just to avoid further hurt. As predicted he cheated again, but I didn't care one bit. Let her have him. He couldn't get over the fact that I never shed a tear over him. A year later when my engagement announcement was made, my friend informed me the look on his face was priceless. What was he expecting?? For me to still be waiting for him, pining for him😂.
Because of or “DARK EMPATHY” we feel sorry for them deep deep deep down, dem na know seh we been detach, reversed it tho when I see the discard coming….let them pay for everything thing
I left my narc this week. moved without him knowing POOF. changed my kids school. straight disappeared. now I'm about to find something else to occupy my mind like you said. I AM NOT CALLING HIM AT ALL, the next girl will benefit from my actions.
I believe that they are emotionally at best 2-4 yrs of age. Stuck there forever with no therapy with the RIGHT person. That said, and with an adult body, this causes so much more damage than a child who has not been out in the world, and who is under the authority of an "adult". The only difference between a born psychopath (they are BORN not made - "broken brain" as I cope with it). That is scientific. A narc/psychopath is that at times, a narc/psychopath can feel shame and remorse. They know exactly what they are doing, even before they do it. It is premediated at all times. But like any predator, they feel shame only when called out. They are unable to FEEL empathy though they know what it means.
I just posted a ? On how to deal with a narc when there young children involved? He’s a great dad to our 3 year old . Idk how to go about this, any suggestions? Thank you
Those Narcs are like over grown sulkly teenagers kicking a ball against a wall , unfortunately they use humans as the ball , little spoty brats pissing everyone off and causing fear , misery and terror everywhere they go , different story when you call them to heel with a few home truths , they run off and find another Mammy .
Do they ever think about the vengeance of God on them for what they do?! They most definitely will reap whatever they have down with the bad seeds that they are planting! That would be my first and foremost concern if I were the narcissist.
Wow wonder what’s going to happen to my exnarc hopefully nothing bad I wish on no one I’m such a good person but what he’s done to me and my daughter he will pay one day 🥀
The moment I left my ex, he wrote an email to social services to mess up my son's custody battle. He thought i'd would get back together with him afterwards. He said, "Yeah, I did, but let's move on from this." I got him to recant his slanderous lies and blocked him on all accounts.
That is unforgivable, I reckon somebody ought to be afraid to ever approach me again after a stunt like that. They always got one thing if they don’t have anything else in this world-and that is The Audacity.
The narc was messing with A fat 300 pound prostitute that lived under me ,talk about a low hanging fruit ....it's has been 1 year and 7 months no contact ,he pops up like we good ,he lost his car ,motorcycle, and his job ,and he smells like he ain't showered in weeks ... I'm so good I will never ever give a man a come up again it took me a whole cycle to learn my lesson..the worst part of this foolishness is 15 yrs down the toilet ..Thx for making your videos, I pray for you ,...
The children just become casualties to them! As someone who is in this EXACT situation right now, pray fervently over your children and take legal action if you can.
‘The level of pettiness is extremely high’ - that has to be the understatement of the millennium - my family are like sulky tantrum throwing toddlers - they are the most pathetic people on the planet
I kicked the narcissist out of my house when he started offended me. After 2 weeks he sent a long letter to appologize. And when I decided to give him chance and told him to prove he is really srry, he told me he met another woman in the meantine. What a jerk! I will never look back.
This recently happened to me. Broke up with him next day he is living back with his kids' mom. Like wtf you haven't contacted them in 4 years. Disgusting
@@WEFamilia i was duped in the beginning believing his lies. She took him to court for child support and claimed she wouldn't let him see the kids. He showed me certain text. Later I encouraged more involvement but he would say he tried and the mother blocked him. Looking back I think the kids didn't want to deal with him and I think he could have tried harder to be their physically and not just financially.
I just dumped the narc after over 2 yrs of solid narcissistic abuse & extreme gaslighting. Im so so done. I'm already expecting I will start receiving texts about him moving on with someone else. Thank God we don't share kids 🙏 therefore we have no need to keep in contact. God is has filled ny heart with courage and tenacity. I have no desire to communicate further for any reason. It's OVER!!!!
He probably had that so called "new" supply long before you got rid of him. They always do. Such chronic liars. They need people like a parasite needs a host!
Yep...mine two weeks later when I left and moved out with my kids. He shows up and says this is my girl friend and she is going to watch our son...and then when I went to get the baby from him why the new girl friend tells me what the doctor said instead of his daddy telling me. I kindly said, ma'am, I made the baby with him, not you. A month later she called me bitter because I told her if she was going to watch my child I need her information for a background check. He didn't want to pay for daycare. Long story short, she called me a year later and apologized as he ended up beating her up and he would get mad at her if she was not able to watch our. She seriously said, I see why you only kept it about the kids and see why you told me upfront to call you when he has his rages. I am not going to lie,the first two weeks I felt like I was a drug addict, I had all sorts of widthrals. TRIANGULATION is real.
Yup mine tryna use me and put me into that triangle I was main supply he think he finna use me to make his new baby momma jealous I’m so cool it’s crazy how they just wanna play w the person life w ease like life ain’t short and hard already 🥲😣 glad you got away!🙏🏾❤️
This is true. My ex showed up 6 months after I left him and blocked him after I caught him cheating. Because I didn’t cry and beg him back, he left and started telling everyone that I abandoned him. This to justify his new girlfriend which he had kept hidden from his adult children and family. He was upset that they weren’t accepting her after he started bringing her around, so of course he’s blaming me since I was close to all of them. He started devaluing his children and it was heartbreaking to see their pain. I have since gone no contact with all of them to get my peace back.
My ex did this and I wouldn’t entertain him. He made himself visible to my friends with his new supply and I would not give a reaction. Now he wants to apologize and come back. 🤷🏾♀️
After he devalued me and discarded me after several cycles, I decided to let it go completely and discard him because I can't keep putting it up with it. He sent me messages of him at the movies with another female, told me how much he's in love with his "new babe", claims she bought him a new watch, called me a bum 😂 everything! But I haven't responded and never will because I know he's doing it to get a reaction out of me. He still calls me every day, texts me disrespectful messages. The only reason why I haven't completely blocked him is because I need these messages as a reference for when Im lonely or want to reach out. It's a reminder to stay away. I refuse to give my mind body and spirit to someone who has no respect for me. Thank you for this confirmation and for using this platform to educate us on this topic 🙏🏾
Block him. He’s feeding off of you. Find a support group on Facebook. Leaving a way in for him weakens you and your defense and makes it easier to go back. Please protect yourself. He’s stabbing you everyday because you allow it. GIRL BLOCK HIM. God will send support. It’s hard for the first 3 months but that’s a time for you to rebuild and heal yourself. I pray you block him immediately
I've got an ex who acts exactly this way 100% it's amazing these people think they're somehow going to attract you back with the worst behavior in the world it really is insanity. Stay strong you'll be happier
My ex who I’m still married to filed for divorce but won’t serve me or complete the process. He’s in a whole other relationship with a kid. I can’t file myself because he already has a case open. It’s been almost 2 years since he filed and he has yet to have me served. If petty was a person it would be him.
