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  • Meet toxic girlfriend. She likes to make her boyfriend cry. She sees no problem with her behavior. Years of not bearing responsibility for her actions shaped her strange personality. Everyone knows her, everyone warned you about her. Despite this, you are with her. You feel that this relationship is slowly destroying you but you cannot imagine your life without her.
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  • @anapple.4338
    @anapple.4338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9857

    I’ve never had a toxic relationship, I’ve never been in a relationship

    • @sami_got_vibes
      @sami_got_vibes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +352

      same shit, 24 now. Hope i never get in a relationship. And even if, i hope we get married afterwards

    • @migosdownthetrack938
      @migosdownthetrack938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Tuff.

    • @thinkmarkthink7963
      @thinkmarkthink7963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@sami_got_vibes im sorry...

    • @krispy_kornflake
      @krispy_kornflake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@sami_got_vibes based robot
      same

    • @dudeguyrockfan
      @dudeguyrockfan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@sami_got_vibes trust me man it's un fun 2 of my 3 relationships were toxic. Hooked me in with sex and kind words then after a month mooched off me for everything and if I said no she told her "friends" other guys she was sending nudes to we broke up and she's with them now just to buy her stuff (a lot of these guys were in a whole other state she would never go to)

  • @thegaspoweredjohnnyjohn3972
    @thegaspoweredjohnnyjohn3972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24567

    Ohh, so if she sits on some dude's lap, it's called, just "toxic"
    But when I do it, they call me "gay"

    • @satan1189
      @satan1189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2075

      We live in a society

    • @ferhadilmyzat6028
      @ferhadilmyzat6028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +361

      Hahahahaha

    • @Bambim8
      @Bambim8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +512

      Gamer moment

    • @Ashraf-Hrira
      @Ashraf-Hrira 3 ปีที่แล้ว +292

      Ah, a fellow gamer.

    • @pedroelias9633
      @pedroelias9633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +192

      Ahahahaha man, I would love to buy you a beer (I'm straight BTW)

  • @ivanleech8499
    @ivanleech8499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7434

    This is terrifyingly accurate, even the way she looks

    • @officialchickenn
      @officialchickenn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      😂😂

    • @rol5038
      @rol5038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Same here wtf

    • @kennedy473
      @kennedy473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      We just need to know if she takes bath.

    • @frankleh9841
      @frankleh9841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That beginning is anything but accurate lol

    • @the_wooly_badger6801
      @the_wooly_badger6801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It is

  • @KDizzy6
    @KDizzy6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2907

    "I'm a bad girlfriend" isn't an acknowledgement of poor behavior. It's bait to see if you'll disagree with her.

    • @larsswig912
      @larsswig912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +185

      my ex used to do this all the time. "I'm a horrible person, I don't deserve you." after we broke up, I woke up and thought why the hell he kept saying that when he wasn't even willing to change. he wanted me to tell him no, hes a good person (which I did), or maybe he wanted me to settle for the piece of crap he really was.
      I was in love with a version of him I made up in my head, a version that actually respected me as a person and wasn't manipulative, and selfish. the illusion was shattered. I got over him pretty quickly because of that.

    • @hugolc8351
      @hugolc8351 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@larsswig912 i live that now... I can relate all of what you said...

    • @milvilleromain57
      @milvilleromain57 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I like the infamous variation of this : "one day, you will break up with me to go with another woman because you love me less than I love you"
      2 birds 1 stone as you end up telling her that she's wrong so get the validation she wanted but she also has an excuse to separate you from your female friends

    • @lucialight2002
      @lucialight2002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      When I was a shitty teenager I used to do shit like that but my BF wasn't like "oh no babe you're fine" he was like "Yeah that was pretty shitty" and it really helped me grow, it stung but I needed that and we're still together after 4 years. We criticize each other but never gave up, I feel like a lot of my old friends needed this but couldn't take it.

    • @lab_leo8
      @lab_leo8 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      (This doesnt imply to all girls btw)
      Girl tactics to see what you believe about them:
      -asking obvious and idiotic questions
      -faking shit
      -saying things that are very idiotic
      What girls do after none of these work:
      -cry
      -cry
      -*cry*

  • @jacobwelling1100
    @jacobwelling1100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12671

    The scariest part isn't the abuse itself, it's how she acts like she recognizes it and wants to change afterwards to rope him back in.

    • @manthisjarisbroke9273
      @manthisjarisbroke9273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      This

    • @yagorbelfor9133
      @yagorbelfor9133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +266

      A parasite...

    • @Lily-gz3ip
      @Lily-gz3ip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@yagorbelfor9133 🦆

    • @Rekovnii
      @Rekovnii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +267

      Exactly, once you start recognising and calling out their abuse they say they will change but it always continues.

    • @jesusfchrist8479
      @jesusfchrist8479 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      The push pull game was super effective on me. But i also had kids I was trying to be there for. Makes it alot harder to just leave.... Be careful fellas. Dont let yourselves be trapped.

  • @MillenniaThinker
    @MillenniaThinker  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7406

    She is drunk at every party ✅
    She does not answer calls from You when she go out with her girlfriends ✅
    She is 20+ years old and mentally behaves like a child ✅
    Her ex is your best friend from elementary school ✅
    It is never her fault ✅
    What did I missed?

    • @Insky_
      @Insky_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +544

      she doesn't exists

    • @pretzel4805
      @pretzel4805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +662

      She doesnt show much affection

    • @serbianbro5322
      @serbianbro5322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +735

      She's a femminist

    • @aaravsingh3027
      @aaravsingh3027 4 ปีที่แล้ว +224

      Sheeeeeee iiiiiiiiiissssss aaaaaaaaaaaa badddddddddd girl.

    • @canaldecasta
      @canaldecasta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      dad is mean

  • @cascadecruiser101
    @cascadecruiser101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12301

    I convinced myself she wasn't abusive, and that I loved her. I don't think I'd still be alive if we stayed together.

    • @GSCSTRYDER
      @GSCSTRYDER 3 ปีที่แล้ว +503

      Me too. Mine tried to actually kill me.

    • @user-xr6gx3mk8b
      @user-xr6gx3mk8b 3 ปีที่แล้ว +400

      @@GSCSTRYDER damn you should probably report her to the police then

    • @GSCSTRYDER
      @GSCSTRYDER 3 ปีที่แล้ว +384

      @@user-xr6gx3mk8b did but the case was dropped after I kicked her out my apt

    • @henrykwieniawski7233
      @henrykwieniawski7233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +243

      @@GSCSTRYDER Damn. Don’t worry, karma will catch up to her soon enough. It did for my emotionally abusive ex and it’s sweet

    • @DrMan-nh3bg
      @DrMan-nh3bg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@henrykwieniawski7233 what happened to your ex brutha?

  • @schwarg
    @schwarg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1199

    My girlfriend of 7 years started acting like this about 5 years in. Was too hard to fathom cutting her loose, but the psychological torture of seeing this pattern over and over became too great. If I was to begin having respect for myself, I couldn't continue to tolerate her disrespect towards me. That was 4 years ago and I haven't dated anyone since, but I'm okay with it. Lonliness is much easier to emotionally withstand than that kind of abuse.

    • @larsswig912
      @larsswig912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      damn, 5 whole years... I don't blame you for not being able trust anyone again. I wouldn't either

    • @aryansharma2237
      @aryansharma2237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dodged a bullet right there

    • @laneboys3492
      @laneboys3492 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      They’ll promise to change and actually do so for about a month. Get your hopes up and then go back to their old ways. A vicious cycle I had to escape from as well.

    • @lifelyricsnofansub
      @lifelyricsnofansub 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Take the blackpill

    • @Eargesplitten-Loudenboomer
      @Eargesplitten-Loudenboomer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Mine of 6 started after 4 to 5, then I walked in on her messing around with another guy. Also 4 years ago and haven't dated since.

  • @Joe-my6go
    @Joe-my6go 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6768

    "my boyfriend won't let me stay at my ex's house for a week. i don't know how much more of this toxic relationship i can take"

    • @mrnnann
      @mrnnann 3 ปีที่แล้ว +503

      my INSECURE boyfriend. They love to use that fucking word. Feminism is a C888r

    • @Joe-my6go
      @Joe-my6go 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@mrnnann yeah

    • @nocturnaljoe9543
      @nocturnaljoe9543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@mrnnann true

    • @lhvy5066
      @lhvy5066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@mrnnann this is why yall get cheated on lmao

    • @kingt7987
      @kingt7987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +192

      @@lhvy5066 U re either trolling and baiting or you are serious.In case you are serious you are a pathethic miserable unhappy wreck of a person.

  • @ElectronNDubstep
    @ElectronNDubstep 4 ปีที่แล้ว +585

    There's only one thing positive about toxic girlfriends: They teach you how to break up and how to go through with it.

    • @GeneralChangFromDanang
      @GeneralChangFromDanang 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      And what to look out for in the future.

    • @ElectronNDubstep
      @ElectronNDubstep 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@GeneralChangFromDanang true but even then some women are master actresses.

    • @thatsveryverysweetofyou9023
      @thatsveryverysweetofyou9023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ElectronNDubstep I think this is something you can learn on foot; I kind of realize that there are patterns to her, just as we are watching the patterns in this video. The patterns may vary, but nonetheless: you're experiencing as you go. Getting a little creative of the possibilities and investigate; at the end of the day, you just have to trust your gut.

    • @ElectronNDubstep
      @ElectronNDubstep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@thatsveryverysweetofyou9023 totally a thing I learned. When your gut tells you something 90% of the time it's true. Everything else can be allotted to doubt.

    • @Walamonga1313
      @Walamonga1313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They teach you how relationships are too much of a gamble

  • @RoliRuli
    @RoliRuli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3345

    actually, this is the type of girlfriend that you learn a lesson from. after that relationship is gone, you will be guaranteed not to let anyone treat you like that, and you will find a MUCH better girlfriend afterward. I'm telling you this because I went through that. its gonna be all good kings.

