I definitely agree that a wife needs to allow the husband to lead. That took me almost the 1st decade of my marriage to submit. I came into our marriage in a very different and better financial position that he. I had to learn to not “throw” that at him when we disagreed on how to spend money. My inability to submit during those years caused problems that almost caused divorce. I’m thankful that marriage counseling helped both of us. I learned not to demasculinate him and he learned to allow me to be a true helpmate. We learned to discern our strengths and weaknesses and be ok with him handling things he’s better at and I handle those that I excel in. Before therapy, I tried to control everything under the premise that I was more financially sound. 31 years later we are living our best life empty nest and all!!❤❤❤❤ Enjoy the Holidays Merry Christmas and a very happy and prosperous New Year!!💜
Having time before children is definitely the way to go, but also like you said, unless and until the opposite happens it's hard to say. I myself wish I had waited because it builds a stronger marriage. Like a lot of people I had one coming into my marriage and my husband had one who lived out of state. I will say hindsight is 20/20 for sure.
I know how Jess hates this dog. When i started to hear it in the background, I laughed so hard🤣 I understand why girl. He sounds like he’s in your backyard!
When you said dont marry the person if it’s gonna bother you everyday definitely convicted me lol…I think it bothers me mostly when I have to wear heels. How tall is Johnathan?
I’m 5’7 and dated someone 6’6 but I have also dated someone who was my same height. I never cared about height to obsess over it… but would I prefer someone slightly taller than me?… sure 5’10 or 5’11 is enough. No need to clear 6 feet but of course I wouldn’t push a guy away if he was over 6 feet. I have also grown up around athletic large sized men so it’s not foreign to me. I don’t think I will ever understand why a lady 5’2-5’5 would want to date or marry someone 6’6. 😂… 6’6 is a big fella. Geesh
Oooo boff yall fine tu’night! Okay, Wallace’s!!! *please take that with a light heart! The Q&A was nice! Your chemistry with one another is amazing! This triggered a thought that maybe my husband and I need to just sit down and chat through some similar questions that apply to us.. We’re 10 years in, so our habits & conversations are different but I feel this would open a new door. 🥰 Merry Christmas & HNY guys!
13:00 Jess I so agree that that's your calling. I commented this on another one of your videos but you've helped me in my walk so much because of how real you are. I got chills when you said that you are walking in your purpose!!!
Always a great podcasts!!! Jonathan, i really like your shirt.."I AM". .. I saw the Biblical aspect and a personal perspective. Merry Christmas to you both ❤❤❤🙏🏾
Okay so random thought I had while watching lol… you know how you’re watching a movie and you know something the characters don’t know? Like they’re confused about something and you’re screaming the answer at the TV? When someone asked about the s*x drive thing and y’all couldn’t remember, I’m like howww don’t they remember when we (your viewers) remember that video so clearly lol. But then I had to realize that you both do so many videos and so much content, that of course yall won’t remember a video y’all made almost 3 years ago 🤣 This was a great episode. Happy holidays and happy early birthday!🩵
I remember wanting to have children right away (we been together for 13 years by the time we got married) and my husband said no at least a year. ATP since we now have a child together, I 1000% agree that waiting is good to do. The shift should be able to be worked on without the dynamic of also having to care for children too. Thanks y’all for this Q&A.
Excellent podcast as always. I am now subscribed. Talk show co-hosts is definitely your calling. Merry Christmas to you! See you in the New Year. ❤️🙏🏾🎄🎁
Beautiful podcast and very refreshing! Love your perspective of God using you and your purpose on this platform! Praying the best for y’all in your marriage and Gods covering 🙏
Happy holidays to you both enjoy your time off let's have the parents-in-law on both sides on the podcast that would be cool. This is an open-door season for you guys.
You guys have helped me to embrace my faith a little more and to appreciate the goodness of God. May you have a Christmas that exceeds your expectations in every way! Merry Christmas and God Bless You and your family 🙏🏽💕🙏🏽 See you in 2025!
