Most men are predators. That’s why over 60% of households have the woman as the breadwinner. That’s why 1in 3 women have need r8pd. That’s why 2/3 of women have been SAd. That’s why 80% of teen pregnancies starting from 10 years old are by men in their 30s and older, half of which are relatives. That’s why the number 1 cause of death in men are other men. And that’s why men are afraid of eachother. Men are generally predators. Some are simply better at disguising it than others. And they stay on code protecting eachother to some, even though they hate eachother, too.
Young ladies DO NOT EVEN BE FRIENDS WITH THEM. I grew up with one and made it VERY CLEAR that I was not romantically interested in him. Wanna know what he did ?! Waited until I got into a relationship with a well off established man , then started harassing me and lying as if him and I had a relationship. It took a restraining order and a pew pew to end the drama.
👀 I made an example of an acquaintance that tried this. We were at a club common friends manage and this one group was conversing with both of us and one guy that was showing interest asked him, "Hey I don't want to over step is this your woman?!" Thhhhiiiiis mfkr says, "Yeah she's my woman!" So I exclaimed, "WTF is wrong with you, why would you lie and say that when we've never even dated...: his ass stood their silent. 😑 These fks will try it all.
My ex's mother couldn't put up with him, but she would defend him like a pathetic Irish mammy does. She can worry about him now, I never want to see his lazy, bitter arse again😊
I used to disagree what people say about broke men until MY broke boyfriend got some little money and got two girls pregnant at the same time. I’ll never date down again,NEVER
Been there.... don't date him and his potential. I was making great money, living alone, moving up. He only did walk dates, park dates, ice cream dates and couldn't really pay for that, did fried chicken dates, didn't want me working out. Broke men will sabotage you. Run.
So true! My ex would try weaseling in on my trips, I'd say "Oh did you forget what you did in TX?!" He showed his whole a s s the first time we were in a different state together. Another time, I returned from a three day training and he tried complaining that I wasted money, because he thought I needed to "show" what I learned. I said excuse me, I don't owe you shit, you weren't helping me get a break from my grief and it's not YOUR money. Are you paying me for my expenses?! Nothing but silence... The sheer audacity of entitlement.🚮
I’m a female. When I’m broke I’m sad. Now imagine an aggressive man who’s broke. 😂 nah I’m on top right now and humble but I don’t want those broke men problems. I’m satisfied being alone, finding myself and getting my happy back! Men see me smiling and try n talk to me to deplete my energy. Ladies do as I and get u some headphones!!!! Sometimes I don’t even have them on I just keep it moving like I didn’t hear anything.
I got a different take. We live in modern times. You shouldn’t want a man to necessarily lead you….but it’s probably better to have one that you can trust, cooperate, and work with. Those ‘traditional’ days are over. When a man and woman come together each have strengths and weaknesses. You take the lead where u r strong at and he takes the lead where his strength lies, but that takes trust, good communication, respect, and humility from both.
He did not disclose IRS debt! Over 50k! I added him to my home deed and started receiving IRS notices "we will seize your prop"...he became upset when l asked him about. I was able to get him removed from the deed and divorced him! Apparently having a stable home for myself, him and my son was bot important! Ladies do not depend on these men ever!
@@swiitdoll girl l was on fkn dumb train! We were married for 18 months!😆😆He initially paid for everything, l was added to his insurance, we opened a joint acct etc...suddenly he developed kidney disease (l'm a nurse, this is a chronic disease) he quit his good gvt job and wanted me to pay for everything! I said hell nah! You knew u were sick...at one point we even wanted babies (thanks God never did)l'm just finding out about narcs and their tacticts l'm also new to this whole female empowerment...like we really need to make the young ladies aware of these demonic males!!
@@swiitdoll Because she probably thought he was a nice guy. She believed the nonsense that women were the ones who are too picky, only date men with more (they call it hypergamy), and that we chase fairy tales not giving the “good men who are working class a chance.” We are all sold the ride or die, holding it down, pipe dream in the blk community. Every man I dated that was broke (2), became abusive. Another man who I loved started cheating when his business was failing. We had a great relationship, amazing bdrm life, and even he still became terrible (not abusive but VERY different), and I had to walk away. The more empathy you give broke or struggling men, the more they resent you and take THEIR FAILURES out on you. This stems from the patriarchy, which harms men too. The patriarchy tells men they are only valuable based on their wallet. Video is spot on. Never date a broke man, or a man who leads heavily with money.
Dating a broken older guy is insane. I could never❗️ I date older men for the stability and maturity. Anything outside of that is a bum when you had more years on this earth to get it right.
I’m not even that successful, I’m talking like 70k a year before taxes in Los Angeles. Run of the mill middle class shlep. Yet I find the men I attract aren’t even there at my level. A man who makes less money than you can be very uncomfortable to have around. In my experience they see you as some sort of threat, so they neg and try to drag you down. They kinda also treat you like another dude they’re competing with. On top of that it’s impossible to feel like you can trust this guy to take care of business. Part of the reason I don’t want children is because I never met a man who had the capability to take care of a family.
THIS! The competition piece is hitting too hard. Men are literally JEALOUS of women. I’m also middle class and I personally don’t want kids even with a man who makes more because I can’t afford them on my own and most men out here are just perpetuating BM culture these days.
You really can't even keep broke men as friends because they can be just as jealous as a partner. The Shanquella Robinson situation in Mexico was instigated by her broke, jealous male friend. I'm not saying look down on broke men or people in general. You just have to be mindful of the difference between what you have and what they do not have and how what you have might impact their perception of you.