    • @thorfaxx6027
      @thorfaxx6027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      True, it's actually a good thing girls like this exist, you learn what to avoid in the future.

    • @GSCSTRYDER
      @GSCSTRYDER 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      For real bro. This video is my ex and my shitty toxic relationship. I know what not to look for now

    • @NIIVES
      @NIIVES 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This is the truest truth I've read in a while. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @grendelkrieg5742
      @grendelkrieg5742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@DrLimeGreen You will. I thought the same thing after my Ex attempted to stab me and I finally snapped out of my own insecurities and sent her packing. It just takes time and a woman who will help and listen to you just as much as you do them. Look for Compromise and care. But never forget the signs of toxicity

    • @FBFTheRagingWarrior
      @FBFTheRagingWarrior 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I literally went trough the same thing this guy went trough on this animation.

  • @The2984
    @The2984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    If my gf sat on her ex's lap, she would've ended the relationship without a word needed to be said. Period.

    • @kacperzimowski4626
      @kacperzimowski4626 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      for polish girlfriends this is not so obvious... they would just tell you that you have "jealousy issues" and you need to work on yourself

  • @kasp9290
    @kasp9290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2274

    toxic girlfriend: *dies of intoxication*

    • @brenomordida
      @brenomordida 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hmmmm

    • @onemoregodrejected9369
      @onemoregodrejected9369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Well, shit, that makes sense in more than one meaning.
      Be either drug abuse or that lost control over life, both are poison.

    • @YaowBucketHEAD
      @YaowBucketHEAD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Good riddance.

    • @TaurenTLT
      @TaurenTLT 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good

    • @hamzahargrave2410
      @hamzahargrave2410 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That'd be nice

  • @Gaphalor
    @Gaphalor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4028

    This is literally my little sister... i tried to warn her boyfriend but he didnt want to listen.. now she took over his friend cycle, dumped him and sleeps with his best friend... I feel bad for this guy, i think ill invite him for a drink!

    • @rikai5344
      @rikai5344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      What did he say? Did you do it? I'm genuinely curious!

    • @Gaphalor
      @Gaphalor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +561

      @@rikai5344 no, he moved to another city and is studiing there now, i think he is doing alright and he moved on so i dont want to remember him of that and leave him alone.

    • @rikai5344
      @rikai5344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      @@Gaphalor Alright man, makes sense. Thanks for responding :)

    • @richardevans8908
      @richardevans8908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      You’re a good man, respect brother

    • @fellipedasilva99
      @fellipedasilva99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      Damn, you should tell your sister to stop being toxic. She’s going to end up alone and unhappy if she doesn’t change.

  • @druidicnorse9
    @druidicnorse9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3632

    "I know a lot of people"
    That's deadly my dudes, stay away from that.

    • @SoccerClipzFinal
      @SoccerClipzFinal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

      I can confirm, stay away from this shit.

    • @Albus_Rex
      @Albus_Rex 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      I've only ever heard that line from single mothers.

    • @monster-tc1nz
      @monster-tc1nz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      That basically translates to "a lot of dudes hit on me but i think theyre just trying to be friends"

    • @imnobodyanon9430
      @imnobodyanon9430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Been with a tinder date like that, saw similar shit, bailed 10 minutes in.

    • @SoccerClipzFinal
      @SoccerClipzFinal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@monster-tc1nz man this is so true.

  • @tragictoast2956
    @tragictoast2956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    I’m so glad I have a loving and caring fiancé. Men, go and find a girl who loves you sacrificially, and go and love her the same back. Sacrificial love is how you keep your relationship together. You may not be perfect, but you both need to sacrifice to make the relationship work. Sacrifice your lust for other women, sacrifice your time, sacrifice your grumpy attitude, sacrifice your pity party… etc. love her how you want to be loved. Be a leader and serve her and your family. Lead by example and teach your kids how to be leaders people want to follow.

    • @brusineta
      @brusineta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Best comment on whole youtube! God bless your relationship and family, Toast!

    • @Chironex_Fleckeri
      @Chironex_Fleckeri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Legendary comment 🙌

    • @thirdworldneet923
      @thirdworldneet923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He's gonna get blackpilled hard

    • @Chironex_Fleckeri
      @Chironex_Fleckeri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@thirdworldneet923 Nah. Sometimes things really do work out. People get over wanting to fuck other people and realize they have a partner in life that they should never betray. It's rare but probably 10-15% of marriages are like this

    • @rodrigosalvez250
      @rodrigosalvez250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wisest man

  • @mrverminski7914
    @mrverminski7914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4485

    Just broke up from a toxic relationship. Don’t be scared to be single. It’s better to be single then to be unhappy every day. You’ll meet somebody one day that will love you for who you are. Stay strong, stay safe.

    • @crazysenko2770
      @crazysenko2770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Amen

    • @bleh6615
      @bleh6615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Bless

    • @anasselmansouri3956
      @anasselmansouri3956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Ppl be actually scared of being single? Lmao it's crazy how ppl became so stupid to actually "be afraid to be single" 😹😹

    • @evan12697
      @evan12697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      But I'm single AND unhappy every day

    • @anasselmansouri3956
      @anasselmansouri3956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@evan12697 because you convince urself that relationships make you happy, stop that u can make urself happy

  • @SlurryNoises
    @SlurryNoises 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2188

    When she never answers your calls/texts but is always on her phone when she's with you, maybe it's time to reflect on your relationship.

    • @christianthompson7876
      @christianthompson7876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      facts, my gf i swear to God is glued to her phone 24/7. Heaven forbid i call her when she's out.

    • @KiLLoRChiLLoR
      @KiLLoRChiLLoR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      @@christianthompson7876 Huge red flag. She is propably already lining up your replacement bro.
      You can test her by telling her you saw a funny game online, both partners switch phones for 2 hours, if she wont do it or need to go to toilet first (to delete stuff and so on) you know your worth to her.
      I wouldn't advise this normaly but to get full clarity, check her phone when she sleeps or is in the shower.
      I wish you the best bro.

    • @CosminPerisan
      @CosminPerisan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@KiLLoRChiLLoR she can hide stuff right under your nose. Be aware of that shit too.

    • @Senorrifas8188
      @Senorrifas8188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@christianthompson7876 that means you’re not her priority maybe it’s time to wrap it up

    • @urbanumbra6170
      @urbanumbra6170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@KiLLoRChiLLoR no one likes it when a woman checks a mans phone while they sleep.

  • @Relaxokay359
    @Relaxokay359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3343

    "You know that I love you"
    If I had a dollar after every time I heard that. I could afford therapy

    • @orange8420
      @orange8420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      'chad' classmate : i had already 6 girls do you ever had 1 haha
      Me : i will have 1 but our relationship live longer than the history of ussr

    • @ghostbusters....
      @ghostbusters.... 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@orange8420 chad status

    • @luisapaza317
      @luisapaza317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kinda sad

    • @zarathustrap2562
      @zarathustrap2562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@orange8420 you took the chad status from your classmate.

    • @shylilac7511
      @shylilac7511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Mooooney You should go by actions not words. If she actually tries she shouldn't have to say it out loud just when you say it back and forth.

  • @rainmanslim4611
    @rainmanslim4611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +495

    Used to date a girl like this.
    Had enough.
    Dumped her.
    Few months later she told me she wanted me back.
    She assumed i'd just say yes.
    I said no.
    She was mortified.

    • @jasongibson1225
      @jasongibson1225 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She doesn't love you, she loves the werewolves who haunt her believing they protect her.
      Oh they protect her, like a piece of meat. They hate (envy) gentleman who have her for any time. They'll rip him to shreds to ensure she never leaves their pack.
      They don't know love, and this is the closest they get. A piece of meat they rip to shreds daily.
      Don't follow her, all her paths lead to death.

    • @emiliajeanelle3286
      @emiliajeanelle3286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      She deserved it. Hope for the best. Just hold on. There is someone or something out there for you. It doesn't have to be a partner since it can come in different forms.

    • @Krishnarastogi_7
      @Krishnarastogi_7 ปีที่แล้ว

      king💪

    • @harleyspeedthrust4013
      @harleyspeedthrust4013 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      i did something similar. it took a couple tries to cut her loose but about two months ago i did it - i had started seeing someone new and i told the toxic girl that it was over for good. i told her we would never be friends out of respect for the new girl. she made a fuss, threw a tantrum, and since then has been bothering me. i had blocked her on everything and did not give her a lick of attention since she threw her tantrum - it feels good to be free of that mess and to be with someone who i can actually feel at peace with.

    • @Pro9pix
      @Pro9pix ปีที่แล้ว +1

      King 👑

  • @trees1922
    @trees1922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1322

    "i know a couple of guys"
    Words that not even satan will ever say

    • @johnbash-on-ger
      @johnbash-on-ger 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Satan is a male, duh!

    • @brilianairlangga1408
      @brilianairlangga1408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@johnbash-on-ger you are sexist dude

    • @SC4RLET_M4CAW
      @SC4RLET_M4CAW 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@brilianairlangga1408 how

    • @brilianairlangga1408
      @brilianairlangga1408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@SC4RLET_M4CAW devilwoman exist

    • @blacksage205
      @blacksage205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@johnbash-on-ger since when does satan has a gender hahahahaha! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, but I agree, not even satan itself would say that

  • @thedisturbingartist7224
    @thedisturbingartist7224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10789

    Loneliness is nothing compared to the daily agony of being emotionally dependent on someone like this.

    • @venexbot4120
      @venexbot4120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      This could be my ex. She was very manipulative and cheated several times in a Week.

    • @guragat2
      @guragat2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I'd die homeless

    • @davipenha
      @davipenha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      But the worst part is that if you just say "we're done" and leave her, you'll be the *toxic* one on her perspective and that's the way she'll tell the stories... You're screwed in the very moment you just met someone like this.