Can't you file for an uncontested divorce? With all of the proof? A lawyer can probably help you get it done. You aren't the 1st person to have gone through this same situation - TRUST! 💯 God Bless and good Luck ✝️🙏🏼
My ex Narc would play his poor lovely sister galore. When I told my ex we were just not compatible and breaking up, he must of texted her and she texted me asking me “Is my brother ok?” I finally had to share with her some of the issues her brother truly has. She doesn’t know because she lives far away and he pretends he’s a great man to her. No wonder she says that her brother is the finest man she’s ever known. NOT! I never told her but he used her to do all the research and paperwork on his divorce. Had her running like a chicken without a head but he was living it up with me and chilling and watching tv and going out etc. all having her believing he can’t do it or had time. Wow! I know it was a delicate situation to tell her that her brother needs help because he suffers from a lot of mental and emotional issues but I had to do it. I told her the truth that I cannot stay with him because he’s all over the place and he’s passive aggressive. I don’t need any emotional abuse from no one. Lastly I told her that as a family, she and her siblings and his adult sons should really intervene and push him to get some very much needed help. I told her all the petty things he says and does and how he is emotionally stumped. Massive separation anxiety and co-dependency. He cannot talk to him about any issues in the relationship without him getting overly sensitive, frustrated and angry. There is a mental gymnastics thinking to him. A lot of cognizant dissidence going on. Plus that he lies about so much and even for things he doesn’t even need to lie about. I told her all the petty things he’s told me when he gets mad or I needed space. She couldn’t believe her ears. He even told me not to contact them about anything. She was just floored. He’s been fooling almost anyone he can. Idk how he could take money from all of them and then be spending it on himself and taking me out and tot trips. When I found that out I stopped the trips but he didn’t care and kept spending money. Please anyone with this type of person, leave and don’t look back. This is about them and not you.
You really have the most on point content I’ve seen so far when describing in detail what they do. I finally discarded him after 16 years and what you’re describing about the dating is exactly what he did. He was bragging about all the new women he had (though he did slip and admit that they didn’t last long, like weeks at best because of how he acts).
Narcissists have people ready before the break up. In their mind it’s ok to talk and have people ready because they aren’t hooking up with them so it’s not cheating, so when the split happens they have the person ready to come over the next day
After 30 yrs worth of devalue, leaving , then coming back I just knew this no longer served me for the longest time & I was holding on to sand... I decided to use my brain & say " I never asked u for anything , & what I asked for you refuse to give me , can you just do me this favor & lose my number , don't call me anymore , & if you see me in the street pass me straight " that's what I asked & I knew bcuz if his competitive nature he would participate ... it's been 2 yrs .. I've blocked them on all avenues of social media... I post mems anyway no life events ... so I say this to say you can cut the ties if you want to ... I've had so much peace in my life knowing he's not coming back
I saw it with my own eyes when he took his mask .I can't believe it .I cried I didn't know im living and sleeping to a very disturb person and no brain .but as days goes by I accepted and move on with my lifev.i have still PTSD because of 37 years Ike living in a fog .abuse and controlled .but that condition of my mind became clearer and tried to heal my traumatic experience
Wowww! This just happened to me. He took his pettiness to a whole other level! He used his new supply to not only hurt me but also our daughter. To this day he has not apologized.
My ex keeps trying to introduce our 5 yr old who is struggling with the split to a women he was cheating on me with that lives in a whole other country. He hasn't visited this women 10 times yet and we have been broken up less than a yr. I knew it was to hurt me but it is nice to hear you confirm it. I don't talk to him at all unless it has to do with the baby so involving her is the only way he can try to hurt me with his "relationship " and I use that word loosely because he was already cheating on this women before I moved out. He doesn't realize I am never going to be jealous of them being his next victim. That is like being jealous of someone you know is about to be tortured
I have to agree! The new person has no idea what they're in for or how they're going to suffer. They're believing the lies the narc tells them (& everybody else) about us & their smear campaign. I do have some compassion for them because soon enough, they'll experience the living hell we went through. Same as the ones before us suffered and same as the ones after them will suffer. It's a never-ending cycle.
@tickety-boo to you oh I feel bad for her but I also know that there is no point in me getting involved. He was going on boys trips to s%x tourist destinations so I am secretly hoping that this womens feelings aren't in it and she just stacks the money he is sending her. I can't be mad at any of them because he is very persuasive and a very good liar. At least until you see him for what he is. At the end of the day them money he has to shower on them only last until he gets you then he is "broke" and tries to use up all your money for control and to free up more of his so he can cheat more. It is truly sad people are living their lives like this
Exactly. I actually pray for the new girlfriend as she will be devalued like me. Heard she’s already posting on social media for him to just be single if he wants to. He’s been messing with his baby mamas the whole time since they got together.
I’m in the EXACT same situation. We broke up 3 months ago and I would say within 2 months, he had our recently turned 5 year old son, around a work colleague he cheated on me with, her 3 kids & has already taken him to her house. All whilst telling our son to keep this a secret. Our son has been struggling with the split IMMENSELY at home and in school, would clearly be confused about who this woman is, as he is only ever around my friends who are all women, or female family members…so his narcissistic Dad knows exactly what he’s doing. Can’t say I’ve worked through the anger yet, but at least it’s being done silently and nowhere near this narcissist’s inflated sense of self/ego. He gets NOTHING from me. Ever again in his waking life. Not even to hear how painful this has been.
This is the story of my life being married to a narcissist Quiet and sneaky as hell Pretend like he's so sweet in my face but when I walked away he catch temper tandems just like his children does Baby everything in this message is what I have experienced from my husband 💜 Thank you Leon 💖
What happens when the victim disappears? Absolute No Contact: No calls, no texts, no checking their social media, no interaction whatsoever... establishing big walls to avoid any contact. Once I found out that he was a narcissist, I was the one who filed for a divorce and went away. I know that I will see his "propaganda" if I go and check his social media, so I blocked, unfriended, etc. I also told my family and close ones to avoid being "flying monkeys" and avoid bringing messages. I feel that this was Reverse Discard when he pushed me to the verge of tolerance, so I decided that enough was enough. I still wonder if he was expecting me to go through with the divorce hahaha.... as he didn't even engage through the Court and disregarded the Court orders. I was granted the divorce in the end... So, my question is: what happens when someone takes this position? Was he expecting me to chase him?
Shit, this helps a lot. I went “home” this weekend for a family birthday and the knob was totally consumed with juggling my presence with his new piece. I was so hurt watching this disrespect with our kids witnessing his games. I left early. I couldn’t handle his bs cruelty. Thank you for helping me understand wth just happened.
Thank you, Leon for all your videos. I was with that monster for 7 1/2 years. It was pure hell I’m no saint. I did my deeds to him to. I’ve been out three years and no contact , lots of stalking, he got engaged less than three months after the discard or I walked away whatever doesn’t matter then he got married less than a year into the marriage they split. I’ve grown so much mentally and spiritually. Till this day, he still stalking me he took a crap on my car, egged my house and my neighbors house. Now we have cameras everywhere and I made a police report. People should always keep themselves safe from these type of people. I was wondering if you can do a video on how they come back years after no contact and you know who they are, they harass you and stalk you. I have everything on record and even in the past where he admitted to the judge he wanted to kill me. Stay safe everybody Leon, keep up the good work with your videos.❤such embarrassment 💯
Took a crap on your car!? Wtffff I'm telling you these are pure demons, ain't nothing human about them, they are just empty shells that the devil uses to abuse good hearted people! Especially when trying to get closer to God, they will attack even more!
He discarded me first, because he knew after I found out he cheated, I was done, because I had told him in the beginning, that cheating was a deal breaker for me.. In the process of him explaining himself he discarded me, after he asked me if I could ever trust him again, and could I forgive him. I told him, No! That's when he discarded me. What he didn't know was, I had no plans of ever taking him back, or dealing with him again. He thought I was going to chase him, after he hurt me. The devil is a lie!!! Never again!!!
I left Radio silence Deleted the number I never looked back He never reached out . I’m glad his pride and ego are higher than the Empire State Building. I’m glad it’s behind me like my ponytail
Yup my x narc .. 50 years old lieutenant. 6’3 240 lb child. Police officer volunteered at church. Total monster behind closed doors. He used me to get bk at his ex. Now I’m 1 year out and getting healthy.
