LIVE REACTION: Opening my bad PhD Results! .... (not good, cry with me!)
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During my EdD journey, I received brutal feedback for the first time after completing four courses. Initially shocked and ashamed, I later found it to be a valuable learning experience. There's always room to grow. Glad to see you're able to embrace the feedback to develop your potential as a scholar-practitioner! :)
Honestly it was so disheartening but I did reframe my mindset and I see it as a chance to try and again and to learn from the feedback provided! I am learning that it is okay not to always get it right because I am still learning xx
You are a PHD STUDENT! You are there to learn! It is part of the process, and you can do this🫡
Awwww thank you bestie!! xxx
Girllll, this is what a PHD is all about.. learning and getting feedback from the best. If you were flying through everything easily, there’d be no point in being there. The fact that your peers have so much experience, just means you’ll be learning even more. You got this! ❤
I totally agree with you there!!! And I know thats righttt, i have to keep going. Thank you xxx
The fact that you have been doing well in your other assignments just shows the big potential you have! It’s heartbreaking, I know, but do not be discouraged. It’s just a rock along the path and you are going to overcome it 🤍
Awwww thank you bestie!! i appreciate you!! xxx
GIRL IT'S OKAYY!! you felt bad because you've been on fire from the beginning! You can bounce back. think about it, these feedback must be valuable and you have the opportunity to FIX IT! IT'S NOT OVER. take these feedback and learn from it, it's the way you grow and learn ❤❤
Amen to that!!! You did not tell a lie there!! Thank you!! xxx
You would not be in that space if you were not meant to be there🙌🏾🔥 We learn from the feedback, we shake it off and we move🙏🏾
Amennnn to that!!! Thank you xxx
Being summoned is actually a pretty good sign. If your professor reaches out to you it’s because they know you have it in you to improve.
Are you using a citation management program like Zotero or Mendely? They can just import your citations to prevent mistakes.
You've got this, Vee!
I use endnote and you can set it to APA. I am using CTR, and I can use it for my references. It has helped me no end with referencing.
You are so right!! I guess at first I was just shocked and emotional but I see that now. And no I am not but I will look into this, thank you xxx
Wanna second this and say- it’s also a good sign that your prof summoned you. It probably means your paper topic is something genuinely interesting to your prof and they want to see the paper executed as ~they would execute it. So they’re being extra hard on it. Keep it up ❤️
Thank you for being real on here!!! No one is perfect and life goes up and down, sometimes you do great, and other times you are struggling. And as a "Studytuber" I'm so happy that you are actually showing that you aren't always getting the best grades either. I feel sorry for you but I appreciate your honesty! and also don't be disappointed in yourself! Remember you are doing great just look back at everything you have already done!
Dr. Kativhu if you ever feel disappointed or don't believe in yourself, just remember you've got thousands of people ACROSS THE GLOBE rooting for you. I have been here long enough to know how incredible you are and never stop! Love from Australia
Ouuuu bestie!! not the Dr. Kativhu!! Now I must listen lool .. Awww I really appreciate this comment! thank you for the positive words and I will never get over how many of you genuinely want to see me win! I feel very blessed. Thank you for the support bestie xx
@@drveekativhu always ❤❤
I remember when my science teacher pulled me to the teacher’s office to grill me on my test scores. At the time I was going through stuff at home they didn’t know about. They weren’t there to roast me they were there to guide me. Appreciate teachers who look out for you even when it’s embarrassing 😭 you’re gonna do amazing vee! They saw your potential and gave you this opportunity 💗
Awww I just love when teachers are supportive, it makes such a difference. Thank you for sharing what you went through and thank you for the words o encouragement xxx
Lord I lift my hands up to pray for Vee and give her the strength and guidance to overcome this situation. Help her to release that we must experience mistakes in order to seek our true potential and succeed. And Lord I pray that Vee becomes a very successful Doctor and becomes filled with courage . Thank you for everything you have done for her and everything you will do for her. Amen🙏🏿
Wow!! what a thoughtful prayer!! In Jesus name AMEN!!! Thank you so much lovely!! this touched my heart :) xx
I remember going through a grief season and getting the worst grade in my favorite course!!💔
It hits differently guys🙂.