I love you both so much ❤ the smile on my face whenever i see yall. And your relationship is everything too me. I love love love my husband, he's the best. I mean we've had our moments before as well. Just keep doing yall 😊 Happy Holidays and I'll be seeing you next year🎉
I definitely agree that a wife needs to allow the husband to lead if the wife prefers that. That took me almost the 1st decade of my marriage to submit. I came into our marriage in a very different and better financial position that he. I had to learn to not “throw” that at him when we disagreed on how to spend money. My inability to submit during those years caused problems that almost caused divorce. I’m thankful that marriage counseling helped both of us. I learned bit demasculinate him and he learned to allow me to be a true helpmate. We learned to discern our strengths and weaknesses and be ok with him handling things he’s better at and I handle those that I excel in. Before therapy, I tried to control everything under the premise that I was more financially sound. 31 years later we are living our best life empty nest and all!!❤❤❤❤
I think couples look the best when they’re closer in height. Tall women 🤝🏿 Tall men. Short women 🤝🏿 short men. You guys look cute together, amongst other reasons why, because of the height similarities❤️
Merry Christmas to you guys. Wishing you guys a more prosperous, health, happy and fruitful coming year 2025. Love you guys and your wonderful extended families. Remain blessed and highly favored. By the way Jonathan you are full of wisdom, may God continue to increase you more in Jesus Mighty Name. ❤❤❤❤🎄🎄🎆🎆
I’m being wooed by a short king. I clicked this so quick lol his height is literally the only hesitation I had but I’ve decided to get over it because he’s actually amazing 😊 but I’m interested on your perspective since this is my first short king.
I’m 5’7 and my soulmate is 5’6 but I am attracted to tall men. Keep me in prayer. 🙏🏽 I know he’s my soulmate, however I am so much more attracted to men who are taller. 😢Idk what to do.
If he is your soulmate it means you were suppose to be attracted to him and his height. But if you are not , you should ask yourself why. What does being with a tall man give you?! Does it fufill an insecurity you have??does it give you some validation?? It is because of the norm Society has established??Ask yourself these questions and pray God changes your heart desire if you really want to. 😊
I hear what y'all saying about divorce but nobody should live unhappy regardless of the reason. People change and if you don't grow and change together, it's easy to grow apart, even with no infidelity or abuse involved. I'm divorced and I'm a better person, mom and partner to my new love.
Me personally I prefer taller man than me I used to go out with this guy he was shorter than me I used to feel embarrassed even him I think because he used to walk behind me and I stopped wearing shoes that will make me more taller than him so I will always wear flip flops or flat shoes but if people are in love height is nothing I suppose
That’s how I feel in terms of wearing flatter shoes around my husband, but then it’s like dressing down all the time because of that. My mom always reminds me that it doesn’t matter and gives me example of other height challenged couples lol but I be like they look awkward so that doesn’t usually help…I’m slowly trying to get over it.
Definitely needed to hear the know and trust part because I was shown my husband back in March and as much as I've been patient that man ain't pursuing me like my husband should/would and I want to just tell him and get it over with or leave him alone completely to his free will... Very glad you mentioned that part again✨️ Now I'm gonna go rewatch the "we broke up" video again lol😅
Both of you have you hair done/cut very nicely!
Thanks sis, we try lol
They look good right✨
I definitely agree that a wife needs to allow the husband to lead. That took me almost the 1st decade of my marriage to submit. I came into our marriage in a very different and better financial position that he. I had to learn to not “throw” that at him when we disagreed on how to spend money. My inability to submit during those years caused problems that almost caused divorce. I’m thankful that marriage counseling helped both of us. I learned not to demasculinate him and he learned to allow me to be a true helpmate. We learned to discern our strengths and weaknesses and be ok with him handling things he’s better at and I handle those that I excel in. Before therapy, I tried to control everything under the premise that I was more financially sound. 31 years later we are living our best life empty nest and all!!❤❤❤❤
Enjoy the Holidays
Merry Christmas and a very happy and prosperous New Year!!💜
I love how y'all talk about each other. Couldn't stop smiling 🤭👏💗
ah thank youu!!