Great point! This is exactly the reason why I do all activities like birthdays, school ceremonies, etc separate from the Narc. My kids have 2 bday parties, vacations, etc. 1 with mom, and the other with dad and whoever! I know what he is capable of and I don’t put myself, or my kids in a position to witness the pettiness! He alienated me from his family by making me out to be something I’m not, and I’m glad he did because I don’t have to deal with them either! My Ex’s Mom and Sister are the reason he’s the “MAN-Child” he is today!
I’m at this point with my Ex and his family as well. Separate everything, court order in place, his family completely cut off, I canceled all of my socials, and changed my number.
@@Modeltypekat That’s what we have to do sometimes! It has gotten worse for me since this post. He was trying to love bomb me a few months ago which I figure was just to get him out of the child support arrears he owes, and NOW 2 mos later he has me kids spending a night at some woman’s house I don’t even know! Sent me pics of playing baseball with my son! 😡😤 all while just begging me to take him back 8 weeks ago! I’m Furious!
He brought the new supply to my house to give me my Mother's Day present. Wish I could have warned her, cause I immediately liked her and knew what he was about to put her through.
Sadly, my ex has been was able to use our 22 year old and affect him in ways that changed our relationship & hinder him to this day (🙏🏽) but it showed me he didn’t have a problem being a deadbeat until I actually called him one…so I didn’t even bother him concerning our 13-year-old twins (I kicked him out when they were 3 months old) & they are both secure & thriving AND they see straight through him!!🤣🙌🏾
Yep,new supply,her kids, pregnancy and everything he said he was going to do with me,no regard for our child. Absolutely no care about the mind games and family rejection on our child,nevermind me. Deliberate sick revenge,nothing to do with relationship.
Thank you for this !! Petty ASF !! I discarded the narc he immediately went back to the recycled supply that he kept along the entire 3 years ! She's excited to have him "fully" so she thinks she's been strung along for 4 years ! They out like they are living their best life 😑
I’m experiencing this right now. The new supply keep posting all these pics on social media. She so happy to be with him. I wonder when he show his real self. Look as though he has changed. Going out and showing up for you. Smiling and holding her. I’m just shock
This is true. About 3 weeks after broke up with my ex narcissist he brought a new woman to my church. Thank God I didn't go that day. Then he started stalking me so much that I had to go to the police 🚨 I told him that poor woman has no idea what she's gotten herself into !! That hurt him cos I giggled when I said it.
I finally left after our children were adults. He started dating a woman that was so below me before I was gone. He hurt me all out married life but he broke me when he replaced me with a low value woman.I will never allow a man to break me again. 💔
We choose a lesser women every time to feel dominant and in control. It’s a mental weakness. You were too good and too strong for him. He’ll NEVER admit that!!!
Yes! Once the divorce was finalized my ex husband started showing up to the weekend exchanges for the kids with his new girlfriend. The new girlfriend also just had a baby a few months ago for him as well. I never understand why she comes to the exchanges but he always have the biggest grin on his face when I see her.
I experienced that at a young age my first demonic marriage But OUR FATHER IN HEAVEN delivered me from him and he die from cancer ♋️ 10 years ago and he try to play the same games before he die sad but true but I was awakened to these demons at an early age
This is so sad to hurt the children because of a sick game that plays on the other parents’minds especially single mothers that are trying to keep their children mentally healthy as well😢
Yh they move so quick … they don’t even think about their actions or what they doing … they had the person a long time ago they were cheating and lieing the hole time
He stated dating my friend, he said he will give her all the love and attention I wanted, then he posting her pics on social media, he said he is going to hurt me by letting me watch him with her. He wanted me to get back with him and he would discard her, but I refused and im hurt and I know in time I will lose my attachment and I will be ok
Can you make a video on how a narcissist will message you from ghost accounts on social media & why. Like they'll message you as if it's not them. What is the point of that??
I just couldn't believe that he would PROVE ME RIGHT without hesitation! WHO DOES THAT??? The only thing it left me with was confusion. It didn't even occur to me to be jealous or upset, because I don't do childish games. 🙄🙄🙄
All hail Gods Queen is here, To say I appreciate you. And God is SO PLEASED. You are an INSPIRATION to the world which we are fighting this spiritual battle. Thank you that you had the strength to change and continue to be changed. God has used you in a MIGHTY Way and now your helping overs. I commend You Leon. Well said…. BLESSINGS from Gods QUEEN!
Yep.. exactly. I left my narc alone for 3 months. He constantly called me from no caller id he did this on Valentine’s. I reached out to say please stop calling. He could not wait to tell me he had a woman and he was so happy an about they date. At first I didn’t react but then I was going off I was so hurt . Yes I was thinking he had her the whole time.. I was fine being broken up until he did that . Now I have just been hurt
If that's all they do is start dating. Miss me with that. He's been dating other people since we met. It's old now! Dating won't break my heart. 1 yr. No contact
With empaths all views has to be ,"seen and told", so friends pointing out to you is needed. Because after the empaths leave them, empaths has to know, whats going on at the moment their engage with narcs to leave.
This Narc did exactly as what you described in this video Leon. Not only he did get immediately with a woman, but the woman he got is one of his baby momma’s (which his daughter used to live with me and the Narc), OK. So not only he left to live with his daughter but he moved in with her mother, which she is still married to another man and while the Narc is still married to me and the divorce still not out …. Now, see that is 1000% that Narcissistic people have nothing in their heads and yes, he wants to bring my two kids around that Toxic scene “new diabolical relationship of his” and which I know my kids are too small to understand what is their Father doing, but I know they will put it together because kids are smart and they will react whenever they notice that they are being hurt with what they are seeing. Peace y’all and if you left the narcissist’s life, do yourself a favor and block him/her and everyone related to the narcissist and move on with your life and grow🪴
I left the narc 5 moths ago. 2 months after I discarded him he got into another relationship and got engaged one month after that. We were engaged when I left. How does one leave one engagement to another in less than 5 months. He says he loves her already and very happy. This was the third time I had to leave him. The first two times he got the flying monkeys involved and hoover until I came back. The third time I left was the final straw I told him I would never be back. He wasted no time in finding a new supply and doing things for the new supply that he never did for me. Good riidance
So Leon, what got you into Recovery? What Caused you to Seek Out, Help.........it's a "Very Courageous Step n Journey. I Totally Applaud You........GOOD JOB !!!!!♡
Thanks, brother, 💯 agreed . Inexperienced exactly what you described, now I know the reason why he acted the way he did. What a son of a b****. Thanks again for educating us, woman. A lot of us do appreciate you, God bless you 🙏 ❤️
Thank you. I know it's not easy to be on the side of " this is who I am" and put out these videos. I sometimes hear the nervousness in your voice, I think. But I just want to say that I am truly grateful for your Bravery and in someone way, somehow, having the ability to reach deep down within and grasp the selflessness it takes to do any of this. (I hear you talk about therapy) There's not many ppl that I know of that can or very much know and chose to entertain that they even have a problem. That's a huge part of the process of changing who we are when we walk this earth. So as not to keep the generational cycles of the same pain going into generations to come. Having the inner knowing to help catapult you to a higher, better version of your present self is gold. Then to actually go make the change happen is amazing! Even if you don't think so. I appreciate what you are doing and you seem very genuine and ready to help. Thank you. To me what you are doing is worth more to alot of people than gold. #Gratitude
Why can’t a narcissist leave his side piece? I found out that he keeps her and I finally had the courage to remove myself completely after 3 years of going back and forth … he kept going to that woman after I would leave over and over .. she was ok being with him while I was gone and through my pregnancy. Hurt so bad. But now I had enough. I found out and he acts like nothing 😭😭😭
The narc I had posted naked pictures of me in my apartment complex for my bday! Bc I left him alone & I was good without him‼️ He was real Ignorant then began to stalk me after this he slandered me but only to his family bc my friends couldn’t stand him & wouldn’t listen anyways
This channel has helped me so much. The way you put it clicks with how I think and I can actually grasp wtf or how my ex-wife thinks. You’re the most honest courageous man on TH-cam. Thank you!! I’m going to get your book!!
