VIRAL TIK TOKER REESA TEESA "WHO TF DID I MARRY" 👀 BUT ALL THE RED FLAGS 🚩 WERE THERE DARLING! 👀
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Amen I didn’t get married till I was 41 it was the best time for me I’ve been married for 25 years next month God has the perfect timing for her
🎉🎉🎉 Congratulations
At what time did you have children ?.. thank you for sharing 🙏🏽
I am almost 48 and unmarried and ai am so happy I didn't marry that joker!!!!!! God showed me everything and I couldn't go forward. I have no regrets. God was simply protecting me and setting me up for my kingdom man. Lord ai trust your time. Cheers to 25 years of marriage.
Wow 😍 I'm 41. Still keeping the faith. God's got this
Awwww I love that you invited Reesa to meet with you when she’s in London! We love you, Auntie Fumi!✨✨✨
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I love it too!! So, so sweet!
Yes and she herself acknowledged that all the red flags were there! She even called herself the United Nations of red flags
She wanted the dream he was offering. Smh
Yeah, Reesa already figured out where she went wrong.
Desperation is a helluva drug🙄 Ladies please know your worth.
Unfortunately true😢😊
ReesaTessa gift is communication/ story telling. I hpe she gets her bags!
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She did not do it for the bag. She did it for her soul, and that's why all of this is happening.
Never take someone from the Basement and move them into the Castle. If being in the basement is where you meet them and they are not willing to live above ground, hello they love being in the basement.
Amen... My mother told me the same thing. I got right this time.
This should be a wakeup call to all women whether yur married or not. We know all men are not cons but theres a lot of them that are. Ignoring red flags will cause you to go through a kind of hell that some women don’t come out of.💯 Im one of those women, thank God i survived it!🙏🏽
Agreed! So happy that you made it out.. I am so appreciative of women who share their stories because so many of us suffer in silence.
At least you found out in 6 months instead of 16 years. 😮😢
A wonderful lesson and the best part is that she is still alive to tell her story
I’m crying right now listening to you, I’m single 41 and this truly resonates with me. Hearing your testimony brings light and a smile to my heart! I’ll continue to wait until God knows it’s my turn in love
Same ; 40 this year with a child , and been waiting patiently for 6years
You look absolutely stunning in that blue dress! The shoes you've paired it with really bring out the beauty of the dress and accentuate your elegance.
Tony Gaskins says to build your brain, body and brand. No sex without marriage and a man is an accessory.
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An “accessory”, wow.
My ex was a pathological liar, cheater, gaslighter, and actually hated women. A hot flaming mess was an understatement what I've had to deal with. Unfortunately, her story is one of many. Glad she shared her story.
Many of us have BEEN Reesa at one time or another. We can ALL learn something from her Experience. Bless You Fumi for receiving her in a non-judgemental way.🌹💜
If she hadn't moved him in during the pandemic lockdown, she would've saved herself 90% of this catastrophe. That was her #1 mistake. On another note - Fumi, you look gorgeous in that shade of blue and I love the dress.
@lp9716 her first mistake was letting him buy her a tire. She didn't know him, was on the way to meet him.
@@virginiawolf1708yes that too but I thought maybe she reimbursed him or at least offered to.
@lp9716 No, she was thrilled he spent money on her. I was like "What?, you don't know that man!"
@@virginiawolf1708and she acknowledged that
I absolutely agree 👍🏽 and thank you my love. 🩵😃
Just love your hair Fumi!!! Reesa Teesa talent to tell her story was outstanding! Love her transparency!!! Ironically, her story is so many women's story if we're honest.
She is so beautiful and she does have a beautiful voice! God bless her in her journey! ❤️🙏🏽🥰
Just when I thought you were perfect you just had this elegant glow up. Woooooow. You deserve it all. You are beautiful. In every way
As a 26-year-old woman living in London, I’m thrilled to have found your TH-cam channel! The advice and teachings you provide are truly saving me a lot of time, and you’re absolutely right. Making mistakes helps us improve and prepares us for the most important aspects of the future.
Could you also make a video about dating in London. Because it’s actually peak here
OMG Fumi, the blue dress against the pink chair is so precious!
“He did it to his ex-wife.” Red Flag 🚩 When he shows you who he is the first time, believe him! It's worth considering that if someone disrespects their first spouse, they may exhibit similar behavior in subsequent relationships. I extend my sincere wishes to her for every success and happiness in her future endeavors.
