Regarding the last story about the wedding dress..under no circumstance do not give that eoman your wedding dress..Let her go kick Rocks. Send her a Cease & Desist letter to stop harassing you or you will definitely file a lawsuit against her..Add her to the BLOCK PARTY & move on with your life!
Last story: SIL needs a reality check, what she sent BIL NEEDS to be sent to everyone in the family, BIL needs to be fast and get in for a psych eval, and OP needs to give SIL and MIL a cease and decist order. Also BIL needs to run from crazy as fast as he can and if he can take the protect the baby and take her with him all the better.
Last story. That sister is using her own unborn baby as a hostage to get something she doesn't deserve. If OP buckled, that witch will just keep doing it over and over without end. It sucks but if that witch goes through with it behind her fiancés back, then those consequences are entirely her own. NTA
Ooof, that last story. If that B is really going to threaten to abort a baby over not getting the dress she wants then she doesn't deserve the baby as she thinks a dress and getting what SHE wants is more important than that child's life. No one's obligated to comply with crazy and selfish people. BIL needs to get his ass out of that relationship and cancel the wedding is she acts like that while they aren't even married. Her ass will threaten to abuse the kid all the time if she doesn't get what she wants all the time.
Send her a cease and desist letter and say if you and your mother don't stop ill sue them for harassment and don't give her the dress or even the time of day
In my neighborhood, during the 1980s, if kids wanted to fight, one of the parents had 2 sets of boxing gloves. The kids could pummel each other and get it out of their system. Because of this, we seldom had fights.
If I was you I let everyone know that I designed the dress for myself and she wants my dress to make things easier for herself and harder for me and how would they like it to happen to them if they don't like it to happen to them then they should shut up
Regarding the title story: OP was lucky the demolition crew didn't reach the garage that must have been in plain view where the driveway ended, or OP might have had an even worse situation to deal with.
Not showing the comments for the last story is a major disapointment and NO, OP is not the AH - her sister decided to make this problem over a dress, not her.
The driveway story. Just how long was that driveway that none of them, the hoa and the demolition crew, couldn't see that the driveway led to his home? Or are we dealing with another creative writing project?
NTA but your step mother and sister sure are a-holes in this case. Don't cave into her extortion attempt. Tell your sister to pay for alterations to her dress and stand your ground. Your step mother shouldn't have promised your sister something that she had no right to promise her.
The last story: OP has NO reason to let anyone BUT her wear the wedding dress. Your step mom and sister are BOTH being a$$hats 😡😡 And your sister is being manipulative and doesn’t deserve a baby….. you don’t wield any baby born or not, as a means to get what you want. I feel really bad for her fiancé…..he should REALLY re-think marrying her
Don’t give up your dress. If you do you will not want to wear it or have photos taken in it. Your sister if she doesn’t give up the baby will find years of ways to demand you do things for her like watch the baby for a weekend because she “needs me time”
Regarding the encroachment by the HOA -- Sue for the value (placed WAY HIGH) of the land and/or demand compensatory acreage from the HOA, preferably from the President,
The idiot from the h o a should have to pay for the judgement himself and be removed from the board. The idiot that cheated and committed other bad deeds has himself to blame and ops mother is better off without him. As to the landlord from heck an inspection should be done by code inforcement and the property should not be rented untill it is up to code. As to the arogant lawyer he is just a big mouth bully that got shut down and had his over inflated ego deflated and us lucky he didn't face criminal charges or possibly lose his license to practice law. As to the last story that is a very sad situation.
I Denmark we get very accurate maps, which are oblidated. Property cant be sold without them. The local plans for the whole area has to be there too. A fictive example: You only gas for warning up - nu firewood. So we all - owners - all get a map make the state. We also can all borders in the whole country in detail and where You can more more house.
#1: How is it that a professional crew starts tearing up a driveway and only sometime later realizes that it leads to. a house?! Was the driveway a mile long and the house out of sight behind trees? Once again I'm baffled by an HOA story where the layout of roads and houses makes no sense at all.
When HOA's where First Starting Off, They Did increase the Value in Homes in Neighborhoods. But, Now a days HOAs Devalue Homes as Much as 10% to 15%. So if you had a Home Worth $500,000 and its in a HOA well you Wont get that $500,000. you will Lose around $50,000 to $75,000 Just cause it is in a HOA. Now there is a Chance you Might Get lucky and Sell it for what it is worth, HOA Might be that Super Rare one where at the Moment nothing is wrong with it, They just leave everyone alone. Instead of fining ppl, they just Help out with issue to correct it. who knows. But either Way, HOAs are still Devaluing Homes all over.
Anyone willing to abort a baby for the sake of a dress should do a lot more maturing before she becomes a mother. It's a humanbeing for Gods sake, not some throwaway toy. Help her pay for something that fits, if it makes you feel better.
