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Thank you David and Alex, I have a horrible situation in my family at the moment, which has caused a real rift between my 2 adult children. My husband and I have had to ‘sit on the fence’ on this one, but boy, that fence is getting rickety and my inner child is really giving me a hard time and it’s making me cry just writing about it! I loved the role play and the reminder that sometimes you just have to ‘let go’, trust in the universe - the wu wei wisdom way - and remember that external factors cannot always be controlled. Many thanks. Keep these videos and role plays coming.
If you act/ground yourself based off emotions you wont cope well. But if you ground/act based on your truth, being honest with yourself, you will cope healthily
Hi @PC-ds6zk, Absolutely, you've captured a key aspect of our teachings. Grounding yourself in your truth and honesty is the foundation for healthy coping and resilience. Emotions are important signals, but they should not solely dictate our actions. Aligning with your truth and being honest with yourself fosters a sense of clarity and strength that enables you to navigate life's challenges with grace. Keep embracing this approach, and you'll continue to find balance and well-being on your journey. Regards, David Discover more in the Wu Wei Wisdom Community
Bravo! I just was in a situation working for a company that was horrible and I was afraid to leave because I needed to pay my bills. It got sooo unbearable that I prayed (that’s what I do), “get me out of here please” and all of a sudden in a few days I said to myself, I’m leaving and I’ll trust the outcome. After that I got fired! Hahahaha! It was the best thing that could have happened! My good friend offered me partime work with very good hourly pay, and the opportunity to work from home if I so choose. This PT work gave me the opportunity to launch my own business!!! I’m so happy and grateful. I love you guys, I wish we could meet because I have sooo many stories just like that! Have a great day!
Excellent! Well delivered. Repetition of the teachings in a calm, gentle way is a good example of how we could teach our inner child. Thank you once again.
The role play was excellent. We would love to see more. Thank you David and Alex. It was just what I needed to hear. I’m going through a big change but after hearing your video I realized that I can cope and I will continue to cope and I can do this and lots of other positive affirmations filled my mind. Thank you both. You are priceless!❤
Hi @user-yw1tj6qt6m, Thank you for your kind words and for sharing your experience with us. We're so glad to hear that the role play resonated with you and provided the encouragement you needed during this time of change. Remember, every step you take on this journey contributes to your strength and ability to navigate life's transitions with grace. Keep embracing those positive affirmations and believe in your capacity to cope and thrive. If you're looking for further support and wish to connect with others on similar paths, consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community. It's a space where like-minded individuals share their experiences and insights, offering additional support and encouragement. Kind Regards, David
amazing video ! yes i would absolutly like for you to do the work on the why like this video, The way alex opens up is amazing , i was doing it with her for a situation of my own, and many times we had the same answers, Thank you !
Absolutely wonderful. Something I didn’t realize I needed to hear today. And yes- I think the role play was wonderful!! A lot of points Alex made during role play are points I could see myself making in a similar conversation, so it’s great to work out my own thought process alongside her. Thank you for all you do!!
Thank you both so much ! The role play helps me a lot and I would love to see more of it . I am surprised by how Alex brings out a question or a subject that I can’t think of at the time and yet it is the exact thing I have in the back of my mind . She is a mind reader 😁🙏❤️
Thank you for this video, after 23 years on the same shift at work im now on alternative shifts and my inner child is running wild. Being in my late 50's its a physical change as well. My inner child has me seeing this as a castrophe so working with her to see the bigger picture of how changes also have benefits, 🙏 thank you to you both x
Hi @bevgeorge3942, Thank you for sharing your experience. It's quite a significant transition after 23 years on the same shift :-) and it's natural for your inner child to react strongly to such a change, especially when it also involves physical adjustments. Working with your inner child to see the potential benefits in these changes is a great approach. Remember, it's about finding balance and understanding that change, while initially challenging, can also bring new opportunities and growth. Keep nurturing this perspective, and if you need more support or wish to share your progress, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community is always here for you. Kind Regards, David
Hello O mundo de Sofia, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Hi Nancy, It’s great that you found Alex’s insights helpful. Shifting away from negative outcomes can be challenging, but with awareness and practice, you can redirect your focus toward more positive and empowering thoughts. Keep nurturing this shift in perspective-you're on the right path! Kind Regards, David
Thank you very much Alex and David. This reminds me of a book that I have just read called _The Chimp Paradox_ where you have (loosely): ● The 'Human' = Shen ● The 'Chimp' = Inner Child ● The 'Computer' = Defaults.
