Awwwwu ngeke bro I beg to differ. if these knew their father to be a man they had no access to they wouldn't have initiated this conversation. they tried because they probably were allowed to have a voice in whatever happens ekhaya labo. Also those kids weren't rude to their dad, they just asked if they could speak to him, this behaviors is so new to them that they were asking him ukuthi what is wrong with him. Zola has hurt his kids so much and the fact that the lady they are fighting for is not even their mom should tell you a thing or 2 about the type of mom she's been to his kids. leyanto is soooooooo hurt breaking, yes isthembu skhona but indoda ehlakaniphile doesn't destroy what he already has in persuit of something new. it is so so so so sad.
What traditional Zulu culture allows a father swear at his children and tell them to fuck off. Those kids were brought up in a Western way and now because udakwe yingquza entsha he wants them to follow Zulu culture . why did he not communicate with Nozipho in the initial stage of their relationship ukuthi yena he wants isithembu. People are being triggered because this has happened for many generations and it is not ukuphapha. The lady has a blue eye , clearly this has been happening for a while. Imagine the second wife being 2 years older than his older son. Yerr kodwa!
You like to pick and choose when to use traditional cultures kodwa nigamagwala anezibham niyabulalana instead of ukulwa like amadoda with izibham. It is 2024 get with the orogram and stop making excuses for ubuhule benu .
One that man was not open to a conversation and the person that recorded did it for the protection of the family in case anything happens. We can not blame them on how they reacted just because you won’t do it doesn’t mean the next person has that mindset in the midst of the family drama. As a traditional father I would expect that he would give his family a heads up about changes that would affect them. The kids were respectful. You are using respectability politics and that is not ok.
You cannot send your kids to model c schools and not expect them to pick up model c mannerisms.Those kids were respectfull,not once did i hear them swear at their dad.. It seems like zulu women go through alot they are bieng treated like dirty wash out rags.once you become of age and bore him, a lot of children,now all of a sudden you not good enough anymore. He will take a second wife half your age and you must live with it. For the first time i do not agree with Penson on a video.
Ay Mthobisi my guy ngeke lana you are SUPER biased and it doesn't even make sense. How were the kids rude mf2? The video nje is just sad, I understand that there are many sides to a story but the kind of behavior that Zola portrayed is not called for noma ngabe there is an angle we don't know, umndeni uyamncenga ukuthi bakhulume yena uyabathuka. The person recording is one of daughters, I also agree she was not supposed to do that kodwa she's done it and we are here discussing the issue STILL uZola's behavior is not called for.
This guy is friends with Penuel and i dont expect him to speak sense and i dont expect him to have a brain . I am just angry why TH-cam is recommending weird people for me
He is actually Penuel's younger brother. Clearly you're not a subscriber, so why bother to comment and be rude while at it? Mawubhekile does that give us an idea that you know what sense is and you have a brain?
According to Penuel if I'm not mistaken your father wasn't around like that...so you wouldn't know how it is have an open relationship with a father where expressing yourself is encouraged. Nozipho & Zola have fostered a relationship where their kids are encouraged to speak.
Ouch Ray.. this is a bit below the belt. Penson has 3 boys, and he speaks a lot about how he encourages his sons to speak. Please check the earlier episodes. But ouch bro..😢
Wow RayofLetsatsi! Almost 2 weeks later you still haven't realised what you said is out of line? What are you really trying to do? Brag that you had a present, perfect open relationship with your dad? Cha sisi, no. Open your eyes and look around SA.
Also ke it's been said that Nozipho found out on facebook and lokho akungimangazi. he wouldn't be the first to hide taking a second wife. Phela in laws aren't your friends at the end of the day they will always choose their own. methi ningamtsheli they wont.
I came across your videos for the first st time yesterday and absolutely fell in love with how you speak from the heart. Can I also just add how you remind me of my late father, there's just soo much resemblance.
Was saying the very same thing at work, even if we are going to condemn the guy for what we are told he did, let's get the full story, not mere assumptions and if we could also hear his side of the story(hopefully the truth/fact), then we can engage on the topic.
Ay kodwa lamafoni esinawo ngathi ayamosha nje manje uyithatha kanjan video yomndeni wakho uxabana uyifake ku social media 😭😭😭😭ngyakhala inhlonipho isilahlekele singabantu abamnyama lento eyenzeka kuleya video ikhombisa ukungahlonipheka kwenhloko yekhaya
Let me correct u, there's no signing customary. BUT its clear they married customary if he can go marry a second wife. If they signed with Nozipho, this second marriage is nul and void.
Awwwwu ngeke bro I beg to differ. if these knew their father to be a man they had no access to they wouldn't have initiated this conversation. they tried because they probably were allowed to have a voice in whatever happens ekhaya labo. Also those kids weren't rude to their dad, they just asked if they could speak to him, this behaviors is so new to them that they were asking him ukuthi what is wrong with him. Zola has hurt his kids so much and the fact that the lady they are fighting for is not even their mom should tell you a thing or 2 about the type of mom she's been to his kids. leyanto is soooooooo hurt breaking, yes isthembu skhona but indoda ehlakaniphile doesn't destroy what he already has in persuit of something new. it is so so so so sad.
I agree 100%
Agree
What traditional Zulu culture allows a father swear at his children and tell them to fuck off. Those kids were brought up in a Western way and now because udakwe yingquza entsha he wants them to follow Zulu culture . why did he not communicate with Nozipho in the initial stage of their relationship ukuthi yena he wants isithembu. People are being triggered because this has happened for many generations and it is not ukuphapha. The lady has a blue eye , clearly this has been happening for a while. Imagine the second wife being 2 years older than his older son. Yerr kodwa!