@sabri1913 Right. We all get the same time. It's what we make of it. Broke men spend a lot of time in distractions. Broken women follow them until the women wake up. But a broken woman will still get more done than a broke man. Be safe. God bless.
I always thought it was a woman’s place to support a man especially if he’s down. I tried to prove myself as someone worthy of being long term and wifey material in my late thirties. I’m very humble and nurturing I had no clue the last guy I was with was with me for resources, a place to stay, money, food, sex etc. He robbed me of everything I had and left me for dead. I will never feel sorry for a man again only my husband who has proven himself as a provider and a man of God. A man Of man values how he treats God’s daughters. Luckily, I found my worth and realized how much I deserve and definitely won’t accept a man who doesn’t have anything to offer.
😂this is the best I ❤ hearing from women all ages from everywhere about this😂 "Don't be seen with a broke man, you're calling the whole army of broke men to you"😂 "Instead of dating a broke man, I'll just go into my masculine and date a woman"😂 ❤
Part of me is starting to question if I’d just be better off with a wife. Especially wanting kids. Pretty positive if I get a wife she won’t make me a BM 😅🤣🤣
I wish I knew this when I was younger! I’m not superficial. I don’t mind sharing. That’s not the point. A man without a “can do” attitude will drag you down. You will not be elevated. He will have no problem attaching an anchor to your neck and dragging you to the bottom of the ocean…and blame you for it!
And the jealousy is on another level !! Never again !!! The most bitter and negative people I have ever met in my life. A 60 year old broke ass man called me a looser. They will try to break you down to nothing because they feel so bad about themselves. They can’t be helped. The older the worse it gets. I told him am just in my mid 30s I have a chance. It’s over for you though and walked away. Also very manipulative in the beginning. They ll pretend to be something they are not. Young girls be careful.
Man she aint lie. The broke men always know how to lay it down in the bedroom and stay with bad luck! Lol 😂 One story after the next. Damn I wish I had access to these videos when I was young. Im playing these type of videos for my children like my mother plays gospel 24'7 in her kitchen.
EMBARRASS HIM. say loudly oh I'm sorry I forgot to got layed off from your third job this year for drinking on the clock. and pay with a smile. then LEAVE him and never speak to him again
Married a broke ghanian, I helped him with every aspect of getting right in the US only for him to set his priorities on everything in Africa and his goals in life
I wish these videos/ advice had been available for me when I was in my 20’s. Wasted so much time on worthless broke ass guys. So much truth here. Broke guys have a huge chip on their shoulder & ARE jealous of women. Never waste your time, energy, money & youth on them. They may seem fun at first or seem to have potential but the reality is they have a scarcity mindset & a warped sense of entitlement instead of being secure, generous & a positive work ethic. It’s not that rich guys are going to be the best but look for a guy who happily works hard, is generous with his love,time & whatever extra money he has & has a sense of humor. If he is inflexible, cheap yet greedy, sarcastic & petty, complains often., RUN!
🎉run for ur life🏃♀️ especially those broke envy jealous grownboys may unaliven u. bc he's like ur son/child. He can't survive w/o & may not want u to leave n 1 piece. 😈
And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.” Revelation 21:3-5 NIV Jesus loves you with an everlasting love and He wants you to be saved. He is with you always. Please turn back to Him before it is too late, in Jesus’ Name, Amen 🙏🏾
Life w broke man hurts and lot drama and lots them are felons Cheaters kids they don’t care for …. And he keeps all his money … 💰 he won’t share or if he comes up in something
Stories of a BROKIEEEE!! One day per my usual I filled my truck up, got it detailed, new tires and about to grocery shop. Out of nowhere my estranged husband showed up in my house and during my shower he took my truck for the entire weekend (yep we have two daughters and they were really little at this time) when he brought my truck back it was on E. 🤦🏽♀️ thank God for divorce and forgiveness because I was very guilty for marrying a broke fool. 😂❤
Just WoW I Knew I Wasn't Losing My Damn Mind It's The Evil Looks He Gives Me I Always Ask Him Why Are You Looking At Me Like That ? His Response Looking At You Like What 🤷🏾🙈🙉🙊
He’s jealous. I get my man looking at me like that esp each time I wear something nice. No compliment. Just a dirty dark look. Those men are just negative energy 24/7
I have no business with a broke ninja. I dont even care to be friends with them. Ive learned my lesson long ago. If they are broke its just a matter of time theyll start begging you. Leave broke men alone. Do not entertain them at all
Mannnnn why that girl started gagging bye man 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂 I swear it be like that bc I would have to be sick to be there…. && I mean sickly sick 😭 chile I will be ALONE
What’s broke and what’s rich? Rich people are in debt…. I’ve dated men that work from paycheck to paycheck and they do get jealous and I’ve dated men with savings and they cheated … I’m now single and happy 😎
I think it also comes down to other aspects is he broke emotionally, spiritually, mentally....most times the brokeness goes so deep and even when they get a little money they try to cover those other broken areas with the money it still won't work...men have to do the inner work too
I will never understand how sex could cloud women’s judgement. I can’t pay for my face care with good sex. Can’t pay for the antiques I collect with it either. At the grocery store, I cannot buy my organic food with good D. Money and the ability to relax is nonnegotiable. My face care alone costs £1300 per year.