You're not alone in this Sis❤️.
Praying for you and sending you hugs 🫂
Hey bestie sorry to hear that you had to go through that while studying! and thank you for the love and support! means a lot xx
It's the "don't submit the rest until you fix these". Got that one too and it's so humbling
Loool very humbling indeed!! xx
Vee GIRL, you may not have much teaching experience but you can work a room with flying colours. You will persevere and shine bright throughout your PHD journey. Don't let this mishap hold you back !!! Love you
Stopppp, I am going to cry! You are all so kind to me and I truly feel lucky and blessed to have you all. Thank you so much and love you too!!
Vee, I am so sorry about your assignment. Your professor was giving you good feedback where you need to improve. You can look for a tutor who has a PhD in Education to try and help you with your assignments. When I did my MA in Classical Studies in the second year, I received negative feedback in my assignments and when I went to get a local tutor in my area and asked for help from my tutor at the OU and the Student Support team, I improved dramatically because I realized that I was describing and narrating instead of arguing and I did end up passing and receiving my Master's degree. Writing essays are extremely difficult, but I am sure that you will do well in the end and you will become Dr. Vee.
Thank you so much for your understanding and encouragement! I really appreciate your advice and sharing your own experience. Seeking help from a tutor sounds like a great idea, and I'll definitely consider reaching out for support. Your success story is inspiring, and it gives me hope that I can overcome this hurdle too xx
I found Zotero quite a relief in managing my over 1000 references, I did not have to think about the nitty gritties of referencing as once you set it from the beginning on what style of referencing then you just write......Academia can be like that. I failed a paper for not proper referencing my work and then the perspective I adopted did not answer the question as required...... In as much I felt disappointed, I took that as an opportunity to learn but don't get discouraged... it's part of the process somedays it will be great but some days it will be disheartening but you don't stop there you do it again but this time differently.... all the best @VEE
Thanks for sharing your experience with Zotero - it sounds like a lifesaver! And I really appreciate your words of wisdom about facing challenges in academia. It's true, some days are tough, but they're also opportunities for growth. I'll keep pushing forward, learning from my mistakes along the way. All the best to you too! xx
I am not gonna impose how great l think you are and brave for following this so l will let you feel your feelings.
Me after getting a 52% on a marketing report I SWEAR I killed during my semester in Ireland fr… Still definitely passed the class but I worked SO hard on that and it sucks 😫. Doesnt help that it was 80% of my grade
Ugh, I feel you! It's so frustrating when you put in all that effort and things don't turn out as expected. But hey, at least you passed the class! That's a win in itself. Hang in there, and keep pushing forward. Your hard work will pay off in the long run xx
Zotero is a useful tool for referencing. It can help you organize your sources and will automatically format to APA :)
Citavi is even better :)
Thank you for sharing bestie!! xx
This video found me at the perfect time. I just got my midterm back and it was the lowest score for a big assignment I’ve gotten in my life. I’m in a STEM PhD so my experiences are a little different, but I feel you so hard. You got this!
I think we can all relate to each other!! I am glad we have this space on the internet as it is a reminder that we are all in this together! xx
Keep pushing Vee. I saw this beautiful quote that I want to share. "Because you aren't giving up, someone looking up to you isn't either". I'm cheering for you Vee😊
Awww that you for sharing!! I appreciate it and thank you for the support xx
Poor you, it’s so painful when you think you have done a good job. You gotta give yourself time and kindness, if anyone can pull it back you can. ❤
That is exactly what I had to do bestie!! I need to start giving myself grace for sure xx
Keep soaring, Vee. I am proud of you and what you have accomplished thus far, education-wise. I just finished my last bachelor's course and will move on to my master's eventually. You are the same age as me, and it is inspiring to see how far you have come.