Thank you so much David & Alex 🙏 Your wisdom and insight on these issues is incredible, it’s enlightening and life changing for me as I’ve struggled emotionally my whole life, thank you 💕🇳🇿
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Wonderful session!! Alex, your role model with David was exactly 💯 what I needed. As David asked questions, my IC was able to identify with several of the responses you gave that little me didn't know how to articulate. Thank you!!🙏🙏
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Great work Alex! I would love to see more like this video. The role plays always help me a great deal. Today's video where Alex spoke from her actuall inner child really stirred up my inner child. I could feel my inner child having a meltdown. He wants to bend the world to his needs using red lighrs. He wants the world to be fair, look after him and make up for what her never got in childhood . Doing the video this way helped really see where my work is with my inner child
This was wonderful. The inner child and feelings tend to take over sometimes and I forget that I am the creator of my emotions. Been feeling red light feelings to do simple tasks like go to my classes and get through some practicals. However, it’s just a pattern of familiarity with my inner child wanting to either run away from the work or control everything about my work. Will now go slowly in my flow and try to be there and teach my inner child the reality. P.S. thank you so much to Alex. You were amazing and these demonstrations are really helpful when I want to do the golden thread as it gives an idea on how I can redirect my inner child.
34:00. There’s someone in my life who is usually very calm but sometimes has a little tantrum. And in those moments, my thought is “yes I should let him have this one.”
I was bullied for 20 years at my job. I have tried to find a better job, and it's not happening. Luckily, my job situation has improved. I am trying to let go of my hurt and bitterness from the abuse.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
As always, my gratitude for the existence and my finding yalls series of inner child work is beyond measuring. I did want to say i noticed lately that i have actually been needing to do some inner child work on some of these positive emotions I've been creating. Short pretext; Recently broke up with my boyfriend due my inability to cope with adhd, and taking him not doing his own self work personally. Then found myself moving on to someone else about 2 weeks later. I noticed i started creating these feelings of connection, creating feelings of being noticed and appreciated. I guess I am a little lost as to 1. why I had become unable to create those feelings with my previous partner, 2. If I'm just distracting myself from coping from the end of 1 relationship by going to another,& 3. Can the inner child also create an illusion of positive feelings to distract from the inner work? Any advice from anyone, much appreciated. 💜
Hello Kara, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms. The inner child creates emotions to manipulate others to give them what they crave: value, worth, attention and love. The inner child will lose interest when it becomes apparent these needs will not be met. Then quickly move their focus to fulfilling that need and regain the familiarity of being in a relationship with someone else. The inner child will create any emotions to achieve their desires and goals. In the Wu Wei Wisdom model, a belief is deeper and more foundational than a thought. Beliefs are typically constructed in childhood, around 6 to 9 years old. Beliefs are gathered from three main areas. Authority figures, parents, family members, school teachers and friends. Culture/religion and personal experiences. Those foundational beliefs then influence our thoughts and thinking when encountering reality. I would suggest you practice the Golden Thread Process to uncover the foundation belief driving the inner child’s desires and needs. I hope I’ve addressed your question and covered all the relevant points. Thank you again for your question and interest in our work. Kind regards, David.
Hi Nancy, It's powerful when someone else's insights resonate so deeply. It shows you're not alone in your experiences. Keep connecting with that truth, and continue your journey of self-discovery with openness and compassion. Kind Regards, David
I choose to be swayed and manipulated by people Because I don’t like others to be disappointed with me Why. If it’s left to me I’m no good because I make wrong decisions I’ve made many stupid decisions Things have tureens out awful It means if something goes wrong it’s my fault When things go wrong I’m not good enough
Hi Nancy, It's understandable that your inner child might feel uncertain or hesitant. Building trust within yourself takes time and patience. Start by listening to that inner voice with compassion and consistency. Over time, you'll create a stronger connection that fosters trust and understanding. Kind Regards, David
Is Alex really feeling these things or is she making it up for the sake of the audience. As I follow along I think I am understanding what David is saying . If she is talking about herself why does she talk in the 3rd person? Is this a therapy session with Alex? Do you mean the universal you or you, Alex? Very confusing.