GOD BLESS YOU LEON. I HAVE BEEN THROUGH HELL AND BACK WITH MY BF. HE HAS IT IN HIS MIND THAT I AM SLEEPING WITH MY OWN BROTHER. I LOOKED AT HIM I ASKED HIM ARE YOU SLEEPING WITH SOMEONE IN YOUR FAMILY. LEON I BELIEVE HE'S SLEEPING WITH A FAMILY MEMBER. BUT WANT TO TURN THE TABLES ON ME. I AM SO GLAD TO BE FREE OF HIM.
Hi Leon, I really appreciate your content. A lot of what you say confirms a lot of what I suspected. It irritates the hell out of me when men try harder to hurt the woman or make a woman feel bad, but don't give that same energy to do the "Right" thing. I want to be done with this relationship thing. But a part of me wants to try one more time!! It just appears to me that there are too many Leon's out there. Dated a couple and was married to last one. It''s soooooo Exhausting!!
Mr. Walker, I've been listening to your content for awhile now. Your delivery is quite Direct, Powerful, Strong. The information is a lot to take at times. It's a lot, but necessary for me to get, as a survivor of this cruel behavior. The trauma and damage narcs do to ppl is just horrible. The time you take to give this much needed info, much respect!! I thank you!!🙏🏼🎯✌🏼💯
Thank you Leon, you have described it exactly as it happened when I left him I didn't file for divorce as I was looking after my sister who was terminally ill. He sent the divorce papers a week after my sisters funeral and got married even before our divorce was finalised. Everyone were commenting on how he was so in love with her and besotted with her. The children were devastated as he didn't tell them about the divorce or remarrying again and like you said thought they would get over it. Being a narc it was all about him. I guess I caused a big ego injury and he wanted to get me back but he played himself as he married the first person that showed interest in him and I suspect she is narc too.
I've found this to be true, more than once. All the more they only worth running from! @Leon, I don't know how you do this, warn us while calling your own name as the narc.... you must really be healed and much improved in your outlook on life. God bless you, and thank you, from the bottom of my heart 💕💕💕💕
5 years ago enough already that is dangerous i always say don't play with people emotions i don't i keep it 100 all the way around dont expect anything from me but what i tell u because that's all im offering
You popped up in my feed because of my searches and recent watch list. You have no idea how much you're helping me. I subscribed and THANK YOU so much!!! ❤
My soon to be ex narc husband panicked really bad when I left. It’s been over a year that we have separated I don’t see him, don’t hear from him, he don’t even reach out to our child. He don’t mess with us at all. It’s like he disappeared.
It's literally like dealing with an 8yr old, my ex narc is 51, 6ft 3 inches tall and acts like he's in elementary school , the level of immaturity, and pettiness is totally sooooo ridiculous, the trance is real people!!
Let me guess you were an angel victim ! For all we know you could’ve been toxic imature petty physically abusive, emotionally abusive and all ! It just didn’t work out that’s it ! Leave it at that
He 51 6’4 most likely has his finances in order I’m pretty sure she’s good right now and not on TH-cam complaining about you !
@@snigglestraggletheatre1749 hahahaha oh you must be a narcissist loser!! 🤣😂🤣😂
@@snigglestraggletheatre1749 You sound like a FOOL
@Sniggle & Straggle Theatre and by the way loser he does not have his finances in order, has awful credit and is an alcoholic, so why don't you just take your toxic little pathetic ass to another post to talk shit without even showing your most likely ugly ass face! Boyahhhh !
He's 67 and I'm 46 he is trying everything because I left after 5 years. He is attacking my new relationship.
I dumped the narcissist and never gave a crap what he did after. I knew who he really was and didn’t want him any more He’s the messed up one. It had nothing to do with me. His loss, my gain. I have a special gift. I can see through bull sh*t.
Intuitive asf
Do not sorrow, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.” (Nehemiah 8:10)
❤️🙏🏾💯🙌🏾🙌🏾. Yes!!!
Amen He is the only strength you need to defeat and be delivered from the hands of evil!! Amen!!
Amen 🙏🏿
Amen Queen 💯❤️💯❤️
Amen Jesus is the answer I'm depending on the Lord ❤
The narcissist discard me first but what he didn't know was I was already over him months before the discard. I was able to walk away freely it was like my getaway free ticket. If I were to see him with someone else I wouldn't give a 💩 in fact I would pray for the next person.
@Leon R Walker Jr YESSSSSS!!! ME TOO, I did the same thing. My motto is: Sometimes you have to play the fool to trick/flip a fool. This is how you avoid the EXTRA drama. When it's all said and done and the dust settles, they look back and realized they messed up, BUT IT'S TOO LATE AND OVER!!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🎉🎉🎉🎉
Yes, same here. He discarded me but I knew it was coming and was waaaay over him. I did foolishly give him a second chance but put a wall around my heart just to avoid further hurt. As predicted he cheated again, but I didn't care one bit. Let her have him. He couldn't get over the fact that I never shed a tear over him. A year later when my engagement announcement was made, my friend informed me the look on his face was priceless. What was he expecting?? For me to still be waiting for him, pining for him😂.
Because of or “DARK EMPATHY” we feel sorry for them deep deep deep down, dem na know seh we been detach, reversed it tho when I see the discard coming….let them pay for everything thing
They will come back of you.dont chase
You did it right
I stopped playing his games and he didn't want to play anymore bcuz he saw Petty Patti was waaaay worse than Petty Paul 🤣🤣🤣
You got that right.
Yessssssssss!!! Cause I’ll take it there !!
AINT NO FUN WHEN DA RABBIT GOT THE GUN
No fun at all!!!
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Oh! Love that..😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
I left my narc this week. moved without him knowing POOF. changed my kids school. straight disappeared. now I'm about to find something else to occupy my mind like you said. I AM NOT CALLING HIM AT ALL, the next girl will benefit from my actions.
Congratulations on the start of your new life
Congratulations on knowing your worth and protecting your babies. May God bless you :-)
💯💯💯💯💯 and stay strong because he’s coming around for sure!!!
I believe that they are emotionally at best 2-4 yrs of age. Stuck there forever with no therapy with the RIGHT person. That said, and with an adult body, this causes so much more damage than a child who has not been out in the world, and who is under the authority of an "adult". The only difference between a born psychopath (they are BORN not made - "broken brain" as I cope with it). That is scientific. A narc/psychopath is that at times, a narc/psychopath can feel shame and remorse. They know exactly what they are doing, even before they do it. It is premediated at all times. But like any predator, they feel shame only when called out. They are unable to FEEL empathy though they know what it means.
I just posted a ? On how to deal with a narc when there young children involved? He’s a great dad to our 3 year old . Idk how to go about this, any suggestions? Thank you
The child becomes a prop for the public perception of how great they are. I feel sorry for the child.😢
I can agree with you on that
Those Narcs are like over grown sulkly teenagers kicking a ball against a wall , unfortunately they use humans as the ball , little spoty brats pissing everyone off and causing fear , misery and terror everywhere they go , different story when you call them to heel with a few home truths , they run off and find another Mammy .
