THE IMPACT OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE Chapter 5 0f ME MY MINE by rc blakes
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It’s amazing how a narc will go to extremes to abuse you but will NOT use that same energy to love and honor you.
They do not know love.
Or themselves...
They can’t
Different energies.
It’s a demon pushing down their God given spirit…they like to think they have control but they don’t. They signed a contract with jezebel king ago.
My narc didn’t turn me suicidal but homicidal. I started having thoughts of poisoning him, hoping he had a wreck and more. I really had to repent and ask God for forgiveness. I turned to God and He heard my cry and delivered me from my narc. I’m out 2.5 years free!!! Hallelujah!! Thank you Lord!
Congratulations
I’m glad your free
Abusive people bring the worst out of good people. My ex-h is highly narcissistic so glad I got away from him sooner than later. My son was 2 when we split and thankfully I had an attorney who understood narcissism.
Thank you JESUS! 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
Yes!!!
A narcissist broke me, we had a 14 year old marriage, now after 19 months of separating myself from him, I have been making sense of it all and rebuilding myself. God saved me from him.
God be the glory, he has definate plans for you….he’s waiting to finish what is written for you 🙏🏽
🎯💯💯
I love how u said “a narc” instead of how ppl phase it “my narc”🙏🏾yes I felt tht release. Dissociate from him❤️🩹
@Shaunie Rockett AMEN, I see "my narc" ... reply to that is THE narc, they don't deserve titles (my) and that word my to me think attachment to them ... the narc is my response, bye Phelica
I have been married to a narc for 23 years and in a relationship for a total of 25 years. We were separated for 3 years while he was in another relationship. Although we never divorced, he lived his life with any woman. In 2021 he came back with a different mask. He was everything I ever wanted in a husband. But very short lived fast forward to now I realize he used me to heal from the abuse at the hands of another woman. She gave him the pain he gave me. Prior to his return I was happy and healed. But today, I'm broken again.. what I thought was GOD's work.. it was the devil disguising him to destroy what he couldn't the first time. The narc abuse is real.. I worked hard to be a better me and now I'm starting over again! The manipulation, the love bombing and abuse almost took me out. But I decided I LOVE ME BETTER THAN THAT!! I'm getting my life back by starting with releasing him and signing divorce papers before the end of this week. This has been a rollercoaster but I'm getting off to have a better life 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I was in a narcissistic relationship. He played mind games and blamed me for everything. I was emotionally bankrupt. I couldn’t articulate what was happening until I turned on Dr. Phil and that was the first time I heard of the term
My girlfriend told me my husband was a narcissist 23 years into my marriage. And it was true!!! It’s funny how you don’t know until you get out how bad it really was.
I'm getting his book 4 my sister bec I think she had the same problem & now over the yrs,she has bec verbally & physically abusive to her kids, especially after this last dude..she fits the descp of the repeated victim of nacr men, I didn't understand what is happening w/her..she won't go 2 counseling, mayb this book will help🙏😢
After seventeen years of marriage one day I just got into my car and drove to Albuquerque to a friend's house, so that I could figure out what the h*** was going on with me. Then I found myself Falling in love with someone else who is just as bad or even worse then my husband From england. That went on and off for 3 years. One day I went to England And that was the end of the relationship. So I wound up traveling the world after that to heal from all the insanity of my life. That was in 2013 2014 when I returned back to the states. Since then I have never had a relationship. Something has scared me and i'm just now looking at it. I have not valued myself very highly most of my life. But as I hit menopause in my old age I start to value myself every day and know that god loves me. I've even been sober for thirty seven years and working on me all those years. To still find myself in a marriage with a narcissist. You know Rumi Says we have to break our heart a million times before. It will open before we consider the silence of who we are. I believe this is so.
Me too It got my attention then I began to research !!!sadly I fit that category !!
@@msanders5206 a
Whew!!! The worst thing I've ever been through was a narcissistic relationship!!!! Praise the Lord for releasing me from that hell!