The last one isn't the A-hole, it's the sister and Step-mum that are the A-hole's as they didn't respect the OP's wishes and such, and that one wedding was already planned ahead of time and that giving a dress that is made for one person to another that had to be altered more is a waste of money. The Sister is a complete idiot for saying what she did at the announcement because she was only thinking of herself and not anyone else and has ruined the day herself, getting an abortion is stressful in itself as the act puts a lot of strain on emotions and well being of the mother and Abortion is the only thing if the life of both mother and unborn child are in danger, which several people that are in places of law keep forgetting as it's also apart of Woman's health and shouldn't be attacked by idiots that don't understand or want to control women
On the last story on this video, if the OP's sister is so callous as to abort her baby because of a dress, then I suppose that is her choice. I don't think the OP should give up her dress because of this irrational stance of her sister. I was only able to have one child, but I thank God every day for my son. I'm 79 years old, and I would NEVER have considered for one single second having an abortion, if it would have even been legally possible. That is a human life the OP is talking about, not something we have a right to wipe out!
19:38 I'm not anti-abortion, but killing a baby just because you can't fit into a dress is terrible. Then again, her body her choice. Still, guilting someone and putting a life on the line just for a dress is terrible. Edit: oh yeah, then again. It's a good thing that she wouldn't have a baby then, because she is not fit to be a parent.
If you give in about the dress you will be a victim constantly in the future with her using the baby as a threat. Your sister can get a dress off the rack. Keep yours for you
It's a bit of a dick move not posting the comments or a follow up to that last story. I have a feeling they would have been there pretty quickly as there was an 11:30am DEADline for a resolution.
Baby. Nta. If she actually does this, she doesn't deserve to be a mom. She values the dress more than her baby. Please inform us with an update please. I hope he left her, and your dad leaves her mom. If she does give birth, the dad should sue for custody and keep any and all texts and recordings,
It is just a manipulation move on her and stepmother's part. The power move to get a upper-hand over you. Give in now and they will keep doing worst, again and again.
Last story: the Sister Doesn't Deserve the Dress. keep the dress. it's her choice and her relationship she is throwing away. sounds like a break up waiting to happen. over a dress. your stance is good don't give in. she already sounds like a parent "i want FREE stuff" like women grow up. also your not fat. glad you can make dresses, i wish i was able to.
Not much of a drinker is he? Half a 24in a day? When I was drinking 1 day = 2x24=48 beers I still walked straight no one thought I was drunk because I wasn't the more I drank the shorter the time between bathroom breaks. If I drink any thing tea, coffee, beer soft or hard drinks my system just dumps it straight through very little alcohol got absorbed. I need to drink about 8 L of water a day just to keep hydrated. It really sucks when you love the taste of beer. At 45 my wife told me we would soon have another mouth to feed so I just quit! Funny thing is i don't miss it and every time I try it it tastes terrible. Now it's just me, my wife my youngest (30 year old) son and to damn much water FFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUCCCCCCC******* I got to go for a piss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! again
These stories cross platforms all the time. They are just reading them off of Reddit anyway and the only difference is that sometimes these people interject their own theories or opinions during the story or comments at the end.
Seriusly the last storie. Like i know it is bad for the ¨kid¨ the it isent being born, but then again whit a mother like the maybe it is lucke the way, and not constenly being uset as a pawn, for the sister to keep getting her way.
The combination of computer-generated narration, combined with illiterate computer-generated captioning makes this rather painful to watch. Why can't you people just use actual humans to read the narration and proofread some of the hilarious misspellings in the captioning?
Regarding the last story about the wedding dress..under no circumstance do not give that eoman your wedding dress..Let her go kick Rocks. Send her a Cease & Desist letter to stop harassing you or you will definitely file a lawsuit against her..Add her to the BLOCK PARTY & move on with your life!
Re wedding dress, step sister is a narcissist and op needs to go no contact with her and step mother. Her father has a big choice to make
Last story: SIL needs a reality check, what she sent BIL NEEDS to be sent to everyone in the family, BIL needs to be fast and get in for a psych eval, and OP needs to give SIL and MIL a cease and decist order. Also BIL needs to run from crazy as fast as he can and if he can take the protect the baby and take her with him all the better.
Dress lady, have a lawyer give your sister a cease and desist
Last story. That sister is using her own unborn baby as a hostage to get something she doesn't deserve. If OP buckled, that witch will just keep doing it over and over without end.
It sucks but if that witch goes through with it behind her fiancés back, then those consequences are entirely her own.