Having time before children is definitely the way to go, but also like you said, unless and until the opposite happens it's hard to say. I myself wish I had waited because it builds a stronger marriage. Like a lot of people I had one coming into my marriage and my husband had one who lived out of state. I will say hindsight is 20/20 for sure.
hindsight is definitelyyyy 20/20 ut yea everyones situation is different and like in your case that wasn't an option an thats okay too
I know how Jess hates this dog. When i started to hear it in the background, I laughed so hard🤣 I understand why girl. He sounds like he’s in your backyard!
lol literally the loudest dogs everrrrrr hahah
I’m 5’5 & my hubby is 5’6. I’ve dated tall guys but I can’t fathom it anymore; I love his height!❤
right!? like i def understand wanting a tall man don get me wrong but it just works for me lol
When you said dont marry the person if it’s gonna bother you everyday definitely convicted me lol…I think it bothers me mostly when I have to wear heels. How tall is Johnathan?
I’m 5’7 and dated someone 6’6 but I have also dated someone who was my same height. I never cared about height to obsess over it… but would I prefer someone slightly taller than me?… sure 5’10 or 5’11 is enough. No need to clear 6 feet but of course I wouldn’t push a guy away if he was over 6 feet. I have also grown up around athletic large sized men so it’s not foreign to me.
I don’t think I will ever understand why a lady 5’2-5’5 would want to date or marry someone 6’6. 😂… 6’6 is a big fella. Geesh
@ right 😅😅
Funny thing is my man now is 6'6" and I'm 5'3". I originally said he was tooooo tall for me but I couldn't imagine my life without him 🥰.
Oooo boff yall fine tu’night! Okay, Wallace’s!!! *please take that with a light heart!
The Q&A was nice! Your chemistry with one another is amazing! This triggered a thought that maybe my husband and I need to just sit down and chat through some similar questions that apply to us.. We’re 10 years in, so our habits & conversations are different but I feel this would open a new door. 🥰
Merry Christmas & HNY guys!
lol thank youuuuu! gotta get right for the holidays
13:00 Jess I so agree that that's your calling. I commented this on another one of your videos but you've helped me in my walk so much because of how real you are. I got chills when you said that you are walking in your purpose!!!
Johnathon’s Christmas haircut🔥
girlllllllll lol yesssss
Okay braids! Okay haircut!! Y’all look great!
My favorite people podcast 😁
heyy
Merry Christmas, Happy New Year and Happy Early Birthday Jess!!
Thank you so much!!
@BetweenTheWallsPod You're welcome!!
Always a great podcasts!!! Jonathan, i really like your shirt.."I AM". .. I saw the Biblical aspect and a personal perspective. Merry Christmas to you both ❤❤❤🙏🏾
Okay so random thought I had while watching lol… you know how you’re watching a movie and you know something the characters don’t know? Like they’re confused about something and you’re screaming the answer at the TV? When someone asked about the s*x drive thing and y’all couldn’t remember, I’m like howww don’t they remember when we (your viewers) remember that video so clearly lol. But then I had to realize that you both do so many videos and so much content, that of course yall won’t remember a video y’all made almost 3 years ago 🤣
This was a great episode. Happy holidays and happy early birthday!🩵
LOLLL omg this is a great pointttt hahahah
and thank you!! Same to you!!!
I remember wanting to have children right away (we been together for 13 years by the time we got married) and my husband said no at least a year. ATP since we now have a child together, I 1000% agree that waiting is good to do. The shift should be able to be worked on without the dynamic of also having to care for children too. Thanks y’all for this Q&A.
Love you guys relationship.🥰
Jess baby’s face looks adorable.☺️
thank you sisss
💛Thought I'd comment before I get into it. You guys got your hair straight 🔥🔥🔥
hey girl heyyy thnak youu!