Especially 30 after 35+ he had a lot catching up to do and if he’s 38-40+ and has still struggling bad licneee no credit no steady job I promise U 95% will always be that and never be any more than that u less he comes across some money 💰 big time or something huge inheritance lotto even then they been broke for so long they don’t know how to invest anymore then U
Ladies, they look at your pockets too. Even if you’re happy and you’re content, they will make you feel low because they feel that you are ok with having your needs met and you have to compromise on your wants. They will judge you for being mature about how you view life. So if you’re not financially acceptable to what people feel you should have, and you’re good, THEN DO NOT TRY TO DATE. Continue to take care of you the way you want to be taken care of because you have NO OBLIGATION to prove YOUR WORTH to NO freaking body. A broke man wants to feed off of your resources and if you don’t have enough resources to feed them, they will shame you because YOU DON’T HAVE ENOUGH FOR THEM TO LEECH off YOU.
This, but inside when i got fed up .....from a far I tossed back the toxicity it felt like a declaration of war .....ok ....result in him being Broken inside and out A husk of his former self I have no regrets getting myself together i have two battles Getting out of bad family and the first war was finished aka Take out the bad ex . When boys start removing their mask . Plan your escape or Take it as a declaration of war be sneaky about it to get out
Whenever you get to man, he loses his job. I would go to the company talk to management and see why he lost his job. Don’t help him, but go behind his back and just see what was the reason just so you know what he really is trying to do
before kids: broke men begging on the street > sandwich or change or snack. AFTER KIDS: broke men begging on the street> no and no thinking how dare you?
Every girl deserves to go to salon at least every other month if u can’t afford it often . Men who r jelaiois etc will complain about ur nails ur hair the cost !! 💲 of it . ❤ but girls I make sure U got all this stuff or learn to do them ur self press one are awesome amazing even nail glue or stick ons they last few days or a date take them off so affordable . And it doesn’t have to be super fancy or wild simple paint and shape is all u need for $25 u can buy a lot in line to do ur nails 💅 u can wax strip your eye brows too they have they self care 🧖 products for u
The relationship hard when did I ever ask ?? Or he ask what YOU want ??? When he has all these drama felon no job bad license drama w family his side.. we forget about us… I realize that I been in relationships thinking we are together as a team … and is so for them but they would never do for me … the moment they didn’t need me and thought they could arrange a car from a homeboy get his first check find a couch… they leave I was w a guy from 19-21 and wow at 27/8 I moved home and finally asked my self what I needed and want Had to fix my credit have to get working the depression is real
21:15 Men 18-43 don’t have money to take care of a woman. They don’t have stocks bonds or Ira’s to spare. They’re working pay check to pay check just like you. Real life for 90% of us that celebrity and social media. Perfectly beautiful lifestyle that’s not real. Yall putting to much pressure on these young men. They gone leave you all alone and start dating each other. 😂
He envied my independence so bad that he couldn't hide it and tried belittling for my things. I kicked his miserable face out my house as his a rubbish father too. Emotionally unavailable and absent. He told me if his taking me out with the kids he said ( your job is to find the place and my job is to pay) i told him I can go out by myself without him and its more fun when i go with my kids and he was silent.
I dont know. There’s a difference between being ‘broke’ and not having as much as you….especially if you’re a high earning woman. It’s already hard to find someone who ‘gets’ your ‘crazy’and is willing to accept it….let alone is also in that top earning bracket. I think that the bigger issue is character. Even if he has more money, bad character will manifest itself in other ways.
I think that the examples provided proved broke to: the inability to financially take care of oneself, lack of motivation and direction. I think that there are far too many men comfortable with having a woman take care of them. More men need to acquire new skills and higher education.
An easy keyword is equally yoked! Do you have similar disposable income where you can both travel and afford entertainment? Do you have children and the other doesn’t? Mindsets of finance ect. Should be similar!
Yeah a man needs to work towards being whole and character is everything....but also a man with the right character won't be seeking out women when he's broke to have them suffer with him....those are the type of men who avoid women and work their asses off to improve their situations....but character is the bottom line truth be told
@mskabue That's a helluva catch 22. if "men of character" decided to wait until he was financially stable enough to take care of a family by himself before dealing with women, then on average, they'd be in their mid 30s to 40s before even considering a relationship. If he wants kids, then women in his age group would not be his best option. This leaves unmarried women (who want families) in this age group only a few options. Try to find an even older unmarried, but established man, stay single and be "rich auntie", or either build with a man.... Meaning that she's going to have to financially contribute to the household if yall want the possible children to live a decent life. There are exceptions to the rule of course.... But the exception is not the rule. A lot of Yall Gotta learn to let go of those traditional notions of marriage in modern times And understand the difference between compromise and "settling"
OK. What’s the definition of “broke.” Little disposable income? No job? Doesn’t have the his own home or own car? He has his own place, but sparse furnishings?
My combine incomes is nearly $90,000 a year does that consider me broke? oh, and I have two college degrees as well because I’ve been called that but me and my fiancé are still getting married no matter what in September
How old are you two? I think a combined income of $90K is a good start for people in their 20s. Just be honest with each other and always work towards the same goal. 😊
@@ccpitts770 I am 34 when I was 20 I joined the army so obviously the military doesn’t pay a whole lot but I got my free education but it took me a while to finally get a good salary job. I’ve tried for years and we all know it’s easier said than done.
@@ccpitts770 I am 34 and my soon to be wife is 24. I’m in the Army national guard as well and with low amount of people staying and joining I will be getting high reenlistment bonuses and I work at bass pro part time. The bass pro is my hobby of shooting and hunting
Yes I've completed all shots last year....it's been a long week due to the cold but now Sis is okay after taking her medication as prescribed...thankyou for the concern hope you're doing great too!!😘
This lady said you will start becoming broke the moment you begin dating a broke man. 😂🤣 No, lies told. Im telling you. You ain't doing God's work. Who's mama is this?! " YOU'LL BE BECOMING BROKE" perio'dt.
