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Lady Gaga Tells Oprah Winfrey She Developed PTSD After Being Raped At 19
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ส.ค. 2024
- Lady Gaga is getting real about her mental health and past trauma. The singer sat down with Oprah Winfrey to kick off the talk show host's national tour, "Oprah's 2020 Vision: Your Life in Focus." During the hour-long conversation, the pair discussed a variety of topics, including Lady Gaga's sexual assault as a teenager. "So, I was raped repeatedly when I was 19 years old and I also developed PTSD as a result of being raped and also not processing that trauma," she revealed. "I did not have anyone help me. I did not have a therapist. I did not have a psychiatrist. I did not have a doctor help me through it."
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I am not into modern music or music stars but it is great that she talks about that, it helps others.
When you go through stuff like that at a young age I think the mind and the body has a way of like blacking it out until you get to a certain age and then it kind a like forces it to the forefront and it’s like makes you deal with it
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I was 19 just like her when it happened to me and I forgot about it till I was 21 and everything hit me and it won't go away
sassierthangrassi Yes it happened to me multiple times when I was young by different people all through my teenage years I was constantly sexually harassed while I was walking down the street or the manager is at my work places and I never really realize that any unwanted attention especially sexual is the same as being molested or raped in my eyes. I grew up believing somehow it was in me and it was my fault because it had happened so much. I didn’t tell anyone the things that had happened to me when I was young even my best friends. When I became 25 I became severely depressed I have very bad anxiety my life is relatively well and I couldn’t understand why I was suffering from these things. I finally realize there’s a correlation between the things that you don’t deal with they manifest in your body into something else like depression. Finally when I begin to speak about it and let people know how I was hurt it felt like such the long process but now I can actually look back and see all the healing I’ve done. I think you have to say it out loud I think you have to talk about it to get over it. So Thank you so much for sharing your horrible experience. And I’m sorry someone did that to you
So sorry for what you had to go through.
I'm 17, I don't know whether this qualifies as a sexual abuse or not but about 2 months ago I was harassed by being asking for explicit sexual content over text by my school cab driver. I didn't respond to it then and in a state of panic deleted those chats but when that guy kept on insisting, I blocked him. I blacked out after that and told about it to my friends about 3 days later. I didn't tell my parents about it yet since they'd worry about me too much given I'm a single child and about to finish high school.
The Elysian One I’m so sorry your unable to attend school with out a care in the world. The fact you have some pervert hounding you for pictures. This sickening me. You tell who your comfortable with telling. Women should never even have to walk down the street with out hear men yell at her. Unless it’s desired! Your still a child and Im happy your in tune with your inner emotions and Followed it
@@alyssareach5287 Thanks. I do not know you but I really appreciate all your kind words.
Actually, I was lucky since the day he did this dreadful thing was the last day of my using that cab. After that, my classes went irregular and I started using uber. I saw him when my school got over a few days ago, I really wanted to kick him in the balls. Instead, I kept quiet and decided within myself that if he even says a word, I'll make sure to do something big about it.
We have no choice but to stan this icon. Queen Lady Gaga x
As we should💅
She would sacrafice you in a second to keep her status.. she doesn't care about you.
I work with women who have experienced assault, trauma, and PTSD. Recovery is possible. Thank you for speaking up Gaga!
@@frankcastle546 I hope you continue to learn and grow so that you can one day have empathy for the women and men who experience sexualized violence.
@@carinfreimond8080 I hope women learn and grow and not try to lie and cash out on innocent men and get mental counseling for being narcissistic
@Roxie Rocks only a small amount of rape victims are telling the truth. Women always want to play the victim...crave some kind of attention
@@frankcastle546 i can tell your one of those uneducated, small minded people, just by reading this comment.
They are saying my daughter is bpd but she was raped at 13.5 years old by two older teens more than once. She has ptsd and talked about it a bit but she buries it to cope and doesn’t mind the bpd label as it’s “easier” meanwhile I know why she self harms, why she dysregulates sometimes and can’t get out of bed other times. I know. X
She needs skills to cope to regulate, to not SH. Triggers happen and her pupils grow to black plates. I don’t want her to be given a “disordered personality “ for life, I want her to heal, she is just 17.
If anyone is disordered it’s her damn rapists. How she feels is natural, justifiable.