Do they ever think about the vengeance of God on them for what they do?! They most definitely will reap whatever they have down with the bad seeds that they are planting! That would be my first and foremost concern if I were the narcissist.
The thief’s(Narcissist's)purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My (God's)purpose is to give them (you & i)a rich and satisfying life. John 10:10
Yup, they do get what's coming... mine got cancer. Colon....had to go around with a bag!
YESSSS, I KEEP SAYING GOD WILL REPAY!!!!!!
Exactly my thoughts ❗
Wow wonder what’s going to happen to my exnarc hopefully nothing bad I wish on no one I’m such a good person but what he’s done to me and my daughter he will pay one day 🥀
What’s jacked up is that they’re hurting their ex and the new person who has no idea what this dork is doing. 😡
The moment I left my ex, he wrote an email to social services to mess up my son's custody battle. He thought i'd would get back together with him afterwards.
He said, "Yeah, I did, but let's move on from this."
I got him to recant his slanderous lies and blocked him on all accounts.
That is unforgivable, I reckon somebody ought to be afraid to ever approach me again after a stunt like that. They always got one thing if they don’t have anything else in this world-and that is The Audacity.
The narc was messing with A fat 300 pound prostitute that lived under me ,talk about a low hanging fruit ....it's has been 1 year and 7 months no contact ,he pops up like we good ,he lost his car ,motorcycle, and his job ,and he smells like he ain't showered in weeks ... I'm so good I will never ever give a man a come up again it took me a whole cycle to learn my lesson..the worst part of this foolishness is 15 yrs down the toilet ..Thx for making your videos, I pray for you ,...
The children just become casualties to them! As someone who is in this EXACT situation right now, pray fervently over your children and take legal action if you can.
Exactly!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Facts!
‘The level of pettiness is extremely high’ - that has to be the understatement of the millennium - my family are like sulky tantrum throwing toddlers - they are the most pathetic people on the planet
I kicked the narcissist out of my house when he started offended me. After 2 weeks he sent a long letter to appologize. And when I decided to give him chance and told him to prove he is really srry, he told me he met another woman in the meantine. What a jerk! I will never look back.
never give then a chance they foul
Why would you want an apology when you know it’s not true, protect yourself your mind your heart…
THANKS LEON FOR PUTTING ME UP ON GAME!! THE WAY THAT THESE APES MOVES....💯👊
You’re welcome. Anytime 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️💯🙏🏾
APES! LOL 🤣😂🤣
@@jrlatina right 😂😂😬😬😬
@Leon R Walker Jr not you darling! You are doing great things! Don't know you personally but I'm proud of you!! No more ape days for you! 🤣😂
@QUEENLEANDRA👑 that is exactly what they are 🦧🦧🦧🦧🦧🦧
This recently happened to me. Broke up with him next day he is living back with his kids' mom. Like wtf you haven't contacted them in 4 years. Disgusting
Just curious…how did You process being with a Man that had dropped His kids and previous responsibilities?
@@WEFamilia i was duped in the beginning believing his lies. She took him to court for child support and claimed she wouldn't let him see the kids. He showed me certain text. Later I encouraged more involvement but he would say he tried and the mother blocked him. Looking back I think the kids didn't want to deal with him and I think he could have tried harder to be their physically and not just financially.
Amen! I dealt with one for 14 yrs! Horrible people, especially when they refuse to recognize their problem.
The vindictive nature is what keeps us stuck in relationship but when you leave the vengeance is off the chart!
I just dumped the narc after over 2 yrs of solid narcissistic abuse & extreme gaslighting. Im so so done. I'm already expecting I will start receiving texts about him moving on with someone else. Thank God we don't share kids 🙏 therefore we have no need to keep in contact. God is has filled ny heart with courage and tenacity. I have no desire to communicate further for any reason. It's OVER!!!!
And you’ll be just fine-even better 🙌🏾🙌🏾
He probably had that so called "new" supply long before you got rid of him. They always do. Such chronic liars. They need people like a parasite needs a host!
@@nji7772 all of that is trueb
Yep...mine two weeks later when I left and moved out with my kids. He shows up and says this is my girl friend and she is going to watch our son...and then when I went to get the baby from him why the new girl friend tells me what the doctor said instead of his daddy telling me. I kindly said, ma'am, I made the baby with him, not you. A month later she called me bitter because I told her if she was going to watch my child I need her information for a background check. He didn't want to pay for daycare. Long story short, she called me a year later and apologized as he ended up beating her up and he would get mad at her if she was not able to watch our. She seriously said, I see why you only kept it about the kids and see why you told me upfront to call you when he has his rages. I am not going to lie,the first two weeks I felt like I was a drug addict, I had all sorts of widthrals. TRIANGULATION is real.
Yup mine tryna use me and put me into that triangle I was main supply he think he finna use me to make his new baby momma jealous I’m so cool it’s crazy how they just wanna play w the person life w ease like life ain’t short and hard already 🥲😣 glad you got away!🙏🏾❤️
Delusional , ego, audacity
Deranged is the word.
This is true. My ex showed up 6 months after I left him and blocked him after I caught him cheating. Because I didn’t cry and beg him back, he left and started telling everyone that I abandoned him. This to justify his new girlfriend which he had kept hidden from his adult children and family. He was upset that they weren’t accepting her after he started bringing her around, so of course he’s blaming me since I was close to all of them. He started devaluing his children and it was heartbreaking to see their pain. I have since gone no contact with all of them to get my peace back.
My ex did this and I wouldn’t entertain him. He made himself visible to my friends with his new supply and I would not give a reaction. Now he wants to apologize and come back. 🤷🏾♀️
Don’t let his dumbass come back he will only do it again...they NEVER change.
No reaction is the Best reaction 👍🏾
After he devalued me and discarded me after several cycles, I decided to let it go completely and discard him because I can't keep putting it up with it. He sent me messages of him at the movies with another female, told me how much he's in love with his "new babe", claims she bought him a new watch, called me a bum 😂 everything! But I haven't responded and never will because I know he's doing it to get a reaction out of me. He still calls me every day, texts me disrespectful messages. The only reason why I haven't completely blocked him is because I need these messages as a reference for when Im lonely or want to reach out. It's a reminder to stay away. I refuse to give my mind body and spirit to someone who has no respect for me. Thank you for this confirmation and for using this platform to educate us on this topic 🙏🏾
Block him. He’s feeding off of you. Find a support group on Facebook. Leaving a way in for him weakens you and your defense and makes it easier to go back. Please protect yourself. He’s stabbing you everyday because you allow it. GIRL BLOCK HIM. God will send support. It’s hard for the first 3 months but that’s a time for you to rebuild and heal yourself. I pray you block him immediately
Lol he's insane. He's clearly tryna make you jealous
I've got an ex who acts exactly this way 100% it's amazing these people think they're somehow going to attract you back with the worst behavior in the world it really is insanity. Stay strong you'll be happier
My ex who I’m still married to filed for divorce but won’t serve me or complete the process. He’s in a whole other relationship with a kid. I can’t file myself because he already has a case open. It’s been almost 2 years since he filed and he has yet to have me served. If petty was a person it would be him.