The video is about women dating broke men you sound defensive.Men claim to be the providers and they claim to like broke women thats why they go overseas to find underage foreign women😂
please someone quantify "not" broke. sometimes we talking but not about the same thing.Are 50% of women talking about 2% of the population. Im tryna make my own money😂, maybe I'm lazy.
This makes me very angry because I had to deal with this hate when I was broke. It makes me very sad to see black women do this when there is so much poverty in that community. I currently have a job and my own place and I have no interest in dating women like this...none. A bunch of losers who are looking for a pay day not a lover. No thanks.
That's the problem with men who can't provide. They hallucinate that being able to provide their wife or girlfriend with an uber ride or nice date where she isn't paying for everything is the woman "looking for a payday". Interestingly, these same men suffering from broke man delusions still want to have sexy time with a beautiful woman they can't afford to do anything with and for except provide eggplant. Get your money up😊
The reason so much poverty is in the BC is because men mooch off if the women and leave the women to provide for 80% of the households. And then BLK men brag about making more money than the women while doing nothing to alleviate the poverty in homes headed by women that they created. Shameful.
"A man can hate you, but still love you for the benefits."
That's not a man. That's a predator.
Most men are predators. That’s why over 60% of households have the woman as the breadwinner. That’s why 1in 3 women have need r8pd. That’s why 2/3 of women have been SAd. That’s why 80% of teen pregnancies starting from 10 years old are by men in their 30s and older, half of which are relatives. That’s why the number 1 cause of death in men are other men. And that’s why men are afraid of eachother. Men are generally predators. Some are simply better at disguising it than others. And they stay on code protecting eachother to some, even though they hate eachother, too.
exactly! that man does not love someone cause of the benefits, he just loves the benefits.
this is a great statement
The broke men have the nerve to call women gold diggers 😂
right. when the guy who mooches off a woman, he sees it as ok yet if it’s a woman, she’s a gold digger. 😂
Broke men don't do that.
Brainwashed and lost souls do.
Right
It’s ONLY ever the broke men. Wealthy men? It’s a drop in the ocean 😌
They are the true gold diggers.
Be prepared for a broke guy to make your life a living hell 💯
@Damita3272 A highly educated but lazy chronically broke sister will do the same to you.Smh
Ong.
100
FACTS
I’m not gonna prepare ima run for the hills💃
Daddy Said
“Never deal W a man who has Nothing to Lose! Bc He will make Sure🫵 lose it ALL.”
Very wise words.
Preach Sis 🗣️
Wish I heard this 4yrs ago smh
FACTS
Ddddaaaannnggg. I like that!!!
Young ladies DO NOT EVEN BE FRIENDS WITH THEM. I grew up with one and made it VERY CLEAR that I was not romantically interested in him. Wanna know what he did ?! Waited until I got into a relationship with a well off established man , then started harassing me and lying as if him and I had a relationship. It took a restraining order and a pew pew to end the drama.
Same exact thing happened and it was even an older kang who didn't even express having interest in me romantically until I got into a relationship.
👀 I made an example of an acquaintance that tried this. We were at a club common friends manage and this one group was conversing with both of us and one guy that was showing interest asked him, "Hey I don't want to over step is this your woman?!" Thhhhiiiiis mfkr says, "Yeah she's my woman!" So I exclaimed, "WTF is wrong with you, why would you lie and say that when we've never even dated...: his ass stood their silent. 😑 These fks will try it all.
I’m going through that now! Thank you for encouragement because I’m tired of being stalked! It’s such an icky feeling
They are jealous as hell. Esp if you’re a beautiful woman omg just stay away completely
"Let them be a roommate with their Mom." Lol.
My ex's mother couldn't put up with him, but she would defend him like a pathetic Irish mammy does.
She can worry about him now, I never want to see his lazy, bitter arse again😊
😂😂😂
They taking them out.😬🤞🏾👂🏾
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 exactly
🤣🤣🤣 YES
I used to disagree what people say about broke men until MY broke boyfriend got some little money and got two girls pregnant at the same time. I’ll never date down again,NEVER
Good 👏🏿 For 🙌🏿 YOU 👌🏿 💯💯💕💕💕
I refuse the dusties too, boo lol
So that money he got has to go to child support🤔....foolish AF.
😂😂@@Xeyne098
dayum. at least he didn’t get you pregnant
That's the thing. We always tell people this then they disagree and learn the hard way. U can say thank u that u do not have kids from him.
Been there.... don't date him and his potential. I was making great money, living alone, moving up. He only did walk dates, park dates, ice cream dates and couldn't really pay for that, did fried chicken dates, didn't want me working out. Broke men will sabotage you. Run.
They really will try hard to do it. That shyt is for the birds🕊🐦🐤.
Leave broke men right where you find them.
Broke , Hurting, and unhealed. Run!!! That's a Bullshit situation there. That's bad luck too
You can pinpoint the impoverished men cause they’ll be super concerned with women’s business! Their hair, body , clothes ect
Whew
True
They also be well dressed 💯
@@tenelleharris5696 you added the icing bcuz whew!