Agree🙏
Still trapped after 25 years…..still can’t get out 😢 tried prayers fasting no contact… can’t be released
Be the captain of your ship. Don’t let emotionless soulless ppl have any power over you or your emotions
Not that easy… it’s not ppl we are dealing with… it’s demons and spiritual warfare this battle actually takes place in the spirit realm…. If you aren’t connected then your physical body is subject to the diseases these demons plant in souls and ravish bodies. Without the knowledge and prayer you can be screwed a lifetime
Even listening to this took me back to that dark place when I dealt with a narcissist. It was the lowest of the lows for me.
Same, I couldn't see it then, but I started losing my weight. I remembered how I was raised in a godly home with my grandmother, and that's when I had to get up and get out. It took me 5 years to walk away forever.
You said the right word, WAS... I too had to face that part of me that put up with such nonsense. I walked, and it was the best thing ever. Stronger than ever and healed. I am armed with knowledge that the best narc will be apologizing to me for mercy....
On to the game......
You lose yourself. After 35 years it’s took its toll. I’m very guarded. So glad it’s over and that thought process had disappeared. Still in the process of healing after 3 years. 🙏🏻
I was married to a narcissist for 18 years !!!Everything you are saying is so true I can write a book on what he did to me now I’m trying to find myself I have good days and I have bad days but I know I’m going to be OK because God got me and I thank you so much Pastor for sharing your thoughts
How was it with his family ?
It was the most devastating experience of my life.
I am completely in shock that it took me so long to figure this 8 year game out.
Thankfully, the game is now over for me, and I am trying to piece my life back together and taking one day at a time.
I am unsure if I will ever fully get over the damages this man has created in my life.
But. I am thankful I turned back to God before it all came out.
The lies.
The betrayal.
The disrespect.
The denial.
Unbelievable
The blame game of his can no longer point in my direction.
I stood by this man even when I knew so much more than I ever admitted, hoping he would man up and confess.
That did not happen, unfortunately, but thankfully, one of the many other women finally came forward and told the truth about their relationship and his secret.
That day, I will not ever be able to forget.
That day was a hard learning lesson for me because I wanted to believe he was telling me the truth, things just were not adding up and I could truly feel it.
I had been right all along, and that day, I walked away not to look back and stopped worrying about him and began loving myself again.
You will if you stay in the word…. Reading and singing it
Read Mathew get to a church have them deliver these demons out of you completely
Clean your spirit and fill it only with good Godly things…. Don’t open any new portals which are contracts with Satan like porn and new age religious practices like yoga… and lots of other tricks of Satan
Congratulations! God bless you.
This us my story and I need help.🙌🏾
Hello, I pray that you hear me. If any of what you heard rings true. Save yourself. You are the most important person in that situation. Move on , there are too many people in the world to be stuck on one. Love, yourself.
I hope you are in a support group
Unfortunately after living through 2 horrible narcissistic marriages and 1 parent, I know the consequences. It can destroy someone. Healing is possible but slowly only with the help of Father God.
Lead me not into temptation but deliver me from evil.
The demonic forces of narcissism are evil.
Being with the Narc was the hardest 10 years of my life. So glad we are divorced. I went college, got my bachelor’s degree and am working on my masters. College gave me a great focus on a better future.
We share a child and I parallel parent. There have been times that I had to block my phone and email. He is demonic.
We shared the same story Lil Pink Bubbles
Wow, yep… lucky you got away. Mine prevent me from college being overly needy on purpose n/c they don’t want you to have a life or anything good. Once I escaped I got serious about my college education I always wanted. My father made me promise not to be dependent on a man… it gave them too much power over your entire future
@@SanctifiedLady Fine China, I have a
father just like yours. He stepped away from me when I was in the relationship because he said he could see what was happening. I wish I would have listened to him because I took the Narcs abuse for three years and struggled through the beginning stages of my doctoral work. I have been studying these characteristics and I am ready if I meet anyone with these characteristics. I will ever engage with another narcissist.
@@invigorate162 my father passed before this relationship but he put it in me to independent.
If you attract these narcs you have inner work to do… that’s the only way to be a repellent to them. ❤️
That's great for you to go back to college so that you can make changes in your life.
Narcissists run rampant in religious, political corporate and legal organizations. The legal system enables narcissism. We have a lot of work to do.
Yes and they do not only go for people pleaser they go for naive and strong will individuals who gets into a relationship to battle with a mate it is suppose to be a mutual playing field
Anywhere there’s money they will be in FULL attendance and in FULL effect.