The wife and kids find out from facebook that the guy went to lay lobola
You like to pick and choose when to use traditional cultures kodwa nigamagwala anezibham niyabulalana instead of ukulwa like amadoda with izibham. It is 2024 get with the orogram and stop making excuses for ubuhule benu .
Ay Penson akeniyeke uku supporta umbhedo those kids we so respectful umuntu obhedile la uZola
So true
UZola uyabheda idede nje lomfana
U are biased and honestly u are trying your best to make him look as if his really being attacked.
And wants to use tradition, those kids were not disrespectful at all.
One that man was not open to a conversation and the person that recorded did it for the protection of the family in case anything happens. We can not blame them on how they reacted just because you won’t do it doesn’t mean the next person has that mindset in the midst of the family drama. As a traditional father I would expect that he would give his family a heads up about changes that would affect them. The kids were respectful. You are using respectability politics and that is not ok.
Zulu men Se foot those kids were very respectful you so one sided and it’s boring shame I feel pity for your kids and your wife aagg
respect is earned and not given,im zulu and zulu men are respectful,beka i opinion yakho and stop speaking on behalf of zulu men
You cannot send your kids to model c schools and not expect them to pick up model c mannerisms.Those kids were respectfull,not once did i hear them swear at their dad..
It seems like zulu women go through alot they are bieng treated like dirty wash out rags.once you become of age and bore him, a lot of children,now all of a sudden you not good enough anymore.
He will take a second wife half your age and you must live with it.
For the first time i do not agree with Penson on a video.
Ay Mthobisi my guy ngeke lana you are SUPER biased and it doesn't even make sense. How were the kids rude mf2? The video nje is just sad, I understand that there are many sides to a story but the kind of behavior that Zola portrayed is not called for noma ngabe there is an angle we don't know, umndeni uyamncenga ukuthi bakhulume yena uyabathuka. The person recording is one of daughters, I also agree she was not supposed to do that kodwa she's done it and we are here discussing the issue STILL uZola's behavior is not called for.
This guy is friends with Penuel and i dont expect him to speak sense and i dont expect him to have a brain . I am just angry why TH-cam is recommending weird people for me
Are you referring to Zola or Penson?
😂
He is actually Penuel's younger brother. Clearly you're not a subscriber, so why bother to comment and be rude while at it? Mawubhekile does that give us an idea that you know what sense is and you have a brain?
According to Penuel if I'm not mistaken your father wasn't around like that...so you wouldn't know how it is have an open relationship with a father where expressing yourself is encouraged. Nozipho & Zola have fostered a relationship where their kids are encouraged to speak.
Ouch Ray.. this is a bit below the belt. Penson has 3 boys, and he speaks a lot about how he encourages his sons to speak. Please check the earlier episodes. But ouch bro..😢
Lol you tried but it's not the same thing.
Wow RayofLetsatsi! Almost 2 weeks later you still haven't realised what you said is out of line? What are you really trying to do? Brag that you had a present, perfect open relationship with your dad?
Cha sisi, no. Open your eyes and look around SA.
Also ke it's been said that Nozipho found out on facebook and lokho akungimangazi. he wouldn't be the first to hide taking a second wife. Phela in laws aren't your friends at the end of the day they will always choose their own. methi ningamtsheli they wont.
I came across your videos for the first st time yesterday and absolutely fell in love with how you speak from the heart. Can I also just add how you remind me of my late father, there's just soo much resemblance.
No Penson. You have it wrong this time.
Funny you saying you not getting involved in people's business but you make a whole video about it🥺
People on social media are hypocrites they the worst lives but talk too much
The boys were respectful though. Where they wronged him was by refusing to give him the keys. That part def wasn’t on.
I think many people got triggered because of what they’ve been through, however we need to be careful not people we talk to in such states.
No one else could have put it better.👌👌
Triggered or not. People must step out of other people's bedrooms and focus on their own lives!
They must stay away from social media ke...simple
@@auntyb4130 you are right👍
Lool same here when I was 22.now am 33 n ngith eeeh am sorry guys didn’t know back thn
Wahlanya wena.. those kids were respectful
Was saying the very same thing at work, even if we are going to condemn the guy for what we are told he did, let's get the full story, not mere assumptions and if we could also hear his side of the story(hopefully the truth/fact), then we can engage on the topic.
I can’t even carry on listening to this , bye
I was waiting for your views on this matter since it broke out.
Just subbed❤ loved it in one min
We know uhambe no toiletry bag e peach.......how Zulu🤪
All he wanted is keys for any of the cars... she was hiding keys for all cars.
well said
The background and the lighting 😢…some viewers (me) have sensitive eyes, please take note of this
Ay kodwa lamafoni esinawo ngathi ayamosha nje manje uyithatha kanjan video yomndeni wakho uxabana uyifake ku social media 😭😭😭😭ngyakhala inhlonipho isilahlekele singabantu abamnyama lento eyenzeka kuleya video ikhombisa ukungahlonipheka kwenhloko yekhaya
Bathini abasemzini?
They are the same ones who went to pay for lobola for another woman.
Arg abo, bavumile nje if they paid lobola. Sad video to watch.
Let me correct u, there's no signing customary. BUT its clear they married customary if he can go marry a second wife.
If they signed with Nozipho, this second marriage is nul and void.
Bathong i thought you were Zola when I opened the clip🤣
They are one in the same 😂
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