So true! My ex would try weaseling in on my trips, I'd say "Oh did you forget what you did in TX?!" He showed his whole a s s the first time we were in a different state together. Another time, I returned from a three day training and he tried complaining that I wasted money, because he thought I needed to "show" what I learned. I said excuse me, I don't owe you shit, you weren't helping me get a break from my grief and it's not YOUR money. Are you paying me for my expenses?! Nothing but silence... The sheer audacity of entitlement.🚮
I’m a female. When I’m broke I’m sad. Now imagine an aggressive man who’s broke. 😂 nah I’m on top right now and humble but I don’t want those broke men problems. I’m satisfied being alone, finding myself and getting my happy back! Men see me smiling and try n talk to me to deplete my energy. Ladies do as I and get u some headphones!!!! Sometimes I don’t even have them on I just keep it moving like I didn’t hear anything.
THIS!!!!!
6:37 "They are looking for a women that is going to suffer with them"
JUST WOW. Soo true!!
9:57 "Can I let a man lead me who can't even take care of me?" Mercy, Lawd!!!! She spoke an entire word there.
He can and will lead you to absolute ruin and will blame you the entire time.
I got a different take. We live in modern times. You shouldn’t want a man to necessarily lead you….but it’s probably better to have one that you can trust, cooperate, and work with.
Those ‘traditional’ days are over.
When a man and woman come together each have strengths and weaknesses. You take the lead where u r strong at and he takes the lead where his strength lies, but that takes trust, good communication, respect, and humility from both.
He'll lead you straight to hell sis🤣🤣
A word!!!Baby!He can’t lead himself nowhere…How is she gonna lead a relationship anywhere?!He doesn’t have the skills
He did not disclose IRS debt! Over 50k! I added him to my home deed and started receiving IRS notices "we will seize your prop"...he became upset when l asked him about. I was able to get him removed from the deed and divorced him! Apparently having a stable home for myself, him and my son was bot important! Ladies do not depend on these men ever!
Why will you add a man to your property. He should add you to his property.
Men will lie by omission. They really cannot be trusted.
@@swiitdoll girl l was on fkn dumb train! We were married for 18 months!😆😆He initially paid for everything, l was added to his insurance, we opened a joint acct etc...suddenly he developed kidney disease (l'm a nurse, this is a chronic disease) he quit his good gvt job and wanted me to pay for everything! I said hell nah! You knew u were sick...at one point we even wanted babies (thanks God never did)l'm just finding out about narcs and their tacticts l'm also new to this whole female empowerment...like we really need to make the young ladies aware of these demonic males!!
@@swiitdoll Because she probably thought he was a nice guy. She believed the nonsense that women were the ones who are too picky, only date men with more (they call it hypergamy), and that we chase fairy tales not giving the “good men who are working class a chance.” We are all sold the ride or die, holding it down, pipe dream in the blk community. Every man I dated that was broke (2), became abusive. Another man who I loved started cheating when his business was failing. We had a great relationship, amazing bdrm life, and even he still became terrible (not abusive but VERY different), and I had to walk away.
The more empathy you give broke or struggling men, the more they resent you and take THEIR FAILURES out on you. This stems from the patriarchy, which harms men too. The patriarchy tells men they are only valuable based on their wallet.
Video is spot on. Never date a broke man, or a man who leads heavily with money.
Non-disclosure or omission of key information is sinister. 💀
Dating a broken older guy is insane. I could never❗️ I date older men for the stability and maturity. Anything outside of that is a bum when you had more years on this earth to get it right.
Involving yourself with a BROKEN man is worse than being with a man who's BROKE.
@@skylarbrooks2814
A grown, broke man IS broken already. 🤷🏿♀️
Good for you! Because it's a mess 😂
So true if he is broke he is miserable and he is going to make your miserable too 😅
A broke man = a broken man
Struggle makes me physically ill too
I think that applies to us all Sis
Yup left a relationship because of this
😂 same
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I’m not even that successful, I’m talking like 70k a year before taxes in Los Angeles. Run of the mill middle class shlep.
Yet I find the men I attract aren’t even there at my level. A man who makes less money than you can be very uncomfortable to have around. In my experience they see you as some sort of threat, so they neg and try to drag you down. They kinda also treat you like another dude they’re competing with.
On top of that it’s impossible to feel like you can trust this guy to take care of business. Part of the reason I don’t want children is because I never met a man who had the capability to take care of a family.
THIS! The competition piece is hitting too hard. Men are literally JEALOUS of women. I’m also middle class and I personally don’t want kids even with a man who makes more because I can’t afford them on my own and most men out here are just perpetuating BM culture these days.
You really can't even keep broke men as friends because they can be just as jealous as a partner. The Shanquella Robinson situation in Mexico was instigated by her broke, jealous male friend. I'm not saying look down on broke men or people in general. You just have to be mindful of the difference between what you have and what they do not have and how what you have might impact their perception of you.
Sometimes it’s the time you have to make in life that they are jealous of
@sabri1913 Right. We all get the same time. It's what we make of it. Broke men spend a lot of time in distractions. Broken women follow them until the women wake up. But a broken woman will still get more done than a broke man. Be safe. God bless.
I always thought it was a woman’s place to support a man especially if he’s down. I tried to prove myself as someone worthy of being long term and wifey material in my late thirties. I’m very humble and nurturing I had no clue the last guy I was with was with me for resources, a place to stay, money, food, sex etc. He robbed me of everything I had and left me for dead. I will never feel sorry for a man again only my husband who has proven himself as a provider and a man of God. A man Of man values how he treats God’s daughters. Luckily, I found my worth and realized how much I deserve and definitely won’t accept a man who doesn’t have anything to offer.