So true!!
@@Cat-sx6ep that was me, naive and strong willed.
Pastor Blakes, as a therapist I can't tell you how much I appreciate your teachings. It is definitely a problem in churches and leadership. I help so many women who are healing from narcissistic relationships/abuse and it's heartbreaking.
Thank you.
YES....ALL IN THE SO CALLED HOUSES OF GOD...FROM THE PULPIT TO THE DOOR...GOD WILL REPAY....TRUST GOD FOR TRUE GODLY HEALING
Thank you for helping these women and you should also help me that's going through the same thing.
I lived it for 35 years didn’t know what it was until 5 years ago and when I read book it was spot on, they leave when their mask is exposed then you are the worst person and attacks you from every angle
Yes and what hurts there is no one to help you out when it is all over
@@Cat-sx6ep that’s what Jesus is for
Ppl say they believe and turn and ignore God as their savior…
Say things like “I’m alone”, “I have no help” these are insults to Jesus and God.
This will never work in your favor
Yes. I lived it 26.5 years. My narc fit every one of the descriptions: covert, grandiose . . . It was hell and I didn’t even realize what I was going through. All the lies, gaslighting and temper tantrums were just extreme. A person working in DV who was a friend saw him in action and told me he was a narcissist. Once I began to research it, I found he was. At that point I started to plan. But God took over and it led to me getting a restraining order and having him evicted from our home for a year. It was no contact after that. I e been away from him for 2.5 years and have seen him 3 times at our grandchildren’s bday party. We don’t talk to one another. I hate to have to look at him. Just glad it’s over! God is good all the time. Glory to His name!!!
It took me 22 years to get out of my marriage with a narcissist and have been free for over 4 years and happily married to a godly man for almost a year! Still pray daily for my now adult children and my healing from their narcissistic father’s abuse to us! Mental abuse hits just as hard as a fist and the scares last longer! My prayers go out to anyone in a narcissist relationship 🙏🏼
17 years with a narcissist I left a year ago on the 22nd of this month. I never thought I'd get out! I thank God everyday he rescued me and my children. We were living in hell on earth. Thank you Jesus!! I love you Lord! ❤️
This was me. Married 18 yrs. There was also physical abuse. Often narcissistic abuse occurs in concert with physical abuse. I'm 4 years into therapy from cPTSD . To God be the glory!!
I wouldn’t claim man made diagnosis on my life cPTSD… God is a healer to those who believe with GREAT faith 🙏🏽 you are what you believe. Give it to Jesus
@@SanctifiedLady give it to Jesus but continue her therapy in the meantime. Therapy can help you in releasing it God.
I was married to my narc for 26.5 years. Imagine that! I am currently in therapy as well.
I pray this book helps my sister..she refuses 2 go 2 counseling.🙏
THIS IS PREMIERING AT 8PM CST
He is talking to me, I finally got my narco niece out of my house, I fell so much better.
I just was able to get away from my narcissistic ex this year. I was with him for 4 years. Its been hard bc I got used to the mess and grew complacent. That person made me feel like I’m unlovable😢 Im working through it every day
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Mr. Rc Blake's I appreciate you for being the God-fearing man that you are. You are the Martin Luther King of relationships. Not afraid to preach the truth. You feed me knowledge. I feel so much more powerful after listening. 🙏🏽 Bless you and your wife, for being who you are especially so publicly. More than ever this world needs this and more like you.
This was really heartbreaking to listen to because I've only just starting to understand what has been what I have endured unknowingly since childhood. I stopped dating afew years ago because my last relationship left me fearful, confused and in a constant emotional rollercoaster. I felt like was shrinking myself to nothing just to accomodate a master manipulator. I know I dodged a bullet. Sadly I was all too familiar with those emotions and experiences because they were just a mirror of my childhood. You trick yourself into believing that you are the problem. I'm just thankful to God that despite it all He always found a way of showing up even in the darkest times. I'm so glad He lead me to this channel.
This was me. I realized that I tolerated it for so long because I grew up in a toxic verbally abusive family.
@@lisabowman877 Absolutely.