    • @radisha1745
      @radisha1745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +1

    • @Food4Cats
      @Food4Cats 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Loneliness is happiness compared to this

  • @totorofosho
    @totorofosho 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4046

    She isn't yours.
    It's just your turn.

    • @danielgorzel7222
      @danielgorzel7222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      deep and true.

    • @totorofosho
      @totorofosho 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      @@danielgorzel7222 It's an old MGTOW proverb.

    • @yanesrosenskrabe1724
      @yanesrosenskrabe1724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      HURRRRR
      “ShE IsN’t YoUr’S iS jUsT yOuR tUrN”
      If she left is because something happened... you learn, heal, move on and next time you should be more prepared to a new rs until you find someone who is worth while being with
      First of all, be a real MAN, have a job, take care of yourself and respect yourself (REGARDLESS OF WOMEN)
      Second of all, if you end up with a toxic relationship like that is entirely YOUR FAULT, you’re choosing to be with someone that is not good for you
      To complete my point,
      this saying means that girls don’t care about guys, but I know couples that have been together a lifetime
      Women love just like we do, having good relationships are a skill
      Men and women are NO DIFFERENT from each other,
      there are good girlfriends and bad girlfriends out there
      Just as There are good boyfriends and bad boyfriends out there too
      MGTOW is just sad
      My tip -
      Learn about Stoicism and become the best version of yourself

    • @mileschow5961
      @mileschow5961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Too true

    • @blacksage205
      @blacksage205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm good, next!

  • @rival4228
    @rival4228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    After revisiting this video after a whole year, i began to see parallels in roughly every aspect of this video to my own relationship. I was basically dating this woman. This video, along with the comments attached to it, gave me enough courage and willpower to finally break free. I ended my 10 month long relationship a hour after viewing this video. It’s now been roughly 20 hours since, and i feel awful but i know it’s going to look up. Thank You, Millennial Thinker.

    • @via7779
      @via7779 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hi. How are you doing now?

    • @rival4228
      @rival4228 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@via7779 hey! doing good now lol. took me awhile to move on but i finally did. things always get better broski.

    • @rival4228
      @rival4228 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Elf i encourage you to do it, it was the right call my friend.

    • @patchesthepirate5435
      @patchesthepirate5435 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@rival4228hope it's even better now a year later

  • @chknsoupcalypso2850
    @chknsoupcalypso2850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6165

    This guy genuinely has a fantastic grasp on human nature

    • @TheMV1992
      @TheMV1992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      That's what I was thinking as I watched this video

    • @dianef617
      @dianef617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      ... TH-cam keeps recommending them to me. The only one that’s realistic so far is the incel one. Ngl I see where he’s coming from, but it kinda,, has a lot of projecting, or misplaced blame sometimes. He needs to try to separate himself (his hurt, desires, etc) from his perceptions... These videos show more a mentality, than actual reality.... Lowkey a victim mentality tbh. It’s not easy tho, I don’t blame him, the world is shitty & extremely unfair. But the truth is, that doesn’t absolve u from the responsibility of working on yourself. To a certain extent, life **is** what you make of it...

    • @dianef617
      @dianef617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Avatar Ang There’s def women that r this toxic, I agree. In this video tho, it seems a bit exaggerated or one-sided (I say this cus I’ve noticed it’s a pattern in the videos, so it’s clear who the audience should sympathize with, or dislike). Idk I just think this perspective is very... limited.. Like were we supposed to agree with the doomer at the end when he got uncomfortable that the girl had slept with other people? 💀 Sorry but that part was just awkward. Like I know part of it is that the dude is kinda insecure too, so I guess it’s understandable he’ll doubt if she really cares about him?? But... damn dude that was so,, judgemental & questionable (I didn’t wanna say this, cus I know how it sounds, but it’s lowkey sexist 😅). Idk... there’s just a lot to work through here, lots of layers. Anyways, I genuinely hope ppl who relate can find peace & grow tho, the sadness is what I’ve taken most from this :(
      (Sorry for writing so much, this is just really interesting to think about haha)

    • @wylser
      @wylser 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@dianef617 Check the Toxic Boyfriend video and it's the same. It's showing the most common traits that such people use and applying them to one person for the maximum effect so I can't agree with your assessment of it being sexist or one-sided at all.

    • @ProjectUnsoundDineen
      @ProjectUnsoundDineen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nah this is text book grasp at most

  • @bigcreme4366
    @bigcreme4366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3178

    Scott Pilgrim Vs the World wasn't a romance movie, it was a dire warning.

    • @My_name_is_I.P._Freely
      @My_name_is_I.P._Freely 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      By God...You're right!

    • @Nomad-bl4yw
      @Nomad-bl4yw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      That movie was awful cringe couldn't watch after the girl slept with the guy for no reason

    • @boianko
      @boianko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +364

      I mean, both the leads are intentionally made to be shitty people, so I guess you're right.

    • @thedashey
      @thedashey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Nomad-bl4yw what girl was it again?

    • @MyNameisRevenant
      @MyNameisRevenant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It was always the second one.

  • @Kelvostrass
    @Kelvostrass 4 ปีที่แล้ว +675

    Attachment is not love - learn the difference - you'll agree with me.

    • @brandonb4742
      @brandonb4742 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks man

    • @unitedstatesirie7431
      @unitedstatesirie7431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      there is an interesting book I read in the late 1990's titled, 'THE SERPENT SEED" an interpretation about the book of Genesis in the HOLY BIBLE about Eve having sex with the fallen angel Satan.
      Watch the 1975 movie called 'THE WICKER MAN' scene where the police officer walks into the graveyard.
      Angels cannot have sex because they are spirit beings, but is it possible that a fallen angel can have sex with a human women if the fallen angel enters an animal such as a serpent snake.
      The serpent animals had legs at one time in history, but GOD cursed the serpent to crawl on it's stomach by removing it's legs because it tempted Eve to sin as written in the book of Genesis.
      How did Adam and Eve know they were naked ?
      Satan (speaking through the serpent) explained to them how to use the penis of Adam and vagina of Eve for sexual intercourse.
      The Satan serpent was in a tree and it's possible that the "fruit" that Eve and Adam "eat" was actually the sperm from the sex organ of the serpent entering the mouth & anus of Adam and the mouth and vigina of Eve.
      After that happened Adam and Eve inherited Satan's evil, sinful nature.
      Their bodies changed drastically after they "eat the forbidden fruit" offered by the serpent to age as time went by year after year and got sick. Then also their body parts broke down and they eventually died.
      Ever since their sin in the Garden of Eden all people on Earth have inherited the Satan flesh nature.
      Look at the sperm cells of men. The sperm cells look like small little snakes (serpents) !
      The HOLY BIBLE says, "Flesh and blood will not inherit the Kingdom of GOD."
      This is why we must be born again.... born again spiritually, because our Satan flesh nature bodies will not be allowed in Heaven to be with GOD.
      All people have inherited the Satan flesh nature from Adam and Eve because they listed to the lies of the fallen angel Satan.
      The LORD GOD KING JESUS will give born again Christians new bodies.
      "Long live the new flesh."
      ~ Quote, 1983 'VIDEODROME'
      It is interesting that a dragon is the main mascott of Communist China and is honored and worshiped by the Roman Catholic Vatican church in Rome, Italy.
      Read what the dragon (serpent) represents in the book of Revelation in the HOLY BIBLE. It represents the evil fallen angel Satan.
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    • @martins3885
      @martins3885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @A Miles that's not love, that's exploitation

    • @unitedstatesirie7431
      @unitedstatesirie7431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @A Miles what HOLY BIBLE version are you using ?

    • @unitedstatesirie7431
      @unitedstatesirie7431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @A Miles serpent snakes were not a threat to Adam and Eve until the evil fallen angel Satan possessed that snake serpent animal.
      GOD warned Adam and Eve what would happen if they disobeyed Him. GOD explained that they would die.
      They would die spiritually first, then later they would die physically.
      Most BIBLE versions are corrupt and not accurate.
      There is only two HOLY BIBLE versions that have NOT been corrupted.
      What Bible version do you read.

  • @quarthbutteryant6859
    @quarthbutteryant6859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Shit really changes you. I've matured alot from the relationship, the break up, and the aftermath. Lost everybody who I thought were my friends because they simp over her. Needless to say, I'm kind of glad I was in that relationship. If not, then I would still be a child.

  • @BryceTheRoman
    @BryceTheRoman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3452

    Why is this archetype so common? Society has doomed us

    • @eduardoa3165
      @eduardoa3165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +270

      i had a girl like this lasted 4 years, glad to say i ended it 3 years ago after i decide to start ignoring her and started giving dry responses to her texts... now i am just focusing on myself, i havent spoken to her in 3 years 😀

    • @AndriuDaHousecat
      @AndriuDaHousecat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +246

      Remember kids, if your gf can't let go her ex, had multiple short relationships in the past and manipulates you with fake love...
      Get away, you deserve better.

    • @kanseidorifto2430
      @kanseidorifto2430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@eduardoa3165 Congratulations, I'm sure there are many other guys like you who've had this situation, but good for you.

    • @InAnotherLife90
      @InAnotherLife90 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Around these people you may ask yourself, why do they have "girlfriends" and "boyfriends" when their clear end goal is just to fuck your girlfriend or boyfriend? Wouldn't it be better if they just lived their truth and admitted they all want to fuck each other? I mean what kind of person has time to just sit and talk to your girl for 3 hours at a campfire?

    • @vidiosconejimazul2643
      @vidiosconejimazul2643 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Algo q no es super rare card xd

  • @WildBandit300
    @WildBandit300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +796

    Some incel: "Well at least he has a gf"

    • @Coreisus
      @Coreisus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I mean.... it must be hard being an incel...

