Derek loved and adored Meredith with all of his heart, he could never let go of her no matter the situation. When Meredith said that she needs to get Cristina down the aisle, Derek’s heart broke because he wanted her more then anything but Meredith couldn’t put her feelings into words, which was understandable. Throughout their entire relationship, Derek has always loved and adored Meredith with everything in his body, he would always worry about how she was and he knew her facial expressions. They loved each other so much, they deserved a better ending to their love story.
Here's the thing too if Meredith has to make sure that Christina goes down that aisle and marry Burke that means she really don't wanna marry him. She has always said that they had nothing in common but medicine. He loved her more than she loved him so I knew it wasn't happening.
Faith Watkins at the beginning of their relationship, Meredith was scared to trust him because she didn’t want to get her heart broken. I think Meredith wanted to be with him but she was too scared to trust him and love him incase they were to break up. Cristina is her other half and seeing your best friend getting married to someone who is older than them and who is also their boss is a big thing. Meredith wanted to be sure that relationships like hers and Derek’s would actually last and workout and when she saw her best friend getting left at the altar she thought that they wouldn’t work and was scared of commitment. After her therapy, she realised that she didn’t want to be with anyone else but Derek, she loved him so much that even when they weren’t together all she could think about was him. As soon as she realised how much she loves him and means to her she knew that she had to go and get him back. Meredith was always scared to trust and commit but Derek helped her to trust him and he bought out the bright and shiny in her whilst keeping her dark and twisty. Meredith loved Derek with everything she had just like Derek did with Meredith, it just took Meredith a little longer to trust him and trust that the would work out and would survive.
His face on 1:19 when she's telling him she needs to go to Cristina's wedding...wow...so sad, like he can't believe it, so heartbroken :( I honestly don't know why she didn't say anything about her feelings. He was tired of her leaving, and being absent sometimes, he tries to understand her, but he's in pain, that's why he says "put me out of misery", like, "I want to be with you, but I'm not sure you do, so please, just tell me, stop hurting me". He's not perfect and he has acted like a jerk many times, but I do understand what he means, I've been in that position...
Keep in mind Meredith has abandonment issues. Her father left when she was a child. Daddy issues 2.0. Like she said the more available he becomes the more she pushes away
Let's keep in mind that Derek left her first for Addison and then also called her a whore, she wanted to be with him that time but had to see him being with addison. She was in pain seeing that. Feeling the pain of getting abandonment...
I just realised throughout the show there are so many scenes where you see it in Derek's face, the worry he has for Meredith. Like in season 4 when she was roaming around the hospital with her Mother's ashes, the time an officer was searching for her, the time she ruined the trial, the time that ambulance turned over, the time internal bleeding started after her C section, the whole time she was pregnant, the time after she drowned. It was just him thinking, 'please god protect this woman I love so much, because if anything happens to her I will literally not know how to even breathe, let alone live'
you can honestly just tel that she wished she had the words, but she had to put the faith in something so she put it in Cristina's love life. "I need to get cristina down that aisle" She never seen a success in the love industry for anyone in her life so she needs to see her twisted half so that she knows that she can too y'know
hard words: derek: you are the love of my life... please end it coz i can´t, put me out of my misery. tht´s sad he cant break up with her, and she keeps him on that
This brings me memories of a lost love, whom i called "the love of my life". Im glad she ended up ending it in the end. Sadly she'll never know how grateful i am that she put it to an end. I bet now she's as better off wt me, as i am wt her xDDD
I have no doubt there is some parallel scene to this one on Scandal between Olivia -- who is always running away from Fitz-- and Fitz -- who would die for Olivia.
AMANDA PETERSON well that could be asked for some hollywood director, to make a movie, and maybe a romantic comedy again with PATRICK DEMPSEY. ESPECIALLY IN TODAY in full in 2014, the film would be pumped, many still remember the good chemistry the two had together, not to mention they are great actors. The Film arouse the interest of old fans and would take effect in the tabloids and media in general ..! I'm rooting for her to go back to work one day is too much talent to be thrown away.!