She has never spoken to a qualified rape therapist...the system here is awful. She has psychiatrists though. She has had hospital stays due to this trauma, it destroys you.
Anyway xx thanks for the work you do, I would like to hear what you think about my daughter if you have a second.
Never thought this is the thing I would relate with Lady Gaga more than anything. Mine was at 16. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. The world can be a really dark place. Thankyou Stephanie for speaking about this. It really helps us people when someone at such an influential stage like you speaks up about these things. I hope you are healing. :(
Jesus, I’m so sorry. Can’t believe someone would do that to a 16 year old :/. I hope you are doing better now
@@RatIceCream Thankyou ❤ I am ❤ Take care
Just went through it this past weekend. It’s traumatizing in a way I can’t even explain :/ just reassuring to know people can still thrive and be okay after it happens
@@runner4life551 take care. hope you heal from this. Keep going
@@runner4life551 hi sweety I hope you are okay, it saddens my heart that long distance sister is suffering from something so cruel and we women are even there for you,
But I am sending all my love respect and strength to you. I'll pray to God to give you all the blessings and hardships to those bastards.
Hang in there sis, collect valid proof against them and file a case.
She is beautiful
On what planet?
Kyle Maxwell shut the fuck up, just because you’re insecure about your shallow life doesn’t mean you can be hating on someone else’s looks. grow up.
Kyle Maxwell literally FUCK off. God people like you are gross. Fuck you.
sister snapped PERIOD
On Planet Chromatica of course!
Lady Gaga : *says something inspiring*
Oprah: woAh
she is very strong I'm so proud of her. she's a rol model with every single thing she does.
wow this is an eye opener like i never knew that this happened to her
Wow and she's still strong, keep it up Lady Gaga we will always love you
God damn it must have been hard to come out and say this.
I'm hope this will help other survivors deal with their trauma, what a horrible thing to do to another human being.
gaga is an icon
M A And you are a asshole!
Self care. So important. Valueing yourself too. Loving yourself accepting who you are. But self care is very important. Sometimes medicine is needed as an intervention to get you stable and out of an acute period of illness or to see the wood for the trees. God bless her I wish her so much love from God. ++++ God bless you. +++
Survival you dissociate to survive to manage it. Or you dont even acknowledge it or you have insight into yourself which is always helpful. God bless all out their with mental health problems may they always have someone to talk to who listens and loves. Please Lord protect them from harming themselves keep them safe and guarded with your tender loving care. In Jesus name Amen. So many inspirational speakers famous and none famous sharing their struggles. Well done and God bless you.+++
im lady gagas neice and my aunt is so strong she got pregnant and her baby is living with us i love my cousin he’s so strong just like his mummy
WTF?? LIAR!! HOW CAN YOU BE SO DISGUSTING!!
Really brave woman
Hey buddy, It really is not my fault that i am ugly to most;) ;) and that many girls,mostly Bosniak girls hurt my feelings by telling me how ugly i am,you know very well what was done to them in the Aggression on Bosnia.......btw(Kosovo Is Not Serbia ) .....✌️ My life is not fair,so,i will not be fair............
Props to her she is not ashamed and and takes medication this is inspirational and not embarrassing that its nothing to be ashamed of to get help and take medications if you have mental health issues etc . Cough Cough many people in Hollywood should be medicated but they are to ashamed to be stigmatized as crazy and cant swallow there pride
But lady Gaga didn’t afflict that pain upon others, that I know of. It’s time to stop making excuses, and hold these people accountable. Because if you have been thru trauma, then that more than enough reason to try to keep others from going thru it, and not draw them to it!! Real Talk
My friend raped me 2 years ago and I blocked it back then with alcohol and medication but now it is coming back and it is really bad
I’m rlly late but I hope you’re ok and I’m always here to talk if u need help I went through the same thing but more recently so I understand xx
Why you cannot bury anything and have to learn all the likely reasons why it happens and happened?
You got to believe me!
lady gaga is so iconic!
Came here after the interview saying that she was pregnant
I totally relate similar things happened to me she's brilliant 👏 and brave 👏 ❤ 💖 ♥ 💙 💗 👏
I can relate to how medication has truly helped her. Because it helps me deal with all my past traumas too. She is indeed very brave.
@@mikebasil4832 what is interesting to point out is that there is no record by her when she was 19 nor 20.....2006 until 2007...SO?