That is correct, but what you are missing out is the fact that she knew nothing about his ex wife besides what he told her. He said his ex wife cheated on him. She only found out the real person he was after a nagging feeling that something was wrong about him, not to mention that nothing he promised ever came into fruition
Love and Light Queen from across the Caribbean in Trinidad and Tobago❤🎉
Fumi something you said was very triggering! As a married woman and even when I was an unmarried woman, I would never allow my single or childless friends to ever feel different or left out! I never behaved differently because I got a title and I can’t stand when women feel they must do this to fit some socially constructed narrative. I had an ex best friend like this and I would never forgive her for purposely creating distance like there isn’t enough love in the world for friends and family as though you and your spouse have to be isolated! Ridiculous I love all my unmarried and childless friends and they are welcome at my house anyday!! lol I’m done Fumi! Carry on!
Unforgiveness only keeps you bound unfortunately. It hurts only you and not the other person.
This is true. It may take me a lifetime. Sometimes you put so much love and effort into a friendship. A childhood friend for over 20 years just for them to turn on you with some abusive man. Very hurtful but you are right about what you said.
@@stephaniem5531You are also right in deciding whether to forgive or not. Many don’t forgive actually but are forced to say they do because of that overused societal mantra.
Girl i say this every time, being married doesn’t make you different, family demands may change due to less availability to hang out if your friends don’t have same responsibilities. Non the-less, I still treat all my friends the same.
Well I lost a 20 yr friendship when they got married and distance themselves
It is, as always the compassion and the nonjudgement for me. Thank you, Fumi for being a place that is simply clean and kind. Your words are encouraging, moreso that they encourage not only Reesa Teesa but also listeners to not judge, neither others nor themselves. We are not our mistakes, failures, shortcomings and even if we fail again and again, we learn, grow, get up, hopefully change. This life is called a journey for a reason. We have never walked a mile in the shoes of another person, so as you so often say....staying on our path, minding our business and choosing the travel companions wisely is the flex.🥰
Very well said 💯
I've never commented about your dress but today I must💖🥰. I was like wow when you sat. I guess because I love blue😂😂
Yes you said it right single woman are up against a lot but we must use common sense and trust your instincts, I will wait!!!
I had the same husband. He’s now with a rich woman who is 17 yrs his sr. He finally,after me & probably many other women, hit the jackpot.
Your ex will not appreciate what he has, and crash then burn. Trust.
I am sometimes in tears because when you wish us well - in relationship, in career and in finances… because it’s getting harder to believe that any of the relief in these areas of my life will ever be mine as I am over 50.
Thank you for your love & positivity that you send our way🙏🏽
Your skin is just radiant absolutely beautiful. Fumi you can wear any color and it just look fabulous.
I'm not familiar with the young lady, but I wish her complete healing love and happiness. And your beautiful as usual FUMI 💖❤!
Yes, I pray that Reesa Teesa gets to connect with you, Fumi, when she gets to visit London! 🙏🏿 I enjoyed this video coverage on the story.
Fumi you are so sweet and giving. That was beautiful to extend her that offer to take her around London. The only thing I would add is that a true narcissist can't heal. The childhood trauma damages them at an early age which makes it impossible for them to take total accountability and self reflect and implement change. Everyone has some level of narcissistic behaviors but this man is truly unwell. All u can do is stay away from a person like that. Keep your legs closed and wait it out, their true colors don't take more than a few months to appear. Be blessed and safe ladies ❤
unfortunately this will not help a lot of women because we always think it will be different for us. but if it helps one woman it's enough.
It’s helping me. I’m in the process of getting a divorce
@@42lilmomma God bless you and well wishes.
I was waiting for you to cover this, I haven't watched it all yet.
This has to be one of the most heartfelt reviews over Reesa I've seen so far. Thank you auntie Fumi for spreading warmth where others critisise and shame. May you always be blessed
Great analysis! Also ladies, not everyone must make mistakes to learn, I feel partnering with a mentor or relevant coaching before/ during dating puts one on so much game with guidance and direction. Learn from others’ mistakes too, we all do not have to make grave mistakes to learn from. Especially in this era of social media
Sista Fumi you're a great storyteller as well. You make me tear up 😅 when you said you were going to weddings gor 20 yrs🤣🤣 it's was really a young women's things. But for Reesa Tessa story, their many women who have been in the same situation but are ashamed to talk about it. It takes courage for Ressa to talk about this terrible experience. As they say, all that glitters is not gold.