@bestfanever1 I dont think he was married anymore when he said that, i think he was then dating Meredith, and he had met that nurse, that did want to commit.
I really didn't get what Derek meant. Like.. if u love her than fight for her, don't beg her to end it, make her see you 2 are meant to be for god sake!
Hes exhausted and tired. He tries and tries but she keeps on leaving. In his eyes, theres nothing else to do. I know this cause I'm meredith and my fiancé is Derek.
He means that she needs to want to live. That she needs to want to fight, she needs to want to live a lifetime with him. I don’t think he knew at the time that the reason she came back (from drowning) was for him.
There are steps, and those steps can change. You definitely can fall in love with someone after getting to know them. Have you never gotten to know someone who you are not physically attracted to? Because if that's the case you are a very sad human being. And if you have and you just can't fall in love with someone because of their appearance, then you're an ever sadder human being. Love goes beyond looks and romance does too. I don't care if you reply again, I wont. Have a nice life.
Ruth Akosua Well that was an eternity before this scene! At this point they tried the relationship thing and Meredith couldn’t figure out if she wanted a future for them... From the moment they decided to be in a relationship Derek never left Meredith ;)
I do love u. don't u see? don't u understand? you are the love of my life. I cant leave you but you constantly leave me. not everyone, not yout friends but u leave me. so i am asking you if u dont see any future for us, if you are not in this, just end it because i cant i am in it. put me out of my misery
I actually would go for the 'fat' one. I think beauty goes way deeper than just looks.. You can't choose who you fall in love with, whether it's a guy with a beerbelly, a massive moustache and a sweat stained shirt or Patrick Dempsey. And like I said before, I didn't say all guys are assholes. And I never said anything about girls. Girls can be bitches as well, but not all girls are. Just like not all guys are asses It's been a delight talking to you. Until never! xo
Meredith was suicidal. She used to get overwhelmed with feelings. And to keep protecting herself she won't tell Derek things. Be closed off and then telling him she loves him. He loved her but at this point she was not ready to be loved. She was struggling with herself being worthy of love. So Derek asks her once and for all to tell him if she is with him to stay. To be together for better or for worse. But she was not ready. So she deflected his question here. Because her last hope was that if Cristina gets her happily ever after, she can too be loved. Maybe she can too be happy. But when Burke left, her hope of happily ever after left. So she ended it with Derek.
First when he meet her he lyded, be honest at the beginning Meredith I am Married but that happened bla bla and done from day one 1 when Addison comes to Seattle I hated his caracter and all Diva stuff. Mark is whey more better they stuck with this story until End his Contract or whatever and then they hooked up Meredith with two Idiot's expecialy DeLuca that was really desperate move from Writer's.You can't just so after Show aired they where together constantly and they espect that audience embrace that. Better that they leave her alone with her kid's. It's just stupid.
AMANDA PETERSON well that could be asked for some hollywood director, to make a movie, and maybe a romantic comedy again with PATRICK DEMPSEY. ESPECIALLY IN TODAY in full in 2014, the film would be pumped, many still remember the good chemistry the two had together, not to mention they are great actors. The Film arouse the interest of old fans and would take effect in the tabloids and media in general ..! I'm rooting for her to go back to work one day is too much talent to be thrown away.!
this was like dereks versions of merediths "pick me" speech hes like begging her
his voice...his eyes...his expression...god it's killing me...
I know this killed me inside...
I literally can’t breathe
right!!!!!!! the way he looks at her!!!!
Jonelle M it makes me melt
When Derek said ‘I do love you.... you’re the love of my life’ both Meredith’s and Derek’s face and eyes lit up!
Aimee Hall
No it didn’t but okay...
I miss the old greys Anatomy
Tell me about it :( :(
Yes as tell me about it 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭please!!