NTA
Last OP needs to tell EVERYONE that stepsis plans to get an A over the dress
Ooof, that last story. If that B is really going to threaten to abort a baby over not getting the dress she wants then she doesn't deserve the baby as she thinks a dress and getting what SHE wants is more important than that child's life. No one's obligated to comply with crazy and selfish people. BIL needs to get his ass out of that relationship and cancel the wedding is she acts like that while they aren't even married. Her ass will threaten to abuse the kid all the time if she doesn't get what she wants all the time.
I want to know more about a baby over a dress. That's just messed up crappy blackmail...
I think all of us who heard that story want to hear an update along with any comments to the original post 😔
OP in the final story needs to inform everyone that she doesn’t have a sister. That the woman masquerading as her sister is very manipulative.
Send her a cease and desist letter and say if you and your mother don't stop ill sue them for harassment and don't give her the dress or even the time of day
Thanks
I know a jail guard that got involvedwith a much younger ex prisoner which cost her her job.
It was a pleasure to listen to a life story. Thank you for the interesting story!
In my neighborhood, during the 1980s, if kids wanted to fight, one of the parents had 2 sets of boxing gloves. The kids could pummel each other and get it out of their system. Because of this, we seldom had fights.
Do not under any circumstances let her use your dress
If I was you I let everyone know that I designed the dress for myself and she wants my dress to make things easier for herself and harder for me and how would they like it to happen to them if they don't like it to happen to them then they should shut up
Regarding the title story: OP was lucky the demolition crew didn't reach the garage that must have been in plain view where the driveway ended, or OP might have had an even worse situation to deal with.
Good job on not letting them pick the company to replace driveway
I call cops on hoa president and have him arrested immediately and the crew also
Not showing the comments for the last story is a major disapointment and NO, OP is not the AH - her sister decided to make this problem over a dress, not her.
And try to coerce her with an abortion. She's psychotic.
He probably didn’t show them because of the controversial topic of Abortion would have been the focus
The driveway story. Just how long was that driveway that none of them, the hoa and the demolition crew, couldn't see that the driveway led to his home? Or are we dealing with another creative writing project?
Does strain credulity, but a house sufficiently far from the main road could be a culprit.
This lady got her driveway stolen so i believe it th-cam.com/video/qSzQjWfaL0Q/w-d-xo.htmlsi=GrSjZjb7vr9L31dH
NTA but your step mother and sister sure are a-holes in this case. Don't cave into her extortion attempt.
Tell your sister to pay for alterations to her dress and stand your ground. Your step mother shouldn't have promised your sister something that she had no right to promise her.
How can someone mistake a driveway for a public road?
And then everyone clapped.
The last story: OP has NO reason to let anyone BUT her wear the wedding dress. Your step mom and sister are BOTH being a$$hats 😡😡 And your sister is being manipulative and doesn’t deserve a baby….. you don’t wield any baby born or not, as a means to get what you want. I feel really bad for her fiancé…..he should REALLY re-think marrying her
Don’t give up your dress. If you do you will not want to wear it or have photos taken in it. Your sister if she doesn’t give up the baby will find years of ways to demand you do things for her like watch the baby for a weekend because she “needs me time”
This HOA president knew the driveway was private property but he didn’t care because line Elm Street and comment to the inersesction.
Regarding the encroachment by the HOA -- Sue for the value (placed WAY HIGH) of the land and/or demand compensatory acreage from the HOA, preferably from the President,
The idiot from the h o a should have to pay for the judgement himself and be removed from the board. The idiot that cheated and committed other bad deeds has himself to blame and ops mother is better off without him. As to the landlord from heck an inspection should be done by code inforcement and the property should not be rented untill it is up to code. As to the arogant lawyer he is just a big mouth bully that got shut down and had his over inflated ego deflated and us lucky he didn't face criminal charges or possibly lose his license to practice law. As to the last story that is a very sad situation.
I Denmark we get very accurate maps, which are oblidated. Property cant be sold without them. The local plans for the whole area has to be there too.
A fictive example: You only gas for warning up - nu firewood.
So we all - owners - all get a map make the state. We also can all borders in the whole country in detail and where You can more more house.
#1: How is it that a professional crew starts tearing up a driveway and only sometime later realizes that it leads to. a house?! Was the driveway a mile long and the house out of sight behind trees? Once again I'm baffled by an HOA story where the layout of roads and houses makes no sense at all.
And why doesn't OP not immediately demand they repair what has already been torn up?
Title story - Do these HOAs think that you won't notice that they are stealing your private property?
When HOA's where First Starting Off, They Did increase the Value in Homes in Neighborhoods. But, Now a days HOAs Devalue Homes as Much as 10% to 15%. So if you had a Home Worth $500,000 and its in a HOA well you Wont get that $500,000. you will Lose around $50,000 to $75,000 Just cause it is in a HOA.
Now there is a Chance you Might Get lucky and Sell it for what it is worth, HOA Might be that Super Rare one where at the Moment nothing is wrong with it, They just leave everyone alone. Instead of fining ppl, they just Help out with issue to correct it. who knows. But either Way,
HOAs are still Devaluing Homes all over.