Thank you Stefani for being so real!!!👏👏👏👏👏
Icon my mother loves her songs
What can I say. She is a good actress. Awesome performer.
When I develop PTSD from a sexual assault I also become a stripper.
There are few that would have done the entrance into the Superbowl that she did so bravely. A couple of hundred feet on a cpl of wires??? That takes extreme bravery, guts and courage.... Her music was awesome..
or simply clueless trusting the people that told her it is safe..... no bravery there it is all in your reality perception ...do not assume
Bad ass women I love her interview is off the charts sharing too world trying too help other people awesome
I wonder how many people he has done that to since then. I personally think it was her producer/boyfriend when she was 19-20yrs old and he was 37-38yrs old at the time.
what is interesting to point out is that there is no record by her when she was 19 nor 20.....2006 until 2007...SO?
Pain pain pain I am tried
There’s absolutely NO shame in needing medication. It breaks my heart that people who need it are judged. No diabetic would be judged for needing insulin. No one with high blood pressure would be judged for needing medication. Why is needing medication because you have a chemical imbalance in your brain any different?
My mother is schizophrenic and bipolar. For the first 20yrs of my life, I doubted she would ever be stable at all, but then her doctors found the right combo of meds to help stabilize her and she hasn’t had a psychotic break in over 20yrs now! If she stopped the medication today, she would be in the hospital within a month. I’m so thankful those meds exist to give her a chance to be a mom and now a grandma.
@neal cassady I can’t even begin to cover all that’s wrong with your comment! I’m a nurse and a survivor of child molestation & rape when I was 20. Whether she reported her rapist or not, has NOTHING to do with whether she needs help with her mental illness. Yes, the trauma & PTSD can worsen symptoms of mental illness, but reporting it doesn’t absolve you of the pain & trauma at all!
There’s a reason it goes unreported so often. Instead of criticizing her about her experiences, how about try to learn more about it, because your understanding of the subject is greatly lacking?
@neal cassady I UNDERSTAND why she didn’t report it. I’m kinda glad you don’t, because it means you’ve never gone through this kind of thing, and as upset as your comment made me, I would never want you to go through it.
She was a vulnerable teen who was essentially trapped and tortured by someone she should’ve been able to trust and then her life’s work (what she cared about the most) was held hostage. These were people far more powerful than this young, unknown, troubled teen.
It’s nearly impossible for an SA victim to fight through the trauma in order to make a case against their abuser. When they do, it’s frequently in vain as the legal system rarely successfully tries these offenders. Regardless, their legal team would’ve ripped her to shreds and what little remaining strength she had would’ve been gone. She barely survived this trauma by her accounts and only recently found the strength to admit publicly that it happened, and look at how people (like you) are tearing her down for “not doing the right thing” as a victim, how you’re blaming HER if they continue doing this, and trying to make HER responsible if they did this to others. It’s common knowledge in Hollywood that many producers SA these young people, but it’s swept under the rug by their team and the people who come out against them are ruined and silenced. As much as you want to believe it, the system does NOT support the victim in these cases. It’s a cold FACT. No one wants that to be different more than me, but I won’t be blind to the truth of it. I will not condemn a victim for speaking or remaining silent. She had enough of a fight to just survive and start healing. Just telling her story is a help for those like us.
@neal cassady Did you even watch the video or do the tiniest bit of research before shoving your entire foot in your mouth?
This occurred when she was 19 back in 2005 (corresponding to the few months she was signed with Def Jam Records). Her breakout song was released in early-2008 (“Just Dance”), so this was YEARS before she was famous for anything! So what kind of “power” did she have exactly?
I’m sure you’re going to not try to spin it in another way to BLAME HER, the victim, because that’s how our society works. It’s the victim who’s blamed and attacked. You’re just proving my point.