Thats crazy !!😂 I just ssid the very same thing after watching the clip!!👍
They don’t make em like this snymore
SAME
Derek loved and adored Meredith with all of his heart, he could never let go of her no matter the situation. When Meredith said that she needs to get Cristina down the aisle, Derek’s heart broke because he wanted her more then anything but Meredith couldn’t put her feelings into words, which was understandable. Throughout their entire relationship, Derek has always loved and adored Meredith with everything in his body, he would always worry about how she was and he knew her facial expressions. They loved each other so much, they deserved a better ending to their love story.
Here's the thing too if Meredith has to make sure that Christina goes down that aisle and marry Burke that means she really don't wanna marry him. She has always said that they had nothing in common but medicine. He loved her more than she loved him so I knew it wasn't happening.
Faith Watkins at the beginning of their relationship, Meredith was scared to trust him because she didn’t want to get her heart broken. I think Meredith wanted to be with him but she was too scared to trust him and love him incase they were to break up. Cristina is her other half and seeing your best friend getting married to someone who is older than them and who is also their boss is a big thing. Meredith wanted to be sure that relationships like hers and Derek’s would actually last and workout and when she saw her best friend getting left at the altar she thought that they wouldn’t work and was scared of commitment. After her therapy, she realised that she didn’t want to be with anyone else but Derek, she loved him so much that even when they weren’t together all she could think about was him. As soon as she realised how much she loves him and means to her she knew that she had to go and get him back. Meredith was always scared to trust and commit but Derek helped her to trust him and he bought out the bright and shiny in her whilst keeping her dark and twisty. Meredith loved Derek with everything she had just like Derek did with Meredith, it just took Meredith a little longer to trust him and trust that the would work out and would survive.
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Aimee Hall
"put me out of my misery" wow he really loves her
"I can't leave you, but you are constantly leaving me" *six years later* *he has a car accident* *he has brain death* *gets unplugged* *he left her*
Alexia Rivas OMFG IM SO SAD WHIT THIS :(
That just depressed the living shit out of me omfg
Why would you ruin it? please take it down.
😂😂So true
I disagree. There wasn't a Derek to leave that time, he was already gone
They were sooo meant for each other. Thankfully they're together now. Patrick Dempsey is an amazing actor.
this comment honestly just makes me so unbelievably sad its killing me.
@@BestFriends-ov4kb because they probably didn’t know what would happen? That’s what I was thinking 😞
@@user-ev6pw6yb3s 😭😭
His face on 1:19 when she's telling him she needs to go to Cristina's wedding...wow...so sad, like he can't believe it, so heartbroken :(
I honestly don't know why she didn't say anything about her feelings. He was tired of her leaving, and being absent sometimes, he tries to understand her, but he's in pain, that's why he says "put me out of misery", like, "I want to be with you, but I'm not sure you do, so please, just tell me, stop hurting me". He's not perfect and he has acted like a jerk many times, but I do understand what he means, I've been in that position...
Keep in mind Meredith has abandonment issues. Her father left when she was a child. Daddy issues 2.0. Like she said the more available he becomes the more she pushes away
Mer didint say nothing, because she's selfish
@@lourdesfreitas3159 nah
Let's keep in mind that Derek left her first for Addison and then also called her a whore, she wanted to be with him that time but had to see him being with addison. She was in pain seeing that. Feeling the pain of getting abandonment...
I love her walk
boneye mgxekwa Me too ♡ I love this scene so much ♡
I wish he said ur the love of my life to me I would die
When he says "I do love you" is cutest thing ever
This video is a stab in the heart "He said I can't leave you!" HE DID
Yes he did leave but not of his own accord
This scene is so sad... 😭😭... it show to us that he loves her so much ...