Hi Patricia, I'm role-playing on behalf of our audience/supporters. The issues I raise and the role-play 'narrative' I use are universal - they are things/situations that many of our clients present and get stuck on. Alex x
Not every afflictive emotion is due to an inner child!! Yoy cannot pathologise normal anxiety. Anxiety is a reasonable ADULT response to difficult circumstances. It's as if you're saying that all afflictive emotions reflect emotional immaturity. It's a bit patronizing frankly. Do YOU ever experience anxiety??
Hello Vicki, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. I am unsure what you mean by ‘afflictive emotions.’ To clarify, we say that the foundational teaching of the Wu Wei Wisdom model is that you are the creator of your emotions, not the victim; therefore, emotions are natural and make us human. The emotions you create should be appropriate to the situation/event encountered, and I’m surprised you think the teaching is patronising. I would label ‘anxiety’ as a red light feeling and, if appropriate, would create it. I hope I’ve addressed your question and covered all the relevant points. Thank you again for your question and interest in our work. Kind regards, David.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
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▶ How to Fully Believe In Yourself th-cam.com/video/1Z2nvteUc0g/w-d-xo.html
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Thank you David and Alex, I have a horrible situation in my family at the moment, which has caused a real rift between my 2 adult children. My husband and I have had to ‘sit on the fence’ on this one, but boy, that fence is getting rickety and my inner child is really giving me a hard time and it’s making me cry just writing about it! I loved the role play and the reminder that sometimes you just have to ‘let go’, trust in the universe - the wu wei wisdom way - and remember that external factors cannot always be controlled. Many thanks. Keep these videos and role plays coming.
Very good! You are brave, Alex :) i think the more scenarios/situations that can be role played, the more it can help all of us.
Walking on broken glass is a great analogy.
If you act/ground yourself based off emotions you wont cope well. But if you ground/act based on your truth, being honest with yourself, you will cope healthily
Hi @PC-ds6zk,
Absolutely, you've captured a key aspect of our teachings. Grounding yourself in your truth and honesty is the foundation for healthy coping and resilience. Emotions are important signals, but they should not solely dictate our actions. Aligning with your truth and being honest with yourself fosters a sense of clarity and strength that enables you to navigate life's challenges with grace. Keep embracing this approach, and you'll continue to find balance and well-being on your journey.
Regards,
David
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@@WuWeiWisdom thankyou David 🙏
Bravo! I just was in a situation working for a company that was horrible and I was afraid to leave because I needed to pay my bills. It got sooo unbearable that I prayed (that’s what I do), “get me out of here please” and all of a sudden in a few days I said to myself, I’m leaving and I’ll trust the outcome. After that I got fired! Hahahaha! It was the best thing that could have happened! My good friend offered me partime work with very good hourly pay, and the opportunity to work from home if I so choose. This PT work gave me the opportunity to launch my own business!!! I’m so happy and grateful. I love you guys, I wish we could meet because I have sooo many stories just like that! Have a great day!
"...the rest has to be handed off to the Universe..."
A perfect solution that I embrace daily.
Thank you so much. Yes role play is so helpful. I felt how importent it is for me to trust in Shen. 😍
This was excellent. Seeing how to talk to the IC was very helpful. More role play please. Thank you both 🙏🏽
Thanks for the role play Alex! You are a team player! ❤️
yes please, the roleplay is useful
Yes the role playing is very helpfull!! Thank you!!!
I found this truly insightful and the role play was highly educational. Excellent work and teamwork Alex and David!
Excellent! Well delivered. Repetition of the teachings in a calm, gentle way is a good example of how we could teach our inner child. Thank you once again.
Very helpful as ever, Alex and David.
The role play was excellent. We would love to see more. Thank you David and Alex. It was just what I needed to hear. I’m going through a big change but after hearing your video I realized that I can cope and I will continue to cope and I can do this and lots of other positive affirmations filled my mind. Thank you both. You are priceless!❤
Hi @user-yw1tj6qt6m,
Thank you for your kind words and for sharing your experience with us. We're so glad to hear that the role play resonated with you and provided the encouragement you needed during this time of change. Remember, every step you take on this journey contributes to your strength and ability to navigate life's transitions with grace. Keep embracing those positive affirmations and believe in your capacity to cope and thrive. If you're looking for further support and wish to connect with others on similar paths, consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community. It's a space where like-minded individuals share their experiences and insights, offering additional support and encouragement.