Awww thank you so much for the encouragement, I truly appreciate it xx
So, I love your content! You actually were one of my inspirations for getting a PHD in Education.
I had zero teaching experience before beginning my PHD (albeit, in a traditional classroom - My resume was English private education and professional education). Anyway, did the PHD and now I work for an international recruitment firm in Tokyo.
Best advice is to not overthink your studies too much. It can be counterintuitive. unnecessary anxiety, retaining pointless information, overanalysing terms, concepts, and frameworks, etc.
Really take the time to ask yourself if you are putting too much anxiety on yourself? Is the information and books you are reading relevant to your immediate studies? Are you allowing yourself breaks to recentre? Can you collaborate with peers or friends in the industry? What is it exactly that you hope to accomplish in your studies? What avenue of research should you be focusing on?
Putting the time aside to really plan out your study journey will make a world of difference.
You can do it - you have such a passion and love for what you are doing. It is very obvious how much you care about this. So, stay strong, recentre, and you can make it. And remember - It's all gravy my friend.
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Thank you so much for your support and sharing your journey! Your advice about not overthinking and finding balance is really helpful. I'll make sure to prioritise my mental well-being and focus on what's important. Thank you for the encouragement. It's all about staying centered and focused, right? x
A 5.5 means your over half way there. Try not to be too hard on yourself. I am a masters student in the UK and being brave enough to make these videos shows you have incredible courage. Speak to your personal academic tutor and make sure you have support and ask the academic skills staff to read over the papers and see if they agree with the marks given. Celebrate your birthday as this PhD does not define who you are or what you can do. Is she known for giving very harsh marks? . You are intelligent, incredibly funny and passionate about your studies and the topics you write about and not everyone will get that. It's hard. You are an inspiration to so many students right now because you are so genuine and honest so you are already making such a difference to students lives without realising it. We are all cheering you on.
From a UK student bestie💜
Wow madam, i dont know you and you dont me but your comment are so sweet and caring. I take long to see people who care about others like this. Thank you
Thank you so much for your kind and supportive words, Bestie! It really means a lot to me. You're absolutely right - it's important to celebrate the progress we've made, even if it feels like we're still halfway there. Your encouragement to speak to my personal academic tutor and seek support from the academic skills staff is spot on. And you're right, this PhD doesn't define me - it's just one part of who I am. Thank you for rooting for me bestie!!
😢 i teared a little... thank God for the opportunity to re-write.
Awww bestie! All is well now and yesss I am glad I was presented with that option x
Something beautiful my pastor told me to get through my first failing grade in university: God is a God of wisdom. He has a complete, perfect plan and you are part of it. So for every failure he already has a plan to repair- for lack of a better word, in place. No-one can come against His plan and will, not even me and I had to learn that the hard way😂 It is set and in place. Therefore my future and succes is in place. It is already with God , it just has to happen here on earth.Stand on his promise of prosperity and a bright future.Have faith in His word. Isaiah 29:11 Everything will be okay.
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful and comforting perspective. It's a powerful reminder that even in moments of failure or struggle, there's a greater plan at work. Having faith in that plan and trusting in God's wisdom can provide a sense of peace and hope. I'll definitely hold onto those words and stand on the promise of a bright future. Your encouragement means a lot, and I appreciate you sharing this uplifting message :) x
Love the transparency ❤
Always bestie! and thank you xx
It really okay Vee. Prioritise. You will be fine. It is a small set back but the future is brighter.
Love this! Thank you xx
Just started my first year of PhD as well and I can definitely feel you. I am studying abroad and I only have one 20-40 page paper and an exam at the end of the year, but it is hard!
As others have said, Zotero is a life saver! You've got this, you are amazing and you are going to be killing it in no time!
Thanks for sharing your experience, and solidarity in starting your PhD journey! It's tough, but we're in it together. And thanks for the Zotero tip - definitely going to check that out! Let's keep pushing forward, we've got this!! xx
Even thought am not a PHD student, I can relate to what you are going through as a student.you got this sis. Can you imagine I have a written a 20 page APA research paper last year as a diploma student here in Canada. Good luck sis
Nooo you are not going to fail Vee!!! You are more than capable to get this PhD.