@@BetweenTheWallsPod Any time!
Why am I making the screen bigger thinking I could see Jesse's face? LOL...very nice podcast- enjoy your time off guys!!
lol omg is it not clear?
@@BetweenTheWallsPod The camera is clear ...the angle was cutting you out of the scene in the first 5 mins
This was such a good podcast. Thanks for the marriage nuggets!
Excellent podcast as always. I am now subscribed. Talk show co-hosts is definitely your calling. Merry Christmas to you! See you in the New Year. ❤️🙏🏾🎄🎁
Very true the Christmas spirit isn't the same anymore now that you're an adult but I absolutely love Christmas
Subscribing because of the tik tok dance from Jess’ vlog & Jonathan’s “we deserve ittttttt😆”
😂😂😂
Beautiful podcast and very refreshing! Love your perspective of God using you and your purpose on this platform! Praying the best for y’all in your marriage and Gods covering 🙏
Thank you so much sis!!! we appreciate it
NEEDED the calling & job answer 🙌🏽🙌🏽
So happy to see this early bday gift for me. Tmr is my bday❤
ah happy birthday sis!!
Thank you❤❤❤❤@@BetweenTheWallsPod
Excellent podcast!!!❤THANKS 👏🏽!
thank youu!!
We love you guyssss 💕 Can’t wait to see you next year !
I love how y'all break into song when you're talking about something 😊
So do i. It’s so adorable! ❤❤
So do i. It’s so adorable! ❤❤
CONGRATULATIONS ON 10K+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉
Can you make a tour of your podcast setup please?
I love it Jess and Johnathan ❤❤
Good discussion as usual ✌🏼
Thank you!!!
Happy holidays to you both enjoy your time off let's have the parents-in-law on both sides on the podcast that would be cool. This is an open-door season for you guys.
we definitely want to have them, gotta step our equipment game up!
@BetweenTheWallsPod it will work out! Can't wait! To you both, stay encouraged! Y'all are doing an amazing job.
You guys have helped me to embrace my faith a little more and to appreciate the goodness of God. May you have a Christmas that exceeds your expectations in every way! Merry Christmas and God Bless You and your family 🙏🏽💕🙏🏽 See you in 2025!
TH-cam didn't give me any notice. Rude! But I'm here now😂
lollll glad you made it here!!
lol, same!!!
I had to find out on my own???
I love you both so much ❤ the smile on my face whenever i see yall. And your relationship is everything too me. I love love love my husband, he's the best. I mean we've had our moments before as well. Just keep doing yall 😊 Happy Holidays and I'll be seeing you next year🎉
Thank you so much sis!!! we love y'all!!
@@BetweenTheWallsPod you're welcome much ❤️
Great show and it's wonderful 👏 to see 👀 this young married Christian ✝️ couple share real life experiences and waiting o. Marriage. ❤❤😂😂🎉🎉
Lovedddd this!!!! ❤️❤️
Aww happy new year, you two, and God bless! ❤️🎉
Happy Holidays to you both!🥰
Oh this is going to be good!! 😂
the teaaaa lol
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year 🎉
Nice...I really enjoyed this podcast...grea content!!!😂
I definitely agree that a wife needs to allow the husband to lead if the wife prefers that. That took me almost the 1st decade of my marriage to submit. I came into our marriage in a very different and better financial position that he. I had to learn to not “throw” that at him when we disagreed on how to spend money. My inability to submit during those years caused problems that almost caused divorce. I’m thankful that marriage counseling helped both of us. I learned bit demasculinate him and he learned to allow me to be a true helpmate. We learned to discern our strengths and weaknesses and be ok with him handling things he’s better at and I handle those that I excel in. Before therapy, I tried to control everything under the premise that I was more financially sound. 31 years later we are living our best life empty nest and all!!❤❤❤❤
I think couples look the best when they’re closer in height. Tall women 🤝🏿 Tall men. Short women 🤝🏿 short men. You guys look cute together, amongst other reasons why, because of the height similarities❤️
Nonsense
I never understood why some shorter women shy away from men their height or slightly taller. Saying “it’s a preference” isn’t enough lol
Love these questions!
thank you!