I could tell my story, but I won't. I just know that when you are not in your Vortex or ignore what you truly desire, it won't manifest. It took 8 years of Celibacy and is still ongoing to realize that I was other than myself set by someone else's programming. I have the desire to love and be loved and cared for, because I am truly worth it and it stead of praying in the now for it now, I'm having fun and enjoying myself, Bishop. No waiting, not begging and praying like in the old days. Esther Hicks says that's insane, just go have fun and it will come when it comes to be ready to be ready... I stepped outside my Vortex and almost lost my life to a Demon man that was outside his Vortex. Never again. I am better and worth the wait. 55 came alive. Thank you Source! She is Better than Ever today!
Hello everyone! From Ireland 🇮🇪
It’s so refreshing to hear you admit that narcissism is a problem in the church. So many of us have been re-injured seeking help from church leaders when we wanted to get out or leave an abusive relationship. They deny or don’t want to get involved and water down or dilute the abuse. It’s extremely invalidating and soul crushing. 😥💔
My 22 year old daughter is in a relationship with a narcissist, I confronted him about something he did and she was ready to take my head off. So I am giving it to GOD, all I can do is pray.
Oh know. I pray her eyes are opened🙏🏾
She is blind at the moment. Praying in agreement with you that the scales are removed from her eyes and that she will have the strength to do what's best for her.
You nailed this one RC Blake's. Sadly your describing how my life went. Thank God I'm still here. To God Be All The Praise Honor, and Glory.🙏
I walked past him, and it hurt so much just to see him be with everyone that he told me he doesn't trust but just ignores me after we planned our whole life together. I have a friend who I was telling about it, and she asked me, "What do you want him to do? He's moved on." It hurted, but I have to keep reminding myself that it's over. It can be harsh at times when people aren't going through what you are.
This book was so helpful and confirmation especially going through my healing and making sure I don’t break no contac and to be aware of the red flags and people that I may come in contact with that have these characteristics🙅🏽♀️👿t I love to go over the chapters when you have the live and we review what all was in the book
I’m 59 years old and I’m still healing from the poison and destruction of being a child of a narcissistic egg donor. She has destroyed our family.
I thank God I found your channel when I did. I almost fell into the trap of a narcissist. We’d been dating for a few months and the things you warned us to beware of, he was displaying. I cut him off and haven’t said a word to him since. It’s been hard but I’m channeling my inner Mrs. Lisa and walking away
I have broke free from my ex who was a covert narcissist the second time … my motivation was the death of his ex partner of 18 years and the mother of his children … I am now very motivated to start a pod cast myself on this subject to heal myself and help others … I am educating myself daily … these videos help me … thank you ❤
I was raised by a narcissistic father, my mother and father was both in the home, my mother stayed in the marriage due to my grandparents divorce at my mother's young age under 10 years of age.(Mother talk to me in the state of a child, asking me daddy why did you leave us on her deathbed) I fixed that for my grandfather.
I have a narcissist sibling, my mother and I believed in trying to bring people together, my dad and sibling love destruction.
So at 50 as a man with a family who lived on a large acreage next door, I moved my wife and youngest child away, I have told my children to stay away from there grandfather, mom has passed, and sibling
has passed, I retired at 50, and never broke I did what I wanted with God's guidance, but we were a family of disfunction.
I have been no contact with my dad for 9 months, I think better, focus is strong now, the narcissist only gets worse as they get older, they will tear up nursing homes, have nurses fighting, and staff. When you recognize the signs people get out earlier and never look back.
Greetings to all. Thank you RC Blake's Jr for your helpful and insightful messages, prayers, abd messages regarding impact on narcissistic abuse.
Thank YOU for Approaching this Topic in Love ❤🎉
Pure evil individuals who KNOW they’re operating in witchcraft to destroy the destiny, of Gods People!!!
Deliverance is truly needed for that trauma bond to be broken!!!
There is MORE to live for!! MORE purpose that you have(to whomever is reading this and going through Narc abuse) YOU have purpose!!! Go forth!! God Bless you
I just recently found your channel. I am thankful for your messages. You are helping me to bring clarity to my path forward.