    • @ManLikeEddy
      @ManLikeEddy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      incel roast "well atleast i can find my place in society and don't creep up on women and scare them off"

    • @alexanderschubert9975
      @alexanderschubert9975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Gfs like that are literally worse than death.

    • @alexanderschubert9975
      @alexanderschubert9975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @George Bush :D yeah, I pretty much follow that pattern except for the SIM card thing. I just block them.

    • @donoto2457
      @donoto2457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hey i know that guy! its me!

  • @Abdul-sw5wi
    @Abdul-sw5wi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +585

    To some men, never be afraid of being alone.
    Just wanted to clarify, but if you want to get married go for it, find someone who’s worth it, cause you’ll probably want a family in the end but take. your. sweet. time. finding. the. right. one.

    • @bakadoge5565
      @bakadoge5565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      you don't know how much i needed to see this thanks brother

    • @ronindey8108
      @ronindey8108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@bakadoge5565 bro we should be strong forever the right person will come to you just need to wait .

    • @zephyr1741
      @zephyr1741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i stopped caring at some point and got My BF out of nowhere
      we've been together for a year :)

    • @rebusn1505
      @rebusn1505 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@zephyr1741 Congrats. When it happens, it happens, but no one should peddle a lie for others to hold on to.

    • @zephyr1741
      @zephyr1741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rebusn1505 absolutely

  • @TrickTails
    @TrickTails 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    That quote at the end hit hard. Even if the person isn't toxic, your relationship could still be toxic and unhealthy for you and your partner. Do not be afraid to change: it does not mean you don't love them any less, because you, in fact, love them enough to put an end to what would end up hurting you both.

  • @187onaPigeon
    @187onaPigeon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8636

    She is never yours, it's just your turn. If she knows everyone at a club, she's for the streets. Trust me, I am a nightclub photographer.

    • @Nope-en9bo
      @Nope-en9bo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1004

      From the streets she emerged and to the streets she will someday return.

    • @toetoegan8999
      @toetoegan8999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      #tb4l

    • @kisigma1102
      @kisigma1102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Facts bruh ahhahahahahha

    • @IlikePineApple123
      @IlikePineApple123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      187

    • @zeddy2284
      @zeddy2284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oj

  • @magnumbeans8030
    @magnumbeans8030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1373

    Gf broke up with me in October and she gets pissed with me when I don’t “try” to get back together with her

    • @monalisa-sg5ql
      @monalisa-sg5ql 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      lol man idk women mind is strange

    • @mysteryjunkie9808
      @mysteryjunkie9808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      Why fight for a lost cause

    • @pricklycats
      @pricklycats 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lol wut

    • @zeldaj7
      @zeldaj7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Thats so weird, dump her!! Thats not normal (from a girl)

    • @dindjarin8457
      @dindjarin8457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Hope you been staying strong. Toxic people is not the way. I have spoken

  • @moxifloxi
    @moxifloxi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11275

    these grow more and more depressing
    🤤🤤

    • @grizzofeu653
      @grizzofeu653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Well said Mox, well said.

    • @shodank9590
      @shodank9590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      You know, I love you Mox ~

    • @matthewbaez2723
      @matthewbaez2723 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Indeed my lord.

    • @doowooplayz8938
      @doowooplayz8938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Mox? what are you doing here?

    • @ShinyInk1
      @ShinyInk1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nice to see you here mox

  • @midnightswami5582
    @midnightswami5582 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i had a relationship like this a few months ago... She was always "not in the mood" to talk and everything... She would get mad at me for no reason and then come back saying "sorry i shouldn't disrespect you like that bla bla bla" (same shit from the video, she was doing it only for me to disagree with her and tell her how beautiful she is) After a few months of gaslighting i decided that it was enough and i left her... She was always saying she loved me but when i dumped her she didnt even try to stay, she just said "Take care, [my name]" and that was all... i guess i dodged years of unsatifaction, overthinking and anxiety

  • @jeranorton1252
    @jeranorton1252 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4924

    "If a guy cheats on a girl, they're awful. If a girl cheats on a guy, then the guy isn't giving her the support she needs"

    • @c4lic0
      @c4lic0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      I smell ✨incel✨

    • @jeranorton1252
      @jeranorton1252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +400

      @@c4lic0 I don't think the person who said that was, actually. Just stupid

    • @Micro13bk
      @Micro13bk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      @@jeranorton1252 As much as I hate the word "simp", I think it suits that quote

    • @saulesalejos4483
      @saulesalejos4483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +426

      Cool I have another quote.
      "If a girl has sex with manny men, She is called a Hoe...
      If a man does it...
      He gay Lol"

    • @prettz9742
      @prettz9742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      @@c4lic0 that's some lazy logic you have there.

  • @Yubey934
    @Yubey934 4 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    met too many chicks like this lol, this is too real

  • @directrulefromgamerchair3947
    @directrulefromgamerchair3947 4 ปีที่แล้ว +765

    By the emperor... Brother-Captain Maximus get the heavy flamer.

  • @ntrooper06
    @ntrooper06 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was in a relationship like this, she dated many people and is even dating someone else now but tries to get with me again by saying that I was “Her first true love.” I keep rejecting her now and even try to make as little to no contact with her ever. Before I used to cave in and get back with her out of fear that she might make up a fake story about me saying that I did something bad to her or something in order to ruin my life, I am okay now and don’t fear that as much, for the people who are in these relationships, do not be afraid to leave, you will find someone better and it will get better. I’ve been there and you are not alone.

    • @ghostmetal6251
      @ghostmetal6251 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro, same. I fear the same f thing. But thank god I discovered stoicism. Makes me happy to know that I'm not the only one fearing that

  • @sweetdrom8640
    @sweetdrom8640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1531

    my best friend had a girlfriend like this. She made me fight with him and we didn't speak for basically 2 years, simply because she didn't want to... after a lot of toxic relationship, she cheated on him and he got really depressed, but finally broke up with her. We came back to our friendship and now he's dating a nice, supportive and respectful girl. So, to all the dudes who had a toxic girlfriend and gave up of love: _don't_ do that. It is what she wants - to destroy you. But you're better than that!
    Also, if she makes you cry a lot and feel bad: listen to your family and your friends. They truly love you and want the best for you. Take their advices and *don't* isolate yourself. You'll get through this!
    (Sorry for any english mistake and have a nice day!)

    • @akhtaruzzamanjoy8524
      @akhtaruzzamanjoy8524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Thank you dude. I had a relationship with a toxic narcissistic girl for 5 years. But now I get a really supportive, nice girl.

    • @chimmychanga1138
      @chimmychanga1138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Yea but keep an eye on your "friends" also, lotta two faced ppl out there

    • @christinakttn9692
      @christinakttn9692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww I wish your friend the best

    • @Ozzie_Mandias
      @Ozzie_Mandias 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here. TBH I envy one best friend from my childhood who got the girl we all wanted and he won. He is an a relationship where they adore each other more and more, they have not been married, but lived with each other for about 13 years now and have a few kids.

    • @koreannaturalfarmingcorp1120
      @koreannaturalfarmingcorp1120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      is your name Marko?

  • @crimson19
    @crimson19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7999

    Man i hardly see anyone talking about toxic girlfriends, because people think this kind of behavior is okay coming from girls
    EDIT: I'm considering deleting this comment. I'm tired of these replies.
    EDIT2: Okay, i won't delete it, but ya'll better behave.

    • @brokemono
      @brokemono 4 ปีที่แล้ว +261

      It's fine. People go through this shit daily, it's necessary for some people so they find way better partners in the future.

    • @SkygerbyGameplays
      @SkygerbyGameplays 4 ปีที่แล้ว +237

      Sadly this is the reality for when zoomers grow up.

    • @BruceLee-zj5jf
      @BruceLee-zj5jf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Exactly

    • @gottoll4329
      @gottoll4329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Fr tho

    • @whOmega_lol
      @whOmega_lol 4 ปีที่แล้ว +190

      They either think the behavior is justified in some way or they outright deny the claim. Had it happen to me for so long, i became so numb that i didnt realise i was still dating her. Besides, the reason no one talks about it is cuz its shrouded in self doubt and jealousy when they shouldnt be factors at all. And yet you can't talk bad about wahmen cuz they do no wrong lmao, even when they cause psychological trauma.

  • @andrew66769
    @andrew66769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +474

    Kings, if your gf or girl you're talking to has ANY single one of these characteristics, save yourself and abort asap. Do not let yourself get into the cycle of cope where even though you see the signs, she's just "different" so it doesn't apply to her. None of them are different, it always applies to them.

    • @Hekinsieden
      @Hekinsieden 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This comment is a bit extreme.

    • @alexanderschubert9975
      @alexanderschubert9975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      This comment is gold.

    • @pokeman5000
      @pokeman5000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This. A woman like this or even close to this (so over 50%) before the age of 30 WILL cheat on you. Unless you are a literal god over 6 foot, over 6 figures, over 6 inches, and handsome/buff she will not suppress her hypergamy. But even that isn't a guarantee, she'll only consider it because she thinks she might not find better. But more often than not a young woman will cheat just for the fun of it, especially if her and her friends love partying.
      And if you are all that why the hell are you with a girl like this? Go bang some rich mans daughter at a yacht club and leave these broke bitches alone.

    • @Hambo325
      @Hambo325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Mr.Snifles sneaking into a party implies you're not invited

    • @lexrogan2207
      @lexrogan2207 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen brother

  • @t.m.5004
    @t.m.5004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I once met a girl in the club and i brought her to my room after 1 hour. She did the kinkiest, naughtiest and dirtiest things i won't even explain which ones, then the day after she contacted me saying that she has a boyfriend and that she was drunk. Moral of the story Never ever trust a toxic girlfriend, especially the ones who like partying.