Have you try getting a lawyer
Can't you file for an uncontested divorce? With all of the proof? A lawyer can probably help you get it done. You aren't the 1st person to have gone through this same situation - TRUST! 💯
God Bless and good Luck ✝️🙏🏼
My ex Narc would play his poor lovely sister galore. When I told my ex we were just not compatible and breaking up, he must of texted her and she texted me asking me “Is my brother ok?” I finally had to share with her some of the issues her brother truly has. She doesn’t know because she lives far away and he pretends he’s a great man to her. No wonder she says that her brother is the finest man she’s ever known. NOT! I never told her but he used her to do all the research and paperwork on his divorce. Had her running like a chicken without a head but he was living it up with me and chilling and watching tv and going out etc. all having her believing he can’t do it or had time. Wow! I know it was a delicate situation to tell her that her brother needs help because he suffers from a lot of mental and emotional issues but I had to do it. I told her the truth that I cannot stay with him because he’s all over the place and he’s passive aggressive. I don’t need any emotional abuse from no one. Lastly I told her that as a family, she and her siblings and his adult sons should really intervene and push him to get some very much needed help. I told her all the petty things he says and does and how he is emotionally stumped. Massive separation anxiety and co-dependency. He cannot talk to him about any issues in the relationship without him getting overly sensitive, frustrated and angry. There is a mental gymnastics thinking to him. A lot of cognizant dissidence going on. Plus that he lies about so much and even for things he doesn’t even need to lie about. I told her all the petty things he’s told me when he gets mad or I needed space. She couldn’t believe her ears. He even told me not to contact them about anything. She was just floored. He’s been fooling almost anyone he can. Idk how he could take money from all of them and then be spending it on himself and taking me out and tot trips. When I found that out I stopped the trips but he didn’t care and kept spending money. Please anyone with this type of person, leave and don’t look back. This is about them and not you.
You really have the most on point content I’ve seen so far when describing in detail what they do. I finally discarded him after 16 years and what you’re describing about the dating is exactly what he did. He was bragging about all the new women he had (though he did slip and admit that they didn’t last long, like weeks at best because of how he acts).
Thank you. I appreciate that. Yep, he’s classic on what we do and everything else, sadly
AGREED❗ 💥💯
Narcissists have people ready before the break up. In their mind it’s ok to talk and have people ready because they aren’t hooking up with them so it’s not cheating, so when the split happens they have the person ready to come over the next day
After 30 yrs worth of devalue, leaving , then coming back I just knew this no longer served me for the longest time & I was holding on to sand... I decided to use my brain & say " I never asked u for anything , & what I asked for you refuse to give me , can you just do me this favor & lose my number , don't call me anymore , & if you see me in the street pass me straight " that's what I asked & I knew bcuz if his competitive nature he would participate ... it's been 2 yrs .. I've blocked them on all avenues of social media... I post mems anyway no life events ... so I say this to say you can cut the ties if you want to ... I've had so much peace in my life knowing he's not coming back
This is insane...and I mean that in the most appreciative way. The level of transparency you are providing is invaluable. Thank you as always 💖🙏🏾
Thank you. I appreciate that. It was very hard at first but not hard now. This is therapy for me actually. I enjoy helping people 🙏🏾❤️💯🙌🏾
@@leonrwalkerjr it is therapy for us too. It really is.
@@leonrwalkerjr Yes thank you for this info sir
You are saving lives
THANK YOU AGAIN!!!! I am getting better.
I saw it with my own eyes when he took his mask .I can't believe it .I cried I didn't know im living and sleeping to a very disturb person and no brain .but as days goes by I accepted and move on with my lifev.i have still PTSD because of 37 years Ike living in a fog .abuse and controlled .but that condition of my mind became clearer and tried to heal my traumatic experience
Wowww! This just happened to me. He took his pettiness to a whole other level! He used his new supply to not only hurt me but also our daughter. To this day he has not apologized.
My ex keeps trying to introduce our 5 yr old who is struggling with the split to a women he was cheating on me with that lives in a whole other country. He hasn't visited this women 10 times yet and we have been broken up less than a yr. I knew it was to hurt me but it is nice to hear you confirm it.
I don't talk to him at all unless it has to do with the baby so involving her is the only way he can try to hurt me with his "relationship " and I use that word loosely because he was already cheating on this women before I moved out.
He doesn't realize I am never going to be jealous of them being his next victim. That is like being jealous of someone you know is about to be tortured
I have to agree! The new person has no idea what they're in for or how they're going to suffer. They're believing the lies the narc tells them (& everybody else) about us & their smear campaign. I do have some compassion for them because soon enough, they'll experience the living hell we went through. Same as the ones before us suffered and same as the ones after them will suffer. It's a never-ending cycle.
@tickety-boo to you oh I feel bad for her but I also know that there is no point in me getting involved. He was going on boys trips to s%x tourist destinations so I am secretly hoping that this womens feelings aren't in it and she just stacks the money he is sending her. I can't be mad at any of them because he is very persuasive and a very good liar. At least until you see him for what he is. At the end of the day them money he has to shower on them only last until he gets you then he is "broke" and tries to use up all your money for control and to free up more of his so he can cheat more. It is truly sad people are living their lives like this
Exactly. I actually pray for the new girlfriend as she will be devalued like me. Heard she’s already posting on social media for him to just be single if he wants to. He’s been messing with his baby mamas the whole time since they got together.
I’m in the EXACT same situation.
We broke up 3 months ago and I would say within 2 months, he had our recently turned 5 year old son, around a work colleague he cheated on me with, her 3 kids & has already taken him to her house. All whilst telling our son to keep this a secret. Our son has been struggling with the split IMMENSELY at home and in school, would clearly be confused about who this woman is, as he is only ever around my friends who are all women, or female family members…so his narcissistic Dad knows exactly what he’s doing.
Can’t say I’ve worked through the anger yet, but at least it’s being done silently and nowhere near this narcissist’s inflated sense of self/ego. He gets NOTHING from me. Ever again in his waking life. Not even to hear how painful this has been.
This is the story of my life being married to a narcissist Quiet and sneaky as hell Pretend like he's so sweet in my face but when I walked away he catch temper tandems just like his children does Baby everything in this message is what I have experienced from my husband 💜
Thank you Leon 💖
What happens when the victim disappears? Absolute No Contact: No calls, no texts, no checking their social media, no interaction whatsoever... establishing big walls to avoid any contact. Once I found out that he was a narcissist, I was the one who filed for a divorce and went away. I know that I will see his "propaganda" if I go and check his social media, so I blocked, unfriended, etc. I also told my family and close ones to avoid being "flying monkeys" and avoid bringing messages. I feel that this was Reverse Discard when he pushed me to the verge of tolerance, so I decided that enough was enough. I still wonder if he was expecting me to go through with the divorce hahaha.... as he didn't even engage through the Court and disregarded the Court orders. I was granted the divorce in the end... So, my question is: what happens when someone takes this position? Was he expecting me to chase him?
Shit, this helps a lot. I went “home” this weekend for a family birthday and the knob was totally consumed with juggling my presence with his new piece. I was so hurt watching this disrespect with our kids witnessing his games. I left early. I couldn’t handle his bs cruelty. Thank you for helping me understand wth just happened.
Thank you, Leon for all your videos. I was with that monster for 7 1/2 years. It was pure hell I’m no saint. I did my deeds to him to. I’ve been out three years and no contact , lots of stalking, he got engaged less than three months after the discard or I walked away whatever doesn’t matter then he got married less than a year into the marriage they split. I’ve grown so much mentally and spiritually. Till this day, he still stalking me he took a crap on my car, egged my house and my neighbors house. Now we have cameras everywhere and I made a police report. People should always keep themselves safe from these type of people. I was wondering if you can do a video on how they come back years after no contact and you know who they are, they harass you and stalk you. I have everything on record and even in the past where he admitted to the judge he wanted to kill me. Stay safe everybody Leon, keep up the good work with your videos.❤such embarrassment 💯
Took a crap on your car!? Wtffff I'm telling you these are pure demons, ain't nothing human about them, they are just empty shells that the devil uses to abuse good hearted people! Especially when trying to get closer to God, they will attack even more!