Kind Regards,
David
Role-play is very useful to watch. I would be interested to see more.
amazing video !
yes i would absolutly like for you to do the work on the why like this video,
The way alex opens up is amazing , i was doing it with her for a situation of my own, and many times we had the same answers,
Thank you !
Alex’s inner child is adorable! LOL. Is it harder to change when your inner child is such a charmer?
Yes, more role play, please. Thank you so much for this video. It really helped
Absolutely wonderful. Something I didn’t realize I needed to hear today. And yes- I think the role play was wonderful!! A lot of points Alex made during role play are points I could see myself making in a similar conversation, so it’s great to work out my own thought process alongside her. Thank you for all you do!!
The role play was great and provided a lot of information. I could totally relate!
Thank you David and Alex, may the good will sent back to you both from your generosity helping others bless you both and nourish your Spirits 🙏🏽🙏🏻🙏🏽
Thank you both so much ! The role play helps me a lot and I would love to see more of it . I am surprised by how Alex brings out a question or a subject that I can’t think of at the time and yet it is the exact thing I have in the back of my mind . She is a mind reader 😁🙏❤️
Thank you for this video, after 23 years on the same shift at work im now on alternative shifts and my inner child is running wild. Being in my late 50's its a physical change as well. My inner child has me seeing this as a castrophe so working with her to see the bigger picture of how changes also have benefits, 🙏 thank you to you both x
Hi @bevgeorge3942,
Thank you for sharing your experience. It's quite a significant transition after 23 years on the same shift :-) and it's natural for your inner child to react strongly to such a change, especially when it also involves physical adjustments. Working with your inner child to see the potential benefits in these changes is a great approach. Remember, it's about finding balance and understanding that change, while initially challenging, can also bring new opportunities and growth. Keep nurturing this perspective, and if you need more support or wish to share your progress, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community is always here for you.
Kind Regards,
David
The role play you did was is me. You where my mirror. I cried a lot
Hello O mundo de Sofia, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
thank you David and Alexandra! you are both very helpful!
happy good Saturday morning Wu wei wisdom
This was your best video yet. It really struck a chord with me with what I am going through currently. Well done.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
That's where I always go is neg outcome ! Alex ty so much .I loved how you helped out
Hi Nancy,
It’s great that you found Alex’s insights helpful. Shifting away from negative outcomes can be challenging, but with awareness and practice, you can redirect your focus toward more positive and empowering thoughts. Keep nurturing this shift in perspective-you're on the right path!
Kind Regards,
David
Thank you very much Alex and David.
This reminds me of a book that I have just read called _The Chimp Paradox_ where you have (loosely):
● The 'Human' = Shen
● The 'Chimp' = Inner Child
● The 'Computer' = Defaults.
Thank you so much David & Alex 🙏 Your wisdom and insight on these issues is incredible, it’s enlightening and life changing for me as I’ve struggled emotionally my whole life, thank you 💕🇳🇿
Thank you Alex and David, that was so helpful.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
This was good. We're going through an uncertain election period and I found this quite reaffirming. Alex's role play was for the most part, spot on.
Thank you both of you
Thank you zo much. The role play is very educational . It would be be nice to see more.
That was a wonderful role play. I'd love to see more. You both have helped my so much over the last 4 years. I'm so grateful.
Wonderful session!! Alex, your role model with David was exactly 💯 what I needed.
As David asked questions, my IC was able to identify with several of the responses you gave that little me didn't know how to articulate. Thank you!!🙏🙏
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Great work Alex! I would love to see more like this video. The role plays always help me a great deal. Today's video where Alex spoke from her actuall inner child really stirred up my inner child. I could feel my inner child having a meltdown. He wants to bend the world to his needs using red lighrs. He wants the world to be fair, look after him and make up for what her never got in childhood . Doing the video this way helped really see where my work is with my inner child
Thanks Alex for being vulnerable, the roll play was really helpful and it would be great if you could do more.😇🥰
This was wonderful. The inner child and feelings tend to take over sometimes and I forget that I am the creator of my emotions. Been feeling red light feelings to do simple tasks like go to my classes and get through some practicals. However, it’s just a pattern of familiarity with my inner child wanting to either run away from the work or control everything about my work. Will now go slowly in my flow and try to be there and teach my inner child the reality. P.S. thank you so much to Alex. You were amazing and these demonstrations are really helpful when I want to do the golden thread as it gives an idea on how I can redirect my inner child.