    • @windows96-formerchannel3
      @windows96-formerchannel3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Keep fantasizing bro

    • @jamaicanball6285
      @jamaicanball6285 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@windows96-formerchannel3 damn 😂

    • @yoba867
      @yoba867 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@windows96-formerchannel3 In younger years I was dumb enough to look for gf in the clubs (yeah-yeah, whatever). I've been told "uuh I was drunk and actually have a boyfriend" more than I'd like to remember. Highest priority in the partner after this streak became not liking to party.

    • @moresarmsmorearms6380
      @moresarmsmorearms6380 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@windows96-formerchannel3 Lmaoo

    • @JustSomeKittenwithaGun
      @JustSomeKittenwithaGun 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@windows96-formerchannel3 Chad exists whether you wanna believe or not

  • @NVDuster
    @NVDuster 4 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    I have an ex like this, we had a baby at 19 and now I'm 3 years into being a single dad, its great honestly and I'm glad she's not influencing either of us. Not only that but I met a girl who's already in love with me and my son.
    Remember, things can get really really dark and depressing, but hang on, there is hope sometimes. There is always something to live and look forward to.

    • @DeadNoob451
      @DeadNoob451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Best of luck to you three.

    • @thatsveryverysweetofyou9023
      @thatsveryverysweetofyou9023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope to hear that you are doing well! Have a good life!

    • @hans8087
      @hans8087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      To me, the concept of hope is fucking dead, but still I wish you good luck

    • @srtviper2011
      @srtviper2011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Father at 19? Talk about a horror story.

    • @samuelmartens9390
      @samuelmartens9390 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DeadNoob451 I hope you go far

  • @eduardoa3165
    @eduardoa3165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +918

    if she still talks to her exes that is a sign you should probably get out and run.

    • @dawnwatching6382
      @dawnwatching6382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      yeah

    • @rodrigovaccari7547
      @rodrigovaccari7547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Absolutely.

    • @infamousdeku3594
      @infamousdeku3594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly

    • @Nepheliad1
      @Nepheliad1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I think if she still hangs out with her ex in a group of people or every once in awhile thats fine. I still talk to one of my ex girlfriends because we have similar interests so we're friends, and there are no feelings there anymore. You can easily tell if a girl is talking to a lot of her exes for emotional dependence or if she's simply friends with one or two of them.

    • @frankvalentich5410
      @frankvalentich5410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Depends. If she can still be friends with her exes, that's a sign of maturity. If she's still flirting with/making moves on her exes while she's with you, *run*

  • @AndresBruh
    @AndresBruh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    MillenniaThinker you are smart.
    no like for real you are smart

    • @joejingojack
      @joejingojack 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hi friend.

    • @RicardoBubel
      @RicardoBubel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      hes a philosopher

    • @sudeeptasukhi5436
      @sudeeptasukhi5436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I would say he is an observer

    • @shartwarrior
      @shartwarrior 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      millennia thinker is like my everyday teach
      it helps me become a better person than before

    • @coolboyslim1847
      @coolboyslim1847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      A shitposting Socrates

  • @CarlinHerbert
    @CarlinHerbert 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    One thing a women can’t stand after a break up or in general. Is success. Get on that grind. Love ya all.

    • @Cryptokat
      @Cryptokat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So True!

    • @JustSomeKittenwithaGun
      @JustSomeKittenwithaGun 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That is just completely wrong. Men tend to be offended when women earn more than them. Women obviously would praise this because they aren't petty without reason, and they see what is a man's could also be theirs. That is why they come crawling back.

  • @MoistCrumpet
    @MoistCrumpet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +650

    Him: You were sitting on some guy’s lap.
    Her: He’s my ex, so it’s okay.
    Okay, that definitely sounds logical.

    • @orctrihar
      @orctrihar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Before knowing it was her ex, I though I was a little excessive
      Logic like that ?

  • @lightyagami8377
    @lightyagami8377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4876

    You know she’s toxic if she never accepts she’s in the wrong......Wait that’s every women

    • @orangepekoe5243
      @orangepekoe5243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      The British Empire was able to beat western civilisation into Africans, Asians, and West Indians. Those same methods can be applied to her.

    • @ari3903
      @ari3903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@orangepekoe5243 Join the club, we've got jackets

    • @orangepekoe5243
      @orangepekoe5243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      PericIesI you’re lucky that it’s cold as heck here in Pennsylvania

    • @williamjames7293
      @williamjames7293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      So basically every women? got it

    • @aleksandere9441
      @aleksandere9441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      if light yagami is calling someone out for being narcissistic maybe it’s time to listen

  • @VoidplayLP
    @VoidplayLP 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1523

    "You don't own me, I can do whatever I want"
    1.yes, but you cant expect me to stay around if you act like that.
    2.youre in a relationship, you shouldn't even want this in the first place.

    • @Must_Do_Better
      @Must_Do_Better 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Had this conversation word for word

    • @ryanbrown4053
      @ryanbrown4053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Amen. They always go for the "you're so controlling" bullshit

    • @dhruvrai2170
      @dhruvrai2170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Ikr..its always better to cut that shit off.. Let her enjoy her freedom

    • @zarathustrap2562
      @zarathustrap2562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Neo feminism tells women that they should be entirely free with their sexuality and not allow anyone especially MEN to put restrictions on them. "sexual liberation, my body my choice blabla" these type of women will be more and more frequent.
      Men are also at fault, these type of women are easily noticeable but men fall for them because all they want is sex.

    • @njay6494
      @njay6494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@zarathustrap2562 or most of the time, the women had great influence from social media and friends

  • @NexurentMusic
    @NexurentMusic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That end quote was so relatable. I was with my girlfriend for almost two years and I was deep in - I was holding on because of how long we'd been together. She hung out with guys without me, went clubbing without me, and I told her I didn't like it, but she said, "It's fine, it's not like I'll do anything". But the time came and she let go herself.

  • @LucasPolishGuy
    @LucasPolishGuy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    The lonely one offers his hand too quickly to whomever he encounters.

  • @SeanstonVA
    @SeanstonVA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +522

    This... this is exactly what my ex put me through. Her trying to turn everyone I knew against me as she wanted to get away with running off with another guy has been one of the most painful and traumatizing things I've experienced throughout my whole life. It hurt like hell, she made fun of me for breaking down as she lied about me to everyone, online friends, real life friends and even family. If it wasn't for the aforementioned friends knowing I'm not like the person she made me look like I wouldn't know where I'd be.
    People like Toxic Girlfriend, people like my ex, they're users. When you're afraid of saying the simplest of things to your significant other, in fear of them hurting you as a consequence, then leave them. I know it's hard man, I know it hurts to even think about your life without them.
    But do this for yourself.

    • @akhtaruzzamanjoy8524
      @akhtaruzzamanjoy8524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It just like, I am reading my whole previous relationship. I was so into fear that I couldn't even laugh cause she hated my laugh or simple life.

    • @Thesavagesouls
      @Thesavagesouls 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow, I hope things turned well for you after all of this.

    • @clipaqua8848
      @clipaqua8848 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Needed to hear this about my ex bf

    • @GSCSTRYDER
      @GSCSTRYDER 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Been there my g. Over it. But I snapped and had a mental breakdown after she destroyed my friendships and relationships with people. She manipulated me and then ran off with someone else.

    • @keanuneocordero3310
      @keanuneocordero3310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      carry on KING

  • @kanauso3706
    @kanauso3706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    They're the type to want an open relationship, but you're not allowed to see anyone else.

  • @stanleyiswatchinn
    @stanleyiswatchinn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video gave me goosebumps and remembered me of my first girlfriend.
    The last sentence in the video describes it perfectly „When the fear of change is so great that it keeps us in the same place“.
    If anyone have this relationship rn hear me out bro you’re not alone, it will hurt for a long while but you’re free then, just end it.

  • @xmen123ist
    @xmen123ist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Simped for a girl just like this...
    At least I got it out of my system early in my life. Never again.

    • @SoccerClipzFinal
      @SoccerClipzFinal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Still in this situation but i cant seem to get out of it. Any suggestions? I know what type of girl my girlfriend is, and she is so much in love with me that she presented me her family and friends etc. I got to know what she did in the past (a lot of casual lovers) and in quarantine i got really depressed. I came out of this situation very slowly and i think i still love her, but i'm scared that this is just due to the fear of being alone again (she is my first gf).

    • @FeroxX_Gosu
      @FeroxX_Gosu 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me2 bro

    • @JacobsTrash
      @JacobsTrash 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@SoccerClipzFinal If she has an extensive sexual past it shouldn't bother you so long as she's currently faithful to you. If you can't get over that fact leave her and tell her why you can't be with her. Don't waste each other's time, you both deserve better.

    • @xmen123ist
      @xmen123ist 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SoccerClipzFinal I never dated the chick I mentioned, just simped like a 'tard. I have, however, dated one person who was willing to share their past, so to speak, so I can try to throw in my two cents.
      What the other two are saying is right, as long as she's *currently* faithful to you and hasn't shown any red flags, you should be in the green. I can get why it's really irksome, but if she isn't giving off any bad vibes, there shouldn't be anything to really worry about.
      If it's really bothering you now, or you can't trust her, it probably won't get better as time goes on. You might need to just cut your losses now and tell her why; It'll suck absolute ass, but it's common decency to be that transparent about shit, like how you'd want her to be.

    • @sergoz123
      @sergoz123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If she's your first, the chances that you *think* you love her increase thousandfold. Happened to me, happened to millions if not billions of others in the past. The first lover, especially if she is hot, gets engraved into your mind as if with a fucking branding iron, man. Especially if you've had a hard time with girls when younger and are like 21ish.
      I did not have sex until I was 21 and had it with a 27 year old. Older, smoking hot and probably one of the cutest girls I've met. She was my first but was at least 50% like the girl in the video. She lead me on, then told me it won't work. But then when she saw that I fell in love she proceeded to use the fuck out of that, while also being depressed about her ex. I knew what was, going on, yet I simped the everloving fuck out of my health and bank account for her. Of course, it was my fault. But it just goes to show that some people will see how they're making you feel like absolute trash but still continue to emotionally milk you.
      Fuck that, dude, If she's not giving equal amounts of whatever you're giving her, LEAVE! Equal participation and care in a relationship is the NORM and anything else is COMPLETE BULLSHIT. No matter how she, your simp brain or any other factors may spin it up and make it out to look, it's false and NOT LOVE. Took me a couple of these to figure it out. But once you do, once you find someone that ACTUALLY feels the same way and is willing to give the same, you will see the difference.