Congrats on 10k !!!!
Thank you so much!!!
First time watching and a great podcast..
Hey girl hey, welcome to the fam!
looove jess's hair!!
thank you sis!
Hey The Wallace's, you both are looking great!!! Thank you for the Q&A's and happy holidays to you all and your family's. God bless you both.❤❤
Merry Christmas!!!
Merry Christmas to you too sis!!!
Great to see and hear you beautiful couple.
thank youuu!
@BetweenTheWallsPod your welcome 🤗
Hey Sis!! Hey Jonathan!!!! Happy holidays ❤️❤️
hey girl heyyyy
How tall are the both of you?
Merry Christmas to you guys. Wishing you guys a more prosperous, health, happy and fruitful coming year 2025. Love you guys and your wonderful extended families. Remain blessed and highly favored. By the way Jonathan you are full of wisdom, may God continue to increase you more in Jesus Mighty Name. ❤❤❤❤🎄🎄🎆🎆
I’m being wooed by a short king. I clicked this so quick lol his height is literally the only hesitation I had but I’ve decided to get over it because he’s actually amazing 😊 but I’m interested on your perspective since this is my first short king.
❤❤ cannot wait
hey heyyy
@BetweenTheW hey❤❤allsPod
I love you guys ❤❤
we love you!!
I’m 5’7 and my soulmate is 5’6 but I am attracted to tall men. Keep me in prayer. 🙏🏽 I know he’s my soulmate, however I am so much more attracted to men who are taller. 😢Idk what to do.
If he is your soulmate it means you were suppose to be attracted to him and his height. But if you are not , you should ask yourself why. What does being with a tall man give you?! Does it fufill an insecurity you have??does it give you some validation?? It is because of the norm Society has established??Ask yourself these questions and pray God changes your heart desire if you really want to. 😊
I hear what y'all saying about divorce but nobody should live unhappy regardless of the reason. People change and if you don't grow and change together, it's easy to grow apart, even with no infidelity or abuse involved. I'm divorced and I'm a better person, mom and partner to my new love.
This story time was hilarious😂! What’s the age difference between y’all again?
LOLLLL, I'm 32 and Jonathan is 27!!
@@BetweenTheWallsPodwow didn’t he was younger, but you guys seem so mature in your marriage in terms of communication and expression
So Jonathan, if she bring u a jacket u think u can overcome that and stay??
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year...love u bad bad❤❤
Can you tag his barber please
12:00 why talk about each other, instead of to each other?
Interesting couple, first time seeing your channel. Good luck!
not really sure what you're referring to here but thank you good luck to you as well and happy new year!
27:56 I also think praying for that person helps, God do what only You can do, amen🤷🏾♀️
this is also very true!
Happy Tuesday 😀
Me personally I prefer taller man than me I used to go out with this guy he was shorter than me I used to feel embarrassed even him I think because he used to walk behind me and I stopped wearing shoes that will make me more taller than him so I will always wear flip flops or flat shoes but if people are in love height is nothing I suppose
That’s how I feel in terms of wearing flatter shoes around my husband, but then it’s like dressing down all the time because of that. My mom always reminds me that it doesn’t matter and gives me example of other height challenged couples lol but I be like they look awkward so that doesn’t usually help…I’m slowly trying to get over it.
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
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Definitely needed to hear the know and trust part because I was shown my husband back in March and as much as I've been patient that man ain't pursuing me like my husband should/would and I want to just tell him and get it over with or leave him alone completely to his free will...
Very glad you mentioned that part again✨️
Now I'm gonna go rewatch the "we broke up" video again lol😅
lol no i definitely feel youuu i needed that reminder so badly in my waiting period. you got this sis
Lol she’s so self centered.
What? 😂