Anyone willing to abort a baby for the sake of a dress should do a lot more maturing before she becomes a mother. It's a humanbeing for Gods sake, not some throwaway toy. Help her pay for something that fits, if it makes you feel better.
For goodness' sake, who writes out "homeowners association's president" or "homeowners association(s)" instead of HOA's president and HOA(s)?
Second story: your weird pauses told me that the sister was a guy!!! Lol.
I bet the sis isn't even actually pregnant, she just wants to blame her future "miscarriage" on someone else.
OP in the last story is definitely not the AH, however her sister is disgusting & what OP said is true she doesn't deserve to be a mother
The last one isn't the A-hole, it's the sister and Step-mum that are the A-hole's as they didn't respect the OP's wishes and such, and that one wedding was already planned ahead of time and that giving a dress that is made for one person to another that had to be altered more is a waste of money. The Sister is a complete idiot for saying what she did at the announcement because she was only thinking of herself and not anyone else and has ruined the day herself, getting an abortion is stressful in itself as the act puts a lot of strain on emotions and well being of the mother and Abortion is the only thing if the life of both mother and unborn child are in danger, which several people that are in places of law keep forgetting as it's also apart of Woman's health and shouldn't be attacked by idiots that don't understand or want to control women
On the last story on this video, if the OP's sister is so callous as to abort her baby because of a dress, then I suppose that is her choice. I don't think the OP should give up her dress because of this irrational stance of her sister. I was only able to have one child, but I thank God every day for my son. I'm 79 years old, and I would NEVER have considered for one single second having an abortion, if it would have even been legally possible. That is a human life the OP is talking about, not something we have a right to wipe out!
That last story, honestly if I was the sister's fiance, I'd have called it off already at that point. Fuckin' hell.
Americans just love drama,
the less unnecessary the better.
19:38 I'm not anti-abortion, but killing a baby just because you can't fit into a dress is terrible.
Then again, her body her choice. Still, guilting someone and putting a life on the line just for a dress is terrible.
Edit: oh yeah, then again. It's a good thing that she wouldn't have a baby then, because she is not fit to be a parent.
If you give in about the dress you will be a victim constantly in the future with her using the baby as a threat. Your sister can get a dress off the rack. Keep yours for you
It's a bit of a dick move not posting the comments or a follow up to that last story. I have a feeling they would have been there pretty quickly as there was an 11:30am DEADline for a resolution.
You are not wrong about the dress.
Baby. Nta. If she actually does this, she doesn't deserve to be a mom. She values the dress more than her baby. Please inform us with an update please. I hope he left her, and your dad leaves her mom. If she does give birth, the dad should sue for custody and keep any and all texts and recordings,
My❤❤❤❤ lol
It is just a manipulation move on her and stepmother's part. The power move to get a upper-hand over you. Give in now and they will keep doing worst, again and again.
Last story: the Sister Doesn't Deserve the Dress. keep the dress. it's her choice and her relationship she is throwing away. sounds like a break up waiting to happen. over a dress. your stance is good don't give in. she already sounds like a parent "i want FREE stuff" like women grow up.
also your not fat. glad you can make dresses, i wish i was able to.
I'm assuming the driveway owner isn't part of the HOA.
She’s not having an abortion she wants a text or call (that she recorded) as proof you agreed
Never happened....
Not much of a drinker is he? Half a 24in a day? When I was drinking 1 day = 2x24=48 beers I still walked straight no one thought I was drunk because I wasn't the more I drank the shorter the time between bathroom breaks. If I drink any thing tea, coffee, beer soft or hard drinks my system just dumps it straight through very little alcohol got absorbed. I need to drink about 8 L of water a day just to keep hydrated. It really sucks when you love the taste of beer. At 45 my wife told me we would soon have another mouth to feed so I just quit! Funny thing is i don't miss it and every time I try it it tastes terrible. Now it's just me, my wife my youngest (30 year old) son and to damn much water FFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUCCCCCCC******* I got to go for a piss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! again
The third story has been told on other sites ie ripe.
These stories cross platforms all the time. They are just reading them off of Reddit anyway and the only difference is that sometimes these people interject their own theories or opinions during the story or comments at the end.
Seriusly the last storie. Like i know it is bad for the ¨kid¨ the it isent being born, but then again whit a mother like the maybe it is lucke the way, and not constenly being uset as a pawn, for the sister to keep getting her way.
2004 is not am. means year 2004 i think
It's a bad auto-translate for "24" years of age!
The combination of computer-generated narration, combined with illiterate computer-generated captioning makes this rather painful to watch. Why can't you people just use actual humans to read the narration and proofread some of the hilarious misspellings in the captioning?
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