  • @mastereppsreturns6586
    @mastereppsreturns6586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    Next time a girl is behaving in this common toxic way, I’ll message her by saying “I’m breaking up with you” followed by the link to this video

    • @AufWiedersehen550
      @AufWiedersehen550 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Genius

    • @jungleismasiv4426
      @jungleismasiv4426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Don't do it
      She'll make it look like you base your relationship wisdom around random meme channels, even when you don't
      It's just smart to not give her ammunition

  • @38Gaucho
    @38Gaucho 4 ปีที่แล้ว +474

    When a Bloomer's self-improvement lands him a cute gf but she turns out to be Toxic af and it turns him back into a Doomer and the cycle resets

    • @GeneralChangFromDanang
      @GeneralChangFromDanang 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Been there.

    • @mikeoxlong8738
      @mikeoxlong8738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me

    • @bconroy328
      @bconroy328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Right now in it i am trying to get out
      Update 10/13/20: Finally out of it 2 years gone but not forgotten

    • @el_kks_4361
      @el_kks_4361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@GeneralChangFromDanang how is it going holy fuck I think destiny has this for me.... I need advice

    • @pedroneto8015
      @pedroneto8015 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Been there, a true woman helped me to survive and accept myself. Mutual interest and respect is the key, if the weight tilts to only one side of the pendulum, it is wrong.

  • @AG26498
    @AG26498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Was in a relationship with a girl last year for about 8 months. We where doing great and even started talking about marriage. However it all went down hill after she became too possesive with me, making demands, telling that I should not text her now because her "friend" was coming. Eventually I got sick of her abuse and got out. A month or so later I discovered she got married. Then I realised she never was mine, it was just my turn. At first it did hurt but now I know I dodged a bullet.

    • @christiantaylor1495
      @christiantaylor1495 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      how is it abuse to say to not text her for a bit

    • @AG26498
      @AG26498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@christiantaylor1495 there where more things like gaslighting but I don't want to share those experiences. However, now that I look back at it I should be thankfull of her. I learned a lot about red flags within a relationship and how to avoid them.

  • @weenerdik
    @weenerdik 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Passing 3 years now since I’ve escaped this shit, I now have almost 20k in the bank and have plans to buy a house soon. Keep working on yourselves kings

    • @ilteschio8244
      @ilteschio8244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      a house with 20k? dude that's cheap, were do you live?

    • @johnbash-on-ger
      @johnbash-on-ger 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats!

    • @finkamain1621
      @finkamain1621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @ExSiZuGeSe Same thing in some places in Canada. Cheaper houses out of the city and very peaceful. If you want to go to the city, it's just a 20 minute drive. Beats paying an extra 200K over 30 years

    • @weenerdik
      @weenerdik 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      il Teschio Yeah I should have been clearer I’m gonna have to finance of course but I’m trying to make a bigger down payment than the minimal required around here which is as low as 3%

    • @DeadNoob451
      @DeadNoob451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Definitely 100% wait with that house buying plan.
      Prices right now are inflated as fuck. Dont buy into the bubble (unless you can afford to loose that money) and definitely dont buy into a bubble with loaned money.
      Bank will see your house is now worth less than the money you owe them, and they force you to pay everything at once or evict you. Same thing happened in '08 to a fuckton of people.
      Just wait a few years (and store that money in something crisis proof) and you will be able to get whatever house you want waaay cheaper instead of getting foreclosed on because shit hit the fan.

  • @psycholonya
    @psycholonya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3264

    Look, regardless of if you’re a man, woman, N-B, etc. never let your significant other treat you like this. I understand you might think it’s better than being alone, I thought that too, but I guarantee you it’s not. *If it’s hurting you it’s not good for you.* Please stay safe, and know that if no one else cares for you then at least know that I do.

    • @bluesolace9052
      @bluesolace9052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Yeah it doesn’t need to be a man or woman thing either no should be toxic like this or put up with this. Hopefully this video is an eye opener to people

    • @naydsoe27
      @naydsoe27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Alone does not equal lonely btw

    • @TheRoCastLive
      @TheRoCastLive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I wish I saw it sooner. I always thought that those toxic problems could be fixed. Nothing ever pleased her.

    • @Micro13bk
      @Micro13bk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@TheRoCastLive some people just don t wanna be fixed, they like being that way...
      I would much rather stay single than ever deal with someone who is this toxic

    • @CereDulce37
      @CereDulce37 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheRoCastLive damn ...

  • @_n_a-ez5pc
    @_n_a-ez5pc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1317

    The black lipstick and purple hair tells everything you need to know..

    • @--------352
      @--------352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Über daddy issues

    • @beastcarleeto707
      @beastcarleeto707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      What's wrong with having dyed hair?

    • @42venom25
      @42venom25 4 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      In nature, bright colors mean poisonous

    • @beastcarleeto707
      @beastcarleeto707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @Where did I leave my shekels? sure some want to "rebel" but theres nothing wrong with wanting to stand out because of dyed hair, it's a cool colour and if people like it they will put it on their hair

    • @cl5728
      @cl5728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@beastcarleeto707 Nothing wrong with the act itself, its just something a lot of toxic people do. Correlation without causation. It is a good sign that someone is toxic, while the act itself is not.

  • @charliepearce8767
    @charliepearce8767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    One of these killed my son with her poisonous treatment of his love for her.
    Im 60 and seen many of my friends growing up dying because of being treated like dirt at the hands of the woman they love including my father .
    So much media focus on how badly treated women are by men but never the other way around.

    • @JustSomeKittenwithaGun
      @JustSomeKittenwithaGun 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Because women are still to this day being mistreated more on average. But there need to be men who provide their perspective. They don't tend to get stuff like this moving nearly as well as women. Luckily though psychotic behaviour in a relationship can be gender indiscriminate for the most part.

  • @paullydeux2266
    @paullydeux2266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4106

    Whoooooooooooooop

    • @WGHpanic
      @WGHpanic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +202

      getting a gf is hard, but they forget just how great being single is, and how good it can be for someone.

    • @paullydeux2266
      @paullydeux2266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      @@WGHpanic being single for awhile,i have grown alot and im glad my reality isnt distorted or influenced by a toxic gf.still would like a gf,just not a toxic one

    • @WGHpanic
      @WGHpanic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      same, I myself have been through this also.
      All I can say is that if your girl is draining you, leave.

    • @stalhandske9649
      @stalhandske9649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      "[...] most _males_ would tolerate this [...]"
      FIFY. It runs against the very definition of "man" to tolerate this hag's behaviour for one second.

    • @casinoroyal93
      @casinoroyal93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      #betamales

  • @perheriita2723
    @perheriita2723 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Huh, never knew this was that "toxic". Been in a few relationships like this and always thought this is normal. Guess I am also easy to manipulate.

    • @noble14
      @noble14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It's a slippery slope

    • @PpPp-rn9ix
      @PpPp-rn9ix 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      You thought this is normal holy shit you need to gain more self respect dude. You have no idea how dangerous it can go, I'm serious.

    • @perheriita2723
      @perheriita2723 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@PpPp-rn9ix Yeh, BPD really does that to ya'.

    • @bluesolace9052
      @bluesolace9052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy you got out of there, don’t forget what you learned from the experiences. It’s important both partners are comfortable in the relationship

    • @Dashiellz
      @Dashiellz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      stay strong king

  • @aarenhogan8932
    @aarenhogan8932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +648

    Bold of you to assume any of us will get a girlfriend

    • @cx9882
      @cx9882 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Thats sad but accurate.

    • @staz3014
      @staz3014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I don't deserve one anyways.

    • @notfunny3397
      @notfunny3397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @UCrBg51osI2NkoON6GUnKxxQ nice cope

    • @hinglemccringleberry691
      @hinglemccringleberry691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Staz Charlie Blood you mean they don’t deserve you, king 👑

    • @--------352
      @--------352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@staz3014 bro, cope

  • @M4RCK5
    @M4RCK5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When she say "I love u" thinking thats what u need to hear, and u say "i love u too" bc thats what think u have to answer.
    In that moment u know that something died inside u, something changed and it will never be the same, when those words mean anything anymore.

  • @sigmundholt2313
    @sigmundholt2313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    “Nobody ever loved me the way you did, i should have never let you go.” Toxic GF the moment she hits 30

    • @sigmundholt2313
      @sigmundholt2313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      DW Washburn Yeah! All that smoking and drinking was already a deal breaker but was willing to try to work on. The other drama shit made the decision easier. She went from an 7-8 to curdled milk since I knew her.

  • @fluffypinkpandas
    @fluffypinkpandas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    At first I was like "huh maybe she is the protag of this story"
    And then that whole "I know a couple of guys here" really hit a certain way.
    Later on the "you know that I love you" forms a pit in your stomach.
    You wonder what love means anymore.

    • @blackachilles8745
      @blackachilles8745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not love, rather fucking joke. Best what you can get out of this relationship is basically sex (if all goes according to plan of course). Being cynical in relationships towards people, regardless of their gender is really, what makes you strong. Don't let this type of girl make you love her. Just push that meat in, feel happy for a moment, and move on.

    • @jimmyrustler9980
      @jimmyrustler9980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "Love" is thrown around like a curse word in the modern woman's vernacular. Their definition of "love" is mutual masturbation or a live-in ATM or a free therapist. It's been cheapened by music and the silver screen, but that's not surprising. The only true definition of love can come from a mature man who has love for his family, love for his profession, love for his people, and love for his God.