34:00. There’s someone in my life who is usually very calm but sometimes has a little tantrum. And in those moments, my thought is “yes I should let him have this one.”
This is my most favourite video- thank you
I think TH-cam duplicated you comment. But, thanks again :-) Kind regards, David.
thank you for this video. are you able to make a video on accountability ?
I was bullied for 20 years at my job. I have tried to find a better job, and it's not happening. Luckily, my job situation has improved. I am trying to let go of my hurt and bitterness from the abuse.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
As always, my gratitude for the existence and my finding yalls series of inner child work is beyond measuring.
I did want to say i noticed lately that i have actually been needing to do some inner child work on some of these positive emotions I've been creating.
Short pretext;
Recently broke up with my boyfriend due my inability to cope with adhd, and taking him not doing his own self work personally. Then found myself moving on to someone else about 2 weeks later. I noticed i started creating these feelings of connection, creating feelings of being noticed and appreciated. I guess I am a little lost as to 1. why I had become unable to create those feelings with my previous partner, 2. If I'm just distracting myself from coping from the end of 1 relationship by going to another,& 3. Can the inner child also create an illusion of positive feelings to distract from the inner work?
Any advice from anyone, much appreciated. 💜
Hello Kara,
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest.
As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms.
The inner child creates emotions to manipulate others to give them what they crave: value, worth, attention and love. The inner child will lose interest when it becomes apparent these needs will not be met. Then quickly move their focus to fulfilling that need and regain the familiarity of being in a relationship with someone else. The inner child will create any emotions to achieve their desires and goals.
In the Wu Wei Wisdom model, a belief is deeper and more foundational than a thought. Beliefs are typically constructed in childhood, around 6 to 9 years old. Beliefs are gathered from three main areas. Authority figures, parents, family members, school teachers and friends. Culture/religion and personal experiences. Those foundational beliefs then influence our thoughts and thinking when encountering reality.
I would suggest you practice the Golden Thread Process to uncover the foundation belief driving the inner child’s desires and needs.
I hope I’ve addressed your question and covered all the relevant points. Thank you again for your question and interest in our work.
Kind regards,
David.
Alex you hit it on the nose! I'm you
Hi Nancy,
It's powerful when someone else's insights resonate so deeply. It shows you're not alone in your experiences. Keep connecting with that truth, and continue your journey of self-discovery with openness and compassion.
Kind Regards,
David
I choose to be swayed and manipulated by people
Because I don’t like others to be disappointed with me
Why.
If it’s left to me I’m no good because I make wrong decisions
I’ve made many stupid decisions
Things have tureens out awful
It means if something goes wrong it’s my fault
When things go wrong I’m not good enough
Need help - stuck
My inner child doesn't trust me either
Hi Nancy,
It's understandable that your inner child might feel uncertain or hesitant. Building trust within yourself takes time and patience. Start by listening to that inner voice with compassion and consistency. Over time, you'll create a stronger connection that fosters trust and understanding.
Kind Regards,
David
Is Alex really feeling these things or is she making it up for the sake of the audience. As I follow along I think I am understanding what David is saying . If she is talking about herself why does she talk in the 3rd person? Is this a therapy session with Alex? Do you mean the universal you or you, Alex? Very confusing.
Hi Patricia, I'm role-playing on behalf of our audience/supporters. The issues I raise and the role-play 'narrative' I use are universal - they are things/situations that many of our clients present and get stuck on. Alex x
Not every afflictive emotion is due to an inner child!! Yoy cannot pathologise normal anxiety. Anxiety is a reasonable ADULT response to difficult circumstances. It's as if you're saying that all afflictive emotions reflect emotional immaturity. It's a bit patronizing frankly. Do YOU ever experience anxiety??
Hello Vicki,
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest.
I am unsure what you mean by ‘afflictive emotions.’ To clarify, we say that the foundational teaching of the Wu Wei Wisdom model is that you are the creator of your emotions, not the victim; therefore, emotions are natural and make us human.
The emotions you create should be appropriate to the situation/event encountered, and I’m surprised you think the teaching is patronising.
I would label ‘anxiety’ as a red light feeling and, if appropriate, would create it.
I hope I’ve addressed your question and covered all the relevant points. Thank you again for your question and interest in our work.
Kind regards,
David.
This is my most favourite video- thank you
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.