I can only imagine what this did to your nervous system!
@@dixanna27
Dude was looking for CONVENIENCE and support only for himself.
A BROKEN man is worse than a man who's BROKE.
A BROKE man is BROKEN
Broken and broke come in the same package
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@@Mirpeace93Yes, sometimes.
What’s the difference?
Yep my ex was like this and he got abusive. No more i'm staying single. Can't deal with these guys anymore.
Food shelter and water is at the bottom of the Manslow Pyramid. A man cannot offer anything when he’s at the bottom of the pyramid
☝🏽🗣️ This!!💯
😂this is the best I ❤ hearing from women all ages from everywhere about this😂
"Don't be seen with a broke man, you're calling the whole army of broke men to you"😂
"Instead of dating a broke man, I'll just go into my masculine and date a woman"😂
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Part of me is starting to question if I’d just be better off with a wife. Especially wanting kids. Pretty positive if I get a wife she won’t make me a BM 😅🤣🤣
I wish I knew this when I was younger! I’m not superficial. I don’t mind sharing. That’s not the point. A man without a “can do” attitude will drag you down. You will not be elevated. He will have no problem attaching an anchor to your neck and dragging you to the bottom of the ocean…and blame you for it!
I am a woman and happy and ready to protect and provide for a beautiful woman, Fr.
Real❤😂🎉
PREACH...A REAL MAN WILL ENJOY PROTECTING & PROVIDING NOT PUT ON A FACADE
Don't tie your destiny to a broke man
And the jealousy is on another level !! Never again !!! The most bitter and negative people I have ever met in my life. A 60 year old broke ass man called me a looser. They will try to break you down to nothing because they feel so bad about themselves. They can’t be helped. The older the worse it gets. I told him am just in my mid 30s I have a chance. It’s over for you though and walked away. Also very manipulative in the beginning. They ll pretend to be something they are not. Young girls be careful.
Envying someone’s ambition is crazy. They can literally just get ambition. It’s free 😂
I know riggghht!!!!😂🫣
Man she aint lie. The broke men always know how to lay it down in the bedroom and stay with bad luck! Lol 😂 One story after the next. Damn I wish I had access to these videos when I was young. Im playing these type of videos for my children like my mother plays gospel 24'7 in her kitchen.
Lol they give Good sex..each time you think of leaving them you will be confused
I dated broke and he bought a girl a beer in fronta of me shen he NEVER buys me anything, in fact, completely opposite
I dated broke and he asked me to pay for his friends' drinks at the club. His friends' and their girls.
EMBARRASS HIM. say loudly oh I'm sorry I forgot to got layed off from your third job this year for drinking on the clock. and pay with a smile. then LEAVE him and never speak to him again
Married a broke ghanian, I helped him with every aspect of getting right in the US only for him to set his priorities on everything in Africa and his goals in life
A broke man is lame …. not a fun space.
I wish these videos/ advice had been available for me when I was in my 20’s. Wasted so much time on worthless broke ass guys. So much truth here. Broke guys have a huge chip on their shoulder & ARE jealous of women. Never waste your time, energy, money & youth on them. They may seem fun at first or seem to have potential but the reality is they have a scarcity mindset & a warped sense of entitlement instead of being secure, generous & a positive work ethic. It’s not that rich guys are going to be the best but look for a guy who happily works hard, is generous with his love,time & whatever extra money he has & has a sense of humor. If he is inflexible, cheap yet greedy, sarcastic & petty, complains often., RUN!
I tried building with a guy he finally told me I’m trying to control him I got out of there
It's true
...I am a empath dated 2 broke men they were awful.....when they had nothing....I had more than them.
That so true …. He never had good news…. Never and for years
They never tell you anything pleasing🤣🤣🤣it's always problems and struggle
@@mskabuenothing they take so much for granted and they mess w your head to…. They take your money but also give you headache
🎉run for ur life🏃♀️ especially those broke envy jealous grownboys may unaliven u. bc he's like ur son/child. He can't survive w/o & may not want u to leave n 1 piece. 😈
A selfless man and a greedless woman is a match made in heaven.
-me
And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.”
Revelation 21:3-5 NIV
Jesus loves you with an everlasting love and He wants you to be saved. He is with you always. Please turn back to Him before it is too late, in Jesus’ Name, Amen 🙏🏾
The girl with the gummies bears was funny.. "I'm literally getting sick" lol 💀💀💀
Life w broke man hurts and lot drama and lots them are felons Cheaters kids they don’t care for …. And he keeps all his money … 💰 he won’t share or if he comes up in something
TRUE
This is my stepdad. Any time he had any amount of money he spent it all on himself despite having 4 baby mommas and 5 kids. Disgusting
Stories of a BROKIEEEE!!
One day per my usual I filled my truck up, got it detailed, new tires and about to grocery shop. Out of nowhere my estranged husband showed up in my house and during my shower he took my truck for the entire weekend (yep we have two daughters and they were really little at this time) when he brought my truck back it was on E. 🤦🏽♀️ thank God for divorce and forgiveness because I was very guilty for marrying a broke fool. 😂❤
Money is everything… to a man to a extent
Just WoW I Knew I Wasn't Losing My Damn Mind It's The Evil Looks He Gives Me I Always Ask Him Why Are You Looking At Me Like That ? His Response Looking At You Like What 🤷🏾🙈🙉🙊
He’s jealous. I get my man looking at me like that esp each time I wear something nice. No compliment. Just a dirty dark look. Those men are just negative energy 24/7
I bought some stuff on clearance. Spent less than $20. Of my own money, but to him- my money wasn’t mine. He brought it up for MONTHS
Are you married? Why was he concerned about your spending habits?