Omg this is so sweet! thank you!! xx
Been there. Don’t let it stop you from pushing through! It’s ok to be sad for a moment
Thank you :) xx
Don’t forget you got on to this course with the others so of course you have the skills to be there. You got this
Such a great point to highlight! Thank you xx
Im very very honestly appreciative of your honesty.
Thank you so much!! xx
Those screams could shatter glass! You're great Vee❤
Awww thank you xxx
Hi Vee
Awww I am sorry to hear this! but I hope that you eventually opened the email because like you said it is all a learning process. But I totally understand why you would avoid looking at it in the moment. Good luck and thank you xx
Ah im so sorry youre having a hard time with this module. I got this vid on my recommended so i know very little about your journey. The fact that youre doing a PhD and have been killing it is huge! They wouldnt let you on the course if they didnt think you could do it. Your tutor wouldnt reach out to you to support you through this if they didnt think you could do it. The fact you care so much, that youre nailing your other classes and are so motivated means youre going to be just fine. Youre there to learn, if you got everything right immediately youre not learning anything beyond your current skill. I had a class during my BA that i just couldnt seem to figure out. After talking to my tutor we came to the conclusion that it was an entirely new way of applying knowledge for me. A totally different way of thinking that just didnt come natural to me. Realising that was so helpful, talking it through with my tutor and understanding where my thoughts and hers diverged helped me understand the approach i had to take on. I would pretend to be her whenever i had to write something. Sounds batshit but it worked for me!
Don't apologise at all, I appreciate your empathy and encouragement! It's really comforting to hear your perspective. You're spot on about the learning process, it's all about growth and pushing past those challenging moments. Your story about finding a new way of thinking during your BA really resonates with me. Sometimes it takes a different perspective or approach to break through those mental blocks. I'll definitely keep your advice in mind. Thanks for sharing your experience x
That imposter syndrome is real. I’m almost done with my master’s in school psych and my peers, seniors and juniors all have experience working with kids unlike me. It’s been a difficult two years with courses and practicum with me doubting myself and questioning why I was ever picked to join the program in the first place. Some days I feel good and most days not. I just know that I need to put in the work if I feel I’m not good enough, learn to love myself despite my insecurities and remind myself to stop picking on myself constantly.
I totally understand where you're coming from. Imposter syndrome can be really tough to deal with, especially when you're surrounded by others who seem more experienced. Just remember, you were chosen for a reason, and your unique perspective and dedication are valuable assets. It's okay to have those moments of doubt - we all do. But trust in yourself and your abilities. You're on this journey for a reason, and you're capable of great things. Hang in there, and remember that you're not alone in feeling this way :) x
Loving the vulnerability and honesty in this.
All the very best Vee
Thank you!! xx
Sending love, keep going!!!!!! For all of us from lower socio economic backgrounds in the UK who are doing what we never even dreamed of
Thank you so much!!! I love how much you all support me! It means a lot to me xx
Hey Vee,❤
Feel every emotions that come afterwards. It's part of your journey's success. With failure, you'll grow even more.
I love your energy and spirit. I'm so proud of youuuuuuuu🎉🎉. Don't worry, everything will work out well and you're closer to getting that PHD than you think. Much love.❤
BRB just going to wipe my tears!! This is such a sweet comment! Thank you so much for believing in me and for cheering me on, it means a lot to me xx
Honestly, I feel it is so much harder to critically evaluate your performance in things you are passionate about because you tend to have so many emotional attachments that it is hard being objective sometimes when it comes to assessing your ideas and writing.
You get attached to certain ideas and they end up popping up in every piece of your work and it gets hard to justify them.
Therefore, it is a great opportunity to start questioning everything and learn and re learn!