  • @dc4296
    @dc4296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1155

    Used to think I was a loser for never getting into serious relationships.
    Now I'm relieved af for never having to go through anything like this.

    • @rafaelmorenov6838
      @rafaelmorenov6838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      You are a winner men i almost cry seing this

    • @buzz3248
      @buzz3248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Deadaas. Im so fucking glad that im single

    • @ottosump3356
      @ottosump3356 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are a boss , I wish I'd done that and saved myself decades of grief.

    • @joedatius
      @joedatius 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I used to think this way honestly but once i was in a genuine happy relationship its hard not to realize how painful it is to be always lonely. It's like waking up and realizing the lack of happiness you had in your life

    • @buckbucker8020
      @buckbucker8020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@joedatius Come back in 10 years and tell me its still genuine. Willing to bet money it isn't.

  • @MegaMan-bs3oy
    @MegaMan-bs3oy ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Its scary how they say "sorry" just to justify their shit actions and then go. "WHAT I SAID SORRY". I sat a girl down and explained to her how i had been used badly in past relationships and how it really scared me to try again. legit days later she started the SAME behavior the ex showed 6 years earlier. She gets mad says stop comparing me to the ex. THEN she finally gets it after i spill my whole case...says sorry. Then later on that night goes right back to pretty much demanding things with zero realization. When she doesn't get it she pouts then pretends thats just her "messing with me or being silly". They are some evil wicked people out there. Do not let them take advantage of you HAVING a soul.

  • @dermeister1957
    @dermeister1957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +529

    "When the fear of changing is so great it keeps us in the same place."
    Maaaan, you've made me realize why I was so scared of breaking up with my gf, I did not wanted to go back to where I started, yet I didn't like where I was. Nice vid mate, cheers !

    • @dermeister1957
      @dermeister1957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Andrei Lacerda well, I guess it is common alright

  • @noah7972
    @noah7972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    I once slept with a girl who was exactly like this
    She cheated on her boyfriend and when I told him she said I "manipulated" her to do it.
    He told me how toxic she was and that she had borderline disorder
    She even cut her throat after I told him, just to manipulate him some more
    I tried to sway him to get out of the relationship, but he never listened and blocked me.
    They're engaged now, I feel bad for him

    • @iammeltedvengence1234
      @iammeltedvengence1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Ikr that shit makes me get mad when people see these red flags but still put up with it then
      look stupid when that red flag comes back and hit them in the face.

    • @rikai5344
      @rikai5344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      A business partner of mine is married to a woman like this. He knows he wants to leave but he can't. The toxic girl has taken everything from him. On the outside he looks fine, but on the inside, I wouldnt be surprised if he was suicidal.

    • @danielobrian5675
      @danielobrian5675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      she cut her throat but she was still alive?
      Well, they say evil doesn't die.

    • @bunnieskitties293
      @bunnieskitties293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@danielobrian5675Superficial cuts arent dangerous. I can cut myself across the wrist and just not go deep enough to hit something that'll squirt. You have to get pretty deep in the neck to hit anything meaningful.

    • @childofgod759
      @childofgod759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      i hope you know not everyone with borderline personality disorder is this bad :( lots of them would never do this but she sounds like pure evil, i hope he gets out or she changes... (I doubt she did tho)

  • @theaveragegamer1719
    @theaveragegamer1719 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1624

    Most of guys know in first two days only that their girlfriend is toxic but for having sex they keep on pushing, its our fault too.
    Edit: A real man should be able to control to his body and thoughts that is what leads to money and success, i am saying too much but this the harsh reality, leave the toxic girlfriend even your loved ones will leave you if you keep on simping.

    • @MeganeGuy
      @MeganeGuy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I mean if you talk to girl for only sex as you say, doesn't that mean you're taking the relationship easy?

    • @PossibleZ
      @PossibleZ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@MeganeGuy Yeah but then she isn't a girlfriend is she.

    • @CarecaRusso
      @CarecaRusso 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@MeganeGuy every man is acting like a puss slave that's the real problem in our simp society.

    • @MeganeGuy
      @MeganeGuy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@PossibleZ well on the paper she is. What I think about relationship as a whole is, there should be mutuality, like if one takes the relationship easy - no way the second is not doing the same. Otherwise it's horrible and toxic experience

    • @MeganeGuy
      @MeganeGuy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @Angie B females should keep going tho

  • @yucandui
    @yucandui ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This reminds me way too much to my ex. And I know that she was a really bad person, but even tho, I can't get over with it.
    I want to forget her. But I don't know how.
    And it hurts so much.
    "You are always jealous of everything".

  • @csguy3223
    @csguy3223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1248

    When a guy has poor social skills he’s a loser. When a girl has poor social skills it’s normal.

    • @karlhans6678
      @karlhans6678 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      this double standards exists

    • @michaelgunderson6185
      @michaelgunderson6185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      That's only a facade. Attractive men use women like this as a dick sleeve and then dump them. He actually isn't that different from her. He chose a partner for purely shallow reasons, and will suffer for it like she did. If he ever dates an ugly woman, he'll 100% treat her like shit, in the same way that she treats him. He chose to be with her. Is there any possible reason other than sex?

    • @oziku1816
      @oziku1816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Nah it all comes down to attractiveness, not gender

    • @cutecatsara123
      @cutecatsara123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      It's acceptable for a guy to pull off gross jokes, but if girls do it's suddenly awkward and gross. Shrug

    • @makutas-v261
      @makutas-v261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@cutecatsara123 Yes. (Gigachad.jpg)

  • @JUSTDOITdaily.
    @JUSTDOITdaily. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Don't let your dreams be dreams boys, *you can do better.* JUST DO IT!

    • @Tarik360
      @Tarik360 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks man.

    • @Terf1988
      @Terf1988 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Quantum Man The Photonic Mastermind! - JUST DO IT

  • @Shy-bi8xm
    @Shy-bi8xm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    I remember when my ex would drink and cut her wrists / thighs to send me pictures of it to hurt me. When I would beg her to stop, she'd say that all I was doing was hurting her and keeping her from being happy. I loved her and felt guilty for it because of her sending me those pictures and messages. She would then either forget about it ever happening or quickly apologize the next day. I stayed with her for a year until she left me for who I thought was a friend of ours she had introduced me to. I never even considered leaving her, I was head over heels for her and if anything was scared that if she was left alone she would go to further extremes. It's been multiple months since then and I genuinely don't know how I feel about getting into a relationship again as this was my first and only relationship.

    • @mikusanzein1126
      @mikusanzein1126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Damn dude, honestly her sending you those photos and blaming it on you is already a big red flag, because that's manipulation, guilt tripping you. Idk the full extent of your story but anyways, if she only did it once and genuinely apologizes for it, then ok but I still feel iffy about it, but if it happened multiple times, it's already a toxic behavior.
      Ok honestly I suck at comforting but I hope that one day someone will be able to make you feel loved and respected, that someone or people around you in general, WILL NOT make you feel the way your ex given you that kind of treatment. And sure love is selfless, making someone happy but before loving others, you should always love yourself first. And remember, that in any kind of relationships, both parties are giving and receiving love to one another.

    • @lbonts
      @lbonts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      well if it makes you feel better you’re very unlikely to find someone that crazy again, that’s next level

    • @sebastianvega3990
      @sebastianvega3990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      man i hope you are fine and just buy a good beer or even better buy for you and get a ps5 an buy bitcon i dont know something that will make you good .

    • @jarate5922
      @jarate5922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you were conditioned into a simp by society. At least it didn't end too bad

    • @kimochi5009
      @kimochi5009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s good that you got out of that

  • @mentkansleyunitedstatesgov6364
    @mentkansleyunitedstatesgov6364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My mom used to pull that "you know that I love you" after she'd beat me and my brother and blame us for her difficult life, I fucking despise that woman nowadays, I think I'd honestly be dead if my nan hadn't allowed me to move into hers so I could get away from that emotionally abusive self-pitying wreck of a woman (I dunno if it's also a thing but my mum flat out denies ever laying a finger on me or my brother as if it never happened like not in a way that she's just trying to seem like she didn't do but as if she truly believes she never did anything like that)

  • @Linkmon99
    @Linkmon99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2075

    3:37 🥴life bro🥴

    • @Zuberm1
      @Zuberm1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Hey look, it's rich lego man

    • @Kori8ei
      @Kori8ei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Hey look, it's rich lego man

    • @dek1948
      @dek1948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What are you doing here

    • @askwaiuskwlp8
      @askwaiuskwlp8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hi linkmon

    • @UnknownCartoonEditor
      @UnknownCartoonEditor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Don’t be a mediocre loser. Choose to grow and better your life.

  • @magic_arrow
    @magic_arrow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    My ex was exactly like that, she broke with me because I thought she was cheating on me, she made me feel like a bad person and all her friends hate me, and some weeks later I discovered that she was indeed cheating on me

    • @victoryawesomenessgaming5806
      @victoryawesomenessgaming5806 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      same with me bro
      u are not alone

    • @user-xr6gx3mk8b
      @user-xr6gx3mk8b 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did you get another girlfriend?

    • @magic_arrow
      @magic_arrow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@user-xr6gx3mk8b I did, and she´s waaay better because I dont feel obligated to be with her

    • @user-xr6gx3mk8b
      @user-xr6gx3mk8b 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@magic_arrow Congratulations man

  • @bionicle3890
    @bionicle3890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Her: why are you so jealous?
    Also her: recieving kinky compliments from all her FB friends

    • @alexanderschubert9975
      @alexanderschubert9975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Also her: replying to one of your compliments by saying "Oh, that's what one of those guys said too ^^ ."