I have no business with a broke ninja. I dont even care to be friends with them. Ive learned my lesson long ago. If they are broke its just a matter of time theyll start begging you. Leave broke men alone. Do not entertain them at all
I gave one guy money before because he hadn’t eaten. Then asked again if he needed it, he eventually said yes. Third time he asked 😬 it was my fault.
😩 all the mouth sounds with the girl and her gummy bears
I know right?! So gross plus her trying to enact trying to throw up makes it worse,urgh
Omg, I couldn't lol.. it was a struggle, I had to fast forward 😩
Idk she made laugh😂
Mannnnn why that girl started gagging bye man 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂 I swear it be like that bc I would have to be sick to be there…. && I mean sickly sick 😭 chile I will be ALONE
What’s broke and what’s rich? Rich people are in debt…. I’ve dated men that work from paycheck to paycheck and they do get jealous and I’ve dated men with savings and they cheated … I’m now single and happy 😎
I think it also comes down to other aspects is he broke emotionally, spiritually, mentally....most times the brokeness goes so deep and even when they get a little money they try to cover those other broken areas with the money it still won't work...men have to do the inner work too
Great content and great episode!
Thank you 😘
Lotta good information in this video. Thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it! 😊
Sis was 100% correct…
I will never understand how sex could cloud women’s judgement. I can’t pay for my face care with good sex. Can’t pay for the antiques I collect with it either. At the grocery store, I cannot buy my organic food with good D.
Money and the ability to relax is nonnegotiable.
My face care alone costs £1300 per year.
He tried it! #PREACH
Especially 30 after 35+ he had a lot catching up to do and if he’s 38-40+ and has still struggling bad licneee no credit no steady job I promise U 95% will always be that and never be any more than that u less he comes across some money 💰 big time or something huge inheritance lotto even then they been broke for so long they don’t know how to invest anymore then U
THISSSS⬆️⬆️⬆️ men who are 30 plus with 0 ambition and no actual goals, unstable income with always be that way❕❕ Majority of men are lazy anyway.
"can't get blood from a stone"
Indeed, I agree. Great take & video 🖤🤍❤️✨️
Ladies, they look at your pockets too. Even if you’re happy and you’re content, they will make you feel low because they feel that you are ok with having your needs met and you have to compromise on your wants. They will judge you for being mature about how you view life. So if you’re not financially acceptable to what people feel you should have, and you’re good, THEN DO NOT TRY TO DATE. Continue to take care of you the way you want to be taken care of because you have NO OBLIGATION to prove YOUR WORTH to NO freaking body. A broke man wants to feed off of your resources and if you don’t have enough resources to feed them, they will shame you because YOU DON’T HAVE ENOUGH FOR THEM TO LEECH off YOU.
I hope you get well soon sis. Appreciate your time and energy 🫶🏿
I appreciate that I healed. I'm well now🤗
@@mskabue So happy to hear that. Blessings to you sis🙏🏿
This, but inside when i got fed up .....from a far I tossed back the toxicity it felt like a declaration of war .....ok ....result in him being Broken inside and out A husk of his former self I have no regrets getting myself together i have two battles Getting out of bad family and the first war was finished aka Take out the bad ex . When boys start removing their mask . Plan your escape or Take it as a declaration of war be sneaky about it to get out
Whenever you get to man, he loses his job. I would go to the company talk to management and see why he lost his job. Don’t help him, but go behind his back and just see what was the reason just so you know what he really is trying to do
before kids: broke men begging on the street > sandwich or change or snack. AFTER KIDS: broke men begging on the street> no and no thinking how dare you?
Every girl deserves to go to salon at least every other month if u can’t afford it often . Men who r jelaiois etc will complain about ur nails ur hair the cost !! 💲 of it . ❤ but girls I make sure U got all this stuff or learn to do them ur self press one are awesome amazing even nail glue or stick ons they last few days or a date take them off so affordable . And it doesn’t have to be super fancy or wild simple paint and shape is all u need for $25 u can buy a lot in line to do ur nails 💅 u can wax strip your eye brows too they have they self care 🧖 products for u
Blessings CEO😂
This exact experience 💯💯 wow
I agree ❤
👏🏾💃🏾🙌🏾 Great video!
Thank you! 🤗
The relationship hard when did I ever ask ?? Or he ask what YOU want ??? When he has all these drama felon no job bad license drama w family his side.. we forget about us… I realize that I been in relationships thinking we are together as a team … and is so for them but they would never do for me … the moment they didn’t need me and thought they could arrange a car from a homeboy get his first check find a couch… they leave I was w a guy from 19-21 and wow at 27/8 I moved home and finally asked my self what I needed and want Had to fix my credit have to get working the depression is real
3:35 my man is like but he ain’t broke tho
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Men 18-43 don’t have money to take care of a woman. They don’t have stocks bonds or Ira’s to spare. They’re working pay check to pay check just like you. Real life for 90% of us that celebrity and social media. Perfectly beautiful lifestyle that’s not real. Yall putting to much pressure on these young men. They gone leave you all alone and start dating each other. 😂
They already dating each other‼️😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lending money from his parent that was a red flag
10:05 she had me weak 🤣
High body counts lead to poor relations .