Mine has ran me down so badly that he made me feel like I am not good enough at all. He kept comparing me to other women and bragging about all the women he was sleeping with. Over two years ago, I wanted to take my own life. I realized that I needed help and I got a therapist from work to help me for a while. She later sent me for some outside help and I have been seeing my therapist now for over two years now. She saved my life from him. She has been working with me to help me with my trauma from what he put me through. He is a complete monster and I am so happy to be away from him. I am slowly recovering from what he did to me. Thank you for this video Pastor Blakes. I hope someone see my comments here... it is possible to start coming back from an abuser. After all I am doing it currently. If I can you can too.
Wonderful teaching pastor!! Ty❤. Oooh Lord married to a narcissist.....I REBUKE THAT IN THE NAME OF JESUS!!!!!
Same here I was in a narcissistic relationship I work like a slave paying my bills and try to make a living and all he was doing was acusing me of so much evil stuff
Thank you Lord you release me from that none sence im happy now😇🙏
Yes I was friends(met her in the military) with a narcissist for 6 years and she was selfish, never wished me a Happy Birthday, was jealous and envious, insecure, and tried to bully me at times as well. I knew something was wrong but I stayed friends with her because I thought I needed the relationship for survival. She would also try to get me to pay for her food, drinks etc without paying me back.
Thankyou for understanding this it really is something that changes you your brain your soul it’s like a lasting scar , it’s very scary to not be able to think , it really is the dark night of the soul
I cannot believe this happened to me in my last relationship!
Healing and Triggering 😢❤❤❤❤
Thank God for you and your wife, leadership in 2023 is needed …this kind of teaching, is Breaking Yokes all over the world! To God be the glory! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾☮️
I went through this with my Mother. Learning how to trust even into adulthood..Very insightful message
The narratives were constantly changing and in many ways, does not match what I'm experiencing. Thank you and goodnight Bishop.
God Bless you and Lisa for this amazing ministry Pastor Blakes.
Trauma, shocks, Ptsd, depression and all you said. I'm getting better day by day, but its been a long road to get where I am now. Being patient and take it one day at the time.
Being in a narcissist relationship has took many years off my life for 8 years all the suffering i went through and abuse i took but took me a long time to figure out what kind of relationship this really was it took all of strength and courage with the help of God to leave along with my children and also co parenting with a narcissist is complicated its pure hell. Thanks Pastor 🙏
Yes, Pastor, this is so very real. I'm living this right now.
I feel so lost and confused.
I question my every decision and my sanity.
Read Mathew removed this demon before he or she invite 7 more 🙏🏽
It took me years to leave my narcissist because I had children, but I took my babies and ran for my life. I literally no longer have high blood pressure, my hair began to grow, my skin to clear up, and I began to heal from the inside out. He was literally “ killing me.” I found a Women’s shelter and they have programs designed to help you in just about every state. So if I can do it, anyone can.
@@naygirl334 so true. Once I left my blood pressure also went down, I’ve lost more than 30 (needed) pounds, my A1C has gone down from 6.7 to 6.0. I’m now hitting all my health goals. I feel and look 10 years younger. He was making and keeping me sick.
God bless You sir for to help me to heal from exact this hell..
In Jesus name! All captives will be free from narcissist Romans 10:13
This man speaks directly to me ! 14 year relationship with a narcissist 30 years old I’ve got to break FREE
My GOD. So True!
They can destroy everything in your life , health, wealth, and your soul , they use intermittent reinforcement, to become entangled with you, they are actors, an empty soul , healing can only come by getting them out of your life and out of your head, then you CAN and WILL rise like a Phoenix from the ashes.
Education is needed, the subject unfortunately cant be taught in schools for obvious reasons. All we can do is spread the word.
Now this is the absolute 💯 🔥 TRUTH!!!!
Thank you! Your videos have helped so much over the years. Feeling so stuck. Not suicidal as much anymore. Can't leave the kids with him. But if death comes I won't fight it. No family to turn to and prices are too high to go out on my own. My job doesn't pay enough to support me and my kids. Still working on a way out though. Your videos bring so much clarity and are a light in the darkness. God bless ❤🙏🏾
I been a victim of a narcissist and never been a people pleaser at all and this happened to me for seven years.
Thank you for addressing this issue. It is an issue of life and death. This winter the Lord delivered me and my children from a narc husband. Now to try to heal...which seems so overwhelming. It is truly demonic. Thank you for your ministry
Everything you described, accurate.