    • @cargillmonteque2311
      @cargillmonteque2311 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Hellen Mek keyword is ALL that's not normal

  • @ChosenPlayer100
    @ChosenPlayer100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    2:30 bro i just laughed my ass off because i thought he was sitting in the fire

  • @acheronXcomplex
    @acheronXcomplex 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    This skit hits harder than most. Basically it’s a mirror image of my high school / college dating experience. You couldn’t script this shit to be more tailored to my past. It’s comforting to know other guys exist out there who had to put up with this too. Sorry lads.

  • @akky6527
    @akky6527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    This happened to me, i'm glad we broke up and that i'm with someone so much better than that.

    • @Sp1n1985
      @Sp1n1985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wish you good fortune on your journey

    • @akky6527
      @akky6527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much guys 😊

    • @Itachimangekyo
      @Itachimangekyo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm happy for you. You're a true king m8

    • @lum26akua28
      @lum26akua28 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @G. G.
      Jealous?

    • @lum26akua28
      @lum26akua28 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @G. G.
      But why, man?

  • @abhisyyyyrr5771
    @abhisyyyyrr5771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Bro I literally relate to this so much. It was nice to know my ex loved me, but aside from that: her sex addiction, her not accepting her wrongs, and being toxic overall was just too much. Finally cut it off, still in a bit of a drag. That being said, im doing better, and the similarities in this video were disturbingly accurate. Change is necessary if its for the better, don't be afraid of that stuff guys.

    • @abhiseknayak4164
      @abhiseknayak4164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      bhai ..hope you are doing well now!

  • @blackknightz5036
    @blackknightz5036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's never too late to walk away,the only person stopping you is yourself

  • @theindustrialrevolution5623
    @theindustrialrevolution5623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    This came right when I needed it the most. Fucking breakup had me drinking a bit much lately and the only things keeping me sane at the moment are my friends and videos like this one.
    Edit: Thank you all for the advice and the words of encouragement. Every single one of you is a true king and I hope that all of you are doing well today!

    • @DarkDFlame
      @DarkDFlame 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You will get over it eventually time heals wounds Anyways, wish you the best!

    • @Mii.2.0
      @Mii.2.0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Stay strong, man. There are billions of women out there. 🙂

    • @Mii.2.0
      @Mii.2.0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The best way to be happy is to move on, get over it, and *continue to succeed!* 😄

    • @theindustrialrevolution5623
      @theindustrialrevolution5623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@DarkDFlame thank you. Working out, camping, drinking whiskey and smoking cigars with friends aswell as nightwalks realy help me in such times. Gota focus on the important things in life, you know?

    • @Noeton
      @Noeton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@theindustrialrevolution5623 Same here, pal. We just gotta hang in there and fight through this whole thing. It has to get better at some point. Be strong, friend.

  • @ilikepancakes2368
    @ilikepancakes2368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    I actually had an ex girlfriend similar to this. It actually boggles my mind how women will accuse you of being controlling just for having boundaries. I remember catching my ex flirting with this guy at a bar, letting him kiss her cheek and on her neck. I confronted her about it and she just said how I was “controlling her” and that she could do whatever she wanted. That was five years ago. Thank God, I know better now.

    • @bunnieskitties293
      @bunnieskitties293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I think the hardest part of walking away form a girl like that is the protective instinct. You KNOW what will happen to her if she pursues that sort of guy, if she behaves that way. As a decent man you know exactly what the trashiest users and abusers will be like to her. How her life will spiral downhill.
      For me, I want so bad to help them see that the shallow entertainment is going to lead them to a deep fucking regret. But you just cant. There's no saving them from themself. At that point theyve already stopped respecting you and it just has to be accepted that they are wrong and you are not in a position to educate them or help them.
      Im glad you got out and got smart.

    • @agerestriction5888
      @agerestriction5888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bunnieskitties293 That's what her father should do

    • @stefbaws
      @stefbaws 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Every girl that says that she can do whatever she wants is a non committed person

    • @protalukoriginal4560
      @protalukoriginal4560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Women saying that they are free to do whatever they want. Yeah, destroying the self esteem and confidence of their partners

    • @ArshesNei8
      @ArshesNei8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bet she wanted your cell phone every waking hour to see what you were up to... Accountability is our kryptonite.

  • @groovymyers1354
    @groovymyers1354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +778

    Had a girlfriend for 2 years who was insanely possessive over me, and would get upset with me when I talked to this one girl who was in a few of my classes, yet I mostly had no problem with her talking to guy friends. Then in the end when we broke up, she hit me up saying "we're soulmates" and all that so I tried to give it another go. I literally found tinder on her phone one time and she was saying all this about how its just for friends, and like a fucking idiot I believed her at the time. And she would go out without even talking to me or texting me for hours after that. Shit made me feel insanely horrible and If I could go back 2 years and tell my 18 year old self to break it off then and there, I would. Goddamn, it can be rough sometimes, but I've just stopped depending on relationships until I find someone I actually trust. But it will probably be hard as fuck to trust someone after that.

    • @angrypalmtrees2063
      @angrypalmtrees2063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Damn bru you had no self respect huh 🤣 tinder for friends

    • @groovymyers1354
      @groovymyers1354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@angrypalmtrees2063 Literally man. Never again. It was a learning experience, in the end.

    • @user-dk5mc1hc7p
      @user-dk5mc1hc7p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@groovymyers1354 Hey, this is rough world, but not without good and caring people. You find someone who can help you feel again, I believe.

    • @DonRoyalX
      @DonRoyalX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hey cuz, my ex from 18yo was very bad too, if I could only tell u the stories jeez, then I met a wonderful woman a couple years later, then the ex got jealous and tried to hit me up and talked bad behind my back coz I was no longer under her control lol it will work out for u. Just believe

    • @groovymyers1354
      @groovymyers1354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Just to update, it's been a good few months, lads! Met quite a few "friends" if y'all know what I'm saying lmao, and other than that it's been good, being productive, working out and the like, all good shit lads

  • @blacktemplar2207
    @blacktemplar2207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love is an evil thing. You get attached to someone and refuse to see the real "them". The apple on the outside looks and seems perfect, but the core is rotten. And I've experienced this.
    Establish yourself first, before you ruin your life.

  • @ThatOpinionIsWrong
    @ThatOpinionIsWrong 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    It just hurts to watch, because it's very common and relevant

  • @Abu__Maryam
    @Abu__Maryam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    I wonder how Chad handle toxic girlfriend if Chad have one

    • @shonjojelvey_beats8394
      @shonjojelvey_beats8394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @Luff Waffe that's not chad behaviour

    • @shonjojelvey_beats8394
      @shonjojelvey_beats8394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Glorious Bastard thats not chad behavior

    • @DivineOrange
      @DivineOrange 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      shonjojelvey_beats if she cheats on you cheat on her and what do you mean by “chad behavior”

    • @AppleBukker
      @AppleBukker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Dump her, ghost her, and move on.

    • @Gaphalor
      @Gaphalor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @Glorious Bastard a real chad would just break up with her and move on. He doesnt need to be petty

  • @Tuckertuckerd
    @Tuckertuckerd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    The "u know i love u" scares me man.

    • @WGHpanic
      @WGHpanic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Truly, if she can even know love.

  • @franyato5630
    @franyato5630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What I hate the most about toxic relationships is that they'll overuse the word "love" like it's some magical verbal fuse to yank you back into their games of manipulation. Like why waste some time of my life knowing I could be better living off without you but you prefer my suffering to continue in your hands? It's cruel and mentally shattering...

  • @bluegiant13
    @bluegiant13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    Can't blame the girl entirely, the reason she is like this is because she can get away with it due to the simps not doing anything.

    • @rickygutierrez5559
      @rickygutierrez5559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What can a simp do though? Its not like its simple to have someone listen to you

    • @BEAMISHdocd
      @BEAMISHdocd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      thats like saying women who dress sexually ask to get raped...

    • @CarecaRusso
      @CarecaRusso 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes it's all men fault! The simp society was founded by the male acts!

    • @henso19999
      @henso19999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @G. G. Why would anyone want closure or someone that would listen to you? Why love at all? Why do we even communicate with each other if noone cares anyway?
      If you think like this for a significant amount of time, then you are going to go insane, just sayin.

    • @blacksage205
      @blacksage205 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @G. G. I kinda agree and kinda don't in the end, it's OUR lifes, depspite the person, you could have the entire world to listen to you but still feel alone..... In this case, I think what they might need is a therapy, that actually helps a lot to vent and also gived an useful opinion

  • @gervgal2535
    @gervgal2535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    She gives "Poison Damage" per second and you only lose 1 HP, but after 3 or 5 years the accumulated damage begins to make his entrace.
    I really think I'm lucky! I'm 25 and never had a GF, and I think that's because I grew with a little "princSis" and a karen-esque overprotective mother, that gave me understanding about how dramatic and sometimes bad woman can be.
    I really wanted to have a Gf, but not like this...

    • @johnny2x459
      @johnny2x459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Loool loved The poison damage part. Stay strong fella.

    • @anakin8280
      @anakin8280 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've been in >10 relationships since i was 17... 4 of those girls were toxic as fuck, just like this example from video, exactly the same type of logic and answers.

  • @vincentbehindvincenzo6292
    @vincentbehindvincenzo6292 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Also be aware of the plain janes who slowly develop into this

    • @Hans_W.
      @Hans_W. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How is that even possible?

    • @goldboyjr
      @goldboyjr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@Hans_W. You bring them out of their box, they're usually introverts just looking for the push. Once they find out you actually like them and they've achieved love, they'll now want something "more".

    • @sabarisivasundar
      @sabarisivasundar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Word

    • @finkamain1621
      @finkamain1621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@goldboyjr The same with overweight women. Sure you might be able to get them to lose weight, but it might go to their head and they'll dump you for someone else, even if you are a Chad because they have a confidence booster

    • @Terf1988
      @Terf1988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      every single woman is like this, NEVER get married or have kids and make sure NOBODY ever does this

  • @jahel
    @jahel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    guys like this deserve better. they shouldn't limit themselves to toxic egirls who are trashy.