Wishing you endless peace and blessings here on earth🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰🥰
So glad you made it out of that madness. Stay in no - contact mode for your own safety and peace. Many blessings to you as you move forward 💯
@ghettocrissiebaby6028 I certainly hope you've made it through safely. My condolences. ✨🙏🏽
My ex of 16 years remarried 3 months after our divorce. It lasted 10 days. Our 6 year old son was ring bearer
😂😂😂😂Lillie not be rude, but this comment is funny
Wow that's crazy
10 Days , what an achievement. The Silly Billy.
Dayum 😂 he’s classic
@@scovyaporsha it was very comical, and that's only a small portion of it
He discarded me first, because he knew after I found out he cheated, I was done, because I had told him in the beginning, that cheating was a deal breaker for me.. In the process of him explaining himself he discarded me, after he asked me if I could ever trust him again, and could I forgive him. I told him, No! That's when he discarded me. What he didn't know was, I had no plans of ever taking him back, or dealing with him again. He thought I was going to chase him, after he hurt me. The devil is a lie!!! Never again!!!
Same exact story for me too.
I think we all go through these phases.....cheating and alcohol addiction lies devalue...it's best to just leave...
Good ridden 😂
I left
Radio silence
Deleted the number
I never looked back
He never reached out . I’m glad his pride and ego are higher than the Empire State Building.
I’m glad it’s behind me like my ponytail
Yup my x narc .. 50 years old lieutenant. 6’3 240 lb child. Police officer volunteered at church. Total monster behind closed doors. He used me to get bk at his ex. Now I’m 1 year out and getting healthy.
"Make sure you protect your heart, your soul, your spirit and your children" - Leon
What sad sad "people".
Great point! This is exactly the reason why I do all activities like birthdays, school ceremonies, etc separate from the Narc. My kids have 2 bday parties, vacations, etc. 1 with mom, and the other with dad and whoever! I know what he is capable of and I don’t put myself, or my kids in a position to witness the pettiness! He alienated me from his family by making me out to be something I’m not, and I’m glad he did because I don’t have to deal with them either! My Ex’s Mom and Sister are the reason he’s the “MAN-Child” he is today!
Family can and will be dangerous, deadly, and enablers-I agree with you!! You have a great plan in place 🙏🏾🙌🏾
I’m at this point with my Ex and his family as well. Separate everything, court order in place, his family completely cut off, I canceled all of my socials, and changed my number.
@@Modeltypekat That’s what we have to do sometimes! It has gotten worse for me since this post. He was trying to love bomb me a few months ago which I figure was just to get him out of the child support arrears he owes, and NOW 2 mos later he has me kids spending a night at some woman’s house I don’t even know! Sent me pics of playing baseball with my son! 😡😤 all while just begging me to take him back 8 weeks ago! I’m Furious!
Hahaha😂 Exposure really brings closure!! These videos are very therapeutic God bless you my brother!!
Yes it does
I’m “discarded” right now lmao but ur helping me prepare for whn this man start hoovering
He brought the new supply to my house to give me my Mother's Day present. Wish I could have warned her, cause I immediately liked her and knew what he was about to put her through.
Sadly, my ex has been was able to use our 22 year old and affect him in ways that changed our relationship & hinder him to this day (🙏🏽) but it showed me he didn’t have a problem being a deadbeat until I actually called him one…so I didn’t even bother him concerning our 13-year-old twins (I kicked him out when they were 3 months old) & they are both secure & thriving AND they see straight through him!!🤣🙌🏾
He discarded me and then tried to hurt me even more till I leveled up and now his chest hurt lmao
You go girl!
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Yep,new supply,her kids, pregnancy and everything he said he was going to do with me,no regard for our child. Absolutely no care about the mind games and family rejection on our child,nevermind me. Deliberate sick revenge,nothing to do with relationship.
My ex discarded and still was the most cruel and petty and ruthless. it was beyond words. it was overkill. I to this day do not understand it.
Thank you for this !! Petty ASF !! I discarded the narc he immediately went back to the recycled supply that he kept along the entire 3 years ! She's excited to have him "fully" so she thinks she's been strung along for 4 years ! They out like they are living their best life 😑
I’m experiencing this right now. The new supply keep posting all these pics on social media. She so happy to be with him. I wonder when he show his real self. Look as though he has changed. Going out and showing up for you. Smiling and holding her. I’m just shock
This is true. About 3 weeks after broke up with my ex narcissist he brought a new woman to my church. Thank God I didn't go that day. Then he started stalking me so much that I had to go to the police 🚨 I told him that poor woman has no idea what she's gotten herself into !! That hurt him cos I giggled when I said it.
I finally left after our children were adults. He started dating a woman that was so below me before I was gone. He hurt me all out married life but he broke me when he replaced me with a low value woman.I will never allow a man to break me again. 💔
We choose a lesser women every time to feel dominant and in control. It’s a mental weakness. You were too good and too strong for him. He’ll NEVER admit that!!!
Be strong ,they never get better than us.sending hugs
I don't care what he do when I leave bc I'm not going to be checking... when I'm out I'm out!
Yes! Once the divorce was finalized my ex husband started showing up to the weekend exchanges for the kids with his new girlfriend. The new girlfriend also just had a baby a few months ago for him as well. I never understand why she comes to the exchanges but he always have the biggest grin on his face when I see her.
I am so much happier with out him. The hurt and pain is over and done for me. I wish him well although he wished me death. Thank you ❤️
I had to let him go!!!Thank you 😇
I experienced that at a young age my first demonic marriage But OUR FATHER IN HEAVEN delivered me from him and he die from cancer ♋️ 10 years ago and he try to play the same games before he die sad but true but I was awakened to these demons at an early age
This is so sad to hurt the children because of a sick game that plays on the other parents’minds especially single mothers that are trying to keep their children mentally healthy as well😢
Yh they move so quick … they don’t even think about their actions or what they doing … they had the person a long time ago they were cheating and lieing the hole time
He stated dating my friend, he said he will give her all the love and attention I wanted, then he posting her pics on social media, he said he is going to hurt me by letting me watch him with her. He wanted me to get back with him and he would discard her, but I refused and im hurt and I know in time I will lose my attachment and I will be ok
He followed me home from work . Screaming and hollering. So tired of him following me everywhere.. Mad man. This is crazy
He’s not gonna be able to find me this time. I pray he has a bunch of supply to keep him busy😂
He dated low supplies after me so it backfired on him! It didn't hurt me! I was actually grossed out! 🤮!
Can you make a video on how a narcissist will message you from ghost accounts on social media & why. Like they'll message you as if it's not them. What is the point of that??
This has been the most interesting assignment I had to overcome well demon to defeat new levels more devils 😂😂💯💎💎
Right!!!! You will do it🙌🏾🙌🏾
I just couldn't believe that he would PROVE ME RIGHT without hesitation! WHO DOES THAT??? The only thing it left me with was confusion. It didn't even occur to me to be jealous or upset, because I don't do childish games. 🙄🙄🙄
All hail Gods Queen is here, To say I appreciate you. And God is SO PLEASED. You are an INSPIRATION to the world which we are fighting this spiritual battle. Thank you that you had the strength to change and continue to be changed. God has used you in a MIGHTY Way and now your helping overs. I commend You Leon. Well said…. BLESSINGS from Gods QUEEN!
Thank you. I truly appreciate your words 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Your videos are opening my eyes to what I put up with. Thank you.