You hit the nail on the head! It's definitely a challenge to stay objective when you're passionate about something. Those emotional attachments can make it hard to critically evaluate your own work. It's like those ideas just keep sneaking back in, right? But recognising this is a huge step towards improving. Keep pushing yourself to see things from different angles, and don't be afraid to shake things up. It's all part of the process! xx
Be kind to yourself, give yourself time to process the negative emotions and then focus on the next steps you can take. I know you have got this and will be amazing!
I totally agree with you here!! Thank you so much xx
that APA stuffed me over too!!! so next time I go into studying I am going to sit right next to those student support people who say they live and breathe APA hahaha ! you got this girl you do! you are such an academic achiever don't forget that! you know what, this will actually make you produce maybe your best work yet!!!....do you follow Siobhan maclean? she helped me a lot with my papers with all like workshop with some of of the things you speak of? ....and there's degree doctor? have a browse on those to see if they may help spark some inspo! deep breaths ! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Haha, I feel you on the APA struggle! Sitting next to those APA experts sounds like a solid plan for next time. Thanks for the vote of confidence, it means a lot! You're right, maybe this challenge will bring out my best work yet. And thanks for the recommendations! I'll definitely check out Siobhan Maclean and Degree Doctor for some inspiration.
girl your gonna be FINNEEEE. Yes it may SEEM bad in the moment. but it ALL eventually works in your favor.
Yes yes you were right!! I was okay in the end. Thank you bestie :)
Its okay Vee. Its normak to have periods like these where things dont go well. What defines your character is how you keep trying ans fighting!
Amennnn to that!!!! I realise that now lol .. thank you :)
Hang in there, Vee! These are the courses that are going to make you a stronger writer and researcher!! I'm happy to hear that your professor is giving you great feedback and is available to you. You've got this!
Amen to this!! I totally agree with you here! Thank you xx
Hey, sorry to hear about your paper, and thanks for sharing the ups and downs of the PhD journey :). In 'The Seven Secrets of highly successful PhD students ' by Hugh Kearns and Maria Gardiner they say that the PhD thesis is, '10% intelligence and 90% persistence'. As someone who's just recently passed their PhD, I really do believe this is true. People who stick it out to the end graduate eventually. The fact that a university admits the student to the program is an indication that the student has the capacity to complete the PhD project. Best wishes with the re-write :).
Heyyy! thank you for leaving this comment behind. I will have to have a read myself! Thank you so much!! xx
Hey Vee, please try not to be so hard on yourself.. you've already gotten this far
Thanks a bunch for your support! Your words mean a lot. I'll try to be kinder to myself and stay positive. Your encouragement keeps me going xx
At least you can redo the work! I’m sure you’ll do better with her feedback tho , you got this Vee 💜
Thank you!!! :)
Thank you for sharing this. I'm currently doing an MA in education and I've been struggling ❤ I love how you came up with a plan to overcome this. We're all learning here 🥰
You are welcome bestie!! and I guess from the comments section it is clear to see that we are all going through similar experiences so never feel alone! We have got this!! xx
You are going to make it through this and everything will work out~ I have faith in you, you are going to do amazing things! 💕✨
Thank you!!! xx
Vee it's going to be okay, take a deep breath. I feel like I'm doing this with you omg. Let people not lie to you, education is not for the faint hearted and the fact that you're going so far as to get a doctorate means that you are COMMITTED and DETERMINED to be the best you can be. I feel like I can relate so deeply to your panic that I want to give you a hug. We're here for you, we're rooting for you all the way. Sending all the love your way ❤
You did not tell a lie there!! It is a journey filled with a rollercoaster of emotions for sure lol and thank you so so much I truly appreciate the kind words. We have got this!! xx
“I’m not gonna go out like this!” I needed to hear this. I’m on a different journey getting my EMT certification. I can tell I’m either losing steam, or getting bored with the information. I’m trying to stay motivated! I’m currently in the middle of my ride alongs with the patient transport team and loving it. I needed a refresher of why I wanted to do this.
Also I relate to loving a class but doing rough in it.