She was a totally unknown 19yr old girl, who was imprisoned and raped for months and the one thing that meant something to her (her music) belonged to these producers, which they used by threatening to destroy it. Because she was under contract, they could’ve legally destroyed it all and we wouldn’t be having this “discussion” because they would’ve buried her. None of us would’ve EVER heard of her, AND there’s less than a 1% chance they would have even been charged with anything, much less successfully convicted. To add to the complicated nature of this, if it occurred in 2005, she couldn’t have LEGALLY filed charges against the rapists after she had gained popularity in 2008 and couldn’t legally file charges NOW because of the statute of limitations in California (and here’s the laws on that: herlawyer.com/staute-limitations-sexual-abuse/#:~:text=California%20has%20no%20statute%20of%20limitations%20for%20rape,and%203%20years%20after%20the%20offense%20occurred%2C%20respectively.) However, in a very messed up caveat within our current legal system, THEY could go after her for defamation/liable, if she were to name them publicly! So this’s yet another problem with your argument.
This’s one of a few videos & other media publications about what she went through. She’s so brave to speak out and, as a survivor myself, I’m disgusted by how people are attacking her. It’s the last thing she needs or deserves. Everyone thinks they know what they would do or what she should do, but no one knows until they experience it, and even then, you can’t know what she was going through mentally/emotionally/physically that would make her situation different than your own. I was molested as a child under 7 (not certain exactly how old I was) and was raped while married to my ex-husband. I was too terrified of my mom’s boyfriend to tell her when I was a child and now I don’t want her to live with the guilt, so I’ll NEVER tell her and very few people in my life actually know I was molested. I didn’t file charges against my ex, because I know that most people don’t believe you can be raped by your husband, and I had to go through a terrible divorce where I had to protect my son from my ex, so if I had placed a doubt in the mind of the judge about whether I was 100% truthful, it could’ve resulted in my ex getting visitation and he’s an extremely dangerous person. I’m suren my son would’ve been hurt, if his father had gotten to be a part of his life. As messed up as it is, filing charges against my ex for rape (which I had no PROOF since I was living with him as his wife when it occurred) would’ve ONLY made the court doubt me, because the victim always has an uphill battle in these cases.
When it comes to Lady Gaga’s assault, here’s more info about it, if you don’t believe me:www.cnn.com/2021/05/21/entertainment/lady-gaga-rape-oprah-interview-intl-scli-wellness/index.html
@neal cassady she risked a lot by saying her age and that they were her producers! I’m not some “super sleuth”, but was able to look it up (and mentioned it in the previous comment)!
Do you seriously not see the irony in how YOU are attacking her (the victim)? And me? Are you in such a bubble that you can’t realize what you’re doing? I’m not defending the people who hurt her. I’m defending a victim who had an entire mental breakdown and required hospitalization after she was released by the ones who assaulted her and receives ongoing treatment for the PTSD and the mental illness it triggered. You can’t imagine the strength it took for her to even publicly admit that it happened to her and to have people like you attack her like this, but she did it to help others.
Besides being a survivor myself, I was also a nurse for 13yrs. I’ve seen the damage these victims go through. I consider her experience to be worse that what I personally went through and I feel nothing but compassion for her. Why don’t you? You’re MORE concerned with potential victims than an actual one. While also being completely oblivious that by attacking a victim in this way, you’re perpetuating the problem that causes victims to remain silent. I’m sure you think I’m a “terrible person” for not trying to file charges against my mother’s ex or my ex-husband. Am I responsible for anything they’ve done? If so, what would “absolve” me of that guilt?
She couldn’t file charges even if she wanted to, because the statute of limitations was up before she ever gained a modicum of power. If anyone cares to look, she’s given enough info for a 10sec online search to reveal who did it… and these are people who have done plenty of terrible things and gotten away with it. All it would do would cause her to get attacked when she has just gotten into a semi-healthy place mentally and emotionally and doesn’t feel like she’s able to cope with being attacked by them.
In case you’re wondering, I would NEVER blame the victims who were abused before me for the actions or my abuser, and I’d never blame them for not coming forward “to warn other young women” like you suggested! I’ve never met a victim who would. It’s always someone like yourself, who’s never experienced this type of trauma and feels the need to victim blame.
@neal cassady oh… and in case you want to keep defending it, they can’t really claim to have worked with Lady Gaga and are responsible for giving her that big break, because she was only signed with them for a few months (when this incident took place) back in 2005 and her break occurred in 2008 under a different label! Any young woman looking to follow in her footsteps wouldn’t go to them, so your what-ifs are misplaced. And yes, these young girls WOULD know that! It’s something they would look into when seeking representation and to get noticed. All of us have access to Google. No picture on a wall will trump a 10 second internet search.