I just realised throughout the show there are so many scenes where you see it in Derek's face, the worry he has for Meredith. Like in season 4 when she was roaming around the hospital with her Mother's ashes, the time an officer was searching for her, the time she ruined the trial, the time that ambulance turned over, the time internal bleeding started after her C section, the whole time she was pregnant, the time after she drowned. It was just him thinking, 'please god protect this woman I love so much, because if anything happens to her I will literally not know how to even breathe, let alone live'
I feel every word that he says 😭 He loved her so much 😔😔😔
The good old Grey's, miss it 😔❤
i’m in love with this scene
i love it everytime he says "i love you." and that smilevon his face. 😍😍
I feel every word as if they were mine
This was so sad! Patrick Dempsey was amazing
I think i am going through this now. damn. I do love her.
you can honestly just tel that she wished she had the words, but she had to put the faith in something so she put it in Cristina's love life. "I need to get cristina down that aisle" She never seen a success in the love industry for anyone in her life so she needs to see her twisted half so that she knows that she can too y'know
No one could ever compare to them.
No one could ever complain to them
I have the same personality as Dr. Sheperd, and close looks, I love Derek. My inspiration.
Hahahahaha... my beloved sister!!! I love you!!! You made my day!!!
such a great love story! so adorable together!. The sad thing is, (such love) it only happens in movies not in real life. wish it did anyway!
Mere is such a Scorpio ♏️ 🤣😂😂🤣 walk away when she wants, come back when she wants... such a Scorpio ♏️ move
hard words: derek: you are the love of my life... please end it coz i can´t, put me out of my misery. tht´s sad he cant break up with her, and she keeps him on that
Put me outa my misery....just took my breath away.......
This brings me memories of a lost love, whom i called "the love of my life". Im glad she ended up ending it in the end. Sadly she'll never know how grateful i am that she put it to an end. I bet now she's as better off wt me, as i am wt her xDDD
absolutely love this scene! but i've heard it in Italian and it sounds so much more romantic! and sad =(.. love GA all together!
I Adore the Chemistry when their together🙏🏽😏💕
The music played in the background makes me a lil sad
hw can she just leave him at that moment when such words are uttered...
😔😔😔porfavor no te mueres 😢😢😢😿😿😿😿
This scene broke my heart. Then he died. 😭
Yoyi 2004 ikr? 😭
💔
That's a man ❤️
The song is Within you by Ray LaMontagne. :)
🙏🙏🙏
you walk away when you want, you come back when you want
Im smiling like the whole freakin time ahhhh derek :(((((((
😭😭😭😭
i don't understand a single thing about what you guys are talking in the comments but I am liking them all
I have no doubt there is some parallel scene to this one on Scandal between Olivia -- who is always running away from Fitz-- and Fitz -- who would die for Olivia.
I only noticed recently that there was a parallel sequence in grey's season 2 ep 27 of Fitz and Olivia in the closet scene in the church
AMANDA PETERSON well that could be asked for some hollywood director, to make a movie, and maybe a romantic comedy again with PATRICK DEMPSEY. ESPECIALLY IN TODAY in full in 2014, the film would be pumped, many still remember the good chemistry the two had together, not to mention they are great actors. The Film arouse the interest of old fans and would take effect in the tabloids and media in general ..! I'm rooting for her to go back to work one day is too much talent to be thrown away.!
god !
@bellydancingdream - This is true !!!! I thought I was the only one who felt this way. :)
hahaha she will never know how grateful i am either
@bestfanever1 I dont think he was married anymore when he said that, i think he was then dating Meredith, and he had met that nurse, that did want to commit.
No it was lexi
Bon bah toujours là. Toujours à ce point. Toujours.
I really didn't get what Derek meant. Like.. if u love her than fight for her, don't beg her to end it, make her see you 2 are meant to be for god sake!
Catti Lo Beautifully said! I needed to see this..what you said, about fighting for love.
Catti Lo he is fed up
Hes exhausted and tired. He tries and tries but she keeps on leaving. In his eyes, theres nothing else to do. I know this cause I'm meredith and my fiancé is Derek.
You've obviously never been in a relationship
He means that she needs to want to live. That she needs to want to fight, she needs to want to live a lifetime with him. I don’t think he knew at the time that the reason she came back (from drowning) was for him.
There are steps, and those steps can change. You definitely can fall in love with someone after getting to know them.