We got this! Lmao “they’ve never summoned me” hahahaha
Yaay glad to hear that the video motivated you and happy to know that so many of you could relate to what I was going through. I hope all is well with you! and good luck!! xx
Girl, I feel you! This semester has been the hardest. I have never felt so incompetent and sad. Thanks for sharing your experience we’ll make it through ❤️
But we have got this!! tough times never last bestie
You learn more from your mistakes than just getting good grades on everything. Vee is such an achiever that I think her professor is trying to challenge her to promote growth :)
I know it's very hard but I can see you completing your PhD gracefull😍 Moreee power to you!
awww thank you!!! :) x
Hey Vee, it is actually interesting as a highschool student to see that APA citation is also used in PhD. I use Google docs, in the tool section you will find "citations" and then you can switch to APA or MLA formatting. All you need to do is to keep inserting your links and it generates a reference list for you in whatever formatting you selected. You might need to insert some information yourself if it doesn't automatically add it. But it will let you know beforehand.
You got this Vee!
Hey there! It's cool to hear about your experience with APA citation. Technology really does make things easier sometimes, huh? Thanks for the tip about Google Docs - I'll definitely try it out. Appreciate the support!! x
You've got this Vee! All the very best! God's blessings are with you!❤️
Thank you so much xx
Vee!! You’re already such an accomplished person, don’t be too hard on yourself ❤️ you got this :)
Awwww thank you!!! xx
This couldn't have come at a better time for me. I've literally just dropped a paper because it was going so bad and I'm so disheartened I don't think I can finish my degree. We're gonna get through this girl :,)
Oh no!! but do not doubt yourself for a second. Sometimes these things have to happen and there is always room for improvement :). You've got this!!
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YOU GOT THIS DR KATIVHU ,We believe in you ♥
Awwww thank you!!!
You've got this Vee! Thank you for sharing this part of the journey. I know its not easy.
Thank you bestie!! xx
Why is it always the classes you love the most that you do the worst in!! I’ve had the same experience lol. Proud of you for being so vulnerable, a lot of us have been in similar situations and it helps to know you’re not alone. You’ve got this!
Looking back at it I really was not shocked about the grade because I knew that I had a crazy busy work schedule. The burn out really got me and it had an impact on my university work. Thank you so much :) x
the fact that you are doing a PHD is really inspirational to me as a young teenager that`s where i would like to see myself with all your problem knowing am doing a PHD
Awww thank you!!! and I believe in you, you can do it if you put your mind to it
I had a somewhat stern zoom meeting with my advisor regarding my economics marks for both macro and micro economics, as I did not meet expectations for my finance program. Both marks were barely passing grades but were waaay off from the minimum threshold to meet standards. I have to retake both of these damn economics courses this summer. I’m praying I pass as I don’t want to me expelled from my school 😂
You Got This Vee!!
Hai Vee, just here to tell you that you can do anything you put your mind too!!! sending love
Thank you so much xx
The main guidance I’ve gotten about referencing is to find an example of the APA you will follow (like in a recent publication, etc) and just stick to it. Use the exact same citation source (I use citation generator cause I didn’t personally love Zotero) but whatever it is go tot he library ask them if your works cited and in text citations are correct and then just stay super consistent with it and teachers will usually totally accept that because referencing is a bit left open on some things, you really just have to pick an example to follow and stick to it!
Thank you for sharing!! Really helpful xx
You are such an inspiration!! Keep going xx
Thank you so much xx
Girl have the birthday, you deserve it regardless!! If anything it will clear your head and make your paper stronger
You are so sweet!! Thank you so much xx
Praying that God provides you with strength and wisdom as you navigate this challenging phase of your PhD journey. Your incredible progress so far is a testament to your abilities, and I believe you are more than capable of achieving your goals. Stay strong-you're doing great! 🙏❤
Aww thank you so much! I receive it all :) xx
Big sisteeerrr ❤ we're here for you
Awww I love that! Thank you xx
dont doubt yourself you are brilliant, intelligent and there for a reason you are so diligent and have accomplished so much already you will learn and do amazingly best of luck!!