Male community d high body counts ain't it
Never again
💌...The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand; repent [of sin] and believe in the gospel. Mark 1:15💌
He envied my independence so bad that he couldn't hide it and tried belittling for my things. I kicked his miserable face out my house as his a rubbish father too. Emotionally unavailable and absent. He told me if his taking me out with the kids he said ( your job is to find the place and my job is to pay) i told him I can go out by myself without him and its more fun when i go with my kids and he was silent.
Completely agree
That is so true
I dont know. There’s a difference between being ‘broke’ and not having as much as you….especially if you’re a high earning woman.
It’s already hard to find someone who ‘gets’ your ‘crazy’and is willing to accept it….let alone is also in that top earning bracket.
I think that the bigger issue is character. Even if he has more money, bad character will manifest itself in other ways.
I think that the examples provided proved broke to: the inability to financially take care of oneself, lack of motivation and direction. I think that there are far too many men comfortable with having a woman take care of them. More men need to acquire new skills and higher education.
An easy keyword is equally yoked! Do you have similar disposable income where you can both travel and afford entertainment? Do you have children and the other doesn’t? Mindsets of finance ect. Should be similar!
@amilllion1 So what you're saying is you shouldn't date a man that makes more money or has a better financial lifestyle than you.
Yeah a man needs to work towards being whole and character is everything....but also a man with the right character won't be seeking out women when he's broke to have them suffer with him....those are the type of men who avoid women and work their asses off to improve their situations....but character is the bottom line truth be told
@mskabue
That's a helluva catch 22.
if "men of character" decided to wait until he was financially stable enough to take care of a family by himself before dealing with women, then on average, they'd be in their mid 30s to 40s before even considering a relationship.
If he wants kids, then women in his age group would not be his best option.
This leaves unmarried women (who want families) in this age group only a few options.
Try to find an even older unmarried, but established man, stay single and be "rich auntie", or either build with a man.... Meaning that she's going to have to financially contribute to the household if yall want the possible children to live a decent life.
There are exceptions to the rule of course.... But the exception is not the rule.
A lot of Yall Gotta learn to let go of those traditional notions of marriage in modern times And understand the difference between compromise and "settling"
The lady at 8:11 was dating the guy who had his own home and car and job. So she was not providing for him.
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OK.
What’s the definition of “broke.”
Little disposable income? No job? Doesn’t have the his own home or own car? He has his own place, but sparse furnishings?
No job,no car,no home this is the bare minimum
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I wish I was would have been on you tube before I got married 😢
Most of us wish this information was presented to us before we made bad decisions
My combine incomes is nearly $90,000 a year does that consider me broke? oh, and I have two college degrees as well because I’ve been called that but me and my fiancé are still getting married no matter what in September
How old are you two? I think a combined income of $90K is a good start for people in their 20s. Just be honest with each other and always work towards the same goal. 😊
You are good, but just consider in the future if u were to have kids it is cheaper and better for the woman to stay home for a few years at least...
@@ccpitts770 I am 34 when I was 20 I joined the army so obviously the military doesn’t pay a whole lot but I got my free education but it took me a while to finally get a good salary job. I’ve tried for years and we all know it’s easier said than done.
@@YouSoCute2000 she has a certification in medical coding and billing so she could be able to work from home
@@ccpitts770 I am 34 and my soon to be wife is 24. I’m in the Army national guard as well and with low amount of people staying and joining I will be getting high reenlistment bonuses and I work at bass pro part time. The bass pro is my hobby of shooting and hunting
Did you take the Covid vaccine? I ask because you said you weren’t well ❤❤❤
Yes I've completed all shots last year....it's been a long week due to the cold but now Sis is okay after taking her medication as prescribed...thankyou for the concern hope you're doing great too!!😘
LISTEN! turned me fat and ugly
Me too!
I don't care for any man now, I look after myself now.😊
You are not fat and ugly by the way.
I gained 20lbs, earned WAY LESS money, and started to believe my life’s purpose was to serve him. I FREED MYSELF!!!!!!!!!!
As we should 💯
@@rosec6680 ty💖
This lady said you will start becoming broke the moment you begin dating a broke man. 😂🤣 No, lies told. Im telling you. You ain't doing God's work. Who's mama is this?! " YOU'LL BE BECOMING BROKE" perio'dt.
people should be with others who earn the same amount. guys should not date broke women either.
This wasn't about about guys it was about women not dealing with brokies 😂
The video is about women dating broke men you sound defensive.Men claim to be the providers and they claim to like broke women thats why they go overseas to find underage foreign women😂
please someone quantify "not" broke. sometimes we talking but not about the same thing.Are 50% of women talking about 2% of the population. Im tryna make my own money😂, maybe I'm lazy.
This makes me very angry because I had to deal with this hate when I was broke. It makes me very sad to see black women do this when there is so much poverty in that community. I currently have a job and my own place and I have no interest in dating women like this...none. A bunch of losers who are looking for a pay day not a lover. No thanks.
That's the problem with men who can't provide. They hallucinate that being able to provide their wife or girlfriend with an uber ride or nice date where she isn't paying for everything is the woman "looking for a payday". Interestingly, these same men suffering from broke man delusions still want to have sexy time with a beautiful woman they can't afford to do anything with and for except provide eggplant. Get your money up😊
The reason so much poverty is in the BC is because men mooch off if the women and leave the women to provide for 80% of the households. And then BLK men brag about making more money than the women while doing nothing to alleviate the poverty in homes headed by women that they created. Shameful.
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Thank you 😊 for watching
Ok people, eat first, then make the TikTok. The smacking is distracting.
11:38 😂😂😂😂😂
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