So… are you trying to convince ME your stance is just, or are you trying to convince YOURSELF that you’re not part of the problem?
*”Hotel room, to garage, to limo, to stage...”*
I like her voice and as an artist. But what's the point of publicly sharing her past when she won't name the rapist and with what happened after with her story? 🤷🏼♀️
Because it helps other people who are going through trauma? It starts a conversation and helps others to speak out. Even if she does not name them she is doing a brave thing for speaking about abuse. Because she is terrified (understandably) of her abuser and doing so would retraumatise her. She shouldn’t have to say it.
Yes
Strong icon
She turned into a star so quick cause she sold her soul
Say the name of the guy so he stops doing it others cause he definitely still doing it
A true queen!!
Is anyone asking her why she doesn't file charges so that this monster can go to prison where he belongs? I don't believe a word
Not everyone is avenging, some people just need apology. I can relate to her and have been in the same position(not as bad as her, it was just groping) yet i didnt report him to the principal cuz i didnt want drama, i just needed his apology
Most people don’t believe women when they say they were raped and yet it’s so common. It’s the retrauma of people not believing you and the shame you feel bc of peoples responses of immediate suspicion to the victim that stops women reporting it
When things like that happen first person we turn to with that should be our dad and mom
What if they were the one that committed the abuse? Or who don't want to acknowledge that it happened? So often the case...
When it happened to me when I was 9, then again at 11, I became scared and embarassed about it and that telling anyone is an awful thought, even if it's my mom and dad. It's not really that easy.
@@empressrosh It's not easy at all. I'm sorry that happened to you. You are not alone.
This kinda thing happened to me about 2 months ago and it's so awkward even to think about saying it aloud in front of your parents.
@@theelysianone6033 don't be ashamed. Shame is a common response but there's nothing to be ashamed of. It's important to speak out. Wish you a successful recovery!
Fishy story in my opinion.
Some r*pists can become r*pists, in turn?
@@TheSapphireLeo What? Can you elaborate on that statement.
Thats must be reprehensible conduct, at the mean time, im suspect her actions,why she always talk about it two yearly, i trust she had been rapped when i heard about it at the beginning,but why she always mention it ?I just confuse
Queen Gaga!
I hate 40% of this comment section. It’s not even too many comments and people are being so fucking rude! They don’t have an ounce of compassion and they cannot appreciate when an artist tries to give a push to such an important and overlooked movement. They think that people like Stefani are not even human to have emotions and experiences and biological reactions...how fucked up can a person go as to doubt a survivor who is simply trying to open up about it just so that millions of other survivors could do the same? These people are using their fame and public attention to make important issues such as mental illness and appropriate treatment to these serious medical conditions brought out to the light! They want people to move and support and fight for justice, if celebrities could do anything good to the world, is help solve social/world issues/problems. It’s literally the best that they can do and people think that they just want attention. And let’s suppose that they wanted attention, GOOD FOR THEM BECAUSE THEY GOT PEOPLE TO LOOK AT THE MAIN POINT!!! The center of the problem, that’s what this world should focus on...not whether someone is being “fake” or “attention-seeking” or “hypocritical”. Look ahead of your own nose and wake tf up because the world does not revolve around your ego and and close-minded opinions!
Michael Jackson is innocent!!!
Probs lying
I don't want to diminish her moment if what she says happened to her is true, but every time some kind of trial or tribulation comes up she claims it has happened to her too, that she has been through this and that... and I don't know it gets to be a little tiring.
She had already told about the rape years ago.
Many people are aware of what happened to her,she talked about the things that happened to her in the past shortly after becoming famous
@@francinelove957 No I know she has spoken about this specific topic before, I'm just saying that with her it is ALWAYS something.
She did grow up in the upper east side so that right there can probably mess someone up
Carissa Gc what’s wrong with the upper East side? (I’m from nj so I don’t know much about nyc)
@@deanjohnson1736 and that's a really great thing to do.
Maybe she needs to address it to cope with it, she raises awareness and doesn't let this slide its very important.
I am a survivor myself and It always lingers in my mind, I can enjoy my life but this experience has changed me entirely, I was 19 at that time just like her so I can relate to her very well. My rapist is in jail for 3 years so I did get justice kind of but the funny thing is I didn't even care at that point because the incident still happened I couldn't undo it, still glad he's in jail so he cannot put another person through that and I also still feel the urge to talk about this frequently tho.