Thank youuuu!!! xxx
I'm sorry to hear about your mark, I personally experienced very similar the for the first time this week. Sometimes I wonder if it's because we have different ways of thinking, which tutors interpret as wrong. I like to use the University of Queensland's APA 7 Referencing guide :). Best of luck!
Get the APA 7 manual, and it will show you everything there is to know about your citations, formatting your papers, etc. Purdue Owl also has some great tips for APA if you need to find any in a pinch! It takes a minute to learn and memorize, but you can do it!
Hey!! thank you for sharing, I really appreciate it xx
Vee you're not going to fail! Keep your head up. You got this!!!!
Thank you bestie!! xx
This was so triggering. I went through the exact same process. I came out on the other end though and you will too. Sending bucket loads of strength your way
Oh no I am so sorry to hear about your own personal experience but I am glad it all worked out for you in the end. Thank you for the support :)
this video is so real. I had a similar experience during my masters, an essay came back with a fail grade. so I went back to the drawing board and used the same methodology for my dissertation and passed with flying colours. life gets in the way of our ambitions sometimes but you have the right attitude to make improvements so keep going 👍🏾
Amen to this!! You honestly cannot give up you just have to keep going even if in the moment you feel like it isn't going to work out. At the end of the day part of being a student is sometimes getting things wrong because we are here to learn
Come on my girls💕you can do it, GOD is in this, you have it all, let’s gooo my love🥰💖💐👏👏
Thank you!!! xx
You've got the ability to grow. You can fix this Vee!
Thank you!! xx
Well this was fun hope u get through! I am also deeeep in the shit I’ve created for myself but here we gooooooo!!!all will be well❤
Day in the life of a student ayee!! The drama!! lool .. Good luck bestie and thank you for leaving a comment behind
5.5 is enough to pass in my school don't even stress it you can improve on this paper easily! The feedback instantly made sense to you too so I'm sure you understand and are exactly at the level of education you can handle. You can crank up that grade I believe in you!
Good point!! as long as you get the pass mark sometimes that is all that matters :) .. thank you
You got this Vee ❤
Thank you bestie!! xx
You’re hilarious. I’m a first year in PhD public policy UMass Boston and I feel your pain. Your reactions to the feedback is spot on.
The pain is real lol, I am glad that some of you can relate because being a student can really have its ups and downs.
I feel you Vee. I've been writing my Master's thesis and having that kind of feedback is daily consumption for me. It feels indeed overwhelming when you put everything on to your work, then the teacher just throws it away hahaha
It can be very disheartening but I guess I had to look at the bigger picture and use the feedback to help future me when writing another essay x
Vee!!! It's OK, Vee! You know, I believe in you and will believe in you furthermore and will support you no matter what, Vee!!! YOU ARE THE BEST BESTIE!!! NEVER EVER GIVE UP!!!!! L❤VE Y❤U~
Awwww this is so so sweet!! Thank you bestie!!!
Also for APA owl Purdue is a really good source. I use it all the time for my papers and never had any issues with referencing!
Thank you for this!! Will check it out :) xx
Scribbr is a great resource to use as as a starting point for citationns. It automatically generates in many writing styles (MLA, APA, etc.)
Thank you for the suggestion!! :)
You got this Vee !!!
Thank you xx
I know this doesn't compare but ... when my son took a final, he had to get a 90 in that class in order pass the entire semester with an A. The professor graded him an 89 (I'm sure he knew how much my son wanted to pass that class with an A. He wanted to make Dean's List) This was during c....d. The professor said he was willing to talk with him via zoom the next day and he would be asking questions ... so my son basically sweated it the entire 24 hours and the professor asked him questions over zoom as to what he could do to improve his grade by 1. My son told him he was never late to his class, always participated, and all his other grades were good. The professor gave him the extra 1% and he made Dean's List for the second time!