Thank you for this, it spoke to my life in so many ways.
I am the child of a narcissitic parent and thus I carried with me codependent/people pleasing tendencies. I didn't trust myself, doubted my intuition and sought outside validation. It wasn't until I became involved with a narcissist that my more codependent patterns surfaced. Both the narcissist and rhe codependent are both in error and are the extremes of the same energy(toxixity). They both lack true self worth, self esteem, boundaries , identity, lack of self trust, which is why they are drawn to one another. They both are out of order energetically as it pertains to feminine and masculine energy and both exhibit the toxic manifestations of such vs the divine aspects of the feminine and masculine. I am a firm believer that the medicine is in the dose and that if one is able to break away from the narcissist and self actualize through the abuse that in the breaking down of the codependent partner there is the ability to break the fake shell of a person that the codependent was conditioned to be and thus space for transformation is created and one can rise up and become who they came here to be through the establishment of self affirming behavior. But we have to acknowledge our own dysfunction and magnetism that was created in early childhood that would allow us to even tolerate such behavior. I gave thanks for Divine intervention and the grace of awareness to be on such path now and I have chosen medicine over poison in my perception and perspectives of narcissists who are operating in survival mode. I can only see them with compassion and yet firm boundaries. Like an abused animal, you still must keep your distance and recognize them for what they have become and keep them in prayer. Had I not had such a dynamic I would never had been put into the space to break generational patterns of abuse, heal the trauma that kept me distant from my own divine feminine nature and establish my sense of identity, self worth etc. that has risen above who I was conditioned to be.
I’ve questioned whether I was codependent? I’m not now, but maybe that’s what broke me from it.
I needed to hear all of this. Thank you so much.
Thank God for inner strength. I can never fold.
So glad that you addressed the leadership in the Church being narcissistic commonly. I left Christianity because of it. Saw actual demons who had everyone in the church and their community fooled. I became so incredibly angry and frustrated that there was no justice. Felt let down by God. I am back at Church, but I only go to the service and stay away from all Church people. I have gone through too much abuse, deception and disappointment. I totally see why Jesus disliked the religious Pharisees and hung out with the “sinners.” That’s exactly what I do and I have found truly good people finally.
I am opposite. I fight back, disappear, hold my own, I have heard I need "taming". All in the past. I still suffered great loss including a child and the lies continue but I make sure that I do not go where there is a possibility even remotely of their presence or where I know their influence is great. I have been painted as a prodigal who needs redemption but my life is not and never has been that. Counseling is a permanent fixture in my life. I have a forgiveness garden that is consistently watered and yes I have the triggers, PTSD to work with. Peace and protecting that is priority. Grateful for GOD who is my strength and redeemer.
This song touched my soul
I was a people pleaser and when I stopped being a people pleaser I started getting targeted by those Narcissist parasites
Having a narcissistic mother almost destroyed me and my family. I still mourn for the mother I needed and the woman I have grown to love and fear.
Goodnight everyone, so true....
Lisa and RC Blake's I needed you for me to be come what I am today with both of you in my life I feel so spiritually grounded it's like unexplainable it's marvelous awesome all the good things actually I wish I would have known both of you earlier in my life but it wasn't the time
Let’s get the likes to 600
Thank you, Powerful; Blessings
yes.. lived it #40 yrs.. Thank you Rc Blakes for the spotlight on this.. So grateful to be.. rescued ..released..slowly restored to new life of Gods Peaceful Presence
I've dealt with a Narc for years. I'm a super empath - and that has worked out well for me. He couldn't take me down spiritually, emotionally or physically so he eventually became disinterested . Maybe you should do one on the super empath vs narcisisst relationship
Amen 🙏🏾
Thank you Pastor Blake's for all you do. You will never know how much you've helped me and many others.
Let me rephrase that "you'll never know" lol. You know but to the degree you may not know. I used to be heavily involved in my church life but wandered away. Through your videos I've been able to be reconnected to God in a way that I'd more powerful than when I was in the church. Thank you a million times over
Thank you for this information! God bless you!🙏🏾❤️
Thank you📚
Am there
Please pray for me
My mind has checked out. I’m sure of it. My memory is gone and I don’t know who I am, it’s been over for 5 years now. I am a people pleaser just going through the motions of life like a zombie. How do I get better?