It's better to get all the thoughts out in the world tbh, helps the process.
Also, she hasn't told anyone for years so I thing it's pretty normal for her to now be like "this happened to me and I want to talk about it for several reasons"
Make sure that he is safe because hea the only man that everyone wants me to be with and nobody else. Okay.
Hey buddy, It really is not my fault that i am ugly to most;) ;) and that many girls,mostly Bosniak girls hurt my feelings by telling me how ugly i am,you know very well what was done to them in the Aggression on Bosnia.......btw(Kosovo Is Not Serbia ) .....✌️ My life is not fair,so,i will not be fair............
What about lina Morgana?
she killed the baby!!!!
I wish she was the president of the usa
Pfh
Gaga you realy need Jesus Christ and his love,his love for you and the fact that he died for your sins and all that is hurting you inside,he bore on the cross all cruelties that man can handle and that fact will heal your wounds...God bless
@@earlaweese There's no other God but Jesus,nothing in between.Rember what He said to adolteress :"Go...and SIN NO MORE!''Cause sin brings death to your soul,mind and body,you get depresion easily.You have to make a radical change in your life if you want results.SIN NO MORE,turn to Jesus,call him,pray to him,He will be with you,do whatever it take,you have to fallow ten commendments,repent every day and believe you are saved through Jesus.God bless...
@@earlaweese th-cam.com/video/RbhWciLesVM/w-d-xo.html
She has talked about her relationship with God before. Stop assuming someone doesn't have God in their life, you don't know her.
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Good actress. Lol
my question is what was at the situation about rape? is that desire for ambition and being famous and saying i let someone rape me even if i do not want but i became famous and have all of u admire me
the rapist was obviously an admire and was it 50 shades of grey game to S&M game?
see that is the difference and now is that a marketing or rape stop that wearing a larger version gaining weight period not skinny and sexy but being a victimThe rape is a bit too general of a statement what had really happened?
what put Lady Gaga thru rape os desire to be famous?
personal ambition?
etc
because then it becomes a question i did not feel the physical relation was pleasant. what kind of relation with the guy there was? mentor advise and he was amniuative and traded this for physical relation did he threaten someone how promised introductions and also lady gaga did burlesque dancing and so there were arrangement to continue game in private on S&M side etc
so what was that exactly to lady Gaga represented cause am sure especially if we talk about repetitive experience and she believed she did not benefit from experience in any way that it was slimly rape she would go to report to police. her life was obviously not threatened to death she was maybe forced to do it at teh expense of wanting a job and help form that person in some other ways etc
i mean rape if complex, i call rape as during war soldier rape women one time and kill with donkey punch so ther is degree of rape and also feeling cals ether tis no balance of power at work place tat experience may seem forced on us by someone having decisive power to affect other part of life or career or any type of lively hon especially if person already invested. i was really invested into my work and it took me a year and a half i worked so hard when basically my boss decided to start flirting with me i wa snot exactly raped but that entire situation was not ok at all so can we make sure to check on definitions using word rape cause of the ver kill over use of the word
@@barneysayburn8862 also are you fee male?
also can a male say he was being raped if he had orgasm? or female. and if ther wasn't orgasm is that rape every time?
when celebrities say it was worth it because of of u now love me, was it then thinking ok I get t on with this gross guy and i get benefits. point it that person who is in position of power in situation isnt sensitive enough to understand that type of attention isnt pleasant. but some people do not care they are not lied they cant imagine they are not liked. We probably have marriages in this society in teh US when women say he wants me i get to do it i made excuse for too long and so is that rape or is that they they do it because they want to not create problems for marriage? we use word rape too liberal these days
especially i am wondering about what peel claim about repeated rape yet they know exactly what kind of benefits they get and they come back to be there with legs open and they do not go to police to file reports after the first "rape " incident they are not chained in prison to report abuse.