Whoa, talk about suspense! Thank you for sharing your sons story. It's awesome how that extra 1% turned everything around for him, making Dean's List for the second time must've been a sweet victory! xxx
I am expecting my results soon, I know I did poorly and I can't even shout. We got this 💪💪💪
Sometimes it gets like that, you always have a feeling right? And thank you!! xx
You got this Vee!!!! You will fix it 😊
Thank you :) xxx
As a 28 year old first year, who is a mom and a wife, a daughter and a sister, and an aunt. I am going through a rough 1st semester, I got a whooping 13% on my first semester test for Introduction to Structures and a 31% for Math - but this video reassures me that I can still save the semester. Thank you wamai! And a little bit of failure is necessary to push you to do better and critical think to solve the problems that made me fail.
Awwww bless you!! And sometimes in life its okay to not to get 100% on something as it helps us grow and leaves room for improvement. I am glad to hear that you haven't given up!! And you seem to have a great mindset too xx
Hi Vee,
It's totally okay. Maybe you don't really need this but I will leave it here, that's just being so hard because you are gong forward. Anw I used to to the APA stuffs so can help if you need anything. Keep going! x
Awww bestie!! thank you so much.. I think I was just feeling very down at that moment in time. I am doing so much better now thank God! xx
VEEEEEE KATIVHU!!! Don't let me ever hear you doubting your place in that program ever again!!! You were accepted into the same program as the people who you deem more qualified than you. You may not have the same experiences as them but you have decades of experience because of the way you lived your life! You matter and you matter in this program!
You say that if you do poorly on this, its a sign - which its true! Its a sign to your inner feelings and to what step you want to take next. Do you want to drop from the program, because you can if thats what you really want. You could also take it as a sign that this professor has given you an opportunity to step up to the plate and prove yourself. You know what you're capable of doing, so now put in the hard work that it takes to make your dream a reality. BUT I KNOW YOU CAN DO IT!! YOU ARE MORE THAN CAPABLE! Go Beyonce that paper!
Wow, thank you so much for the pep talk! Your words really hit home and mean a lot to me. It's easy to doubt myself sometimes, but your encouragement reminds me to keep pushing forward. I'm gonna take your advice and tackle this challenge head-on, just like Beyoncé would!!!! hahha xx
Vee: let's spin this for luck
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Naa dont do that, you DESERVE to be in that room! we all have our bad days, you're only human!
Awwwwww!! man I am so blessed to have people like you in the comments section. Thank you xx
Keep on working, you will get there.
I will keep going bestie, I promise :)!!
Get well soon 😊
Thanks for your understanding and support! It's refreshing to hear that my honesty is appreciated. You're right - nobody's perfect, and it's important to acknowledge both the highs and lows. I'll definitely take your advice onboard. Reflecting on past achievements is a great way to stay motivated xx
While I’m not working at the same level as you, I went through the same thing at the start of my Masters course, I was a high achiever, always top marks throughout high school and my Bachelor, then started getting awful marks at the start of the Masters, it was depressing, but you know it’s because we haven’t had much practice coping with failure, we may be academically talented and high achieving, but that doesn’t mean we don’t struggle with mental health
What you’re saying about “not getting a birthday” etc. is exactly the kind of thing I used to say in high school and I seriously burnt myself out to the point where I was crying almost every single day and spending hours trying to get work done and just not doing it because my brain was just not on board. My advice as someone who is going through the same thing, albeit at a masters level, go back and do your work, improve those things you need to improve, but don’t break yourself going for 10/10, 8/10 is still pretty good right? What about 7/10? Having a PhD and being able to inject all this good into the world doesn’t rely on your ability to do assignments, it relies on the knowledge you clearly have gained throughout the semester. You may not have been able to show it through your assignment, but rest assured that if you agree with all the feedback you have, then you probably have all the knowledge you need
As a side note, APA sucks, especially when you don’t know what the source actually “is” - report, thesis, book, chapter, journal article, etc. I’m thinking in my next assignment I’ll only use a source if I know what it is lol
Thank you for taking the time out to leave a comment behind, I appreciate the advice and will definitely take it on board as you have highlighted some good point! You are totally right, i need to stop being so hard on myself .. everyday is a learning curve I guess! I will get there eventually xx