He had the nerve to ask me who quit our relationship first l told l put you out, so that means l was first
I know this sounds bad but I’m glad I discarded him before he could discard me. Once the devaluation phase started it was a matter of time…
Yep.. exactly. I left my narc alone for 3 months. He constantly called me from no caller id he did this on Valentine’s. I reached out to say please stop calling. He could not wait to tell me he had a woman and he was so happy an about they date. At first I didn’t react but then I was going off I was so hurt . Yes I was thinking he had her the whole time.. I was fine being broken up until he did that . Now I have just been hurt
You will heal and man for sure. We don’t get away with it at all-believe that
If that's all they do is start dating. Miss me with that. He's been dating other people since we met. It's old now! Dating won't break my heart. 1 yr. No contact
With empaths all views has to be ,"seen and told", so friends pointing out to you is needed. Because after the empaths leave them, empaths has to know, whats going on at the moment their engage with narcs to leave.
This Narc did exactly as what you described in this video Leon. Not only he did get immediately with a woman, but the woman he got is one of his baby momma’s (which his daughter used to live with me and the Narc), OK. So not only he left to live with his daughter but he moved in with her mother, which she is still married to another man and while the Narc is still married to me and the divorce still not out …. Now, see that is 1000% that Narcissistic people have nothing in their heads and yes, he wants to bring my two kids around that Toxic scene “new diabolical relationship of his” and which I know my kids are too small to understand what is their Father doing, but I know they will put it together because kids are smart and they will react whenever they notice that they are being hurt with what they are seeing. Peace y’all and if you left the narcissist’s life, do yourself a favor and block him/her and everyone related to the narcissist and move on with your life and grow🪴
I left the narc 5 moths ago. 2 months after I discarded him he got into another relationship and got engaged one month after that. We were engaged when I left. How does one leave one engagement to another in less than 5 months. He says he loves her already and very happy. This was the third time I had to leave him. The first two times he got the flying monkeys involved and hoover until I came back. The third time I left was the final straw I told him I would never be back. He wasted no time in finding a new supply and doing things for the new supply that he never did for me. Good riidance
Why is it so important to hurt us? Is it satisfying some how, pleasurable………..why the need?
Yes-it is pleasurable especially when you show it. It’s a control thing, that gives a euphoric feeling. It’s also a form of bullying
So Leon, what got you into Recovery? What Caused you to Seek Out, Help.........it's a "Very Courageous Step n Journey. I Totally Applaud You........GOOD JOB !!!!!♡
I just discarded one that I never dated or met in person. He’s very sick and stalking me like crazy from another country
Thanks, brother, 💯 agreed . Inexperienced exactly what you described, now I know the reason why he acted the way he did. What a son of a b****. Thanks again for educating us, woman. A lot of us do appreciate you, God bless you 🙏 ❤️
Thank you. I know it's not easy to be on the side of " this is who I am" and put out these videos. I sometimes hear the nervousness in your voice, I think. But I just want to say that I am truly grateful for your Bravery and in someone way, somehow, having the ability to reach deep down within and grasp the selflessness it takes to do any of this. (I hear you talk about therapy) There's not many ppl that I know of that can or very much know and chose to entertain that they even have a problem. That's a huge part of the process of changing who we are when we walk this earth. So as not to keep the generational cycles of the same pain going into generations to come. Having the inner knowing to help catapult you to a higher, better version of your present self is gold. Then to actually go make the change happen is amazing! Even if you don't think so. I appreciate what you are doing and you seem very genuine and ready to help. Thank you. To me what you are doing is worth more to alot of people than gold. #Gratitude
Why can’t a narcissist leave his side piece? I found out that he keeps her and I finally had the courage to remove myself completely after 3 years of going back and forth … he kept going to that woman after I would leave over and over .. she was ok being with him while I was gone and through my pregnancy. Hurt so bad. But now I had enough. I found out and he acts like nothing 😭😭😭
The narc I had posted naked pictures of me in my apartment complex for my bday! Bc I left him alone & I was good without him‼️ He was real
Ignorant then began to stalk me after this he slandered me but only to his family bc my friends couldn’t stand him & wouldn’t listen anyways
They will stalk for sure!!!!!!
You are correct! They loose it and completely forget their age, start acting childish and delusional. Peace, love & light😊
Nothing is sacred. If they can ‘win’, be ‘right’, and hurt you, there is NOTHING too costly.
This channel has helped me so much. The way you put it clicks with how I think and I can actually grasp wtf or how my ex-wife thinks. You’re the most honest courageous man on TH-cam. Thank you!! I’m going to get your book!!
I'm going through that 'Pity party Sillynes right now He blowing my phone up Leon is The Man appreciate it 🙏
GOD BLESS YOU LEON. I HAVE BEEN THROUGH HELL AND BACK WITH MY BF. HE HAS IT IN HIS MIND THAT I AM SLEEPING WITH MY OWN BROTHER. I LOOKED AT HIM I ASKED HIM ARE YOU SLEEPING WITH SOMEONE IN YOUR FAMILY. LEON I BELIEVE HE'S SLEEPING WITH A FAMILY MEMBER. BUT WANT TO TURN THE TABLES ON ME. I AM SO GLAD TO BE FREE OF HIM.
I freaking love you. I swear.
He got what his hand called for. I don't care about his new supply or him. Was tired of the games and cheating.
Hi Leon, I really appreciate your content. A lot of what you say confirms a lot of what I suspected. It irritates the hell out of me when men try harder to hurt the woman or make a woman feel bad, but don't give that same energy to do the "Right" thing. I want to be done with this relationship thing. But a part of me wants to try one more time!! It just appears to me that there are too many Leon's out there. Dated a couple and was married to last one. It''s soooooo Exhausting!!
Thank you. I know exactly how you feel and what you deal with. It’s a lot. Right-the right thing with the same energy!!! Would be ideal!!
Mr. Walker, I've been listening to your content for awhile now.
Your delivery is quite Direct, Powerful, Strong.
The information is a lot to take at times.
It's a lot, but necessary for me to get, as a survivor of this cruel behavior.
The trauma and damage narcs do to ppl is just horrible.
The time you take to give this much needed info, much respect!!
I thank you!!🙏🏼🎯✌🏼💯
Please try to resist the one more time because the cycle of that mental abuse will never stop, just intensify. It will continue to get worse.
@@yolondatownsend9870 that’s very true
Thank you Leon, you have described it exactly as it happened when I left him
I didn't file for divorce as I was looking after my sister who was terminally ill. He sent the divorce papers a week after my sisters funeral and got married even before our divorce was finalised. Everyone were commenting on how he was so in love with her and besotted with her. The children were devastated as he didn't tell them about the divorce or remarrying again and like you said thought they would get over it. Being a narc it was all about him. I guess I caused a big ego injury and he wanted to get me back but he played himself as he married the first person that showed interest in him and I suspect she is narc too.
I've found this to be true, more than once. All the more they only worth running from!
@Leon, I don't know how you do this, warn us while calling your own name as the narc.... you must really be healed and much improved in your outlook on life. God bless you, and thank you, from the bottom of my heart 💕💕💕💕
5 years ago enough already that is dangerous i always say don't play with people emotions i don't i keep it 100 all the way around dont expect anything from me but what i tell u because that's all im offering
You popped up in my feed because of my searches and recent watch list. You have no idea how much you're helping me. I subscribed and THANK YOU so much!!! ❤
My soon to be ex narc husband panicked really bad when I left. It’s been over a year that we have separated I don’t see him, don’t hear from him, he don’t even reach out to our child. He don’t mess with us at all. It’s like he disappeared.
That’s that injured ego. Sadly, we try to hurt the women through the kids.
@@leonrwalkerjr It is very, very sad. She loves him but doesn't reciprocate the same.