WOW!!! Any colors look beautiful on you! You definitely whear your clothes they don't whear you! 😊
I did listen to her series. I know she wanted it to be real and it all fell apart. I did feel her husband had some serious mental issues that needed to be addressed. So sad. Thanks for sharing
Boy that blue dress looks amazing on you ❤
Thank you Aunty for your healing and carthatic analysis. I cried. I too needed release. I lived Reesa's experience as well years ago and have never forgiven myself. Because not only did i go through this once. i allowed myself to be conned a second time igoring the very same red flags i had previouslyv encountered. I have felt like a fool for a long time. Listening to you felt like a shoulder to cry on.
Sorry to hear, hope you heal out of it. Get a coach or mentor is helpful too. All the best
I am so happy you gave Reese an ear, she’s such a great storyteller, I was hooked!
Thanks Aunty Fumi for all your wisdom ❤
Thank you for sharing your insight . I almost married the wrong man due to wanting to be married and my inexperience. Thankfully he dumped me because I couldnt let go . Once he did I felt relief and made the decision to close that chapter. Of course he begged to come back once he realized I was done . I never looked back and met my now husband 2 years later. ❤ It was lesson I needed to learn.
Ahhhh Sister Fumi! Great advice! I never thought about what you said, the women who are preyed upon by these men, they do not see the behavior for what it is because they do not have that character flaw in them.
Fumi! Very well said! You spoke like an "oracle" I hope Reesa realizes how blessed she is. Thank you for sharing your amazing gifts ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you Sis for mentioning HIV test. That is me all day and it helps you filter the imposters. Whenever I'd bring this up they would flee. My life my health. It's imperative ladies, make it a priority ❤
Fumi, I rewinded this just to hear you laugh 😆 💛💛💛🤣🤣 It’s infectious! You laugh so deeply from the soul! Love love love this color on you!🩵
I have no idea why your speech made me emotional this time. wow
Beautiful, Fumi! Love your newest into 🥰 That color blue is lovely on you. “Lets go”. :)
That blue is your color. It is so beautiful on you.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for commenting on this crazy case. Reesa wanted to believe so much but she placed her hope in the wrong place.
So true we all make mistakes
May she heal love herself and know who she is and her worth..May GOD bless her
Had to watch it twice. You are such an inspiration Auntie Fumi❤
❤❤❤Fumi you look so amazing. Thanks for the words of encouragement, our daughters need this advise. I feel so sorry for this young lady.
Aunty Fumi. You spoke directly to me when you gave the last advice. Thank you 😘❤
Once again you are 110 percent correct!!!!! I really hope she sees your video. You have given life changing advice!!!!
I so love the wisdom you always give, along with 100% transparency., it truly helps us❤️❤️
I haven't watched any of the Reesa's videos but I am glad you made a video about it. I can say that I was extremely naive in relationships, not really having any until I met my ex and we had our daughters. I wish you had been around in my 20s, this was powerful and inspiring still as a single woman in my 40s, still wanting to be in a happy successful relationship and still a bit naive, although a bit less, through experience and wanting to model a healthy partnership to my daughters yet now scared to fully open up to anyone. Thanks for always giving us the gems our mothers didn't always know how to. 🙏🏾
Thank you so much Mama Fumi❤️❤️❤️ I really appreciate it. You look so gorgeous.😍😍😍
Another Fabulous look Fimi.. That blue on you is Gorgeous.❤
I learned to never fo pass red flags. I learned this when I was in my younger years.
Perfectly said Aunt Fumi. ❤❤❤
I could see the vivid images as she told her story too. Great story teller. 👏🏽
OMG, He's name is Legion? Dannnggg! Even his name would have scared me away.... remember the man possesed by Legion in the Bible? Yep! I kaint😅😅😅
Like Aunty Fumi said, we live and we learn. May God bring beautiful restoration to Reesa Teesa.🙏🏾
P.s. Aunty Fumi you look gorgeous in this blue ensemble.😍
Mrs .Fumi you are something else, (meaning you are a very wise woman) thankyou for your insight and sharing your good and bad experiences of life.Keep doing what you are doing.l love you and God bless you and your family ❤️
That dress is everything Auntie Fumi. And you are WEARING IT!!! Love it❤
Fumi, I can’t get over how absolutely fabulous you look!