Over for 5 years and still not feeling better?? Do you have no contact? If so just continue to self care go to the gym or dance Zumba just connect with your body and also therapy should help 🌸💓 I hope you start to heal and feel well in time
Your search for truth and your ability bring the truth, over popularity, warms my heart. The world needed this. It was missing in our homes. in our place of worship and it left folks unaware. so kudos to your bravery to speak the truth, no matter whos feet it may fit and helping to bring the world from ignorance to awareness.
Totally enjoyed this. I get sooo much out of your postings. The way you speak is very real. And I will say you make me smile each time you say your gonna make this short. 😂 Have a beautiful day and thank you for being you ❤.
My Narc is older then me I overlook the the love bombing, oversharing , consistency behavior, trauma bonding , offer is to feed you sex , insecurities, controlling, stalking turn into distancing , confusion, manipulation, violence
Thank you for your videos. Very informative. Im hoping to get out of this Narc marriage soon. 🙏 🙏 🙏
Thanks Saint, your always on points..May the good Lord Jesus Christ grant you the desires of your with your family and loved ones 🙏😇 ❤️
Amen❤
Yes, science calls them : Demonic predator, Toxic people, Devilish users, and Energy Vampires. In the bibel its the Jazabell sprit 🙄
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥speechless
They know what they do and even their family members know you be the last one to find out and i was an educated one that was a loser .
They can’t stop the demon within them…. The demon doesn’t want no part of Jesus so it will say bad things about God and religion
Yeah the family knows. They don’t say one word! 😡
His family tried to warn me and we went to church almost every Sunday and some Wednesday night Bible study the relationship was bad but after the break up he was demonic
What gets me is, it was a woman that carried these men for nine months, and took care of them. They wouldn't have been able to enter the world without a woman.
It’s really another avenue my dear to educate this loving mother to raise a real King who will treat a woman a real queen.. may this be addressed as soon as possible and maybe pastor Blake’s and Queen Lisa can co author a book so authentic to squash this epidemic for good and reveal the truth to these clowns painting the town literally ( bloody red) and these predators ruining lives of so many… how disheartening indeed
13:36 Very interesting..."repeated emotional injuries." In other studies the hippocampus is referenced concerning dementia patients. Hmmmmmm...it wouldn't surprise me that extensive traumatic experiences could be attributed as a cause for memory loss.
I hope & pray that ur book will help my sister. She goes 2 church. So maybe seeing the abuse of narcs men from a biblical lens will help her b free of her pain & anger.🙏 I didn't understand b4, especially when she became abusive herself..she won't go to counseling.
Hi Bishop R.C. Blakes (Spiritual father / mentor)
I'm glad that I sat down took out some quality time to watch this video. My heart led me to you, but was quite hesitant. This video resonated on so many levels in my marriage and recent relationship. My childrens' father had a very aggressive temper which I assumed was normal. It had gotten so bad to where he would out of nowhere just body slam me with extreme force or he would slam me up against the wall. There was one particular incident that happened when i was pregnant with our daughter. The last time he body slammed me it was because it didn't fill up to being intimate because I was very tired 😴. He got so enraged that once he slammed me on the couch, he pressed his whole body on top of mine (3001bs) with his left kneecap pressed onto my throat. I nearly passed out. My daughter (9months at the time), screamed out while in her walker and that's when he snapped out of it, and got up off me. I still have back problems to this day.
I hope you have nothing else to do with him. You say he's your child(ren's) father, I suggest that any interactions you have with him are not alone and are in public.
Woe unto you if the narc is into witchcraft all hell will be let loose
Oh my!
They all are into witchcraft!!! They are demonic
that part leaders operating out of this behavior
Of course it damages the brain.
im there now. its so much lord help me.
The impact I allow these narcissists/psychopaths to have on my body, soul and spirit is NONE, praise God for removing all dirt of any ungodly soul tie, 'cause surely some group of people tried to break me for years, but broke themselves instead. The words of any narcissist/psychopath have ZERO value to me, I am a better person by the grace of God, praise God! In the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah! ❤❤❤
I Have Cptsd. It's real! I was so young and distraught !