Have you never gotten to know someone who you are not physically attracted to? Because if that's the case you are a very sad human being. And if you have and you just can't fall in love with someone because of their appearance, then you're an ever sadder human being.
Love goes beyond looks and romance does too. I don't care if you reply again, I wont. Have a nice life.
I loved this scene but also, he’s lying, he chose Addison so it’s not always Mer’ leaving him
Ruth Akosua Well that was an eternity before this scene! At this point they tried the relationship thing and Meredith couldn’t figure out if she wanted a future for them... From the moment they decided to be in a relationship Derek never left Meredith ;)
@@charmey3987 yea well until he died
My personality is like the same as Dr. Sheperd's.
this was a realy sad episode! the only good part was that berck or whatever his name was , LEFT!
I wish someone will tell me that
which episode is this??
@azizam86
In case you hadnt found it.
Ray LaMontagne - Within You
I do love u. don't u see? don't u understand? you are the love of my life. I cant leave you but you constantly leave me. not everyone, not yout friends but u leave me. so i am asking you if u dont see any future for us, if you are not in this, just end it because i cant i am in it. put me out of my misery
How is he always able to turn it back on her...i call bulllllshit.
Why am I Derek 🤦♂️ I'm not crying you're crying.
O MY FLIPPIN GOD CAN I BE MRS.SHEPPERD
What chapter is it? Please
0:31 #respectMOM
How about we give McSteamy McDreamy's personality, and give McSteamyAndSoDreamy to me? :D
Pls what episode and season?
🙁
I actually would go for the 'fat' one. I think beauty goes way deeper than just looks.. You can't choose who you fall in love with, whether it's a guy with a beerbelly, a massive moustache and a sweat stained shirt or Patrick Dempsey.
And like I said before, I didn't say all guys are assholes. And I never said anything about girls. Girls can be bitches as well, but not all girls are. Just like not all guys are asses
It's been a delight talking to you. Until never! xo
Right
*Put me out of my misery*
I don't remember ths scene at all.
need psychiatric explanation of this scene
Meredith was suicidal. She used to get overwhelmed with feelings. And to keep protecting herself she won't tell Derek things. Be closed off and then telling him she loves him. He loved her but at this point she was not ready to be loved. She was struggling with herself being worthy of love.
So Derek asks her once and for all to tell him if she is with him to stay. To be together for better or for worse. But she was not ready. So she deflected his question here.
Because her last hope was that if Cristina gets her happily ever after, she can too be loved. Maybe she can too be happy. But when Burke left, her hope of happily ever after left.
So she ended it with Derek.
@@aditivarshney9901 your a year late i dont know why i asked it anymore
@@aditivarshney9901 but thanx
her's was more desperate, but cute ;D
First when he meet her he lyded, be honest at the beginning Meredith I am Married but that happened bla bla and done from day one 1 when Addison comes to Seattle I hated his caracter and all Diva stuff. Mark is whey more better they stuck with this story until End his Contract or whatever and then they hooked up Meredith with two Idiot's expecialy DeLuca that was really desperate move from Writer's.You can't just so after Show aired they where together constantly and they espect that audience embrace that. Better that they leave her alone with her kid's. It's just stupid.
Aimee Hall
Achei que foi ordinária nesta cena. Depois de uma confissão de amor ela prefere ir empurrar a Cristina. Fala sério...
Quero ouvir em português 🇧🇷
Pelo visto está maratonando né? 😂🥰
Couldn't stand Meredith in this scene.
duh ;)
AMANDA PETERSON well that could be asked for some hollywood director, to make a movie, and maybe a romantic comedy again with PATRICK DEMPSEY. ESPECIALLY IN TODAY in full in 2014, the film would be pumped, many still remember the good chemistry the two had together, not to mention they are great actors. The Film arouse the interest of old fans and would take effect in the tabloids and media in general ..! I'm rooting for her to go back to work one day is too much talent to be thrown away.!
what episode is this?
The last episode in season 3