Love the blue on you, my dear. You are glowing, and as usual, your advice is on point. Thanks for taking the time to address this situation , because others may benefit as well. Red flags should not be ignored, as exemplified in the story Reesa tells. This is a cautionary tale for all women. Love you Fumi. Keep glowing! ❤️❤️
Funmi I really love this ....Thankyou aunt and my sister..it is so therapeutic listening to...
My favorite Queen Fumi 😊you're all the ingredients of EPITOME 🙏 love from Jamaica 🇯🇲 🥰
Finally the review I have been waiting for all along
Well said Fumi! 👏👏Another blogger said it well, "There's a level of Reesa Teesa in all of us." (But not to that degree!). I too didn't wait for God to bless me with the right one and wanted to be married soooo bad...And it wasn't good.
Fumi, another great episode.Loving the blue dress.♥♥♥
Thank you Fumi. You’re the Nigerian auntie I’ve been waiting for . Sending love ❤❤❤❤ + positive vibes from California.
Wonderful segment, Fumi. I love your words. Beautiful. I think a lot like you. I really do. I have protected me so well after I turned 30. Lovely words, my darling 😊.
I love how you are so realistic and fun and loving and so unselfish with plugs and what not not forgetting how you ALWAYS introduce yourself every time. It's one of my favorite parts you know😊😊.
Love from 🇰🇪 Kenya Fumi
Happy Monday y’all! Thanks for bringing this story to your channel! I never heard of Reesa. I pray that she finds ❤️🩹 healing. Looking good Fumi!😊
Fumi brings the wisdom, looks, and ENERGY, a full package.
I love black ppl because the always make my day yay
Where r u from?
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I absolutely love this ❤️❤️❤️🌸. I played by your rules and God sent me my husband in August of 2009 🎉☺️🙏🏽.
That’s a beautiful dress!. Fumi ,you look amazing!!!…
Ok Fumi come through with the look🥰🥰love the whole look
The reality is that what happened to her happens everyday and so many is 😮currently living in Glass Relationships. One of the lessons here is give yourself grace, listen to the voice when it tells you to RUN, STOP allowing others to dictate what, when, who, time you need to get married and have a family. Ladies please STOP making excuses for Lies, F -ups, and dear I say oh the sex is so good even though he is no good and we all have made those decisions. If you pray when God is yelling at you, you will always hear, listen.
Thank you fumi for acknowledging the online dating. In this day and age that is the dating style and that’s how you meet people. People blaming online dating is silly. I have never had one bad date! I know how to filter through bs. I’m not desperate. Even before online dating there was legion. In fact dating online gives you options so you don’t get desperate
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Ohhhh! Sweet! Can I call you when I get to London also? You’re so kind
Absolutely my love! 😍🇬🇧
Thanks for the word of encouragement aunty funmi.. I also learned a lot in here.. thank you 🙏
I’m putting it out there! She’s gonna get a BOOK AND MOVIE DEAL!!!
Amen 🙏🏾
Wow. I like how gracious you are with the advise. Thanks for the episode Fumi. You did what I could not. Not 50 episodes.
Auntie Fumi I have heard the wine skin parable many times but this is the first time I understood it 🙏🏿 I don’t know why but the way you said it clicked 💡
Honestly...
Auntie Funmi....
You are so gracious,
Thank you so much for inviting Reesa on a tour of London...
You're just too much....
Thank you so much the advice that you gave this young woman is so compassionate with love. You are amazing. I have experienced betrayal, and because of that I have so much empathy for my fellow sisters.
Wow, wow, wow, I cannot get enough of you. You are always giving sound advice to us ladies daily. Thank you for sharing. 💜🥰💕
Good advice and insights Aunty Fumi. It is a joy and a learning experience listening to you. ❤
I love you Fumi! You’re always SPOT ON!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💕💕
Her voice is truly easy to listen to. She is a great story teller. I hope by creating these clips she is able to heal.
Fumi, your poses in your thumbnails keep serving looks.
The laughter is infectious
Love blue my favorite color
Looking beautiful Fums
You did a great job covering this story Miss Fumi