how old we talk about that a kid maybe confused and it is also pedophilia? etc. there is just no detail here about ever case is different. was there gifts etc and other type of conditioning pleasure or guilt? etc. I mean how do we learn and what is the right way to report this to public because the way it is reported now. It was worth it now u all love me so it was sounding liek he was the right person had the right connections and promoted me so it is a form of prostition. But for example could be sitation that a nazi say i want to f u to a women and they say if u let me do it i feed your children and protect them. still a rape but kind of for higher purpose . etc. but sometimes that nazi rape a female and say i also give u a job to work with me she doe snot have kids and that nazi say u be like me high hitler etc. so one way to thing to save someone life and another to lose personal integrity and even gain wealth and then even thinking i put it in my boo later when am famous that i even went through supposedly a rape with a person i kind of didn't want to do it with. so it is very complicated not back and white really
@@barneysayburn8862 basically what are the examples what was going thru person mind what benefits they received . maybe even friendship was the person married and actually it was kind of easy to say i tell your wife or say someone. people just go on stage whaling about rape no one ever s accused really and those rapis maybe alive now doing it to other people . so how does it make sense to say i did this for you not for herself to be famous at all? i am tying to ask a very specific example of what various people consider and classify as rape especially when they get involved with their managers or someone helping them with career. sometimes the attention from manager can hurt career rather bace that meager has doubts and try to be honest managers like why i distinguish that person is that because he is attracted etc. i mean people just go and say thins win attention love money pity. and it doesn't create any good energy. it is sacrificial cult of rape that then bring love of masses as victim who suffered repeatedly gave self to rape.
i am more curios about man and their integrity trading favors in exchange for the type of attention actually from female who really talented as well. because sometimes this friedship and personal relation that really help some to get promoted. unless it is outright disgust towards the person also asking for favors. but we do nt talk who that is. why lady gaga as powerful and famous she is not saying the name of the person even ig he died ? because she isnt hoping to sue him for money? is that guy who invented her name and was rather trying to sue her to share wealth and she is saying i tell everyone u rand me they believe me etc.
do u see a problem wit the situation here and generalizations very dangerous actually
Did it feel good though
Fucking disgusting comment
@@weneedtowakeup2092 *Not really. They’ll record their porn videos and hold the cameras and say the guy forced them to hold the camera while they’re moaning, “Pound me harder, daddy!”*
Imagine if she was taught how to use guns. A armed woman is essentially unrapable. But these people are so anti-self defense. And why doesn’t she name her attacker?
Because of thr*ats and suings, too?
But yeah, they are also g*slit and manipulated, too? Also SafetyInNumbers?
They also face g*ng r*pes, too?
Then goes on to work with r kelly LOL
I hope this reply got you the attention you craved so much
Exactly. Very good point. No victim would work with r. Kelly. She's a liar
Cesar Oviedo wasn’t Tryna get attention, just trying to show people how fake the industry is
frank castle all these people who worked with r Kelly quickly trying to de associate just so their name won’t get tarnished by a sex offender, all these people knew all along
She just wants attention winning undeserved Oscar wasn't enough.
Her music career's already going down the toilet.
Madonna wannabe her staged name not even original that's all.
incest survivors
creelmans lady godivas
maria shrivers
We all have PTSD, special he not be. Just another pill head from what I see...
you sound so ignorant not everyone has PTSD. you wouldn’t shame someone for taking meds for physical pain so fuck off
All women have ptsd....lol. they all need attention
@Roxie Rocks women self inflict trauma for attention
Head-smack moment...
i can't handle the amount of ignorant, uneducated, small minded people in this comment section...
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never happened unless she names the person who did this to her.
Why should she? That’s her decision. It did happen
Is this during the gogo dancing being almost naked and drunk all the time era of hers? Bc if so Im not surprised.
It doesn't matter if she was almost naked, drunk, or a gogo dancer, nobody deserves to be raped or abused.
Wow
cringe
Stfu
the only thing cringe is your horrible personality
The only thing cringe is this comment 🖕🏼
U a cringe ass bitch find a life and success maybe. Stop hating on successful people 😛🖕🏽
Who's her target audience now? Maybe just drag queens she looks like madonnas age but nowhere near it lol
LGBT community. Women who have suffered. People who have been bullied or feel different.
@@sksakib7189 that just sounds pathetic and sad.
djnaenae102490 nobody needs you’re negative comments. if you don’t like gaga, don’t watch and more importantly, don’t argue with her fans or criticize them. that’s just pathetic and sad.
@@djnaenae102490 What the actual fuck is wrong with you!!
Did she get an abortion?
PTSD ain’t real bruh it just y’all overacting lol